Destiny & JustPearlyThings Debate Spirals Out Of Control
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It was all horrible
Also 1:41:53
1:10:00
Why doesn’t Pearl just marry a Saudi man and move to Saudia Arabia ?
Probably because Saudi men have standards
Why dont shut UP?
@@fliip4861 holy fuck Filip didn't need to grill her that hard 😂
@@fliip4861 based
@@fliip4861 didn't stutter.
I was beaten badly for YEARS by my daughters father. I was 13 when i met him and he was 18 turning 19!!!!! I was a child!!! I was groomed and manipulated into a cycle of violence.
I got pregnant at 17 (my mom refused to give me birth control and knew i was in a relationship with this ADULT and how he treated me... still cant understand it)
I was not able to save money and run away with our daughter until I was almost 21 (I'm 25 now).
So I endured the most cruel mental physical sexual abuse for my entire teenage years and into my 20s. When I left, it had escalated to the pojnt where he broke my leg in 3 different places, fractured my eye socket, sent me to the ICU for 6 days from a particularly brutal beating, held knives to my throat while our small daughter cried at her baby gate for me and he told me he was going to kill me and say goodbye... and so so much more.
The reasoning for some of it? he thought he saw a hair on his dinner plate so in his mind that hair equaled I was cheating and the hair was transferred to the plate... yes im serious. The time that resulted in my broken leg was because I was speaking too much and 'interrupting him' any time i opened my mouth.. so I went dead silent only nodding/nonverbal cues to try to avoid more punches and he got even more enraged because not responding was disrespectful.. so I was talking he got angry and hurt me.. I stopped talking and he got even more angry and escalated to breaking my leg so badly my bone was put back together surgically with plates and pins... and I have crps in my leg from it.. its called the suicide disease bc of the continous pain.
My c-ptsd is so bad I have night terrors even several years later. I get panic attacks from smells or sights that trigger memories.. I still havent seen a single man romantically since him either.
But listening to this panel of women talk about my situation... being a single mom bc of abuse and etc....and saying it was my own fault is literally making me tear up. Women like myself have to remind ourselves daily it's not our fault that we were abused.. and then to listen to this is so ignorant and sad.
Whoa! God bless you for surviving!
omg im sorry u went trough that i wish you nothing but health and happiness from now on❤❤
These women just have a submission kink and are unable to keep it in the bedroom and now it's a problem for the rest of us.
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😮 ..that's an interesting point
lmao tru
I'm fully confident that Pearl just says whatever will get her attention. Not that I think she's doing it consciously. It's like Trisha Paytas blurting out ridiculous lies and fake stories but in a different font.
There are more people doing that than ever
Pearlvis very disingenuous. She agrees with the manosphere for views and a following
I would KILL to see a Papa and Pearl conversation
I agree, she needs someone like Papa to put her in her place.
@@malloryharding882 seriously! But she's soo based and weak, Pearl will never debate someone who could actually take her down.... No matter the gender
@@gracelynnblack you are so right!!
these podcasts piss me off. bc it’s all about how women need to adjust themselves to men’s standards when men are not willing to do the same lmao
I just can’t handle all these damn people talking over one another
My ex-husband waited 4 years and into our second child for him to start hitting me it got real bad after that he lost his job and I was the only one working and he got mad
Yep. People like these fail to realize that abusive partners often wait until they think they have you locked down to start their shit.
To add to the part towards the end about whether men or women are harder to please, my girlfriend cried with happiness when she found out about a pillow i was going to buy her. she thought it was one of the nicest things ever done for her.
This has nothing to do with your comment but with your profile picture. What’s your favorite Tame Impala song from that album?
"My personal anecdote makes me correct!"
@@MK_ULTRA420 Yes, someone who literally has a girlfriend has an opinion that is naturally vastly more superior to yours, lmao.
