My Life Lessons from a Trip to India

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  • My first trip to India was not just a travel experience; it was a transformative journey that left a lasting impression on my heart and soul. The cultural immersion, the challenges faced by rural communities, and the valuable life lessons I learned have shaped my perspective and enriched my understanding of the world. I encourage everyone to embark on their own journeys of exploration and self-discovery.
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    "The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are." -Carl Jung
    0:00 Intro
    0:37 Culture Shock
    1:47 Indian Interstates
    3:13 Indian Food
    4:34 Indian Hotels
    5:36 Rangoli
    7:00 Rural India
    9:14 Monkeys in India
    10:34 A Day at the Ashram
    12:01 An Embarrassing Assumption!
    13:26 Visit to an Indian Barbershop
    15:24 Festival of Holi
    4:58 Please Subscribe!
    #india #travel #lifelessons

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  • @cellandcell
    @cellandcell 11 місяців тому +1010

    Greeting from Russia. I am a cell biologist from Russia, but was born in Mumbai, India. I miss India so much that I wish I could just jump over to India and never leave.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому +50

      Hi, what an interesting profession! I'm so glad that you enjoyed the video :).
      I was briefly in Mumbai on this trip...it's a special place!

    • @AstrologerRamanathan
      @AstrologerRamanathan 10 місяців тому +10

      ❤❤❤🇷🇺 🇮🇳 ❤❤❤

    • @naveenkumar651
      @naveenkumar651 10 місяців тому +16

      What is stopping from coming to India. Come and become citizen of India and help India in its race to again attain it's real place. Welcome to India

    • @cellandcell
      @cellandcell 10 місяців тому +37

      @@naveenkumar651 Guess what, I am back in India now. Thanks for your comment. :)

    • @sunitasrivastava7091
      @sunitasrivastava7091 10 місяців тому +12

      ​@@cellandcellReally that's great thanks

  • @rakeshtiwari1857
    @rakeshtiwari1857 Рік тому +1533

    "India needs to be experienced with heart and not brain".
    Very true!

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +47

      Yes!

    • @kalyanpal1371
      @kalyanpal1371 Рік тому +8

      Yess

    • @ssinfinite
      @ssinfinite 11 місяців тому +9

      ​@@PatrickParker ​ if you visit karnataka in india don't forget to visit shivagange temple in Nelamngala only place in the world where ghee turns to butter , 2ndly gavigangadareshwar temple in bangalore theres a cave which connects to kashi and sunlight falls directly on lord shiva every year on makara sankranti day when sun changes his direction from tropic of cancer to capricon before that sunlight falls directly on lord shiva, nexr belur channakeshava temple unimaginable temple, hampi, kaiwara place so on..its in youtube all truths in videos done by others

    • @premaprabhu1721
      @premaprabhu1721 11 місяців тому +11

      Both. You need brain to understand Vedas And Upanishads. Wherever Bharat said "Nahi gyanena Sadrysham". There is no bigger asset than knowledge. It's Bharat which showed way to Moksha. Abd one needs brain to understand this.

    • @avisnayak
      @avisnayak 11 місяців тому +1

      well said

  • @Jormungandr1983
    @Jormungandr1983 Рік тому +664

    That is Maharashtra dear, now imagine India has 28 states and 8 union territories. India is a multiverse. Food and culture are diverse across Indian subcontinent.

    • @bepositive5692
      @bepositive5692 Рік тому +37

      foreiner can never undeerstand Indian diversity . Bcoj here evry 5 killomitre we have our diferrent culture , Language , etc..

    • @IndianHeart07
      @IndianHeart07 11 місяців тому

      @@bepositive5692 yup 👍👍🫡

    • @harjitsingh7683
      @harjitsingh7683 10 місяців тому +2

      Gyaan baantne ke liye dhaneawaad

    • @rahulpalatel7006
      @rahulpalatel7006 9 місяців тому +5

      There is no other country like India in this Earth.Multi cultural,multi linguistic democratic republic!!!! Unbelievable marvel!!!!

    • @tassangvlogs1991
      @tassangvlogs1991 5 місяців тому +1

      And he is getting money from Indian people from this video 😂😂😂

  • @Typeher
    @Typeher 5 місяців тому +13

    I'm mexican, I'm going to India next February. I have neven been there yet and India has already changed my life for good. God bless India

    • @knottytoob
      @knottytoob 2 місяці тому

      !bienvenido a India ;)

  • @Moderator.
    @Moderator. Рік тому +485

    In Hinduism, the "Swastika" refers to a sign that depicts the ten cardinal directions and is used as a sort of password to call on the protection of the guardian deities in all Ten directions. North, South, East, West, Northeast, Southeast, Northwest, Southwest, Zenith, and Nadir are the English translations of these ten directions.

    • @Defe353
      @Defe353 Рік тому +29

      swastika is the path of dhruv nakshatra with rishi nakshatras.

