Insecurity is a problem that not everyone understands. They just judge without knowing at all what made that person so insecure, I lived it, that's why I know. Fear on the part of the insecure person, no understanding of the other, can trigger problems like the one heard in the video. Sometimes.... talking about it and making it seem easy, for others it is an almost impossible challenge. Good video Mindful 👍
Some people just have a hard time believing that anyone would reciprocate those feelings. After all, we're just us, and there are so many wonderful people out there. It's not a healthy mindset, but it's tough to think otherwise when being alone is all you're used to
This is a scenario I'm scared of. Not the wanting someone to leave, but wanting them to be happy thinking that I'm a waste of space who could never do that. (My favorite number is either 18 or 77.)
Favourite number? I usually have two number 9s, a number 9 large, a number 6 with extra dip, a number 7, two number 45s, one with cheese, and a large soda.
This could totally be me... if I ever got that close to someone in the first place... which is never happening. Great audio as always. And my favorite number is 4.
I used to think that love is not always real, but after my friend circle helped me get back on my feet despite being in my lowest, my insecurities slowly started to fade, and I owe them one 🖤 Also, my favorite number is my birthday lucky number 22
@@enterusername4650 unfortunately, my comment aged like milk, my friends left me months ago after the joined a leftist activist group and I refused to join
I mean in my case any person partnered with me definitely should leave. My bad choices have really made me a bad person. Lazy, lustful, selfish. Until I'm chaste, hard working, and selfless I am simply a bad influence. But I'll never need to tell someone to leave, lol! There's nothing to attract anyone about me haha! I am very justly single for very valid reasons. Lol look at that, me talking about myself again. What I mean to say is: thanks mindful! You always make such interesting audios!
“I love everything about you and I don’t want these insecurities to come between us. So please, just give me a chance to show you how I feel, how you make me feel.” Hope is terrifying and beautiful in equal measure. I want to be better and it starts right here. Beautifully heartfelt and very touching audio Mindful! Hope you have a fantastic day, stay safe and well-rested! A beautiful and wonderfully heartfelt audio with an important message woven into it that made me tear up. Hope you’re doing well Mindful!
its been a while since i listened to one of your asmr's miss mindful. schools been hectic and i barely have any time for myself now T - T i see you upload 3 videos a day now. i respect all the hard work you put in your videos and your consistent upload schedule. its really amazing how you can keep this up :)) remember to take breaks when needed miss mindful. have a safe day and gl ^v^ (ps favorite number is 1 :])
If I could be honest and I think everyone thinks about this. Especially before they make THAT decision that their specific other is truly the ONE. Is... *How long will their love last?* Just think about it. Because in today's world. A lot of people, especially the love that they vowed at their own wedding altar. That promise to love each other now and forever. ISN'T LASTING FOREVER. Too much Divorce going around. Broken hearts and suffering souls. To those who are suffering now. I send ya my condolences. But this is truly one of my biggest fears when it comes to relationships.
Mr. Blue I told you that I love you Please believe me Mr. Blue I have to go now Darling don't be angry I know that you're tired I know that you're sour and sick and sad For some reason So I'll leave you with a smile Kiss you on the cheek And you will call it treason That's the way it goes Some days a fever comes at you Without a warning And I can see it in your face You've been waiting to break Since you woke up this morning Mr. Blue Don't hold your head so low that you can't see the sky Mr. Blue It ain't so long since you were flying high Mr. Blue Mr. Blue Mr. Blue Mr. Blue I told you that I love you Please believe me
I have a lot of self confidence to build up and I’m slowly getting there but it’s a struggle. I overthink everything and don’t usually feel like I’m worthy love but I want to change that about myself and be able to be proud of myself and love myself enough to know I’m worthy of love.
Well, that's quite clever video, i know all to well what feeling no love is like, for many years no matter who i went with, nothing in my emotions changed, no excitement, no nothing and after a break up, i forgot about it real quick and for me is a bit different, bc it isn't a insecurity problem, nah i can open up and talk about anything with anyone, it's the whole attachment thing that i do not have, i view everyone the same way, but oh well, I've lived with it for so long I'm used to it, just be careful around ppl like that.