@@Spicy_Spores In that case I'm morally superior to you and Destiny lol
THESE CONSTANT "MHM, MHM, MHM"s ARE DRIVING ME INSANE
Pearl's take that people who get beat are at fault for making a bad decision was what did it for me.
I love how Pearl acts flabbergasted at the thought of breaking up over chores. The entirety of the panel has infinitely more experience than she does with struggling, managing a home, being in relationships, raising kids, etc and ALL agree that an inequity in household responsibility can lead to animosity and a breakup. Pearl is a girl who grew up rich, never knew struggle, is single, never married, no kids, no family or relationship to manage and she thinks that her ridiculous opinion that these things shouldn't lead to divorce is gonna overshadow the mountain of life experience sitting in front of her. She is such an entitled child, holy shit.
I think what all this boils down to is that the West has delayed maturation through entertainment and the internet so much that people have unrealistic and underbaked ideas of what relationships should be.
Yes love the value break down. It’s weird how women get handed the stick for having kids but men can straight up abandon kids and expect really demand a women who is child free.
To redpillers anyway. To the average person I think deadbeat dads are considered monsters
Being a fan of papa gut is like being the pampered daughter of a protective father who constantlies buys her ballon poping apes to protect her castle but never lets her know the cost of her monkey privelges.
Papa: “This is what happens when you have an all girls podcast 🤷”
Two of the biggest blow ups on the podcast being between a guy and two diff girls 😂 👀
Destiny is a black woman
@@huare7946 Wow what did black women do to you to deserve such an insult?
Yknow, it's fine if these lady's are strong and trust their judgment in finding a man who truly has their best interest at heart and choose to defer to him with decision making. The problem is that the Andrew Tate types are purposefully targeting people who they can manipulate and take advantage of, and these women are spreading this ideology about deferring to the man in all things, and that will lead more women to hear that message and be vulnerable to that type of guy.
Not only that, but no matter how much a man has your best interests at heart, he's not infallible. He's human, and he's going to occasionally be wrong or make bad choices. Having one person as the be-all-end-all decision maker is dangerous, because they might just lead you both off a cliff that you could have steered them away from had you only put your foot down.
Two heads are better than one for a reason.
Lol these weirdos
“Chores aren’t even that hard, it’s all automated”
“Just find a man who makes more so you can do the chores”
Cause god forbid a man wash a fucking dish
51:46 men don’t make the decision to beat the fuck outta women, women decide to be around men who will beat them, right Chris Brown?
1:51:10 bro this is probably the most relatable segment I’ve ever heard lmao. My ex was exactly like this. I worked at the office every day with a 1 and a half hour commute. She worked 60% and was home on Mondays and tuesdays. She did make food but we brought home food like two or three times a week and whenever she cooked she never put the dishes away immediately. It was left to stack til the next day. I legitimately felt a painful flashback listening to this lol
1:33:47 "...transparency... or cisparency." Buckets papa. Buckets.
Papa gut thank you, I actually needed to hear your relationship advice. I never had anyone properly explain it and that’s why😔💕 thank you for real❤️
That podcast is intended to validate men’s grievances and convince women they deserve less so they’ll settle for poor treatment.
Watched it on destiny’s Channel. Now I’m watching again 😂
when the hell did your beard grow that much
Typical British conversation
Oi bruv what cola is your BU GA E?
I do a majority of the cleaning, my wife works more than I do so the trade off is I clean. I do the laundry, dishes, take care of our pets, all of it. But again, that’s the trade off. I work less in a week, but I handle all the household stuff. She never has to worry about coming home and needing to cook, clean, do laundry, or deal with household stressors because the house is clean everyday.
The longest way to say have good decision making skills, vet your partners, and it take times to find the right one. And daddy issues
“Ahh Pearl tried again!” 😆
Just found this channel and I'm already a big fan. You have a very calming disposition that's a nice contrast to the clips you watch
1:49:49 that laugh was amazing
I brainmelted through so much of this
“That don’t matter, bro”
So…respect each other? Good talk.