    • @Medha_03
      @Medha_03 Рік тому +13

      Very apt explanation ❤

    • @briju0953
      @briju0953 Рік тому +21

      It is a symbol of wealth, prosperity and happiness

    • @enhaa784
      @enhaa784 Рік тому +2

      Hindu dharm, jada angre naa bno

    • @girirajgovindaraj6975
      @girirajgovindaraj6975 11 місяців тому +11

      ​@@enhaa784any problems???????????????????????????????????????????????there's nothing wrong in explaining and giving the proper answer

  • @d_pratik1
    @d_pratik1 Рік тому +858

    Never thought I would hear an American pronounce "Ichalkaranji", 😆 I live in Pune, and Ichalkaranji is a place no tourist ever visits. Glad you had a good experience, Patrick! I loved the way you narrated your experiences.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +86

      Trust me, it took me quite a few tries!!
      I ended up having to take a car from Ichalkaranji to Mumbai for my return flight and got to see a bit of Pune from the road. I'd love to visit there some day!
      Thank you very much for your nice compliment :)

    • @lewisavinash1
      @lewisavinash1 Рік тому +3

      @@PatrickParker by the way Pune drivers and Bikers are surely best in the world, im from Mumbai cannot beat them for sure

    • @anandtheertha5150
      @anandtheertha5150 Рік тому +2

      It's a Kannada name.. Karanji is a small water fall in Kannada and people in the town mostly speak Kannada

    • @manojpatil3211
      @manojpatil3211 11 місяців тому +7

      ​@@anandtheertha5150who said this man? Ichalkaranji is called as Manchester of Maharashtra, it's a textile hub...mostly people speak Marathi, also you can find kannada, gujrati, marwadi speaking people, at the same time all these people also speak Marathi in a day to day life

    • @GOOGLEYOUTUBE-tj1ez
      @GOOGLEYOUTUBE-tj1ez 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@PatrickParkeryou're not an American I think.. you're Norwegian

  • @nayangupta2408
    @nayangupta2408 Рік тому +219

    Before India- Patrick Parker
    After India - Pratik prakash 🙏

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +103

      Ironically, two of my Indian friends are named Pratik and Prakash, so I will take this as a high compliment!

    • @nayangupta2408
      @nayangupta2408 Рік тому +9

      @@PatrickParker hahaha that's funny, brother

    • @bikashkar4211
      @bikashkar4211 Рік тому +2

      You can still be Patrick and drown yourself in the beauty of India.. just saying..

    • @kiranshravanabelagola2267
      @kiranshravanabelagola2267 Рік тому

      @@bikashkar4211 Very True ! Well said !👍

    • @top5hindi919
      @top5hindi919 Рік тому +4

      ​@@PatrickParker Pratik Prakash means symbol of Light in Hindi😊😀

  • @Param.G.C
    @Param.G.C Рік тому +442

    First time I am hearing a foreign person interpreting an Indian culture as precisely as possible. I really appreciate the input from your friend, he really guided u in a right path. Hindu / Sanatana Dharma is a way of life and its not a religion in a broader sense. I welcome you to visit India once again ❤️❤️❤️

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +19

      Thanks for the nice words and I'm glad you enjoyed the video! Where should I visit the next time I go to India? :).

    • @shenbak6738
      @shenbak6738 Рік тому +8

      ​@@PatrickParker you have "lived" India so well with no T&C😊 i would suggest you to visit South India Nagercoil, Thanjavur and Thodupuzha in Kerala and villages near Bhubaneshwar in Odisha...

    • @kingpackagers8032
      @kingpackagers8032 Рік тому +6

      Hindu Sanatana dharma is a religion with guiding principles for our our way of life. To day it is not a religion is not correct

    • @jelouche
      @jelouche Рік тому +2

      @@shenbak6738 Yeah, kerala has lot of good places

    • @sanjuburkule
      @sanjuburkule Рік тому +5

      ​@@PatrickParker visit Hampi. And then the Sun Temple. It will give you a shock of technology and science. Also see powerpoint slides made in stone.

  • @sapnilpatel1645
    @sapnilpatel1645 Рік тому +276

    As a Indian I would say this is the best video by western person about India.
    From American point of view working in farm with lots of sweat means unhappy man/family but here in India its normal and people actually love to do this kind of hardwork while living with their family throughout the life.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +17

      Thank you so much for your nice words Sapnil. I appreciate it!

    • @amitdabas229
      @amitdabas229 Рік тому +15

      Also stop calling people untouchables out of no where. Just because someone is working in fields in scorching heat doesn't mean he is a untouchable. Most of the people nowadays don't even care what other person is as long as they can get the work done at lowest price possible. We ain't living in 19th century.

    • @Overloaded877
      @Overloaded877 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@amitdabas229u'r from bihar right?

    • @yxxjxx3473
      @yxxjxx3473 8 місяців тому +1

      I saw Ukadeeche Modak and Puranpoli on your Banana leaf plate. And now i am hungry for it.

  • @akaalkripal5724
    @akaalkripal5724 11 місяців тому +45

    The UA-cam algorithm worked. The first time I got to see a westerner portray India in a fresh unbiased light. Stay blessed!

  • @jitendrapradhan333
    @jitendrapradhan333 9 місяців тому +22

    After travelling many countries, I found, india is the only country which tells how to live the life. Its in their culture. Its in their religion. Their culture teaches them how to show gratitude to anyone. Like worship to Sun, Air, water, cow, teacher, mother, father and many mores. Because they believe, these are the sources from which they are getting benefits and as a return of gratitude they worship them. Most beautiful thing is there are some festivals to show gratitude. Truly a culture rich country which believes in One Earth...One family.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  9 місяців тому +3

      Yes Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam! That is one of three principles we are discussing in our video tomorrow! My silent partner taught me the phrase and principle :).
      Let me know what you think of that video we'll be releasing tomorrow! It will say Jai Hind on the thumbnail lol

