I think she ghosted him because she was probably scared to fall for him because he was everything she wanted, some people self sabotage their own relationships when they think the person is too good to be true or to good for them.
I get the impression she ghosted him because she didn’t have the self love to accept she was deserving of a long lasting / caring / loving relationship. A lot of men & women self sabotage like this every day. Talking things over can seem too daunting, whereas if you just ignore it, in your mind you’ve already made the decision that ‘they aren’t that into you’ when it couldn’t be further from the truth. As you get older you do learn & grow from experiences. I’m glad they’ve talked things through & have moved on, they both seem like really sweet people, & as someone who’s disabled, it’s not always easy to meet someone who understands on that level who you also connect with. Sending them many blessings! X
Lol literally me. I’ll start talking to a girl that clearly likes me, and then I discontinue whatever is developing because my personality is too fucked up to be in a stable relationship. I’d rather just be alone, and focus on my education and career.
I love that he could stand his ground and outrightly say “it was disrespect”. Fatima made a mistake and can be a bit silly but good on him for not being defensive about it.
Yep but add her disability into the mix and she’s probably not used to being even treated as a freaking equal due to how society views disabled people.
She wasnt sure about him because he was taking too long. Insecurities played a part in it but also he probably is slow and intentional in his movements and she was thinking maybe its best to move before I get hurt or strung along. They both got what they needed from this, I smiled so hard I started crying lol! I love this. This was real af!
So true!! When you've been in bad relationships, that's usually what you're used to.. You think it's supposed to go fast.. Because narcisists, for example, go superfast.. That's the damage that lingers after a bad relationship, and it sabotages the good things when they come into life.. That's why cycles are hard to break and you're at risk to end up in the next bad relationship.. Once you can break through what you got used to, it will be allright.. It usually helps realizing your own worth and getting unnormalized to anything that threatens that, as a start.. It takes a long time getting normalized to how it's supposed to be, and it's scary compared to the fals safety of what you've known and can anticipate to.. Sometimes luck is running into someone who sees your worth before you do, and is patience enough to be there until your vision is healed.. They're beautiful together, I was smiling through the entire video, I hope they stay in luck, love and hapiness, they deserve the world!!
Fatima used to go to school with my kids and now look at her....well done to her, she's a beautiful young woman. I know this relationship will go far if only they talk things through and not assume things! They look like they're made for each other. They'll have beautiful babies too 😊❤
@@Johuraldn yh Brampton Manor! My son probably knows you too! Infact both my sons went there, so you probably know them both lol. It's a small world! 🖐🏼👊🏼
Lovely to see them talking it through and being vulnerable to each other. That’s precious. It make sense if she got a friendly vibe rather than romantic, then waiting longer would be waste of time. Some guys are holding back intentionally, and woman can feel it. It is actually harmful to her. These two are very cute and he seems to be a genuine guy.
Yes! With my ex boyfriend I wanted him so badly I knew immediately and he was on the fence when we met even though he had sex with me. One time he didn’t cuddle me correctly it was the total lack of love that made me get up and walk two hours home. He said he never wanted to wake up and not see me next to him so sometimes the guy doesn’t realize what he wants until after she’s gone or heading to the door
@@gigi-gc8gu I think it is wonderful that he was able to tell you this later. There are many women, and men too, who never heard the real reason and it can affect a person's confidence. It thinks it is brave, men are not necessary masters in talking about how they feel. Considering that you refer to him as ex, it is indicating that it did not work out but it's lovely to hear. It would be a great start to a new beginning. best wishes.
It's always cute when you can tell ex's still like each other with all the smiling and they didn't break up on some really bad disrespectful situation. I'm not sure if I believe that's why she really ghosted him but hey he gave her another chance
Wow! The sexual tension comes across on the video. We all got issues but two people who give off that sort of aura belong together. He's so masculine around her and she is so feminine for him. They belong together.
She ghosted him bc she was insecure awwwwwww, she is so shy. She definitely grew from this. I am happy for both and hope they have a great relationship.
It's a tragic thing that loving relationships end because one person assumes or tries to guess what the other is feeling about them, get freaked out by their own guesses (usually informed by their perception of themselves), and react by leaving the person, or starting arguments. Especially because it's such an avoidable thing. Aah to be human. We learn, though. Hopefully
I freaking love seeing this type of representation! As someone born with a difference myself I think it’s important to see that we too date and live normal lives! 💜 also when you meet someone that get you, and what it’s like to be different, it can be so incredibly meaningful as well... hoping for the best for these two 🤞
They’re so sweet. Her insecurities are causing her to be avoidant and push him away. They really seem good for each other but they both need to work on their confidence. I hope they can get it together and have a happy life together.
