Was so good to hear you talk about this Kate, totally agree that the first thing I found comfort in with my miscarriage was other experiences. Take care, the milestones do stick and we’re here for you xxxxx
Kate thank you so much for sharing this update with us, you are so brave and strong. I have been subscribed to your channel for many years and I feel like I have truly grown up alongside you. I can honestly say I have loved all of your content and I feel like you always work so hard on the videos/projects you create. Thank you for being there for us! P.S. I think an update on your puppies would be adorable! I love to seem them in your videos! Maybe you could share their routines! :)
Sorry to hear that Kate, hope you feel better in yourself for sharing this. Sending a virtual hug and looking forward to your next videos. I love your house/renovations, shopping hauls and fashion videos xx
I really appreciate when UA-camrs are honest with their viewers as like you say it shows its not all happy all the time and people go through similar experiences. I'm sorry you've been through a horrible few months. Really enjoy your Channel and look forward to watching some of your new videos. 😊
So sorry to hear about your miscarriage Kate. You are such a strong woman to talk about your ordeal and put yourself out there like this. Sending you hugs and lots of love xx
I’m so sorry Kate. You will have helped so many by speaking out on your loss and experience, I hope that gives you a little comfort and encouragement. Lots of love xo
Oh Kate I’m so sorry to hear, and you did so well to talk about it with so much composure. You’re such a strong woman. I’m sending you all my love and wishing you the very best 🌈 xxx
So sorry to hear your news. Hope you feel better talking about your loss and panic attacks. Sometimes they creep up on us with no warning don’t they. Don’t pressure yourself to do things too much will you or it will just all feel overwhelming. Take good care xx
I’m so sorry for your loss, Kate. Like many of the people here, I have experienced something similar and there is nothing else to say apart from sorry really...It’s genuine grief for a life and possibility lost. It deserves time. Lots of love and best wishes to you xxx
Im so sorry to hear about your loss and how life has been affecting you. We also suffered our first missed miscarriage in August at 15 weeks and were so devastated. I definitely have some up and down days but thankful to have our little boy to keep us entertained and busy day to day. Thinking of you xxx
So sorry to hear this, just proves that you have no idea what goes on in people’s lives! Been watching your videos for a a while now! All the best for the future x
Thankyou for sharing. I’ve had 2 miscarriages this year when trying for our first and it is so helpful to hear other women’s stories. Sending love ❤️ xx
I am so sorry to hear this Kate. I too have been through similar experiences. Although you never fully get over it, it does get easier I promise. You feel quite alone until you speak about it and then you realise how many women are affected by pregnancy loss or infertility. That’s why it’s so so important to speak about your experiences and raising awareness will let someone else know they aren’t alone. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, you’re doing an amazing job. X
You just do you and your family first. We will be here when you chose to return. Thank you for saying it will get better. I am in a bad place with stress and anxiety, I needed to hear that tonight. 💕
Thank you so much for sharing this, Kate ❤️ I had a miscarriage in April this year, my first baby. I’m now 23 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby 🌈 and trying to keep positive and take it a week at a time ❤️ xxx
So sorry for your loss. I think it’s completely understandable to feel like the spark has gone a little. I think so many of us can relate to that aspect this year. It’s sure been one heck of a year! Big squeezes to you and the family x
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I had a miscarriage in May during the first lockdown. It was a very lonely time for me and I know it will stay with me for the rest of my life. The milestones are definitely the hardest. My due date was Christmas Day. My husband has been really supportive and it made him realise he would like a 3rd baby after all! I’m now 17 weeks with our little rainbow. Although I’m extremely anxious which almost stops me enjoying the pregnancy as much as my others, I’m very hopeful for this little one and really looking forward to meeting him or her. All I can say is thank you for sharing and stay the strong and positive person you are xx
First of all, I am so sorry to hear. I think it is very brave of you to share that story and I am sure it will help other women who are experiencing or have experienced the same thing. Despite this obviously very sad topic, I have to say that this video is probably one of my favorite ones you've ever made. Please don't get me wrong but I just found it incredibly honest and authentic, incredibly symaptic. I have been watching you since your first Primark Hauls and you have become one of my favorite persons to follow. All the best and greetings from Austria xx
So sorry to hear your news! I too had a miscarriage in March, infact it was an ectopic pregnancy. However I'm from Asia and speaking about miscarriage is not as taboo or sensitive as it is in the UK. It is so common and all part of the pregnancy journey. Stay strong! Really enjoyed this video, thanks for keeping it so real. Don't worry about negative content, sometimes youtube mummies polish their lives so much on social media it does not help with moms who can't keep things perfect, I love watching content showing the real life of mummies just like this one 😊.