  • @anonymous-op3zp
    @anonymous-op3zp 11 місяців тому +15

    Indians specially Hindus are so kind hearted pppl they will invite u into their house and their hearts the most kind hearted ppl u willl ever meet and the hospitality is on the next level they willl never let u pay for food when u in india

  • @siamesejasmine
    @siamesejasmine 11 місяців тому +129

    The more I cook Indian food and watch videos and vlogs from India, the more I fall in love with the land, the people, and the food. I absolutely intend to visit India when I retire (so I can take as much time to explore as much as possible)! I believe it will be a very spiritual experience for me and it will satisfy my soul. I dream of it every day. Last November, I actually got my nose pierced! Not because it’s trendy (I am in my 50s!), but because I believe it looks so beautiful on Indian women. I want to look and feel beautiful like them! I am so happy to hear about your experience!
    Also, I long to have an authentic Indian Thali on a banana leaf in Kerala!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому +6

      Hi Catherine! Thanks for watching and for your nice message! Send me a DM on here when you head over to India and I can do my best to help you find a 'banana leaf' experience :).

    • @PriyaK-cu1fz
      @PriyaK-cu1fz 11 місяців тому

      Lol

    • @SR-mv2mf
      @SR-mv2mf 11 місяців тому +3

      Aww you are very very welcome we would love to host a person like you who also loves us ❤

    • @nitikakanwar9601
      @nitikakanwar9601 11 місяців тому +1

      Come soon ❤

    • @nitikakanwar9601
      @nitikakanwar9601 11 місяців тому +1

      Come soon ❤

  • @br-md2xm
    @br-md2xm 11 місяців тому +193

    Such a humble narration. Glad my country gave you a beautiful experience

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому +7

      So nice :)

    • @pauline6005
      @pauline6005 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@PatrickParkerindia and indan men gave me a terrible experience. Something I never wish to experience again

  • @aniruddharao
    @aniruddharao 9 місяців тому +25

    1. Thanks for visiting our country 😊
    2. You have a wonderful friend
    3. You have a pleasant face, wonderful smile and radiate positivity...
    Thank you 😊

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  9 місяців тому

      Hi, your nice comment made my day. Thanks so much! :) :)

  • @oneworldonelife2023
    @oneworldonelife2023 Рік тому +175

    fantastic Patrick. I've spent my whole life in India and I feel as if I've only seen 20% of it.

    • @ravinaras9934
      @ravinaras9934 Рік тому +11

      Dude, seeing 20% of India is huge.. if it’s really true…

    • @vishaldhar420
      @vishaldhar420 11 місяців тому +2

      More like .2 percent

  • @vinaykumargupta9181
    @vinaykumargupta9181 Рік тому +24

    I don’t need to save anyone 🥰
    That simple sentence saves everyone

  • @goswamigeeta
    @goswamigeeta Рік тому +175

    Your experience in India struck the right cord of your heart. A lovely story well narrated!

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +11

      Thank you Geeta!

    • @sunderj4774
      @sunderj4774 Рік тому +2

      This man is Genuine otherwise their Loathe of India starts with the facilities offered by our Aircraft carriers.What explains lacs of western tourist coming to Varanasi Haridwar and adopting Hinduism with no complaints.

  • @devanggamit
    @devanggamit 8 місяців тому +24

    India is not what you see..
    India is what you feel..❤

  • @DeepakPandey-mf9ue
    @DeepakPandey-mf9ue Рік тому +83

    World needs more people with perspective like you.
    'beauty is in the eyes of beholder'
    You are an amazing person ❤

  • @Amanji_007
    @Amanji_007 Рік тому +112

    7:36
    Living in India from 28 years...been to pune,mumbai,goa, jaipur,delhi,bhopal,dehradun,lucknow....and seen ppl doing such work but never heard someone calling them ' untouchables ' ...they are not even always from low caste....brahmins and other so called high caste Ppl also work in farms.

    • @nikmang1
      @nikmang1 Рік тому +13

      And they live in tents because after a day or two when work there is finished they will be moving to some other farm at some other place. Back home most of them have their own farms and houses.

    • @yash432
      @yash432 Рік тому

      Yeah 😂

    • @r.b.8018
      @r.b.8018 Рік тому

      Being a Dalit I’m highly offended. I was being to like this video but then I realise what ignorant Americans think we Dalits are? We live in tents and being oppressed?
      Such victimisation narrative should be busted. I don’t need this olf of an idiot call me victim living in tent then pity me, when perhaps I earn more than him, living in a loving joint-family and enjoying life to its fullest!

    • @jaibholenath6900
      @jaibholenath6900 Рік тому +18

      Very true. Westerners have such stereotype of caste system.

    • @jaibholenath6900
      @jaibholenath6900 Рік тому +17

      My Brahmin family tills the land in the hills of Kokan.
      Atlast I am a Untouchable Brahmin now so happy
      Thanks for that Patrick. I could have never achieved that status

  • @AjitKumar-tq5nj
    @AjitKumar-tq5nj Рік тому +87

    Great narration I ever heard from a foreigner about India. So truthful, unbiased with an entirely different perspective right from his heart. Patrick is a wonderful person.

  • @murlimohanrao
    @murlimohanrao 10 місяців тому +38

    Hi Patrick. Your video was so refreshing to watch. I have been across the world. I stayed, worked or travelled to more than 43 countries but I never felt as much in peace with myself as in India. Yes, our lives may not be ideal but we have immense gratitude for what we have and that makes us far more happy than what many foreigners are in. So happy to see that you got it right.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  10 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much for this thoughtful and meaningful comment. When I get notes like this it keeps me clear on why I do this YT channel :).

