What to do on your 21st birthday when you have no friends
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- Опубліковано 2 гру 2024
- Here’s what to do on your 21st birthday when you don’t have friends or can’t spend it with them!
Main thing is that in the grand scheme of things, it doesn’t really matter. I’ve had big parties and small parties and to be quite honest, the big ones never really made me feel happier than the small ones.
Post my 21st birthday now, I am so glad that I made the decision to spend it with my family. It was an amazing 21st ❤️
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Disclaimer to any of my friends watching! I’m talking about how I felt a couple months ago and my friendship issues resolved.
omg I never tought I would type"how to spend your birthday with no friends" but 2 was oddly specific
AzuliaZazu HAHA specific is awesome!
I guess its an age where a lot of people dont have friends most likely because we are so busy
The “self worth” portion I realized I really needed to hear because my 21st is 2 days away now and I felt so alone, so thank you 💞
Halle Nicole happy early birthday! I’m so glad it helped 🥰
At least u get a pretty smile. 🖕
I’m just now seeing this you must be 25 now 🤭I’m alone I have my kiddos but you know one wants to always have some fun alone with friends but which one s??? lol I don’t see them around me idk what to do my birthday is on the 29th !I live far away from my siblings my dad mother is min another state !
my 21st is two weeks away... i watched this with tears running down my face
I hope you have a really great birthday and incorporate some self love ❤️❤️
how did it go? i get it, mine is in a week and some days and i cried a lot already
my birthday is in 3 hours and my neighbor his birthday is also the same day as me. i’m lonely in my living room crying because i lost all my friends and no family even cares meanwhile when i walked out the door 30 min aho my neighbor opened his door to his family surprising him.. i never felt like this like i feel so empty.
Lol same
@@spookyroxy1370 Ah noooo. How are you now?
It's my 20th birthday. I'm not calling my 'friends' to hang out, they don't even care. Lol last year almost everyone said 'happy birthday' a week later
After spending my 19th alone(honestly cried that time), I decided that I just didn't need to care about my birthday anymore and treat it like a normal day. On my 20th, I spent the day hiking by myself(one of my favorite things) and treated it like a normal day. I wasn't exactly happy, but I didn't cry and that was what a success. Now, my birthday is coming up and I plan to spend it similarly. Except instead I will make or buy myself a cake and eat it in at one of my most favorite hiking spots. This would be the first time in 3 years I'd have cake for my birthday, after getting over an eating disorder. While I am still acknowledging it, I am just treating it like a normal day, but with eating cake.
If your birthday passed already I hope you enjoyed that cake and hikes !
Omg girls travel with your family !! If you have no family travel by yourself. Especially if you’re 21+. Be open to new experiences you’ll attract everything you need.
Happy birthday to anyone who’s birthday is near!!
- what you think controls your thoughts&feelings and controls your action, always find the positive side of everything and do the best for yourself!
- listen to your fav song, eat your fav food, love your family cause when you think about it, anyday can be your birthday 🥰
Wherearemyoranges yessssss love this ❤️❤️
Thanks. My 21st I’m in a few weeks and I’m spending it alone so this made me feel better
Happy birthday sweethearts. You're all amazing people with or without friends.
Thank you
The “self worth” portion really hit me hard. I really needed to hear that. This year I cut out a lot of toxicity which meant my social circle shrank and it really made me feel worse rather than better. Thank you so much. 😭❤️
Oh gosh I know the feeling too well - the right people will come at the right time ❤️
When I saw your video I laughed because I remembered I don’t have any friends lol my 21st Birthday is today, the 21st of July. Thanks for the birthday wish and for the vid🙃
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! Wishing you and awesome day and all the friends in the world
😁Thank you Krystal L! Means a lot! Thank you Thank you😁
Happy birthday, today is also my bd. 21 july
@MillennialPodcast hey we're birthday buddies! How old did you turn today, if you don't mind me asking?
@@adam_aburas I'm 22 today :) hope it wasn't to bad for u !
It's my 21st Birthday tomorrow and my lifes been pretty rough lately, thank you for this video, you've made me get out of that mindset of the big 21 being something big or special.