I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I also had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago on Monday. It’s a heartbreaking experience and it’s so brave of you to open your heart to us all and share. Sending so much love x
I am so sorry this has happened to you. You’re very strong to talk about it on such an open platform. I also suffer with health anxiety, for around 9 years now. At the beginning of lockdown I kept convincing myself that I was having heart palpitations which is a new one for me. I don’t think it ever matters how many times you’ve suffered panic attacks they are always terrifying. My phobia is more around choking/not being able to breathe. But it’s always a comfort to hear others talk about their experiences with anxiety because they are always so similar. x
Kate! I am so sorry you’ve been through this. I randomly remembered your account after following you around 2010-2013. This is the first video of yours that I’ve seen in years, and I’m so sorry to hear you’ve experienced this 💕
Sending lots of love and positivity to you and your family Kate! Gosh 10 years, that’s amazing! Congrats on the big 10 lovely. I have watched from the very first video (which is crazy to think about!). I remember being 17 and looking forward to finishing my part time job to go home and watch your latest uploads. You are one of the reasons I started blogging myself, back when I was a teenager, and more recently. I definitely love watching UA-cam as an escape, especially from the mental health issues that I’ve struggled with over the last year. Stay strong! Lots of love xxx
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are not alone. I've have two and it's just so devastating. Like you I had faint lines, but I was as sick as a dog too. The real clue for me was my HG vanishing the evening before it happened. I'd like to say it gets easier but I think it's more a case of coming to terms with it. I hope your spark comes back soon x
So sorry for your loss, sending lots of love. We’ve had 2 miscarriages this year and 5 in total losing 6 angel babies. It’s the most horrible thing to go through and no one knows until they go through it xxx
I’m so sorry for you Kate, big big love to you all. ❤️ we love and adore you, whether it’s the mundane every day which I think we all love and appreciate to your fabulous organising videos. Take your time and know that we will be here when you are ok. Take care of yourself and a breather is needed for us all at times. Health anxiety is so tough, as a fellow sufferer with OCD thrown in to boot it can be awe consuming. Lots of love x
I don’t ever comment on people’s videos but this really touched me. I’ve followed you for years, back in the dolly bowbow days and just wanted to send you loads of love, light and positivity! Thinking of you and your family ❤️
Kate never explain ..pain is not a competition..we are fighting our own battles and loses .. you are entitled to feel how you feel keep safe and so sorry for your loss xx
I got the vibe that you were struggling a little this year. So pleased you are comfortable enough now to talk about it. It’s really a good healing tool to talk about these things x
Oh Kate I'm sorry sorry for u both. Horrible thing to happen. To myself too so I totally get it. My heart goes out to u. Love how honist u are and can show that life just isn't perfect and not always making videos that are 'perfect' like many other mum's. Thankyou for being you and sharing that all with us. You are the priority....don't worry about having to get videos up, life happens....we're all going to still be here, waiting cos we love what u do and love watching u and ur family xxoo
So sorry to hear about this Kate. You are so strong and you are so right in talking about this publicly because it is part of your journey and your story. I recently experienced an ovarian ectopic pregnancy and have struggled emotionally because none of my friends have been through anything similar or had babies, so it feels very much like they don’t understand. Keep talking to people that bring you some comfort and make you feel supported. I hope that whatever you decide for the future, both you and Ricky can start to heal xxxx
So sorry you went through this hunny. I’ve been there is nothing like it. You are amazing for speaking out it’s so common but not many people want to discuss it. You will be helping a lot of mamas out ❤️ sending love to anyone experiencing/ who has experienced this ❤️
Sending lots of love ❤️ we had two miscarriages last year and are now trying to find our way through different treatments during this unknown time. I was the same with not knowing how common it really was and it opened up a whole new world of support. Best wishes to you and your family x
Oh lovely Kate, I’m so sorry to hear you experienced this pain. It is unfortunately very common but that fact doesn’t make it any easier. I went through two miscarriages, one after the other and they were incredibly harming to my mental health, not to mention the physical pain too. Thank you for sharing your personal story with us you brave lady. Wishing you and your family health and happiness. Xx
You are an amazing and strong woman Kate. I feel like you don’t really owe us something so deeply personal to you and your family. But happy you did share this, and supportive of you, and how you are. Keep smiling and stay strong
Great video Kate, what you have been through is hard and I’m so sorry you had to go through it, you definitely need time to rest and look after yourself and family. Do what you need to do and come back when you’re ready. I love all your videos, love hauls, Christmas stuff, day in the lifexx
Whilst watching all of this I just wanted to give you a huge hug! I've been through 2 misscarages and its heartbreaking and it's okay to mourn even if people disregard what's happend. Dont put pressure on yourself it's been a tough year and do UA-cam for you and dont put pressure on yourself to make loads videos. I suffer from panic attacks and recently health anxiety (not due to covid) and my panic attack this year was so bad I called the ambulance I generally thought I was going to die. My whole body seized up and literally couldn't move. I'm sending so much love! You got this but be kind to yourself ❤
Oh Kate I’m so so sorry you had to go through this! I too experienced this twice before I had my first boy and it was a very difficult time for me and my husband and like you said I felt like my body had failed me. But then I discovered many women on instagram who had gone through the same (and worse) and it helped to feel like this was normal unfortunately, and that I wasn’t alone. The fact that others have experienced worse (or still are) does not take away from you feeling all your feelings about miscarrying. I feel like once you see that line, no matter how faint it may be, there is this future life that takes form in your mind and heart and once you miscarry you grieve that loss, and think about all those ‘would-have-beens’. Anyway I hope you’re well and I wish you strength and a hug ❤️ xx
As all the others, I’m so sorry to hear your news. You’re so strong and brave to tell your story, but I think with sharing your story you’re helping a lot of women. I had a few rough months myself with starting a job in a children’s home, after finishing uni. I had my struggles to watch UA-cam videos which were always fun and bubbly and kind of unrealistic, whilst I was crying every evening, having anxiety and panic attacks. I loved all your declutter and organisation videos even the food hauls, they are so relaxing and help me calm down. All the love from Germany ✨
Take care, you are not alone.⭐ I'm watching this while my rainbow baby is sleeping next to me. Time can't make you forget the pain but it can help heal. X
Oh Kate never feel like you have to justify your own feelings, especially after this year! Everything you feel is completely valid and I’m so so sorry to hear about your struggles. Sending you and your family all the love and positive vibes. Also because you asked, I’m loving family vlogs right now! Xxx
I think my partner has a certain level of health anxiety but he wouldn't really talk about so it's helpful to hear what you have to say. Sending you a big squeeze and always looking forward to your content. I love food shopping hauls/cooking/clean with me/chatty updates/vlogs/routines, really love your house stuff. Would love to see Christmas hauls, Christmas traditions, but whatever you decide to post or not, it's cool. Take care Kate xx
So sorry to hear of your miscarriage. Thank you for talking about it. I've had 3 miscarriages, the first one in 2015 and have only started talking about them recently. I've found it very difficult to speak about mainly because I didn't want the sympathy, I'm quite a private griever, but now I feel I owe honesty to people to make them aware of these struggles. I hope you're ok xxx
I’m so so sorry to hear this Kate, I can see how painful it was to talk about, I’ve been through a miscarriage too and it’s heartbreaking. Don’t worry about not being as visible, your job must be so tough when you go though hard times but we all understand. Sending you lots of love 😘😘😘
Thank you for speaking out about miscarriage. It feels like such a taboo subject, so to see someone using there platform to speak out is amazing. I went through a miscarriage weeks ago, we had been trying and like you say, the emotional side of it hurts more. ❤️❤️❤️
I think that's the most sincere video I have ever watched and felt like it was a friend talking to me. I watch Fleur and Erin and it was heartbreaking to hear the news so I really appreciated how you put your own story across. I am so sorry for your loss and i know from my own friends , not on UA-cam, who have lost a baby that it's no not easy. Thank you for just being you. Take care x
So sorry to hear this happened Kate, please take all the time you need to look after yourselves and your family, it’s so important ❤️ I’ve been watching you since your Dolly Bow Bow days and you’ve always been my favourite here on UA-cam, even when you became a mum and started creating different content (I’m not a mum myself just yet) I still love to watch you because of who you are as a person 🥰 Watching this made me feel really emotional this morning but has also given me a sense of calm and made me feel much better so thank you.