  • @gopalramanathan7062
    @gopalramanathan7062 11 місяців тому +7

    “Kolam” - may we preserve our rich culture and traditions, and be proud of it🙏🏼🕉️🙏🏼
    Dhanyavad Patrick 🙏🏼🇮🇳🙏🏼

  • @akshiyakalveal6981
    @akshiyakalveal6981 Рік тому +35

    Actually Patrick, we feel blessed, lucky and Pleasured that our Country is worthy of Changing people's lives and perceptions. Thank you,😇🙏💫💫

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +1

      Akshiya, 💯!

    • @sanathanadharmama
      @sanathanadharmama 11 місяців тому

      Why u feel so..we don't need buddy..it's the foreigners who robbed India for over 1000 years...they should tell the injustice that has been done to India when they go back

  • @harimkaimal3398
    @harimkaimal3398 10 місяців тому +28

    Oh my God, As a modern Indian, I really learned a lot from you about India than I have my entire life in India. Thank you for sharing your perspective. It just opened my eyes and really got me out of the narrow mindset I had. Very intense and powerful presentation. Your one whole year of preparation for this video has really paid off. Thank you Thank you Thank you 🙏

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  10 місяців тому +3

      So nice of you, thanks a ton! Your comment really means a lot!

  • @dayakaradagumati5411
    @dayakaradagumati5411 Рік тому +57

    As some one from a village and been to multiple countries, i can say your friend did a great job to take you through real indian experience in short period. It would have been very difficult to get that experience from some one from an indian city or town.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Agreed Dayakara! It was a very special trip.

  • @susandsilva1437
    @susandsilva1437 11 місяців тому +23

    Beautifully captured the essence the essence of India.
    By not equating india and it’s people to the western world, you have understood it’s heart.

  • @MunaLife
    @MunaLife Рік тому +108

    Wonderful content. It takes a very positive mind to interpret all experiences in a positive manner and learn to grow from them. Just like you, your Indian friend also sounds very mature and wise in the ways he prepared you and took you step by step deep into the culture. You definitely learnt all the right lessons from India.

    • @r.b.8018
      @r.b.8018 Рік тому

      Seriously wonderful content?
      Being a Dalit I’m feel insulted when he calls sugarcane farm labours lower caste and untouchable?
      Don’t you people hear properly or simply gush coz a white man with full of ignorance blabber nonsense?
      My grandma who is a farmer and worked all her life like his would throw a chapel at him.
      When did low caste and oh my god untouchable live in tents?

  • @Kanukantis
    @Kanukantis 8 місяців тому +9

    Yes...Our culture our pride...Jai Hind Jai Bharat

  • @kuldeepkaushik1808
    @kuldeepkaushik1808 Рік тому +26

    Me and my family lived in ichalkaranji for 30 years. Great city, food, atmosphere, climate and friends. I will never forget the city " ichalkaranji". Thank you for showing panchganga river and Bharat hair salon in your video. Miss my city...

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +2

      Glad you liked the video! Ichalkaranji is a great place :)

  • @sunitagandhi9291
    @sunitagandhi9291 11 місяців тому +11

    100%TRUE SAID, WOW, WE ARE PROUD OF INDIA AND SANUSKRITI, JAI SANATANI HINDU DHARM ZINDABAD VANDE MATRAM 🇮🇳🇮🇳🌷🌷🐯🐯🕉️🕉️🚩🚩💕💕🙌

  • @randhirmishra42
    @randhirmishra42 11 місяців тому +31

    this is such a good video. I’ve never seen a Western person portray India in such a unbiased and fair way

  • @itsmanishaaa
    @itsmanishaaa 11 місяців тому +10

    I wish people who live in Indian cities go through what you have. People in Indian cities can sound very tone deaf about the power of their own villages and towns, while they're the backbone of our country. There's really 2 India's. Thank you for portraying your experience so beautifully, you've understood what our country has to offer and the value system of people rooted in Bharat live with, your friend has done an amazing job taking you through this, the gratitude not guilt really struck a chord.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for your very thoughtful comment! It means very much to me.

  • @ratnakamal1
    @ratnakamal1 8 місяців тому +7

    Patrick is not judgemental and humble enough to learn from new experiences. He was helped by a wonderful friend.

  • @shrutivarrier1023
    @shrutivarrier1023 Рік тому +37

    Rangoli was actually put with rice flour to keep away insects away from home but also symbolism of co existing with every thing part of nature

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +3

      That's interesting Shruti, thanks for that!

    • @rekhapai6214
      @rekhapai6214 Рік тому +7

      True. And to add to Shruti, the moment the lady finishes the artwork it belongs to the Universe and hence no one is worried if it is washed away or blown by the winds. There is no 'this is mine' feeling left...

    • @lewisavinash1
      @lewisavinash1 Рік тому +1

      @@rekhapai6214 yess, Just like Shram Dan

    • @trusfratedbunny2215
      @trusfratedbunny2215 Рік тому +1

      @@PatrickParker If the mandala made using dry powdered rice flour it's rangoli And if it's made using wet paint like paste of rice flour (& red Aalta is use to give some hint of color in certain parts of design/art) is called Alpanaa. We specially draw both rangoli and Alpanaa at front of all door steps and inside open room or centre hall in homes during Deepawali festival.