Me too I hope it gets all better🥹
And it's mine tomorrow
Becoming 21 in two weeks and all years are the same since I was 16, except from the fact that every year I see a video about spending it alone but for my age. At least I have a tradition xd
Celia Aparicio happy early birthday ✨ fingers crossed the tradition is in the past ❤️ or you make some awesome new activity traditions too!
seriously thank you for this, i have lost alot of friends that i thought were true and i can't force myself to host a party knowing theyre fake. I appreciate this
i lost all my friends in late 2019. i've decided just to do all the things i love (gaming, eating, going to fav places) on my 21st this upcoming january and spending time with family and my cats ☺️ thank you for making us feel okay
That sounds so fun! Happy birthday way, way in advanced! 💕
Thanks it's my birthday today and u are the first one to say happy birthday to me
thanks for this , so many people have been saying "why arent you doing anything!! its your last big birthday!" which has been making me miserable, its at least nice to know im not on my own
You have many more birthdays to come, don’t let what they are saying get to you 🥳💗
I was looking on Pinterest ideas for birthdays and found this Self-celebration idea. Now I’m here looking how it did go to others. I’m celebrating my birthday solo on January 6. Probably I’ll be booking an hotel for myself.
Hope it went well!! Happy belated birthday ❤️
I turn 21 in 4 weeks and realize I don't have friends 😂so I'll be getting a hotel and getting drunk alone
@@demikinsey9992 omg hehe I was thinking to get a hotel on my 21st next year ( I just turned 20, alone as well, no celeb, no gifts, no party, no wishes) but I was thinking if I shld invite my high sch frens or not. Cos it seems they wna come if I ask, but I don't feel they want to celebrate my birthday for me bcos it's my special day they probably just wna go to a party n hv fun, they not even gna plan a party for me or a surprise, I'm thinking if I'm better off going alone like this. Without fake friends or ppl who won't do smt extra for me on my bday around
Birthday twins 🥂
I lost most of my friends a week before my birthday (which is this exact day last year). I didn't exactly have a happy birthday but a year on and I've gotten over it faster than I thought. I still don't have many friends so I use the spare time recording covers on my UA-cam channel and it makes me just as happy. I watched this a few months ago and it really helped :) Thanks :)
Mel OD I’m sorry to hear that but I’m glad you’re moving on ❤️ also woooo! Keep singing and posting!
Today is my 21st birthday and I don’t really have friends, I’m so happy this video exists.. thank you 💕
Ahhhh happy belated birthday! 🥳🎉 you’re so welcome ❤️
I came here because idk i feel like so unmotivated on my birthday which is today and i feel like i don't have friends or things to do on my birthday. Sometimes i feel scare on my birthday, the fact that i'm getting older and the responsibilities that i'll face or the fact that people saying happy birthday to me on my special day (i know it's weird but i always prioritize other people and i never being specialized by other so i just feel it's weird and unusual) but yeah i feel grateful for what i have rn.
I’m usually the most positive person in the world- writing a comment like this completely isn’t me at all! I spend all year trying to make people feel special on their birthday, throwing them parties, making them cakes and contributing more than I can afford to amazing presents. I’m the happy, excitable one and I’m definitely a people pleaser. It became apparent only a few minutes ago that things aren’t going to be the same for my own birthday- no presents, no cards (apart from from my Nan bless her!) and no party or day out. There was clearly no surprise being planned because everyone was busy organising another girls big weekend so I decided to stop moping and plan my own... only to watch 19 people, one by one, tell me that they couldn’t make it. I know I’m so blessed otherwise and as I said, I’m usually so positive and bubbly but I can’t help feeling utterly heartbroken on my birthday 💔xx
Lilmiss Mai nooooo babe 😢😢 I know how that feels and it sucks but do you know why they can’t make it? Keep inviting more people if that’s what you wanna do but doing something lavish for yourself also can’t hurt 💕 happy birthday!
the world needs more people like you in it ❤️
I know people are busy and have their own life. But if you go out of your way to be so nice and kind on birthdays and always show up for you friends and they can’t return the favor this one time, maybe it’s time to re-evaluate your inner circle. And I’m the type of friend you are. I always go above and beyond to make people feel special and loved and I’ve had to learn recently that friendships should not be a one way street
I know it hurts most
Today is my birthday
I also did more to my friends gift them presents arranged surprises but today is my birthday....no surprises no gifts... even no birthday wishes too..
