Cleaning my Dad’s house and making it cozy

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  • @elizabethwinters5361
    @elizabethwinters5361 9 місяців тому +38

    I feel sorry for people who criticize your cleaning. That is a pathetic way to live. Your Dad must be awesome. As you are.

  • @friendoftherese1
    @friendoftherese1 11 місяців тому +85

    For being as young as you are, you have a very old, very wise soul. Love your rambles.

    • @MidwestLori77
      @MidwestLori77 4 місяці тому +1

      Couldn't agree with this comment more. You are so right.

  • @lindsayb1329
    @lindsayb1329 11 місяців тому +562

    I always feel so touched by all of your videos, but this one really touched me the most. I believe it was the way you spoke about your father and how he could calm you down. You spoke of how he had a magic. That's exactly how I felt with my father. He was my biggest fan. He was my super hero. If he said things would be ok, I believed him. I miss him so much. Thank you so much for sharing all your beautiful wisdom that you have at a such a young age, with the world. You are a treasure on this platform.

    • @elckefahwehinmi1466
      @elckefahwehinmi1466 11 місяців тому +11

      You are lovely
      Big hart lots of love
      Greetings from holland

    • @christinehowells5845
      @christinehowells5845 11 місяців тому +10

      Demi you are such a kind human being who loves her family well done and hope you have a great Christmas you deserve it xxxx

    • @JulieAmanda-yp9ci
      @JulieAmanda-yp9ci 11 місяців тому +20

      If everyone in the world was has lovely as you you are such a beautiful person ❤❤ to you and your family from Julie

    • @ambergehr3396
      @ambergehr3396 11 місяців тому +17

      Thank you for the beautifully, gentle way you talk about neuro diversity. So many people still don't get it. You make it feel not so lonely.

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  11 місяців тому +49

      “If he said things would be ok, I believed him” oh how I feel this!! I’m so sorry your Dad isn’t with you anymore, but what gorgeous memories to leave behind. He sounds like an amazing person, and reading this, tells me you are too! ❤️

  • @kimberlyknowland2137
    @kimberlyknowland2137 8 місяців тому +7

    If it wasn’t for watching your videos I would’ve never tackled what we call the corner of doom in my house, I’ve been putting on my blindfold to it but I watched two full videos of yours and tackled it head on with your steps and now this video makes me want to tackle more messes thank you so very much for doing what you do ❤

  • @jarcha4200
    @jarcha4200 11 місяців тому +86

    For anyone complaining about you not cleaning your father’s house more frequently or thoroughly enough…feel free to delete and block them. No human is obligated to clean another person’s home, parent is not. The fact that you do so despite having a full time job, a you tube channel, two children, a partner and…need I say more 🤔 is simply astounding to me and only reinforces my belief that you are an amazing human.

  • @thexxit
    @thexxit 11 місяців тому +82

    You definitely don't need to justify not coming over to clean your dads home more often. You have your own home, your own children, your own relationship, your own life! I can't even keep my house tidy so I can't imagine adding in the time to keep someone else's house tidy. The work you do, boost you give him, that's fantastic. You are an angel to him and I am sure your family appreciates you greatly.

  • @jackie64b
    @jackie64b 11 місяців тому +130

    Every one of your videos are like a TED Talk! They are brilliant. I don't think you realise how many people you are helping with them.

    • @rhondajo7822
      @rhondajo7822 10 місяців тому +8

      ❤YES!YES!YES! Remi, you should work on writing some TED TALKS! The whole world needs to hear the life-affirming truths you have to share.

    • @kendrawaterbury2328
      @kendrawaterbury2328 4 місяці тому +1

      Yes!

  • @reyt.1967
    @reyt.1967 3 місяці тому +7

    hey Remi. Young adult here, living in a country thats not my mother land, with a lot of difficult mental illnesses. This video made me sob. The talk about your dad, emotions, the light and joy at the end of tunnel... Thank you. I cannot believe how much you've helped me in my journey

  • @Pamela-pe7eu
    @Pamela-pe7eu 11 місяців тому +126

    Your dad is very lucky to have a daughter like you!!