She definitely did that because she was afraid he'd do that to her, as she alluded to other guys not really valuing her - but he did. I really do hope she learned and grew from this. And I hope they're happy.
I completely relate to her. When you're used to putting yourself down, you reject the best thing that happens to you because you feel its way above you. I have ghosted someone for that reason. I just don't have the courage she has to apologise and go back
@@huitzilopochtli_tenochtitl496 He is not evil trust me. I did not understand who or what God was, but my open heart had lead me to understand who he is. Your faith must be simple. God is cares about simple hearts especially those who are down-trodden
I’m rooting for you two to make it, ghost or no ghost, I saw respect and a real liking for one another and good communication, which is a requirement. You both deserve all the goodness coming your way. ✌🏾N much ❤️
They should make an eating with my ex friend 😂😂😂 but awww they were so cute and I love their energy together. You can tell they genuinely enjoy each other’s presence.
She made bruh sad I think he was about to shed a lil bit tear ok that one was the last shot out to Fatima though she Beautiful but she a lil heartbreaker can mess with her am too emotional.
@Bright Adjei. He was about to shed a tear of joy. Right before he was tearing up, he was saying how ecstatic he is, how wonderful the day was, and how much he needed this. He was very happy and excited, not sad at all.
I think she ghosted him because she was probably scared to fall for him because he was everything she wanted, some people self sabotage their own relationships when they think the person is too good to be true or to good for them.
Yep 😔
Some people: that's me!
Agreed Most people do this so people have pitty on them and feel sorry for them or for attention.
That’s a tall order. It’s a shame she couldn’t overcome her shortcomings
True tea ☕️ 🫖!
This was the most genuine on camera interaction I've seen in a while. It was really sweet.
“I should have appreciated you” that was beautiful and vulnerable.
I get the impression she ghosted him because she didn’t have the self love to accept she was deserving of a long lasting / caring / loving relationship. A lot of men & women self sabotage like this every day. Talking things over can seem too daunting, whereas if you just ignore it, in your mind you’ve already made the decision that ‘they aren’t that into you’ when it couldn’t be further from the truth. As you get older you do learn & grow from experiences. I’m glad they’ve talked things through & have moved on, they both seem like really sweet people, & as someone who’s disabled, it’s not always easy to meet someone who understands on that level who you also connect with. Sending them many blessings! X
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Lol literally me. I’ll start talking to a girl that clearly likes me, and then I discontinue whatever is developing because my personality is too fucked up to be in a stable relationship. I’d rather just be alone, and focus on my education and career.
@@Jeremy-sj3pr Then do that. Everyone is not prepared to be in a relationship. Don't follow worldly trends. The world is sick.
@@crackhead4540 AMEN TO THAT
Girl F’d up because Alan is fine as hell and super sweet. She got scared he was too good to be true.
I kno right
Right !? So smooth ! She’s lucky because this kind of rekindle don’t always happen ...
@@BlueLu18 he's lucky too
They back together now guys ☺️
@@chantelchigova4115 They are so cute together
You can tell that they are into each other 😍 I love seeing people in love
Me too it's a great feeling to watch it radiates
I love that he could stand his ground and outrightly say “it was disrespect”. Fatima made a mistake and can be a bit silly but good on him for not being defensive about it.
He’s cute.
Not gonna lie he is absolutely gorgeous 😍😍😍
Totally gorgeous and calm
Yes he is actually attractive & she is far from it!
The NERVE!
@@LaPetite510 lmaooo wow well he thinks she’s attractive so your opinion on “her lack of attractiveness” just makes you look bitter, doesn’t it?
OMG He is such a beautiful man!!
Facts
Who else was grinning at their phone the entire time like a weirdo while watching this?😃😁
Meee! 😂
Me💛😂
Sooooo bloody cute. I love that sh*t!
They are so cute together.They seem authentic here
Hahahaha, guilty.
It’s really sad that a lot of women are not used to being treated well, so much so that they miss out on opportunities to be in great relationships.
Agreed, but men and women both
It's really unfortunate. I've found myself to be one of those women and it terrifies me.
I'm the opposite. I expect to be treated well so I can't just settle.
@@msziva2701 💯👏
Yep but add her disability into the mix and she’s probably not used to being even treated as a freaking equal due to how society views disabled people.
