God bless you Anty Mariam. You knew what the ladies want to hear but you keep to stick to the right value. Yes there is value in waiting, we will all grow into each other when we are together. And we can also learn.
@kesjakpor5861 I understand that traditionally, the word "virgin" has been associated more with women due to societal and cultural norms. However, the term itself simply refers to someone who hasn’t had sexual intercourse, regardless of gender.If "virgin" can describe a woman, there’s no reason it can’t apply to a man as well. It’s a neutral term, and its use for men or women shouldn’t carry different connotations or judgments.
There are also people who got married and wish they had waited to have sex. And for married couples, if it takes you and your spouse a year to have sex and enjoy sex as a married person. There is nothing wrong with you two. Sex is not a race. Both of us should take out time to build your relationship and get knowledge from the right sources. There is no rush to be an expert in your marital bed. You can be a novice, and as you two grow, it gets better with honesty, love, intimacy, and knowledge. Sex is not a race we need to get to a finish line. It is a lifetime experience with your husband or wife.
I married at the age of 30 and I married as a virgin. And today by the grace of God, I am enjoying my marriage. Yes , there were pressure and there will always be pressure. But your principles and values of what you stand for will give you strength to overcome those pressure's. No matter how strong and tempting it may be. And. Mariam, I really like your presentation and details on this issue of be a virgin. In fact you finish work. I appreciate and salute you for it. Because we have to be encouraging the younger ones that be a virgin is a value and not a bad thing. In the society of today, Were sex is now like a normal and ordinary thing to be doing. This view point of Mariam should be encourage and promoted across board. Thanks.
I don't understand why they are relating virginity to being a wife material. Someone made a decision for herself , to preserve herself physically, mentally and spiritually, and someone is talking about wife material. Wow!
@@Bee_stinger1 I'm sorry, was there somewhere the lady in question said her virginity would make her the best wife ? Or has there been any negative report about her character? By the way, what exactly is a 'good character'? Nobody is saying virginity is all in all, but at least, it speaks to her ability to control herself, not given to negative pressure and her high standards of morality- Or are these not examples of a good character again?
Thank you so much Mariam for your view is wholesome. We must not see things only from the lenses of our own experiences. In as much as virginity do not mean been 100% perfect , one who chooses that path may not be doing “everything else’ but penetration and this is a very strong sign of self discipline and strong values and should not be talked down on but also encouraged amongst young girls for whoever can take and keep such decision.
Sex is a gift from God for just married couple. It is sacred because it is a process of making human that are in God's image. So should be handled right.
It is appropriate. It's,a good choice. Sexual life outside marriage is does not promote morality in the society. Imagine society where sex is expressed everywhere. Sexual immorality is wrong. It negates morals and ethical values.
@emmanueleniade7558 , virgin as honour to God and herself and her spouse Because the world have normalise sins like fornication and adultery, does not mean that there are few that respect their body as the temple of the living God.
Virginity is a Choice... It's not the yardstick for a successful marriage or relationship... if you wanna keep it, keep it till you are ready. If you don't wanna keep it, balance it because anything you do too much might hurt you and have adverse effects on you... just have an amazing character and put humanity at heart in everything you do and try to be considerate.
Another point of the matter also relates to many who tends to settle down and ehen they are meeting someone and dueing the conversation ,it now comes to rhe issue of body counts that is where the eye opener begins with such discovery Should a woman have 0 body count, is where the man realize the accountability she possess in her life as she takes rhe next step in marriage . But if rhe body coints is so nimerous , the orobability that a woman would be faithful in a mardiage definitely looks slim .
