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Our women are gone bro. Sick world
Stop saying our women, they’re clearly not ours
😂They were never brought to these shores to be "Your Women" but rather the white men's women and overseers. They are the Right hand of White supremacy. This is why the deleted 30 million of you through planned parenthood, get you locked up for child support and kamala Harris locked up 25,000 of you. Even the ones exonerated she refused to set free.
And now with 50% of them with herpes like guys like Jason Pope and Mike oliver. They're giving it to you like Jason pope and Mike oliver said they wanted to wipe bm out...
@@moveforward1776 damn, that stung. You right. It’s been so hard for me to accept that I just been in great disbelief they really don’t like us and treat us like monsters
@@longsocks1996if you gain an understanding of TMH, it won’t be as hard to accept. It’s also to be noted that there a virtuous women out there. It was never supposed to be easy in the land of the oppressed.
@@StillLearnin4332tmh hate u then and love brad just like keisha he bless brad and give blk men he’ll. Stop beLIEving in this religon
Literally there's a book where WM admit, they relegate BW for "Fun", & not wives. So no they don't treat BW better.
Book: The Dating Divide by PHD Sociologist Jennifer Lundquist
I didn't know Serena williams and eve were concubines...
THIS VIDEO AND COMMENTS JUST GIVE JEALOUS AND ASHY...
Absolutely. Funny and tragic all at the same time. @user-ye4bu6xh4c
@user-ye4bu6xh4cyep...
Right 😂😂
Let them keep on exposing themselves the better
The Internet is undefeated. I'm forty four years old. I noticed a pattern. If it's BM/WW relationship, they have a problem. Yet when it's BW/WM relationship..... All the congratulations and "leveling up" I called it the moving of the goal post.
BW/WW have a higher rate of DV and baby mamas.
Brad is putting yah in suitcases@@bevs9995
Keep in mind what they look like ..act like and sound like .And if you see one go the opposite direction. All divestor have the same look and feel .
That’s so true…
Imitation white….
I knew that the black Bachelorette was going to be reaching back after getting played by the sweet wm she chose on the show.
Any Black men that deal with her is pathetic
She tried to reach back lol
She didn't want to treat him like the prize, which is typical of swirlers and divestors... and Brad was like, "no way, I didn't sign up to be with a BW who's not going to treat me like a king, when they do it for all of the other Brads."
Once brothers know that these chicks have swirled they're only supposed to be used for sexual favors just like white men do.Wifing them up or long-term dating?Out of the question
Umar stay silent😂😂😂😂 and this was on national TV
Dr Umar got his degrees from a diploma mill and he knows who pays his rent, bills and food. He wouldn’t dare challenge those who pay him (BW) 😂
@@kiuk_kiksYep, fat boy know which side his bread is buttered 😂🤣😂🤣😂
😅😅 I know right!!
@@kiuk_kiksdegrees in what? He has all these degrees but constantly on UA-cam asking for donations! Why hes not putting degrees into seeking a real job?
@@kiuk_kikswhat degrees? He always on UA-cam begging for donations! I guess those degrees aren't genuine!!
Some Africans are truly broken 😞
Most*
@@dollarssign3440 Some!
I was just watching a Kid Rock short documentary. He came from a rich openly racist family and rebelled by getting into rap and dating bw. His black band mates said that he mostly slept with black groupies on the road. Later he ended up with a black baby mama that he put on child support for $25 a month after winning custody. Later on, when he switched to country/ rock music, he told everyone that he was not attracted to bw and ended up marrying Pam Anderson. Since then, he's pretty much been outed as a racist after recordings of him using the n word came out. The white rappers MGK and Post Malone have similar stories after switching from rap to rock. Bw's new favorite white rapper, Jack Harlow, has not made the switch yet but has only been seen dating white and Latinas despite getting all of the bw excited by saying that he loves bw.
Jack Harlow likes latinas which is why he never has to touch a BW but let this be known, those white rappers only went to BW as a last resort and got where they truly wanted to be once they got enough money
Wouldn't of been doing songs with me and you got brothers as band mates just think how them bw were treating them did they not know that he is racist from the start they are all corney and jack said he don't like bw and they still push that to the side
@D13vest Yeah, I remember MGK telling the black female reporter who was all giddy to be talking to him on the red carpet that he liked bw and that they gave the best head. He hasn't been seen with one since he blew up and started dating Meaghan Fox. The reporter would have never let a black rapper get away with that.
