Me too. But I am finding I don't want a relationship. I enjoy my freedom. I have venus aries. Every time I date I break up a month later. Finding myself being controlled or distracted from goals and what I want so I leave. I value my freedom.
I have Venus in Aries and can't say this resonates with me at all. I'm a stay at home Mom and am always trying to please everyone around me. I am however a bit self centered and put myself first.
Venus in Aries is a very "frictional" placement. I see clashing swords. Sparks. Grinding. If the other party doesn't want to spar with you, then you'll hurt them. BUT if they want to spar, I imagine that would be so fun. I'm a gay man. I've tried to date feminine men, but they NEVER want to play a masculine role. I've dated masculine men, they NEVER have a feminine side. I need someone that can switch and adapt. I can be feminine or masculine but I need to switch because they are boring.
Straight woman here, Venus in Aries. I totally get what you say! I've definitely scared men away because of my straighforward aproach haha. BUT, my greatest relationship so far has been with a man who has an ARIES MOON exactly (!) conjunct my venus ♨ He actually likes it when I challenge him, he loves my feisty, direct, predatory ways... and he goes crazy when I wear red 😄 We make fireworks together!!! (we both have Mars conjunct Jupiter natally). As for expressing my feminine side, I feel that with him, I'm less dominating and more relaxed, because of how spontaneously he takes the lead. So I guess it really depends on synastry, how succesful you can be with this Venus. Oh and by the way I feel repelled by men with Libra placements, it turns me off and it brings out my BDE hahaha cause I feel like I have to defend them.
I find this natal placement probably the most frustrating and also the one I would least like to let go! I absolutely don’t like being pursued by admirers I love doing the pursuing but still wish I was pursued! 🤣 In money and business I can’t work with a team but I can manage a team! You’re so correct about people don’t see you coming! 🤣
Maria, I'm so happy you created this. As a lesbian, this placement serves me very well. I'll spare you the details as to why... but up there with bde..lol I'm SO much better working on my own and nothing stifles me more than being micromanaged or relying/waiting on a team for results. It's always a pleasure to hear from other Venus/Aries women and their experience. Thank you!!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience living with Venus in Aries as a lesbian. I love that the BDE works for you and that this placement serves you well!
Thank you for sharing, AstroTarot by Elena Valdez. I have Venus in Sagittarius in the 6th house. And my Midheaven is in Aries. So I feel somewhat similar energy to the Venus in Aries.
I have Venus in Aries in the fourth house. I’m very independent and quick to cut off romantic situations. I feel comfortable not dating a lot. But I think my Pisces sun tampers down on some of the aggression of that Venus in Aries. I’m not aggressive at all romantically. I also have Neptune square Venus, which is really frustrating (and why I’m OK not dating much!!) I really enjoyed your analysis of your own experience with Venus in Aries and it was interesting seeing how it manifests in others charts.
This is soooo TRUE! I don’t care if it’s offensive, truth can sometimes be offensive but it also means we know our off-putting ways and we can manage them.
Thank you for the ending. I've been beating myself up over this placement in my chart and feeling extremely down about my future. I'm going to work on self-acceptance and improving myself and respecting other people's boundaries.
I’m a straight guy with Aries sun, Aries rising, Venus in Aries , mars in Sagittarius and Scorpio moon. I have had my own business’s since I was 19 , actually when I was a kid I had lemonade stands and when I was 12 I had a paper route that was a business. I had to get. My own customers, throw the papers and collect the money. I have had a trucking co, 3 restaurants and a bar , house rentals. I’m a day trader with the stocks. I have always found a way to get everything I want. I’m probably one of the few people on this planet who can actually say they have got everything they have ever wanted. My friend always asks me how many rabbits do I have in my hat. I learned when I was 20 not to chase girls. I think I’m Just average looking but I have had many, many of some of the most beautiful girls come after me. It amazes me too! And even today girls and women flirt with me. I have had 2 women that I went out with ask me to marry them. And both were really good looking. All. My guy friends are jealous about all the girls , and I don’t act like I have money, I drive a 15 year old truck and wear nothing but tshirts and blue jeans and tennis shoes. I like to have fun, I actually had this beautiful blonde nurse that all my friends wanted her and I didn’t that was 23 when I was 30 write me a check for $500.00 to have sex with her. No, I didn’t do it, I don’t like blondes and I’m very picky. My friends saw the check she wrote . I am just so lucky in everything I do and I don’t know why..I’m a really hard worker, I love to party. I’m a huge risk taker. I do what I want and could care less what others think of me. I have had a really good life so far and everyone tells me it’s because of all the mars I have in me . I do have a hot temper but all my friends know just to wait about 5 minutes and it will be over with. I try to be good to people but I don’t take crap from anyone. … it doesn’t pay. Anyway, I have lived with quite a few women and also have some as best friends. I have never wanted to be married. I get bored easily of everything including people. I have a few really close friends and some friends that are good friends . We all have fun, I still have a business, rentals and other investments and I’m looking for a location to start a new business…. It just never stops, it’s fun! I have energy like you wouldn’t believe. I sleep 3-4 hours a night and eat once a day. I have been like This all my life. I never get tired. My life so far has been a dream, yes I have gotten in a lot of trouble when I was younger and there has been many problems but so far my life has been a dream come true. Everyone tells me they can’t figure me out. I do what I want but I must have a guardian Angel because I always come out smelling like a rose.
Can you consider doing Mars in Pisces next? This was an excellent video I have been trying to understand my Venus in Aries energy and how to work with it.
