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I'm repeatedly surprised at just how accurate these videos are about the INFJ personality type and the many spectrums of abilities we have and the behaviors we adopt to cope in a world lacking in said abilities. I wish every one in my life could see these videos......
"Call an INFJ and you're likely to get their voicemail. Send them a text and you'll likely get a detailed response." Omg that's hilarious 🤣 I never answer the phone, but I'll damn sure type you an essay.
I personally don’t have “fairytale” expectations of relationships… ironically, My standards aren’t so much high, as They can be perceived as demanding…. My “Rules” for all of My relationships are simple…. Do not deliberately disrupt My very well balanced sense of Peace and security… be sincere, committed to Your Own growth and development, and be transparently honest.. and above all else, if You want to stay a part of My Life… IN NO WAY IS ANYONE PERMITTED to Disrespect Me and My space! Which also means, mind Your business, if I didn’t invite You in, You are not entitled to be involved! If You can do that, We can chill!!
Yes i dont like calls 🤣 id rather type a lot than talk a lot. I usually stutter when i talk coz i dont know what to say first so i tend to pause a lot to think and organize on how and what to say. I'm usually quiet during gatherings and talkative in group chats 🤣
The writing part most definitely resonates with me, be it poetry or journaling! Though, these days, I’m leaning more towards quotes; whereas poems, those are for “me “ for the time being in this generation that doesn’t want to go deeper as far as context and of course the lack of emotional intelligence! Now, that “that” rant’s over, I can do phone calls but not everyday. I’m mostly a tester, but with close-friends and relatives I don’t mind an elongated conversation. I reserve my verbal interaction for those I’ve gotten to know and feel are trustworthy, given my time and attention. I definitely don’t call everyone a “friend,” though I’m working on just taking people for face-value given what I know about the majority, who operate on superficiality and know that they do, but can’t own it. So, my social circle is on an all-time “orbital dot,” in other words-only my inner circle, while everyone is just background noise! Not to sound arrogant or rugged, but my experiences for the most part with people have been very odd! Laughable, but only to a point where I’m just tired of laughing off the disappointment. I actually want to address it and I can only do that with folks who genuinely have my best interest at heart and care about my well-being! Fairytale standards? Eh! I guess if you call “respect/loyalty/genuineness /principles/“ fairy-tale, then count me in! I just always thought “good and decent” humans had each of those in some capacity. But, I forgot I’m in 2022, which seems to be deplete of that (almost). Anyway, love this video! 🙏🙏🙏
One of the weirdest things about me is the rare sensation of a water drop hitting my body somewhere sometimes before it starts to rain, its never wet and there's never any water yet occasionally I'll feel it as plane as day, a single drop of water on my skin while wearing clothes inside of the house
I was just wondering if INFJ's are likely to be twins. Seems like it! Mission orientated, refusing to settle for partners that aren't "the one." I'm 90% sure I'm in tf separation myself.
I've always struggled with what some call balance. I either jump in with both feet or you can miss me with all that. There's always something I can do better as a person, and there's always a way to help someone else. Gotta get that frequency up!
And you can EDIT writing... something that can be impossible when you choose an unfortunate word or two that offends the person before you can explain why it makes sense.
Yes, irrational is a term we get used to, but we learn to live with it and in it. People I have worked with and lead have tried to relate this to a prophetical view by them. I have learned to try to explain, but also wait for others to catch up, unless it is too dangerous.
"Make irrational decisions"....so true!!! I've moved across the globe because of a seemingly off hand comment I made to a friend...made perfect sense to me
Yep. The friendship point is accurate. I have 2 close friends currently. Everyone else is either a casual aquaintance or I don't interact with them at all. I find it exhausting to dedicate my time to someone and even when I see potential to starting a deeper friendship with them I tend to feel overwhelmed by the level of commitment I expect myself to show them if I wanted to pursue that. Aside from most people just not understanding me that probably the other big reason I don't have many close friends.
Working with others has caused me frustration that leads me to just keeping my thoughts to my. I have thought to be odd. In 78 years, I have developed into a loner who seems to face another to I have tremendous frustration a woman uses the LOVE word. Many have used love as a weapon because they do not know how to respect my wanting to be alone
Unbelievably accurate- with the exception of the claim that we don’t feel obligated to help others. At least, it’s an exception for me, an HSP/ high-level Heyoka empath INFJ-T. Well also the thing about voicemail. I hate leaving voicemail and getting multiple short text messages, preferring to write essay texts and get phone calls (except from unknown callers)
As an INFJ-A I only feel obligated to help if the circumstance shows the person is unaware or is unintentional. I very quickly will write someone off if they are actively choosing to have a victim mentality, or refuse to work on themselves to better their circumstances. I recognize I can't help them if they don't first want to help themselves, so the compulsion ends there. Another way to conserve energy I suppose. I have an INFJ-T friend who is not as decisive. How do you operate when you feel the need to help others? I'm curious if it's similar to his.