Good evening all. I am job hunting, with an experience in crop farming and a national diploma in mass communication, I will be glad to work under any reputable organization interested in my experience and discipline. Thank you
And other things depending on where you grow-up, for example, in the Countryside/Village, where everyone knows everyone ETC. I am from the Village, different Church issue can cause, I know a childhood girl, she & I used to go different churches, we can never get married, she become a Nurse, she has a child yet still not married, hmmm
Fornication is an unmarried man sleeping with an unmarried woman while Adultery is a married person having sexual relations with someone else other than his/her spouse. And Christ condemns both adultery and fornication. Sexual impurity/Immorality is condemned in 1 Cor 6: 9-10 amongst several other places
@obinnaigboeli6686 . The question I asked you was where did Yeshua Christ said, no sex before marriage? 1CORRINTHIANS 6:9-10 mentioned so many sin that will not take anyone to the kingdom of God, including greediness. The word fornication was created by King James, who was a Gaybriel, however, the original Greek word is "Porneia" which mean prostitution.
@obinnaigboeli6686 . The word fornication is not mentioned in the original scripture, it was King James who was a Gaybriel that formulated the word fornication...the actual word is ponnia in Greek which means prostitution
It's ok as a man or woman to keep virginity until marriage, and it's still ok not to keep it till marriage. Come to think of it ,it's not every individual that would want to marry oo. Some men and women do not want to marry 😂 but live happy sexual lives
The lady saying who is fooling who makes no sense. Virginity is Virginity. One can have feelings or feel honey thats normal . Ability to kill thise feelings another one . Girls who play badly and also claim to a virgin is something else . I personally can recognize them as virgin, if you have used objects on yourself period .
What makes it not to be appropriate??? Spiritual is appropriate is a command from the Lord ❤, physical, biological is appropriate it prevents all sort of STD & keep your virginity & womb clean. Even at 50 keep your virginity your accountability is unto your creator and not any human or science.
Wanting to remain a virgin until marriage is a matter of choice and there is nothing wrong with any of the choices so long as you are an adult and you protect yourself for health reasons. For some women, remaining a virgin could be as a result of very low libido or they dread sex.
Am 40 years old and a virgin, the bible says we are the temple of God. And i believe by God's grace , i will marry. Besides having sex before marriage is a SIN.
Theres more to be done aoart from maintaining virginity. As the man eho called , its not that youre a virgin that determines your character as a good person. All i can say is based on choice and also for one to build accountability and purpose in life.
It’s very very right, 42+ still virgin, God honors purity, devil can’t stand purity. Honor and value your body it’s the most beautiful thing. Thank you
I am 37 and still a virgin. Its a great virtue as a Christian to keep yourself till marriage. Virginity is not old school thing😂. Its power under self control. May God bless everyone and my co-virgins trusting God to settle soon. 🎉❤❤
Discipline, choices, Power How has this wrong teachings help society This was preached when we were young But what has the society produced Teaching self can't work
There have been issues relating to to those who mick people who ssys rhat they're virgin whereas Virginity is still a honourable thing . Even God honours virgins. I beleiev Omowunmi Akinifesi is a human being who has been taught values from home snd hsve shown respect to herself and dventually creates that much needed value a person who is in need of answers in life rhat they can look up to . I celebrate rhe Virgins. Leta this trend be a motivation
The pressure to have sex when young and unprepared is real. Young people should be careful who take advice from and not succumb to doing it when you are not ready. This happened to me and I paid dearly for it. Perhaps, my adviser also suffered for this but I don't know. It's safe to say they didn't live a fulfilling life in any way whatsoever but God gave me a second chance. Also, men should realise no means no.Swx when someone says no, is rape.
Obìrin😅...If these people are waiting for Mr perfect hein, they should just wait for Jesus Christ himself o. You brought it to this world and decides to keep it, isn't that even a sin on its own ?...Anyways, you guys take your flowers o 💐 🎉. Una dey try o !
I am 41yrs by January and still a virgin. I am proud to be one. The pressure is real but all glory to God 🙏
Why are you. I will help you here in Australia
@emmanueleniade7558 why do you think she needs help? I really want to know.
I have family members who are in their 50s and still are.
