My childhood incęst story.

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  • @dcluizili7096
    @dcluizili7096 7 днів тому +11

    Hey, thanks for sharing. I’m a 42-year-old male who was assaulted at 10 years old multiple times by older men. The effects on adulthood is and can be very overwhelming. It’s a day-to-day process. Be blessed !

  • @queenmilly2792
    @queenmilly2792 9 днів тому +17

    Lots of love from me❤❤.im deeply sorry you went through all that. Never give up. God heals broken hearts. That's His specialty. I pray that you will be healed❤

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  8 днів тому +3

      @@queenmilly2792 amen! I pray I endure till the very end.

  • @kaellanos
    @kaellanos 8 днів тому +4

    I’m so sorry that happened to you. May the lord help heal those deep wounds in your heart. ❤️ Sending love, light and healing your way. You are very brave for telling your story.

  • @marshasmith8309
    @marshasmith8309 9 днів тому +6

    Hello Bianca, just want to say you are amazing and you will help so many people who need to know they are not alone. Therapy can help and it’s important to address any trauma because it impacts your life tremendously🙏🏽

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  9 днів тому +1

      Thank you so much for your kind words! 🙏🏽 You are right, it's so important to seek help! God bless you! 🩷

    • @MattyRicardo
      @MattyRicardo 9 днів тому +1

      I want and need you Forever And Always, Eternal Life, !!!!!! Really ❤❤❤

  • @elizabethasia9994
    @elizabethasia9994 7 днів тому +3

    Thank you for your courage to share. I pray your story helps other young women going through this. 🙏🏽❤️

  • @y0utub3g0
    @y0utub3g0 7 днів тому +8

    Damn…….u been through some shit! I thought my life was hell.

  • @ayssalopez1700
    @ayssalopez1700 9 днів тому +4

    Girl I’m sorry. You’re so vulnerable with sharing your life… I love how you have came out the other side though and grown from all these devastating things that have happened to you.. same thing happened to my niece she’s over 18 now but when she was 7 my father in law touched her inappropriately. It’s so sad. Love you girl!

  • @uniquelyevie
    @uniquelyevie 6 днів тому +1

    I'm so sorry for what you went through. I'm sending you so much love, healing, and peace. ❤

  • @CryinginFrontofStrangers
    @CryinginFrontofStrangers 9 днів тому +6

    im sorry Bianca but you are such a brave girl. you have gone through the fire and came out like gold, a true diamond. sending you a big warm hug!!!!

  • @Stephanie-n1f
    @Stephanie-n1f 9 днів тому +7

    we love you girl. I pray you have amazing and bless life. My heart breaks for you... I am sorry I want you to know your loved and you matter......... SHINE ON.. .........May God bless you sweetheart...

  • @yanaserdtse5375
    @yanaserdtse5375 9 днів тому +6

    I totally get this. I had been abused as a kid and trird to go to men for that and also ended up getting in trouble bc of that. Sexual abuse hurts their self esteem.

  • @liddieromero6974
    @liddieromero6974 7 днів тому +2

    Im so sorry that happened to you baby, you are so strong

  • @whitneybrown4067
    @whitneybrown4067 9 днів тому +4

    Thank u 4 Sharing Bianca n Truly Saddened that This Happened to u🥲n Continued Blessings💜💐🙏!!!….

  • @lalibug8055
    @lalibug8055 9 днів тому +2

    Thank you for being so vulnerable, sharing your deepest, darkest secrets, traumas, and burdens that were never yours to begin with. Ever. I'm so sorry you had to experience this. All of it.
    I will not make this about myself.
    I, too, came from a very traumatic childhood.
    God gives His toughest battles to his strongest soldiers.
    Beauty for ashes.
    ** Thank you for using your platforms for the greater good.
    Healing. Education. And our inner child that needs to be heard, loved, and healing so we can become what we needed.**

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  9 днів тому +2

      Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️‍🩹 you are right, God has never left us nor forsaken us and will use what the enemy tried to destroy us either to glory our Lord with! Praise, Jesus! Thank you for being here love 💗

  • @JUDALATION
    @JUDALATION 9 днів тому +1

    How sad...I pray you get the happiness you deserve sis!

  • @liddieromero6974
    @liddieromero6974 7 днів тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this Bianca you are one of Gods angel.

