Are You Accidentally Being A BAD Leader For Your Dog?

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  • @v3num265
    @v3num265 3 роки тому +2515

    The fact that we’re all watching this means we’re all trying and want what’s best for our doggos.

    • @hejha4163
      @hejha4163 3 роки тому +73

      I dont even have a dog

    • @caitlinw2201
      @caitlinw2201 3 роки тому +9

      Kiko Pup is a much better resource for dog training since they actually are a R+ (positive reinforcement) channel unlike this one who claims to be but shows otherwise

    • @soralim7720
      @soralim7720 3 роки тому +20

      Struggling with my very first dog. This comment is such a comforting response. Thank you

    • @AndresHernandez-ew8qy
      @AndresHernandez-ew8qy 3 роки тому +12

      When exactly did people start calling dogs, "doggos"? And why would anyone want to take a easy basic word and make it longer

    • @J_Tangent
      @J_Tangent 2 роки тому +8

      @@AndresHernandez-ew8qy because it sounds cute?

  • @laurieannegagnon
    @laurieannegagnon 4 роки тому +1954

    Ever since I got a puppy, I feel like I'm training myself more than the puppy :p I found out that I'm less patient than I thought I was, and I'm trying to work on it.

  • @mattbasford6299
    @mattbasford6299 5 років тому +2295

    "Dogs aren't kids and need to be treated like dogs." Great quote and spot on.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +87

      Thanks, Matt! It’s pretty important to remember this. We can’t fulfill the needs of our dogs if we treat them like children! Thanks for watching! ~Ken

    • @dannymarcos8497
      @dannymarcos8497 5 років тому +11

      McCann Dog Training what if you can’t have children and you consider your dog as your child?

    • @milqueteaa
      @milqueteaa 5 років тому +72

      @@dannymarcos8497 That's okay, but you don't treat them like a human child. You look after your child, and fulfill their needs. Dogs' needs are different to human needs though and the owner must take note of that. If you treat a dog like a human child, they become more.. badly behaved per say.

    • @dannymarcos8497
      @dannymarcos8497 5 років тому +13

      @Echo dream thanks for the reply! Interesting point, but I have raised Chico to be very gentle. Dogs are more and more connected to us. I think because we have domesticated dogs for so many decades. For example I believe that dogs understand human emotions. Not everyone thinks so though.

    • @hevvyrayne178
      @hevvyrayne178 5 років тому +4

      YES! That’s how I go about it! Sure Morpheus is my baby but he knows there’s a big difference between training and babying.

  • @montanamike53
    @montanamike53 5 років тому +2185

    Sometimes the hardest thing about training dogs is training the owner.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +84

      That is definitely the case, Mike! Training dogs is the easy part😉 Thanks for watching! ~Ken

    • @judyives1832
      @judyives1832 4 роки тому +21

      Mike McKinlay
      Actually that’s ALWAYS the issue!

    • @anonymixx8106
      @anonymixx8106 4 роки тому +18

      @M A C generally speaking yes. Dogs psychologically thrive on consistency and routine. Your dog will learn he has to listen "to you" or "sometimes",instead of "always." Inconsistent family members are definitely contributors to unsuccessful training. The best thing to do is even consistency until they're well trained enough to distinguish the difference safely. You ideally always want your dog to look to you before acting or reacting. When they aren't fully trained, they can be unclear on when it is and isn't okay to respond with their instinct or your direction. Once they are, they can more safely interpret for themselves the difference. Such as, I have to ask mom to get on the couch but not dad. Please note grey areas like this can lead to being unsafe for high energy breeds or homes with children, because only one person is alpha or leader instead of all humans being leaders to the dog. It's generally safest for the dog and the people involved to educate everyone on how to be a good leader for the animal.

    • @shelliecorreia8269
      @shelliecorreia8269 4 роки тому +3

      Always!!

    • @sufii1374
      @sufii1374 4 роки тому +8

      my mom taught the dog to bark at people passing by and now she wont shut up 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @ImmunifiedComedy
    @ImmunifiedComedy 2 роки тому +91

    My pup just hit 16 weeks and I felt my training was slacking. This video is perfect for covering all the basics and getting motivated to be a better leader. Thank you!

    • @Lattentreffer
      @Lattentreffer Рік тому +1

      To be honest I'd never expected my 16 week old pup to already getting the essence of what I want them to be in my concept.

    • @tyvonable
      @tyvonable Рік тому

      ​@Lattentreffer well my pup thats 14 weeks old knows pretty much about the do and don't. Is nothing to do with being strict but more direct sinds day 1 he is at our home I drilled that in him. I hope he gonna stay like that just need to be consistent

  • @yeslianaomicastoeri
    @yeslianaomicastoeri Рік тому +82

    Me and my mum spoiled my 2nd years old dog, she didn't listen to us, very sassy, sometimes aggressive and cant control her excitement, so i came here to fix me and my mom, pray for me guys 😅

  • @reveuranne
    @reveuranne 4 роки тому +82

    My dogs walk all over me and now I know why. Thank you for this information!

  • @carrielynnmarieacevedo
    @carrielynnmarieacevedo Рік тому +14

    You articulate so well!
    I’ve been a dog trainer for 16 years and it’s easy to work dogs, it’s the owner part that’s hard.

  • @Smino69
    @Smino69 Рік тому +18

    I trained my dogs using this method. It involves common sense and a lot of perseverance. It took years of dedication, but it was definitely worth it - both of my dogs are now confident and well-behaved stars! I highly recommend this approach to train dogs, as it's been one of the most effective methods I've come across.

  • @gasfrommyanusi0i594
    @gasfrommyanusi0i594 4 роки тому +2160

    when you're ignored by everyone in real life so you get a dog but he does the same....

  • @FarmerFpv
    @FarmerFpv 5 років тому +417

    Finally a trainer on UA-cam that actually knows what they're doing! Yes, I'm in the right place. Thanks to the random UA-camr that pointed me out to this channel, sorry I don't remember your name but thank you!