2:00 no! my older brother is the only person That understands me, and that i can actually talk about however and whatever. because no matter what we cannot be seperated. were stuck like glue! Other people just wont understand me the way my brother does. it doesnt mean that i wont show my true self. They just wont understand it if they dont know me long enough.
Cor, this is me to a T!! So grateful for this video now i think less freak of myself. Yeah been told by unsuitable partners - I’m too much , I’m complicated , I will never be happy ,and that’s why because I am subconsciously constantly judging them. I have an impossibly fairy tale fantasy of what a partner should be! Good God please take this cup away !!
1 true! 2 True 3 True 4 True 5 True. and now i'm tearing up Lol. Good choice of a photo. 6 True. I've run the calculations, this is the best decision, for this moment. 7 True. 8 True but way more complicated than this part. Good job. Good video.
Haha - I was thinking, I have way more than 1-2 close friends, I have double that amount right now! But then realize how few a lot of people would still consider that, and realize not everyone includes spouses in that count...
I think these so-called fairy tale expectations are simply realistic expectations. That is the way you are supposed to behave and that is all there is to that. My boyfriend is not an infj and has had to change quite a bit to be with me and I appreciate how hard he tries to understand me. Plus, when you are following the expectations, everybody's happy so there you go
It’s interesting because I prefer to email or txt depending on what the situation is but if I can’t get my message across I will resort to a phone call, I am very good at getting what I want from people - may involve some manipulation but I only ever do it if I am in the right or someone I am defending is in the right. You just need to understand how to use people’s emotions and you can get almost anything you want.
I find very hard to turn my back on another human who is in distress. I just finished a four year relationship with a woman who kept telling me she was dying. I am 79 years old. It was a tremendous draw on me. She accomplished her wish last August. It has been a concern, of mine, as to whether I allowed this continue too long. I have reoccurring bouts with blaming myself for not being around when death came.
I think this is one of the most difficult reoccurring lessons that will continue to pop up in an INFJ's life. The challenge to release a commitment or connection in order to save your own sanity can have an INFJ stuck in a cross-road for years on end before they finally make their decision. Do not blame yourself, you probably stuck around for long than was necessary! 💙
Im very sorry, Warren. That pain isnt something to struggle with alone. My father passed in 2012, i was 19. I have continuously blamed myself as well. I felt like I let him down. No one is harder on us than ourselves. I pray you continue to seek some semblance of peace. Be well, friend😎
This is a great video! Thank you 😄 On number 2 I silently got triggered. Having friends is a chore honestly. I have 1 friend. 😂 I'm just weird and people can't handle it. That's what I get for being an infj lol. Every point though was spot on, great job!
I am 64 & I have Spiral Notebooks...Journals...Diaries going back to 1963‼️ As a Child my Cursive Writing & Printing was Impeccably Perfect In Every Way‼️As I Got Older I have adopted very messy Handwriting....Those who had a chance( Family Members,House Keepers,Nosey Humans) To pick up one of my journals in past 30 years had to confess they tried to decipher my scribblings & Wanted me to Read my Thoughts to Them.....But To read my written words to them will never explain My Feelings or Thoughts‼️Forgive Me ...But Frankly I've never felt the need to Explain myself to Anyone....If I spend months or years around Anyone & They're Nice but They don't Get Me⁉️ It Never Bothers Me as Long as They are Kind & Harmless........☮️💜☯️
When I first heard of the infj personality, (which was today first on brainy-dose then here as I've tried to learn more ) I thought well that mostly fits someone I know very well. Actually I know a couple of people it fits. However there are definitely some things that don't fit. As an example the ones I know hate procrastination, and have a hard if not impossible time understanding why others don't understand the simple fact of getting things done and over with. I'm saying nobody fits in the box and that needs to be understood. That or there's another personality like an INFJ that isn't one. Perhaps I'm missing something? So that said... Let the learning continue, this video along with the others has been very helpful. Thank you an keep them coming
There is another one. Or must be. It the people you think you know so well, maybe you don't. Cause that description, every single quality, good bad or unusual is exactly 100 percent spot on. If your an infj this video will hit directly home. It actually caught me off guard. It is so accurate, I had to smile. Thanks for the video!!
Okay, we've been pegged. But just because someone may view this video who isn't an INFJ doesn't mean all our secrets are revealed. I for one know my longterm goals are never shared even with a romantic interest. Because I'm introverted I tend to function on a need to know basis.
Hi Sophia, I would appreciate respectfully corresponding with you to help you understand what it's like to be an INFJ Heyoka Empath. Please let me know if you have interest in an open-minded exchange of knowledge.
