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  • @deepikahotta9684
    @deepikahotta9684 Рік тому +43

    everytime I hear women are strong and they can do anthing when times come. you are the example to it. you are so motivating and feel very proud of you.

  • @contouredsoul1827
    @contouredsoul1827 Рік тому +10

    Bro my mom did this whole newborn thing WHILE my grandfather was undergoing cancer treatment and we had relatives visiting us damnn makes me cry just even thinking about it. Thanks for being so transparent about your experiences mals. Stay strong, hope it gets better for you soon! Love to you and Abby! ❤️

  • @adeebakhan2098
    @adeebakhan2098 Рік тому +85

    Don’t buy expensive clothes for baby they outgrow them soo quickly

  • @abhilashaawasthi3466
    @abhilashaawasthi3466 Рік тому +25

    Can I just say that your skin looks so healthy without makeup! Please share your updated skincare routine in detail.

  • @poojasuvarnakhandi478
    @poojasuvarnakhandi478 Рік тому +8

    abby changed you in so many ways!!! I can feel the change in your vibe and energy!!
    god bless u !

  • @tasleemiqbalshaikh8389
    @tasleemiqbalshaikh8389 Рік тому +31

    It is so bizarre to me that the women has to do everything and father is the one who enjoys his life and do everything he just comes sees abby and goes and do his own things the women Malvika has to do everything she is facing everything and she pays for everything I don’t think akhil is paying for anything he is enjoying his life in Italy and she is here waiting for her daughter she don’t have any emotional support I know women deal with a lot I hope malvika gets everything in her life how her life changed in 2 years is really shocking I hope she gets everything she wants in her life and she gets to enjoy that with her daughter and her new partner how can someone leave his daughter and go away and how can you leave someone who you have known for 12 years it’s really bizarre

  • @sahanasarkar5562
    @sahanasarkar5562 Рік тому +6

    I love how raw and open you are about your current life ! Keep it up. This too shall pass.

  • @kriturajputkarishma350
    @kriturajputkarishma350 Рік тому +3

    I don't know why people are harsh here in comments section, it's good to know that how a women suffers from pregnancy and the pain, people don't talk about it 🙄 but Mals is talking, she's showing the the truth to everyone, so what wrong she is doing, pregnancy is scary it's painful, and i think there is nothing to enjoy about pregnancy, women's suffer from so much pain after delivery also, after showing the truth I don't know why people are having problem with her. I think it's good to know for women the truth before getting pregnant, we should be aware and have enough knowledge that now what we have to do and how to deal with it. I think Mals has done good job to make aware all women's. Thankyou Mals

  • @mitalisatam15
    @mitalisatam15 Рік тому +27

    Such a nice vlog! Also, extra appreciation for your mum, who is always there with you and taking care of you and Abby

  • @abychouhan9316
    @abychouhan9316 Рік тому +10

    I know it was a difficult journey and its not over yet but you are blessed with a healthy baby thats the super imp thing. Here i am 14 week pregnant having a high risk of dual marker test. Went through NIPT waiting for my baby result. I am not sure am i be able to hold my baby some day or not. Having a healthy baby is a blessing .

    • @Utopianpooja
      @Utopianpooja Рік тому +2

      I wish you get to hold your healthy baby and may you live happily ever after 😘😘

    • @abychouhan9316
      @abychouhan9316 Рік тому

      @@Utopianpooja Thankyou so much for these kind words. Really wanted to hear this. And i got my NIPT result it came low risk. I hope everything go fine now onwards.

    • @surbhisharma8674
      @surbhisharma8674 Рік тому +2

      ​@@abychouhan9316praying for you and your child❤❤❤

  • @sunayan100
    @sunayan100 Рік тому +13

    Infants sense very well when they are in their mother's lap because of oxytocin hormone, they feel safe and calm as soon as they are close or being held by their mother

  • @nikitasaraph06
    @nikitasaraph06 Рік тому +4

    You don't feel pain because 'GIRL THATS THE POWER OF BEING A WOMAN WHO HAS GIVEN BIRTH! SHE IS INVINCIBLE' So so sooo glad you are closer to feeling normal and soon you'll feel insanely awesome! PS: Abby's cheeks are GOALS

  • @loveleen5204
    @loveleen5204 Рік тому +5

    Mals can’t explain you in words you your videos and now abby babyy all are just wholesome literally loving every single bit of your videos feeling we are along with you just just and just keeping going all the very best and blessings ❤️❤️🥹🥹

