I CANT BELIEVE HE DID THIS TO ME AFTER WELCOMING HIM TO MY HOME/WE MET ON A DATING APP
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- I CANT BELIEVE HE DID THIS TO ME AFTER WELCOMING HIM TO MY HOME/WE MET ON A DATING APP.In this video,it is acontinuation of a love story about a Kenyan lady who found got abadondoned at the bus station at night in Mombasa by her online German boyfriend.Last time we stoped at when Pamella's relationship with the German guy ended then took a break from dating and after her break joined Tinder dating app then met a Norwagian guy who she later welcomed him to her home.Which she tells us was the terrible thing to do but at that she dint know.So in this video will be sharing with you what happened when the Norwegian guy moved in with her in her home.This love story is full of Afro cinamas and lots of teachings to all single ladies out there searching for a right guy on online dating apps.So please watch this video till the end and Enjoy.
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I have lost words to describe how ungrateful this Norwegian guy was and this is very true about tourists who join online dating for company, I know a group of them here 😢 please let's not fall into their traps 🙏 and thank you Bella for your time
People are here for goodies we girls have to pray and take care of ourselves
It's so sad 😞
Yes dear
@@africanbellatherealtalk ok thanks dear
There’s a lot to learn from this Pamela’s story ladies, from the first guy to this Norwegian guy, I know is difficult to find the right one, but please don’t be so desperate not to spot red flag, thank you Bella for always sharing incredible stories with all our beautiful sister ❤, I pray God bless every ladies searching for love their perfect serious man❤
Amen this is right patient pays no need for hurry god is watching
thank you sister for the advice lets keep trying
You said it right dear 😘
Thank you so much ❤❤❤
Amen
Ladies.....always listen to that inner voice talking to you,it's always right.Don't ignore the red flags.Happy holidays to us all.Thanks Bella for this upload.
Welcome dear 😘
Pamela deserves much better and God will reward her!
Watching this from Kampala, Uganda. ☺️
Awwww William greetings to your beautiful fiance.We love you❤❤
Pamela girl has suffered with online relationships OMG but she is a fighter, she doesn't give up
Yes is a strong lady
That guy is a narcissist and toxic. I wish Pamela well. This is an eye opener for us all. Thanks for sharing with us my darling Bella❤❤..
Never give up on finding love. You never know who is serious. But while you do that keep your eyes wide open. And learn from stories on Bella's channel ❤❤❤❤
Thanks Bella for uploading
Thank you too darling 😘
@@africanbellatherealtalk you are welcome love ❤️
This goes to Pamela and y'all hoping to find your loved ones. Don't settle when your instincts say otherwise. The moment you shift your focus to loving you, God will for sure make things beautiful in His Appointed time.
Amen 🙏
Ladies … as a guy … do me a favor. Listen to your gut (intuition). It’s typically spot on. And for God sake … if he drinks or is abusive … get the hell gone. I’m Andrew.
I agree with buying flowers and funding my airfare. But I think if she’s visiting me she needs to fund her airfare. And what about if I cook for her? I’m not stingy. It’s just less costly in general to eat at home.
Pamela, if you’re reading this … girl you messed up inviting that guy to your place without a very strong relationship in place.
Thank you very much Bella Mama you look so beautiful! I lost my phone and missed all your lessons but I found it after a week and had to run here to learn what I've missed.
Thanks Bella for sharing with us wonderful stories and making us not to make mistakes in the future
I believe with all what Pamela went through, girl you will be happy at the end, keep believing that all shall be well. Remember weeping start in the morning and joy comes in the evening. You are a strong lady and may God see you through.
Amen 🙏
True love does not come with doubts.....there's that inner peace.If it does not work,we move on.We cannot change a grown up man.
Exactly girl 🥰
I have enjoyed the video so much. Please bring part 2 of when to block a guy on an online dating app
Iam glad you enjoyed
The way these victimised girls are so patient takes the hair off my head 😩. These narcissist guys are so good at pretending to be angels in public but super monsters 👽 at home, I can't withstand such guys at alllll 🚮
Secondly, I protect my wallet so hard because I sweat for my money, I can't just easily spend it on someone who doesn't spend on me
May God show u the right way to the right person dear Pamela 🙏
Amen 🙏
Am so speechless with this story,it teaches us a lot.thanks for sharing Bella ❤
Pamela take your time with God ,to give you a discernment spirit,fast and pray to God to show you the right path ..put God first slways and you will be a conqueror gal...