Yeah my dear am also in your shoe am also a virgin at 33
God bless you Anty Mariam. You knew what the ladies want to hear but you keep to stick to the right value. Yes there is value in waiting, we will all grow into each other when we are together. And we can also learn.
Am a Man , 35 , still a Virgin .
Very proud ❤
The word , virgin shouldn't be used with men.
Smile
@kesjakpor5861 I understand that traditionally, the word "virgin" has been associated more with women due to societal and cultural norms. However, the term itself simply refers to someone who hasn’t had sexual intercourse, regardless of gender.If "virgin" can describe a woman, there’s no reason it can’t apply to a man as well. It’s a neutral term, and its use for men or women shouldn’t carry different connotations or judgments.
@@kesjakpor5861How?? Wtf y'all turning the scripture upside down
You need to get married senior man
There are also people who got married and wish they had waited to have sex. And for married couples, if it takes you and your spouse a year to have sex and enjoy sex as a married person. There is nothing wrong with you two. Sex is not a race. Both of us should take out time to build your relationship and get knowledge from the right sources. There is no rush to be an expert in your marital bed. You can be a novice, and as you two grow, it gets better with honesty, love, intimacy, and knowledge. Sex is not a race we need to get to a finish line. It is a lifetime experience with your husband or wife.
I know a 55 years old virgin and she's still waiting for Mr. Right. Praying God honor her with a great and godly man🙏
You know her or you toto
That’s just sad.
Ogun ni o
That’s what she told you.
@@mozeedodutayo1691this strong stereotype is the reason many who are won't even want talk about it.
I am 36, and I am still a virgin.
Proud me
I married at the age of 30 and I married as a virgin.
And today by the grace of God, I am enjoying my marriage.
Yes , there were pressure and there will always be pressure. But your principles and values of what you stand for will give you strength to overcome those pressure's. No matter how strong and tempting it may be.
And.
Mariam, I really like your presentation and details on this issue of be a virgin. In fact you finish work. I appreciate and salute you for it.
Because we have to be encouraging the younger ones that be a virgin is a value and not a bad thing. In the society of today, Were sex is now like a normal and ordinary thing to be doing.
This view point of Mariam should be encourage and promoted across board. Thanks.
I don't understand why they are relating virginity to being a wife material. Someone made a decision for herself , to preserve herself physically, mentally and spiritually, and someone is talking about wife material. Wow!
They're basically saying it is not enough to keep your virginity without working on your character
I was bemused too. But again it shows the linear thought process with little to no objectivity of most people generally...
@@Bee_stinger1 I'm sorry, was there somewhere the lady in question said her virginity would make her the best wife ? Or has there been any negative report about her character?
By the way, what exactly is a 'good character'? Nobody is saying virginity is all in all, but at least, it speaks to her ability to control herself, not given to negative pressure and her high standards of morality- Or are these not examples of a good character again?
Thank you so much Mariam for your view is wholesome. We must not see things only from the lenses of our own experiences. In as much as virginity do not mean been 100% perfect , one who chooses that path may not be doing “everything else’ but penetration and this is a very strong sign of self discipline and strong values and should not be talked down on but also encouraged amongst young girls for whoever can take and keep such decision.
In addition it doesn't mean purity
Chances are excellent that she is not involved in 'everything else' am a living proof and am proud of it.❤ God bless you.
Sex is a gift from God for just married couple.
It is sacred because it is a process of making human that are in God's image. So should be handled right.
Marian is such a brilliant lady.
Mariam is smart and disciplined may God bless her children
Pls invite Dr. Kingsley Okonkwo next time you're having this discussion.
It is appropriate.
It's,a good choice.
Sexual life outside marriage is does not promote morality in the society.
Imagine society where sex is expressed everywhere.
Sexual immorality is wrong. It negates morals and ethical values.
Is it sex that has rendered your country ungovernable.