@@reemosama1 Whats interesting, many BM think that just because a WM dates or has children by BW, he's the "good" white when this proves that the most racist WM only date BW because they hit rock bottom.
@@D13vest that's very interesting they need to stop thinking that cause they aren't they be going crazy when they approach them while broke they have no idea
They thought we Forgot about those shows during the 90s 2000s, They're very embarrassing.
Thats why i ain't shocked by any of thr stuff we see online now. Its been there for decades
these ladys are sick
I real disorder
Don’t fall for the reach back men.
*Divestor logic ain't logical!!* 😂😂
I'm so glad you have this channel. Because so many failed and horrible relationships between bw and wm go wrong and highly unreported by both the media and bw. And you know you can only count on bw to cherry pick bm.
The amount of self hate bw have is sad
It's sad that they won't own it, either... they put it off on everyone else... they blame BM and WS for their self-hatred.
Facts. BW are the only demographic that has spent more time making certain other races (Asians, East Indians, & Whites) millionaires than themselves based solely off of their (bw's) deep-seeded self-hatred (weave & cosmetic sales), yet have the nerve to yap about 'building generational wealth' & call bm 'broke' and 'dusty.'
Facts. BW are the only demographic that has spent more time making certain other races (Asians, East Indians, & Whites) millionaires than themselves based solely off of their (bw's) deep-seeded self-hatred (weave & cosmetic sales), yet have the nerve to yap about 'building generational wealth' & call bm 'broke' and 'dusty.'
Facts. BW are the only demographic that has spent more time making certain other races (Asians, East Indians, & Whites) millionaires than themselves based solely off of their (bw's) deep-seeded self-hatred (weave & cosmetic sales), yet have the nerve to yap about 'building generational wealth' & call bm 'broke' and 'dusty.'
True stories :
I went to an HBCU where there was only 10 white guys. Those white guys got laid on demand you would have thought they were royalty.
I met one chick that I used to mess around with and she dated white men. Normally I put those type of chicks in a category even though it is an extreme turn off. She told me that she met a man that had a swastika. She swears that she didn't sleep with him but I believe otherwise.
I used to work with a guy who had a swastika tattooed on his arm. Believe it or not he had three black kids.
I've got a million stories. It's time for you to come out with t-shirts that state "Divestor Be gone"
The most racist white man be smashing black girls too. And the sad parts is, these white men are not looking for black women, black women are not their interests, but for some reasons black women actually go to them.
I’ve heard that there are some black women who are attracted to racist white; to them it is a challenge; it turns them on; they are attracted to racist white men.
There are some black women who are actually mentally unstable, mentally handicapped.
I heard about that. The whites that go to Black schools run thru BW then when they graduate, they get a white wife and have white children
Them HBCU girls are dangerous.
Come home for a minute = the reach back. Nasty work! 🤮
Pathetic. Prevention is better than the cure.
Salute brother. My soul has been resonated once again
They've become jokes.
It's all just about sex
And this is why they are still and forever be the bottom of dantes inferno dungeons...
Dante's dating pool too🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@givemhell4924 🤣🤣🤣
Wow...just wow 😮😮😮 this is just sad. Their self esteem is so low it's heartbreaking
The Most loyal group of women the hell you say black women!!!
I keep sending these to Dr Umar as ive met him before and he gave me his personal *personal* number after i went to his meet up in Newark NJ.
Umar has acknowledged these videos and keeps saying its an over exaggeration and this doesn't represent the sistas.
It's insane at this point. He keeps pushing out bs because most of his supporters are bw and hotep bm.
The damage is worse in Generation Z. Black men, literally do not feel obligated to pair with BW at all. There's no duty. Live for you.
Wow. Hes dishonest
@@D13vest he's probably on an alt account looking around. Grift.
It doesntttt none of black friends were checking for WM like that NONE I was clowned
Wow, 30 years ago they were like this?. In a '90s saying "yo, what a time to div-est, word up!"..
I am sure a BM have since married this 90s divesters
@@D13vest Sad but true..
Stockholm syndrome exposed in this era
WOMEN ARE IN OPEN REBELLION WITH THE MOST HIGH!!!! Now the giant exhales and the flies fall to their death...frozen. BUT I LOVE AND RESPECT THEM. NO MATTER WHERE THEY ARE IN LIFE. THEN I JUST WALK AWAY. RESPECT.
