The Roots Of Anger 🥹 Robert Greene
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- Опубліковано 24 лют 2024
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In this UA-cam Short, the famous Author Robert Greene, talks about the roots of anger.
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Anger is always an expression of fear. So you could try asking what am I afraid of, once you discover the source of the anger, it loses its power over you.
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Yes. Exactly.
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That's not the case for many reasons.
1. Anger is an emotion and not an expression.
2. Anger is possible without any fear. If someone sitting in a cage tells you that your grandma were stupid 20 times, but you have to stay aside the cage, you get angry, but it's just too stupid to have any danger, hence no fear.
3. If you understand the reasons why you get angry, it doesn't change the situation necessarily. Maybe your boss just continues to lie at you - but you cannot change it, or you get ignored though you are very intelligent. Understanding causes doesn't end them being effective.
@@DEMOKRATEN-DEUTSCHLANDS you have some mirror work to do bro. Try again, look deeper. Anger is quite often triggered by things like " needing to be right" , because your identity of yourself requires it. And you need your Identity unscathed. For fear they'll laugh at you.
You are the school of hard knocks meets unbridled compassion. A conqueror of the human condition. 👍
I dumped all that anger decades ago. I already unraveled the self. I will not hold anger.
Love to hear you ...all beneficial down to earth and make sense
Embrace the shadow. Doing shadow work. We got it
Confronting yourself, accepting that responsibility allows you to fully control yourself which means being in control of your life. The person who masters their emotions can conquer anything they set their mind to achieve.
So true.... finding the first time you felt it and hold that inner child who was frustrated and listen to them, offer protection, respect and love ❤
Awe.. gawd... Its so difficult to pinpoint.
I crave EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.. 💯!
Mr. Robert Greene, you are great and I follow every video you make
Thank you Mr. Green cuz you pointed out something that's very critical in my life. My whole life I've been angry. Try to blanket it but the anger is always there now I can see clearer I understand❤❤❤
Same here too
Same!
And??? What to do when its too far back to remember
Had to deal with the closet full of memories of my life to make me happy again ❤🎉
I think all one can do is manage those angers that came from our childiood. There's no need to analyze. When I was in first grade aged 6, my teacher threw wood eeasers at me. On one occasion, she asked ne to put out my tongue and when I did, she pulled it and pinched it with her red fingernails until it bled. Or when my older brother, 8 years older than me, used to hit me on the head and kick me from behind until I was 12 yrs old. On top of it, my mother and my older siblings went along with it. Only my father was kind to me. Guess what? I was very angry growing up and realized later that I am autistic. I eventually divorced my family and became a monk. I am so happy now and learned to manage my autism and my anger. Divorcing my family was the best thing I did for myself. The second best thing was when I stopped thinking I was a victim. The third best thing was when I decided to become a monk. Family life is good but only to a point. The fact that you are born with these strange people and do not know if they will abuse you or not is a big red flag, and that's not including your extended family, school and classmates. Family life is very overrated.
Perfect! I'm known so many people that destroy themselves because it carried so much of it. Truly sad what it can do❤
Wow. Wow. Been struggling with this fir decades. He nailed it within a minute 😮
Yes i believe i have this .
Dead on!!!!
Makes sense❤️🕊
Recently encountered a breakthrough...it got intense.
Agreed Robert, to me, anger is thr worst of the so called sin.
Humans affairs are plenty, hence anger is always there, waiting to explode
I find it frustrating when people offer help, but inadvertently worsen the situation. This has been a recurring trigger for my anger, which I've noticed since my childhood and teenage years. While I understand their intentions are good, I prefer not to receive help from individuals whose efforts seem counterproductive. Even now, I struggle to manage my emotions when encountering incompetence, particularly in professional settings.
Anger is Fear announced.
I am 55. I HATE my brothers and have tried to hide it behind smiles and family get together were we make nice.
They abused me for years, as a child.
A few months ago, I interrogated my mother to find the root cause.
She has dementia and could not lie anymore.
1964.
I wasn't even born.
That's when it started.
My brothers HATED my mother. She was the adulterous that my father left his wife and children for.
So....
My brothers hated me because they could not GET to her directly, being children.
So I got the full brunt of their hate. I was the girl. I was her scapegoat.
The bible showed me this.
I came back to God last year, 5 months ago.
I started study the bible, as an adult.
Wow, my eyes opened.
So many bit part roles in the bible.
Not the main character. Not the one God loved.
Some minor side person, who often died horrible deaths all because of the lead character.
It struck me.
I am NOT the lead character.
I am a bit part in our family.
What a relief I felt.
I now assume that very small part and I have put down 50 years of shame and guilt.
All the self flagilation.
Why didn't I say something or do something when little?.
No, it wasn't about my well-being or me having a good life.
I had a role to play.
Become the high school drop out.
Get pregnant as a teenager.
Endless bad marriages.
My role was to remind my parents of their sin.
My dad is dead.