    • @sushmitag8463
      @sushmitag8463 Рік тому

      Very well put Shruti and Rekha

  • @91rummy
    @91rummy Рік тому +37

    Your first hand experience and narration of it also makes us Indians realise what we have is valuable and priceless..

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Thank you so much, I'm glad you liked the video!

  • @lIIlI..
    @lIIlI.. Рік тому +11

    It is our Pleasure to have you here in India 🙏🙏🙏
    Keep on Coming with your friends, family and country mates🙏🙏🙏🚩🚩🚩

  • @jayashreejaipal3964
    @jayashreejaipal3964 Рік тому +13

    You are a very spiritual person to be able to understand and Appreciate our ancient culture. May you be blessed always. Love and respects.

  • @ravireddi1052
    @ravireddi1052 Рік тому +8

    You are truly an Indian in every way ! God bless!

  • @amaratvak6998
    @amaratvak6998 Рік тому +17

    My dear bro Patrick 🥰🙌. Why you could actually find peace, positivity, gratitude and all the good emotions during your India visit was simply because you yourself are a genuine human being, who is totally bereft of the "white man's ego" and is not judgemental, complaining cry-baby as some foreigners are. You are in perfect harmony and inner peace with your own being and your surroundings. God bless you my dear and wish you all the very best for all your future travels.

  • @abhijitshetye9432
    @abhijitshetye9432 11 місяців тому +6

    Glad to see a westerner seeing India with open eyes and mind!

  • @pradeeppatki4936
    @pradeeppatki4936 Рік тому +8

    Thank you for sharing this video.
    Love from India. Stay blessed and happy

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +1

      You are welcome, and blessings from Norway!

  • @vikashbaid526
    @vikashbaid526 11 місяців тому +11

    Very articulate. Well spoken. India can be an experience that overwhelms a westerner. Yes we have immense challanges ,yet the people are happy with what they have. Even as a well to do city dweller , sometimes i am shocked and overwhelmed at my experiences in mid india. while large part of india is still deeply rooted in its culture and traditions, the winds of change in modern india are unsettling. Even now i miss the india of my childhood.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому

      Hi Vikash, thanks for watching and for your thoughtful comment!
      I also feel the same the winds of change when I visit my hometown in the USA, which was small and rural when I was a child and is now rapidly developing.
      Sad for me, but I guess it's good economically for them..."the only constant in life is change..."

  • @kanikaaldiges6889
    @kanikaaldiges6889 Рік тому +2

    Dear Patrick I just happened upon your video and it was a moment of serendipity. You traversed the spiritual journey from head to heart and articulated it through such a joyful experiences just like a child does, taking in the world through awe and wonder and breathing it out as gratitude. This journey is exactly what I take early childhood teachers through as I deliver my Kindergarten teacher training course.
    I thank you for sharing your experience... enjoyed it ever so much.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Oh Kanika, thank you so much! And thanks for your work with kids and mindfulness...what a wonderful calling :).

  • @yourportlandlifestyle2907
    @yourportlandlifestyle2907 9 місяців тому +9

    I love your way of telling the lessons you learned there. I thought your giraffe story was going to be similar to mine of having a cow come into a restaurant. India happens so fast that you do need to come from the heart to see it's beauty and there 's so much of it!! One of my favorite things that gave me tremendous joy was the way they feed animals and birds and people. As well as build around trees. Magical reverence

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  9 місяців тому

      Ok you have to tell me about the cow in the restaurant!?!?!

    • @yourportlandlifestyle2907
      @yourportlandlifestyle2907 9 місяців тому +1

      @@PatrickParker I was with a bunch of my friends in Rishikesh eating lunch and a cow walked in the front door, which was propped open. Of course we had all taken our shoes off as is the custom there. The cow just hung out for the whole time, walking here and there. They are considered sacred. The only people that were concerned about it were the foreigners

  • @sahilmali4186
    @sahilmali4186 Рік тому +17

    I studied near Ichalkaranji.. great to know you enjoyed your time in India.. having an open mind makes you grow and you cirtainly did..! Hope you visit again ✌️

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Thanks Sahil! It was a great trip. I will definitely visit again!

  • @klarioncall
    @klarioncall 11 місяців тому +4

    great Patrick ... i never saw my country with such clarity and
    positivity

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks so much Snadeep! That means a lot!

  • @Antoninomano69
    @Antoninomano69 11 місяців тому +3

    You have a great humble heart to feel my country deeply the way it is... thankyou ❤

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому +2

      You are welcome...and thanks for your nice compliment!

  • @UrsTrue-li
    @UrsTrue-li Рік тому +19

    You nailed it mate... simply one of the best video on self experience in India

  • @sujatadas5148
    @sujatadas5148 Рік тому +18

    I don’t need to save anyone is a very precious statement ❤️thanks for that Patrick ..it’s even more confronting when western cultures realise how immaterial it is to own even the most material expensive possessions in life …regardless of how much money you have it actually has no co-relationship or real conversion into eternal happiness currency ….grateful to have loving families and values ❤️

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for your very nice comment! Yes, that was a powerful moment in my life, when my friend told me that, and I internalized it.