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +11

      Glad you found the channel, Farmer Fpv! Thanks for watching! ~Ken

    • @FarmerFpv
      @FarmerFpv 5 років тому +3

      @@McCannDogs thanks for the awesome content and look forward to learning more about training our best friends :)

    • @andyakarudolfhessiansack7936
      @andyakarudolfhessiansack7936 4 роки тому +3

      @@McCannDogs Hi Kayl, ive learned so much from your channel its unreal!! Something finally clicked for me yesterday, regarding rewarding good and ignoring the bad behaviours, or rather not allowing a situation in which the dog can fail. Set up for success.
      I defo feel my own brain needs retraining b4 my dog arrives, but i am determined to make his life happy and keep him well trainined.
      Thank you so much xx

    • @Leia892
      @Leia892 3 роки тому +1

      Yes! Every single dog training video I have watched has been like the same thing, but this video was everything I needed to hear

  • @daisydela
    @daisydela 3 роки тому +91

    So on point with leadership! Getting a new pup in a month. Our last dog was a superstar with around 300 verbal and sign language commands. It was because we started with a ton of structure from day one.

  • @GermanShepherdDaphne
    @GermanShepherdDaphne 5 років тому +463

    I also notice that my dog won't sit and ignores me when I'm frustrated and try to command. When I'm calm and happy, they do it asap! Now, in working on commands when they are together and other people are around.

    • @myfamilybreedbulldogs
      @myfamilybreedbulldogs 5 років тому +4

      Good Job

    • @LisaGindi
      @LisaGindi 5 років тому +4

      Interesting . Thanks for sharing.

    • @sdla690
      @sdla690 3 роки тому +6

      OMG yes, my dog is the same !! They run away when I m mad

    • @yishihara55527
      @yishihara55527 2 роки тому

      Honestly shouldn't matter.

  • @HorseExpression
    @HorseExpression 4 роки тому +55

    I love that you are all for the dogs and are structurally planted in positive reinforcement type of training, where you don't blame the dogs for being dogs and recognize what most people find as 'bad' behavior to be just normal dog behavior that we can intercept in a good way to help both sides. You also are great at pointing out human flaws without being direct, negative, and criticizing about it. Very well spoken and kind hearted, I can tell. You are here to help everyone.

    • @giannawest7374
      @giannawest7374 Рік тому

      What is your typical response when your dog growls and snaps? My parents, especially my dad likes to yell at her. I don't think that's the best course of action. What would you do? My dog sometimes gets the cat food at times when they tend to "accidentally" leave it out.

  • @Blitsun
    @Blitsun 5 років тому +239

    I don't have a dog. I have never owned a dog. But I'd like to get the family a dog in the new year. I am learning about training now and I find your videos excellent: very instructive, not hyper, well-spoken. Thanks a lot!

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +9

      Glad you enjoyed the video, Blind In The Sun! Thanks for watching ~Ken

    • @dmo848
      @dmo848 4 роки тому +4

      Hope u got a pup by now

    • @Blitsun
      @Blitsun 4 роки тому +11

      @@dmo848 Yes, thanks for asking. She's now 6 months old and the training is going very reasonably, considering she is a high energy ADD hunting breed. As long as she understands, she'll settle down a little in time. I hope. She's very smart, just a little impulsive ;)

    • @WetheBrays
      @WetheBrays 4 роки тому

      Likewise

    • @acmcbride-olson9320
      @acmcbride-olson9320 3 роки тому +9

      @@Blitsun Remember that a tired dog is a good dog! Not overtired, of course, but enough exercise that they are calm and happy. Years ago, we adopted a very high energy Lab who needed 45-60 minutes of solid fetching/running a day in his prime. Without it, he was woofy and spazzy in the house. With it, he was a model dog. High energy breeds are not really ADD, they just need more opportunity to run and play to get the zoomies out than a couch potato dog. When you are going to work on your training, get the dog a little play time first to discharge some energy. Then she will be able to focus better on what you want her to learn, and you'll both be happier!

  • @julieepanouie
    @julieepanouie Рік тому +3

    I have a two months old puppy and he’s amazing but his biting is definitely testing my patience. Today I did the exercise I saw in another video where you grab the collar as soon as he gets to your hands, hold it tighter and let go when he gets calm. It was tough to hold him at first because he didn’t like it but it seems like it’s working. I just hope it wasn’t too tough for him. Thank you McCann for always putting out your knowledge. It’s super helpful 🙏🏼💖

  • @qveenissac
    @qveenissac 4 роки тому +46

    This video was so helpful for my BIRD! I actually was looking for vids for my friend w/ a new dog but I've been having problems with a bit of a bully bird and implementing what you said about removing things that could lead him to bad choices was so helpful! I shored those issues up and it definitely helped the situation and my sanity! Remaining calm & using feeding time/food as an opportunity were also great tips. I keep cups of his fave seeds on various cabinets throughout the house so I can reward him quickly & easily for listening to commands. Appreciate the insight!

  • @myfuturepuglife
    @myfuturepuglife 4 роки тому +56

    I'm going to binge-watch your videos. Thank you! My new little pug puppy is draining me of my energy and joy and I really want to turn this around and be best buddies.

    • @spilledmilk5316
      @spilledmilk5316 2 роки тому +5

      How is it going 1 year later? :))

    • @gummusamongus5061
      @gummusamongus5061 Рік тому +1

      how about two years?

    • @kruciallxtm
      @kruciallxtm Рік тому +2

      Three?

    • @myfuturepuglife
      @myfuturepuglife Рік тому

      @@kruciallxtm Yes she's three years old now. She's calmed down a lot and listens very well with treats in hand. She's your typical sleeping pug but loves to play with a tennis ball and all her toys when she's not napping. She goes to the bathroom outside and when it's cold she has her puppy pads.We have truly become best buddies! Thanks for asking.

  • @pfrost6745
    @pfrost6745 5 років тому +132

    My puppy sits very time you say sit...in the video. She seems to be a natural. Thank you!

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +15

      Haha that isn't the first time someone has said that, P Frost! She does sound like a natural;) Thanks for watching, and Happy Training! ~Ken

  • @seekerofinfinitewisdom9730
    @seekerofinfinitewisdom9730 2 роки тому +29

    This comment section is everything it makes me feel so supported. I wish there were a support group where u can say I love my pup but this is tough and I am having a moment.

    • @jh7137
      @jh7137 Рік тому +2

      Support group is a great idea, some days are positive and great, other days are awful and I feel like such a failure

    • @monicastewart1319
      @monicastewart1319 Рік тому +1

      @@jh7137 same!!! Would love to connect!

