I married a foreigner 36 years ago until he transitioned to go back to ashes. My reason for marrying him was that I was at the age of almost passing the calendar days of a month. Been working professionaly, no boyfriend and there he was a penpal for 3 years. He was just there at the right time for me to decide I want to get married. I am lucky that he was a very nice person. Did not expect much from me, we enjoyed our time together even our big age gap. Of course he was financially secure. I did not have to work for our living here in the United States.
Your dead right stephen, the way women look for a partner comes down to survival,it's preprogrammed into all of us since the dawn of time.If you search for a strong appealing and successful man your chance of survival and prosperity is much higher.
What bothers me with the big age gaps, if there are children they will lose their dad at a young age. I was about 50 when my dad died but it would have been much tougher if I had still been a teenager.
*The number of men who have successful unions/marriages in SEA but specifically Philippines is a minority. *Beyond boomboom, I'd only get involved if she and her family were already very wealthy financing no less than 60% of all nuances. *In 2025, we're ALL equal! It's no longer a man's job to be a clean-up-your-mess sucker, provider, fool, ATM, etc... Cheers 🍻
Oh cause it is any where in the World not just the Philippines 🇵🇭 and Filipinas. Yes agree they look at the mixed children being very beautiful in looks.
You missed a key point. Mixed baby with light skin is the goal in filipino society. Many of the stars in the Philippines are from mixed bloodline from the western men.
Its the same process between men and woman the world over, but its amplified in Phil' for all of the reasons that you state. Its still an optimized partner selection process, aligned to our evolutionary programming.
I agree with a lot of what you are saying but we also have to remember that it does not apply to all women. Many wives, although far from a majority earns more than the husband. I myself am married to a filipina here in the Philippines who is highly educated and earns very well, so that she is not dependent on my income. I've always been attracted by intelligent and attractive women with humor and independence. But I respect we all have different preferences. I follow your talks here which contains a lot of wisdom and humanity.
Everyone wants stability. Sometimes when You add the mix of a partner, it can or will create instability. Because all it takes, is one to ruin the stability. And they don't think for the future or even having a contingency, saving, and emergency ~ do not touch money. That is for absolute emergencies. Never spend more than You earn and never live beyond Your means. It is OK to be selfish. Because You must help Yourself first. If You cannot help Yourself first, You cannot help others second. Unless You want to live like Mother Theresa. But she had the Church to fall back on. For a place to live, eat, and a place to sleep.
You suggested the percentage of female scammers in the Philippines matches the percentage of female scammers in the UK. Can you honestly believe that desperate people (financially) do not commit more crime (scams) than non-desperate people? I suggest you improve your research skills before talking about things you clearly have not thought thru.
There are different levels of scams, Still scams none the less. And i suggested women still scam in the UK. Just because a person is from a more prosperous country does not make them immune to it. Look at the fraud that's committed in the UK, Not only by men. So i suggest you open your eyes a little more Mr Dell
Much better than the last one, but you are still expressing a male centric opinion about what a young woman is attracted to. Your attitude stems partially from your cultural background and partially from being a man and projecting your feelings and preferences into women. A. Every relationship is unique to the 2 people involved. B. Many young women find much older men very attractive, contrary to your expressed belief. What you are saying essentially is you cannot imagine a young woman being attracted to an older man, because you as a young man would never be attracted to a much older woman. But that's not how women access the situation. Are there gold digger relationships, sure, are the majority of the age gap relationships that, clearly no.
hypergamy /hī-pûr′gə-mē/ noun The practice of marrying into an equal or more prestigious social group or caste. Act or practice of seeking a spouse of higher socioeconomic status, or caste status than oneself.
I married a foreigner 36 years ago until he transitioned to go back to ashes. My reason for marrying him was that I was at the age of almost passing the calendar days of a month. Been working professionaly, no boyfriend and there he was a penpal for 3 years. He was just there at the right time for me to decide I want to get married. I am lucky that he was a very nice person. Did not expect much from me, we enjoyed our time together even our big age gap. Of course he was financially secure. I did not have to work for our living here in the United States.
I respect a man who thinks like you sir and Thank you for how you view women.
You are most welcome, Thank you for watching
Men pick a trophy over money, women pick money over a trophy…..all over the world.
It is natural I'm married to a Filipina and I know it's not my looks.but I provide a good life for the family. And in return I get from her loyalty
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼Thank you for sharing another insightful and realistic video. So true! Greatly appreciated..
You are so welcome!
I completely agree with you .
Your dead right stephen, the way women look for a partner comes down to survival,it's preprogrammed into all of us since the dawn of time.If you search for a strong appealing and successful man your chance of survival and prosperity is much higher.