My mom is senile.
I can put down the burden.
My brothers have their own issues now.
That poison they carried ruined their lives aswell.
God has brought me peace.
It also means I don't have to pretend to like them.
That has stopped.
They go their way, I go mine.
Thank you ❤
Thank you for listening ❤
Yes
Anger is a habit that we have inherited from our angry culture that we're steeped in. I knew plenty of people in third world countries who had very traumatic lives.But we're still extremely happy, unlike us entitled people. Anger comes from feeling like you are entitled to be happy instead of appreciating what you have. Humble people are never angry, It is. Arrogant self entitled people get angry a lot because they are karens - self-entitled karens. You are owed NOTHING, once you accept this you will never be angry. HUMBLE YOURSELF BRO
I tried following these steps. I’m still very angry at our politicians and going back to my past isn’t going to fix that
Loren White: " You MUST find the source!" At church back in the 90"s. He was...is right.
Thanks Jesus Christ
When I was a child, I saw my first tiktok reel
That must´ve hurt...
Well fckk it, when you’re right you’re right. Time to work
Thank you so much !
Thank you for listening 💯
Anger usually stems from fear what is the base of the fear is the question
That´s the question we should ask ourselves!
Wow
Be sensitive for your triggers so that they do not become your weaknesses! And subsequently your downfall!
Every emotions is allowed and natural, anger serves a purpose too. If we didn't know what anger felt like, we wouldn't know how the oposite felt eighter. I say go anger, just connect to it so you know how and when
Anger is inherited from the angry culture that we are steeped in, I knew plenty of people in other cultures that were never angry no matter how traumatic their childhood was. Anger comes from an over inflated sense of self importance, PERIOD. If you realize that you're not the center of the universe you will stop being angry......
Thank you
Thank you for listening !!
The anger I have with a parent I understand perfectly but I can’t do anything about it.
if you dont think you can do anything about your anger then you not only dont understand it perfectly but you also do. not know who you are.if you think someone else is responcible for your anger and you are blaming them for your anger then you will be powerless to do anything about it.once you realize that its YOUR anger then its your choice as too what YOU are going to do with it wether you hold on to it or learn to let it go.many people refuse to let go because it gives them a false sense of superority over there abuser an a feeling of self righteousness but ultimately if you dont let go of it or transform it into some productive activity it will poison your soul an destroy you an you will have no one to blame but yourself.
@@louismorris7946 Take it easy. 😆
@@mariadinn4441 why? Just trying to give you a wake up call😇.do you really want to live the rest of your life holding on to anger.you make your comment sound like you dont have a choice but you do.if you want to hang on to your anger thats fine but you wont get any sympathy from me and i gaurentee you your life will not get any better till you learn to let it go.you deserve better than that.
@@louismorris7946 maybe you’re right. Thank you so much
I don’t have any “unfinished business”, but I’m constantly surrounded by folks who do - and it’s irksome and annoying as f**k.
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BTW .. it's so sad and frustrating!
I have analyzed mine n I don't want to be upset with them anymore but when it comes to haunt me, I still hurts and it's hard to not identify with the emotion, how do I get to the level where when ever it comes to haunt me, I don't feel anything anymore???
Sounds like someone I know 😂😂sad
Emotional neglect
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Dark Snowy Night by Daniel
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That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving their just powers from the consent of the governed,-That whenever any Form of Gov- ernment becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness."
God was not rich millionaire but he was very poor... God birth in cowshed... live like servent... it's hurt me hurted so so hurt.... so i loves poor life very much... poor life obedient righteous holy kind humble honest loyal.... this makes me very happy 😁😁😁😁 happiest moment... most probably loving love's heart with servings served mind... help mind..... this makes me very happy 😊😊😊😊 because God represent only love's lovingly hearts with servings served mind..........
Maybe it was unfinished business form jobs
Can be
Common sense please, delete your past, work on your present because that is your future. The umbilical cord was cut off long ago
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Younger siblings
Older siblings ?
Recognize your triggers.
That's maybe 1% of all causes for anger.
The major part of causes for anger are injustice, being abused, being lied at, having no possibility to solve a problem, though you know how to do it. So psychology doesn't help in these situations at all - in fact it is misleading to ignore these causes. The problem is the autocracy organized by money, which you may not get if you are poor and need it, but you easily get if your already have a lot of it and don't need it.
So don't forget 99% of the causes, because truth only is an entire evaluation.
Don't you think that this is what he's said. Most of these are caused due to heirarchial structure and being subjected to it for a long time in presence of disadvantage or potential loss being not able to do any activity to change the situation. If we zoom out and look at the whole picture these structures and all relate to some part of childhood as the time which we are subjected to many heirarchial structures both in acdemic and family.
🤣🤣🤣yeah why do you think this is deep at all you’re just repeating what he says
Younger sibling?
Maybe older sibling :)
Are you guys sure?? I don't think It's ever a race issue from my end.
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