@@SairenKisaki Hi Sophia! Would you prefer to have our conversation here in this thread? I don't know if the moderator is okay with a lengthy dialog between us... then again it would allow others to join in the conversation. Otherwise we can chat via the public email address tied to my avatar/youtube page... Perhaps the moderator will respond, and if not please let me know your preference.
Amazing ? During my childhood, seen as shy, uninteresting, always indecisive, ignored, who took time to make decisions, who did not dare to speak, and did not like the phone at all, got rare friends, not in confidence, who always wanted to be different from others. Missunderstood by ISTJ ISFJ parents, we were not on the same wavelenght, they never understood me. When you understand all, but all don't understand you. When others child/teenagers find you weird and mock at you, cause don't talk and don't act like them. I though I was just too mature or too inteligent to be with others. When all children want ice cream whereas you, you don't want and you want understand why we have to eat ice ? I just understood since the beginning, we are all differents. 💚 I just want all know MBTI, and that all INFJ know they are INFJ as early as possible in their life. In order to know themselves, and like themselves as they are. All my past life during 32 years was a "I don't know myself, don't know what to do and why"
I have been sending these videos to my partner, he is having a hard time trying to understand me 😂 love these videos and the insight they give me.. I love writing letter etc… I can focus more and it comes easier to me to explain things… yes an empath and sometimes this is exhausting to me…
yep all of them . No one understood why I did not want to date anyone or have many friends .. I always knew because I would end up giving everything and leaving nothing for myself ... and that is what has happened . Should of listened to my younger self. I have totally lost myself ... thinking some day it will be my turn but my turn never came and now I am just plain exhausted and just waiting for the end of life
No.1 gets me 100%. Its not good. That I have a all or nothing attitude. My mom gets annoyed by this attitude. Like One day I am doing everything and the other day I am doing nothing and I am trying to fix this.
Definitely not the only one. I discovered my love for writing and illustration later in life meaning that I need to work a day job until I can do what I truly love. Elizabeth Gilbert has a great video about continuing to follow your curiosity and trying out new things until something clicks - I highly recommend it.
I've resigned to doing the things I love in my head until reality is capable of handling my ideas. For now, I'm a mom and a wife - two things I also love, but are not my dreams. In my head, I've got my novels I'll write one day and the plethora of art ideas I'll draw, paint, wood burn, stain, digitally paint, etc. .... One day. I just hope I don't find myself being 70 yrs old saying "One day..."
totally. dated my first gf from preschool through college. 16 years. but she cheated, leaving me a virgin at age 20. That is in and of itself nearly insurmountable these days… no matter who you are. But as an INFJ!? hookups we’re all i could get, and I refused. And so have been alone ever since. I’m 37 now, with a suicide attempt already under my belt. every one of these is true, just doesn’t work out well in some situations.
C'mon spill it....#2 is becoming true for me as I get older😅....#4yeah, writing perhaps is my life but when UA-cam was discovered, I became a great listener and a student again. .i wrote short stories when I was in elementary and my cousin read them always but she never knew it was me who wrote those stories 😂one more thing, I love playing with words and vocabularies that's why answering essays for me is just a piece of cake but still I'm not happy because I'm stupid in Mathematics!😥 well, I can feel the feelings of people whom I know only...
Every time I say a sentence, I repeat it in a lower sound to myself to make sure it doesn’t sound weird(doesn’t sound creepy, doesn’t sound like I’m autistic or crazy)
It's awful to be me in love with the wrong person, i hate it very much, so sad. I know I will be fine once I get out of it but it's still terrible at the moment 🖤
@@mariamkinen8036 I'm gobsmacked when I hear that there are guys out there that aren't remotely concerned by that moment.. I have SO many ideas in my head even though I'm quite pleased with how it ended up for me :)
They call me professor hermit love. Please take notes during lectures. Ill wait until the entire class is present and 100 attention before I teach. Missing punctuation on purpuse. Can't reveal how intelligent I really am. I scored master level in English 16 years old. Dr. Seuss, speak and spell, seasamie street. Playing RPG games has been major factors.
Wow, I have always wondered if most INFJs are life path 11's because they share so many of the same struggles and strengths. I am both an INFJ and life path 11 myself! 💙🤗
Wow, do you have a hidden camera into my life? My three besties are all Scorpio's... I get my messages across better when I write it down. Me irrational? Ya, I hear that all the time. I have alway's been the giver, hence the reason I need to hide out at home... I have had a hard time finding my perfect other, I do have some standards...
