My Father Was A Paradox, A Tower Of Strength, With A Heart As Soft As Silk -Tochi Wigwe

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  • Whenever doubt clouded my mind, my father would chuckle and say, ‘You really don’t know whose child you are; you will soon find out. And once again, he was right; I have come to find out.
    Tochi Wigwe, Herbert Wigwe's Daughter
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  • @obiageliezeanya4841
    @obiageliezeanya4841 7 місяців тому +349

    I can't even begin to imagine how this lady feels. Losing her Dad, Mom and older brother. Tragic!!. May the Holy Spirit comfort her and the rest of her family. 😢

  • @ugochiada208
    @ugochiada208 7 місяців тому +165

    God heals the broken hearted, and he binds up their wounds.

  • @fistandpen2505
    @fistandpen2505 7 місяців тому +175

    chai so now this poor small girl is the family legacy bearer. May she be guided by above. Wishing her the best

  • @oyindamolaadebowale520
    @oyindamolaadebowale520 7 місяців тому +48

    I couldn't even hold back the tears watching her talk. She is a courageous young lady. May God comfort the family and loved ones.

  • @charlecarlosnga
    @charlecarlosnga 7 місяців тому +68

    So strong and well collected for a young lady.

    • @ivoryabia9182
      @ivoryabia9182 7 місяців тому

      Women are stronger, stop deceiving yourself

  • @SirEminewtons
    @SirEminewtons 7 місяців тому +8

    Thanks to those friends standing beside her. It means the world!!!!

  • @amyrose3166
    @amyrose3166 7 місяців тому +149

    Tochi - God is with you. Angels of God are ministering for you. I pray that the Lord Jesus will make Himself real to you. Jesus has made a promise- He said, I will never leave you nor forsake you. The Bible says, when you pass through the fire, you will not be burned. Yes, darling beautiful Daddy Wigwe’s Queen, this is real fire! But the Lord God Almighty, your creator is with you. I pray for you, the Lord bless you; keep you; cause His face to shine on you; lift up His countenance on you & surround you with His peace in this difficult time. I soak you and your siblings in the Blood of Jesus. You have become their Queen Mother. You can do this & you will do it. Not by power, not by might, but by my spirit says the Lord of Host. Amen 🙏🏾🤗🙏🏾🤍❤Praying for you from London. Auntie K. I’m an Auntie who is not related but whose heart is praying for you. The prayers of the saint availeth much!! 🙏🏾

    • @ifynwa1119
      @ifynwa1119 7 місяців тому +7

      Very very sorry dear, accept my sympathy, it is not easy losen both parents at a time, but our Lord Jesus will make it easy for u in Jesus name Amen.

    • @staceydove7617
      @staceydove7617 7 місяців тому +6

      I'm so sorry for your loss. May their souls rest in eternal peace. May God cover Tochi, her siblings, family and friends with his arms. May the blood of Jesus cover and protect and guide and console Tochi and her siblings. She is beautiful and such a strong young lady. Her father, mother and brother would be proud of her. I am very sorry. Even people who didn't know Dr Wigwe and his family mourn their loss and feel your pain. Praying for you and your siblings, and all your family. What a great loss. ❤❤❤❤

    • @femmededieusankont6025
      @femmededieusankont6025 7 місяців тому +6

      Amen and Amen and Amen to this heartfelt prayer for this young lady on the tragic loss of her parents and brother....from your mouth to God's ears...and God who is the Father of mercies and God of all comfort will do for them more than we have asked or thought, 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @MaggieIgoni
      @MaggieIgoni 7 місяців тому +1

      Amen Amen and an endless Aaaaammmeeennn to the prayer for them 🙏🙏❤️

    • @Holllaoluwa2024
      @Holllaoluwa2024 7 місяців тому +1

      God is your strength, my heart bled, the gap was too much, God will make a way

  • @marthaatoe4189
    @marthaatoe4189 7 місяців тому +56

    I love you Tochi. Only God will heal your heart.