I've only been subscribed for a few months now, and I've seen sooo much evidence of how foul and treacherous keisha is, the funny thing is, I feel you've barely scratched the surface, it goes so much than this. #SYSBM #Divesting gone wrong
Yea, I used to have access to BWs secret groups on Facebook and other websites a long time ago and the white man worship is 100x worse than most can imagine.
@@D13vest🤣🤦🏾♂️
@@D13vest Hey provide a video or text of that "Dr. Welsing said Black women need for Black men to have no standards so black women can come back after being with multiple bottom shelf white men" quote.
WOW; the lies!! The deflection and projection are real. Nobody worships whiteness more than black men. From slavery days to the Jim Crow days, black men desired white women. During the 60’s instead of black men taking the time to build wealth in the black communities, they were marching to sit at lunch counters with whites, live in white communities, and be with white women. Now, that you black men got what you wanted, it was time for black women to get everything they wanted.
You black men worship white women so much to the point where you hate for black women to want the best. Accusing bw of the Miss Ann Syndrome is unfair. You black men are the only race if men who want their women to just experience abuse and struggle. You bm started things; now bw will finish it. Black women no longer owe black men a thing, especially loyalty. Black men never loved black women, and that’s okay because I never had love for them!
@@D13vestwhat is sad is that the socialisation begins almost at birth with both aunts cousins and mother being in "the sunken place" too often. Be careful my brothers.
They're always with a bottom shelf brad or a rich sugar daddy without fail, nothing about their dynamic is based on love, this is why they degrade themselves sexually for him, theres no other way to get his attention
Yup. Thats all BW got to offer WM.
But they always come back with the reach back and I'll tell Brothers do not take them back do not take them back let them stay out there let them stay on their side of the fence because in a minute they going to be coming back will biracial kids in tow in black men should say hell no stay over there
A lot of black men already do this. It’s always that simp group of men
S/Os 2 women like this that keep trolls like me in business 😂🤣😂🤣😂
Never deal with them if they've swyirled. Better yet, stop dealing with all of them.
Sounds like a plan for genocide 🤔just what the Zionist wants!
Do u have that energy for BM that swirl.?
The ones who haven't swirled aren't aggressive enough... Keisha has to actively pursue Brad or put herself in places where they are around and looking to mingle. A lot of Keishas are just lazy.
@saffylllama5609 : Black men don't swirl. You're already out of line, with that.
@@KtotheG: Lazy, indeed. 💯
How can we keep BW and WM together? This shouldn't be happening since BW is the most sought-after by most races of men besides BM. These relationships and marriges should last the longest since BW chose WM stictly for their character and standards. What am i missing? 😢
😂😂🕊️💯
british Men american Men but what do you think, about Black women with spaniards or italians?? Have you seen more couples?
The Talk needs to be had with our daughters. "Bring one of them home and Get Lost!
Parents do, and some of them defy what they say and end up not talking to them anymore it's the daughters more than the sons
And your sons 🤷🏾♂️
@@4411825 You think they aren't talking with the sons why do you think he said daughters
@@4411825they probably do why you think he said the daughters
@@4411825 they probably do this is about the daughters cause they date out more
It's cap. They'll use any excuse to chase Brad.
5:59 “Let me come home for a little”
Meaning let me use the black man as a rebound relationship. When I gather my self back together with the black man and I am in a safe mental space, a safe physical space, I am going back to my true preference; the white man. It never fails.
DO THESE DIVESTERS HAVE LIFE INSURANCE ?
Do the black men that date WW have insurance??
Nope. No. If they did most black women will not be alive today.
4:57 oh wait there's so much more, but I will literally will not put that on the internet
But the 1 time a BM doesnt say HI to her, she will make sure to never let us forget it
Yep they are so done out here
You dug deep in the archives, have you heard of the "Quadroon Balls?"
Yup. This is why BW wear wigs with those baby hairs because they are trying to compete with mixed race women. Mixed race prositutes were paid more and they often went by the hair texture to see how Black someone was. The coarser the hair, the less you got paid and the less likely WM were to wife you. The "blacks" that WM married were most times, mixed.
Oh snap here comes another beautiful love stories 😂
They are not women brothers they alway been Brads women.
A K.A Brads broads
Facts.
Spoils of war
@@voidnubisBrad whores it even worst in the mother land I’m telling you
This channel is a eye opener. I was always a sptetkic. I have no complaints only suggest that these videos be in a playlist. Other than that great videos and channel. Keep up the great work.
