Enneagram Types at a Party 🍻

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  • @sparklefulpaladin
    @sparklefulpaladin 11 місяців тому +16

    I'm so the type 5 in this one... if I'm not hanging out with the dog or cat (or whatever other pets there are), I'm with a book. Or I'm in the kitchen making sure everything is properly prepared and food allergy labels are added on potluck things. Kitchen generally has less people and if someone wants to try to small talk, I have a knife! That is... if I even go to the party in the first place!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +2

      "if someone wants to try to small talk, i have a knife" 😂 i'm dead

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 11 місяців тому +17

    I totally vibe with Nine needing some alone time to cry in the bathroom in the middle of a party! 😂

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +2

      i'm a 3 but same. parties are exhausting.

  • @artsyanne1192
    @artsyanne1192 11 місяців тому +11

    I’m a 4w5 and I related most to the type 5. I’m always the one going off by myself and making friends with the host’s fur babies. If there’s no fur babies, I awkwardly sit in a corner and think up believable excuses to leave early.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +2

      fur babies make parties tolerable

  • @SoyJGAko
    @SoyJGAko 10 місяців тому +3

    This is great lol! As a Social 9 I will say this is one context where I'm probably not very 9-like since I'm more of a hype woman😂🍾 And that gets me thinking, I would love to see a sketch with all the Enneagram countertypes!! I think that would be so interesting to see each type in a different light, out of the typical portrayal, but still showing how their core desires shine through in different ways.
    Also -- I can relate to Type 5 here too, I always go for the pets in any kickback because first off I just love em so much but secondly because I think my 9 self sees them as a neutral place to be where I don't have to anticipate anyone's needs, they're a form of safety lol!!!

  • @avalonrhys
    @avalonrhys 11 місяців тому +3

    I'm such a 7 😆when I'm having fun but need to pee it's the WORST because I don't want to stop the conversation to go, and then I'll MISS SOMETHING THAT BECOMES AN INSIDE JOKE W EVERYONE ELSE EXCEPT ME (and yes I'm speaking from experience...)

  • @ItsKimOlson
    @ItsKimOlson 11 місяців тому +2

    Type 8! I nearly chocked on my drink! 😂😂😂 I AM KNOWN for hogging the karaoke!!!
    You knocked it out of the park again! 😂😂😂

  • @DreamxCreature
    @DreamxCreature 10 місяців тому +1

    In school age years, I was the person being the dj, 4ishly crafting the atmosphere with a playlist. At a recent weekend party was 5ishly taking photos of various insects and running them through Google Lens to determine their specific classification whilst everyone else was chatting each other up. 4w5 or 5w4 ...

  • @amyalbrecht4170
    @amyalbrecht4170 10 місяців тому +1

    6w5... First stop: snack table. Then I play with the pets. 🎯

  • @ImQuiteGay
    @ImQuiteGay 11 місяців тому +3

    Yes more Abbey! 🔥

  • @Yonagunidc
    @Yonagunidc 10 місяців тому

    I totally recognize my type 6 mom, just joking around and making friends with everyone!

  • @glendaw5221
    @glendaw5221 11 місяців тому

    I love this!

  • @margaretjudice8944
    @margaretjudice8944 11 місяців тому

    Great video!

  • @knit5together
    @knit5together 10 місяців тому

    Oh. The. Nine. So true. We hear all the things

  • @ellensippel8413
    @ellensippel8413 11 місяців тому +3

    Great video Abby. I am a five and I have focused on the dog at a party!!! This gave me a good chuckle.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      it's hard not too. dogs are the best.

  • @bethanythatsme
    @bethanythatsme 11 місяців тому +2

    Yeah, I think I've got pretty great taste in music for any scenario
    4w5 😂❤

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      i don't doubt it!

    • @jeebock2061
      @jeebock2061 11 місяців тому +1

      As a 4w5 I can confirm this is true 😅

    • @bethanythatsme
      @bethanythatsme 11 місяців тому

      @@jeebock2061 💯

    • @KKTanaa
      @KKTanaa 11 місяців тому +1

      4w5 but my kid who is a 5w4 says my music sucks because it’s mainstream and hers is niche 😂
      She prides herself on following people who have under thousands of followers on Spotify. I just go with what lyrics and music hits me

  • @evanyes5762
    @evanyes5762 Місяць тому

    I'm a 5w4, when I am in big parties with lots of people I usually stay in the corner and leave after 5 minutes.
    But in parties much smaller and that everyone knows everyone, I behave like the type 7. I want to hang out with my friends as much as possible.

  • @Flora-j6t
    @Flora-j6t 11 місяців тому +1

    Next do enneagram types in a reality show.