I have Venus in Aries 9H that has many aspects to it. One aspect is an opposition to Uranus in Libra 3H. My ideas of relating are direct, honest, and sensual. I don’t see planets as being in detriment, I see society as being in detriment (I also have Aquarius NN 7H). Venus in Aries is a natural energy just like any other planet and sign pair. But because of the way our society is structured the energy of Venus in Aries has it challenges in being navigated effectively. I have DEFINITELY had challenges in relationships where one way or the other I am going to be the “boss”, especially of me, although I attract incredibly strong minded and strong willed, intelligent men. Great video!
Just to put this out there. In tropical astrology, I’m a Venus Aries, in Vedic astrology I’m a Venus Pisces ( Venus in Revati ). I believe that I lived most of my life with my tropical Venus energy strong. As I get older I am working at developing into my Vedic Venus the more I learn patience.
Hello Maria 👋 I have just found your videos, and you are great and very honest. I relate so much to your words that im even speechless... I even used to say " I have bigger balls than many men " which is basically that BDE that you were talking about. This video is spot on ! 👍👍
Omg i also say this... i look feminine and cute but i have a lot of masculine energy to my personality and approach..it intimidates some ... and intrigues some
I have venus in aries too with a mars conjunction and I totally know what you mean. I am soooo strong, yes I am aggressive, strong and independent. But astrology helped me with this energy.
I have mars, Venus conjunction in Aries as well as the sun. Definitely never an issue finding love but issues around abusive partners, high aggression and a whole lot of pain. Through both astrology and age I’ve learnt to tame this fire and have a beautiful relationship and fiancé now. I think we can learn to harness this energy
You're so lovable! I'm an aries venus in.......... Aries! Poor Venus! I consider myself a powerful LOVER! ascending gemini, moon aquarius. By myself, I embrace the world!
I have Venus in Aries, but I think it's important to look at what the ruler of aries (MARS) is doing in the chart to have a more complete story. Mine is in Pisces, and I believe that softens the way my energy comes across. I think my venus in aries wants what it wants, and I would agree I prefer to do things my way, but my mars in pisces, makes me go about getting "my way" with a less aggressive approach.
Interesting point. My Mars is in Libra. 😅 Looking back, I always have a soft “representative” I guess when encountering romantic partners, but they get turned off when I become aggressive. I didn’t really know about my birth chart then though.
My aries venus just really isn’t being calmed down by my mars in sagittarius conjunct chiron squaring my pisces moon😅 my taurus sun and gemini rising will lose😭
I have Venus in Aries but wouldn’t describe myself as assertive or aggressive. I am very independent and don’t like jealous or confined relationships but prefer to be in a relationship nonetheless. This might be because I’m a Libra rising. I prefer a man to approach me. However I have recently made the first move on a man with Venus in aries as well. He is assertive and aggressive but he really liked me making the move on him. Even with Libra rising I also struggle in relationships. This could be because of contradictions between needing to be in a relationship but not be fenced in.
Second time watching: I have Venus in Aries & we CAN learnimpulse control, to compromise & think of others. In fact, I believe that is important in growing & balancing this energy.
Im Aries Sun and rising, moon in Virgo, Virgo in pluto and north node too. Venus in Aries. I think the Virgo gives me balance against the Aries. However I will meticulously kick your ass without touching you. I prefer to be alone the older I get. Men get in my way and waste my time. Most men want to destroy me, I always win in the end. I have to stop giving men/ppl the benefit of the doubt. My gut tells me exactly who they are from the beginning. I'm a Psychic/medium and that just adds a whole other dimension to my life. I hid my abilities most of my life. I finally came out about 7 years ago as a medium. I always knew I was psychic but didn't realize or understand my mediumship abilities. I rely on my spiritual gifts now, no longer will I just go with flow. I'm extremely driven and ambitious but have a chill side to me. Men chase me, I run if there are red flags now. Life is too short to waste on users and abusers!!!
Def resonates!!! Venus in Aries here with Taurus sun, cap rising, libra moon. Was always the chaser in love. Younger years were tough because the guys I was attracted too eventually got turned off by me being chaser/aggressor. In 30s slowed down and learned to find other things to chase, to take mind off romance and enjoyed playing games and being chased some but eventually I married an introvert cancer moon guy with Taurus rising who was happy to be chased and not have to do the initiator work in dating. I’m a Taurus cap rising so that helped me be stable and not fall into the boredom trap when you “catch” the guy. Side note I was great at track and loved chasing down people in a race. Haha and I’m a libra ♎️ moon so I check in with my partner though if I REALLY want to do something Venus in Aries overrides it and I do what I want lol Most of my female friendships are Aries I like to initiate friendships Def entrepreneur mindset I love starting things, struggle more with follow through
Taurus with Venus in Aries here...I can agree totally with what you said Maria xx Im also finding this month hard to navigate through...maybe because it was mentioned in your september forecast that the month may have an impact on our love life?
Love your explanation and im a Rx Venus in Aries in 11H, Sun Aries woman whose life lesson is to stay alone, live alone and be by myself bc i am too sensitive to others moods and they always interfere w/what i want. I have BDE and not understood at all. I am selfish as a partner, wanting my man (if i had a mature adult man) to myself, not giving to anyone else but me and THAT MAN IS NOT ALIVE ON THIS EARTH. So i stay celibate & single
I can definitely relate with BDE😂 and that people don’t see it coming. I am great with finances, I’m sole proprietor for 30 years…but my love life has been extremely difficult; maybe so because I also have Saturn and Rahu conjunction as well ( 1 degree orb😢)…though I would not like it any other way. I LOVE having Venus in Aries so much!!..the only reason why I would like to have a dignified Venus is because people are off the charts beautiful!