This just melted my cold dead heart and brought a silly grin to my face, while watching them. My best best wishes to them both.
Wholesome ❤
I know I was smiling the whole way through while wishing them back together 💕
Me too. Smiles...
Cold, dead heart. YIKES!
😂❤
Her self esteem got in the way of her fairy tale ending. They are perfect for each other.
Why was I smiling at some random people's happiness. Omg I'm a good person !
Hahhahha
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂👏🏿
SAME !!! this was so wholesome
This was authentic to the core. ❤️
Her freakin complexion is so damn smooth and even. It looks like you could dive in it. I’m shook.
Too much makeup
@@garaldlewis1728 some black people's skin are just naturally glowy like that.
@@christina4012 nah
Your complexion is lovely as well.
@@L.Taylor_06 I was thinking the same thing
They are back together people!
Lovely :) ! How do you know tho?
@@7joursdamour236 She has a UA-cam channel and Instagram
yay!!
@Sara C her you tube is ‘fatstimbo’
Oof I was a little worried because I watched their video like almost month ago or so. I was like already?
These two are adorable, they belong together.
They are together now tho
She wasnt sure about him because he was taking too long. Insecurities played a part in it but also he probably is slow and intentional in his movements and she was thinking maybe its best to move before I get hurt or strung along. They both got what they needed from this, I smiled so hard I started crying lol! I love this. This was real af!
So true!!
When you've been in bad relationships, that's usually what you're used to.. You think it's supposed to go fast.. Because narcisists, for example, go superfast.. That's the damage that lingers after a bad relationship, and it sabotages the good things when they come into life.. That's why cycles are hard to break and you're at risk to end up in the next bad relationship.. Once you can break through what you got used to, it will be allright.. It usually helps realizing your own worth and getting unnormalized to anything that threatens that, as a start.. It takes a long time getting normalized to how it's supposed to be, and it's scary compared to the fals safety of what you've known and can anticipate to.. Sometimes luck is running into someone who sees your worth before you do, and is patience enough to be there until your vision is healed.. They're beautiful together, I was smiling through the entire video, I hope they stay in luck, love and hapiness, they deserve the world!!
I can relate. Thank you 😊
@@ElketjeableYou naild it 👍👌everything you said was 100% correct 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Her mimicking to ghost 00:51 KILLED ME
😂😂
Honestly I saw that just now and died😂 was looking for this comment
I died
SAME😭😭😭😭
Lmaooooo yesss
Whole different type of low when people troll people with disabilities and conditions. Yet your jealously and loneliness still shows.
Being bald isn’t a disability
He has Cerebral Palsy. Regardless of a disability or not there is no reason to make fun of him or her. Enough
😂😂😂. Straight up. What shows they lonely tho?
@@kobby8581 People with a fulfilled life don't spend their time trying to make others fell less than.
@@brownsugaspark9811 too deep that is. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Fatima used to go to school with my kids and now look at her....well done to her, she's a beautiful young woman. I know this relationship will go far if only they talk things through and not assume things! They look like they're made for each other. They'll have beautiful babies too 😊❤
I’m went school with her too 😂 Brampton Manor ✊🏽
@@Johuraldn Damn no wonder I felt like I’ve seen her around, I went Cumberland
@@Johuraldn yh Brampton Manor! My son probably knows you too! Infact both my sons went there, so you probably know them both lol. It's a small world! 🖐🏼👊🏼
Aye. Central Park Primary and Brampton Manor!
@@WatchHeadsRoll 😂👊🏼❤
that dude is pure gold I hope she gives em the love he deserves
From a woman, I actually totally agree. He genuinely seems like a good man.
I agree. Btw i like you 🤭
@@chin1880 😛😛😛😛
Also she needs to be loved , I can see she's a loving person inside
I think I’ve heard that they’re back together
They’re both smiling so hard. My heart 😩🥰
“The ghost has returned” 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Love her personality
😂😂🤣🤣
Hello my dear,I can refer you to someone who helped me bring back my ex few days ago ,he can help you too
Ok message him on WhatsApp 🏞🏞
He really seems to like her... Like you can tell by his body language. I hope she can accept the love he is trying to give her.
Their shared attraction is mesmerizing to me.
I love how the way he looked at her. Connected indeed!
Soo touching the guy is soo mature
Wish them the best
🥺😭 so there is still hope for me. I became disabled in 2015. It’s nice to find love.
There is so much hope, your disability doesn’t define you! If you have a great personality someone will eventually love you.