Damn my gf and I's relationship is so much easier than all this.
"Can I do x, y, or z"
"Why are you asking me?"
26:40 - 26:50 I never thought that I would be here agreeing to something that JustPearlyThings said. I just ended an almost 2 year long relationship because I felt like a mother instead of a partner. He would constantly joke about how I " was the man " and how I " wore the pants" in our relationship, it got to a point where it just felt embarrassing. This man had no aspiration for his future and has never worked a day in his life but, I was expected to do everything for him. Dude couldn't even make the decision if he wanted to shower without me having to approve it for him. Genuinely it was miserable, and I now am starting to feel like this was the same dynamic in all of my past relationship.
Now, I am only 19 so I'm probably not educated what wearing the pants of the relationship really means and I can get the arguement that I'm " the young, dumb and inexperienced " when it comes to dating. BUT I'm sick of feeling like someone's mother instead of being a part of a team.
Also, so no one who reads this gets it twisted I am not a fan of JustPearlyThings. I just thought it was bizarre that I agreed and just wanted to share my reasoning since Papa Gut disagreed to her statement.
i've had GFs that just refused to do any cooking or cleaning, not because of some feminist thing but just because they were lazy AF and didn't care. they thought it was weird that i knew how to cook and didn't just want fast food every day.
Idk why but it looks like you have a dip in lol also I think your beard looks amazing!
idk how to categorize them but Brits like the ones in this video are soooo obnoxious. why? idk.
missed so many good moments in the first part of the second video, also pearl rots my brain
Why can’t people control there voice when there on a podcast like damn stop speaking all at once and stop getting louder we can hear you
There’s way too many people in this conversation, it’s an absolute catastrophe to try to understand these English people clucking like chickens back and forth 😂
18:45 I’ve been wondering the same dang thing the more I watch her.
Pearl is either going to be: a virgin for the rest of her life
or: a single mother
Well, she's not a virgin. She had a morbidly obese homeless black boyfriend once who left her for a "hotter" (Pearl's words, not mine) woman. She may yet become a single mother, though. I've seen it happen to better women than her through no fault of their own. Fathers can die, abandon the family, cheat or decide for some other reason that they don't want to be in the relationship anymore.
Sorry but no man will ever tell me what I can and cannot wear. Married or not. It’s clothing. It’s the intentions of the person you should worry about. And I’m not a “woke teen” I am a 30 year old woman. My man has never and will never tell me how to dress. How I’m dressed has nothing to do with who I am as a person. That screams insecure from the man.
My parents have been happily married for 46 years and not _once_ has my dad tried to tell my mother what she could wear, where she could go, who she could go with or what she could do, and vice versa. It's so weird to me that there are people who think it's okay to do that to their partner.
1:54:24 Papa Gut jumpscare
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The downfall of pearl is that she has a lack of statistical data paired with a lack of life experience 😂
1:48:55 My favorite moment :)
All this cackling over nothing.
That's funny housephone commented bc destiny got inna huge fight with no jumper crew members not to long ago
1:41:52 Based
I find it absolutely wild that PG thinks it's normal for most couples to control what your partner wears? If my partner told me that I couldn't wear something because it was too revealing I'd think it was a joke. I don't know anyone in real life (and the people I know IRL are EXTREMELY offline, no social media) where this is a normal conversation between the husband and the wife. Even looking at the generation above me... none of their marriages have that. I can't think of any women who would be cool with that. Going to a a club= yeah I trust my wife, wearing a dress= no too revealing? That's very strange to me- esp to consider it online behavior...huh? What if your SO trusts you and it's your body? Am I supposed to check before I buy the dress or bathing suit or whatever? I've worn some... wild. That's fine if it works in their marriage, but it's definitely not "Terminally online behavior" it's very common in American as well. I think asking someone in the first place is very odd- and I didn't grow up in some radical place. (Yeah, long comment I'm a confused fast-typer.)
