THANK YOU FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO TELL MY STORY HOPEFULLY WE ARE SUCCESSFUL IN COURT IN TWO WEEKS AND I CAN RETURN TO TELL THE REST WE RAN OUT OF TIME! LOVE TO ALL THE DADS OUT THERE WHO FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT EVERY DAY!
23:39 he stuttering cos he told his new woman there was no one in the pic, talkless of still living with the former girl. What woman is gonna get with you from when ur still living with ur ex?! He ain’t all straight das all imma say.
EXACTLY MY THOUGHT! And getting both women pregnant at the same time?! He has 2 children... At 49:48 he says that he's got another daughter who is about 6 months in age difference.. and 1:15:49 that his current partner told the other woman that she's pregnant just after the first Woman's "20 week scan period". AG SHAME!
@@NylaGray-w9the here talking like he didn’t create the situation he’s in. I see through the BS and at certain points the interviewer knew he was lying. What the interviewer will find out in the long run is that most men are not innocent but in fact manipulators crying about the karma of their actions. He’ll see for the most part men are the problem.
Well done Thomas, it's draining emotionally and physically, but don't give up on the fight. You have a right to see your daughter and be the dad her and also build a relationship with her sister. I'm a woman and too many women prevent dads from seeing their child/children, some have valid reasons like abuse or toxic relationship, but from your story it doesn't sound like that in your case. Stay stong and keep fighting 💪🏾
Then left with a busted face covered in blood texting the girlfriend to ring the police! Then chose revenge and trainers over his own child by letting himself in with a key he got cut while they was all out visiting their dying aunt Also this guy never kicked anyone he was caught cheating with someone in the middle of the night when she checked his phone in middle of the night, she then left him without hesitation THIS GUY IS THE REAL WALLY
Remarkably similar to my case .. Allegations upon allegations from the mother , absolutely zero corroborative evidence provided. Was in and out of court for 18 months , got a barrister through a charity and eventually got justice for my daughter by way of a joint “live with order” and amendment to her surname , my name on the birth certificate and regular contact . Keep pushing to all my fathers .
Big up, my guy. Gotta say, mad respect for how you handled that madness - kept your cool and showed real perseverance. Not many can stay level-headed when the pressure's on, so big congrats for coming out strong. Now, to the youngers out here - listen up. This generation’s different, yeah? You’ve gotta be smart about who you’re dealing with, especially when it comes to having kids. Trust me, getting the wrong woman pregnant will spin your life off track in ways you don’t even see coming. Focus on building your foundation first, lock in your goals, and don’t let temporary vibes lead to permanent situations. Move wise, my bros.
I'm glad you got Thomas on this podcast, he used to be my soccer (football) coach back when he was staying in America, I have much respect for him as he had given me lots of advice as a player but also fueled me with lots of confidence. Genuinely a positive figure in my life, I wish him best in his fight, he deserves to see his daughter when its all said and done.
What a wicked woman! Here you have a decent man who was willing to take care of his child, yet this woman caused all this chaos for what 🤷🏾♂️ goes to show, one must be careful who you lay down with.
@@andrewl8199 actually listen to how much he contradicts himself, looks at the ceiling, scratches his head and umma and aghs! Then remake that same statement.
Good speaker👊 good luck with the fact find, Thomas - hopefully none of the allegations will found and you will get interim contact prior to the Section 7 report/DRA/Final hearing and shared care after everything!
Man made errors, saw the red flags and now living with the consequences. Be careful who you give your seed too... At least man made better choices in his 2nd relationship...
@ I think hearing both sides of the story would fill in gaps. Like here he left a lot out that I think the other side could fill in that’s all. Maybe you could skip the women’s bit if you didn’t want to hear it
@@suziesmith9076that's a terrible idea. This is a space for men to tell their stories and give advice and guidance to other men. If the women wants to give their own side there are plenty of female podcasts out there for them
Thomas, your ex was heavily pregnant with her first child. She was living at her family place. You had rejected her. You had sent her home; established “boundaries” as you call it. You had taken up with another woman, most probably while you were still with her. You had abandoned her when she was carrying your baby. When she clearly needed you most. You then reported her & her family to the child welfare authorities. Are you proud of your actions?
@@MelanieRuiz_F Do you know that to be fact or is that just what he has told you? Girl, take off your rose coloured glasses and actually look for the truth. If he didn't want a baby then why was he still having unprotected sex with her? He was clearly playing and cheating on both women, got caught out and got left with the only woman who would have him. You, I presume? And clearly you are still being played. Tomas states that the ex filed for a Nonmolestation order, so she clearly did not want or need him in her life. You can tell from this mans speech how bitter he is against her. It is him who cannot carry on with his life, even in his "happy home", which has made you completely bitter too. If I were you I would take notes and be wary, do not be naive because he will do the same to you, just in a much smarter manner because he is learning from each experience. You are just collateral damage in his warfare, no matter how else it might feel. Open your eyes and be ready. Men do not change no matter how 'special' they make you feel, and women, especially mothers, should stick together. Remember that.