  • @swetabanerjee1343
    @swetabanerjee1343 Рік тому +15

    Thank you for keeping this real. lt means so much for women who have not had a baby yet, and the whole idea has been romanticized and idealized. I love the way you discuss every aspect of motherhood. Thank you ❤

  • @lifelearnings8642
    @lifelearnings8642 Рік тому +25

    You are so strong malvika
    Managing all the phases of your life is soo inspiring
    Others may see it like what is she doing
    But for me it's so encouraging and feeling each and every moment with the little one is just so awesome for you.
    More power to you
    Love
    S

  • @ellyella6500
    @ellyella6500 Рік тому +7

    Can’t believe akhil is just having fun not seeing his new baby for so long

  • @travel_Food2024
    @travel_Food2024 Рік тому +28

    So good to see Mals being such a cute and strong mom lots of love from NEPAL 🇳🇵❤

  • @chaitra5048
    @chaitra5048 Рік тому +10

    Hey, mals going through the same with a 2-month-old baby. I feel so lonely no social life. Just feed and put my baby to sleep it's like 24/7. At one point, it feels like it's never going to end. I can relate to you. We girls are so strong we somehow do it hopefully this shall pass soon. Take care of you and Abby much love.❤️❤❤

  • @yaramuni1427
    @yaramuni1427 Рік тому +36

    please if possible show abby more everyone lovessss her....ur place in our heart is slowly being taken by her💗💗

  • @shrutiagarwal9080
    @shrutiagarwal9080 Рік тому +6

    Mbbs is a Doctor, nurse is the ones who do BSc nursing. Both are very different. And it feels bad when people call female Doctors as Nurse or sister.

  • @rafatkalam1467
    @rafatkalam1467 Рік тому +4

    From watching malzzz with Sunday chit chat now we all watched her baby journey and story.
    We all grew in a life.
    Trust me I loved this side of malzz we all gonna learn soo much from you.
    You truly updated a new version in you life,from removing wisdom tooth😂 to birth journey.
    I am with you.❤

  • @mansimalviya2499
    @mansimalviya2499 Рік тому +3

    I feel so connected to you because of how raw and real you are on the camera. It makes me feel comfort and ease 🥺❤️‍🩹 Love you 100000000 Malss! 😭❤️🧿

  • @Ankeeta0304
    @Ankeeta0304 Рік тому +1

    I feel... if she is feeling better by talking to all her subscribers then we should support her instead of criticizing.... Everyone's life journey is different.... some keep it in their mind and struggle... some speak out like malvika.... and feel better.... we are always here for u malvika❤❤❤❤ we all love u.... and we will always support u through out ur life journey ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kirtivijaywargi3423
    @kirtivijaywargi3423 Рік тому +5

    Omg! Your rant was so relatable 💯
    You said things that most of us are afraid to say.
    More power to you ❤

  • @sudhama6224
    @sudhama6224 Рік тому +3

    Can nobody go down there please ? It’s shut shop ... no prodding no poking .... as much as I feel your pain... I burst out laughing ... you’ll get there girl,,, you are almost there !!! Just a few more days ....you got it

  • @justflow110
    @justflow110 Рік тому +6

    I live for the venting sesshh cuz girl u need to know every real shit of motherhood !!!!!! Love you mahls for sharing it all.. So proud of you being this strong and always doinng this much ❤❤❤❤❤ lots of love to abby and nona ❤and ofcourse u ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @Aasthabasnet7
    @Aasthabasnet7 Рік тому +6

    We all need friend like Veronica ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @dariusrao2536
    @dariusrao2536 Рік тому

    U r a symbol of strength, and hope to so many young women .....you are awesome ..know that u r loved and admired....stay strong ...God has removed the narcs in ur life n made u more aware...now u can breathe n live a happy pure life....

  • @swagataroychowdhury5213
    @swagataroychowdhury5213 Рік тому +6

    Is it wierd that I am still curiously to find out what happens between you and Akhil? 🤔

  • @soja1317
    @soja1317 Рік тому +7

    Mals,You have always mentioned that you are very scared of injections and pain . I am also just like you . Please share how you dealt with the delivery pain or is it something that we can deal with it?

  • @chandana_dancingmom
    @chandana_dancingmom Рік тому +4

    Mals, everything will happen it’s just about this phase of time. This shall pass and I can see you n your girl enjoying and chilling in the park. You might miss these days too 🥹 that’s how this works girllllll 😊 love love love n only love for you n your baby ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @priyankaagarwal2631
    @priyankaagarwal2631 Рік тому +2

    Mals your mom …. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼moms are just everything … i love my mom the most 🥹

  • @testoneplusoneplus1680
    @testoneplusoneplus1680 Рік тому +2

    Moms are so happy after baby sleeps peacefully

  • @asmishinde4652
    @asmishinde4652 Рік тому +3

    Wooowww.... All that is too much to handle.. Glad that you are sharing all your experiences.. Thanks for sharing it all Malzzzz... Love you & Abby..❤❤❤ Loads of Blessings, Love & Strength to you & Abby..❤❤❤❤❤

  • @priyankaagarwal2631
    @priyankaagarwal2631 Рік тому +3

    If you want a newborn give up your life - malvika …. This is so so true man !