  • @nl1927
    @nl1927 10 місяців тому +36

    You are truly a blessing! I am 60 years old. I still struggle. I love Wallace and Grommet. Please know you are a beautiful person 💞

  • @pate2680
    @pate2680 11 місяців тому +149

    Your Dad's sketches are amazing! He is so talented. You are a devoted daughter to him. You made his home look lovely. ❤

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  11 місяців тому +7

      Thank you so much ☺️❤️

    • @rhondajo7822
      @rhondajo7822 10 місяців тому +4

      I loved hearing the stories about your Dad and his inspired strategy for helping you to learn to regulate yourself.
      And I love, love, love his beautiful artistic talents!
      I wonder what traumas he struggled with that sometimes weigh him down.
      He definitely has a lovely heart.

    • @got_style
      @got_style 9 місяців тому +4

      @@remiclogYou deserve a 10/10 for your cleaning! Also, would you consider framing, then hanging, some of your Dad’s drawings? They are fabulous and deserve showcasing❤❤❤

  • @janaanderson4940
    @janaanderson4940 11 місяців тому +49

    I quite literally had a mental breakdown walking my dogs about an hour ago. Feeling too overwhelmed with life. Listening to you talk helped me immensely. I always see comments saying things like that but could never relate until now! You are a good human and I am glad I found your channel tonight 💚🇨🇦

  • @JennCadyFiddlyBits
    @JennCadyFiddlyBits 11 місяців тому +53

    I’ve been watching your videos for nearly a year now, and what I’ve learned is that they aren’t really about cleaning. I mean, yes, that is the content you produce… but the heart of your videos is about kindness, family, and finding ways to manage in the “busy-ness” of life. You are a joy to watch and listen to, please never forget that. Congratulations on over 120k subscribers. That in itself is a testament to your work. I don’t know many people who have showroom worthy houses, and I’d be willing to bet people “scoring” your clean, simply just don’t “get it.” As long as you’re willing to produce content and chat with us, I’m happy to watch! Blessings to you and your family!❤

  • @p.f.hawkins
    @p.f.hawkins 3 місяці тому +3

    Your dad is fortunate to have you as a daughter. You are a super cleaner and an extra special caring person... totally awesome!

  • @kornet1618
    @kornet1618 11 місяців тому +58

    Dear Remi. You are a beautiful person with a beautiful heart. Your parents are very lucky to have you. God bless you and your family.

  • @harrypotteralways5758
    @harrypotteralways5758 8 місяців тому +2

    FINALLY !!!!!! I have found someone who is just honest !
    Who says you know what I fo struggle and if I don't stick to something I loose momentum !
    Thank you
    I'll be sticking around here 🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @marjorieorveau6707
    @marjorieorveau6707 11 місяців тому +104

    It's what we as humans are here for: brightening someone else's day whether it's through art, cleaning up, providing a meal, a smile whatever... Just love your videos. I bet your Dad was amazed.

    • @remiclog
      @remiclog  11 місяців тому +11

      I couldn’t agree more! ❤️

    • @dorismadkouraly6269
      @dorismadkouraly6269 10 місяців тому +2

      Remi, I love all of your videos that you do. You are a brilliant cleaner with what you do. You are a lovely daughter to help your dad. Sending you hugs. 🤗🤗🤗

  • @kathrynlgrier
    @kathrynlgrier 10 місяців тому +12

    Remi, I love you. In 2013, I had a mental breakdown. I am so much better now, but there is still work I need to do. One coping mechanism I have discovered is spending time with you when I am feeling down. You are extremely comforting. However, I also watch when I'm happy, and you do inspire me to clean! Thank you ❤

  • @karenroberts781
    @karenroberts781 11 місяців тому +138

    I love all your chatting, Remi. I feel like I’m visiting with a good friend when I watch and listen to your videos. You did a fantastic job on your dad’s house. He must have been so pleased ❤ 0:21

    • @flograce8210
      @flograce8210 11 місяців тому +6

      Me too!!

    • @got_style
      @got_style 9 місяців тому +1

      Me, too! I love her chats and rambles: interesting, informative, heartfelt and sweet❤❤❤

  • @donnajacques3781
    @donnajacques3781 9 місяців тому +3

    You are so very wise and insightful at such a young age. Your kids are so lucky that you are their mom. ❤

  • @lis6411
    @lis6411 11 місяців тому +53

    It’s hard for me to put into words how much I appreciate you and your perspective on things. It gives me a real lift to hear you talk about your family members with such love and acceptance-seeing and wanting the best for them, while accepting the things that might limit or challenge them through no fault of their own. Your wisdom, fresh insights and compassion give me more faith in human beings. Your voice overs are eloquent, authentic, and could be published as essays on class, neurodivergence, mental illness, creativity, and resilience. Thank you for sharing of yourself. You are making a difference!