I have Venus in Aries. However my natal Mars is in Pisces. Ironically, this creates a natural balance of give and take in my romantic life. I think we should be looking at the overall chart in order to make more accurate assumptions.
I had to pause the video at you saying your Venus in Aries catches people by surprise! Same. I’m Cancer rising, Libra Moon but Mars in Sagittarius and Venus in Aries. I’m all sweet and bubbly until you get in my way. 😅 I do have to say that I believe my Libra Moon helps me out. I have a profound respect for masculine energy expressed well. Most men feel appreciated and seen by me.
Wow Maria, I just watched your Saturn conjunct Venus video & now this on Venus in Aries & we have the same aspect & Venus in same sign. My Venus/Saturn is in the 9th house, but my Saturn is in Taurus.
im a bisexual male. i am attracted to women who’s energy has a gravitational weight, like they’re pulling me in. they’re usually very independent in their style or demeanor and often deemed “quirky” or something of the sort. guys are more difficult. i often joke that i need a guy to knock me down if im going to take him seriously 😂 i need to feel energetically overpowered to be attracted to them 😅
One of the upsides is we go through relatively little heartbreak. I will have a good cry for a day or two, eat a sandwich and in three weeks if you asked me the dudes middle name I'll have no idea. It's not all bad, I really like this energy, it's more good than bad
Though I am Aquarius sun, I am also Venus , Mars and Lilith in Aries ,rising Scorpio. I am not a team worker, I like when I do something my way. Do not like to work among people , love to work for myself. In a relationship I am strong willed as well , but I choose stronger men , for example Scorpio sun , or Scorpio Venus ... They do not give me permission to be in charge, but love my strong character , its like a challenge for them ... )))))))))))
I have Venus in Aries with Aries rising and a 17 degree Taurus Sun so girlfriend, you're in good company. I wouldn't say stop trying, but understanding our nature and not compromising our needs will (hopefully) attract the right energy our way.
I feel the same way with Venus in Capricorn ,as man like vulnerable woman and they want to save me but all they see is an assertive woman (also with very strong Mars in my chart)but awareness is half way to making changes to oneself.
That is my natal placement, in the 1st house! Maria, I relate to the content.. my Twin Flame mirrored this misalignment.. I am learning to be more in my Feminine energy.. quite a challenge for me with an ♈ Sun and rising.. Chiron is currently almost conjunct my venus... Painful!..
Do not change Maria. If you do that would be wrong for the other person as well as you. You must be true to yourself. I am finding atm we are all feeling the upcoming full moon in Aquarius, l am noting that my own Venus in cap, ( traditional, won’t make the first move) on 29 degree and retro , in the third , l was not heard as a child , as the second child of my mother who was also a second child and likewise not heard, mom has Venus in Aries. We were both shut down as we were not valued, Venus , for our uniqueness. I am an astrologer and my eldest two kids do not hear me , understand me etc. We are learning , third house in my case not to shut ourselves down in any way just to be more agreeable to others perceptions of what they deem acceptable. It is their problem, you simply have not met the right man with the right niche to fit your Venus. I am happily married woman of 21 years and my husbands Mars retrograde fits my Venus retro perfectly.
I have this placement ❤ quite contradictory for me as I like a strong Man but need sensitivity too and I dont like being told what to do. Im also a Pisces ♓️ so......😂😂
we're both taurus suns with venus in aries. are you sure your not my sister from another mother? so yeah, im a man. and the women ive been attracted have been the overly self-sufficient(to put it nicely) women. I like strength but then when i get in relationships they are headaches. its been a consistent them and i dont know how to stay away from it.
I’d love to know, about retrograde Venus, for example, does venus rx in Virgo demonstrate as Pisces,, someone told me that the rx means you act like the opposite sign, hope this makes sense.
Thank you. My mother has been trying to tell me to let this guy I like pursue me and I am having a hard time being quiet and feminine , per se. I think this video may have saved me some rejection. I’m going to be pretty as a peach and soak in my cancer moon and Pisces sun and let his Venus in Scorpio be soothed by his Pisces moon. Sigh .
Hi Maria, Could there be something else in your chart that would indicate a problem with Venus in Aries? I have Venus in Aries too but i haven't found it to be problematic...Perhaps it's because my moon is in pisces and rising Gemini?? Anyway thought you should know these celebs all have Venus in Aries, so we're in good company: Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, Audrey Hepburn, Cate Blanchett, Lady Gaga, Rihanna, and Sarah Jessica Parker.
Hi Maria, this is really interesting because my partner venus in aries/pisces sun and cancer moon still he is so much forgots me when he is with his friend and family relationship shattered. Although I am aries rising, venus in scorpio/ capricorn sun ultra independent/agrresive go getter like my own time and space still find it difficult because I always felt like I will never be priority in my relationship with men. Which I never find marriage as important as but valued/loyal partnership. So also because my venus/mars/moon/jupiter in scorpio I am ultra strong willed moves mountains person however this is adversely affects my relationship.