  • @poulomidas905
    @poulomidas905 Рік тому +59

    Abby is the minimized version of Malz.. ❤

  • @dimmychongloi
    @dimmychongloi Рік тому +1

    GOOOO. Mals❤️ Just so happy to see you get better every day💕

  • @aishwaryashrivastav9317
    @aishwaryashrivastav9317 Рік тому +5

    So proud of you for doing this, more power to you 🎉

  • @pooheena
    @pooheena Рік тому +3

    Watching youuu is always so amazing!😭❤️

  • @jyotimehta7293
    @jyotimehta7293 Рік тому +1

    You can find great mittens on ajio that fit in your colour palette

  • @Sakshi_sultania
    @Sakshi_sultania Рік тому +6

    Hey hey hey ...you cribbing is the most funniest part in this video 💕😂
    And thank you for letting us know that ...we tend to forget our journey ..60%, 70% so on...
    And only focus on "not healed part" which is not right ...
    🎉🎉🎉Kudos ..and love to you and Abby and your mum 💜☄️💙

  • @mrs.randhawa2967
    @mrs.randhawa2967 Рік тому +1

    It will get better I promise, I remember those days were so hard. Plus we had so many visitors and it was horrible experience. That's true take care of yourself first then you will take care of her better. I had to give my daughter formula because my supply was close to nothing. I felt so guilty for doing that!!!!! Us moms feel guilty for everything lol

  • @trishvoyage
    @trishvoyage Рік тому +3

    Love your strength and sarcastic humor to keep going😅 ❤ more power to you🫶

  • @debanjanadas3944
    @debanjanadas3944 Рік тому +1

    Its so wonderful that you have found such lovely companionship through Veronica! Such friends make situations so much more comforting!

  • @swagatachakraborty6568
    @swagatachakraborty6568 Рік тому

    Malvika you are such a brave mother and I am so so proud of you. Talking about pain does not make you negative or a bad mother, you only come across more and more real. Pregnancy is beautiful everybody talks about that but it is a painful journey as well. Thank you for highlighting things that people are too afraid to talk about being a new mother. Guys we should realize that pregnancy as a journey itself can be very difficult and painflul for some women, plus the kind of circumstances she gave birth under in made her journey more so hurting. But what is important is that despite all the pain and difficulties she loves her baby and doest not regret going through so much for her. Speaking out is not the same as regretting or demotivating others. Cut her some slack. If it is too much for you dont bother watching her videos at this point of time because being a real youtuber, staying true to her audience she will talk about the way she is feeling without sugar coating anything.

  • @mrh797
    @mrh797 Рік тому +2

    Can you please share what is your diet to increase your milk supply?
    How do you use the pump and store the pumped milk?
    What skin products do you use for your baby?

  • @marwarimommy8028
    @marwarimommy8028 Рік тому +5

    Try firstcry.. they have some amazing collection

  • @kamaalmadam
    @kamaalmadam Рік тому +1

    Yes, Agree with you. I wish we have baby and momma cafe 😂

  • @priyankakhare2396
    @priyankakhare2396 Рік тому +3

    waiting for ur vlog... its amazingggggg😘😘😘😘

  • @ambreenazad8873
    @ambreenazad8873 Рік тому +3

    And you are my motivation podcast❤

  • @ramneezrecites4746
    @ramneezrecites4746 Рік тому +2

    Can u provide the link to black floral dress u r wearing? It’s beautiful

  • @foreveryoung8831
    @foreveryoung8831 Рік тому +2

    As if I was waiting for this video to be posted😘

  • @sahanasarkar5562
    @sahanasarkar5562 Рік тому +1

    Hey Malvika. Which blush do you use ? It looks really good on you !