Amen 🙏
With all that suffering am sure God will bring the right man for pamela.and the Norwegian proved to us very well that tinder is full of scammers😢😢😢😢And I pray also pamela to be very careful next time with men on online dating apps.Bella ur a good story teller even if its a sad story you make me to 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊keep up❤❤❤
Thank you so much sweetheart ❤
You are gorgeous sis n love the hair❤
Learning alot from you, feeling so sorry for Pamela hope she heals.
Wow Bella your hair looks so beautiful 🤩
You're looking lovely 🥰
Hello Bella, thanks for all the stories time. Always point your hair is lovely and the skin is skinning too😊
Thank you dear ❤️
The spirit of rejection is on her,she should seek for deliverance
God is at work🙏
Sorry Pamela for all what happened to you but don't give up. Thanks Bella once again ❤
Banange that lady really suffered alot Bambi with those white kifesi men 😢
She suffered a lot but came out stronger 💪
White man his dying to come to SA for a visit I see his not interested on relationship only on vacation ,,I just ignore him before I become like Pamela thanx Bella
Thank you Bella for the stories I've really learnt alot
Oh my God this guy is horrible, that is why i always stay miles away from these white men who came to Africa for tourism, alot of them always take advantage of African ladies, my dear Pamela suffered a lot, i pray that God will bless her with someone who will love her for who she is, sorry my dear Pamela just keep on praying God will sail you through, thank you my dear Bella for sharing this video i have learned alot since from part 1 to part 3,always love you ❤, may the Almighty God bless you
Amen 🙏
1%white men can respect and treat black woman well i saw one saying he is looking for black women because we're good in mobbing the floors
Thank you so much our sister African Bella for sharing us such an incredible stories, we have really learnt a lot from your channel may God bless you sister
Amen 🙏
You look sweet my dear, Xmas 🎄 and a happy new yr
Merry Christmas too and thanks
Bella u look great i like ur hair
Thank you dear ❤️
This is so dispeakable ,,I think this Norwagian guys is one of the guys that has used many Kenyan ladies and dumped them.. online dating wahalaa😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 pam you are a strong woman, forget about the past, just let it go and now focused on your future, what has happen has happen . ladies really go through alot on the dating apps, mentally, emotionally, physically and silent pain. Hi beautiful Bella what is the name of that Norwegian guy??
Come private will share the Name dear.
So sorry for her, but she should continue because everyone is different, she will find love thanks for sharing dear African bella. 😘😘👍
Thank u Bella...
Lots of lessons here..i cant miss any of these videos❤
Thank you too dear ❤️
Thank you sis for sharing this story. It's so heartbreaking. Pamela needs a break 💔
Our sister she has a big heart
Thank you so much dearv Bella we are have leaned alot from this video
God bless you and your family ❤❤❤❤
Ooh Sweet Pamela.. may God see you through.. wait for God's time.. and all will be well... Thanks Bella...
Amen 🙏
Bella thank you for uploading❤
Welcome dear 😘
Oh God my sister, but its good that you dont give up
Amen 🙏
Eeeeeh hii story damn aki men
Anyways sister Bella thanks for the third part dear. Have really learnt more and more from Pamela's storry..
Thank you dear ❤️
Thank you Bella for the stories i have learnt alot and am very sure God will bring the right man for Pamela
Never give up pamela l believe your partner yuko somewhere he is waiting to meet you, thank you Bella for this video God bless you 💕💕
Amen 🙏
Merry Christmas sweetie bella thanks for opening Mai eyes
Merry Christmas too 🥰
This is very hurt deeply I can put myself in to the shoes of Pamela. And never laugh the wounds of other person instead carry her Budden together.we need to pray each other really
It happened the same to me in south africa with a British guy 😢😢am breaking terribly.