  • @terryvarta9306
    @terryvarta9306 9 днів тому +4

    i wish to hug you and just hope u heal, your story matters

  • @liddieromero6974
    @liddieromero6974 7 днів тому +2

    You are so brave + BEAUTIFUL. Inside & Out

  • @germaniedorsainvil4604
    @germaniedorsainvil4604 9 днів тому +1

    May God hear your cries and healed you up in all the areas in ur life Bianca.

  • @TOdoubledizzle24
    @TOdoubledizzle24 9 днів тому +11

    You have no control over who you are born to unfortunately.
    Terrible story, sorry that happened to you!

  • @Yahchebed
    @Yahchebed 8 днів тому +1

    You're hyper sensitive sweetheart, you might have developed into an empath. Love yourself more than anyone in the world. Embrace who you are, beautiful lady. You're here to heal the world. May God keep and bless you, courageous one

  • @BroncoBob3113
    @BroncoBob3113 7 днів тому +3

    Sorry you experienced all this. Terrible this is.

  • @ednastokes9222
    @ednastokes9222 9 днів тому +1

    Am so sorry for the cards you were dealt but honey you are a inspiration to so many my daughter listing to you a lot on my profile she relates

  • @katecm5966
    @katecm5966 5 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing. May God continue to shine His face upon you.🙏🏽

  • @I_Lemaire
    @I_Lemaire 9 днів тому +3

    I am so, so sorry, Bianca.

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  8 днів тому +2

      I am too, but blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted 🩷 God is good. He has turned mourning into dancing.

    • @I_Lemaire
      @I_Lemaire 8 днів тому +2

      @@Bianca.Ordonez_ Amen. Thank you for sharing this powerful testimony.

  • @vickieflanigan4678
    @vickieflanigan4678 9 днів тому +3

    I'm so sorry that happened to you

  • @carolewatson-mckoy8689
    @carolewatson-mckoy8689 9 днів тому +1

    You are lovely, bright woman
    You've been through so much pain
    Good things are coming your way
    You deserve happiness
    You are beautiful, like my daughter
    I could adopt you😊❤.
    You are a great role model for young and old. You are so strong and intelligent, I'm so happy you are settled and have a beautiful daughter
    Keep smiling my precious lady 😊
    ❤❤

  • @ms.santamaria3972
    @ms.santamaria3972 8 днів тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  8 днів тому +1

      Thank you for being here, I appreciate it. ❤️

  • @sugarrbear7113
    @sugarrbear7113 9 днів тому +6

    Thanking you for having the courage to speak up!Iam sorry that you had to experience this trauma.

  • @NicJohn
    @NicJohn 9 днів тому +1

    Sorry any of this happened to you. Yes being that hyper aware is a trama response, but it's also a gift if protection. Also don't feel bad about it, because your man probably is in the way a lot. Lol, but seriously don't feel bad, because it's not good to not be self aware or aware of your surroundings either. Praying for your healing journey.

  • @MillennialMountainMama
    @MillennialMountainMama 8 днів тому +2

    The same thing happened to me, except it was my own father.

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  7 днів тому +2

      Ufff my love. So so so sorry. I hope you believe me when I tell you this, Jesus loves you so much. And God longs to show the way a Father is supposed to love. 🩷 you are so worthy.

    • @MillennialMountainMama
      @MillennialMountainMama 7 днів тому +1

      @ Thank you, God bless you! And thank you for sharing your testimony.

  • @awitness7103
    @awitness7103 9 днів тому +3

    xodus 20:5-6 New Living Translation (NLT)
    I lay the sins of the parents upon their children; the entire family is affected-even children in the third and fourth generations of those who reject me. But I lavish unfailing love for a thousand generations on those who love me and obey my commands.