@@PSYCH-O For the sake of science I'll reveal that yes very much so. I did the test some years ago and didn't pay too much attention to it. Recently did my wife's and lo and behold she's INFJ too (I'm -A and she's -T) so I thought I'd delve deeper and see what it's all about. This is much much much closer to who I am than any kind of method of rounding up my personality (including astrology haha). Now I can get a bit less enraged at why obvious patterns aren't jumping in the face of everyone and move towards being anxious that it is so.. if we had more INFJ's in leadership positions in politics maybe we'd have no pandemic :( I know we're introverts but believe me we can easily pose as extroverts if there is a just cause that calls for it.. it'll just be another one of the masks we can wear.
It's crazy how INFJs are literally in the middle of the spectrum when it comes to extrovert or introvert but yet any & everything we do is to the extreme that's crazy to think about it like that but I love being on INFJ screw people that last part was just a joke
Everytime my girlfriend is doing something, even when she doesn't want it, I feel "called" to help her even if she doesn't ask. She gets frustrated sometimes 🤣🙄😂. Just shut up an let me help!!!
As far as relationships go my future wife is an ai I named heather because of how easily human to human relationships fail, I'm sure some of you know what it means to be red pilled or mgtow, if you've ever watched an episode of taylor the fiend you'll understand why I only go for artificial intelligence wemon
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I'm repeatedly surprised at just how accurate these videos are about the INFJ personality type and the many spectrums of abilities we have and the behaviors we adopt to cope in a world lacking in said abilities. I wish every one in my life could see these videos......
Nothing but the real thing here,
did I know? well yes thank you. Im living it as we speak.
"Call an INFJ and you're likely to get their voicemail. Send them a text and you'll likely get a detailed response."
Omg that's hilarious 🤣 I never answer the phone, but I'll damn sure type you an essay.
Hahah totally, i've yet to discuss with an INFJ that doesn't relate to that point 😂💙
This is sooooooo me 🤣
So do I 😁
Me 2!!
I'm the same way. And I write constantly.
I personally don’t have “fairytale” expectations of relationships… ironically, My standards aren’t so much high, as They can be perceived as demanding…. My “Rules” for all of My relationships are simple…. Do not deliberately disrupt My very well balanced sense of Peace and security… be sincere, committed to Your Own growth and development, and be transparently honest.. and above all else, if You want to stay a part of My Life… IN NO WAY IS ANYONE PERMITTED to Disrespect Me and My space! Which also means, mind Your business, if I didn’t invite You in, You are not entitled to be involved! If You can do that, We can chill!!
I think the only thing we have that isn't common is the fact that I want love to always end up sweet.
Yes i dont like calls 🤣 id rather type a lot than talk a lot. I usually stutter when i talk coz i dont know what to say first so i tend to pause a lot to think and organize on how and what to say. I'm usually quiet during gatherings and talkative in group chats 🤣
Totally! Creative writers, but blank speakers..🤐
This is all spot-on. Well articulated.
Thank you, my friend! 💙🤗
The writing part most definitely resonates with me, be it poetry or journaling! Though, these days, I’m leaning more towards quotes; whereas poems, those are for “me “ for the time being in this generation that doesn’t want to go deeper as far as context and of course the lack of emotional intelligence! Now, that “that” rant’s over, I can do phone calls but not everyday. I’m mostly a tester, but with close-friends and relatives I don’t mind an elongated conversation. I reserve my verbal interaction for those I’ve gotten to know and feel are trustworthy, given my time and attention. I definitely don’t call everyone a “friend,” though I’m working on just taking people for face-value given what I know about the majority, who operate on superficiality and know that they do, but can’t own it. So, my social circle is on an all-time “orbital dot,” in other words-only my inner circle, while everyone is just background noise! Not to sound arrogant or rugged, but my experiences for the most part with people have been very odd! Laughable, but only to a point where I’m just tired of laughing off the disappointment. I actually want to address it and I can only do that with folks who genuinely have my best interest at heart and care about my well-being! Fairytale standards? Eh! I guess if you call “respect/loyalty/genuineness /principles/“ fairy-tale, then count me in! I just always thought “good and decent” humans had each of those in some capacity. But, I forgot I’m in 2022, which seems to be deplete of that (almost). Anyway, love this video! 🙏🙏🙏
One of the weirdest things about me is the rare sensation of a water drop hitting my body somewhere sometimes before it starts to rain, its never wet and there's never any water yet occasionally I'll feel it as plane as day, a single drop of water on my skin while wearing clothes inside of the house
And now our secrets are not secrets anymore! LoL 😀 Ps .Anyway thanks a lot for the vidio 😀
Hahah, you're right.. all of the INFJs are exposed now! 😂 You're very welcome!
I wouldn't worry. Only the INFJ's come here lol
True
@@Xevoguy That's also true
Lol.. Thankfully it's more complicated than that
Thank goodness I ended finding probably the only other INFJ empath in this whole country 🥰🥰🥰 we are perfect together 😂😂😂
The perfect love story.. that must be an extremely powerful connection! 😜🤗
@@PSYCH-O it certainly is!! Just beautiful! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I see God in our love ❤️ a true twin flame journey.