I regret giving him my heart ❤
Thank you Dear 😘🙏 we leaning more bella.good Advice
Welcome dear 😘
Am always waiting for your story dear Bella ,😘 number one here1
Me too 😅😅 when she takes long to post a video, i always feel like am sick 😅😅😅❤
Ooooh thank you love🥰
Thank you dear ❤️
God bless you so much Bella 🙏👌
Thanks so much sis . Pamela May God grant u ur heart desires. U have really suffered . God will definitely clean ur tears . Don't worry u will laugh again. Ur gud heart will surely speak for u. GOD will restore u my darling ♥️
Amen 🙏
Thanks Sis. for this video, let always watch out for Red flags and also pray for the right one.
Welcome dear 😘
I wish Pamela was my real sister that guy could have regretted coming to kenya,..ningemfunza adabu iishe kuambia his fellow nowergians nkt
Fukuzia mbali😀😀😀
@@africanbellatherealtalk nakwambia hangewai fanyia msichana mwingine huo ujinga 😔
Looking dazzling Bella❤
Thanks so much dear sister Bella.
Welcome dear 😘
Umependeza Dada,pole Pamela ni maisha tu hayo yamepita songa mbelee
Asante sana mamii🥰
Dating is not mating. This is very dangerous. Sorry to Pam
Thanks bela ❤❤❤
Mapenzi 😂😂😂I never laughed so hard Bella. Today you are more entertaining the way you narrated the story. Always here for the lessons
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lol
You look good bella...thank you for talking about those weird white men
This video has made me down i feel like giving up on dating White men. So sorry to her i know haw it can pain really . thanks sister balla may God bless you for the good heart at least our eyes are now open Abit ❤❤😂
Pamela really went through much💔may the best locate her. My advice to fellow ladies, be on the guard always especially to those white men that come as tourists. The majority of them are not on the quest to look for love.
I met one tourist here in Zambia he was from Finland, and the very day I met him it was an obvious thing the guy only wanted goodies that's all.
The guy talked about how hes been meeting ladies and they are offering goodies to him.
He basically told me he's got no intention of settling with any of them.
I felt very bad and angry realizing this guy has only the intentions of getting goodies from innocent ladies.
From then I blocked him and I promised myself never to meet him again. Luckily I never gave out the goodies, I could have been the victim aswell so heartbreaking 😢.
So please watch out and dont fall victim.
Thank you for sharing.
You are a smart lady. I hope all of us take your advice
Thanks Bella for always sharing such stories with us we have really learnt alot
Pamela Just know one day God is gonna bring your soulmate sorry about all that bad shit you went through
Welcome dear 😘
Eh 😢😢 so sorry dear sister Pamela 😔
Thank you dear ❤️
Bella finally hii video nilikuwa nimengoja sana , blessings best vile unasema goodies 😂😂😂 na learn alot
Yes 😀
The right man will come for Pamela when the time is right.
Amen 🙏
Sorry Pamela i pray one day God to whip your tears off and bless you with a good kind hearted man, we learn through mistakes i know through all that you won't go back, love yourself first and good things will fall into place ❣️Let God be the centre 🙏thank you Bella ❤️
Thank you dear ❤️
I can never give out my goodies no matter what
Thats good
Thankyou Sis Bella for sharing these stories, learning alot from you... its really sad to hear Pamela's story 😢
This story made me laugh loudly at some point but Pamela could have opened her eyes earlier. But also she has learnt to become the first priority in her life.
Well said!
For sure PEPE😂😂😂😂😂Bella I've got mixed feelings about white guys already eeehhh let me first remain single while am peaceful ✌️ ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😅😅😅😅😅
I can imagine 😅
Oh, sorry, my dear sister😢, thanks, sister Bella, for that information
Thank you dear ❤️
@@africanbellatherealtalk you are welcome
That first kiss, kunyimwa food kwa vacation, talking about the country and people na all that was all red flags wah. Run for your life. This guy was so annoying weh, mwizi wa goodies asili. Weh this guy was annoying enjoyed goodies and moved on to the next ones. Took advantage of her🤦♀️. Pamela really went through it. Bella you are talking truth here hopefully they learn from these Pamela's stories and other of your videos.