  • @MB-uv4qu
    @MB-uv4qu Рік тому +1

    Usually Mums do stay at home, don’t go to the beaches😂🤣. So soon
    I didn’t even get any help, u r very lucky

  • @sobiyameraj8966
    @sobiyameraj8966 Рік тому

    In the world of fake vlogging and superficial good happy mode of influencer, it takes balls to come out in public with everything honest emotionally, I have been following ur series and also on insta every moment I feel like Iam made aware of the true journey a mom goes thr , everyone is different but Atleast we r aware of the truth. Thank you for being so honest and open about it mals May Allah bless you and ur family esp the angel 👼 ❤

  • @_JayaReddy
    @_JayaReddy Рік тому +2

    I really connected alot to you Mal's bcz am also a new mom , I literally felt you what u are going through

  • @pragyasharma3133
    @pragyasharma3133 Рік тому +1

    Can totally relate to you as a new mom.. seriously I want to runaway .. we are bored and we are stuck in these 4 walls.. just want my baby to grow up any how 🥹

  • @jashomotisinha5126
    @jashomotisinha5126 Рік тому +8

    Is it just me or does anybody else too think that Abby looks more like her dad?

  • @charmidsouza9070
    @charmidsouza9070 Рік тому +7

    Poor kid growing up without any exposure to beautiful, bright colours.

  • @samreensam3953
    @samreensam3953 Рік тому

    Love love love totally relate wid uh nd tht cribbing part toh😅✌🏻❤️

  • @priyanka1996N
    @priyanka1996N Рік тому +3

    I love Abby so much❤

  • @wareeshakhushbakht5802
    @wareeshakhushbakht5802 Рік тому +1

    Malvika I just wanna say do not listen to people crap and just do whatever you're happy and comfortable with take care of yourself first and then the baby because HEALTHY MAMA SO HEALTHY BABY😉✌️and I siriously love to hear the truth about pregnancy and postpartum 💖

  • @canadaislove
    @canadaislove Рік тому +2

    Where is her dad ...where is co parenting....mals u r doing a great job as a mother so keep going n never forget wat this guy did to you ur family n friends are ur support system not ur husband.

  • @smriti1181
    @smriti1181 Рік тому +1

    With lots of love and happiness..... Take care.... Your vlogs are just bliss and raw that's why i love your vlogs alot 🎉🎉❤

  • @nehatiwari-ts8jw
    @nehatiwari-ts8jw Рік тому

    I want more this type of vediossss so so relaxingggggg

  • @the_cosmoholic_8
    @the_cosmoholic_8 Рік тому +1

    Loved watching you... hearing from you 😍. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @navivlogsinkannada5032
    @navivlogsinkannada5032 Рік тому +3

    Most waiting vlog always 😘😘😘😘😘💝💝

  • @muskan8764
    @muskan8764 Рік тому +6

    Don't say like that ban gae nurse mbbs it hurts😢
    Mbbs are doctors dude

  • @senorapadmanathan6807
    @senorapadmanathan6807 Рік тому +1

    Just soo happy to see you smile like that at 27:11 🥹❤️

  • @sheenathakur3358
    @sheenathakur3358 Рік тому

    Hello Mals as I’m in my last trimester,I just saw that feeding cloth which you’ve draped around please please lemme know about the brand you have used as I loves it so much.please reply

  • @theartcart2668
    @theartcart2668 Рік тому +1

    You are soooo strongg❤❤More and more love to you and Abby💗🤍

  • @apurvaprasad966
    @apurvaprasad966 Рік тому +1

    M watching this at 3am while having a cup of white rum.. lol

    • @ThatGirlInVogue
      @ThatGirlInVogue  Рік тому +1

      LOL! Me awake at 3 am breastfeeding reading this comment. 😂

  • @lakshmij3381
    @lakshmij3381 Рік тому +1

    Hey dear I would like to give one advice please take complete rest for atleast 90days and opt for some postnatal ayurveda treatment it will really help you heal 😊

  • @nishh6852
    @nishh6852 Рік тому +3

    Hi mals, just wanted to know when are you going to do birth story video??? Also some tips & whats worked for you in hospital & new born essentials + postpartum essentials. Please talk about those stuff too. Im 27 week in waiting for your videos to buy what you suggest

  • @meghachathri7370
    @meghachathri7370 Рік тому +2

    Love you malvika ❤ take care of yourself 😘 you are so strong love the way you handle everything ❤️ you're inspiration for me love to watch u all the time waiting for your videos ❤

  • @divyasunish6738
    @divyasunish6738 Рік тому

    Malz.. u are a great women and strong too dear.. yaa.. I understand these situations being a mom of 2 kids.. I am from Kerala.. here after delivery can't use even mobile bcoz of radiation if had undergone a C section.. and here for 3 months we keep a mid wife to make us bath and make our baby bath yaa grandma also does 🥰 but it's enjoyable too dear feeding the baby , watching them sleep, playing in between smiling and all 🥰 be with Abby.. she needs your love, care, warmth everything now the most malz..