    • @shawtazz
      @shawtazz Рік тому +2

      Today I am struggling and my pup won't listen sigh

  • @christym.814
    @christym.814 5 років тому +160

    Yes, yes, yes! I’m happy because your training tips are making me a successful puppy mom. Since I’ve spent so much time being trained by you, I could watch this video and realize your thoughts on training long term have become my thoughts (because I’ve been well taught by your videos). I love that my 18 week old puppy is looking to me almost always for information and is able to relax when she sees that I’m in charge. We just took a three day weekend with her and she didn’t make any mistakes on the long trip or the hotel stay. Thank you, Ken and Kayl for all you’re doing to teach inexperienced puppy moms like me! My puppy, Kayl, thanks you too! 🐶

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +4

      Aww thank you, Christy! You are the reason we love publishing videos so much! So glad to hear about your success! Thank you for watching ~Ken

    • @TeslaNick2
      @TeslaNick2 4 роки тому +2

      Well done ! So cool to hear.

    • @michaelsmith_32329_
      @michaelsmith_32329_ 2 роки тому

      Hello Christy, how are you doing?

  • @ggsluv
    @ggsluv 5 років тому +20

    I do not comment on much, but I have been moved by what I recognize as a GENUINE love of dog training. It is so refreshing to hear someone speak, who KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT!! I can tell you truly understand a dog's mind. I think you are brilliant . 😊

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +1

      Such a nice comment, Jay Ess! Thank you very much. And thanks for watching! ~Ken

  • @kelliepastellie8619
    @kelliepastellie8619 2 роки тому +10

    8:52 Every dog I've had always slept on my bed, I rarely sit on my couch so it's basically her couch now lol Such a good sweet dog, very smart too. She had a rough puppy life so now I spoil her rotten ❤
    Love your channel Thanks for everything you do for us 🙏

  • @quickstepqueen699
    @quickstepqueen699 3 роки тому +2

    Came across this video whilst looking for something else and it's spot on. It's definitely about training the owner so the dog follows. My dog can have "selective" hearing but it's my leadership that's the issue, not him! If a child was naughty you wouldn't just say "awww he/she is only young" and then giggle - you'd blame the parents for not showing discipline right? So be a great parent to your dog.

  • @deseraenelson2518
    @deseraenelson2518 4 роки тому +8

    This makes me so happy. Me and husband realize that we do almost everything she said except sometimes we do yell so now we are going to adjust this us amazing

  • @kar1922
    @kar1922 8 місяців тому +1

    EXCEPTIONAL training for new puppy owners - and dog owners at any stage really. Listen - and re-listen to this video - over and over - as often as you need to remind yourself what to DO (and more importantly, what NOT to do). Thank you so much for this advice and guidance. Kayl, you have a gift of being able to concisely describe what we need to do - and also what. we should not do. I cannot thank you enough. I will watch and re-watch this video so I can remember to not repeat myself without results. I just put away all of the high value toys and will only break them out for her when I am engaging with her. You also helped me understand (through this video and others that you have) that restricting her movement at 9 weeks of age is not neglecting her - it is helping her define limits. I have an open floor plan and have blocked off more of it until she shows me that she respects what I say - before allowing her freedom to the rest of the house. Thank you, again, Kayl and Ken ❣

  • @anonymixx8106
    @anonymixx8106 4 роки тому +16

    Thank you. I have a fear reactive rescue that is golden but I need her to listen better for her safety when she's stressed. This helps me rebuild her fundamental understanding of how to relate to humans.

    • @kayBTR
      @kayBTR 4 роки тому

      I have a fear reactive rescue,too. Did you find any good info on how to help your dog?

    • @guadalupemcdonald3729
      @guadalupemcdonald3729 4 роки тому

      My puppy sits very time you say sit...in the video. She seems to be a natural. Thank you!

  • @stephanieredden8861
    @stephanieredden8861 3 роки тому +1

    Too many people let their dogs be the Alpha when the human should be the Alpha. We are not to be a dogs litter mate either. It's ok to ask your dog to do something for you, like sit before petting them. Be the Alpha people, be the Alpha. Oh and to those who do not socialize their dogs, pls do. Too many people also associate the word come with things the dog doesn't like (maybe bath for example) when you can gently pick up dog and put him in the tub. The important thing is that the owners continue to learn and training never stops. I enjoyed this video!

  • @elisesims5389
    @elisesims5389 3 роки тому +28

    I really like the basic tip about not giving your dogs a treat without taking advantage of the moment to do something e.g. a roll, lay down etc. each time. It should never be for no reason

  • @cell32005
    @cell32005 3 роки тому +3

    A seemingly complex topic very concisely and clearly explained. Having a 3-month old puppy this is invaluable in providing me with confidence and concrete advice!

  • @warmwoolsoxgood4559
    @warmwoolsoxgood4559 3 роки тому +1

    You are helping us with our rambunctious new 10 week old Border Collie puppy so so much I just had to come THANK you so very much!! It’s been a very different scene than we had thought, hahaha, little Pearl is smarter than we are :-) and a most dominant personality. You are teaching us so well via the net that you’ve already in only several days had huge impact on her - and OUR, mainly - behavior. My 70 yr old husband adores her but doesn’t get that she needs the CLEAR commands/interactions, instead he carries lololl her around like a baby, constantly chattering to her as if she were a human baby in his arms - as she squirms, is so not listening, lunging at his face arms wrists etc. Smh so already huge improvements, as YIU have gotten through to him so well.
    I can’t thank you enough. We’re elderly! The energy level! Hahaha she’s a whirlwind. The sweetest and most crazy quick to learn and always wanting to learn learn learn more dog! Anyway, a real handful Re aggression, causing bad learning experiences until we found your videos, which are aiding us all. Thank you. Thank you!
    God bless you!

  • @uzazil
    @uzazil 4 роки тому +10

    I've been training dogs for 25 years. I've watched a bunch of your videos. I usually have criticisms with UA-cam dog trainers but you are spot on with everything I've seen so far. Kudos, and keep being awesome!

    • @islandcyang6029
      @islandcyang6029 3 роки тому

      Hey, I have a question. So my puppy won't listen to me all the time, when she sees a treat she will 100% listen but when she's off doing something else she won't listen even when I say the command kindly.

    • @uzazil
      @uzazil 3 роки тому +1

      @@islandcyang6029 it wouldn't be appropriate for me to specifically answer that on another trainers channel. But I will say timing is everything, correction timing, reward timing etc.

    • @cypresswyvern
      @cypresswyvern 2 роки тому

      Ditto, my only complaint is calling oneself momma or daddy when it's not your dog. I can't stand it.