Marry Christmas 🎄 😍 ♥️ 💕 ❤️ Bella 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤ur look mwaaahhhhh😅😅😅😅
Thank you dear ❤️. Merry Christmas too🥰
Oh Bella you are a blessing God bless you sister ❤. Am sorry Pamela you have gone through a lot but don’t worry Keep praying God is not a sleep 😴 may God bless us with our heart desires
Never give up, the right man will surely find you❤🎉
Yes ❤️
Bella’s hair is hairing 🔥
Hair is hairing😅😅
Thank you love🥰
If everything happens to any girl nachomeka aki i can't bear
It's sad
Hallo, my sincere hugs to Pamela, i truly hope she is wise now! About flowers...i never liked or appreciated flowers but i met this man who just buys me flowers...now i even ask if a month passes by. Kupendwa raha
Kupendwa raha sana😅
@@africanbellatherealtalk Asante mwanangu...na omba mda wako
Finally the part 3 for Pamela is here, let me watch quietly 😢
Thank you ❤️
I don’t love flowers but love other gifts 😂
😂😂😂😂
Ladies let’s all be smart and learn from Bella’s wonderful stories. Pamela went through hell omg these guys
Thank you dear ❤️
Bella, if i could be given a garden of lovely flowers that's more like it and secondly my second name is gift😂😂😂😂😂
I am not allergic on gifts and flowers sister Bella and I hate setting for less
Yes girl 💃
I'm crazy enough ! When a man ask me for an outing? I always che on my wallet. If I have berry little money , I reject the offer .I can't be mistreated
Bella not only that girl me too I never got a gift from a man
Maybe I don't deserve it 😢😢
You deserve it girl 🥰
He saved so much through her but couldn't even buy her a plate of food .very sad
She went through alot OMG
Really a lot
For sure Bella this story was so toughing
Thanks dear sis Bella 😊
Welcome dear 😘
Bella even if we have a soft heart, that's too much she should have chased him away 😮😮
Sorry bambi sister Pamela God will give u another man tofayo mukwano
Bella u look so amazing 😍😍😍 i like it❤❤
Thank you dear ❤️
Pamela thank you for not giving up you are prayerful but about friends leaving you l think it's not about being rejected or someone a on you. If you in relationship with God he can take a way all destruction can take you away from him you see the Germany guy and that God didn't want you to be with any of them trust God and his words remember he promised these who will stand on his words prayer and back ur prayers with bible verses proverbs:31. Thank you my beautiful neighbour. Love you all African ❤
Thank you too darling 😘
OMG!!!I'm so sorry to hear what our sister went though 😢 but to tell you the truth, if it were me after giving him the accommodation and all my goodies 😢and he later tells me we are not compatible and that he wants someone to travel with???? Hehehe!! I would teach him a lesson he live to tell his grand children...i would pay for his beatings 🤬 i swear i pay some money to thugs and tell them to take everything he has and just leave him with his phone in order to communicate with his people and out of favor, then he gets to understand that Africa and get to hate it for the right reason. That goon. Love Bella, thank you for this sorry, i feel so annoyed right now 😑 but I pray for my dearest sister to find what she is looking for
Me too I can't wait
Jamani si huyu pamela si amepitia Mambo
It was good he left as for me he was out there to use Pamela
Yeah
I feel for Pamela like seriously 😢.
It's sad
Hmm... this guy wasn't even ashamed of him self... You can't do that in my house.
Imagine 😅
Bella am Pamela part2,my whole life no man has spent on me😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢.
You need to change man
Merry Christmas bella feel love❤❤
Sorry dear
Thank you hun 😘
@@africanbellatherealtalk but I thank God it has made me worker holic😅😅😅😅😅
You can do anything but don’t stop me from eating the amount of food I want
That's my girl😅😅❤
Ooh no! May God come through for Pamela🙏🙏she has suffered in the name of love but true love will surely locate her! She has an amazing heart and she deserves the best.
A lesson to us ladies,never ignore the red flags and always follow your instincts.
Thanks sis Bella for educative videos🙏🙏one can never go wrong with your tips.
Thank you too sweetheart 😘