Why am I attracted to narcissists? What's up with that?

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  • Опубліковано 22 січ 2025

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  • @SoulGPS
    @SoulGPS  2 роки тому

    Polska wersja: ua-cam.com/video/iQC0Y5ui3uw/v-deo.html

  • @kennethlagrange8792
    @kennethlagrange8792 2 роки тому +6

    Thaaaaank you Eva for saying it… “we’re not some kind of magnet” the Law of Attraction is all you hear now! It’s not some magical power that’s out there, but it’s the brokenness in us that causes US to be attracted to the king of people who have Narcissistic tendencies.
    Thank you for your well thought out logical and well researched knowledge you bring to your viewers.
    How about a podcast? It would be great to have your knowledge available on a daily basis 😃

    • @SoulGPS
      @SoulGPS  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you! I’ll think about it. PS. LOA is a new age cult. It started with madame Blavatsky (fave of Hitler’s) and then sprung up across the US. Research the I AM cult of the Ballards in the 20s. They were fascists. Fascinating stuff. Yes, ditch LOA and free your mind!:)

  • @chrisnorman8628
    @chrisnorman8628 2 роки тому +7

    What you bring has a huge spiritual content, your speaking about our identity. How we are wired, conceived. the nature of that. Attachment. Thank you for your content, it is so relevant.

    • @SoulGPS
      @SoulGPS  2 роки тому

      I’m thrilled! Thank you.

  • @annastone5624
    @annastone5624 Рік тому +1

    This is SUCH an important point.. we are not ‘magnets’ attracting these people.
    We are at least 50% of the dynamic. What is it about the narcissist we are attracted to?
    For me I think it was that they are allowed to be everything I was not allowed to be. Attention seeking, self absorbed etc.. whereas that was absolutely forbidden for me.
    I think then I felt it was ‘good for me’ to be around more assertive people. I certainly didn’t want to be around people like me with zero confidence.
    I much preferred to live vicariously through the narcissist..
    Now I’ve realised they just exploit me and I end up much worse off. So I’m trying to be more self-caring and put my energy into myself. Knowing from experience that these people will disrespect me..every time..helps me stay away..

  • @womanclothedinthesunq7574
    @womanclothedinthesunq7574 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you 💝 love from Albuquerque.

  • @johnpaul2285
    @johnpaul2285 2 роки тому +2

    ❤🙏 Create love and stop searching for someone else to make it grow This is what I have been learning and come to know Otherwise unattractive as the muddied up snow
    Thank you Eva You beautiful soul

  • @susanarias6965
    @susanarias6965 Рік тому

    Excellent explanation

  • @sll110
    @sll110 Рік тому +1

    I am a scapegoat of huge Narcissists family members, I have angel heart though I almost killed and abused death.. now I know who I am......... I really know who I am, ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💖💖💖💗💗💗💗💗 I am so appreciated your loving video, I gave up heathy, webt to unhealthy..

  • @elim243
    @elim243 2 роки тому

    Ow man, I really needed this words! Thank you! 🙏

  • @zeninme7980
    @zeninme7980 2 роки тому

    You bring some clarity to this topic. Communication is so very crucial...beginning with birth and how we were raised and taught. Having had a narcissist father and codependent mother was the beginning of what became a battle for me to feel loved..valued or respected. Things were not expressed in loving ways and no I never felt my feeling mattered. My father would say such horrible things especially about women..very degrading. It's as if we were just objects. It was never unconditional love. Hard to overcome that..but there was so much more as well. Thank you for all you do to bring light to darkness. It helps and I'm learning. It's never too late...to learn what love should be and just keep growing. ❤️

    • @SoulGPS
      @SoulGPS  2 роки тому +1

      Oh, that’s hard, and I hear you. But yes, it is possible to heal and fill your heart. By sharing this love with others. Those who you choose. A child or an elder. Or a teacher. Or a friend. You can become the agent of such love. And know that you are loved. And you belong here. With us.

    • @zeninme7980
      @zeninme7980 2 роки тому

      @@SoulGPS Thank you..that means alot. We shouldn't hide things we've been through...because we're not the only one. Sharing in a safe environment with others who can understand is a blessing. We are wiser because of our experiences and that is healing in itself. 🙏💓

  • @elzbietaberndt6474
    @elzbietaberndt6474 2 роки тому

    Wesolych Swiat Bozego Narodzenia oraz Szczesliwego Nowego Roku 🌲🌲☃️☃️⛄⛄🎁🎁

  • @debbiewilhelm6018
    @debbiewilhelm6018 2 роки тому

    You are correct.❤

  • @cmsbeth
    @cmsbeth 2 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @marekzajac7999
    @marekzajac7999 2 роки тому

    Wow i'm impressed! When You came to Poland, krakow.. it would be nice to meet and exchange experiences...

  • @Jess-wk5jo
    @Jess-wk5jo 2 роки тому

    Hello i have question for you i have always what to get back at my ex boyfriend Morgan for two timing me in high school what happen if i was married to Morgan i start to see my ex stephen a again and i tell Stephen i what to affair with him to get back at morgan for morgan two timing without having sex but only seeing Stephen and texting him then meeting up with Stephen and only holding hands and kissing and hugging him and watching high school musical dvds without having no no no sex with him what what of type of affair would had be. Just romantic affair no sex one eww sex
    1 emotional affair
    2 emotional and physical affair without having no sex
    P.S it will never happen it only thought over it
    Thank you for your time from jess

  • @melaniabobrowicz1505
    @melaniabobrowicz1505 2 роки тому

    Cześć Ewa! Widziałam na video Dana Buglio polecenie polskiej terapeutki z Twojej strony. Czy mogłabym prosić o namiary na nią ? Byłabym bardzo wdzięczna ❤ również mam TMS. Bardzo bardzo proszę 🙏🏾

    • @SoulGPS
      @SoulGPS  2 роки тому

      Aleksandra Karaszewska z Wrocławia 😊

  • @beyondher
    @beyondher Рік тому

    Basically, look for an unattractive man, and try to feel attracted to him somehow...

  • @gayleangus1330
    @gayleangus1330 2 роки тому +2

    JESUS, is Love
    Call on him and he will fill you with love💕