    • @jaydencorbett9024
      @jaydencorbett9024 Рік тому

      @@islandcyang6029same thing with my 5 month old pit he can be a little hardheaded.

  • @angelle3166
    @angelle3166 6 місяців тому

    I would recommend this video to anyone, its so informative and you explain it so easily yet well, here are some of my notes for anyone who wants to revise these tips
    Leadership: Not acting agressive towards dog, too emotional in certain situations, controling
    Goal -) To build your relationship/Dog's confidence
    How to get dog to listen? Become a good leader.
    - Set up rules and do not give excessive luxuries
    -) Ex. Do not give treats for no reason
    Do not let dog in places where he can easily misbehave and learn bad habits (my personal rule: kitchen near food)
    Do not let dog have all toys available at all times - due to safety and also to let him build a relationship with you, so he can connect you with his favorite toy
    Do not let dog sleep with you or sit on the couch until he learns to listen and develops good habits
    1. Say what you mean: Insist on what you say, but be calm, have patience. Ex. When you ask dog to sit and he doesn't listen, say it calmly with confidence again until he redirects his attention to you and follows through
    2. Put your dogs in situations where theyre less likely to do bad choices -) use lots of positive reinforcement throughout day while still getting your dog to learn discipline
    Ex. Crate training/leash or long line on dogs
    3. Show that youre a good leader: Dont just give dog treats for no reason - have him deserve it through fun ways - tricks
    Ex. Have dog wait in crate until you open door and they barge out

  • @brandypatterson8305
    @brandypatterson8305 2 роки тому +8

    all this information is great. I just took in my sister's dog she is a 10 month old pitbull. How do I implement these things when she is already use to "running" the house. This is way harder than I thought it would be taking in a dog and I am stressed!!

  • @Coin_Strategist
    @Coin_Strategist 4 роки тому +2

    We have an 11week SBT and since we started keeping him on a leash in the house, the change is amazing, he didn't like it the first day but is responding much better, also using baby gates and a crate. thanks

  • @Grace-hw7zt
    @Grace-hw7zt 4 роки тому +5

    I have been training my 4 year old Beagle for ages now, and I thought that her unwillingness to listen was caused by her powerful sense of smell distracting her. I never realized that I need to be a leader and be calm with her. Thanks for this!

  • @isaiahpaynewrestling2028
    @isaiahpaynewrestling2028 11 місяців тому +1

    I absolutely love all of the McCann dog training videos. Very informative and so many great pointers that I was unaware. Thank you for such a great group of videos. Greatly appreciated!!

  • @ferminalganaras7956
    @ferminalganaras7956 5 років тому +7

    Hi, love from Argentina. I have a boarder collie, we do agility (and want to do that to the best of my/our capabilities) and next year i;m getting one of "fetch's granting pleasure"" granddaughter. yours along along Susan Garretts videos, are making me a better pet owner, better agility trainer and better person every day. Thank you for your hard work, and keep up with it. you guys make a difference.

    • @LisaGindi
      @LisaGindi 5 років тому +1

      My friend did that with her small breed dog, but did not have the funds as they are hundreds of dollars to buy online, so she made the obstacle course out of shoe boxes for the figure eights and hurdles. Please message me to tell me how it turns out. I can talk about dogs a lot.....my favorite hobby. My facebook is Lisa Robin Gindi.

  • @kreciabain1646
    @kreciabain1646 5 років тому +79

    Many parents would do well learning the BASIC premise of this instruction, applying to their children!!! Example would be "Say what you mean, mean what you say.
    Former Dog trainer in Show and Obedience...

    • @TeslaNick2
      @TeslaNick2 4 роки тому +1

      100% agree. I've been saying the same thing for years.

    • @carylhalfwassen8555
      @carylhalfwassen8555 4 роки тому

      Dog owners with poorly trained dogs usually have ill mannered children.

  • @nancyinthegarden3160
    @nancyinthegarden3160 2 роки тому +3

    I love the way you present the info. Very clear professional thank you

  • @KarateKim
    @KarateKim Рік тому +2

    Thank you letting me know, I’m doing a good job for this puppy/dog. A dog breeder friend of mine gave me a really hard time about following your steps to being a good leader. I turn on UA-cam and this video on this exact subject popped up.. What an encouraging training video. Thank you again for you help and keeping me on the right track. ❤️

    • @giannawest7374
      @giannawest7374 Рік тому

      What is your typical response when your dog growls and snaps? My parents, especially my dad likes to yell at her. I don't think that's the best course of action. What would you do? My dog sometimes gets the cat food at times when they tend to "accidentally" leave it out.

  • @johannakunze3300
    @johannakunze3300 5 років тому +72

    Best female UA-camr I have ever seen. Clear and engaging communication. Very well done.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +6

      Thank you, Johanna! We certainly appreciate the compliment. Thanks for watching! ~Ken

  • @laskatz3626
    @laskatz3626 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for such good advice. My cairn terrier is one year old and she has learned so much but still has some bad habits thanks to my inconsistency in training. I will use your method in this video. Thanks again.

  • @nefarious6986
    @nefarious6986 5 років тому +117

    "I'm Kayl McCann, this is Grand Slam-"
    *_AND WELCOME TO THE JAM_*

  • @SemperGumbi0369
    @SemperGumbi0369 Рік тому +2

    Yes ma’am,
    I can say that as a Former Marine Corps Drill Instructor, my puppy (just like my children) don’t/didn’t listen or respond well to my commands regardless of rise or inflection of my voice. Lol
    Truly appreciate these videos!!
    Undisciplined things!! all of them😂
    Thanks!

  • @cassiedejager1612
    @cassiedejager1612 2 роки тому +17

    Having a puppy is super difficult especially the training, you guys make it look so easy lol. But they so delicate and so precious so I hope I can one day perfect it. Honestly it has shown me that I need to work on my patience but it's so refreshing to see the fruits of some of the training. My puppy sits and stays, so that's some sort of progress. 🙏

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  2 роки тому

      I think you will like our latest video! ua-cam.com/video/k9H4N4JO6lU/v-deo.html
      Happy Training!
      ~Dan

  • @xt.7933
    @xt.7933 4 роки тому +1

    I have never owned a dog before but am now considering. Watching this actually makes me reflect to change the way I discipline my kids....