You have already found love...open yourself to see...don't be afraid
I hope you don't mind what disability does you have?
How does one become disabled, thought you born with it or not
Alan is just *chef's kiss*..FATIMA BETTER ACT RIGHT & BE SERIOUS PLEASE FOR THE SAKE OF THIS MAN'S GOOD HEART
I love the way she talks.the sound of her voice is amazing and the guy just seems like he truly loves her deeply.❣️
Her skin tho😍😍😍😍 melanin queen
Yes her skin tone is so pretty
she is from sierra leone 🥰
I'm jealous of her skin, so beautiful!
shes so pretty
@@mariatucaulker2001 salone borrborr lol
“I’ve returned. The ghost has returned.”I screamed 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂lol
😂😂😂😂
They have a lot of chemistry. I’m glad they gave it another try.
They are so freakin' cute together. My dude is handsome as hell. Hope it works out for them.
Lovely to see them talking it through and being vulnerable to each other. That’s precious. It make sense if she got a friendly vibe rather than romantic, then waiting longer would be waste of time. Some guys are holding back intentionally, and woman can feel it. It is actually harmful to her. These two are very cute and he seems to be a genuine guy.
Yes! With my ex boyfriend I wanted him so badly I knew immediately and he was on the fence when we met even though he had sex with me. One time he didn’t cuddle me correctly it was the total lack of love that made me get up and walk two hours home. He said he never wanted to wake up and not see me next to him so sometimes the guy doesn’t realize what he wants until after she’s gone or heading to the door
@@gigi-gc8gu I think it is wonderful that he was able to tell you this later. There are many women, and men too, who never heard the real reason and it can affect a person's confidence. It thinks it is brave, men are not necessary masters in talking about how they feel. Considering that you refer to him as ex, it is indicating that it did not work out but it's lovely to hear. It would be a great start to a new beginning. best wishes.
Hello my dear,I can refer you to someone who helped me bring back my ex few days ago ,he can help you too
Ok message him on WhatsApp 🏞🏞
+2349052632393
I hope she really did learn her lesson and can be patient, honest and communicates openly.
She’s absolutely gorg! 😍
It's always cute when you can tell ex's still like each other with all the smiling and they didn't break up on some really bad disrespectful situation. I'm not sure if I believe that's why she really ghosted him but hey he gave her another chance
She's a stunner, he is a cutie! Fantastic couple!
They can’t not smile it’s so beautiful
Fatima you can’t hurry love!!!
Wow! The sexual tension comes across on the video. We all got issues but two people who give off that sort of aura belong together. He's so masculine around her and she is so feminine for him. They belong together.
I got this too!!
Yess!
I love this couple and I’m so glad they have got back together
i think she ghosted him because of her own insecurities and that had nothing to do with him
Why is she so pretty for no reason out of nowhere!!!? Like a mini chocolate barbie
Dark skinned baddie 😍😍😍
She was blushing a lil bit ok am done now their relationship is cute though wish the mad happiness.
Ikr so cute
She ghosted him bc she was insecure awwwwwww, she is so shy. She definitely grew from this. I am happy for both and hope they have a great relationship.
I am rooting for them. They were honest with each other and open for a new opportunity.
I felt the chemistry between them. It's amazing when you find that special person. I am so jealous 😘😍💋
Communication people!! ❤️
It's a tragic thing that loving relationships end because one person assumes or tries to guess what the other is feeling about them, get freaked out by their own guesses (usually informed by their perception of themselves), and react by leaving the person, or starting arguments. Especially because it's such an avoidable thing. Aah to be human. We learn, though. Hopefully
She is beautiful and he is handsome, these two definitely deserve each other,they connect a lot
This is why communication is so important....We just need to have conversations and healthy disagreements.
He is so cute and she should allow herself to be loved & enjoy what everyone deserves, which is basic & FREE "LOVE"💘
This is the best Eating with my ex I've ever seen. That wink 😂
I freaking love seeing this type of representation! As someone born with a difference myself I think it’s important to see that we too date and live normal lives! 💜 also when you meet someone that get you, and what it’s like to be different, it can be so incredibly meaningful as well... hoping for the best for these two 🤞
They’re so sweet. Her insecurities are causing her to be avoidant and push him away. They really seem good for each other but they both need to work on their confidence. I hope they can get it together and have a happy life together.
Awe they are so attractive. They would make a great couple.
He's cute, she was playing games..He really likes her...awwww
She said “The Ghost has returned” a Queen.