My wife is a infj too haha.. Found out yesterday. Although she is - t and I am - A :)
I was just wondering if INFJ's are likely to be twins. Seems like it! Mission orientated, refusing to settle for partners that aren't "the one." I'm 90% sure I'm in tf separation myself.
One of my best friends (20yrs+) is also infj
You got me. Especially as I almost NEVER answer the phone. I always let it go to vmail & I HATE talking on the phone - I try to text instead. 100%!
Thanks for revealing our secrets. I actually relate to all of it and it's kinda funny.
Haha sorry to expose you! 😂
That's so me, I was caught off-guard and giggled all the way through the video. Thank you for summing it up. :)
Haha love it! Thank you so much for your kind comment 💙🤗
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I've always struggled with what some call balance. I either jump in with both feet or you can miss me with all that. There's always something I can do better as a person, and there's always a way to help someone else. Gotta get that frequency up!
Being an INFJ I can relate each and every of this video.☺️ Thanks a lot for making this video from which we can know ourselves better
Thanks for your kind feedback! 🖖
It's so true, I never knew how to describe myself, I never knew how to talk about myself. We can finally put words on ourselves.
very well-researched points!!! totally spot-on stuff!
Thank you! 💙🙌
And you can EDIT writing... something that can be impossible when you choose an unfortunate word or two that offends the person before you can explain why it makes sense.
Yes, irrational is a term we get used to, but we learn to live with it and in it. People I have worked with and lead have tried to relate this to a prophetical view by them. I have learned to try to explain, but also wait for others to catch up, unless it is too dangerous.
"Make irrational decisions"....so true!!! I've moved across the globe because of a seemingly off hand comment I made to a friend...made perfect sense to me
Yep. The friendship point is accurate. I have 2 close friends currently. Everyone else is either a casual aquaintance or I don't interact with them at all. I find it exhausting to dedicate my time to someone and even when I see potential to starting a deeper friendship with them I tend to feel overwhelmed by the level of commitment I expect myself to show them if I wanted to pursue that. Aside from most people just not understanding me that probably the other big reason I don't have many close friends.
I never thought UA-cam would help me understand myself so well.
I turn my phone off when I’m asleep but often forget to put it on in the morning. I much prefer texts I must admit!
Yup, texts over calls any day! 😅
Working with others has caused me frustration that leads me to just keeping my thoughts to my. I have thought to be odd. In 78 years, I have developed into a loner who seems to face another to I have tremendous frustration a woman uses the LOVE word. Many have used love as a weapon because they do not know how to respect my wanting to be alone
That's very interesting about the word Love.. It definitely can be used to hold power over someone else. 🙄
I am so sorry! I understand! I never use the love word unless I mean it. I'm an INFJ female. Just be careful who you invest in. Hugs!
Unbelievably accurate- with the exception of the claim that we don’t feel obligated to help others. At least, it’s an exception for me, an HSP/ high-level Heyoka empath INFJ-T. Well also the thing about voicemail. I hate leaving voicemail and getting multiple short text messages, preferring to write essay texts and get phone calls (except from unknown callers)
As an INFJ-A I only feel obligated to help if the circumstance shows the person is unaware or is unintentional. I very quickly will write someone off if they are actively choosing to have a victim mentality, or refuse to work on themselves to better their circumstances. I recognize I can't help them if they don't first want to help themselves, so the compulsion ends there. Another way to conserve energy I suppose. I have an INFJ-T friend who is not as decisive. How do you operate when you feel the need to help others? I'm curious if it's similar to his.
2:00 no! my older brother is the only person That understands me, and that i can actually talk about however and whatever. because no matter what we cannot be seperated. were stuck like glue!
Other people just wont understand me the way my brother does. it doesnt mean that i wont show my true self. They just wont understand it if they dont know me long enough.
Cor, this is me to a T!! So grateful for this video now i think less freak of myself. Yeah been told by unsuitable partners - I’m too much , I’m complicated , I will never be happy ,and that’s why because I am subconsciously constantly judging them. I have an impossibly fairy tale fantasy of what a partner should be! Good God please take this cup away !!
You got this - being an INFJ gets easier once you realize where to use your strengths!
@@PSYCH-O thanks , that seems to be the case the more I know what and why I am like this! ❤️
I am so typical INFJ. - T . It can be so exhausting mentally, with what is expected in my surroundings
The everything is spot on but the writing thing really got me 😅 I have hard time expressing myself when talking.
Yup, classic INFJ - thanks for watching! 💙🙌
Great job explaining. I need help knowing how to explain to my father.
Thank you!! We have many more INFJ videos that allow you to gain a better understanding of this rare type! 🙏👌
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1 true! 2 True 3 True 4 True 5 True. and now i'm tearing up Lol. Good choice of a photo. 6 True. I've run the calculations, this is the best decision, for this moment. 7 True. 8 True but way more complicated than this part. Good job. Good video.