Next year treat yourself. Make a day all about you. Take yourself out because you deserve it. You are nobody’s first priority so make sure you are your own. Happy belated.
I'm nearly 40 lost mates when they all got married I feel I don't have any real mates no days sad but she is right
Sorry to hear that Matty 😓 I hope you have a great birthday x
Hey Krystal L . Im a parent of a nearly 20 year who had a meltdown last week - From what I thought he had a group of friends at his Church but of course 'nobody'' wished him a happy Birthday (and they new apparently ) - He reckons that he won't worry about a 21st . I got me think 'so why do we do these things ' ? . 21 is not some life changing number where something dramatic changes. So much pressure is put on the 'fakeness' . Your comment about the Instagram is very true . Those posts are just 'popularity ' contests and nobody will go back to view them in a years time. So I hope one days he finds a couple of 'real ' friends and can leave the 'fake' friends behind . Bless you this is very good advice
My 21st bday is tomorrow & I am balling my eyes out because I never felt so alone.
I have no friends, very little family.
🙋🏾♀️ I’m gonna be 23 on the 28th , I have celebrated my birthday twice in my entire life ,I’m pretty much a loner 😂 I usual don’t look forward to celebrate but something feels different this year. My family situation is kinda toxic not tryna do the whole stay home with people I’m always bickering with 🤣🤣 I’m going to actually go outside this time #teamsociallyawkward#teamintrovert
If you have no friends and your reading this dw you are awesome it’s not your fault that people rather gossip that laugh at your awesome twisted humor... people are boring. Remember people fake being friends all the time but you are to much of a realist to waste your time on meaningless conversations and relationships.
TRAPANESE yessss the realist part is so true! Happy birthday in advanced ❤️
I feel this 100% happy early birthday!❤️hope you have a nice day
Yeah, I don't really jibe with the fake who don't feel me. The realest. 😁
@Paris yesss girl!
Girl yes!!! My family is extremely toxic and I've outgrown my friends this year. Never have I felt so lonely. This year feels different but I have to remember to treat myself because I deserve it.
This hits deep, thank you for such an honest and awesome video! ❤️
Jay Frances you’re so welcome 💕
i cried when you talked ab worth. gosh im sobbing. ty, i feel seen
Dont stress yourself about doing your birthday with people, friends at all cost. You have all your fucking life to do your birthday with people who love you. Youre going to meet these people and you will do this amazing birthday. In the meantime take care of yourself and enjoy your day. Youre amazing.
I'm almost 20 and I'm still looking for friends while in college. It's not easy, but just know everything always works out. If you need a friend, I'm here for you. 👍❤️
Needed to hear this! About to turn 43 and this is perfectly relevant to me. Thank you!!
🥰 early hbd!
Totally needed to hear this!My bday is today and I don’t really have any friends either,just spent time with my family and that’s ok
DeeDee Napue happy biiiirthdayyyyy to you 🥳
it's my 21st bday tomorrow and this made me v happie, thank u krystal
hey girly , it’s my birthday today. leo vibes ♌️. thank you for this video . I always have a hard time celebrating my birthday but watching this video this morning has definitely changed my pov of how this day will go :)
Thank you so much for this, I feel like every time my birthday comes around I find myself dreading it. My 21st is coming this August on the 26th, between quarantine and not having any close friends i already figured it won’t be exciting. Still, I want to do my best to enjoy being me and take control of how I feel about it. 💕🌸
Haven B. Happy birthday way way in advanced and yassss girl! Do something that makes you happy 💕
Hey my birthday is on 26th of August too, birthday twins.