Haha 😂💅🏽
@@kendianorman3670 😅😅😅
She definitely did that because she was afraid he'd do that to her, as she alluded to other guys not really valuing her - but he did. I really do hope she learned and grew from this. And I hope they're happy.
She wanted him to move faster maybe she has/had low self esteem and was scared
I like that about her. She's making sure she does not get toyed with. He needs to step it up or leave her alone.
They both did
They are so cute man. I really like their chill and they genuinely like each other so good vibes.
She is absolutely stunning! 😍😍
Shes absolutely gorgeous
The wink 😩🤣 so cute🥰 I’ve seen her on TikTok but wow so cool to see this side of her life!
They're soooo darn cute together.
I completely relate to her. When you're used to putting yourself down, you reject the best thing that happens to you because you feel its way above you. I have ghosted someone for that reason. I just don't have the courage she has to apologise and go back
Am so happy for them am in tears, something so special could have been easily lost.
This smile on my face didn't mean to go away...damn! This is beautiful. 😊
I asked GOD for a wife and 26 years later , we are going strong. Pray for these two , if it’s right they will be together
There is no God.
@@huitzilopochtli_tenochtitl496 You redemption is drawing near my friend. Seek the face of Jesus Christ whilst you have the time.
I ain't even joking.
@@crackhead4540 You don't need to threaten me because I don't want to worship an evil God even if he does exist.
@@huitzilopochtli_tenochtitl496 He is not evil trust me. I did not understand who or what God was, but my open heart had lead me to understand who he is. Your faith must be simple. God is cares about simple hearts especially those who are down-trodden
Glory to God! Abba I speak life over these couples and pray for your guidance
The way he lit up when she said "I should have appreciated you" -- got me ( 3:33 )
i noticed that too his reaction was so adorable😆😆.
They are both so beautiful, inside and out. I wish them the best.
Omg the chemistry. They had me giggling. I hope to see more of them together.
Hehehe me too
This is just so sweet.....both just being raw, kind and gentle..
They’re together now!!!
Am so happy, this is so beautiful, such amazing people. Love you
Alan was not playing I respect hia honesty 100%..... Gorl you betta get yo man. They make a nice couple😊
Girls always be running when a dude be too chill or slowing things down.
They are two cute and compatible not to be together. 😍❤
Thats me right now
Yeah, but we don’t want to wait forever though.
Feels like she found someone else and then got hurt, hence why she's saying she's now ready to be with someone who is kind, loving etc.
Awww.... they are just perfect together.
I’m rooting for you two to make it, ghost or no ghost, I saw respect and a real liking for one another and good communication, which is a requirement. You both deserve all the goodness coming your way. ✌🏾N much ❤️
This was a sweet one. No harsh words or anger...you can tell they still dig each other. Glad to see it worked out.
I mean why cant I put together those earrings and clothes and dress like her? She's so pretty !
They're clearly made for each other! Beautiful
They should make an eating with my ex friend 😂😂😂 but awww they were so cute and I love their energy together. You can tell they genuinely enjoy each other’s presence.
Nah, we might start throwing punches🤣🤣🤣
I wish I had this. Something so genuine and so real. 🥺❤️
This made me smile so hard, l loved this all the best to them
The way they look at each other is really endearing.
He’s a sweetheart. Why would she ghost him
I ghost guys who are losers. He’s definitely not a loser
This gets me every single time. Especially when he tears up at the end, urgh, be still my heart.
They’re both so adorable! She’s gorgeous! And so is he! I hope it works out for both of them! 💕
They actually look like they still care about each other. Love is so beautiful when the person you care about feels the same way about you.
best of luck to them ❤️🥰 you can see the memories and adoration I love that for them!!!
They are so cute. I love their smiles. Glad they did the show. I pray they work out.
They're so beautiful. I heard they're back together. Yayyyyy!!!💃🏽
Sooo adorable! Love them.
Young people... stop ghosting each other. It's an unkind cowardly act and so disrespectful. Weak people ghost people. Just tell people you're truth.
This is such a heartwarming video. Nice to see two genuine loving people, rather than Z-list celebs lying about cheating on one another
She made bruh sad I think he was about to shed a lil bit tear ok that one was the last shot out to Fatima though she Beautiful but she a lil heartbreaker can mess with her am too emotional.
@Bright Adjei. He was about to shed a tear of joy. Right before he was tearing up, he was saying how ecstatic he is, how wonderful the day was, and how much he needed this. He was very happy and excited, not sad at all.
This just warmed my heart up. I wish these two all the best in the future!