I've 3 boys 25 and 20year old twins, my baby should have been 28 this January and my heart still hurts, good on you for talking, you might just be surprised how much this video will help you!! 😘❤ x
I’m glad you made this video. I love your channel and would support you whatever. Personally, as a mum to a 1 and a 2 year old, I’d love videos about how to juggle childcare and self-care. I’d love play ideas. I LOVE the home content (currently decorating the home I built nearly 2 years ago). Vlogs of just day-to-day life are always nice too. Despite saying all that, I would like most for you to put out content that you feel you want to put out there and that represents who you are, and not feel too pressured to try and make videos just to satisfy the audience. Take care 😘
Sending you lots of love. Times have been very difficult this year. I’m just taking each day as it comes, trying to live with anxiety is very hard. Let’s hope next year things are a little easier 💕
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I had two miscarriages before I had my son, one at 7 weeks and one at 10 weeks. It's so hard but it is also so common and that's not widely enough understood. So thank you for using your platform to spread awareness of this and let women in this position know that they are not alone and they're not to blame xxx
So sorry for what you have experienced Kate! Thinking of you! You have been so strong and thank you for being open you didn’t owe a explanation and it’s a big thing to discuss ❤️ x
Awwww Kate 🤗 health anxiety, pandemic and loss, what a heavy time for you, sending you a huge virtual hug. A person is a person no matter how small, as soon as you see those two lines your whole mindset changes. You are allowed to grieve for what you are missing. The what IFS are the hardest 💔 I heard someone say that grief is just love with nowhere to go, and I think that sums up the loss of a wanted pregnancy so aptly. Thank you for being so open about how difficult life has been, talking about loss and your health anxiety normalises as it for others who end up in a similar situation. Please please take care of yourself, and don't feel like you need to reply to everyone... when you talk about loss publicly you might be inundated with people wanting to say 'me too'' and share their stories and it's easy to get triggered 💕 Also - best advice - ''Stop asking women if they are pregnant'' 🤰👏🏻 🚫✋
Sending you so much love Kate! I've been watching your videos since I was about 12 - I'm 23 now I don't think I've missed one. You're incredible, and I have loved watching your journey. Keep strong & stay safe! xx
So sorry to hear about your miscarriage and your anxiety Kate, you’re such a lovely woman and I hope that you’re okay. It’s hard but everything happens for a reason and you’ll be more than okay, sending love to you 💕
Hi Kate, sending you lots of hugs. I can totally empathise with you having suffered an ectopic pregnancy last year. Whilst different the emotions are the same. I also suffer from an anxiety condition and want to say that speaking out really does help others, you’re very brave. Stay strong and good luck with the hypnotherapy 🤞🏻 X
Supporting you and the family 💕 Its so nice to see other people talk about things are still a little taboo when it's all completely relatable and sooo many people go through the same or similar. I hate the word 'nornal'. Thank you Kate 😘
Thank you for updating us. Please don't ever feel the pressure to produce content. Life can be so hard so give yourself breathing space. Some video ideas: gift guide for your boys/their favourite current toys etc (to save you buying lots) House organisation Capsule wardrobe for your boys/favourite clothing Rainy day activities Family budget/Christmas budgeting Hope this helps a little x
Thank you for sharing , it’s a very hard thing to go though emotionally and physically and if taking time away from UA-cam and the internet then so be it rest assured it will get better Xxx those comments are not okay as like you say they could have lost a baby or have PTSD or anything it’s a very sensitive subject don’t ask people.
Sending virtual hugs Kate xx Thank you for sharing, it was very brave ❤️ I am an endometriosis sufferer and struggled to have a baby but thankfully had my daughter(who is now a teenager) with help from amazing fertility treatment. I fell pregnant naturally about 4 years later but the same thing happened to me - I had a positive digital test saying 2-3 weeks pregnant but a subsequent test was negative and a day later I started bleeding. It just makes me even more grateful for my daughter xx
I’m so sorry for your loss, Kate! 💕 You are such a kind, genuinely lovely, brave and inspirational woman & mom! A couple of years ago I had a stillbirth at 39 weeks with my second son. This past March though I was blessed to give birth to a healthy baby girl (my rainbow baby)! I personally found it very comforting to hear other women talk about their losses when I experienced my loss so thank you for helping to break the silence!
People don’t talk about miscarriage, when I had one in 2017 I was open with people and I was so surprised how many other people had had one but had never spoke about it. I found doing something to honour out angel baby helped me get past what had happened. Sending you love and that you get your rainbow baby 🌈. We had our beautiful rainbow baby in 2018 and im 25 weeks pregnant with baby number 2 xxxx
So sorry to hear this Kate :( I had 2 early miscarriages while trying to conceive my second child. I now have two healthy and beautiful children. Agree it is so important to talk about this, as one of the worst parts about it for me was that I felt so incredibly alone. Sending you big hugs 💗
Very brave for this video, been subscribed for years and so glad you’ll be back soon but don’t think that you can’t take time out for you and your family. Family always comes first and don’t ever feel guilty of it.