Love this. I'm early 30s and feel guilt tripped by friends with a few kids and a boo. They don't realize that life isn't for everyone. Solo is good too! Betty White out living everyone. Cut others agendas and stress. I love these videos!
😂😂😂😂 so true!
This broke my heart but built it right back up. Go you for being so raw and honest ❤️
pooja kunaparaju ❤️❤️
My 21st is coming up in a few months and i realized i have no friends your video really has helped me not feel like sad/disappointed ❤thank you💕
Robyn Wallis you’re so welcome! ❤️❤️ happy birthday in advanced!
im about to turn 18 which is a milestone in the uk, im glad i found this video thank you for making it you're such a lovely soul
Turned 21 today alone in another country without my family, thank you so much for this video genuinely helped me a lot.
I probably didn't have friends either when i turned 21 but i had family and drunk cousins where we were having a blast with each other
Hello I am 20 years old. My Birthday was on Thursday May 9th. I can't believe I'm in my 20's now. I also can't believe that I will be 21 years old next year on Friday May 9th, 2025.
Your so cool! My birthday is Wednesday & this helps alot, I felt alone like I was the only one that was gonna do it but hey! Lol thanks
Vanessa Rodriguez hehe you’re welcome! Happy birthdayyyyyyy 🙃
This was so nice ☺️ Super late but happy 21st from a fellow Aussie!!! Glad you had an amazing time after all 🥰
She thank you 💕💕
todays my birthday. I feel very alone and im about to go to work. When you said happy birthday it made me smile and almost cry. Thankyou.
Ahhh happy birthday again ❤️ I hope you’ve had a good day at work :)
Happy Belated Birthday 🌝❤
Thank you for this. You made so many people feel incredible.
I’m so glad it’s helping ❤️ thank you leaving this comment - made my day!
well, I have two days left to consider how to spend my 21st birthday(oh it's lunar birthday) and I seem find some sparks now. THX!!!
all the soon to be 21 with no friends should do a massive Skype party
btw thanks for the video,really helped,subscribed :)
AzuliaZazu no worries! I’m glad it did! Also, woohoo! Thanks ☺️
Well. I’m celebrating my birthday alone at an Hotel! It would be a great idea to have a skype party with strangers 😂
@@keyladamaris1072 uh just saw this ,did you have a nice one? ,well at least thanks to covid many people had to celebrate by themselves so the ones that were gonna do that anyways can blame it on the virus
get a mani/pedi, haircut, special meal, massage, buy a nice piece of jewellery, visit an art gallery/museum, take a train ride or public transport to somewhere new to you, buy a beautiful journal and start your new year from your birthday, go to the gym or pool or do some exercise, meditate with the sunrise/sunset, get a psychic/tarot/palm reading, write a poem or letter to yourself to read on your next birthday ...
Is it weird to say that I am kinda getting used of spending my birthday alone? I don’t even feel like anything on that day. This year, I turned 21 and I studied the whole day because I had an exam the next day. I think a birthday is just another day, and whatever you see on Social Media is not real. I think everyone sees it that way…
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Next week will be my 23rd birthday and I really needed to see this video.
Lol I have no friends now bcuz I cut everybody off and the reality of my birthday being next week really sunk in for me today and made me feel sad. Im embarking on a new journey and need no toxicity and dead weight in my life.
I’m glad I watched this video bcuz it really uplifted my spirit and made me come back to the realization that this is a new year of life for me and despite me not having people in my life, every new year is worth celebrating and my worth isn’t determined by others but by myself! Thank you so much! I still don’t know what imma do for my birthday but this gave me some great ideas!😂❤️✨
THIS VIDEO IS SO RELEVANT RN
I support u , make urself happy and don't care abt people hating u
Sidali advices thank you ❤️ I’m getting there!
Tomorrow is my 22. Birthday
My whole Family is in vacation
All my Friends are at work
This will be my best Birthday
Finally I can enjoy the silence
I couldn't be happier right now
Btw I don't use Instagram nor Twitter
But I can listen to my Favorite Music, watch some movies and play games ok my Sound System I have build myself
(Its very loud and everyone gets upset)
And I wont have a single quarrel
I have 2 Parents and 5 Younger siblings
:^) guess you can see why i am happy :^)
If you love chilling with yourself, then awesome! Wish I had that sometimes. HBD!