  • @TheAstroAnalyst
    @TheAstroAnalyst 9 днів тому

    I want to tell you I’m so sorry you went through this and your mom is 🗑️🚮 for not paying more attention. My father and uncles acted weird toward me sexually but from my memory I don’t believe actual assault happened. I totally understand why you drank a lot when you were intentionally harmed with the std, as I also had a drinking addiction in my early 20s due to a traumatic childhood. It is not your fault ! So proud of your STRENGTH ‼️

  • @Prttyd_xo
    @Prttyd_xo 6 днів тому +1

    Eish. Your life seems like a nightmare won’t lie to you.
    If I was your mum I would keep you close because your soul seems so precious. 🙏🏻
    People can be so evil. They have evil hearts that they push abuse under the rug

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  6 днів тому +3

      Hey, you’re right my life was quite a nightmare for a long time. Some done to me and others I brought onto myself. However, these days it feels like I’m dreaming, God has not forgotten about me. For that I’m thankful.🩷

    • @Prttyd_xo
      @Prttyd_xo 6 днів тому +1

      @ amen. 🙏🏻

  • @MattyRicardo
    @MattyRicardo 9 днів тому

    I love you too The fullest,My Queen Bianca ❤❤❤

  • @Lorrdpoee
    @Lorrdpoee 9 днів тому +4

    Hate you went through this

  • @Lanellsia
    @Lanellsia 5 днів тому +1

  • @Escoveeche
    @Escoveeche 7 днів тому

    I fear, no one wants to take anything to
    the grave anymore. But I'm sorry for you.

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  7 днів тому +4

      You should rejoice at this truth. Jesus came to set the captives free! And who ever Jesus sets free is free indeed. Why should I be ashamed of my testimony? Why should you be ashamed of yours? God bless you.

  • @Prodigal_To_Remnant
    @Prodigal_To_Remnant 9 днів тому +3

    Thank you for your transparency courage and boldness to be able to share your story. I was a victim of sexual assault as a child by family members and family friends. I can truly relate to what you went through. I was also diagnosed with HIV/ AIDS in 2016. I was infected by someone who I was in a on and off ongoing so called relationship for about almost 9 years. A person who was attracted to both men and women or just was around me to cover up that he was undercover. But GOD has gotten me through so much. I was also diagnosed last year with Breast Cancer. Again thank you for stepping out of your comfort zone and helping others. Because this has helped me. ❤

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  9 днів тому +3

      So sorry to hear what you went through. No child deserves to go through something so horrific. People are so quick to judge people who are diagnosed with HIV/AIDS or who simply have unhealthy coping mechanisms but truly do not know what people have gone through to get them to this point. I pray God heals you fully from any cancer and that you find the peace that surpasses all understanding in Jesus. I love you so much my sister. God bless you.

    • @Prodigal_To_Remnant
      @Prodigal_To_Remnant 9 днів тому

      Thank you so very much, my Sister. I love you too. ❤️

  • @awitness7103
    @awitness7103 9 днів тому +2

    God never allows pain without a purpose. Have you suffered all this for nothing? the wages of sin is death for all of us if you’re living in fornication, that is sin.❤ the Bible says, let him that mentions the name of the Lord depart from sin! The Bible says, believe and be baptized you receive the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome sin. The Bible clearly tells us if we don’t repent and turn from sinfulness.

  • @shawnalexander4928
    @shawnalexander4928 9 годин тому

    😢 He probably abused your grandmother as well. You were not the only one, I promise you. Family members help protect the predators 😢

  • @yareneveronicatoro222
    @yareneveronicatoro222 8 днів тому

    Love you forever ❤

    • @Bianca.Ordonez_
      @Bianca.Ordonez_  8 днів тому

      Kitty 🩷🩷 i love you too always and forever 🩷

  • @ruthbagus7170
    @ruthbagus7170 4 дні тому

    🫂🫂🥰🤗🙇🏾‍♀️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @amandapeters9480
    @amandapeters9480 9 днів тому +1

    Wow….

  • @hanielycruz630
    @hanielycruz630 8 днів тому

    I love you ❤️

  • @akinyemiegbe9606
    @akinyemiegbe9606 9 днів тому

    🤗

  • @syedbukhari4361
    @syedbukhari4361 3 дні тому

    Great courage

  • @coreydarnel
    @coreydarnel 5 днів тому

    This is off-topic, but you look and sound like Sean Taylor's sister Monika.

  • @TheBroknPezDispenser
    @TheBroknPezDispenser 11 годин тому

    Wow. Crazy, you don’t LOOK HIV positive, I think I should get tested.

  • @yanaserdtse5375
    @yanaserdtse5375 9 днів тому +1

    This is horrible

  • @Treta.Ka.Thakur
    @Treta.Ka.Thakur 6 днів тому

    Fakest shit I've ever heard😂