My second wife is 35, and she's a virgin. My first wife was a virgin at 24 when i married her in 2021.
wooow
In secret and in the open, God sees what you're doing. If you're a Christian and not yet married, don't do it, that's what God says.
I am 39 and a virgin.
Dey play...virgin for what
I pray God bless you with a good spouse
@emmanueleniade7558 , virgin as honour to God and herself and her spouse
Because the world have normalise sins like fornication and adultery, does not mean that there are few that respect their body as the temple of the living God.
@oritsedamilolahephzibah6427 Amen!
@@oritsedamilolahephzibah6427 Amen
Virginity is a Choice... It's not the yardstick for a successful marriage or relationship... if you wanna keep it, keep it till you are ready. If you don't wanna keep it, balance it because anything you do too much might hurt you and have adverse effects on you... just have an amazing character and put humanity at heart in everything you do and try to be considerate.
You have a lot of virgins in Japan that are over thirty seven years of age. It’s a surprise to us because of our kind of society.
Another point of the matter also relates to many who tends to settle down and ehen they are meeting someone and dueing the conversation ,it now comes to rhe issue of body counts that is where the eye opener begins with such discovery
Should a woman have 0 body count, is where the man realize the accountability she possess in her life as she takes rhe next step in marriage .
But if rhe body coints is so nimerous , the orobability that a woman would be faithful in a mardiage definitely looks slim .
Remember that virgin does not mean no sexual contact
Our father always told us if a man loves you he will wait.
will you allow your son to marry a 40 year old virgin?
Aye ti baje ju yen loo
Not men of nowadays
Only a mumu man will fall for that, while she is making one man wait, she is giving up her cookies to another man she desires and likes.
He will wait if truly he loves you... some may even go and have it outside and wait for you
I applaud Omowunmi.
I hope the best for her
Good evening all. I am job hunting, with an experience in crop farming and a national diploma in mass communication, I will be glad to work under any reputable organization interested in my experience and discipline. Thank you
I married as a virgin at 27 years, and i gave my hubby now, when we were dating that if we had sex , i will annual the relationship
The woman on green is very brilliant
All the women on Your view are beautiful and express themselves well
And other things depending on where you grow-up, for example, in the Countryside/Village, where everyone knows everyone ETC. I am from the Village, different Church issue can cause, I know a childhood girl, she & I used to go different churches, we can never get married, she become a Nurse, she has a child yet still not married, hmmm
As a Christian, if you are not married, then no sex
That's what Christ says.
The insults can now come in
Which of the chapter and verse of the Bible that christ said no sex before marriage please?.
Awon oloriburuku kiristeni onisokuso
@@rayajao1566 Na you be the oloriburuku. Like Tubaba talk, Just Google am!
Fornication is an unmarried man sleeping with an unmarried woman while Adultery is a married person having sexual relations with someone else other than his/her spouse. And Christ condemns both adultery and fornication. Sexual impurity/Immorality is condemned in 1 Cor 6: 9-10 amongst several other places
@obinnaigboeli6686 . The question I asked you was where did Yeshua Christ said, no sex before marriage?
1CORRINTHIANS 6:9-10 mentioned so many sin that will not take anyone to the kingdom of God, including greediness. The word fornication was created by King James, who was a Gaybriel, however, the original Greek word is "Porneia" which mean prostitution.
@obinnaigboeli6686 . The word fornication is not mentioned in the original scripture, it was King James who was a Gaybriel that formulated the word fornication...the actual word is ponnia in Greek which means prostitution
It's ok as a man or woman to keep virginity until marriage, and it's still ok not to keep it till marriage. Come to think of it ,it's not every individual that would want to marry oo. Some men and women do not want to marry 😂 but live happy sexual lives
37 years hmm!
I may not know why this long
However for a woman when it comes to settle , rhe sge of her settlement should be btw 18-25 years old.