I myself believe in love I just don't think I'm the right person for it Unworthy of it I can't provide the best for that person I love and I might end up hurting them more or dragging them into my hole when they already have such a great life But its alright I'm okay I'll be happy as long as they are I'll be alright Its fine
People feel love and other feel sad when they listen to this audio, I feel weak and because of that i want to be stronger and exercise every night, thank you kept the great work
I... I did not expect to be called out like this tonight. I've done this exact thing too many times now... god, why am I such an asshole? I don't want to be an asshole anymore, I just want to be happy :(
@@mindfulmessasmr thank you for your support and content and I will someday find someone who treats me like a queen 👑👑 would love to hear more of these supportive girlfriend audios if you are willing to make them
I can't tell you how many times it seems like things were going great and then a girl just disappears. no goodbye, no reason for leaving, just gone. I have very little to go off of. most times it seems like we connected well and we were having fun and there was a good interest level. but at the end I'm left with the only common factor being me. I am the only constant in the scenario. which means its probably my fault. I tried everything. Being funny, being charming, being confident, being sensitive, being stoic, being witty, being open, being prepared, being spontaneous, being attentive, giving plenty of space, talking more, talking less. All no good. guess I just got one of those faces. by this point if someone told me they loved me I really don't know if I'd believe them. I've been used for what I can only assume is either a practice dummy or a placeholder so often that it genuinely feels like nobody could ever mean it if they said they loved me like that.
I have a hard time to try and find someone it's always what ifs What if they don't actually like me What if their not interested What if I make a fool of myself And so on The only time I "confessed" to someone I feel like I made her uncomfortable Sorry I just needed to vent Edit: 64 is my favorite number
Tbh this is not her problem. It's clear from the context they don't know each other well. She might dispel his insecurities for today but tomorrow, next week, next month, it will absolutely come back. If she likes being this person for him than more power to her. But for most people it's not really worth it
I tend to mess up words quite a bit and just roll with it, but I also have characters stutter and fumble over words on purpose. I think I genuinely messed up this time though xD
Yeah i kinda when through the same thing with this girl once.....very emotionally painful for both of us. And I'm not playing character here I'm being serious.
Favourite number? Huh. I actually don't have one. Amazing work today as always! I'm kinda hungry right now as I'm writing this. I might get something to eat. Anyway, keep up the great work, stay well, stay safe, and have an amazing rest of your day!
This reminds me of the last relationship i tried to have, she was really cool, took her out on a nice date and got to know her. We had a great time but i couldnt shake the feeling that it was too good to be true, so i ended up disappearing quietly from her life. Probably not the best video to have playing just as im waking up today 🤔🤷♂️
This is good, play hard to get that’s how u do it🤭👉🏻👈🏻🫶🏻can’t be too easy lol fine u win I’ll give u a chance since I can feel the heartfelt sobs at the end🥺🙁🤗
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Did you know? Lab-grown human and mouse brain cells living in a petri dish became sentient, enough to learn how to play pong.
I don’t know how to feel about this information x3
@@mindfulmessasmr agreed
That’s cool af
Wtf
Teach them dudes to play battlefield next I need some squadmates who actually know how to do team play well
Insecurity is a problem that not everyone understands. They just judge without knowing at all what made that person so insecure, I lived it, that's why I know.
Fear on the part of the insecure person, no understanding of the other, can trigger problems like the one heard in the video.
Sometimes.... talking about it and making it seem easy, for others it is an almost impossible challenge.
Good video Mindful 👍
Thank you!!
"I am starting to feel *_low battery, please charge._* "
Relatable
Some people just have a hard time believing that anyone would reciprocate those feelings. After all, we're just us, and there are so many wonderful people out there.
It's not a healthy mindset, but it's tough to think otherwise when being alone is all you're used to
Perfect audio for such an overthinker as myself, thank you so much MM 🥰
I think all of us have days where we overthink. We just have to take it one step at a time on the road we call “life”.
Really Solar I never took you for an overthinker
This is a scenario I'm scared of. Not the wanting someone to leave, but wanting them to be happy thinking that I'm a waste of space who could never do that.
(My favorite number is either 18 or 77.)
Yeah I've had this conversation before and I honestly needed to hear it again
Favourite number? I usually have two number 9s, a number 9 large, a number 6 with extra dip, a number 7, two number 45s, one with cheese, and a large soda.