Holy matrimonial contract's.In lslam it's called Nikah..I have both If you're sleeping with a lady that is not you wife then she's not yours in reality.. Also 8astard children is not a big thing anymore it was when i was a child in the 90s .We need to bring back the reality of making 8astards a shameful act and bring back shame in general..
@Murphy-b2fyour talking like that making a UA-cam account an hour ago. Wouldn't be surprised if you were from the other side... To make an account just to comment on this video is hilarious if that is the case.
Everyone in here with their degree In how a woman should behave she’s a pregnant person you only become a mother once you give birth. This man literally got another woman pregnant straight after lmao but no one is talking about him protecting himself or these women no it’s ok for him to just spread his seed and then dictate what a woman left should do. I frankly don’t care about your thesis or opinions. And it’s even more audacious to tell women what they should do with their bodies but not tell men to stop destroying a woman’s body or chances of moving on with someone else how beta of you men 🙄
THANK YOU FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO TELL MY STORY HOPEFULLY WE ARE SUCCESSFUL IN COURT IN TWO WEEKS AND I CAN RETURN TO TELL THE REST WE RAN OUT OF TIME! LOVE TO ALL THE DADS OUT THERE WHO FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT EVERY DAY!
Good on you Tom 🙏🏼
Don’t give up Tom ❤
Keep going bro, our kids need us 💪🏾🙌🏾👑
Would love a chat with you if possible?
@@3dwardz stay strong bro, best advice I got was to be consistent!!!
The host needs to do follow-ups with guests.
23:39 he stuttering cos he told his new woman there was no one in the pic, talkless of still living with the former girl. What woman is gonna get with you from when ur still living with ur ex?! He ain’t all straight das all imma say.
EXACTLY MY THOUGHT! And getting both women pregnant at the same time?! He has 2 children... At 49:48 he says that he's got another daughter who is about 6 months in age difference.. and 1:15:49 that his current partner told the other woman that she's pregnant just after the first Woman's "20 week scan period". AG SHAME!
@@NylaGray-w9the here talking like he didn’t create the situation he’s in. I see through the BS and at certain points the interviewer knew he was lying. What the interviewer will find out in the long run is that most men are not innocent but in fact manipulators crying about the karma of their actions. He’ll see for the most part men are the problem.
@@NylaGray-w9t glad other people can see through the murky waters 😂
@@convictednotcondemned3483 Amen my sister
Well done Thomas, it's draining emotionally and physically, but don't give up on the fight. You have a right to see your daughter and be the dad her and also build a relationship with her sister. I'm a woman and too many women prevent dads from seeing their child/children, some have valid reasons like abuse or toxic relationship, but from your story it doesn't sound like that in your case. Stay stong and keep fighting 💪🏾
When the brother said leave he should of just left. Why would you want to be at a place where you are not wanted?
And he's the one that went to confront the brother too.
Then left with a busted face covered in blood texting the girlfriend to ring the police!
Then chose revenge and trainers over his own child by letting himself in with a key he got cut while they was all out visiting their dying aunt
Also this guy never kicked anyone he was caught cheating with someone in the middle of the night when she checked his phone in middle of the night, she then left him without hesitation
THIS GUY IS THE REAL WALLY
Because he would be homeless lol
Nuff man would have given up long time. Well done Tom
Remarkably similar to my case ..
Allegations upon allegations from the mother , absolutely zero corroborative evidence provided.
Was in and out of court for 18 months , got a barrister through a charity and eventually got justice for my daughter by way of a joint “live with order” and amendment to her surname , my name on the birth certificate and regular contact . Keep pushing to all my fathers .
Big up, my guy. Gotta say, mad respect for how you handled that madness - kept your cool and showed real perseverance. Not many can stay level-headed when the pressure's on, so big congrats for coming out strong.
Now, to the youngers out here - listen up. This generation’s different, yeah? You’ve gotta be smart about who you’re dealing with, especially when it comes to having kids. Trust me, getting the wrong woman pregnant will spin your life off track in ways you don’t even see coming. Focus on building your foundation first, lock in your goals, and don’t let temporary vibes lead to permanent situations. Move wise, my bros.
Good advise, young people get caught up in what they think is love and wanting a baby in the moment and then nastiness take a turn quite quickly❤
I am so proud of how articulate he was about his situation. Thomas i wish you all the very best.❤
Long short of it we are barebacking and releasing our seeds in women we would not want to be our child's mother!