    • @verity4917
      @verity4917 11 місяців тому

      THERE ARE HUNDRED THOUSANDS OF MILLIONAIRES IN INDIA ...THEY LIVE IN PARADISE!🤔

  • @gagadonim3354
    @gagadonim3354 Рік тому +3

    Happy that you liked the authentic side of India

  • @supriyasou3722
    @supriyasou3722 11 місяців тому +8

    As a kid living in Bangalore India, when I went to the local bus stand in the morning, there would always be a bus to “Ichalakaranji”. It was a funny name for a kid. I always wondered what that place looked like. I never met anyone in my life who’s been to ichalakaranji.. till today! I’m 33 😊

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому

      🤣🤣thanks for watching! And I'm glad the video stoked a childhood memory!

  • @rnhyd
    @rnhyd 9 місяців тому +5

    I love your honesty and humor. Digesting India is an experience in itself, even we Indians are still exploring.

  • @baski53
    @baski53 Рік тому +5

    Beautiful experience. Puffed with emotions and how small things that are being taken for granted has a great impact for our guests. In Tamil(south), we have a famous saying "Yaadhum Oorey Yavarum Kayleer".
    Which means we are all one family and connected. These boundaries are human made but Earth that we have borrowed does not differentiate anyone, small, big, white, black, Asian, dwarf, tall....
    I love the way when you say Gratitude. That's one of the best gifts for Humanity from Indian belief system what we call Way of life or Sanatana Dharma.
    Blessings.....

  • @rekharajagopalan7667
    @rekharajagopalan7667 10 місяців тому +4

    Very accurate description of daily routine by a foreigner. Glad you could experience goodness in our country that also changed your life/thoughts and feelings for the best

  • @krishna-de2jb
    @krishna-de2jb Рік тому +28

    7:36 who said they are low caste untouchables😏. They are just working in there field. Did you personally asked them that they are untouchables? I mean really a person working in field is untouchable now 😏.

    • @vedpan3360
      @vedpan3360 Рік тому +1

      That's what I hate taking everything granted to label.

    • @cruise_control
      @cruise_control Рік тому

      You don't allow them to share same space. It is there in India. It is back bone of India. Caste system.
      Are you from foreign to India? But your name looks one from the Hindu mythology,?

    • @krishna-de2jb
      @krishna-de2jb Рік тому +3

      @@cruise_control lol, you don't know anything. Dont lecture us lawde.

    • @randomvideos979
      @randomvideos979 Рік тому +3

      @@cruise_control What Hindu mythology? If you will try to mock our religion, then be prepared to receive the same treatment from our side.

    • @Defe353
      @Defe353 Рік тому +3

      @@cruise_control what mythology? if you dont know anything dont speak of india.

  • @abhishekbaghel517
    @abhishekbaghel517 11 місяців тому +4

    Its really good to see someone who kept a clear mind and tried to explore India without any prejudice and preformed notions. And I am thrilled and happy to see that you got to celebrate Holi, its one of my and many Indians' favourite festival. I have so many suggestions for your next trip but I don't want to turn this comment into a long paragraph.

  • @mukundbaheti5022
    @mukundbaheti5022 11 місяців тому +17

    Overwhelmed to see that you had a great time visiting India and specifically Ichalkaranji.
    It was really inspiring that you gained values even from the smallest actions of kindness or hospitality. you narrated your experience really well.
    Happy to see that you tried to understand the Indian culture.
    Also I am soo happy that you visited my hometown ichalkaranji. Rarely any foreign tourist visits here, it's like 'Once in a blue moon'.
    Liked the picture of you at the Datta temple 6:21.😊
    You are always welcome to visit India again.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому +1

      Thanks Mukund! I'm glad you enjoyed the video, and yes, I really loved Ichalkaranji!

  • @VivekJain6
    @VivekJain6 11 місяців тому +4

    I'm glad that you have had such a positive experience,.
    You're very lucky to have friends who unconditioned you before experiencing this trip, and helped you refrain from judgement!
    Safe travels bud!
    Come back soon!

  • @pranatidas6005
    @pranatidas6005 Рік тому +9

    Really good video... I love it...we need more people like you who can bring out and show the world the good things, little small things which exist in india, no matter those things belong to what religion, people really need to know and change their outlook towards India.... It is much more than butter chicken, chilli, biriyani. How rural people in India live in harmony with nature and animals and the festivals observed during new crop harvesting.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for your nice comment Pranati! Yes, it's the small things...

  • @epicdestinationvacations1535
    @epicdestinationvacations1535 10 місяців тому +1

    Inspiring truth seeing the world the way it is supposed to be seen great sharing Patrick

  • @truthislogical
    @truthislogical Рік тому +6

    Hare Krishna ❤🙏🏻
    Difference between Swastika and Nazi symbol:-
    1. Swastika is sacred in Hinduism symbolizing sun, prosperity, good fortune
    2. Hakenkreuz is Nazi symbol, also known as Hooked Cross. It has no relation with Hindusim/Sanatan Dharma

  • @chaitanyareddy557
    @chaitanyareddy557 8 місяців тому +3

    Nice Story Patrick. Really liked the way you presented. Keep visiting India, every place has some thing new to offer and it’s a different world with diversity.
    Thanks. Jai Hind 🇮🇳

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks so much for your nice note! It means a lot :)

  • @pranjoshi413
    @pranjoshi413 Рік тому +3

    Patric, you are good traveller; you know how to accept others with grace and gratitude. You are welcome everywhere.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Thanks Pran! Where should I go next time I'm in India?

  • @anups7958
    @anups7958 10 місяців тому +1

    Wow your self awareness and empathy and understanding for another culture and people is mind blowing!

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  10 місяців тому

      That means a lot! :) Thanks for watching!