Honestly Kate you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone 💖. Take care of yourself & your family first. If you don’t get to post, you don’t get to post. Your health & happiness is more important. Sending much love & hugs to you xx
Oh Kate ❤️😭 it annoys me so much when people ask others when they’re having babies etc - nobody knows what others are going through and it’s so so personal and insensitive. You didn’t ramble it was perfectly put. Sending you all the love and well wishes EVER xxx
So sorry for your struggles this year Kate. It’s absolutely true that people need to stop commenting and asking women about pregnancies or assuming. Sending you my best wishes 💛💛
So sorry to hear this Kate. But keeping these lines of communication open on your channel and within your community is so important I commend you for it. Also, if this helps anyone else, I had an almost non existent line (was sure it was negative!) on 2 tests with my second baby and had a very healthy pregnancy and birth :)
Kate I’m so sorry you miscarried. Thank you for sharing with us. I’ve been watching your channel since you were pregnant Archie. I felt honoured to see your video of Elliott’s birth, it was so moving. If you feel you could be more candid now through the hard times then I’m sure they would be meaningful to many of us.
I don't fully know how to articulate this, but this video felt like you really reached out and saw me and acknowledged that this year is hard. You are seen as well. Sending well wishes 💗💗
I’m so sorry you experienced this. Thank you for opening up about it and helping other women. It takes such an emotional toll when you go through this. It should be talked about more because it is common. 💗💗💗💗💗
Thanks for sharing. I found out I was suffering a miscarriage for a second time yesterday at 8 weeks. I'm beyond heartbroken. You have been so brave talking about it. Take care x
Any time you need to take a break from social media and UA-cam take all the time you need/want. We are always here for you. Sending you a lot of positive thoughts and love
So sorry to hear this Kate, very brave of you to share. It's been a very difficult year for lots of people, sending best wishes to you and your family x
I'm so sorry for your loss Kate. I unfortunately understand. I'm still waiting for my rainbow baby after loosing 2 babies. I didnt realise how common it was until people started talking about it. Your strong and such a beautiful person inside and out. Hope you are ok. Xx
Bless you Kate. So brave to talk about this and help others. I can see the sadness amidst the bravery. Sending love and prayers for a healthy pregnancy when the time is right xxx
Oh bless you Kate, sending you a big hug. Glad you’ve been taking care of yourself and your boys. So sorry to hear the news about your miscarriage, it’s such a hard topic to talk about. I always love your Christmas content, love seeing a DIY video or what you bought the boys. x
I’m so sorry Kate. I lost my baby boy 15 weeks into my pregnancy in December 2019. My first pregnancy and a much wanted, longed for baby. Still hoping and praying that I will get my rainbow baby one day. Please find comfort in your family and your beautiful sons 💖💖 sending you lots of love xxx
I’m so sorry!! Hope you and family become stronger through the pain. We love you and understand you! ❤️❤️ I had my first miscarriage and then I had my rainbow baby. She now 11 months on 24th. God has a plan for you! ❤️❤️
Your most recent videos I've loved are the home renovation ones. I love your organising videos Not tips, but just seeing your projects. I love your home sense shop with me and hauls and your classic videos like what I got for my birthday. As a side note, I appreciate you sharing all aspects of your motherhood journey When you got pregnant with your second child, and posted the video announcing it that showed you chronicling your trying to conceive journey, and you mentioned that you got pregnant the first month, I was over joyed for you, and I was humbled to see how grateful you were. At the same time, I was going thru miscarriage and infertility when I saw that video, and had that video not been balanced out with all the other videos of youtubers sharing their miscarriage experiences (e.g. Hannah Maggs), I wouldve felt alone in my experience. Thank you for being so sensitive when sharing your good news and your bad news. God bless you and your family xx
I'm so sorry you went through this ❤ you are very right though people should not ask.. I had lost a baby 2 years ago and bumped into someone I knew who had recently had their baby and was asked "are you done then now with yours?" And I was so cross,because not only was I not 'done' I had just lost a very wanted baby.. she then thrust her baby into my arms and I felt that emotional I thought I was going to drop the baby it was horrendous! It wasn't done to make me upset,I know but it did ! I wish you health and happiness for the future, it really has been a dreadful year xx
So sorry you’ve been through this. I think as women it really is so important to discuss it with one another, because knowone quite understands that loss than another woman who has been through it. I have had two miscarriages, one singleton, and one was the twin of my now very healthy 6 year old. Be kind to yourself. xxxx
I’m so sorry to hear of your sad news. It happened to me back in February and was an awful experience. I hope you’re ok. I also really understand and empathise with you on the anxiety too. I have Emetophobia and this year has been particularly bad for me with my anxiety blown out of all proportion for one reason or another 😩 Let’s hope next year will be a better one for everyone 🤞🏻 xx
Was so good to hear you talk about this Kate, totally agree that the first thing I found comfort in with my miscarriage was other experiences. Take care, the milestones do stick and we’re here for you xxxxx
Kate thank you so much for sharing this update with us, you are so brave and strong.
I have been subscribed to your channel for many years and I feel like I have truly grown up alongside you.
I can honestly say I have loved all of your content and I feel like you always work so hard on the videos/projects you create.
Thank you for being there for us!
P.S. I think an update on your puppies would be adorable! I love to seem them in your videos! Maybe you could share their routines! :)
Sorry to hear that Kate, hope you feel better in yourself for sharing this. Sending a virtual hug and looking forward to your next videos. I love your house/renovations, shopping hauls and fashion videos xx
I really appreciate when UA-camrs are honest with their viewers as like you say it shows its not all happy all the time and people go through similar experiences. I'm sorry you've been through a horrible few months. Really enjoy your Channel and look forward to watching some of your new videos. 😊
So sorry to hear about your miscarriage Kate. You are such a strong woman to talk about your ordeal and put yourself out there like this. Sending you hugs and lots of love xx
I’m so sorry Kate. You will have helped so many by speaking out on your loss and experience, I hope that gives you a little comfort and encouragement. Lots of love xo
Oh Kate I’m so sorry to hear, and you did so well to talk about it with so much composure. You’re such a strong woman. I’m sending you all my love and wishing you the very best 🌈 xxx
So sorry to hear your news.