@@Krys579 thank you :)
Watching this on my 22nd birthday:) feeling sad and lonely but I will overcome this
You seem like such a lovely person I wish I had a friend like you
shnoople shapoopi aww so sweet ❤️❤️
This video is so oodly specific. I feel like a lot of us have friends.....but they're friends who might text once a week and aren't really there for you ever. And it feels wrong when all of the sudden it is your birthday and for just one day everyone acts differently and the next day you're lonely again.idk if it sounds petty, but I don't want to be surrounded by people who will forget about me on the next day ig.
currently spending my 23rd bday without any friends! i really like the idea of doing something philanthropic :) also going to have dinner with my family instead. Thank you for this video ❤️
Officially your 198th subscriber! I guess youtube suggests this video to me because they have noticed me watching too much videos and they know that my 21st birthday is coming up. I love your video in terms of the message as well as the editing style! Fall in love immediately after this video! Even though I do feel like I have friends(not a lot) to celebrate, you remains me the importance of other people other than friends which are me myself and my family. I appreciate that! 💕💕Keep up the great work!
Chloe Tang thanks so much Chloe! ❤️ i hope you have a really awesome birthday!
my 21st is in two weeks, my coworkers were trying to give me ideas on how to celebrate and all of them were “go to brunch with your friends” “go over to your friends house and have everyone bring a different type of drink” etc etc. ive been home for like 6 hours and only stopped crying to nap and eat and then went right back to crying. will update after i watch the video
i am still crying BUT i really needed that self worth talk in the beginning. i KNOW i’m worth more than some party or going out with friends, but some part of me wishes i had something more, or someone who wasn’t obligated to care about it (i know my family isn’t technically obligated to care but,,, they kinda are). either way i decided i’m going to go to my local cat cafe ! it’s one of my favorite places and i’ve never actually been there by myself so it’ll probably be a good experience ! and since i’m not planning around anyone else like i usually am i can go early in the morning when i’ve always wanted to and when the cats are more active since nobody i’ve gone with has been a morning person.
anyways happy birthday to anyone else who might be watching this video and in a similar boat i wish you all the best
It’s my 21st in a few weeks and on my actual birthday (a Sunday) my parents are working and I don’t really have friends to celebrate with. But we are going out to dinner the following weekend :)
Really appreciate the video and positivity in this comment section. You guys have shifted my mindset. Thanks💘
Gabs you don’t have to celebrate it on the day for it to be special! Happy birthday in advanced ❤️
This video made me feel so comfortable ♥️ thx Krystal✨
Today is my 22 birthday
I didn't receive one single message or call from my friends
I always call them in midnight on there birthday
I give them party on there birthday give present,plan surprise for them
Sometimes I have to use my savings to savings to give them present
But today I feel very depressed
And lonely
Why I am so kind for them
Is it bad to be kind ,nice
I am not that kind of person who celebrates there birthday
Do party on there birthday
But a single message or call they didn't send me
I think I have to celebrate my birthday all alone
Happy birthday to me
My dear I thank you so much for this motivation I really appreciate it am actually 20 years old I'll be turning 21 three months from now thank you princess
I spent my 21st birthday in 2020 during the thick of the pandemic with no friends while being a college student. I spent it with my family, and my mom cooked my favorite foods for me, my dad bought me a bottle of champagne, and we just talked. Later on, I watched "Handmaid's Tale" by myself and pigged out.
I look back 2 years later, and realize just how enjoyable my birthday was, because I wasn't living up to anyone's standards except for my own. I was spending time with people who actually cherish my existence, and having fun in a different way.
Maybe I wasn't getting drunk and clubbing, but I was finding happiness in these moments, which are just as valuable. In the words of Hannah Montana, "Life's what you make it, so let's make it rock!" Do what you can with what you have in order to make life enjoyable according to your own terms!