Hi maria, Thank you for your special vedeo, As I psychologist and sun in taurus with venus in aries mars in sag And moon in libra , ascendant in scorpio still i am exactly like you I have problem with partnership As you mentioned about libra even with my moon in libra still i behave exact same as you😀 but i have learned focus more in my taurus sun and my scorpio ascendant become more pasive than active in relationship Let other party to be front coz we supress masculine side of men .we should know consciously and uncosciously we want to be in charge and this is problem ❤️😘🙏🏾
Mannn I’m a Venus in Aries and my partner is Venus in Libra. Literally talks me off of the edge and reminds me of the importance of “checking in” and that corny stuff 😂😂😂😂
Think I soften because I’m a Pisces sun and mars. But I’m very straight forward and I am the boss and leader in my intimate relationships. Literally dominate in the bedroom and how the relationship will play out.
I remember you have Uranus on your descendent, right? Venus Ur opp? I do relate to what you say but not because I have VE in Aries but my intense first house (among other things)
Yes I have Uranus conjunct Descendant but it’s not opposite Venus. Venus is opposite Pluto, square Saturn and trine Neptune. I think we both have similar signatures…I recall with Saturn and Neptune…maybe that’s where the connection is?
Thank you for sharing Maria! I am Taurus Sun Venus Aires Mars Sag Cancer Moon. Totally doomed in relationships. Such powerful energy but I sometimes suppress it just to appease the other person. This has not been good. I’m working on balance ❤️
My Venus is in Aries and my Mars is in Sag and they trine each other so my Venus is more masculine and mars like. So I’m definitely aggressive in love. But I put myself and self love first so I have to take over I can’t let anyone try to take over my life or my happiness🤣🤣And I’m bi sexual so it goes for both sexes. I also like genuine people or they will be left alone
It’s a hard one for me…I’m figuring it out thou… 12H Venus in Aries Retro conjunct Lilith 🤯 I do love that hidden aggression that comes out when I am pursuing what I want! Being a Taurus Rising with Mars &Pluto ruling my DSC…wow do I attract very intense men! I’ve learned to love that I have 7H Saturn In Scorpio…It helps me see the weak minded ones…lol
Pisces Sun and Venus Aries 27 degrees 8H I also have Neptune Scorpio 0' opposite which isn't helping at all. It's a hard give and pull situation in relationships it's hard for me to grasp my part in it. Last relationship I just let him be the authority figure but he also let me have freedom as well. This current off and on boyfriend I feel needs to control everything and that's why we are off and on since 2017 but COVID not helping me find another so I been sticking with him. Huh! Last boyfriend passway.
To funny you brought up libra rising or sun lol I'm a libra rising with my venus in aries and I absolutely do what I want when I want to needless to say I'm single and A okay with it lol
Hi yes I have Venus in Aries, I always like strong independent women who have that certain intelligence and 'kick' so to speak, and they have to be very attractive doesn't help either haha!
Not venus turning prospects off. Many other reasons why. You talked 20 minutes "rehashing" three of real content. Why not use astrology in a positive manner rather than blame one planet placement.
I have Venus in Aries. I been practicing to not chase men. Learning to be patient and wait. Trying not to rush things is my greatest life challenge.
Same girl, it's so hard!
Me too. But I am finding I don't want a relationship. I enjoy my freedom. I have venus aries. Every time I date I break up a month later. Finding myself being controlled or distracted from goals and what I want so I leave. I value my freedom.
THIS...cause when I see what I want I go after it 😭😭😭
@@arriabell808 Same...might be an issue with us!
Same :) but now I have Scorpio sun , moon and venus man so he is stronger than me.. For this placement you have to find a stronger man
I have Venus in Aries and can't say this resonates with me at all. I'm a stay at home Mom and am always trying to please everyone around me. I am however a bit self centered and put myself first.
Venus in Aries is a very "frictional" placement.
I see clashing swords. Sparks. Grinding.
If the other party doesn't want to spar with you, then you'll hurt them.
BUT if they want to spar, I imagine that would be so fun.
I'm a gay man. I've tried to date feminine men, but they NEVER want to play a masculine role.
I've dated masculine men, they NEVER have a feminine side.
I need someone that can switch and adapt. I can be feminine or masculine but I need to switch because they are boring.
We are born warriors and we roll over for no one! I see it as a good thing.
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Straight woman here, Venus in Aries. I totally get what you say! I've definitely scared men away because of my straighforward aproach haha. BUT, my greatest relationship so far has been with a man who has an ARIES MOON exactly (!) conjunct my venus ♨
He actually likes it when I challenge him, he loves my feisty, direct, predatory ways... and he goes crazy when I wear red 😄 We make fireworks together!!! (we both have Mars conjunct Jupiter natally).
As for expressing my feminine side, I feel that with him, I'm less dominating and more relaxed, because of how spontaneously he takes the lead. So I guess it really depends on synastry, how succesful you can be with this Venus. Oh and by the way I feel repelled by men with Libra placements, it turns me off and it brings out my BDE hahaha cause I feel like I have to defend them.
I find this natal placement probably the most frustrating and also the one I would least like to let go! I absolutely don’t like being pursued by admirers I love doing the pursuing but still wish I was pursued! 🤣
In money and business I can’t work with a team but I can manage a team!
You’re so correct about people don’t see you coming! 🤣
Maria, I'm so happy you created this. As a lesbian, this placement serves me very well. I'll spare you the details as to why... but up there with bde..lol
I'm SO much better working on my own and nothing stifles me more than being micromanaged or relying/waiting on a team for results. It's always a pleasure to hear from other Venus/Aries women and their experience. Thank you!!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience living with Venus in Aries as a lesbian. I love that the BDE works for you and that this placement serves you well!