  • @susanwright1931
    @susanwright1931 11 місяців тому

    😂😂 my BIL will often offer to bring one of my dog nephews to family gatherings so I will show up so once again, spot on! If there isn’t something cute and furry, I will find a reason I can’t make it! Feathered things are growing on me as well!

  • @gordova5
    @gordova5 11 місяців тому +2

    As a 4w3, I really connected to the 3 here. I need to know which version to present when interacting with a large group of people I don’t know

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      totally! as a 3, i feel this.

  • @JuliaOstrovok
    @JuliaOstrovok 10 місяців тому

    YOU ARE THE CUTEST PERSON I'VE EVER SEEN ON UA-cam!! Like a very bright sunny day 😍

  • @victorleonidas2725
    @victorleonidas2725 11 місяців тому +1

    the way i felt represented by the 9 part made me laugh so loud (but internally cause i dont want to disturbe the outside world peace 😭)

  • @user-bg5im5kl7b
    @user-bg5im5kl7b 7 місяців тому

    I’m a 9 but I still love parties!! I grew up with then in highschool so maybe I’m just use to it?… but I get scared if a drunken fight happens and I hide like literally

  • @938quilt
    @938quilt 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm 5 but the 9 in this one sounds like me - but I'd be hiding in the tub with the curtain shut and any pets in the house with me! and reading a book!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      ooh that actually sounds cozy. i too would like to cuddle up with my corgi and a book in the tub.

    • @938quilt
      @938quilt 11 місяців тому

      @@AbbeyHowe your corgi looks like the perfect cuddler too!

  • @tyleremery7088
    @tyleremery7088 11 місяців тому

    I thought 5 and 9 were flipped when I saw the intro, but once I saw the rest of 9 it made more sense. I still vibe with both examples though.

  • @AMoniqueOcampo
    @AMoniqueOcampo 11 місяців тому +1

    Me: I can go between a Type 4 or a Type 8 or a Type 9 depending on my mood.
    It's so weird how fan conventions can feel like Wonderland while at the same time, I hate socializing at family reunions.
    I do love karaoke either way!

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      karaoke brings people together. i truly believe that 😂

  • @DeinaOKC
    @DeinaOKC 11 місяців тому +1

    I am a 5 and yes, I will be hanging out with the dog or cat.

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому

      the best place to be

  • @Avionne_Parris
    @Avionne_Parris 11 місяців тому +1

    SO 4w3 here... I can honestly see myself doing any of these things, Abs; it depends on the party :P Hi Lemon Drop!
    Definitely will plug in my Spotify playlist to set the mood like the 4 while hanging out with furry animals like the 5 :-)

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      Lemon Drop says hi 🐶

  • @alyssafinch6853
    @alyssafinch6853 7 місяців тому

    Ok I’m a two but in this case I am ALSO five (because dog 😍)

  • @hannahmacleod3586
    @hannahmacleod3586 11 місяців тому +1

    As a type 8 I thought my hogging of the karaoke mic at parties was my 7 wing coming out, but obviously not...

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      hehehe. what's your go-to karaoke song??

    • @hannahmacleod3586
      @hannahmacleod3586 11 місяців тому

      @@AbbeyHowe So many, but Dancing In The Dark - Bruce Springsteen and Livin' On A Prayer - Bon Jovi are probably top of the list along with 9 to 5 - Dolly Parton

    • @karenwaitz3545
      @karenwaitz3545 11 місяців тому +1

      HARD SAME literally used to put on shows at my slumber parties and ok sometimes other people's parties too, always thought that was the 7 wing 😅

  • @abbyherold2905
    @abbyherold2905 10 місяців тому

    👍

  • @Adriana.Gabriela
    @Adriana.Gabriela 11 місяців тому

    Lol, I'm 8w7 and relate to *none* of these

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому

      Tell us what you’re like at a party!!

    • @Adriana.Gabriela
      @Adriana.Gabriela 11 місяців тому

      @@AbbeyHowe I just go out there and have fun and try to make sure other people are having fun too. Unless they're party poopers, then I just ignore them and have fun without them 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @tavarshia3122
    @tavarshia3122 11 місяців тому +2

    5w4 here!
    Why are you asking for my keys? I don't drink ~ is this 'lowkey' a key party? I didn't sign up for this! runaway! RUN AWAY!😵‍💫🤢🤮

    • @AbbeyHowe
      @AbbeyHowe  11 місяців тому +1

      hahaha "Low key a key party" 😂 you're immediately leaving

  • @alexkay6676
    @alexkay6676 11 місяців тому

    That none made me laugh. Why do I have to be everyone’s therapist. Double that because I’m an INFJ.