I was watching this video to see if I could get any other ideas cause my birthday is soon, I can go out now, and I still have no friends, but due to other circumstances, I might have to keep it super chill and stay home again. And after watching this video and reflecting, I think I'll be ok with that 😊. Throughout these years, I learned that if you listen to society's opinions of how you should spend your birthday with friends or doing things you can't for whatever reason, you will never be happy, because you're stretching yourself too thin hoping for a life that you do not live. Focus on making do-able, realistic changes to your own life. "Life's what you make it, so let's make it roooock!" 🎶
happy birthday to all the ppl here with no friends :(
Spending my 28th alone (no friends/family) this saturday and I have planned the following:
- buy acrylic paint and do a pouring
- explore the city at night on a bike
- see a movie at the theater
pmiller that sounds amazing 😍😍😍
How was it p? (: that’s sounds really fun!
@@tl9585 It was really great!
- My painting turned out great on the first try and I'm gifting it to my parents during christmas.
- I listened to the new Joji album and drove around at night on a bike chatting with a colleague over text msg about the different areas in this city.
- Watched the movie TENET and enjoyed being at the cinema for the first time in ages :)
Overall a great experience but I think the key point is to have an agenda that you will commit to on your birthday, so you don't end up on the couch doing nothing! Next year I would prefer to be with family and friends though :) Cheers.
@@Lagspike99 wow that’s great to hear you enjoyed it! & thank you for the advice, I’ll make sure to keep that in mind! That’s really cool you did all that and with yourself at that, very inspiring thank you
That was the most genuine "happy birthday" wish ever
Gonna spend my birthday alone as always I don’t really like to celebrate it but I’m going to enjoy myself at home 😌💞nothing wrong with being alone
thank you Krystal, mine is around the corner and this was the first vid that popped up when I searched and I'm glad it did :)
Caleb Hardy happy birthday in advanced ❤️ hope you have a great one
i’m not 21 lol but i’m turning 14 kind of soon and I realized how many friends I have lost and grown apart from in 2020 so it made me kind of sad because i was like “omg in 2019 i had sooo many friends, where did they go?” But I have two amazing parents, two funny siblings, 2 besties, a cat, 2 grand parents, 1 great grandmother,1 close aunt, and 1 close cousin. That’s actually a lot of people to me!!! Writing this comment actually helped because i know i’m not as alone as I thought. Thank for this video. ☺️
Today is my birthday and I have no friends . Thank you for making me feel good
Happy birthday 💕💕
I'm turning 21 in like 3 weeks and have no idea what to do because I truly don't have friends but still want it to be memorable
Today is my 25th birthday. I am alone, far away from home preparing for my MD entrance exam(so can't spend time with family)... Thank you for making me feel I am not a looser for not being able to make friends everywhere I go.. at night I got myself a box of doughnuts 😍 now it's morning here in India... I have to study also but I also wanna do something more..... Let's c what comes in my mind!! Thank you n bless u
Aastha Agni oooh what kind of doughnuts 🤤🤤 have an awesome birthday Aastha 💕
Krystal L thank you so much!! I got them from Dunkin’ donuts... I wish I could send u pic!! They look yummmmmyyy
Turning 26 in a few days, still no friends. Vegas trip fell apart. Spending it with family sounds nice 😊
Yaaasss ! You re right, I personally recommend going shopping💸
Ooooh yes 😍😍😍😂
great idea
My 21st is next week, I was really panicking and this calmed my nerves 😭♥️🙏🏾
For my 21st birthday I’m just going to make myself a charcuterie board, getting a bottle of Prosecco, and doing a little face mask I’m pretty excited
thank you so much, dear. seriously. today is my 21st birthday and yes i’ll trying a new things that i’ve never try before, bcs i’m not sure i’ve anyone to celebrate with. but its totally okay! ily, thank you for ur happy birthday greetings too 💝💝
Happy belated birthday!!!!!