"ok you only want one soda with your 50 dry biscuits of varying flavors?"
That ain't a menu that's a fcking wifi password 💀
This could totally be me... if I ever got that close to someone in the first place... which is never happening.
Great audio as always. And my favorite number is 4.
You’ll find your person one day!!!
"that's an annoying Kuriboh" (jk jk)
I used to think that love is not always real, but after my friend circle helped me get back on my feet despite being in my lowest, my insecurities slowly started to fade, and I owe them one 🖤
Also, my favorite number is my birthday lucky number 22
Must be nice actually having friends. I don't have that luxury.
@@enterusername4650 this comment aged like milk. My friends are gone after they left me to join a left activist group after I refused to join them
@@enterusername4650 unfortunately, my comment aged like milk, my friends left me months ago after the joined a leftist activist group and I refused to join
I mean in my case any person partnered with me definitely should leave. My bad choices have really made me a bad person. Lazy, lustful, selfish. Until I'm chaste, hard working, and selfless I am simply a bad influence.
But I'll never need to tell someone to leave, lol! There's nothing to attract anyone about me haha! I am very justly single for very valid reasons.
Lol look at that, me talking about myself again.
What I mean to say is: thanks mindful! You always make such interesting audios!
If you do not like characteristics about yourself, you are the only one who can make a change to that
@@mindfulmessasmr good point!
This is me to a fault, hopeless romantic who tries too hard but doesn't believe I'm worth much, who doesn't believe I deserve to be loved.
“I love everything about you and I don’t want these insecurities to come between us. So please, just give me a chance to show you how I feel, how you make me feel.” Hope is terrifying and beautiful in equal measure. I want to be better and it starts right here. Beautifully heartfelt and very touching audio Mindful! Hope you have a fantastic day, stay safe and well-rested!
A beautiful and wonderfully heartfelt audio with an important message woven into it that made me tear up. Hope you’re doing well Mindful!
Thank you, I hope you’re also doing well!!!
I just feel insecure.
Amazing vid!!!!! Really loved the concept of comforting this type of insecurity.
Thank you!!!
its been a while since i listened to one of your asmr's miss mindful.
schools been hectic and i barely have any time for myself now T - T
i see you upload 3 videos a day now.
i respect all the hard work you put in your videos and your consistent upload schedule. its really amazing how you can keep this up :))
remember to take breaks when needed miss mindful.
have a safe day and gl ^v^
(ps favorite number is 1 :])
I upload a new audio every day, but I’m also re-uploading other audios that I had to fix the thumbnails for x3 still keeping it consistent!!
@@mindfulmessasmr ahh i see well hope that its not a hassle for you ^ ^
If I could be honest and I think everyone thinks about this. Especially before they make THAT decision that their specific other is truly the ONE. Is... *How long will their love last?*
Just think about it. Because in today's world. A lot of people, especially the love that they vowed at their own wedding altar. That promise to love each other now and forever. ISN'T LASTING FOREVER. Too much Divorce going around. Broken hearts and suffering souls.
To those who are suffering now. I send ya my condolences. But this is truly one of my biggest fears when it comes to relationships.
Very true
If this happened to me it would be because I tricked her, hiding my real self, and if I had any decency I'd save her from me as soon as possible.
Hey you should be nicer to yourself
Mr. Blue
I told you that I love you
Please believe me
Mr. Blue
I have to go now
Darling don't be angry
I know that you're tired
I know that you're sour and sick and sad
For some reason
So I'll leave you with a smile
Kiss you on the cheek
And you will call it treason
That's the way it goes
Some days a fever comes at you
Without a warning
And I can see it in your face
You've been waiting to break
Since you woke up this morning
Mr. Blue
Don't hold your head so low that you can't see the sky
Mr. Blue
It ain't so long since you were flying high
Mr. Blue
Mr. Blue
Mr. Blue
Mr. Blue
I told you that I love you
Please believe me
If I was in a relationship, I'd probably do this to 🙃
Wonderful audio as always! And my favorite number is 47
Thank you!!!
I feel like this sometimes....thank you!
Maybe just maybe with my weird adhd asperger self ill find someone
I have a lot of self confidence to build up and I’m slowly getting there but it’s a struggle.