Thank you for sharing, AstroTarot by Elena Valdez. I have Venus in Sagittarius in the 6th house. And my Midheaven is in Aries. So I feel somewhat similar energy to the Venus in Aries.
I have Venus in Aries in the fourth house. I’m very independent and quick to cut off romantic situations. I feel comfortable not dating a lot. But I think my Pisces sun tampers down on some of the aggression of that Venus in Aries. I’m not aggressive at all romantically. I also have Neptune square Venus, which is really frustrating (and why I’m OK not dating much!!) I really enjoyed your analysis of your own experience with Venus in Aries and it was interesting seeing how it manifests in others charts.
I loved it!! I'm an aries-taurus cusp with Venus in Aries and this helped explain sooooo much... Thanks
Wow this was so insightful and so true!! It’s awesome!!
Maria
Your strength is attractive and you are attractive and the right person will appreciate your strength!
Love your Venus in Aries!
This is soooo TRUE! I don’t care if it’s offensive, truth can sometimes be offensive but it also means we know our off-putting ways and we can manage them.
So spot on! I'm a woman with venus in the 12th. all you can do is laugh about it and refocus on your business
I have Venus in Aries and can completely relate to this 🔥
I love this Maria please do more planets in their Detriment videos!
Thank you for the ending. I've been beating myself up over this placement in my chart and feeling extremely down about my future. I'm going to work on self-acceptance and improving myself and respecting other people's boundaries.
I am a Libra rising and my Venus is in Aries I think it’s a perfect balance ❤️🤭
I’m a straight guy with Aries sun, Aries rising, Venus in Aries , mars in Sagittarius and Scorpio moon. I have had my own business’s since I was 19 , actually when I was a kid I had lemonade stands and when I was 12 I had a paper route that was a business. I had to get. My own customers, throw the papers and collect the money. I have had a trucking co, 3 restaurants and a bar , house rentals. I’m a day trader with the stocks.
I have always found a way to get everything I want. I’m probably one of the few people on this planet who can actually say they have got everything they have ever wanted. My friend always asks me how many rabbits do I have in my hat. I learned when I was 20 not to chase girls. I think I’m Just average looking but I have had many, many of some of the most beautiful girls come after me. It amazes me too! And even today girls and women flirt with me.
I have had 2 women that I went out with ask me to marry them. And both were really good looking. All. My guy friends are jealous about all the girls , and I don’t act like I have money, I drive a 15 year old truck and wear nothing but tshirts and blue jeans and tennis shoes. I like to have fun, I actually had this beautiful blonde nurse that all my friends wanted her and I didn’t that was 23 when I was 30 write me a check for $500.00 to have sex with her. No, I didn’t do it, I don’t like blondes and I’m very picky.
My friends saw the check she wrote . I am just so lucky in everything I do and I don’t know why..I’m a really hard worker, I love to party. I’m a huge risk taker. I do what I want and could care less what others think of me. I have had a really good life so far and everyone tells me it’s because of all the mars I have in me . I do have a hot temper but all my friends know just to wait about 5 minutes and it will be over with. I try to be good to people but I don’t take crap from anyone. … it doesn’t pay. Anyway, I have lived with quite a few women and also have some as best friends. I have never wanted to be married. I get bored easily of everything including people. I have a few really close friends and some friends that are good friends . We all have fun, I still have a business, rentals and other investments and I’m looking for a location to start a new business…. It just never stops, it’s fun!
I have energy like you wouldn’t believe. I sleep 3-4 hours a night and eat once a day. I have been like This all my life. I never get tired. My life so far has been a dream, yes I have gotten in a lot of trouble when I was younger and there has been many problems but so far my life has been a dream come true. Everyone tells me they can’t figure me out. I do what I want but I must have a guardian Angel because I always come out smelling like a rose.
Moon in scorpio people do not settle easily. They don't trust people like that and they don't want to be own by someone.
Can you consider doing Mars in Pisces next? This was an excellent video I have been trying to understand my Venus in Aries energy and how to work with it.
I have Venus in Aries 9H that has many aspects to it. One aspect is an opposition to Uranus in Libra 3H. My ideas of relating are direct, honest, and sensual. I don’t see planets as being in detriment, I see society as being in detriment (I also have Aquarius NN 7H). Venus in Aries is a natural energy just like any other planet and sign pair. But because of the way our society is structured the energy of Venus in Aries has it challenges in being navigated effectively.
I have DEFINITELY had challenges in relationships where one way or the other I am going to be the “boss”, especially of me, although I attract incredibly strong minded and strong willed, intelligent men.
Great video!
Just to put this out there. In tropical astrology, I’m a Venus Aries, in Vedic astrology I’m a Venus Pisces ( Venus in Revati ). I believe that I lived most of my life with my tropical Venus energy strong. As I get older I am working at developing into my Vedic Venus the more I learn patience.
I appreciate you explaining this so much! 🎉
I have venus in aries and I completely relate, I always tell my friend that I wanna meet a man who is stronger than me
Hello Maria 👋
I have just found your videos, and you are great and very honest.
I relate so much to your words that im even speechless... I even used to say " I have bigger balls than many men " which is basically that BDE that you were talking about. This video is spot on ! 👍👍
Omg i also say this... i look feminine and cute but i have a lot of masculine energy to my personality and approach..it intimidates some ... and intrigues some
Thank you Maria! I love this ❤️. I’m new to learning astrology I have a NN in Aries 1st house and SN in Libra 7th house and can relate
I have venus in aries too with a mars conjunction and I totally know what you mean. I am soooo strong, yes I am aggressive, strong and independent. But astrology helped me with this energy.