  • @patrickbooten7028
    @patrickbooten7028 5 років тому +8

    Like you say , never shout or scream . It makes a dog confused . When my dog is distracted , he won't come to me . But i'm working on it with a long leash . Thanks for sharing youre information and experience .

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +1

      It sounds like you’ve got a good training plan, Patrick! Using your long line with good timing and promoting success is a great way to overcome distractions for your dog. Happy Training! ~Ken

    • @LisaGindi
      @LisaGindi 5 років тому

      I don't scream, but, I will raise my voice out of my own natural reaction as a human being. I am not perfect. It's rare because I have enormous patience since being a tenured teacher for 20 years. During walks by busses I very sternly repeat myself to my dog not to be afraid and it has been great for me because I noticed my dog hardly ever reacts too loud mechanical noises. She is about 13 pounds and a fancy, white Maltese. She is a working dog, in my mind and gets massage, wonderful baths, great home cooked dog food, and rides in the car, sitting up front in a car seat with a harness. She deserves that for working for me all her life. She was able to accompany me as a diabetic alert dog for 9 years in most stores, also. I have not needed any medicine since I trained her for that. Also, I do not think raising your voice during dangerous times like if your dog goes into the street on the leash without your command and a car is coming is a bad thing. The more seldom you raise your voice and only for severe circumstances the more your dog will understand how fair you are. They know the car just wizzed by. They can see and even smell the car. And, dogs are very smart. They know there is different terrain and smells on a sidewalk as opposed to a tar paved street with oncoming traffic. They know you are a good leader if 99% of the time you are calm and talk commands to them with patience.
      The repetition of commands is really annoying and naggy. I think it is too extreme and training should be less intense and less naggy. Maybe, built up a bit from shot nags to longer ones. Rome was not built in a day and a dog is not a solder or a robot. Let your dog explore and make mistakes while keeping an eye on him. I did crate my dog as a baby, but only during times I was eating dinner with my family. Not 100% trie, I still kind of crate my dog if I am stressed and don't thing to handle her like going to a friends home for an hour and wanting to leave her in a new environment. Then, I will keep her with food and water and a wee wee pad and bed in a tiny room. Also, I will put her into the bathroom for 2 minutes as a time out when my maintenance men come, but now I see that is not necessary and I could use the other video I just watched by having her on her harness and lead while letting her know I am the leader as the men enter our apartment, I never thought to do that until I watched this particular video.
      Crating my dog during our family dinners did not last since my other members of my using did not agree with me. I know I needed two wee wee pads set out in my small apartment as well since my dog would get lost, otherwise and not make on only one wee wee pad. She was tiny. Within three months I got rid of one of the wee wee pads. I give higher praise fo going to the bathroom outdoors, too. My dog needs retraining since I noticed as she gets older she is bossing me around a lot. She had become too spoiled. They say that older dogs very irritable as they age, too, since they have aches and pains and see life is not that all they hoed it could be, just like people sometimes do. My dog is very nasty to me at night when she does not get her way outside, but I leaned its due to her digestive issues and let her be. She need to go to the bathroom many times in different spots and thats not because she is spoiled.
      I think letting your dog sleep with you is mostly unsanitary so I only do that if my dog just had a bath. She gets hot most of the time and like sleeping on the floor so never begs to come up. Its not an issue for me. You can bond with your dog just keeping int the same room. It could be dangerous for a small dog to be in bed with their owner if you roll over unlit them by mistake. They need their own beds, in my opinion. As for retraining my dog about the barking when guest come over I will try lead and harness idea. Wish I leaned about that years ago, My mind matches leashes up with outside time, only. How genius.

  • @EmGames41
    @EmGames41 2 роки тому +1

    Very informative video! Thank you! I hate when people smack their dogs and think theyre teaching them to learn from their owner when really its traumatizing and scaring the dog. 😞 i unfortunately see it alot

  • @SouthernLoonRetrievers
    @SouthernLoonRetrievers 3 роки тому +8

    Calmness and patience with consistency is the key! Well done!

  • @adelegordon3114
    @adelegordon3114 9 місяців тому +2

    Your videos are helping me and my puppy so much!!! Thank you!!

  • @vforvann
    @vforvann 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you very much for sharing these videos. I always feel bad for dogs who are locked in crates or always in the leash. You made me realize that the dog's happiness is not always equal to them running freely

  • @thebittertruth_ritz
    @thebittertruth_ritz 6 місяців тому

    All of this is just sooo helpful! Me and my husband are just preparing to be dog parents soon, and this channel has been so helpful. In India, dog training is not seen at the level that is explained here or as I witnessed when in the States. It almost seems impossible to reach this level of dog training to most people but we will definitely try to imbibe all the learnings and hopefully, we will be successful in this journey.

  • @lightnsalt8166
    @lightnsalt8166 4 роки тому +8

    A lovely lady with a wonderful husband who has chosen to share fantastic information for free. Thank you.This couple truly have a passion for helping others & our 4 legged friends.

  • @dianemurray1
    @dianemurray1 4 місяці тому

    This video is TIMELESS! Thank you for this. I will share it with my students.

  • @yohannabriscoe7837
    @yohannabriscoe7837 4 роки тому +13

    Thanks for the excellent and clear explanation! This is the first explanation on how to be a good leader for our dog that has actually made sense and the actions you explain feel achievable. Much appreciated!

  • @jacquelinegutierrez1360
    @jacquelinegutierrez1360 3 роки тому +11

    Love this!! Was looking for a solution for my misbehaving puppy, will begin to apply this tips starting tomorrow. Definitively I've been over spoiling him hahaha 💖

  • @katherinedeviney2364
    @katherinedeviney2364 3 роки тому +13

    I love your teaching videos! I am working on being a good leader for our puppy. Thank you for the great advice!

  • @sparkle9482
    @sparkle9482 Рік тому +1

    Awesome Video!! Some Great Takeaways!!! I just rescued a 2 year old and have had him 3 weeks and wow is this information helpful🙏❤

  • @Kbcosp420f
    @Kbcosp420f 4 роки тому +15

    This makes me very sad because it's an eye opener. I recently got two pups from the same litter and I am having serious trouble being a leader to them. I have come to realize that because I'm not a good leader, I should have never got pets. Sure wish I would have watched this before getting a pet. Thanks for helping me realize i am way in over my head. 🤦

    • @hallootjes19
      @hallootjes19 4 роки тому +9

      Kbcosp420f keep your head up, you can do it! One step at a time

    • @K.L..
      @K.L.. 3 роки тому +8

      It's been about a year, how are you doing with the two pups?