I overthink everything and don’t usually feel like I’m worthy love but I want to change that about myself and be able to be proud of myself and love myself enough to know I’m worthy of love.
Well, that's quite clever video, i know all to well what feeling no love is like, for many years no matter who i went with, nothing in my emotions changed, no excitement, no nothing and after a break up, i forgot about it real quick and for me is a bit different, bc it isn't a insecurity problem, nah i can open up and talk about anything with anyone, it's the whole attachment thing that i do not have, i view everyone the same way, but oh well, I've lived with it for so long I'm used to it, just be careful around ppl like that.
I myself believe in love
I just don't think I'm the right person for it
Unworthy of it
I can't provide the best for that person I love and I might end up hurting them more or dragging them into my hole when they already have such a great life
But its alright
I'm okay
I'll be happy as long as they are
I'll be alright
Its fine
You'll find your person one day!! :3
@@mindfulmessasmr 😁
I kinda feel this way too.
Frick I haven’t even watched the vid yet but by the title I can already tell it’s gonna be relatable
No, I want you to stay... my mind has been mess lately..
Lovely audio 🤍🤍
Love you M 🤍🤍
Thank you!!!
Mindfull used emotional damage....
It was very effective
this is everything i want to hear. thank you.
I hope you're okay!!!
Gosh this made me feel kinda bad in the beginning, haha. I'm glad it had a... semi happy ending.
I feel attacked. Great video ❤❤❤
Thank you!!!
23. Been my lucky number for many a year now, all started with a Jim Carrey movie. Good stuff
Love is REAL !!!
*Song from the "One Peace is Real" video*
You move my heart in unexpected positive ways, thank You MindfulMess, we dont deserve You ❤
call it bland but my favorite number is 7
People feel love and other feel sad when they listen to this audio, I feel weak and because of that i want to be stronger and exercise every night, thank you kept the great work
Thanks for listening!!!
same
Much love ❤️
Thank you again for using my suggestion.
Thanks for the idea!!!
ill rate this cry a 8/10
As aromantic I can imagine myself actually having this conversation if I didn't find out that I'm aromantic.
This shit called me out and struck those bad times into my head. 7.5/10 very nice👍
I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!
I... I did not expect to be called out like this tonight.
I've done this exact thing too many times now... god, why am I such an asshole?
I don't want to be an asshole anymore, I just want to be happy :(
If you don’t like yourself, you have the ability to change into the person you want to be :3
Such a lovely audio, line about heart got me it was so poetic :O Thank you it was joy to listen to.
I’m glad you enjoyed!!!
Ohhh man this one cut deep….
I like the feistiness. Thank ya
I wish this wasn't so relatable for me
I need this I learned when I was a little girl I don't deserve to be loved and I know I am unworthy but it would be nice to deserve love from someone
Everyone deserves love, and do not let anyone tell you you are unworthy!!
@@mindfulmessasmr thank you for your support and content and I will someday find someone who treats me like a queen 👑👑 would love to hear more of these supportive girlfriend audios if you are willing to make them
Who made you learn that you don't deserve love and what's their home address ?
I hope you are well Mindfulmess, take care of yourself, your health is the most important 🤗
Thank you, you as well!!!
Future Wife acquired
What now? I didn't plan this far ahead
I can't tell you how many times it seems like things were going great and then a girl just disappears. no goodbye, no reason for leaving, just gone. I have very little to go off of. most times it seems like we connected well and we were having fun and there was a good interest level. but at the end I'm left with the only common factor being me.
I am the only constant in the scenario.
which means its probably my fault.
I tried everything. Being funny, being charming, being confident, being sensitive, being stoic, being witty, being open, being prepared, being spontaneous, being attentive, giving plenty of space, talking more, talking less.
All no good.
guess I just got one of those faces. by this point if someone told me they loved me I really don't know if I'd believe them. I've been used for what I can only assume is either a practice dummy or a placeholder so often that it genuinely feels like nobody could ever mean it if they said they loved me like that.
You gotta be yourself and find that person that love you for you (as long as you’re not a jerk or something xD )
@@mindfulmessasmr Last time I checked I wasn't a jerk but regardless thanks for the encouragement 😅
I have a hard time to try and find someone it's always what ifs
What if they don't actually like me
What if their not interested
What if I make a fool of myself
And so on
The only time I "confessed" to someone I feel like I made her uncomfortable
Sorry I just needed to vent
Edit: 64 is my favorite number
You’ll find your person one day!!!