  • @marciadavis3414
    @marciadavis3414 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much for being so transparent. Your videos mean so much. I'm a Clinical Mental Health Counseling Student and the way your work through things is absolutely beautiful. Keep being such a lovely person. From Atlanta, GA in USA.

  • @lauramichelle3483
    @lauramichelle3483 11 місяців тому +60

    Aw you’re such a ray of sunshine for everyone, and lovely example of a gentle human being.
    Your Dad is such a talented artist. So lovely you all help eachother out, lovely family and great inspiration for other people xx

    • @lizbourke6441
      @lizbourke6441 7 місяців тому

      Just found you and Adore you❤. What a beautiful soul.

  • @lisabee2314
    @lisabee2314 11 місяців тому +59

    Oh my gosh Remi, you are just such a natural storyteller! When you were describing the trips you took in the car with your dad at twilight it just felt so MAGICAL! You are a very special talented person! Thank-you for your videos!

  • @micheleboschert175
    @micheleboschert175 11 місяців тому +26

    I've worked 3 different shifts for over 35 years, Sometimes 2 different shifts in the same week. It creates difficult sleep patterns, and trying to get enough rest. So, I totally understand completely why your father would not have a clean and tidy home. Thank you for bringing us along while you're giving your father love in cleaning, tidying and decorating his home. ♥♥♥

  • @bertinevandenoever9670
    @bertinevandenoever9670 9 місяців тому +3

    you speak with so much warmth en respect, love it!

  • @mohiradewan5916
    @mohiradewan5916 11 місяців тому +36

    Remi your videos are like therapy, the process of watching something becoming clean and your philosophical outlook on life is wonderful. Always look forward to your videos ❤️

  • @sarahlouisehulme3907
    @sarahlouisehulme3907 11 місяців тому +16

    I love watching your videos. Today is the 1st anniversary of my Dad passing away and a few hours ago I really did not want to be on this earth anymore. Your video was a very welcome distraction and made me think of happy memories with my Dad. Thank you. Your Dads living room looks so cosy now, and his art is insane! You should be so proud of each other.

    • @michaelsmom1199
      @michaelsmom1199 10 місяців тому +3

      I hope you are feeling better. 🤍

  • @kimberleytramper8966
    @kimberleytramper8966 11 місяців тому +36

    What a gift to give to your Dad! Waking up to a clean space! May God bless you!

  • @mkfurr60
    @mkfurr60 10 місяців тому +17

    You are a wonderful daughter. You have also learned a lot from your dad and are using it every day.

  • @smurph9475
    @smurph9475 11 місяців тому +30

    Remi you brought a happy tear to my eyes. You make so much more than cleaning content. You inspire me. You make me feel hopeful and reflective. Thank you for being a light and intentional in the things you share. Bless you!

  • @user-nh4gg7kn1i
    @user-nh4gg7kn1i 4 місяці тому +6

    My mom just shared your channel with me. I am neurodivergent. ADHD at minimum. I've struggled with cleaning throughout my life. You have helped me feel seen and understood. Thank you for sharing your life. And a "thank you" to your dad for allowing his home to be videoed for our benefit. You're an amazing human! Keep it up! Beautiful art also...let him know.

  • @coffeelovingqueen4122
    @coffeelovingqueen4122 11 місяців тому +45

    You are a straight ten out of ten 🌟 love the way you tackle a huge project, you are amazing and an inspiration! Your video’s have actually changed the way I approach a mess, thank you for teaching us 😘

  • @PatriciaCarrier
    @PatriciaCarrier 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for who you are, what a blessing you are.
    With ❤ and gratitude 🙏

  • @MarySmith-kw9bc
    @MarySmith-kw9bc 11 місяців тому +7

    I really love how you talk about the judgements that come with a messy house. People just don't understand mental disorders and what they can do to your living space. You're a really good person. ❤

  • @kathleenfleming7519
    @kathleenfleming7519 11 місяців тому +8

    Your followers, myself included-- love your videos, and your stories. The fact that you care enough about your Dad that you decorated for him, is such a heart melting way to show how much you love your Dad. I hope you have a wonderful holiday with your two precious boys, and your soulmate, Charlie. ❤❤❤❤