To be blunt dudes don't want their so to look like a whore.
Pearl is not saying if a man beats a woman, its your fault. Shes saying it says alot about you for choosing an abusive person, which led to you being a single mother. This is why to them being a single mother is a red flag. I dont agree with her, but im just explaining what she said.
This is still bad take on Pearl's part. Abusers aren't immediately abusive and they often display great qualities early in the relationship. By the time the abuser starts being violent, the woman is already bought into the relationship or the woman is being gaslit.
I haven't gotten to that point in the podcast yet, but this kind of logic is just faulty. 99.9% abusers don't start off showing their abusive tendencies. They're calculated in the way they operate. They gaslight and lovebomb their victims, do things like separate them from their support systems, and then when the victim has no ability to fight back they let their true colors come out. So no, it does not say a lot about the victim for choosing a partner who ends up being abusive
@@jilliansmaniotto2326 Saying if a man hits you its your fault is different than saying its a red flag if you are the kind of person that attracts abusers.
It is a fact that most abused victims have traumas that attracts abusers, they normalize abuse, and are not capable of seeing these red flags early.
I still dont agree because people grow and learn, but saying its victim blaming is just dumb that I have to take the other side.
@@itsjayswelly Only people raised in an abusive house or have been abused as a child wont see the red flags early in a relationship.
We can all end up with abusive people, but we will see the red flags early on, or atleast before we get married and have children.
Physical abuse is never a surprise, it takes years of manipulation and mental abuse before it reaches physical. And the abuser will test you before they physically abuses you. If you dont see the red flags, there is an issue with you, and the abuser will see you as a the perfect victim.
@@faysalals1 well Pearl was basically arguing that people should look into the future to not become victims, and I wish I was being hyperbolic but that’s exactly how it came off.
I mean if moms are better parents why is it called daddy issues,not the mommy issues raising them wrong? if a dad is missing it’s daddy issues when a mom is in a child’s life and attached it’s mommy issues. I’m pretty sure men’s households are more stable because men are more assertive with punishments or chores.
It’s daddy issues because the issues stems from the dad not being there, while most moms are so ….it’s not called mommy issues. Instead they say shit like “mommas boys”
the term "momma's boy" exists
@@bribro23I think it’s funny we call it that when stats show single fathers house holds are better than single mothers.
@@GhostMikey0 yes but that is usually only referring to someone who just shows a lot of love to their mom it can be used derogatory,but not as much as daddy issues is.I’m saying why focus on the person not involved and focus on the one that is?
@@dabombvoyage2906 this doesn’t correlate to what your trying to say….. the fathers would be IN the home as single parents so those kids can’t be affected by daddy issues, cause daddy issues only come from him not being there….cause if the dad being there makes better kids, then the dad NOT being there will cause issues in the kids “daddy issues” to be exact.
The way she reacted to being called bro was so fuckin dramatic. I’m technically British but I don’t say that I say I’m Scottish. We call everyone bro. Like I’ve called my maw bro 😂😂😂
How do you know that the lack of fighting for their child is because he doesn't care or he realizes that for whatever reason he knows he won't win so fighting is a waste of time and money
I've worked in family law. Most of these guys find another nest and don't want ro be a full time parent. Sorry, it's true.
Cause that’s obviously the fking case if you don’t live under a rock and get all your understanding of divorce courts from fking redpill clowns
@@antoniac1234 Almost every man in my family and friend/acquaintance circle who got divorced was like this. They'd immediately shack up with some other broad and her kids (usually the chick they were cheating on their wife with), and even though they could see their kids, they could only be bothered once in a blue moon... if that. My mom and her siblings, for instance, only heard from their father on their birthdays, by mail, because he was too busy with his other family that he made while he was married to my grandma (whom he knocked up at 14 as a 21 year old man).