I have mars, Venus conjunction in Aries as well as the sun. Definitely never an issue finding love but issues around abusive partners, high aggression and a whole lot of pain. Through both astrology and age I’ve learnt to tame this fire and have a beautiful relationship and fiancé now. I think we can learn to harness this energy
You're so lovable! I'm an aries venus in..........
Aries!
Poor Venus!
I consider myself a powerful LOVER!
ascending gemini, moon aquarius.
By myself, I embrace the world!
I can totally relate! I have Venus in Aries, but in the 7th house. Thank you for your take on this! ❤️✨
Another insightful video. I have venus in aries and feel confident to show if I like someone or to ask then out on a date
Very very good info...says this Venus in Capricorn!
I have Venus in Aries, but I think it's important to look at what the ruler of aries (MARS) is doing in the chart to have a more complete story. Mine is in Pisces, and I believe that softens the way my energy comes across. I think my venus in aries wants what it wants, and I would agree I prefer to do things my way, but my mars in pisces, makes me go about getting "my way" with a less aggressive approach.
Interesting point. My Mars is in Libra. 😅 Looking back, I always have a soft “representative” I guess when encountering romantic partners, but they get turned off when I become aggressive. I didn’t really know about my birth chart then though.
My aries venus just really isn’t being calmed down by my mars in sagittarius conjunct chiron squaring my pisces moon😅 my taurus sun and gemini rising will lose😭
Same placement as me. Mars in Pisces and Pisces sun
I have Venus in Aries but wouldn’t describe myself as assertive or aggressive. I am very independent and don’t like jealous or confined relationships but prefer to be in a relationship nonetheless. This might be because I’m a Libra rising. I prefer a man to approach me. However I have recently made the first move on a man with Venus in aries as well. He is assertive and aggressive but he really liked me making the move on him. Even with Libra rising I also struggle in relationships. This could be because of contradictions between needing to be in a relationship but not be fenced in.
wowww Maria , That's really how I feel about my self , I'm so grateful you describe how exactly Aries . 😘😘
Second time watching: I have Venus in Aries & we CAN learnimpulse control, to compromise & think of others. In fact, I believe that is important in growing & balancing this energy.
Oh man!!! You just put so much in perspective for me! You have no idea! 😂 Venus in aries roll call lol
Im Aries Sun and rising, moon in Virgo, Virgo in pluto and north node too. Venus in Aries. I think the Virgo gives me balance against the Aries. However I will meticulously kick your ass without touching you.
I prefer to be alone the older I get. Men get in my way and waste my time. Most men want to destroy me, I always win in the end. I have to stop giving men/ppl the benefit of the doubt. My gut tells me exactly who they are from the beginning. I'm a Psychic/medium and that just adds a whole other dimension to my life. I hid my abilities most of my life. I finally came out about 7 years ago as a medium. I always knew I was psychic but didn't realize or understand my mediumship abilities.
I rely on my spiritual gifts now, no longer will I just go with flow. I'm extremely driven and ambitious but have a chill side to me.
Men chase me, I run if there are red flags now. Life is too short to waste on users and abusers!!!
Def resonates!!! Venus in Aries here with Taurus sun, cap rising, libra moon. Was always the chaser in love. Younger years were tough because the guys I was attracted too eventually got turned off by me being chaser/aggressor. In 30s slowed down and learned to find other things to chase, to take mind off romance and enjoyed playing games and being chased some but eventually I married an introvert cancer moon guy with Taurus rising who was happy to be chased and not have to do the initiator work in dating. I’m a Taurus cap rising so that helped me be stable and not fall into the boredom trap when you “catch” the guy. Side note I was great at track and loved chasing down people in a race.
Haha and I’m a libra ♎️ moon so I check in with my partner though if I REALLY want to do something Venus in Aries overrides it and I do what I want lol
Most of my female friendships are Aries
I like to initiate friendships
Def entrepreneur mindset
I love starting things, struggle more with follow through
Taurus with Venus in Aries here...I can agree totally with what you said Maria xx Im also finding this month hard to navigate through...maybe because it was mentioned in your september forecast that the month may have an impact on our love life?
Phenomenal video 😪😪🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
You can’t hurry love is a song that Venus in Aries don’t comprehend 😂
Haha true! My mother used to refer me to that song ALL the time!
😂😂😂😂
I have ♈ Venus with ♎⬆️ and NN😅 it's complicated. But I've been happily married 25yrs.
Loved all of this!!!
Same. I have this placement. Plus, it's in sixth house, which means it's even more problems.
Love your explanation and im a Rx Venus in Aries in 11H, Sun Aries woman whose life lesson is to stay alone, live alone and be by myself bc i am too sensitive to others moods and they always interfere w/what i want. I have BDE and not understood at all. I am selfish as a partner, wanting my man (if i had a mature adult man) to myself, not giving to anyone else but me and THAT MAN IS NOT ALIVE ON THIS EARTH. So i stay celibate & single
I can definitely relate with BDE😂 and that people don’t see it coming. I am great with finances, I’m sole proprietor for 30 years…but my love life has been extremely difficult; maybe so because I also have Saturn and Rahu conjunction as well ( 1 degree orb😢)…though I would not like it any other way. I LOVE having Venus in Aries so much!!..the only reason why I would like to have a dignified Venus is because people are off the charts beautiful!