Hope you feel better talking about your loss and panic attacks. Sometimes they creep up on us with no warning don’t they. Don’t pressure yourself to do things too much will you or it will just all feel overwhelming. Take good care xx
I’m so sorry for your loss, Kate. Like many of the people here, I have experienced something similar and there is nothing else to say apart from sorry really...It’s genuine grief for a life and possibility lost. It deserves time. Lots of love and best wishes to you xxx
Im so sorry to hear about your loss and how life has been affecting you. We also suffered our first missed miscarriage in August at 15 weeks and were so devastated. I definitely have some up and down days but thankful to have our little boy to keep us entertained and busy day to day. Thinking of you xxx
So sorry to hear this, just proves that you have no idea what goes on in people’s lives! Been watching your videos for a a while now! All the best for the future x
Thankyou for sharing. I’ve had 2 miscarriages this year when trying for our first and it is so helpful to hear other women’s stories. Sending love ❤️ xx
I am so sorry to hear this Kate. I too have been through similar experiences. Although you never fully get over it, it does get easier I promise. You feel quite alone until you speak about it and then you realise how many women are affected by pregnancy loss or infertility. That’s why it’s so so important to speak about your experiences and raising awareness will let someone else know they aren’t alone.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, you’re doing an amazing job. X
You just do you and your family first. We will be here when you chose to return. Thank you for saying it will get better. I am in a bad place with stress and anxiety, I needed to hear that tonight. 💕
Sending love. I hope you’re ok xx
Thank you so much for sharing this, Kate ❤️ I had a miscarriage in April this year, my first baby. I’m now 23 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby 🌈 and trying to keep positive and take it a week at a time ❤️ xxx
So sorry for your loss. I think it’s completely understandable to feel like the spark has gone a little. I think so many of us can relate to that aspect this year. It’s sure been one heck of a year! Big squeezes to you and the family x
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m so sorry to hear of your loss.
I had a miscarriage in May during the first lockdown. It was a very lonely time for me and I know it will stay with me for the rest of my life. The milestones are definitely the hardest. My due date was Christmas Day.
My husband has been really supportive and it made him realise he would like a 3rd baby after all! I’m now 17 weeks with our little rainbow. Although I’m extremely anxious which almost stops me enjoying the pregnancy as much as my others, I’m very hopeful for this little one and really looking forward to meeting him or her.
All I can say is thank you for sharing and stay the strong and positive person you are xx
First of all, I am so sorry to hear. I think it is very brave of you to share that story and I am sure it will help other women who are experiencing or have experienced the same thing.
Despite this obviously very sad topic, I have to say that this video is probably one of my favorite ones you've ever made. Please don't get me wrong but I just found it incredibly honest and authentic, incredibly symaptic. I have been watching you since your first Primark Hauls and you have become one of my favorite persons to follow. All the best and greetings from Austria xx
So sorry to hear your news! I too had a miscarriage in March, infact it was an ectopic pregnancy. However I'm from Asia and speaking about miscarriage is not as taboo or sensitive as it is in the UK. It is so common and all part of the pregnancy journey. Stay strong! Really enjoyed this video, thanks for keeping it so real. Don't worry about negative content, sometimes youtube mummies polish their lives so much on social media it does not help with moms who can't keep things perfect, I love watching content showing the real life of mummies just like this one 😊.
I’m so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I also had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago on Monday. It’s a heartbreaking experience and it’s so brave of you to open your heart to us all and share. Sending so much love x
We understand you Kate. I wish you a happy and healthy life. You are strong and you’ll get over it, do not be concerned! Love from UAE💌
I am so sorry this has happened to you. You’re very strong to talk about it on such an open platform.
I also suffer with health anxiety, for around 9 years now. At the beginning of lockdown I kept convincing myself that I was having heart palpitations which is a new one for me. I don’t think it ever matters how many times you’ve suffered panic attacks they are always terrifying. My phobia is more around choking/not being able to breathe. But it’s always a comfort to hear others talk about their experiences with anxiety because they are always so similar. x
Kate! I am so sorry you’ve been through this. I randomly remembered your account after following you around 2010-2013. This is the first video of yours that I’ve seen in years, and I’m so sorry to hear you’ve experienced this 💕
Sending lots of love and positivity to you and your family Kate! Gosh 10 years, that’s amazing! Congrats on the big 10 lovely. I have watched from the very first video (which is crazy to think about!). I remember being 17 and looking forward to finishing my part time job to go home and watch your latest uploads. You are one of the reasons I started blogging myself, back when I was a teenager, and more recently. I definitely love watching UA-cam as an escape, especially from the mental health issues that I’ve struggled with over the last year. Stay strong! Lots of love xxx
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are not alone. I've have two and it's just so devastating. Like you I had faint lines, but I was as sick as a dog too. The real clue for me was my HG vanishing the evening before it happened. I'd like to say it gets easier but I think it's more a case of coming to terms with it. I hope your spark comes back soon x
I am so sorry for your loss. It's so kind of you to share this xxx
So sorry for your loss, sending lots of love. We’ve had 2 miscarriages this year and 5 in total losing 6 angel babies. It’s the most horrible thing to go through and no one knows until they go through it xxx
I’m so sorry for you Kate, big big love to you all. ❤️ we love and adore you, whether it’s the mundane every day which I think we all love and appreciate to your fabulous organising videos. Take your time and know that we will be here when you are ok. Take care of yourself and a breather is needed for us all at times.