The lady saying who is fooling who makes no sense. Virginity is Virginity. One can have feelings or feel honey thats normal . Ability to kill thise feelings another one . Girls who play badly and also claim to a virgin is something else . I personally can recognize them as virgin, if you have used objects on yourself period .
Point of corrections Morayo, Never say that again that it is mot possible.
What makes it not to be appropriate??? Spiritual is appropriate is a command from the Lord ❤, physical, biological is appropriate it prevents all sort of STD & keep your virginity & womb clean. Even at 50 keep your virginity your accountability is unto your creator and not any human or science.
Wanting to remain a virgin until marriage is a matter of choice and there is nothing wrong with any of the choices so long as you are an adult and you protect yourself for health reasons.
For some women, remaining a virgin could be as a result of very low libido or they dread sex.
Am 40 years old and a virgin, the bible says we are the temple of God. And i believe by God's grace , i will marry.
Besides having sex before marriage is a SIN.
Theres more to be done aoart from maintaining virginity.
As the man eho called , its not that youre a virgin that determines your character as a good person.
All i can say is based on choice and also for one to build accountability and purpose in life.
It’s very very right, 42+ still virgin, God honors purity, devil can’t stand purity. Honor and value your body it’s the most beautiful thing. Thank you
What a topic .
I am 37 and still a virgin. Its a great virtue as a Christian to keep yourself till marriage. Virginity is not old school thing😂. Its power under self control. May God bless everyone and my co-virgins trusting God to settle soon. 🎉❤❤
Waiting too like urs.. How can we meet dear!!!!?
I haven’t watched the video, but no, it’s not appropriate.
I'm not proud to be one at my age but Sapa contribute.
It comes with physiological challenges.
i diagree
Lies
Big fat lie from the pit of hell
Discipline, choices, Power
How has this wrong teachings help society
This was preached when we were young
But what has the society produced
Teaching self can't work
please tell us where the over 30 virgins are..
Using tampons also breaks the hymen.
Am a Virgin father of 2
😂😂😂😂😂
You're funny 😂😂😂
@@omoniyifakehinde246 😁
@@Igho-v5i 😁
Madam Morayo! for God's sake
Haaaa, assuming ur daughter is still a virgin at 37, is that normal in this era
37?. I have a girlfriend at 47 still a virgin, there re ladies like that and above
I don't think it is your business. Omawummi is her choice
😱🥺🙄 Ah !
Your Pastor is watching you o 🤣😁😂
Olowassgun caller wan kill me with laugh.😂😂😂😂
Really
There have been issues relating to to those who mick people who ssys rhat they're virgin whereas Virginity is still a honourable thing .
Even God honours virgins.
I beleiev Omowunmi Akinifesi is a human being who has been taught values from home snd hsve shown respect to herself and dventually creates that much needed value a person who is in need of answers in life rhat they can look up to .
I celebrate rhe Virgins.
Leta this trend be a motivation
Please, can I merry her I'm also like her?
WE NEED TO DO VERIFICATION OF HER VIRGINITY CLAIM.
The pressure to have sex when young and unprepared is real. Young people should be careful who take advice from and not succumb to doing it when you are not ready. This happened to me and I paid dearly for it. Perhaps, my adviser also suffered for this but I don't know. It's safe to say they didn't live a fulfilling life in any way whatsoever but God gave me a second chance. Also, men should realise no means no.Swx when someone says no, is rape.
When a woman/lady needs sex and a man says no. Can we call it a rape too?
Christianity and Yoruba tradition encourage virginity and it is a worthy virtue on its own merit, it may not guarantee a lot of other virtues though.
Polygamy solves the problem
I am 40 yrs and still a virgin.... Na God tho.... Getting married 2025 ny God's grace
Obìrin😅...If these people are waiting for Mr perfect hein, they should just wait for Jesus Christ himself o. You brought it to this world and decides to keep it, isn't that even a sin on its own ?...Anyways, you guys take your flowers o 💐 🎉. Una dey try o !
It's beautiful ❤