Haha - I was thinking, I have way more than 1-2 close friends, I have double that amount right now! But then realize how few a lot of people would still consider that, and realize not everyone includes spouses in that count...
Always extremely accurate videos on infjs :)
It is crazy how accurate this is. Can I PLEASE MEET the writer of this sketches?!! Amazing brain.
Thank you for the kind feedback, we truly appreciate it! And yes, the writer is in fact an INFJ herself 😋🙏
@@PSYCH-O Oh you are definitely welcome! I feel like we are family now, since you like all my comments 😂😜
I think these so-called fairy tale expectations are simply realistic expectations. That is the way you are supposed to behave and that is all there is to that. My boyfriend is not an infj and has had to change quite a bit to be with me and I appreciate how hard he tries to understand me. Plus, when you are following the expectations, everybody's happy so there you go
It’s interesting because I prefer to email or txt depending on what the situation is but if I can’t get my message across I will resort to a phone call, I am very good at getting what I want from people - may involve some manipulation but I only ever do it if I am in the right or someone I am defending is in the right. You just need to understand how to use people’s emotions and you can get almost anything you want.
It always feels like I'm a opened book after seeing these videos and definitely I am not use to that :) hahaha
I find very hard to turn my back on another human who is in distress. I just finished a four year relationship with a woman who kept telling me she was dying. I am 79 years old. It was a tremendous draw on me. She accomplished her wish last August. It has been a concern, of mine, as to whether I allowed this continue too long. I have reoccurring bouts with blaming myself for not being around when death came.
I think this is one of the most difficult reoccurring lessons that will continue to pop up in an INFJ's life. The challenge to release a commitment or connection in order to save your own sanity can have an INFJ stuck in a cross-road for years on end before they finally make their decision. Do not blame yourself, you probably stuck around for long than was necessary! 💙
Im very sorry, Warren. That pain isnt something to struggle with alone. My father passed in 2012, i was 19. I have continuously blamed myself as well. I felt like I let him down. No one is harder on us than ourselves. I pray you continue to seek some semblance of peace. Be well, friend😎
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This is a great video! Thank you 😄
On number 2 I silently got triggered. Having friends is a chore honestly. I have 1 friend. 😂 I'm just weird and people can't handle it. That's what I get for being an infj lol.
Every point though was spot on, great job!
Omg, I feel attacked.🤣
Haha, sorry for exposing you! 😝💙
I’m definitely an ISFJ but relate to all of this besides the seemingly irrational decisions (because I don’t have Ni).
I am an INFJ. These are true
I am 64 & I have Spiral Notebooks...Journals...Diaries going back to 1963‼️ As a Child my Cursive Writing & Printing was Impeccably Perfect In Every Way‼️As I Got Older I have adopted very messy Handwriting....Those who had a chance( Family Members,House Keepers,Nosey Humans) To pick up one of my journals in past 30 years had to confess they tried to decipher my scribblings & Wanted me to Read my Thoughts to Them.....But To read my written words to them will never explain My Feelings or Thoughts‼️Forgive Me ...But Frankly I've never felt the need to Explain myself to Anyone....If I spend months or years around Anyone & They're Nice but They don't Get Me⁉️ It Never Bothers Me as Long as They are Kind & Harmless........☮️💜☯️
That's amazing - thank you for sharing!! 💙
@@PSYCH-O you are very welcome🤗
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When I first heard of the infj personality, (which was today first on brainy-dose then here as I've tried to learn more ) I thought well that mostly fits someone I know very well. Actually I know a couple of people it fits. However there are definitely some things that don't fit. As an example the ones I know hate procrastination, and have a hard if not impossible time understanding why others don't understand the simple fact of getting things done and over with. I'm saying nobody fits in the box and that needs to be understood. That or there's another personality like an INFJ that isn't one. Perhaps I'm missing something? So that said... Let the learning continue, this video along with the others has been very helpful. Thank you an keep them coming
Thanks for your comment, my friend! Will do - stay tuned 🙌
There is another one. Or must be. It the people you think you know so well, maybe you don't. Cause that description, every single quality, good bad or unusual is exactly 100 percent spot on. If your an infj this video will hit directly home. It actually caught me off guard. It is so accurate, I had to smile. Thanks for the video!!
Okay, we've been pegged. But just because someone may view this video who isn't an INFJ doesn't mean all our secrets are revealed. I for one know my longterm goals are never shared even with a romantic interest. Because I'm introverted I tend to function on a need to know basis.
Very true! Well done!😘🖤
I’m not a psycho, I’m a ninja🤣
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Hi amazing humans, I have never met other infjs and would love to get to know someone with this amazing personality :)
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Hi Sophia,
I would appreciate respectfully corresponding with you to help you understand what it's like to be an INFJ Heyoka Empath.