Aquarius with Venus in Aries, Scorpio moon and Pisces rising
I did enjoy your video very much
I have Venus in Aries. However my natal Mars is in Pisces. Ironically, this creates a natural balance of give and take in my romantic life. I think we should be looking at the overall chart in order to make more accurate assumptions.
I had to pause the video at you saying your Venus in Aries catches people by surprise! Same. I’m Cancer rising, Libra Moon but Mars in Sagittarius and Venus in Aries. I’m all sweet and bubbly until you get in my way. 😅
I do have to say that I believe my Libra Moon helps me out. I have a profound respect for masculine energy expressed well. Most men feel appreciated and seen by me.
Taurus with Venus in Aries. I’ve been single for over 10 years. I do well in business but my love life is horrible.
This applicable for navamsha chart also ?
I have Venus and Mars both of them in Aries in 9th house
Venus in Aries Aqua sun Sag rising Virgo moon 🌙 ❤😊 balanced some
Wow Maria, I just watched your Saturn conjunct Venus video & now this on Venus in Aries & we have the same aspect & Venus in same sign. My Venus/Saturn is in the 9th house, but my Saturn is in Taurus.
im a bisexual male. i am attracted to women who’s energy has a gravitational weight, like they’re pulling me in. they’re usually very independent in their style or demeanor and often deemed “quirky” or something of the sort. guys are more difficult. i often joke that i need a guy to knock me down if im going to take him seriously 😂 i need to feel energetically overpowered to be attracted to them 😅
I have Venus in Aries and diagnosed with BPD :D
I need this , thank you 🥰🌸 , i'm agree
I have Venus in Aries in the 5th house, along with Aries in Mercury retro and Sun in Aries all in the 5th house.
I would love to know how Venus in Aries is affected by the house it is in.
One of the upsides is we go through relatively little heartbreak. I will have a good cry for a day or two, eat a sandwich and in three weeks if you asked me the dudes middle name I'll have no idea. It's not all bad, I really like this energy, it's more good than bad
That depends on aspects to Venus. For me there is always major heartbreak and drama…Venus opposite Pluto, square Saturn
@@MariaDeSimone Oh that is a tough chart indeed! Darn my friend, you're getting all the downsides of Venus in Aries and none of the good stuff
Though I am Aquarius sun, I am also Venus , Mars and Lilith in Aries ,rising Scorpio. I am not a team worker, I like when I do something my way. Do not like to work among people , love to work for myself. In a relationship I am strong willed as well , but I choose stronger men , for example Scorpio sun , or Scorpio Venus ... They do not give me permission to be in charge, but love my strong character , its like a challenge for them ... )))))))))))
My husband and I are both venus in aries.. Him on the 7th house(libra)
Me in the 8 house(scorpio)
Can totally relate Maria. I have Venus in Aries and I own my own business (19 years) and would never have a partner...
Oh thanks god finally somebody understands me😅❤
Venus in Scorpio - it is SO annoying to me when someone needs to consult their partner to do something!! (despite having a Libra Sun 🤣)
Scorpio Ascendant here. When Venus transits my Aries, I get a little bit flirty.
Oh my goodness, my Venus and Ascendent in Aries. 18 degree Taurus. I’m BDE. I deserve to do what I want. No longer trying.
I have Venus in Aries with Aries rising and a 17 degree Taurus Sun so girlfriend, you're in good company. I wouldn't say stop trying, but understanding our nature and not compromising our needs will (hopefully) attract the right energy our way.
I feel the same way with Venus in Capricorn ,as man like vulnerable woman and they want to save me but all they see is an assertive woman (also with very strong Mars in my chart)but awareness is half way to making changes to oneself.
That is my natal placement, in the 1st house! Maria, I relate to the content.. my Twin Flame mirrored this misalignment.. I am learning to be more in my Feminine energy.. quite a challenge for me with an ♈ Sun and rising.. Chiron is currently almost conjunct my venus... Painful!..
Do not change Maria.
If you do that would be wrong for the other person as well as you.
You must be true to yourself.
I am finding atm we are all feeling the upcoming full moon in Aquarius, l am noting that my own Venus in cap, ( traditional, won’t make the first move) on 29 degree and retro , in the third , l was not heard as a child , as the second child of my mother who was also a second child and likewise not heard, mom has Venus in Aries.
We were both shut down as we were not valued, Venus , for our uniqueness.
I am an astrologer and my eldest two kids do not hear me , understand me etc.
We are learning , third house in my case not to shut ourselves down in any way just to be more agreeable to others perceptions of what they deem acceptable.
It is their problem, you simply have not met the right man with the right niche to fit your Venus.
I am happily married woman of 21 years and my husbands Mars retrograde fits my Venus retro perfectly.
I have this placement ❤ quite contradictory for me as I like a strong Man but need sensitivity too and I dont like being told what to do. Im also a Pisces ♓️ so......😂😂
we're both taurus suns with venus in aries. are you sure your not my sister from another mother? so yeah, im a man. and the women ive been attracted have been the overly self-sufficient(to put it nicely) women. I like strength but then when i get in relationships they are headaches. its been a consistent them and i dont know how to stay away from it.
Maria, you look absolutely beautiful!! ❤️
Thank you!😘
I’d love to know, about retrograde Venus, for example, does venus rx in Virgo demonstrate as Pisces,, someone told me that the rx means you act like the opposite sign, hope this makes sense.