Health anxiety is so tough, as a fellow sufferer with OCD thrown in to boot it can be awe consuming. Lots of love x
I don’t ever comment on people’s videos but this really touched me. I’ve followed you for years, back in the dolly bowbow days and just wanted to send you loads of love, light and positivity! Thinking of you and your family ❤️
Kate never explain ..pain is not a competition..we are fighting our own battles and loses .. you are entitled to feel how you feel keep safe and so sorry for your loss xx
I got the vibe that you were struggling a little this year. So pleased you are comfortable enough now to talk about it. It’s really a good healing tool to talk about these things x
Oh Kate I'm sorry sorry for u both. Horrible thing to happen. To myself too so I totally get it. My heart goes out to u. Love how honist u are and can show that life just isn't perfect and not always making videos that are 'perfect' like many other mum's. Thankyou for being you and sharing that all with us. You are the priority....don't worry about having to get videos up, life happens....we're all going to still be here, waiting cos we love what u do and love watching u and ur family xxoo
So sorry to hear about this Kate. You are so strong and you are so right in talking about this publicly because it is part of your journey and your story. I recently experienced an ovarian ectopic pregnancy and have struggled emotionally because none of my friends have been through anything similar or had babies, so it feels very much like they don’t understand. Keep talking to people that bring you some comfort and make you feel supported. I hope that whatever you decide for the future, both you and Ricky can start to heal xxxx
“It will all be okay in the end, and if it’s not okay it’s not the end” ❤️
So sorry you went through this hunny. I’ve been there is nothing like it. You are amazing for speaking out it’s so common but not many people want to discuss it. You will be helping a lot of mamas out ❤️ sending love to anyone experiencing/ who has experienced this ❤️
Sending lots of love ❤️ we had two miscarriages last year and are now trying to find our way through different treatments during this unknown time. I was the same with not knowing how common it really was and it opened up a whole new world of support. Best wishes to you and your family x
Oh lovely Kate, I’m so sorry to hear you experienced this pain. It is unfortunately very common but that fact doesn’t make it any easier. I went through two miscarriages, one after the other and they were incredibly harming to my mental health, not to mention the physical pain too. Thank you for sharing your personal story with us you brave lady. Wishing you and your family health and happiness. Xx
You are an amazing and strong woman Kate. I feel like you don’t really owe us something so deeply personal to you and your family. But happy you did share this, and supportive of you, and how you are. Keep smiling and stay strong
Great video Kate, what you have been through is hard and I’m so sorry you had to go through it, you definitely need time to rest and look after yourself and family. Do what you need to do and come back when you’re ready. I love all your videos, love hauls, Christmas stuff, day in the lifexx
Whilst watching all of this I just wanted to give you a huge hug! I've been through 2 misscarages and its heartbreaking and it's okay to mourn even if people disregard what's happend. Dont put pressure on yourself it's been a tough year and do UA-cam for you and dont put pressure on yourself to make loads videos. I suffer from panic attacks and recently health anxiety (not due to covid) and my panic attack this year was so bad I called the ambulance I generally thought I was going to die. My whole body seized up and literally couldn't move. I'm sending so much love! You got this but be kind to yourself ❤
Oh Kate I’m so so sorry you had to go through this! I too experienced this twice before I had my first boy and it was a very difficult time for me and my husband and like you said I felt like my body had failed me. But then I discovered many women on instagram who had gone through the same (and worse) and it helped to feel like this was normal unfortunately, and that I wasn’t alone. The fact that others have experienced worse (or still are) does not take away from you feeling all your feelings about miscarrying. I feel like once you see that line, no matter how faint it may be, there is this future life that takes form in your mind and heart and once you miscarry you grieve that loss, and think about all those ‘would-have-beens’. Anyway I hope you’re well and I wish you strength and a hug ❤️ xx
As all the others, I’m so sorry to hear your news. You’re so strong and brave to tell your story, but I think with sharing your story you’re helping a lot of women. I had a few rough months myself with starting a job in a children’s home, after finishing uni. I had my struggles to watch UA-cam videos which were always fun and bubbly and kind of unrealistic, whilst I was crying every evening, having anxiety and panic attacks. I loved all your declutter and organisation videos even the food hauls, they are so relaxing and help me calm down. All the love from Germany ✨
Take care, you are not alone.⭐ I'm watching this while my rainbow baby is sleeping next to me. Time can't make you forget the pain but it can help heal. X
Oh Kate never feel like you have to justify your own feelings, especially after this year! Everything you feel is completely valid and I’m so so sorry to hear about your struggles. Sending you and your family all the love and positive vibes.
Also because you asked, I’m loving family vlogs right now! Xxx
Lots of love Kate. So brave of you to share. You are inspirational to me. Sending you lots of love and positivity and strength xx
I think my partner has a certain level of health anxiety but he wouldn't really talk about so it's helpful to hear what you have to say.
Sending you a big squeeze and always looking forward to your content. I love food shopping hauls/cooking/clean with me/chatty updates/vlogs/routines, really love your house stuff. Would love to see Christmas hauls, Christmas traditions, but whatever you decide to post or not, it's cool. Take care Kate xx
So sorry to hear of your miscarriage. Thank you for talking about it. I've had 3 miscarriages, the first one in 2015 and have only started talking about them recently. I've found it very difficult to speak about mainly because I didn't want the sympathy, I'm quite a private griever, but now I feel I owe honesty to people to make them aware of these struggles.
I hope you're ok xxx
I’m so so sorry to hear this Kate, I can see how painful it was to talk about, I’ve been through a miscarriage too and it’s heartbreaking. Don’t worry about not being as visible, your job must be so tough when you go though hard times but we all understand. Sending you lots of love 😘😘😘
Well done for talking about it so publicly - very brave and I applaud you. You will be OK even if it doesn’t feel like it sometimes xxx
Thank you for speaking out about miscarriage. It feels like such a taboo subject, so to see someone using there platform to speak out is amazing. I went through a miscarriage weeks ago, we had been trying and like you say, the emotional side of it hurts more. ❤️❤️❤️
I think that's the most sincere video I have ever watched and felt like it was a friend talking to me. I watch Fleur and Erin and it was heartbreaking to hear the news so I really appreciated how you put your own story across. I am so sorry for your loss and i know from my own friends , not on UA-cam, who have lost a baby that it's no not easy. Thank you for just being you. Take care x
So sorry to hear this happened Kate, please take all the time you need to look after yourselves and your family, it’s so important ❤️ I’ve been watching you since your Dolly Bow Bow days and you’ve always been my favourite here on UA-cam, even when you became a mum and started creating different content (I’m not a mum myself just yet) I still love to watch you because of who you are as a person 🥰 Watching this made me feel really emotional this morning but has also given me a sense of calm and made me feel much better so thank you.