Wow... very smart guy, so well articulated, sounds like chat gpt! Hope for the child's sake all gets sorted!
I'm glad you got Thomas on this podcast, he used to be my soccer (football) coach back when he was staying in America, I have much respect for him as he had given me lots of advice as a player but also fueled me with lots of confidence. Genuinely a positive figure in my life, I wish him best in his fight, he deserves to see his daughter when its all said and done.
no smoke without fire i got that feeling about this 1
Feelings are not facts
I don't think he's as innocent as he portrays.
@@MissSunshine_xo I didnt say they was also what FACTS has he proven
What a wicked woman! Here you have a decent man who was willing to take care of his child, yet this woman caused all this chaos for what 🤷🏾♂️ goes to show, one must be careful who you lay down with.
@@andrewl8199 actually listen to how much he contradicts himself, looks at the ceiling, scratches his head and umma and aghs! Then remake that same statement.
Good speaker👊 good luck with the fact find, Thomas - hopefully none of the allegations will found and you will get interim contact prior to the Section 7 report/DRA/Final hearing and shared care after everything!
Very intelligent guy. You can tell. Hope everything gets sorted out especially for the child.
please keep things going u were doing soo well even the call in shows
Man made errors, saw the red flags and now living with the consequences. Be careful who you give your seed too... At least man made better choices in his 2nd relationship...
BIG UP THE BABY FATHERS PODCAST!!!
I think this podcast should hear both sides then make it one episode. It’ll be sick
Naaaa we have enough podcasts listening by to women talk their truth
@ I think hearing both sides of the story would fill in gaps. Like here he left a lot out that I think the other side could fill in that’s all.
Maybe you could skip the women’s bit if you didn’t want to hear it
@@suziesmith9076that's a terrible idea. This is a space for men to tell their stories and give advice and guidance to other men. If the women wants to give their own side there are plenty of female podcasts out there for them
@ why are u so anti hearing both perspectives on the same issue?
@@suziesmith9076 I'm not anti anything. I come on this show to listen to men not women. If I wanted to listen to women I would go to their podcasts
Thomas, your ex was heavily pregnant with her first child. She was living at her family place. You had rejected her. You had sent her home; established “boundaries” as you call it. You had taken up with another woman, most probably while you were still with her. You had abandoned her when she was carrying your baby. When she clearly needed you most.
You then reported her & her family to the child welfare authorities.
Are you proud of your actions?
@@MelanieRuiz_F Do you know that to be fact or is that just what he has told you? Girl, take off your rose coloured glasses and actually look for the truth. If he didn't want a baby then why was he still having unprotected sex with her? He was clearly playing and cheating on both women, got caught out and got left with the only woman who would have him. You, I presume? And clearly you are still being played. Tomas states that the ex filed for a Nonmolestation order, so she clearly did not want or need him in her life. You can tell from this mans speech how bitter he is against her. It is him who cannot carry on with his life, even in his "happy home", which has made you completely bitter too. If I were you I would take notes and be wary, do not be naive because he will do the same to you, just in a much smarter manner because he is learning from each experience. You are just collateral damage in his warfare, no matter how else it might feel. Open your eyes and be ready. Men do not change no matter how 'special' they make you feel, and women, especially mothers, should stick together. Remember that.
@@MelanieRuiz_F child is loving life and uncle very much ✌️😼
@@3dwardzhe spent all day with your child something you can’t do 😁
Big up Thomas man 💪🏽
Holy matrimonial contract's.In lslam it's called Nikah..I have both If you're sleeping with a lady that is not you wife then she's not yours in reality.. Also 8astard children is not a big thing anymore it was when i was a child in the 90s .We need to bring back the reality of making 8astards a shameful act and bring back shame in general..
Fathers don't get no support and women use the police for no reason at all!
Big up Tom.
You should have live comments during the show
Nah that's distracting. People wanna focus on the story solely
😂 20:31 so men can do it but when women do it it’s wrong 🙄 you didn’t want her or the child get over yourself sir.
@Murphy-b2fyour talking like that making a UA-cam account an hour ago. Wouldn't be surprised if you were from the other side... To make an account just to comment on this video is hilarious if that is the case.
Everyone in here with their degree In how a woman should behave she’s a pregnant person you only become a mother once you give birth. This man literally got another woman pregnant straight after lmao but no one is talking about him protecting himself or these women no it’s ok for him to just spread his seed and then dictate what a woman left should do. I frankly don’t care about your thesis or opinions. And it’s even more audacious to tell women what they should do with their bodies but not tell men to stop destroying a woman’s body or chances of moving on with someone else how beta of you men 🙄
Honestly sooooo you were still sleeping with her even though you were done
Narcissistic woman
The BM did him wrong man
How old were they when they were bouncing from each other’s houses