Could something new involve role playing maybe with costumes? I’m not sexually actively yet (virgin). And am not in a relationship. Just thought I’d ask. I’m in my 40s. I’m Andrew.
Hi Andrew. Sure - role playing with costumes might be a way to add something new. As with any new idea in the bedroom, you want to be mindful of building trust, so setting boundaries and understanding one another's expectations will be important. Thanks for commenting with your question!
@@toolsforus Thanks ☺️. I’m a virgin. What advice do you have for virgin guys? As for the role play … I was thinking of educator (principal or teacher type roles) and student, or boss and subordinate. I’d kinda like to be the sub in these. How common is that? Man being the sub in straight (male and female) sex I mean. I also have outfit ideas 💡. Is that too much?
@@abkeener81 For role play, you'll want to ask these questions to your partner. See what about role play would be interesting or comfortable for them to try. That might include the different roles or outfit options. Compromising may be necessary, but it also may completely align with them - so it's hard to say until you're able to explore that with them. My advice for your first sexual experiences is to take the pressure off of it occurring. When you start to explore sex with your partner, it can be a trust-building experience as well as a physical one, so be open about your needs and listen to your partner's as well. Take it one experience at a time and learn about your likes and dislikes instead of focusing on your preconceived expectations. If you want to explore this further, perhaps exploring journaling or reflections on what intimacy and/or sex mean to you. If you want additional support, you may want to explore individual therapy as a reflection tool. I hope this helps!
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Could something new involve role playing maybe with costumes? I’m not sexually actively yet (virgin). And am not in a relationship. Just thought I’d ask. I’m in my 40s. I’m Andrew.
Hi Andrew. Sure - role playing with costumes might be a way to add something new. As with any new idea in the bedroom, you want to be mindful of building trust, so setting boundaries and understanding one another's expectations will be important. Thanks for commenting with your question!
@@toolsforus Thanks ☺️. I’m a virgin. What advice do you have for virgin guys? As for the role play … I was thinking of educator (principal or teacher type roles) and student, or boss and subordinate. I’d kinda like to be the sub in these. How common is that? Man being the sub in straight (male and female) sex I mean. I also have outfit ideas 💡. Is that too much?
@@abkeener81 For role play, you'll want to ask these questions to your partner. See what about role play would be interesting or comfortable for them to try. That might include the different roles or outfit options. Compromising may be necessary, but it also may completely align with them - so it's hard to say until you're able to explore that with them.
My advice for your first sexual experiences is to take the pressure off of it occurring. When you start to explore sex with your partner, it can be a trust-building experience as well as a physical one, so be open about your needs and listen to your partner's as well. Take it one experience at a time and learn about your likes and dislikes instead of focusing on your preconceived expectations.
If you want to explore this further, perhaps exploring journaling or reflections on what intimacy and/or sex mean to you. If you want additional support, you may want to explore individual therapy as a reflection tool. I hope this helps!
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