  • @perennials118
    @perennials118 4 роки тому +5

    I have just done training to be a puppy school instructor at the pet store I work at and these videos are helping so much in giving me extra the knowledge and confidence that I need thank you!

  • @acmcbride-olson9320
    @acmcbride-olson9320 3 роки тому +9

    Obedience speed can also vary by breed. With my Labs, Standard Poodle, and Doberman, it was almost immediate. Our Kangal, which is a super independent breed, would prefer you to submit your request in triplicate for his consideration. He is super obedient for a Kangal, though, and he is now at pretty darn fast most of the time. That is because he respects me as I treat him with respect and love. Routine is also helpful. Dogs love routine and routine lowers anxiety for humans as well as dogs.

  • @noncreativehuman4814
    @noncreativehuman4814 3 роки тому

    Me and my bf got a 3yo beagle lab mix from our local humane society back in October and we’ve been having a lot of trouble getting him to listen, stop barking, stop having accidents in the house and barking, nipping, and chasing my cats. We love him so much but we don’t have enough money to get a trainer and we’re getting really stressed out about it. I just subscribed and will be trying to implement some of these tips but if anyone has any advice please let me know! The biggest problem we’ve been running into is that if we try to put him in a crate or in any situation where he can’t get to us he barks and whines which disturbs our neighbors:( he can be such a good boy sometimes but he’s so stubborn and unruly that we are at a loss for what to do. Thank you for making these videos and helping us be good owners even when we don’t have a lot of money

  • @loulougaget9963
    @loulougaget9963 4 роки тому +6

    This is so, so so helpful. Thank you for all that you're doing! Adopted my gorgeous Luna 3 days ago, and already I'm a person that literally cries when my dog cries because I love her so much and can't bear to imagine her feeling lonely. I'm working to regain leadership so she feels good in her crate and can handle 1-3 hours apart when I go start to work a little. Your tips are so spot on.

  • @chippywelsh9040
    @chippywelsh9040 Рік тому

    This is so useful. My terrier is 18 months, I thought I’d been doing quite well, he’s 80% well behaved but he runs off if something distracts him like a squirrel and he can be aggressive towards other dogs. This video reminded me that I need to be more of a leader. I’ve removed all the toys around the house. He can only get on the couch when invited and I’m going to do a lot more of the basics like sit, stay, wait with him.

  • @Stringman1950
    @Stringman1950 5 років тому +3

    Best advice I’ve ever gotten for my hyperactive pup came from you. Put a small 4-5 ft. lead on dogs collar. Not only does it give me control, it keeps him busy trying to get at it. A busy dog is a good tired dog. I don’t want to break her spirit, I just want her to listen to me and stop racing into walls. Thank you very much for giving my 8 month old pup back to me.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому

      Oh that’s so nice to hear, Stringman1950! Thank you so much for sharing that, it’s one of the big reasons I enjoy working on the UA-cam channel so much! Happy Training! ~Ken

  • @q.ueenv1111
    @q.ueenv1111 Рік тому

    Your training is superb. You two definitely are making a difference for me and my two pups Bichon Frese 5 months and a Shipoo 6 months this month 10/23. They are a hand full. I got them 1 month before and unexpected spinal surgery. Thx for helping me.❤❤❤

  • @edefrain27
    @edefrain27 5 років тому +26

    There’s definitely something to the keeping dogs off the couch/bed for respect. We hired a trainer (and sadly he wasn’t very good and we’re still struggling) and his first thing was to keep them off the couch & bed for 3 weeks. We did that and def notice them listening more and our little one is a little calmer. It’s been about a month now and I think we’ll keep them off the couch for awhile.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +3

      It sounds like you’ve got a great attitude, EmmyRuns27! Be clear, consistent and fair and you’ll see the transformation happen right before your eyes! Happy Training! ~Ken

    • @edefrain27
      @edefrain27 5 років тому +1

      McCann Dog Training we’re definitely more invested in getting them trained better that’s for sure! We’re still really struggling on getting the little one to relax when we rig them up for walks (he goes bananas when I bust the leash out. Which is often since he goes out back on a leash every time). But I’m hoping to find a video somewhere that can help me on that. But I’m really enjoying the process of them learning new things :)

    • @michaelsmith_32329_
      @michaelsmith_32329_ 2 роки тому

      Hello..

  • @kathleenmancle8450
    @kathleenmancle8450 Рік тому

    We haven't had a young dog in about, say 13 years.
    Our Aussie passed in February. We adopted a rescue, 45% GSD, 39% Aussie. After getting her home, I think we had spoiled her because we'd been traumatized from our last dog being so sick.
    No matter. We want a well- mannered, well trained dog. But the training includes us. She will be 2 in October.
    I took her to Obedience Part 1, and she did very well. Got best in class.
    I blame myself and my husband for not keeping up with what she'd learned.
    She's in Agility 1 now, and I have to buckle down to get her to focus and pay attention.
    She starts Agility Part 2 next week, which might help.
    I really liked this video, and I am probably going to watch it 4 or 5 more times so that it sinks in. Thank you for your help.

  • @natashaw.9535
    @natashaw.9535 4 роки тому +5

    Have you guys ever thought about making a podcast? I’m a new dog mom and I love these videos

  • @simplyme922
    @simplyme922 4 роки тому

    Oh my goodness I 🧡 u so much right now. I'm that nonononono dog parent. It really bothers me because I successfully raised 2 children and another dog without this stress... he wants to force his toys on me when I'm working. Right now I'm working on his training. Listening to you, I said no 1x then put the toy away. This continued until he is down to the last toy and is quietly playing with it behind me...IMMEDIATELY subscribed WITH the bell. I'll be binge watching tonight...

  • @StanescuGabi
    @StanescuGabi 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much! You are amazing at explaining everything! I’ve learned sooo much from you already in just a few videos!!! 🤗

  • @elicaencheva7227
    @elicaencheva7227 2 роки тому +1

    Very good channel, you provide the right information and it work. Our puppy is almost 4 months old and for a week i follow your instructions and he is getting a really good progress. Thank you. ❤️

  • @cassandraanderson3314
    @cassandraanderson3314 4 роки тому +3

    I'm subscribing. We just got a German Shepard puppy a few days ago and this video really helped me understand to train them with more conviction and respect. Thanks!