That last lady better stay the f over there , where ever she was
She’s using black men as a rebound relationship before eventually going back to chase white men.
0:17
They been divesting for decades and still only getting %1 success rate.
Keep these stories coming!
I LOVE your videos that I have seen so far,period.Keep doing what you're doing on your channel infinitely.
I appreciate that
Keisha Keisha-ing
What I admire about BM is at least when a BM got used and played by a wyte or non-BW they will admit it, but it seems that for the most part when BW get used and played by wyte and non-BM they never want to admit or accept it. There's nothing wrong with admitting you made a mistake. It's part of growing, and it also means that you're human.
Because WM do BW 10x worse than WW do to BM. The worst that the WW can do is take money and call the police on a BM but WM do the most deranged, xesually criminal behavior with BW. This is common with BW/WM but have seen for decades how BW would look for highschool aged, very young black girls to bring to WM for degenerate acts. BW would go to jail for life if they told the truth
@D13vest look at the Debarge Family, I don't believe their mother ever publicly admitted that she made a mistake with that their father. A lot of BW are delusional and refuse to admit when they made a mistake with a WM, but let it be BM, and they tell everyone about how he did them wrong.
@D13vest they either have too much pride admit they got used or they are so delusional they don't believe/understand that they were used. But let it be a BM, and they have no problem with letting everyone know how bad he did them.
Yea which is ironic since a BM has never treated them as badly as WM do
@@bubblybubbles4023DeBarge mother knew, and saw all the abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse, xxxesual abuse, mulestation, r’ape and everything else against her own and she didn’t report it, she didn’t tell anyone, all because she did not want to loose that white skin. she is also to blame for all the abuse and trauma the DeBarge children went through as kids.
Did the great Dr. really speak on accepting bw after they’ve been used by wm? I’d like to see that lesson specifically or just where she address it.
Yea
Where tho?
The COWS?
@@StillLearnin4332 She did a lot of cows episodes. I am going through her book to see if I can find the quote
Not Sally Jesse Rafael and Ricky Lake 😂
Have you done Naomi Campbell? Also, what do you think about Candace Owens?
Naomi Campbell the xes trafficker? Candace Owens is coming
Lol you should do Paris Milan as well she is the grand wizard
@@D13vestAnd please do Kayla Nicole!
1:06 Dr. Frances Cress Welsing warned of this in the 70s
Don’t ever let other people devalue you…
Stockholm Syndrome
5:06 ““Even though someone can be horrible to you, you still want to be with that person. Even though the person is terrible and horrible towards you.
Stockholm syndrome is a proposed condition or theory that tries to explain why hostages sometimes develop a psychological bond with their captors. It is supposed to result from a rather specific set of circumstances, namely the power imbalances contained in hostage-taking, kidnapping, and abusive relationships.
Stockholm Syndrome refers to a psychological phenomenon where hostages or abuse victims develop emotional attachments or positive feelings towards their abuser.
It is thought to be a survival mechanism in the way that a person may create bonds with their captor and abuser as a method of coping with the extreme and scary situation they are in.
Confessions of a former devestor aka myself , I did it cause I was lonely , I did it cause I was broke ,I did I cause i didn't know my worth , it's something I can't take.back. I did it with a 62 yr old white man. Just for the experience and it was horrible . Ive learned from my mistakes
What was so horrible about it and did you front in front of your friends?
No I didn't publicly display my relationship with the old man but with the other divestorship I believe we were together and he was younger closer to my age , I took pics with him. I was fronting cause I acted pro black publicly but In private I was a lusting and chasing after white dudes
But what was so horrible? What did the WM do?
@@D13vest I can tell you the full story privately
@@D13vest maybe I can make a video and send it to you
Muhahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! Another heavy hitter on sunny day 😂
They choose THEM because WE were never wanted them.
I read a book 📖 you recommended " pieces of a puzzle reneathia tate " do you have other books like that you can recommend? Like i have mentioned before do you have a paypal account . Theres no cashapp in canada.
The dating divide, daughters of the trade and the link in the description of the video has a article attached with more information
Massa?????? 🙃🙃🙃😫😫😫😫🤬🤬🤬🤬
Hmm ok I see
Where's umar at. 😂😂😂
But would send all of your videos to Umar Johnson lol 😂😂
Why? The only thing Umar gon do is blame us. It's Jermaine's fault! It's always Jermaine's fault!