  • @chinwemadu3841
    @chinwemadu3841 7 місяців тому +7

    I cannot fathom the kind of courage it took to do this....smiling with a shattered heart. God is with you Tochi. Big shoes indeed...but I know you will fill them exceedingly...you already started ❤

  • @samuelwilliams8099
    @samuelwilliams8099 7 місяців тому +70

    Tochi, thanks for having the courage to do this. I lost my wife a year ago from pancreas cancer, before my wife passed away, she told me that she would want me to sing one of her favorite songs during the service. I couldn’t have that courage to do that. I hope she will understand me. Tochi, your parents are proud of you.

    • @lilianezeh5528
      @lilianezeh5528 7 місяців тому +6

      So sorry for the loss of your wife. May her soul continue to rest with the Lord

    • @ngofakakoko1139
      @ngofakakoko1139 7 місяців тому +5

      How are you doing now? Keep faith.

    • @franklinchimezieonye1906
      @franklinchimezieonye1906 7 місяців тому +4

      She's very proud already. Be consoled Bro

    • @samuelwilliams8099
      @samuelwilliams8099 7 місяців тому +12

      @@ngofakakoko1139 I am doing better physically today than this time last year. But, mentally I am still struggling. Thank you so much for your concern.

    • @samuelwilliams8099
      @samuelwilliams8099 7 місяців тому

      @@lilianezeh5528 thank you so much.

  • @hassanlawal5579
    @hassanlawal5579 7 місяців тому +52

    Yes indeed!!!!! Your father was a TOWER OF STRENGTH. I know nothing about your dad until the tragic accident on the 9th of February. But I already feel like I've known him for decades. If my mentor (Saniusi Lamido Saniusi) , and Tunde (your dad's driver can speak so highly of WIGWE, it automatically means that he was a great guy. May his loving, compassionate, and empathetic soul rest in perfect peace.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @izu_mbah
      @izu_mbah 7 місяців тому +1

      Amen

    • @MaggieIgoni
      @MaggieIgoni 7 місяців тому +1

      A resounding Amen ❤️❤️❤️

  • @kelechukwuanozyk7605
    @kelechukwuanozyk7605 7 місяців тому +16

    This is so touching. She is a strong woman. This whole thing that happened is a very difficult pill to swallow

    • @femmededieusankont6025
      @femmededieusankont6025 7 місяців тому +1

      You can say that again...but GOD WILL HEAL AND COMFORT THEM THE WAY HE KNOWS BEST....HE IS FAITHFUL

  • @DrHugoMD
    @DrHugoMD 7 місяців тому +50

    Dear Lord, please comfort the hearts of Dr Hebert wigwe's family. Be a pillar of fire and love about them. Grant them peace that passes all understanding.🙏

  • @AladeHammed-g7x
    @AladeHammed-g7x 7 місяців тому +16

    This girl is strong for her to prepare speech and even b standing on her feet there despite the loses

  • @IWishIWasTold
    @IWishIWasTold 7 місяців тому +25

    Seeing my cousin stand by her and i know she's got a great circle of friends… and their fathers.

  • @patriciapoole3339
    @patriciapoole3339 7 місяців тому

    Your dad is watching and is proud of you. Praying for you and may the Angels of heaven encompass around you always . God is with you .🙏🙏🙏
    Blessings

  • @christianaehigiator4823
    @christianaehigiator4823 7 місяців тому +8

    This is really too heavy for anyone to bear. I couldn't hold back tears all through her tribute😢. My dad passed 13 years ago and it still hurts deeply. Until you wear the shoes, you might not know where it pinches.
    May God strengthen you at this very difficult moment. My prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong ❤

  • @roenhrconsult
    @roenhrconsult 7 місяців тому +61

    How can you hurt so much for someone u didn’t know. This death pain o!!!

    • @flojsmoments8253
      @flojsmoments8253 7 місяців тому +1

      I can’t fathom like seriously
      The pain is bleeding
      Just like one Kobe Bryant a volley ball player that plane crashed years ago killing both him and daughter

    • @elizabethomoruyi9769
      @elizabethomoruyi9769 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@flojsmoments8253kobe bryant VOLLEYBALL player. Well done o.