  • @NoMeWithoutYou1
    @NoMeWithoutYou1 Рік тому +39

    You are spreading valuable insights from your Indian experience and is indeed the correct way to view things. I hope your message travels far and wide to help others. Norway sure is about as far culturally as you can get from India. Hopefully, you're showing them how to smile more and loosen up a bit. Cheers!

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +4

      Thank you so much for your wonderful comment! Yes, it's very interesting to live in Norway as an American, but also have close Indian friends here. It's like three cultures in one. I'm very blessed in that way.

  • @sundareshanal1849
    @sundareshanal1849 Рік тому +12

    As a senior citizen , I found this narration one of the finest I have ever heard. That Patrick and his Indian friend are highly evolved human beings is evident. The host is a completely rooted man who is totally confortable in his skin and environment of nativity. The guests as all Indians, are entrenched natives, perfectly wedded to their millennial culture. And incredibly warm yet loquacious folks. And Patrik is decidedly a tremendous human being who has such deep empathy and capacity to get to the bottom of the Ibdian soul despite such terrifick differences in culture. Sum it up , when human beings decide to take the plunge to embrace each other, the dive to the deep is quick and abiding. Patrick btw the term for a guest in India is Athithi one who turns up unannounced and without appointment. That person is equated to God. AS as an elder , I extend to you, Patrick, the best wishes for a highly accomplished and fulfilled life. God bless you.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +4

      Sundareshan, thank you for this wonderful message! It means so much to me.

    • @sundareshanal1849
      @sundareshanal1849 Рік тому

      ​@@PatrickParkerGod bless.

    • @kpverma5301
      @kpverma5301 Рік тому +2

      👍👍Very nicely framed comments Sundareshan, on the wonderful narration given by Patrik about the impressions about India, imprinted in his heart ..

    • @sundareshanal1849
      @sundareshanal1849 Рік тому +1

      ​@kpverma5301 thank you for tour kind words. God bless.

  • @prabhakarmishra2182
    @prabhakarmishra2182 Рік тому +1

    This is one of the best descriptions of India I have come across, thank you Patrick, visit India again

  • @arvindsharma4U
    @arvindsharma4U 11 місяців тому +1

    Brilliant Patrik. Believe me, you have to discover more and more and more India the great! 🙏

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому

      Thanks Arvind! I hope to go again later this year and make some more videos. Yes, there is so much more to discover!

  • @jeevanjoshi1070
    @jeevanjoshi1070 Рік тому +19

    Patrick, welcome to the new world!! I hope you would visit hidden gems like Khidrapur temple (if you missed) and Narsoba wadi. Both these places have tons of spiritual vibes and are indicators of ancient culture.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      I will have to check that out some day Jeevan! Thanks for watching. I'm uploading a 'Part II' tomorrow at 10 p.m. IST and I hope you can check it out!

  • @contemporarymatters8106
    @contemporarymatters8106 Рік тому +24

    Your viewpoint and narrative was compelling. Watched it till the end.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much! What was your favorite part (so I can keep that in mind for future videos)?

    • @contemporarymatters8106
      @contemporarymatters8106 Рік тому

      @@PatrickParker The best part was your realization that one need to keep an open mind and open heart. Only then we can absorb the world around us to the fullest. Also that humans are very happy in their 'smallest' existence. Who are we to judge? If we don't understand their reasons for being happy, then we are missing on a lot of love available in human existence.
      Also remember that the words 'Swastika' and 'Arya' are purely Indian 'Sanskrit' words which were carried out by Europeans and subsequently vilified. You will be surprised at how many (extremely) ancient rock carvings of Swastika exist in central and eastern Europe. It also used to exist in Church architecture. Sorry, made the narrative rather long.

  • @shushantchavan9107
    @shushantchavan9107 6 місяців тому +1

    Hello Patric,
    I am very impressed the way you experience India. You experienced India with heart and not with brain.
    Thanks again for being Ambassador of India.

  • @RookiesNostalgia
    @RookiesNostalgia 8 місяців тому +9

    I am from Ichalkaranji and watching this. I am so glad that you came to our city and had a great experience. I was wondering that where I can watch someone from another country talks about their experience in my city by watching the vlogs of foreigners in India, and I find your video. If you come again to Ichalkaranji I would really like to meet you and invite you to my home as a guest. As our coulter says "The Entire World Is My Family. "🙏

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  8 місяців тому +1

      Hi Omkar! Thanks so much for your very nice note! Can you send me a message: contact@patrickaaronparker.com
      I am going back to India in December and perhaps we could indeed find a way to meet!

  • @yogis141
    @yogis141 11 місяців тому +6

    My incredible india 🇮🇳 ❤

  • @vedicwarriorOriginal
    @vedicwarriorOriginal Рік тому +23

    Fantastic storytelling. At first I said to myself "I'm just gonna watch bits and pieces of this video". Ended up watching every single frame of this masterpiece and thoroughly appreciated it. Jai Ho! 🙏🕉

  • @theprophecy5313
    @theprophecy5313 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for narrating your experience with such joy.

  • @Been_8
    @Been_8 Рік тому +10

    Low caste untouchables is thing of past. They might be poor but happier than many rich out there

  • @pratik8213
    @pratik8213 8 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful story and an amazing video. Great that I came across your video. Glad that you enjoyed your time in India. Namaste 🙏🏼

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much for your nice note!