I've 3 boys 25 and 20year old twins, my baby should have been 28 this January and my heart still hurts, good on you for talking, you might just be surprised how much this video will help you!! 😘❤ x
I’m glad you made this video. I love your channel and would support you whatever. Personally, as a mum to a 1 and a 2 year old, I’d love videos about how to juggle childcare and self-care. I’d love play ideas. I LOVE the home content (currently decorating the home I built nearly 2 years ago). Vlogs of just day-to-day life are always nice too.
Despite saying all that, I would like most for you to put out content that you feel you want to put out there and that represents who you are, and not feel too pressured to try and make videos just to satisfy the audience.
Take care 😘
Sending you lots of love. Times have been very difficult this year. I’m just taking each day as it comes, trying to live with anxiety is very hard. Let’s hope next year things are a little easier 💕
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I had two miscarriages before I had my son, one at 7 weeks and one at 10 weeks. It's so hard but it is also so common and that's not widely enough understood. So thank you for using your platform to spread awareness of this and let women in this position know that they are not alone and they're not to blame xxx
So sorry for what you have experienced Kate! Thinking of you! You have been so strong and thank you for being open you didn’t owe a explanation and it’s a big thing to discuss ❤️ x
So sorry to hear this happened, you are absolutely not alone, so many of us have sadly been through this ❤️
Awwww Kate 🤗 health anxiety, pandemic and loss, what a heavy time for you, sending you a huge virtual hug. A person is a person no matter how small, as soon as you see those two lines your whole mindset changes. You are allowed to grieve for what you are missing. The what IFS are the hardest 💔 I heard someone say that grief is just love with nowhere to go, and I think that sums up the loss of a wanted pregnancy so aptly.
Thank you for being so open about how difficult life has been, talking about loss and your health anxiety normalises as it for others who end up in a similar situation.
Please please take care of yourself, and don't feel like you need to reply to everyone... when you talk about loss publicly you might be inundated with people wanting to say 'me too'' and share their stories and it's easy to get triggered 💕
Also - best advice - ''Stop asking women if they are pregnant'' 🤰👏🏻 🚫✋
Sending you so much love Kate! I've been watching your videos since I was about 12 - I'm 23 now I don't think I've missed one. You're incredible, and I have loved watching your journey. Keep strong & stay safe! xx
Thank you Saskia! Wow that’s so lovely of you. That really means a lot. Thank you. I hope you’re keeping safe and well too xx
So sorry to hear about your miscarriage and your anxiety Kate, you’re such a lovely woman and I hope that you’re okay. It’s hard but everything happens for a reason and you’ll be more than okay, sending love to you 💕
Hi Kate, sending you lots of hugs. I can totally empathise with you having suffered an ectopic pregnancy last year. Whilst different the emotions are the same. I also suffer from an anxiety condition and want to say that speaking out really does help others, you’re very brave. Stay strong and good luck with the hypnotherapy 🤞🏻 X
Supporting you and the family 💕 Its so nice to see other people talk about things are still a little taboo when it's all completely relatable and sooo many people go through the same or similar. I hate the word 'nornal'.
Thank you Kate 😘
So sorry Kate. You are very brave for sharing this with us. You will help so many people. Take care. Lot of love xxx💖💖💖
Thank you for updating us. Please don't ever feel the pressure to produce content. Life can be so hard so give yourself breathing space.
Some video ideas: gift guide for your boys/their favourite current toys etc (to save you buying lots)
House organisation
Capsule wardrobe for your boys/favourite clothing
Rainy day activities
Family budget/Christmas budgeting
Hope this helps a little x
Thank you for sharing , it’s a very hard thing to go though emotionally and physically and if taking time away from UA-cam and the internet then so be it rest assured it will get better Xxx those comments are not okay as like you say they could have lost a baby or have PTSD or anything it’s a very sensitive subject don’t ask people.
Sending virtual hugs Kate xx Thank you for sharing, it was very brave ❤️ I am an endometriosis sufferer and struggled to have a baby but thankfully had my daughter(who is now a teenager) with help from amazing fertility treatment. I fell pregnant naturally about 4 years later but the same thing happened to me - I had a positive digital test saying 2-3 weeks pregnant but a subsequent test was negative and a day later I started bleeding. It just makes me even more grateful for my daughter xx
I’m so sorry for your loss, Kate! 💕 You are such a kind, genuinely lovely, brave and inspirational woman & mom! A couple of years ago I had a stillbirth at 39 weeks with my second son. This past March though I was blessed to give birth to a healthy baby girl (my rainbow baby)! I personally found it very comforting to hear other women talk about their losses when I experienced my loss so thank you for helping to break the silence!
People don’t talk about miscarriage, when I had one in 2017 I was open with people and I was so surprised how many other people had had one but had never spoke about it. I found doing something to honour out angel baby helped me get past what had happened. Sending you love and that you get your rainbow baby 🌈. We had our beautiful rainbow baby in 2018 and im 25 weeks pregnant with baby number 2 xxxx
I’m so happy for you. Congratulations! I do think it’s good to talk about it if you feel like you can as it normalises it. Xx
@@KateMurnane it helps so much to talk so I really do think you are brave to talk about it on your channel xx
So sorry to hear this Kate :( I had 2 early miscarriages while trying to conceive my second child. I now have two healthy and beautiful children. Agree it is so important to talk about this, as one of the worst parts about it for me was that I felt so incredibly alone. Sending you big hugs 💗
Very brave for this video, been subscribed for years and so glad you’ll be back soon but don’t think that you can’t take time out for you and your family. Family always comes first and don’t ever feel guilty of it.