#SYSBM
5:55 😒
3:38 really he couldn't find a white girl so u were his only option
Dr AMOS WILSON ❤RIM
3:08
Not very many YT people in this comment section (in mass numbers) lol interesting....
And that's a good thing, because you don't want the comment section to be infested with diseases and i doubt the owner of this channel knows how to ban them from her channel like what AC does on his channel.
@@calebedwards3266 we here 🤪👍🏼
These lady are calling them master wild 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂and they like it crazy , yahh i aint going anywhere near them
Why does it matter if a BW dates a WM? BM does it often and no one trip. Why the double standards
Lol i think you got it the wrong way we get shit for dating ww
@@TheMutantssolosyourverse Facts!!
@@TheMutantssolosyourversenowadays a lot of bw are starting not to care
@Hadda23 lol, not really, whenever every black woman is making think pieces on the reason why bm date ww
I'll plant one gold follicle in Devil Jin's hair
Then create a love laser that gets aimed everywhere
A square is a square so I call it teddy bear
And I still love all of the people that never cared
Now it's to time to learn so I don't stay the same
Cause this gold quarter used to believe he was in the drain
Then bang the truth is beautiful but it hurts
I love you God, but I cry at the fireworks
I see a droplet of pain, and see a droplet of peace
But it's driving me insane, cause it bothers the beast
But the beast is free to be whatever it wants
It's still apart the of the grandiose treasure I hunt
But there's all one piece to this beautiful life
So I know why Shanks keeps on chewing the knife
So...to the back and the front I go
I keep picking up pain cause I love my bros "IT WAS ME" SYSBM LOL
I dont deal with colonizers. I grew up playing with YT. So, no mystery been in their homes. Wasn't nicer than ours, and we lived next door.
I attract international men. So, from all over.😊
“I attract international men.”
What she meant to say is that she only attracts white men.
In the Divestment circles of black women, ‘international men’ is a code word for white men.
She only attracts, date, xxxes white men.
😂
5:29
TRUE OGRE man. I don't wanna understand it anymore. Tekken tag tournament two is a game I enjoy but don't like to play. But I respect it and much love. LOL I'm out...righteously. I know where I'm going.
*(**2:18**)* (massa) 🤦🏾 I bet $300 she's a tether!
Jason Roger Pope got 600 FBA women from South Carolina infected with HIV.
ALL FBA.
You keep trying to pass the buck off because you are saddened at the state of your community where your own women committed genocide of aborting 20million FBA children since 1976 to now .
Let's be frank your community been fractured and your own mothers sabotage you before you can say your ABC's.
Worse , whites raise black boys better than black mothers .
You are looking to blame any one and anything so you can save face .
It's tether this and that .
You no better than any other black ethnicity.
Your FBA brethren are now becoming passportbros to seek better lives among Latinos or afrolatinos who have replaced you all politically and very soon financially.
No body is going to kiss your asses it's over for reparations .
Marching is no longer effective and FEMA are ramping building camps who do you think it's for ...political rioters aka Leftist FBA extremist.
Bro I got no issues with you ...but trust and believe you all got way way way bigger issues then us Tethers.
You FBA blackmen keep being backstabbed and sabotaged by your own women, everyone see it .
My mom came to this to country in the mid 70s .
Even she has spoken out on why you FBA black males are undermined by your own women .
She saw and heard it working with FBA women throughout the 80s and 90s as a nurse.
She didn't even want me to date FBA women claiming they make poor wives and mothers.
I still dated a few behind her back ...boy was she right about their poor behavior.
But still it's tethered this and that.
Take that Crap back to tariq nashed.
Actually man most of them be American black women. There are tether divestors but let’s not try to cope. It’s FBA women that goes the craziest with this right next to African women
@@livinglarry8320 Wrong! Not most. You really don't know these Africans and Caribbeans be on some next level ish. Don't get me wrong. I'm very aware we have some here, but Zaddy over there is like *"Zeus"* to them. 🤦🏾😂
Black American women divest the most due to access, the only problem is that there are other races of women here that WM would rather be with. This is why Black people for the most part still look black and not like your average hispanic but that time is coming.
@@D13vest So what you're saying is "if" BW that are in America could compete more for WM they would definitely jump the fence!?
You were an inside joke for some sick cruel intentions prank lol and you walking around laughing smh imagine that mentality raising your kids and yes they have been raising our kids which explains alot!
Yup
can you do "Krystal Anderson"
Wow
@@D13vest you can't make this stuff. Even when it works it fails
@@D13vestNah, leave that one alone.