  • @bellababooska4181
    @bellababooska4181 11 місяців тому +8

    I oftentimes feel jealous when people talk of a wonderful dad. My father wasn't there and had an awful drinking problem, but i had amazing uncles and friends dads that guided and taught me things. I am so glad there are good, loving dads in the world that raise magnificent daughters like you that show how we can all give back even if it's in little ways. Happy Christmas to you Remi and your great husband a magical dad. ( your boys too) cheers to another year of you showing us the good in the world.❤❤❤

  • @Terahzilla
    @Terahzilla 11 місяців тому +12

    You are an exceptional human being. The story about your dad taking you for a drive gave me chills (in a good way) felt like I was listening to an audiobook. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤

  • @janycelee7654
    @janycelee7654 11 місяців тому +36

    It's such a show of gratitude to your dad doing this for him. Every time I watch your videos I am motivated to clean my own space.😊

  • @Helen-km9zn
    @Helen-km9zn 10 місяців тому +11

    I had never seen this before today! I am so glad I tuned in, and can only give you huge compliments for what you are doing. First of all , how lovely it is that you are so grateful to your Dad! He sounds like a really gem. Parents don’t hear it often enough so it’s good of you to say it.
    Second, don’t let anyone criticize your cleaning! You are doing a great job! The fact that you’re doing it at all is wonderful, but criticism has no place for such a wonderful daughter!
    I am over eighty now, and sometimes I get too tired to clean, but you have me inspired, and your beautiful attitude is a real
    Boost! Keep it up, your Dad put a lot into you so what a lovely way to say thank you back!
    Looking back I am most proud of the places where I left my love behind. God Bless you Remi, this is such a wonderful way to do that.
    Now I’m going to go clean the living room!!
    I would love to leave messages for you. I’ve been a family therapist for forty years, and your attitude is so healthy and great that it means the world needs fewer of us!! God Bless you sweet girl.
    Fondly, Nickie

    • @aquaangelina7270
      @aquaangelina7270 9 місяців тому +1

      A M E N. To that. I TOTALLY agree with you.

  • @Serenelife.72
    @Serenelife.72 11 місяців тому +10

    I want to say I love hearing you chat! It makes you more real to me. Many people just film the perfect parts of their day. You are real and down to earth. To hear you talk about the things you have gone through, your thoughts and the way you process things is a joy. I can relate to things you say so well. I also felt like I was the only one like this for a long time. To come on here and hear others think and feel the way I do as well helps me a lot. Winter season is especially brutal to me. I suffer from getting motivated and just feel right down in the dumps. I like to watch your videos because they help me feel ambitious, and I get in a cleaning mood and go tackle my own house. With pets, 2 kids, and a husband, my house is not exactly perfect. It is lived in. While it is never dirty, it is messy. I love to get motivated and tackle things to make it more homey here. Keep chatting away! Some of us just love it. The ones that do not can mute the sound. Also, it is not about being perfect when you clean. There is never a real "perfect" but, it is about being comfortable in the surroundings. I remind myself, that my house does not have to look like a museum. It is lived in. Friends walk in the door and always say the same thing to me. That my house is warm and cozy, they end up falling asleep on the sofa most of the time. They wake up to fresh baked goods and a hot cup of tea. As I said, it is a home, not a museum. Be you!

  • @karengoberdhan1641
    @karengoberdhan1641 9 місяців тому +2

    Remi my Dear hearing the bits of your story that you have shared I must say you are truly an inspiration and a lovely daughter. Your parents must be so proud of you. Keep being your lovely self .

  • @grateful5881
    @grateful5881 11 місяців тому +21

    You are pure magic, sweet girl. What a lovely, loving tribute to your dad and family in the way you speak of them.
    Not even a year in, and you're well over 122k. That speaks directly to how so many need and respond and respect exactly what you are doing and why. You are such an amazing advocate for acceptance, non-judgement, joy, gratitude, hope... I suspect your inadvertent ministry will continue to grow 🤞. Best wishes for the loveliest of holidays 🤗

  • @monaleencabaron3694
    @monaleencabaron3694 9 місяців тому +6

    Remi, you are an 11/10 in my book, all day everyday. Thanks for doing this for your Dad. He’ll be very, very happy when he sees it. 😊

  • @joycefernandezbaham8380
    @joycefernandezbaham8380 11 місяців тому +16

    Your love and admiration for your dad shows through in this video. I was also a daddy’s girl. You are a blessing.❤❤❤
    Your dad’s art is amazing! It seems that the way he took you on rides to help you through your emotions was sheer wisdom.