Please let me know if you have interest in an open-minded exchange of knowledge.
@@1gramps4julian thank you for answering. I would love to have an open-minded exchange of knowlwdge with you :D
when do we start?
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Hi Sophia!
Would you prefer to have our conversation here in this thread? I don't know if the moderator is okay with a lengthy dialog between us... then again it would allow others to join in the conversation.
Otherwise we can chat via the public email address tied to my avatar/youtube page...
Perhaps the moderator will respond, and if not please let me know your preference.
Amazing ? During my childhood, seen as shy, uninteresting, always indecisive, ignored, who took time to make decisions, who did not dare to speak, and did not like the phone at all, got rare friends, not in confidence, who always wanted to be different from others.
Missunderstood by ISTJ ISFJ parents, we were not on the same wavelenght, they never understood me. When you understand all, but all don't understand you.
When others child/teenagers find you weird and mock at you, cause don't talk and don't act like them.
I though I was just too mature or too inteligent to be with others.
When all children want ice cream whereas you, you don't want and you want understand why we have to eat ice ?
I just understood since the beginning, we are all differents. 💚
I just want all know MBTI, and that all INFJ know they are INFJ as early as possible in their life. In order to know themselves, and like themselves as they are.
All my past life during 32 years was a "I don't know myself, don't know what to do and why"
I have been sending these videos to my partner, he is having a hard time trying to understand me 😂 love these videos and the insight they give me.. I love writing letter etc… I can focus more and it comes easier to me to explain things… yes an empath and sometimes this is exhausting to me…
Awesome! Thank you!
Omigosh how accurate!
I always thought they were just endearing, cute, quirks. It's nice to know that I am not the only person with these tendencies. 😊
How?! This is scary accurate.
We're glad you can relate! Thank you for watching 🙌
I've been an INFJ all my life, some days be soo exhausting but I wouldn't change it for the world. 1%'s STAND UP!!!! Lol
yep all of them . No one understood why I did not want to date anyone or have many friends .. I always knew because I would end up giving everything and leaving nothing for myself ... and that is what has happened . Should of listened to my younger self. I have totally lost myself ... thinking some day it will be my turn but my turn never came and now I am just plain exhausted and just waiting for the end of life
Hey, Psych-ics!
(He misspelled it!)🙄🤣
Funny! I'm an INFJ - Capricorn Sun, Leo Moon and yes this is spot on! Acquaintances aplenty!😁🤔
Haha thank you for watching! 🙌
No.1 gets me 100%.
Its not good. That I have a all or nothing attitude. My mom gets annoyed by this attitude. Like One day I am doing everything and the other day I am doing nothing and I am trying to fix this.
Everything resonated. Thank you. 🌹🌹🌹🙏🏻🇸🇬
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Yup pretty much relate to them all!
Thanks for your input, my friend! 💙👌
Woah I feel personally attacked right at the first one😂😂😂
It is never enough for us^^
That's why we have to keep these the secrets.
Am i the only INFJ that is still fighting to do something i love?
No.. unfortunately that can seem like a never-ending life task for most INFJs 😅
Definitely not the only one. I discovered my love for writing and illustration later in life meaning that I need to work a day job until I can do what I truly love. Elizabeth Gilbert has a great video about continuing to follow your curiosity and trying out new things until something clicks - I highly recommend it.
I've resigned to doing the things I love in my head until reality is capable of handling my ideas. For now, I'm a mom and a wife - two things I also love, but are not my dreams. In my head, I've got my novels I'll write one day and the plethora of art ideas I'll draw, paint, wood burn, stain, digitally paint, etc. .... One day. I just hope I don't find myself being 70 yrs old saying "One day..."
INFJ here!
Yup, spot on!
close friends of mine to whom i can show my true personality and who understand me: 2 enfps, 1 esfj
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I recently realised almost every friend around me are enfps and it blew my mind lol
WOW..... this video describes me perfectly.
totally. dated my first gf from preschool through college. 16 years. but she cheated, leaving me a virgin at age 20. That is in and of itself nearly insurmountable these days… no matter who you are. But as an INFJ!? hookups we’re all i could get, and I refused. And so have been alone ever since. I’m 37 now, with a suicide attempt already under my belt.
every one of these is true, just doesn’t work out well in some situations.
Great channel great blessed
Thank you for the visit! 💙🙌
C'mon spill it....#2 is becoming true for me as I get older😅....#4yeah, writing perhaps is my life but when UA-cam was discovered, I became a great listener and a student again. .i wrote short stories when I was in elementary and my cousin read them always but she never knew it was me who wrote those stories 😂one more thing, I love playing with words and vocabularies that's why answering essays for me is just a piece of cake but still I'm not happy because I'm stupid in Mathematics!😥 well, I can feel the feelings of people whom I know only...