29 today. I usually spend my birthdays not doing too much cause I have no friends around to really go out and celebrate them with like what social norms paint as normal. The truth is I do spend a lot of time to myself, and I don't make friends too easily. I have a few friends that I wouldn't mind doing stuff with, but they are 8 hours drive away. You kinda don't keep in touch as much either. But, we should not see that having no friends on our birthdays as a sign that we are of low or lower value. This is just not true at all, and we often place value on the validation we get from others. Friends or no friends, lonely or not lonely, love yourself and know that you are valuable no matter what.
Kenneth Bowie yes so true 🙌
Happy 21st birthday to everyone looking this up when you 21 & lonely🤣🤣
Turning 24 soon. All my frns are either outside country or in another city. Im gonna have a pre birthday celebration with my fam and I’m planning to visit a temple with my mom in the morning of my actual birthday. I’m prolly gonna have a quiet bday and watch some black mirror eps in the evening. Thank you for ur video❤️appreciate the pep talk at the beginning☺️
I’m going spend my 21 birthday alone tomorrow 🎉
Needed this tomorrow's my bday
Happy birthday in advance ❤️
@@Krys579 omg thank uu 🥺❤
I’m 21 in 6 days and so lucky to spend it with my bestfriend and boyfriend. I feel like having so many people isn’t necessary
This was really helpful! I’ll be spending mine with my family too
Isabella Harmony awesome! Have the best time ❤️
I really needed this video because I genuinely started to think that I was the problem but thank you for this video 🥺❤️
❤️❤️❤️
It's my birthday today 🎉 turning 19 with no friends
Hey happy birthday
I turn 21 on September 28th. During my 18th, 19th and 20th birthdays I’ve hosted parties or went out to dinner with friends. This year I had been considering renting a hotel to host friends, but as the date has gotten closer I’ve lost interest (as I’ve gotten older people I considered as friends are closer to associates). Instead I’m having a photoshoot with a really good friend of mine and then going home to celebrate with my mom and cat.
I’m not sure if I’ll even have a drink, but I think spending the day with those closest to me sounds like a great plan. ☺️
Syeda Umar I love your bday plan ❤️ also sounds like a great plan to me! HBD in advanced!
Krystal L Thank you!
It’s sad cause I put efforts for others but why don’t people take effort for me !!
thank you so much for this video. these words were all very comforting and much needed
❤️
I'm here because of The Corona Lockdown. 😭
Me too, but turning 18 😭
I know it's not as special, but I'm turning 16 and we're in lockdowm:(
@@blessme_achoo-inggum3155 Dayum. Where you from?
@@sambanelly25 India. Wbu?
@@blessme_achoo-inggum3155 South Africa.
I didn’t just cry on my 21st birthday, I sobbed. I was dumped by a guy only three weeks before and I had no friends. I took myself out to breakfast to cheer myself up and just felt worse eating some burned, tasteless sourdough toast and getting a text from a wrong number. I’m turning 22 this year. I still don’t have friends, but I’m being frugal, working, saving money and taking an Italian class so I can spend my 22nd birthday in Italy. You have to love yourself first as corny as that sounds.
I turned 21 a week ago and spent it with my family, no friends at all. It was actually very nice and special.
I’m still celebrating my birthday some how but yeah I definitely understand 😎
Awesome video! The part about self worth is so good 💕
Hi ❤️ #New subscriber!!! Yaay and and my birthday wil be in few weeks (24thmay) and it’s my 21st too ! Might celebrate it alone
Same but mine is the 25th. Happy Early Bday!🦋❤
@@_ayannaxo aww thank you darling 😘❤️
Wow I needed to hear this... turning 21 in 3 weeks on April 1st and I sadly typed this in the search bar and I found you.
That was soo encouraging, thank you 🥰
Thank you for this video. My 21st is in 9 days and I’m already feeling the loneliness :(
you're so welcome - happy belated birthday and I hope you did something fun and for you
This really strengthened me !!!!♥
You can go to salon and make new hair cut, new manicure or else procedures)). Then you can go and by yourself dress or clothes, flowers which you like, favorite cake( or make it by yourself). In the end of the day spend some dinner time with your family and go make photos for your instagram or whatever
today is my 21st birthday and i dont really have friends, so from the bottom of my heart thank youuu
Happy birthday ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you gurl,this was great 🥺