    • @1beyond
      @1beyond 11 місяців тому +2

      Love your voiceover

  • @melissafedele6568
    @melissafedele6568 11 місяців тому +8

    You are a great daughter for helping your dad. God bless 😊

  • @debby891
    @debby891 11 місяців тому +41

    Remi I absolutely love your videos and your desire to understand someone, your empathy, and your hard work. It’s not just about cleaning and organizing, it’s about understanding and compassion. Your dad is an amazingly talented artist! Your decorations made his home so cozy, warm, festive and relaxing. The many years he was there to listen, you are now helping him and just know how much it meant to him. Merry Christmas from our home in New York to yours♥️🌲♥️
    Debby

    • @jencassel7089
      @jencassel7089 11 місяців тому +3

      Thanks for your kind encouragement! You are so inspiring!🤗🥰

  • @wherethebellsdwell4610
    @wherethebellsdwell4610 10 місяців тому +5

    “That was an unsolicited score I didn’t ask for” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Purplemoons49
    @Purplemoons49 10 місяців тому +7

    I love that you helped your dad. I love listening to you as your cleaning. A lot of people don’t understand why your house is not clean and just say you’re lazy. Not true , as everyone is different and they go through life differently and this includes cleaning your spaces in your home. Thank you for showing us alternative solutions

  • @seeleygirl6178
    @seeleygirl6178 10 місяців тому +6

    Nothing like a great dad. I was so blessed too. I miss him every single minute. ❤ Mom too.❤

  • @jennah6673
    @jennah6673 11 місяців тому +10

    Your dad's living room looked so warm and cosy all Christmased up! So wonderful of you to do that for him.

  • @joannaallsop5926
    @joannaallsop5926 9 місяців тому +2

    Hi ..I think your a very good mother and daughter and that all your chat is so right .. no not all people are constant cleaning or even tidy .there's so many reasons untidiness happens .health age work many reasons and yes people should remember that your brilliant your dad sound great .. and his art wonderfull witch is more than lots a special talent well done girl ❤

  • @kendrawaterbury2328
    @kendrawaterbury2328 11 місяців тому +13

    Dearest Remi- you’ve no idea how much I needed this today. ❤ You are such a blessing in so many ways. What a lucky dad to have you bless his home with your cozy love💜 Thank you for all you do for so many. 🎄

  • @lindakral2593
    @lindakral2593 11 місяців тому +6

    I am so proud when I see a young person enjoying cleaning for others. You did the most glorious job on your dad's house. Keep going...you are an inspiration to many. You may know this..(.I am 76 so I have done a ton of cleaning...on glass stove tops), they can be cleaned easily using a scraper. I always used cleanser and a safety razor blade. Makes them like new. Anyway, you are doing great and just keep going. You are a gem!

  • @glkification
    @glkification 11 місяців тому +17

    Loved the story of your dad taking you in the car for drives and distracting chats 😊 great stuff and warm wisdom. I've been watching other decluttering/cleaning YT channels recently (trying to motivate myself!), and none of them come even close to your warm and funny voiceovers. Thank you for your work ❤

  • @diannesommerhalder7210
    @diannesommerhalder7210 11 місяців тому +4

    I love your sunny disposition Remi! I saw this video and needed to click because my home is in need of some elbow grease and I’m avoiding it! You are right about Dad needed “homey” and not a show place. My mom was an artist, and when she passed away, the only thing I wanted was her art…which was an extension of her.

  • @highlandjournalart654
    @highlandjournalart654 11 місяців тому +12

    I think your cleaning is brilliant and much better than mine, but more importantly, you are a wonderful person and a great philosopher for our troubled times.x

  • @jennylingard8989
    @jennylingard8989 9 місяців тому +2

    I just wanted to say there is so much that you were saying I can relate to. And it was so nice to hear someone say things that make sense to me 👍💐💐💐

  • @welshrarebit1153
    @welshrarebit1153 11 місяців тому +7

    It’s lovely to see your dad staying active and exercising. And you are such a beautiful human absolutely love your channel remi. ❤

  • @sallyweddell6577
    @sallyweddell6577 10 місяців тому +4

    You have such a deep and beautifully articulated understanding of human nature. It’s so deeply refreshing to listen to you. The cleaning is a welcome visual but your introspection of behaviour is the reason I come back. Thank you.