  • @riddhibasu7512
    @riddhibasu7512 Рік тому

    I consulted a pelvic floor therapist and it helped my broken vagina to heal a lot. I got a 2nd degree cut down there.Try consulting one after 3 or 6 months after you feel your body is ready to visit a pelvic floor therapist.

  • @chalkhillblueify
    @chalkhillblueify Рік тому

    I got pregnant almost with with it should I say 2 months after u did .. and trust me your vlog helped me big time to prepare myself mentally.. thanks .. a heart felt thanks ❤️

  • @bibibatoolpaknejad8754
    @bibibatoolpaknejad8754 Рік тому +1

    But u need to eat a lot of protein and power packed meals
    But I had a question how can feed ur kids when ur on antibiotics as it’s not recommended

  • @harshitagupta1257
    @harshitagupta1257 Рік тому +1

    Hey mals can you pls tell from where you buy this nursing cover

  • @pallavigupta7936
    @pallavigupta7936 11 місяців тому

    hey hope you are fine btw from
    where did you brought your nursing cover? . its pretty !

  • @priyankakhare2396
    @priyankakhare2396 Рік тому +4

    i bought baby stuff for my sis from marks and spencer.... all neutral....😇

  • @priyathakur6723
    @priyathakur6723 Рік тому

    woww woww malvss you looked so stunning . lots of love to ua family

  • @thefantasticmommy
    @thefantasticmommy Рік тому +3

    I get you and this rant. I am twin mom n i breastfeeded both of them and sometimes both of them at the same time... But now i really miss those days.

  • @jemimasolomon553
    @jemimasolomon553 Рік тому +1

    The best part of the video was the “last 10 minutes”. Completely relatable and yes breast feeding is very very tiring for a new mom.
    My two cents - Order yourself a Recliner and you’ll thank me for that. It’s super helpful and the pleasure of having a new born on your chest while you’re in a comfortable position is just the best feeling.
    It’s okay to pump every 6 hours ( twice during day and once at night) also if you’re breast feeding , there’s no need for you to pump unless you want her to exclusively have breast milk only. Doing both - breast feeding and pumping is EXHAUSTING.

  • @Manasi_karanam
    @Manasi_karanam Рік тому

    First one ❤ abby we love u❤

  • @procaffeinate_withbooks
    @procaffeinate_withbooks Рік тому

    You listen to Jay Shetty for inspiration, and we listen to you😅 prepping myself mentally now

  • @kritikasharma7491
    @kritikasharma7491 Рік тому +1

    Love love love malz❤

  • @traversewithsoumi8851
    @traversewithsoumi8851 Рік тому

    Strong mama's strong girl... ❤

  • @aishpawar3695
    @aishpawar3695 Рік тому +1

    You are so strong mals, all mothers basically.
    But u r dealing with so many things at one time just hat's off to you 🙌 we love you mals ❤️

  • @somdipapusti716
    @somdipapusti716 Рік тому +2

    how do you store breast milk and how to reuse it? I'm a new mom and I'm really confused about all of it. If you tell me I will be very grateful.

  • @taniyashaikh1218
    @taniyashaikh1218 Рік тому +2

    Mals venting time is so me nowadays all the time 😂
    FYI - exausted tired new mom here 🖐🏻
    So relatable

  • @priyanshijain7147
    @priyanshijain7147 Рік тому

    Hi mals! Could you please suggest a good heat protectant for hair

  • @pinkykumbang9873
    @pinkykumbang9873 Рік тому +6

    Can totally relate to you as a new mom 29:24 😂

    • @anzelaries1165
      @anzelaries1165 Рік тому

      Had i seen this 2 years ago
      I WOULD NEVER MARRYY!!!?!

  • @digeenadavis6402
    @digeenadavis6402 Рік тому

    Hey can you please mention from where did you get that feeding cover ..

  • @zakiyasamreen5629
    @zakiyasamreen5629 Рік тому

    Am also a new mother mals I can understand what you are going through 😮 thousands of emotions running into mind😮

  • @anoushkaasrani7188
    @anoushkaasrani7188 Рік тому +1

    Love you malssssss❤

  • @wannalearn100
    @wannalearn100 Рік тому +1

    Lovely❤

  • @Iqrasafder007
    @Iqrasafder007 Рік тому +1

    Stay strong ❤❤ Good days are coming

  • @taibasayyad3073
    @taibasayyad3073 Рік тому +2

    Hey mals
    M gonna be mom soon
    I just love love ur covering to feed baby it's so fancy n new can u just lemme knw from where did u got that robe ..plz