  • @peaceloveukulelexox
    @peaceloveukulelexox 2 роки тому +1

    My pup has only been home for a few days, and I find that things are a little backwards in what I expected. His focus and attention outside is FANTASTIC. But indoors, not so much. He barks at the window and when people walk through the house and he can’t see them. He barks at some dogs and people when we’re outside, but not often... it’s strange compared to other dogs I’ve had.

  • @yowgyrl
    @yowgyrl 5 років тому +6

    Excellent video. I did realize that I will repeat the sit command in quick succession, so I need to stop that. I have a chorkie and I understand that they can be more stubborn than other dogs.

  • @Snowstorm3176
    @Snowstorm3176 Рік тому +1

    Found this today,you've already helped us!
    Thanks,
    Jake, Kain and Kona 🖤

  • @crunchyonion
    @crunchyonion 5 років тому +5

    I have a 9 week old shepsky and I’ve been worried about her ignoring me and developing potentially aggressive behavior. I’ve also been so stressed about possibly provoking her and being too harsh with certain lessons. This video is exactly what I needed to boost my attitude. It just showed up in my recommendations. Thank you!

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +1

      Glad you found the video helpful! Happy Training! ~Ken

  • @LonelyCreek
    @LonelyCreek 4 роки тому

    I have owned over 100 bullmastiff and Bordeaux this is lady is SO Right on!! Loved everything she had to say. the only thing with Bullmastiff or Bordeaux we do not play tug of war or engage in any struggle games. Excellent video thumbs WAY UP!!

  • @jessejustsick
    @jessejustsick 4 роки тому +6

    Some of the best McCann dog videos are just like this one. More of a dog training "philosophy" or approach as opposed to specific training videos. Just got my first puppy a month ago and this video nailed down a lot of the things I have been questioning and in a very common sense manner.
    Thanks ya'll!

  • @mihaeladog7187
    @mihaeladog7187 2 роки тому +1

    So true. Awesome talk. I listened to every single word very informative . I love the idea if establishing yourself as a leader by leading the dog to success not by yelling all day and look like a control freak. Not inly dogs but ppl too listen to leaders who guarantee them the success.

  • @CC-qv3mi
    @CC-qv3mi 5 років тому +4

    Thank you so much. There is nothing like this for training rabbits, so I have to resort to dog-training videos. I don't know whether my rabbit is especially smart or dog-like, or if all rabbits are like dogs. But I do know that he responds well to training and learns new verbal commands in seconds. I suspect that he was abandoned (in a park!) due to his rambunctious and destructive behavior. So now I need all the help I can get to turn him into a civilized member of our family.
    I now think that we have probably been bad leaders for our rabbit. That's because everything we read or watched on the web instructs people to treat rabbits completely differently than dogs (and differently than rats, with which we have a lot of experience). Also we felt sorry for him, that this nice little bunny had been abandoned, so we didn't want to punish him more by restricting his world.
    We have been extremely permissive, making many of the mistakes you enumerate: allowed unlimited access to toys, allowed free run of the entire garage when he is not in the living room, allowed supervised but mostly unrestricted use of the garden, allowed to claim spots in the house as his territory that we don't invade. And yes, as you say in your video, we were afraid that if we began removing privileges, it would damage our relationship with him, again because that is what everyone says about rabbits. But so far he's responded well to clearer leadership from us, apart from being unwilling to go to his pen for bed time and then thrashing about when locked.
    Online resources also always claim that behavior issues can be fixed or dimished by neutering. But this rabbit had already been neutered before he was abandoned. Long story short, I think your videos are just what we need. I wish we could take him and ourselves to bunny school!

  • @lunalin9870
    @lunalin9870 7 місяців тому

    thank you, this is very helpful. i have given my 3 months old puppy too many toys lying around and allowed her everywhere. now she only listens to me when she feels like it.

  • @geminichick83
    @geminichick83 5 років тому +8

    Love this video! So many ppl that come over don't understand why I have baby gates, crates and play pen in my house. I did this with my now 4yr old dog still do and now a new puppy..I'm not dog trainer but my pups are well behaved and trained..few family members have dogs under 1 yrs old and are out of control but will not crate them or give them boundaries.. they think it's cruel.. I'll share this with them maybe they will listen to you.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +1

      Baby gates can such a helpful training tool! Management is a really great way to be a good leader for your dog, by helping them to make great choices. So glad you’re enjoying our videos, geminichick83! Thanks for watching! ~Ken

  • @bria3882
    @bria3882 3 роки тому +3

    This video helped me so much! I rescued my dog and it’s been a struggle & I didn’t know what I was doing wrong!!

  • @aloveofsurf
    @aloveofsurf 5 років тому +9

    I really like your video! Thank you for helping me grow as a person in profound ways that affect how I treat and train myself and everyone else based on your explanations of your and other kind and skilled trainers' examples of how to lead by others' confidence in me rather than by my aggression.

  • @lilianne478
    @lilianne478 3 роки тому

    Thanks!

  • @CarolynsRVLife
    @CarolynsRVLife 4 роки тому +57

    This is an awesome video. You explained this so well. Thank you!

  • @Martillo_de_Dios
    @Martillo_de_Dios Рік тому

    Great video! Learned quite a bit just watching this one video. I just recently brought home a Mini Aussie and realize that I have my work cut out for me... new sub!

  • @larnakeane3815
    @larnakeane3815 5 років тому +4

    We lost our Border Collie Mix, Westleigh in Dec. 2018. He looked like the photo on your wall. Can't keep my eyes off of it. Thanks. Will listen now,.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому

      I’m so sorry to hear that, Larna. We lost our 4-year-old BC to cancer earlier this year. I know how difficult it is when you see something like that, that reminds you of them. ~Ken

  • @androidgamerboy6298
    @androidgamerboy6298 3 роки тому +2

    He also ignore me when i trying to train him but when i see the video so, my problem is solved...! Ty for this useful video 😊

  • @samoakley5868
    @samoakley5868 4 роки тому +19

    I'm interested in non treat training.. Do you have videos on this?