  • @BlueberryFundip
    @BlueberryFundip 11 місяців тому +5

    Haven't been feeling well from sinus issues and work. Now I finally have time to enjoy this gift to your father

  • @julieduchek2969
    @julieduchek2969 9 місяців тому +2

    After I watched you clean up your kitchen, I went and cleaned my own kitchen. Thanks for your inspiration. You really do a great service for people.

  • @hookecho8283
    @hookecho8283 11 місяців тому +10

    I absolutely LOVE this story about your father calming you. Thank you for sharing

  • @CreativeMess65
    @CreativeMess65 9 місяців тому +1

    I love listening to you. Don't change. What you say and how you say it is so special.

  • @AbsolutelyBaldAndBoring
    @AbsolutelyBaldAndBoring 11 місяців тому +7

    What a wonderful video to stumble upon. The way you speak so lovingly of your family. You are so articulate and interesting. The cleaning is fabulous and I bet your dad so appreciates all you do to help him. Keep up the great work. 👍🤩

  • @LaurieHoward-f1e
    @LaurieHoward-f1e Місяць тому +1

    I rarely comment on anyone’s videos. However, I want you to know that you deserve a 10 out of 10 for your big heart, kindness, graciousness, and enthusiasm. Anyone who is lucky enough to have you in their life is truly blessed. 🙌❣️🌟

  • @Lisa_S117
    @Lisa_S117 11 місяців тому +4

    Remi, you are an angel. You are pure comfort and joy and kindness. I’m not sure how your cleaning videos can make me feel so happy and content but they do and I just never want them to end. The way you speak about life and everything, you are an old soul. And your father sounds like a wonderful, amazing and talented man. He’s taught you well and I’m sure you are extremely proud to be his daughter. Watching you clean and make your dad’s house cozy reminds me of myself as I used to do that for my dad up until he passed away and it always brought me such joy to see him so happy. It’s the little things. Anyway you are truly a wonderful lady and I just love you❤

  • @lilsnailquilts
    @lilsnailquilts 9 місяців тому +1

    You are a 10 out of 10. Sending much love and admiration.

  • @authenticallyamber99
    @authenticallyamber99 11 місяців тому +24

    I’m sure your dad was pleasantly surprised with your cleaning and decorating!! ❤ What a wonderful gift you have given him! And how special that you both share such a wonderful relationship! Cherish the moments! Lovely decluttering and cleaning! I think you do an amazing job! It’s easy to type negative comments when in reality, people would never say those things. Don’t let them get you down. 🩷 You have such a wonderful way with words, carving out a meaningful story in the midst of the mundane. That’s not only talent, but also art! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We’re not meant for everyone, but those who are part of our tribe, understand and appreciate us! Merry Christmas, Remi and family! ♥️🎄 Btw, your French braids are beautiful!

  • @PamVanEeJournalMaker
    @PamVanEeJournalMaker 9 місяців тому +2

    You are such a joy!😊
    You could be a writer. You are a wizard of words and a great storyteller!❤

  • @lisakaufman7366
    @lisakaufman7366 11 місяців тому +17

    I can't wait for all of those videos 🙂 Your Dad's art is beautiful he's so talented. Thank you for sharing it with us.

  • @barbarabuford5795
    @barbarabuford5795 11 місяців тому +2

    I like that, mini distractions! Breaks in the cracks makes things doable, So true! I remember taking mini vacays with my 2 kids while staying with my Mom after separating from my spouse, later divorcing. Those vacays helped me keep my sanity, and a nice break from Mom too! And yeah, she needed a break from those grand kids! We would go stay at a fancy hotel for a couple of nights, do all sorts of things- pretend we didn't live in the city, saw things new, had lots of fun, an adventure! Those were some Really Good Days! I totally recommend doing this if you can! A break in the monotony, great stress reliever too! At the hotel, invited friends over that had kids, observed them swimming, etc, while u relax, talking with other Moms, your friends!

  • @d.k.s.4057
    @d.k.s.4057 11 місяців тому +5

    Wonderful in so many ways! To hear about your Father and your relationship with him, to laugh about Smithers and how he knocked the camera around with his tail, to see what loving hands and eyes can do to transform a home into a holiday celebration and to hear more wisdom and candor from YOU! You "ramble" whenever you want and about whatever you want as it all has value. What a lovely and kind spirit is present in this video- yours... Thank you.