She died while given birth and the child died too.
I don’t condone her divestment journey, but this one is too emotional.
Could she had lived if she had a married a black man, who knows, maybe. But it’s too emotional. Leave this one alone.
She passed due to medical neglect. I will explain in the video. She had to advocate for herself alone.
@@Lavonne1 She probably wanted that biracial child so bad, it cost her her life. Probably the doctors told her there might be complications if she went ahead with the pregnancy or if even if she gets pregnant they might be complications and she still went ahead with it.
That biracial child is one hell of a drug for black women.
Sorry that she lost her life during pregnancy and also for her biracial child that didn’t make it.
Dear Black men, the same thing happens to you as well... These other women see you as the weak one where their men dont play those games with them. They know they will have you eating out of the palm of your their hands....Have a nice day..
Only those that don't know how to vett the women they choose. Regardless too many BW are pathetic in their pathology about WM. It's weird and sad.
Unlike most posters on this board I don't think this is all BW, but yes, too many. Which is the point of this channel, basically. At least from what I can tell.
This channel does show the sad mindset I have seen in personal experience. It's genuine self hate the the very thing that they try and project onto BM. Which is actually much more rare in my experience/ interactions with guys who date out. By and large BM do NOT hate bw. The hate is reserved for these types of 🤡s in this video.
True, hence any divestor, BM or BW, is a lost cause and should not be considered as part us our community.
ua-cam.com/video/q1dJvuOu_sw/v-deo.html
so what are B/W supposed to do?
A lot of racism floating around in this comment section
Lmao racism 😂
No racism just facts
Rent free in your head
Sis, the cutest thing happened to me today. I got in my elevator, and there was a 12 year old Arab boy. He chose the lobby, and when the elevator stopped, he opened the door for me and held it till i walked thru. I thanked him and left.
Men open doors for me all the time. I love being a black woman i get a lot of for free.😊
Lusting after a 12 year old? Gross
@D13vest You are really sick get some help. This was about home training. What is wrong with yall? Who thinks like this but an insane person.
This story has a bit of flirtation with opedovilia.
@oseiosei6649 For someone deranged, it probably does.
Are you saying you are chasing after Arab men ( or boys) now.?
Are you expanding your divestment portfolio from white men to Arab men?
Arab men are known to be a very volatile divestment option?
If I were you, I will think twice before putting any of your savings in the Arab divestment portfolio.
Lol@ black men like to talk and bbq😂
We know the truth hurts Bonnie
5:06 Stockholm Syndrome
Even if the captor or abuser is unkind most of the time, but they show kindness once, or if there is a lack of abuse in a situation where they would usually show abuse, this can be misinterpreted as kindness or affection.
This shows ties with tragic arrangements, which are emotional attachments that develop in a relationship characterized by abuse.
5:06 “Even though someone can be horrible to you you still want to be with that person. Even though the person is terrible and horrible towards you.
Gentlemen, Keep moving internationally.
5:06 Stockholm Syndrome
There is evidence that people who are in traumatic situations together are likely to form strong bonds with each other.
This may be a possible cause for why this happens in hostage-captor relationships, meaning the strong bond in the traumatic situation may be misplaced by the captor.
If the captor shows kindness in any way, this may be misinterpreted as the person being a generally kind person, with the hostage clinging onto this hope as a coping mechanism.
Even if the captor or abuser is unkind most of the time, but they show kindness once, or if there is a lack of abuse in a situation where they would usually show abuse, this can be misinterpreted as kindness or affection.
This shows ties with trauma bonds, which are emotional attachments that develop in a relationship characterized by abuse.
5:06 “Even though someone can be horrible to you, you still want to be with that person.”
This black woman just explained what Stockholm syndrome is.
This black woman is exact definition, the image, the epitome, the definition of Stockholm syndrome.
Stockholm syndrome is a proposed condition that tries to explain why hostages sometimes develop a psychological bond with their captors. It is supposed to result from a rather specific set of circumstances, namely the power imbalances contained in hostage-taking, kidnapping, and abusive relationships.
Even if the captor or abuser is unkind most of the time, but they show kindness once, or if there is a lack of abuse in a situation where they would usually show abuse, this can be misinterpreted as kindness or affection.
This shows ties with tragic arrangements, which are emotional attachments that develop in a relationship characterized by abuse.
Because of his white skin, this black woman is willing to take all the abuse racism that the white man poured on her.