Honestly Kate you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone 💖. Take care of yourself & your family first. If you don’t get to post, you don’t get to post. Your health & happiness is more important. Sending much love & hugs to you xx
Oh Kate ❤️😭 it annoys me so much when people ask others when they’re having babies etc - nobody knows what others are going through and it’s so so personal and insensitive. You didn’t ramble it was perfectly put. Sending you all the love and well wishes EVER xxx
You are so strong and this will help so many people. I love watching clean and decorate ‘with me’ videos and just general home keeping videos 😊
So sorry for your struggles this year Kate. It’s absolutely true that people need to stop commenting and asking women about pregnancies or assuming. Sending you my best wishes 💛💛
So sorry to hear this Kate. But keeping these lines of communication open on your channel and within your community is so important I commend you for it. Also, if this helps anyone else, I had an almost non existent line (was sure it was negative!) on 2 tests with my second baby and had a very healthy pregnancy and birth :)
So sorry to hear what you've been through but glad to see you back. I love your home and decorating content plus general cosy family vlogs.
Kate I’m so sorry you miscarried. Thank you for sharing with us. I’ve been watching your channel since you were pregnant Archie. I felt honoured to see your video of Elliott’s birth, it was so moving. If you feel you could be more candid now through the hard times then I’m sure they would be meaningful to many of us.
Oh Kate I'm so sorry to hear your news. Hope you're ok xx
I don't fully know how to articulate this, but this video felt like you really reached out and saw me and acknowledged that this year is hard. You are seen as well. Sending well wishes 💗💗
I’m so sorry that you have gone through this! You don’t need to justify things, just take your time and come back when your ready! Much love xxxxx
I’m so sorry you experienced this. Thank you for opening up about it and helping other women. It takes such an emotional toll when you go through this. It should be talked about more because it is common. 💗💗💗💗💗
Thanks for sharing. I found out I was suffering a miscarriage for a second time yesterday at 8 weeks. I'm beyond heartbroken. You have been so brave talking about it. Take care x
Any time you need to take a break from social media and UA-cam take all the time you need/want. We are always here for you. Sending you a lot of positive thoughts and love
So sorry to hear this Kate, very brave of you to share. It's been a very difficult year for lots of people, sending best wishes to you and your family x
I'm so sorry for your loss Kate. I unfortunately understand. I'm still waiting for my rainbow baby after loosing 2 babies. I didnt realise how common it was until people started talking about it. Your strong and such a beautiful person inside and out. Hope you are ok. Xx
So sorry for your loss!
Your so lovely to watch...health comes first so take your time xx
Sending you so much love!! We will always be here support you whether you post once a week or once a month - love your content! xxxx
Bless you Kate. So brave to talk about this and help others. I can see the sadness amidst the bravery. Sending love and prayers for a healthy pregnancy when the time is right xxx
Oh Kate, my heart goes out to you 💖 I’m glad you have talked about it, not only for us and the recognition but for yourself too, keep being strong 💖
Oh bless you Kate, sending you a big hug. Glad you’ve been taking care of yourself and your boys. So sorry to hear the news about your miscarriage, it’s such a hard topic to talk about. I always love your Christmas content, love seeing a DIY video or what you bought the boys. x
I’m so sorry Kate. I lost my baby boy 15 weeks into my pregnancy in December 2019. My first pregnancy and a much wanted, longed for baby. Still hoping and praying that I will get my rainbow baby one day. Please find comfort in your family and your beautiful sons 💖💖 sending you lots of love xxx
Sending you love! I also lost my first baby at 12 weeks at the end of 2019 and am still waiting for my rainbow 🌈
So sorry for your loss , so brave of you to share how you feel xxx
I’m so sorry!! Hope you and family become stronger through the pain. We love you and understand you! ❤️❤️
I had my first miscarriage and then I had my rainbow baby. She now 11 months on 24th. God has a plan for you! ❤️❤️
Your most recent videos I've loved are the home renovation ones. I love your organising videos
Not tips, but just seeing your projects. I love your home sense shop with me and hauls and your classic videos like what I got for my birthday.
As a side note, I appreciate you sharing all aspects of your motherhood journey
When you got pregnant with your second child, and posted the video announcing it that showed you chronicling your trying to conceive journey, and you mentioned that you got pregnant the first month, I was over joyed for you, and I was humbled to see how grateful you were. At the same time, I was going thru miscarriage and infertility when I saw that video, and had that video not been balanced out with all the other videos of youtubers sharing their miscarriage experiences (e.g. Hannah Maggs), I wouldve felt alone in my experience. Thank you for being so sensitive when sharing your good news and your bad news. God bless you and your family xx
So strong! Thinking of you and your family. Don't worry about your channel, we can wait as long as you need to feel ready to return.
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I'm so sorry you went through this ❤ you are very right though people should not ask.. I had lost a baby 2 years ago and bumped into someone I knew who had recently had their baby and was asked "are you done then now with yours?" And I was so cross,because not only was I not 'done' I had just lost a very wanted baby.. she then thrust her baby into my arms and I felt that emotional I thought I was going to drop the baby it was horrendous! It wasn't done to make me upset,I know but it did ! I wish you health and happiness for the future, it really has been a dreadful year xx
I am so sorry for your loss. When I miscarried 29 years ago people did not talk about it. I am glad people can discuss their loss openly now.
So sorry you’ve been through this. I think as women it really is so important to discuss it with one another, because knowone quite understands that loss than another woman who has been through it. I have had two miscarriages, one singleton, and one was the twin of my now very healthy 6 year old. Be kind to yourself. xxxx
I’m so sorry to hear of your sad news. It happened to me back in February and was an awful experience. I hope you’re ok.
I also really understand and empathise with you on the anxiety too. I have Emetophobia and this year has been particularly bad for me with my anxiety blown out of all proportion for one reason or another 😩
Let’s hope next year will be a better one for everyone 🤞🏻 xx