@@waynemuschamp234 Yes Wayne it's a natural instinct
What bothers me with the big age gaps, if there are children they will lose their dad at a young age. I was about 50 when my dad died but it would have been much tougher if I had still been a teenager.
*The number of men who have successful unions/marriages in SEA but specifically Philippines is a minority.
*Beyond boomboom,
I'd only get involved if she and her family were already very wealthy financing no less than 60% of all nuances.
*In 2025,
we're ALL equal!
It's no longer a man's job to be a clean-up-your-mess sucker, provider, fool, ATM, etc...
Cheers
🍻
Good common sense discussion.
Everyone Pays For Sex or With Sex.
All successful relationships are "Win Win".
Oh cause it is any where in the World not just the Philippines 🇵🇭 and Filipinas. Yes agree they look at the mixed children being very beautiful in looks.
Yes Des its true.
You missed a key point. Mixed baby with light skin is the goal in filipino society. Many of the stars in the Philippines are from mixed bloodline from the western men.
Watching from Singapore im filipino ofw.
Hello Dione from the Philippines. Thanks for watching.
Naked Ape Author: Desmond Morris. Still have a July1971 copy which I inherited!
@@MarkFlint-b4q It's a great book.
Yup all the world, only westren men forgot this
No one marries only for love
Its the same process between men and woman the world over, but its amplified in Phil' for all of the reasons that you state. Its still an optimized partner selection process, aligned to our evolutionary programming.
All the more reason to stay single & drama free, I've certainly no intention of settling down again.
Can we have Miras' input in some of your videos? Would be interesting to hear...
Yes Steven we will do some content relating to her tribe and topics of such things. Should be interesting.
I agree with a lot of what you are saying but we also have to remember that it does not apply to all women. Many wives, although far from a majority earns more than the husband. I myself am married to a filipina here in the Philippines who is highly educated and earns very well, so that she is not dependent on my income. I've always been attracted by intelligent and attractive women with humor and independence. But I respect we all have different preferences.
I follow your talks here which contains a lot of wisdom and humanity.
Yes thats true indeed.
the book name ,please
The naked ape by Desmond Morris
Everyone wants stability. Sometimes when You add the mix of a partner, it can or will create instability. Because all it takes, is one to ruin the stability. And they don't think for the future or even having a contingency, saving, and emergency ~ do not touch money. That is for absolute emergencies.
Never spend more than You earn and never live beyond Your means.
It is OK to be selfish. Because You must help Yourself first. If You cannot help Yourself first, You cannot help others second. Unless You want to live like Mother Theresa. But she had the Church to fall back on. For a place to live, eat, and a place to sleep.
Yes Kyle 100% agree
When l was in china the girls there want a man that owns a house car and has a job. With men out numbering the women 20 to 1 women can be picky.
Allan Pease.
No Desmond Morris.
That's the one. Desmond Morris
Money is number one for women anywhere in the world.
Some women are financially independent believe it or ñot. They're financially secure without a man. I know this comes as a shock but its true.
Yes that is very true indeed
@ Yes and money is numer one for them too.
You suggested the percentage of female scammers in the Philippines matches the percentage of female scammers in the UK. Can you honestly believe that desperate people (financially) do not commit more crime (scams) than non-desperate people? I suggest you improve your research skills before talking about things you clearly have not thought thru.
There are different levels of scams, Still scams none the less. And i suggested women still scam in the UK. Just because a person is from a more prosperous country does not make them immune to it. Look at the fraud that's committed in the UK, Not only by men. So i suggest you open your eyes a little more Mr Dell
Much better than the last one, but you are still expressing a male centric opinion about what a young woman is attracted to. Your attitude stems partially from your cultural background and partially from being a man and projecting your feelings and preferences into women.
A. Every relationship is unique to the 2 people involved.
B. Many young women find much older men very attractive, contrary to your expressed belief.
What you are saying essentially is you cannot imagine a young woman being attracted to an older man, because you as a young man would never be attracted to a much older woman. But that's not how women access the situation.
Are there gold digger relationships, sure, are the majority of the age gap relationships that, clearly no.
Thank you
@@Philippinedreaming Always happy to offer feedback.
I met a tall Chinese person one time which proves that Scandinavians are NOT taller. Checkmate
Hypergamy is always watching
hypergamy /hī-pûr′gə-mē/
noun
The practice of marrying into an equal or more prestigious social group or caste.
Act or practice of seeking a spouse of higher socioeconomic status, or caste status than oneself.
Very well stated my friend