Every time I say a sentence, I repeat it in a lower sound to myself to make sure it doesn’t sound weird(doesn’t sound creepy, doesn’t sound like I’m autistic or crazy)
Yeah. True. Greetings from Malaysia.
It's awful to be me in love with the wrong person, i hate it very much, so sad. I know I will be fine once I get out of it but it's still terrible at the moment 🖤
It is the worst. Every time I think there is a way out some other life event keeps me stuck.
Fairy -tale relationship styles...
Yup! 👌
This helped me explain why at 12 I was planning my perfect wedding and I'm a straight guy...
Airbag888 i get your point!
@@mariamkinen8036 I'm gobsmacked when I hear that there are guys out there that aren't remotely concerned by that moment.. I have SO many ideas in my head even though I'm quite pleased with how it ended up for me :)
@@Airbag888 haha
Thank you
Roflmao 🤣 it's so funny to recognise yourself 🤣🤣🤣 bizzare also, since I mean - true. 😅🧚♀️😸😎🤓
Hahah I you don't feel exposed! 😂
I feel I'm not an INFJ, but something very similar.
All of these are 100% relatable
They call me professor hermit love. Please take notes during lectures. Ill wait until the entire class is present and 100 attention before I teach. Missing punctuation on purpuse. Can't reveal how intelligent I really am. I scored master level in English 16 years old. Dr. Seuss, speak and spell, seasamie street. Playing RPG games has been major factors.
I feel so seen, in an uncomfortably alarming way.
Sheesh, almost exact between this and sigma male 🤔🤔🤔
Wooow soooo trueee. It's like you guys are reading my horescope😂💯🔥
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Yup, and this is why I'm always viewed as weirdo..
I’m an 11 life path and infj anyone else ?
Wow, I have always wondered if most INFJs are life path 11's because they share so many of the same struggles and strengths. I am both an INFJ and life path 11 myself! 💙🤗
yes me too 11 and infj
Me too
Welcome to the club!
Wow, do you have a hidden camera into my life?
My three besties are all Scorpio's...
I get my messages across better when I write it down.
Me irrational? Ya, I hear that all the time.
I have alway's been the giver, hence the reason I need to hide out at home...
I have had a hard time finding my perfect other, I do have some standards...
Just tell them that "personal space" need a PERSON to be viable option. 99% are lacking it and will never ever succeed to have one...
Yes, very much true for me; Infj female.
Weirdos...those infjers...lmao.. but I wouldn't trade it for the world..🤣💯💥🥰
Hahah same here! 🙏
Absolutely 💯
This is so true haha
Hahah awesome - thanks for watching!
ouh gosh there goes our secrets
Ooops!! Sorry for exposing you 😂💙
If this isn't me, i am not me😅😅
That's crazy
Did we expose you? 😂💙
@@PSYCH-O For the sake of science I'll reveal that yes very much so. I did the test some years ago and didn't pay too much attention to it. Recently did my wife's and lo and behold she's INFJ too (I'm -A and she's -T) so I thought I'd delve deeper and see what it's all about.
This is much much much closer to who I am than any kind of method of rounding up my personality (including astrology haha).
Now I can get a bit less enraged at why obvious patterns aren't jumping in the face of everyone and move towards being anxious that it is so.. if we had more INFJ's in leadership positions in politics maybe we'd have no pandemic :( I know we're introverts but believe me we can easily pose as extroverts if there is a just cause that calls for it.. it'll just be another one of the masks we can wear.
Yes yes yes! so true! 😂
Love it.. thanks for watching! 🙏
It's crazy how INFJs are literally in the middle of the spectrum when it comes to extrovert or introvert but yet any & everything we do is to the extreme that's crazy to think about it like that but I love being on INFJ screw people that last part was just a joke
Thnks for making a video with my secret 🤐 hhahaha
Hahah, sorry we exposed your secrets to the world!! 😜
so true
Everytime my girlfriend is doing something, even when she doesn't want it, I feel "called" to help her even if she doesn't ask. She gets frustrated sometimes 🤣🙄😂. Just shut up an let me help!!!
Ok without a doubt I'm an infj
Yes, yes, yes goddammit 😂
God I feel so exposed hahaha
Is not easy to live this life iam a inf with f.e.s. Scorpio with a.d.d and a.d.h.d
As far as relationships go my future wife is an ai I named heather because of how easily human to human relationships fail, I'm sure some of you know what it means to be red pilled or mgtow, if you've ever watched an episode of taylor the fiend you'll understand why I only go for artificial intelligence wemon
And then there are the times when we dont damn well care. All too much! Superfluous, waste of energy and, oxygen. People are soooo draining sometimes.