@@mindfulmessasmr thanks ig
My favorite number has always been 6, pretty cool number
dayum, bro pulled the oldest trick in the book. oof.
Amazing audio!!!
Thank you!!!
That was really lovely! Favorite number is 32 what about you Mindful
Spooky pancakes 🎃🥞
13 :3
So swweeetttttt ❤️❤️❤️fav no.5 😎
Idk about a favorite number but 13 is pretty interesting, same with 8 or 17, they have weird vibes
Insecurities would be a problem in relationships if we're being honest
Other than that it's a awesome audio 🤝
Thank you!!!
Me insecure : yes, me thinking no one can love me : yes, me asking someone to be my gf : doubt.
Also favourite digit 3, favourite number 13
Tbh this is not her problem. It's clear from the context they don't know each other well. She might dispel his insecurities for today but tomorrow, next week, next month, it will absolutely come back. If she likes being this person for him than more power to her. But for most people it's not really worth it
I am jaded, Ive lost what love feels like 😶
I'm sorry, I hope you're okay!!!
Genuinely curious if you said "word to pick" by accident and just rolled with it.
I tend to mess up words quite a bit and just roll with it, but I also have characters stutter and fumble over words on purpose. I think I genuinely messed up this time though xD
Yeah i kinda when through the same thing with this girl once.....very emotionally painful for both of us. And I'm not playing character here I'm being serious.
I hope you’re okay!!!
@@mindfulmessasmr I'm fine. Thanks.
40,000 kilatons of TNT.
Huh? xD
now, hear me out:
among us.
*am i funny now?*
Amonus ?! SUS ?!
Favorite number 0, 3, 5, or 35
I don’t know what’s real anymore, i hope this helps
I hope you're doing okay!!!
Sweet as always...favorite number is 84 🌌
Favorite number is 14.
Also the listener is just like me fr fr
Crazy how we’ll all never have this.
That's a sad mindset :(
@@mindfulmessasmr I know it is, but I’ve honestly been conditioned to it at this point.
Now she’s a keeper, not a shadow of a doubt
Stopped listening at 0:40. Would never happen
Woah..
Very nice
Thanks!!!
Favourite number?
Huh. I actually don't have one.
Amazing work today as always! I'm kinda hungry right now as I'm writing this. I might get something to eat. Anyway, keep up the great work, stay well, stay safe, and have an amazing rest of your day!
Thank you, you as well!!!
My favorite number is 千.
87. I won an XBox with that bad boy.
Yes i think everyone should leave me. :)
Everyone deserves love :3
Frick love that crap is too scary and sad
Love can be a wonderful emotion if felt in a healthy manner. Love for friends, family, and others :3
Hmmm cute
Did you know panama hats are hats
The first mistake you made was saying yes
My fav number is 13
❤️✨️
🖤✨
We are together forever bae 😘🥰💖🐰
If mindful was to respond, what is her favorite number
13 :3
@@mindfulmessasmr 13 is a cool number, my favorite is 100 :3
Alright here we go again. Mine is 17, what's yours?
13, spooky vibes
✨️💙💙✨️
Oof. Cheers!
insecurity
4 days left
4 days?
Birtgda :)
If M were to reply what would she say
My favorite number is 13, it has spook vibes
@@mindfulmessasmr My favorite number is 26
Hello there 👻
Heyo
I hate that this is me
I hope you're doing okay!!!
Excuse me but who is responsible for the scripts/scenarios for these videos
I improvise so there are no scripts, but people can comment scenarios they would like to hear :3
This reminds me of the last relationship i tried to have, she was really cool, took her out on a nice date and got to know her. We had a great time but i couldnt shake the feeling that it was too good to be true, so i ended up disappearing quietly from her life.
Probably not the best video to have playing just as im waking up today 🤔🤷♂️
Like 😊
Yayyyy!!!!!
:D
:3
Lol I'm first
What a great video
Thank you!!!
This is good, play hard to get that’s how u do it🤭👉🏻👈🏻🫶🏻can’t be too easy lol fine u win I’ll give u a chance since I can feel the heartfelt sobs at the end🥺🙁🤗