    • @Hottub111
      @Hottub111 4 роки тому +6

      UA-cam: Peter Caine Dog Training... no treats / no nonsense

  • @TeslaNick2
    @TeslaNick2 5 років тому +14

    It's honestly a miracle dogs are able to live with most families. Training also creates "operant" dogs who are mindful of their behaviour and confident because they know how to behave. In my house hold access to high value anything is a privilege, not a right.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому

      That’s a really important point, Tesla Nick! Teaching them how to “make good choices” builds drive. And being a great leader for your dog has shown them how to make those good choices! Thanks for watching ~Ken

    • @skylarbix7912
      @skylarbix7912 4 роки тому +1

      That sounds so militant, NO fun 🤣🐕

    • @TeslaNick2
      @TeslaNick2 4 роки тому +1

      @@skylarbix7912 Ha ! You're right. It definitely starts out being somewhat militant with a lot of micro management and even challenging at times.
      The whole object is to set them up for success from the beginning and prevent potential problems from starting. As we progress there's less (or no) need to "correct" undesired behaviours down the road. It also creates value in interacting and paying attention to us and learning the "rules" (which are really just routes to access rewards in the dog's mind). It ultimately means much greater freedom and access to all the things they love the most, but in a structured, predictable way that prevents conflict. We all know what to expect at what times of day. I totally allow my dogs to demand my attention when they are allowed to be in that "window of opportunity" (it's new concept I've borrowed from GRC dog sports). It means I can let my dogs know when I need them to just relax, sleep, chew on a bone etc and not bother me (I'm working), times when they can just be dogs and do all the cool doggy stuff they love (All my attention is on the dogs), when we're doing "formal" training sessions (the "work" window), when play is available (I'm available to play whatever game dog wants).etc. You can create as many or as few of these "windows of opportunity" as you like. It's really cool because the dogs know exactly what is expected and don't mind the down time whilst I work because of the pay off. When I'm done they know I'll open one of the windows for their time. It avoids any conflict and avoids having to crate the dog or distract them and stuff and they don't hassle me for attention because they're bored.
      It takes time to build the concept and teach it to the dogs, but once they understand it, there's almost no management at all. I can trust the dogs to be responsible at all times because they don't feel the need to get into stuff unless that window is open. Dogs have amazingly accurate internal clocks.
      Having said that, my wife managed to leave a left over flapjack on the living room floor (in a closed plastic box) and of course one of the dogs had it away whilst we slept through the night...🤣🤣🤣
      I hope all that makes sense.

  • @BUBBLESMOMMOM2011
    @BUBBLESMOMMOM2011 4 роки тому +6

    Thank you for such a wonderful video. I could listen to you all day; your have the perfect voice for recording. I signed up so that I can watch all of your other videos. Great presentation!

  • @amandaprewitt949
    @amandaprewitt949 7 місяців тому

    I just took in a gsd/mal mix so I’m trying to really build a close bond. As an only parent and having someone try to get into my apartment on more than one occasion, I decided to get us a guard dog. So I’ve been obsessed with these videos.

  • @auburnabby
    @auburnabby 5 років тому +23

    Great channel! Thanks for the advice. Training my dog to be a great service dog. When I put on my treat bag and grab my clicker, my dog does anything I ask her. First thing in the morning though, when I tell her to get my shoes, she doesn't do the command.

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому +16

      Hi there, Kacy! Make sure you work on all of her skills at random times as well. It's really great that you are having so much success when you strap on your bait pouch and grab your clicker, but a shorter, less formal training session during the day will help to reinforce those skills. That way you won't develop a dependence on having to get your bait pouch and making her feel it's "listening time" because we're training. Sounds like you're making great progress though and having fun while doing it! Thanks for watching, Happy Training! ~Ken

    • @milqueteaa
      @milqueteaa 5 років тому +1

      Aw, good luck with the training! I'll be training my Border Collie to be a lifeguard dog when she's old enough. Amazing creatures, dogs are. They can help anyone if you teach them right!

  • @mastiffmom2592
    @mastiffmom2592 2 роки тому

    I recently have a new person in my house with a pup who’s less than a year old. I have 2 Mastiff’s, the older one has a bad back and bad back legs, she 6. My 5 yo Mastiff will play with the pup, occasionally. The new dog and my dog that’s injured have begun to be aggressive towards each other. It’s scaring me beyond belief. I’m trying to encourage discipline from her owner. I know dog aggression. I know it will escalate. A dog tried to kill my cat. I intervened and got more injuries than the cat, from the cat. It’s traumatizing to see and not have any control. I shared this video with her. I’m praying it helps.

  • @ronf28
    @ronf28 5 років тому +6

    That was a great video. Thank you! Clear concise and methodical

    • @McCannDogs
      @McCannDogs  5 років тому

      Thank you, Ron! I’m glad you found it helpful! ~Ken

  • @monkiram
    @monkiram 4 роки тому +2

    I love this channel so much. Please never stop making videos!!

  • @deliarose3140
    @deliarose3140 Рік тому +3

    Our dog is 7 months old today. I've been a TERRIBLE leader! 😞 She (Lucy) has an abundance of toys at her exposure. She rings the bell to go outside and so we are constantly up & down opening the door so she can come in and out. She pretty much goes anywhere she wants throughout the house. We keep doors closed but when we go into the rooms, she follows us in, jumps up on the bed...etc. She pretty much gets treats anytime she wants. I make her sit for a treat - but she will go and scratch on the door where her treats are relentlessly until we go and get her a treat. She has freedom to get on our couches at will. She started sleeping with me from 8 weeks old. I do have a crate where she stays during the day while we are at work. At night now, she is waking up from midnight - 3 am, panting and nudging me with her paw, wanting to go outside, get out of bed...etc. So, this week, I have tried to put her in the crate mid-way through the night and she barks endlessly 😞. She does not wear a collar at home. No leash...etc. Amazingly, she will walk on a leash easily - but she pulls like crazy. We have a fenced in backyard so we don't mind her playing out there as much as she wants. In spite of our poor leadership, she is an amazingly sweet and loving dog. We have socialized her from the start so she never growls, barks, or acts inappropriate around other people or pets. Well, she does want to lick them to death and JUMP ON THEM (not appropriate). This video is SO good. It does make me realize how awful I am and how far I have to go. I hope it isn't too late. My dog is a Dalmadoodle. SUPER smart! I know that she's craving a leader, although, she wasn't the "alpha" from her litter. She does have some manners such as she waits until I enter through a door and then she follows. We say "get out of the trash" and she gets out. She will go back later but for that moment, she obeys. lol! I'm going to re-watch this video and others. I really want to say 'HELP'!!!!!!! lol! Lucy is probably saying 'HELP!" Thank you!