  • @sunitasinha7420
    @sunitasinha7420 Рік тому +3

    So eloquently articulated.... Stay blessed

  • @universalspirit5831
    @universalspirit5831 Рік тому +4

    Lovely and sweet video ❤❤
    It's amazing how experiencing things with an open and curious mind is so crucial for happiness and growth of every person......something that's becoming rarer in the world today.
    Thanks a ton for making and sharing this video....👍👍

  • @kalyaniramteke605
    @kalyaniramteke605 11 місяців тому +1

    each word you spoke was so meaningful,,, This is how you exeperience India,,,

  • @peacek6909
    @peacek6909 Рік тому +1

    Loved your video. Yes, indeed, India is a very spiritual place. Has a lot to offer to the world. You are right. One needs to feel from the heart. Glad you felt the spirituality.

  • @harshitagrawal6295
    @harshitagrawal6295 Рік тому +28

    Low castle untouchable is no such thing we all are sanatani equal human

    • @krisgray1957
      @krisgray1957 10 місяців тому

      What a great lie...this is what your religion teach you. 20% of Hindu Dalits face HELL..

    • @wisjsn2382
      @wisjsn2382 10 місяців тому +1

      Whom are you kidding?

    • @harshitagrawal6295
      @harshitagrawal6295 10 місяців тому +1

      @@wisjsn2382 well people like you make difference such a mindset

    • @smjadav
      @smjadav 10 місяців тому +1

      You must be living under a rock if you feel so

  • @imvikasojha
    @imvikasojha 11 місяців тому +3

    You have amazing attitude towards life, loved your positive vibes and commentary about your experience of everyday affairs.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому

      Thanks so much Vikas, that means a lot!

  • @karmegamGANESAN
    @karmegamGANESAN Рік тому +1

    Thanks for Sharing Patrick
    You are a good Soul

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Thank you Karmegam for this very nice comment! :)

  • @AIshanChatterjee
    @AIshanChatterjee 10 місяців тому +1

    It's amazing to see such a generous person appreciating a culture and habits of entirely different place of other part of the world ❤

  • @swavnasahoo711
    @swavnasahoo711 Рік тому +6

    Hey Patrick, you literally seem to overflow with kindess and niceness☺️❤Loved your video. Do come back to visit more places🌸

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  Рік тому

      Your comment made my day! What places should I visit next time? :)

  • @kiranmayinallam6539
    @kiranmayinallam6539 8 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful narration

  • @tseringjunk
    @tseringjunk 5 місяців тому

    The greatest words you said, "INDIA do not need saving.
    They are not miserable.
    They are happy with what they are..."👏👏👏👏
    exactly my friend

  • @marketstallfacts4723
    @marketstallfacts4723 6 місяців тому +1

    What a charming report. Thank you.

  • @MrBiplabB
    @MrBiplabB 10 місяців тому +3

    Appreciate Your love and respect for India . India to me a spiritual land with fusion of age old traditions and modernity. Your depth of knowledge and wisdom about India is compelling, honest and sincere. Thank you 🙏🙏

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  10 місяців тому

      Comments like this one mean so much to me. Thank you (and thanks for watching!)

    • @MrBiplabB
      @MrBiplabB 10 місяців тому +1

      @@PatrickParker You deserve it Patrick. 🙏❤️

  • @aditi4692
    @aditi4692 11 місяців тому +4

    Amazing content Patrick! This is so unbiased and honest, loved it! You didn’t try to read India from a westernised pity angle and that was amazing ❤❤

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  11 місяців тому

      That means a lot...I really appreciate it :)

  • @agarasudhindra1687
    @agarasudhindra1687 6 місяців тому +1

    You are a good human being with a big and open heart and mind, Patrick! Vaya Con Dios, Amigo!

  • @MaheshKumar-zs1mw
    @MaheshKumar-zs1mw 2 місяці тому

    Your wonderful expression with a beaming and smiling face tells all about your trip to India & the pleasant experience. Welcome 😊

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  2 місяці тому

      Oh thanks so much for this nice note! 😀

  • @artbypragz
    @artbypragz 10 місяців тому +3

    I truly appreciate you taking the effort to visit our country and immerse yourself in learning so much. It's essential to recognize and address the needs in our own communities, just as the saying goes, 'Charity begins at home.' I've observed homelessness in cities like LA and NYC, which serves as a reminder that both the U.S. and India have diverse living conditions. Just as India is not solely defined by its challenges, the U.S. isn't only about affluence. Every country has a spectrum of experiences and circumstances for its residents.

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  9 місяців тому

      Well said! Thanks so much for watching:)

  • @mandy911
    @mandy911 Рік тому +5

    Ichalkarnaji which is very close to my hometown was also known as Manchester of the East for its textile factories

  • @NaM-qf2yb
    @NaM-qf2yb 11 місяців тому +1

    I am glad you enjoyed and your expression from the bottom of your heart is so awesome.

  • @childearth4039
    @childearth4039 Рік тому +1

    Welcome to India Patrick.

  • @Drpraveen1
    @Drpraveen1 7 місяців тому +3

    soo tue actually , u can only experience india only by heart but not the brain . 😍😍❤❤ and thanks too your friend he just describe u our culture in a very sophisticated way , our religion is not just a religion but just a sense of living . and thanks to u to understand it as a art of living but not a every day burden .

    • @PatrickParker
      @PatrickParker  6 місяців тому +1

      What a wonderful comment, thanks for taking the time to write it (and taking the time to watch the video)!