  • @krisd870
    @krisd870 10 місяців тому +3

    You must have good parents because you give so freely. I know they appreciate what you have done for them. You are a great person. It shows how much you love them. We need more people like you.

  • @Nikeeta1
    @Nikeeta1 11 місяців тому +12

    I've been a silent viewer for ages, but today, i thought I'd Thankyou for making me feel heard and seen and understood, even though you don't know me from eve,lol, you do an amazing job everytime...all the love and effort you put in is amazing. Some of us had to learn in adult life things people take for granted, we may not even know some of the basics but try our best..so yeah you're fabulous and your dad sounds like a wonderful man.love to you and your family ❤

  • @debrab.9977
    @debrab.9977 6 днів тому

    Oh, Darling -- I adore you. I haven't watched your videos in a while -- but plan on listening to many more now -- I could listen to you forever!!! You've got the most soothing and caring voice!! I was soooooooo impressed with how quickly you cleaned your Dad's home and how much you accomplished in that time -- I think its because of how physically disabled I've become in the last 6 months or so ... I pray I get at LEAST my ability to keep my home clean, as it has been slipping. So, please count the blessing of the fact you can do what you did on this video (and I can only imagine how much you do every day and night). You're SuperWoman to me!! As far as those who judge you and criticize you -- they should just KEEP THEIR MOUTHS SHUT and KEEP THEIR THOUGHTS TO THEMSELVES!!! In just the few videos I've watched you, I feel as if we could have been kindred spirits. And I feel protective towards you -- so when I hear that others criticize and judge you, I imagine giving these people a piece of my mind. But I also realize, they wouldn't hear me -- you see, what they say and do has NOTHING to do with me -- and, Remi, please understand, it really has NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU --- YOU SEE -- IT'S ALL INSIDE EACH OF THEM!!!!! THEIR INSECURITIES -- AND the only way they can make themselves feel worthy is to criticize others -- to be "haters" -- Just realize -- you are NOT a hater -- you don't criticize others -- and they could learn soooooo much from you!!! If they only knew!!! And if they only realized just how critical people like you (and me) are of our own selves -- they'd know there's NO NEED for their horrible hurting words to crush us even more. We much just walk away and shake the dirt off our feet from them. Sorry, Dear, about my rambling on -- but these are just some of my feelings -- didn't mean to throw them out there -- but the MOST IMPORTANT THING I wanted to say was you are SUCH A BLESSING TO SO MANY OF US ... PLEASE DON'T EVER CHANGE -- LEARN TO APPRECIATE ALL THE GIFTS YOU DO HAVE. BE WELL, REMI --- Your friend, Debbie

  • @velmamendoza1120
    @velmamendoza1120 10 місяців тому +5

    You are truly a blessing! Your honesty and your kindness shines through out your video. What a difference your before and after in your cleaning your Dad's place today. Your words are so encouraging and comforting. Hope your Christmas was filled with happiness and love and may the New Year be filled with God's tender mercies. See you on your next video.

  • @lizmorales478
    @lizmorales478 10 місяців тому +2

    I think you’re a wonderful person, a wonderful Mom, and a wonderful daughter! I’m always so moved whenever I watch your videos. God bless you always.

  • @mariwillalwaysgivethanks
    @mariwillalwaysgivethanks 11 місяців тому +8

    Hello Everyone! Your dad's art is amazing to look at. It should be show cased around his house in honor of his artistic skills. What a gift! You are a blessed daughter to have him in your life. 🙏

  • @elsagreen1476
    @elsagreen1476 11 місяців тому +6

    You seem so sweet, sincere and loving... you dad is lucky to have you as a daughter, and he seems to deserve it too. Your videos and their comment sections are such a comforting space. Thank you for creating this.

  • @kathywalker997
    @kathywalker997 11 місяців тому +18

    I love hearing you talk about your family and your dad. The living room looks beautiful. Hope you have a wonderful Christmas and see you soon.❤

  • @sheilaanderson9514
    @sheilaanderson9514 6 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your videos of Cleaning, I find them calming as you talk through your Cleaning. I do believe you should start to writing a book because you are gifted with your arrangement of words and details it truly is Remarkable. Thank you for honoring your Dad and not allowing others to judge him. Blessings to you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @joane5777
    @joane5777 11 місяців тому +19

    Merry Christmas to you and your family Remi!! 🎄 Any effort for cleaning or straightening things up is a 10 out of 10 to me~ Great video of your Dad's place. You're lucky to have each other ❤ Joan 🇺🇸

  • @jennoulalatsero-ii2fy
    @jennoulalatsero-ii2fy 9 місяців тому +2

    Your dad is an incredible artist ❤

  • @juststeph6940
    @juststeph6940 11 місяців тому +16

    Remi I truly hope this channel will flourish and you will get brand deals and grow. To be able to do this full time would be such a blessing to your family. You are so kind hearted and inspiring to many. I wish you all the best and happy holidays to you and your family.