Thank you. My mother has been trying to tell me to let this guy I like pursue me and I am having a hard time being quiet and feminine , per se. I think this video may have saved me some rejection. I’m going to be pretty as a peach and soak in my cancer moon and Pisces sun and let his Venus in Scorpio be soothed by his Pisces moon. Sigh .
A woman with Venus in Aries 1st house WITH MARS in its home sign. I am not for a weak man, lol.
What about Venus in Scorpio ...I have moon in Aries but Venus in Scorpio is somewhat problematic lol I’m Sag sun and asc. Lol
So ahould we just stay single 😅 even as a man?
Hi Maria, Could there be something else in your chart that would indicate a problem with Venus in Aries? I have Venus in Aries too but i haven't found it to be problematic...Perhaps it's because my moon is in pisces and rising Gemini?? Anyway thought you should know these celebs all have Venus in Aries, so we're in good company: Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, Audrey Hepburn, Cate Blanchett, Lady Gaga, Rihanna, and Sarah Jessica Parker.
Yes Lisa, it depends on the aspects Venus makes in the birth chart for sure.
Hi Maria
Hi Maria, this is really interesting because my partner venus in aries/pisces sun and cancer moon still he is so much forgots me when he is with his friend and family relationship shattered. Although I am aries rising, venus in scorpio/ capricorn sun ultra independent/agrresive go getter like my own time and space still find it difficult because I always felt like I will never be priority in my relationship with men. Which I never find marriage as important as but valued/loyal partnership. So also because my venus/mars/moon/jupiter in scorpio I am ultra strong willed moves mountains person however this is adversely affects my relationship.
Hi maria, Thank you for your special vedeo, As I psychologist and sun in taurus with venus in aries mars in sag
And moon in libra , ascendant in scorpio still i am exactly like you
I have problem with partnership
As you mentioned about libra even with my moon in libra still i behave exact same as you😀 but i have learned focus more in my taurus sun and my scorpio ascendant become more pasive than active in relationship
Let other party to be front coz we supress masculine side of men .we should know consciously and uncosciously we want to be in charge and this is problem
❤️😘🙏🏾
Mannn I’m a Venus in Aries and my partner is Venus in Libra. Literally talks me off of the edge and reminds me of the importance of “checking in” and that corny stuff 😂😂😂😂
Think I soften because I’m a Pisces sun and mars. But I’m very straight forward and I am the boss and leader in my intimate relationships. Literally dominate in the bedroom and how the relationship will play out.
I remember you have Uranus on your descendent, right? Venus Ur opp?
I do relate to what you say but not because I have VE in Aries but my intense first house (among other things)
Yes I have Uranus conjunct Descendant but it’s not opposite Venus. Venus is opposite Pluto, square Saturn and trine Neptune. I think we both have similar signatures…I recall with Saturn and Neptune…maybe that’s where the connection is?
Thank you for sharing Maria! I am Taurus Sun Venus Aires Mars Sag Cancer Moon. Totally doomed in relationships. Such powerful energy but I sometimes suppress it just to appease the other person. This has not been good. I’m working on balance ❤️
Omg same except pisces moon instead of cancer moon❤
Taurus sun, aries venus, sag mars❤
My Venus is in Aries and my Mars is in Sag and they trine each other so my Venus is more masculine and mars like. So I’m definitely aggressive in love. But I put myself and self love first so I have to take over I can’t let anyone try to take over my life or my happiness🤣🤣And I’m bi sexual so it goes for both sexes. I also like genuine people or they will be left alone
It’s a hard one for me…I’m figuring it out thou… 12H Venus in Aries Retro conjunct Lilith 🤯 I do love that hidden aggression that comes out when I am pursuing what I want! Being a Taurus Rising with Mars &Pluto ruling my DSC…wow do I attract very intense men! I’ve learned to love that I have 7H Saturn In Scorpio…It helps me see the weak minded ones…lol
I’m a Libra rising with Venus and Mars in Aries. It can get stressful 😂
I bet it can. Thanks for sharing!
THAT'S ME
Pisces Sun and Venus Aries 27 degrees 8H I also have Neptune Scorpio 0' opposite which isn't helping at all. It's a hard give and pull situation in relationships it's hard for me to grasp my part in it. Last relationship I just let him be the authority figure but he also let me have freedom as well. This current off and on boyfriend I feel needs to control everything and that's why we are off and on since 2017 but COVID not helping me find another so I been sticking with him. Huh! Last boyfriend passway.
You need a Venus in Aries man.
To funny you brought up libra rising or sun lol I'm a libra rising with my venus in aries and I absolutely do what I want when I want to needless to say I'm single and A okay with it lol
Hi yes I have Venus in Aries, I always like strong independent women who have that certain intelligence and 'kick' so to speak, and they have to be very attractive doesn't help either haha!
Keep those millionaire thoughts…flowing🙌
Not venus turning prospects off. Many other reasons why. You talked 20 minutes "rehashing" three of real content. Why not use astrology in a positive manner rather than blame one planet placement.
Absolutely 💯😁😁😁 just don't know how 😂😂my life 😭 BD😅 but I love it No 1 like Us tho.... And ☀️ in Aries 🐏 it doesn't match up with me either
OMG! You've just described me! I actually grew balls so that my man could break them!
BDE- no, I see it. I don't see the sweet and feminine at all. Your energy is definitely dominant and masculine.
Do you think this is the reason I like other men?
Venus in Aries, we are the Don Juan’s of the zodiac 😆