  • @sandrabrown8065
    @sandrabrown8065 6 місяців тому +1

    Sweetie you have a large heart. Bless you for all you do for your dad. I used to enjoy cleaning for my father in law but he passed away unexpectedly last year. Cherish every moment

  • @brittanymendoza8830
    @brittanymendoza8830 11 місяців тому +16

    So sweet of you to do this for your dad. I used to go to my parents once a month and clean for them as well. It makes everyone feel so good. Love your chats. 10/10 clean lol!

  • @MiriamMartin-f8j
    @MiriamMartin-f8j 2 місяці тому

    You are a wonderful daughter. You can see your dad’s influence on you and the wisdom he instilled in you. Cleaning is never fun but for sure to bring help and love to another is gift for both those gifted and recipient. GREAT job!!! Your daddy will always remember.

  • @janiceh4521
    @janiceh4521 11 місяців тому +12

    Such a sweet clean & tidy for your Dad. As a Mom of 2, Partner, employee, house cleaner, daughter, creator you have the right to set boundaries in helping others. It’s beautiful that you want and do help your Dad, anyone who says you should do more should keep that thought to themselves. It’s very easy to point fingers and say what someone else should do in their life but simple story we have our lives to life and should respect others if not harmful. Thanks for sharing! Merry Christmas to you and yours! Blessing for a happy healthy New Year

  • @nikg1335
    @nikg1335 9 місяців тому +1

    Honestly remi. I love your chat!! I love listening to your.. you’re very wise, I’m probably your dads age but love listening.
    I honestly think your should do an audio book eventually. Xxx

  • @martynehook590
    @martynehook590 11 місяців тому +18

    Wow! love your dads art so much, you also have his talent for art and creation, another great video! Thank you x

  • @CarolBrett-j9j
    @CarolBrett-j9j 9 місяців тому +1

    You are an absolute angel to those you help.

  • @judithmitchell4667
    @judithmitchell4667 11 місяців тому +10

    Remi - I am so touched by and am so appreciative of all your videos. I hope you know how positive and supportive and nurturing you are. You provide a real service to so many with your uplifting, authentic personality and kind heart. Merry Christmas dear friend to your and your loved ones. Have a wonderful day. Blessings - Judith 🎤🎭

  • @KathyDowell-h6x
    @KathyDowell-h6x 5 місяців тому

    You are such a good daughter to help your dad out with his home. I especially love the no judgement part. I am 71 and since my divorce have not been able to keep up with my house. I don’t need others to judge me. I judge myself. Your sweet positive attitude is amazing! I have watched only two of your videos now, but I am encouraged already. Thank you. ❤

  • @UraniaLi
    @UraniaLi 11 місяців тому +6

    Oh Remi!!There s something in your voiceovers that heals the child and the grown up in me!! Thank you!!!

  • @pearlinewells4694
    @pearlinewells4694 10 місяців тому +2

    Great job! You’re a blessing to your father! He so lucky to have a lovely daughter! A beautiful thing to see! Thank you for caring!❤❤❤

  • @Garden4680mn
    @Garden4680mn 11 місяців тому +7

    I see someone who does a wonderful job cleaning with the most beautiful intention behind it. The end result is something we can all learn from. You bring gratitude to the forefront with admitting that life isn’t always easy or fair. Love and being grateful is a great combo. You have that in spades❤. I look forward to your future videos.

  • @SteveCutler-n4i
    @SteveCutler-n4i 8 місяців тому +1

    Your dad is a wise man and he sounds like a kind and compassionate one too!

  • @Andihak
    @Andihak 11 місяців тому +6

    LOVE your stories and seeing more into your world. Can’t wait for more in 2024. Lots of love and blessings to you and your family this season!

  • @JudyReilly-n3e
    @JudyReilly-n3e 9 місяців тому +1

    You are so intelligent and charming, and a wonderful story teller.