    • @alkebulan254
      @alkebulan254 7 місяців тому

      This is a great loss. Mourning this great Son of Africa from Kenya

    • @sanzyezeugo5851
      @sanzyezeugo5851 7 місяців тому +1

      *** Kobe Bryant is a basketball player

    • @dillionwon6587
      @dillionwon6587 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@flojsmoments8253he was a former basketball player.

  • @zephaniahzaiki-balogun8423
    @zephaniahzaiki-balogun8423 7 місяців тому +16

    So sad loosing father, mother and brother the same day! May their souls rest in peace and I pray that God grants the family members the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable loss 🙏🏿

  • @faithadegor8364
    @faithadegor8364 7 місяців тому +20

    Be strong beloved. Your daddy was indeed many things to all of us. ACHIEVE MORE

  • @queenmeg-nana
    @queenmeg-nana 7 місяців тому +23

    Watching this young lady speak so highly of who her dad was to her broke my heart into a million pieces, I have cried my eyes out.😭😭 She is so brave and strong, God knows I wouldn’t have been able to utter a word.

  • @faithdikeocha8592
    @faithdikeocha8592 7 місяців тому +4

    My tears have refused to stop flowing eventhough I don't know your family. God bless console these souls and grant Wigwe, his wife and son eternal rest.

  • @mlut81
    @mlut81 7 місяців тому +15

    Dear Tochi. Praying for you. May God reveal Himself to you in every day, in every moment through the Holy Spirit. May you always be surrounded by love, comfort, wisdom and protection in the days ahead.

  • @chiomannah3186
    @chiomannah3186 7 місяців тому +12

    Am all tears. Cant imagine what she is going through. May God comfort you

  • @KemiAkerel
    @KemiAkerel 7 місяців тому +7

    Sends me to tears! May the God of all comfort be with you. Amen

  • @ogechiezeji8731
    @ogechiezeji8731 7 місяців тому +25

    Too too sad. God teach us to number our days. Please strengthen these kids. No child should have to go through this. My prayers and thoughts are with this family. The sun shall rise again.

  • @funmi4101
    @funmi4101 7 місяців тому +3

    It is well tochi… I couldn’t even stop crying remembering my late father and mother . It’s hard but don’t worry God is with you always . Hang on to Jesus only he will direct you and be with you every step. God be with you

  • @judemakoju5863
    @judemakoju5863 7 місяців тому +7

    You can’t help but nod to this one. May their souls continue to rest in peace. Indeed Deeply tragic

  • @Uzy38
    @Uzy38 7 місяців тому +13

    This death pained me so much. I never knew I would cry for someone I have never met before.
    Tochi good hearted people are mourning with you all.
    God heal and console you all.

  • @victoriaolofu268
    @victoriaolofu268 7 місяців тому +1

    so emotional, may his soul rest in peace

  • @kanyanumenechi2526
    @kanyanumenechi2526 7 місяців тому +2

    You will meet them in heaven. Am sure you didn't even know this kind of a thing will be fall you.... wondering how you manage to sleep, eat and wake up. Abba, please comfort her and her loved ones extraordinary. Stay elevated

  • @omobamideleshaba2638
    @omobamideleshaba2638 7 місяців тому +7

    Unquestionable God Your word says in everything we should give thanks. I am thanking You so much and very much for preserving the life of Your daughter Toshi . It is not by our might or by power but by Your Spirit merciful Father. I pray that as mountain surround Jerusalem Your presence will continue to shield this daughter of Zion always in every way to fulfil her glorious destiny in Jesus Christ name Amen Amen 🙏

  • @kennymartins8788
    @kennymartins8788 7 місяців тому +15

    Heavenly Father the hour has come for you to give strength and power to the family Herbert left behind. Give them all it takes to bear this irrepressible loss.. may heavens accept the soul of Herbert, his wife and their son. Amen 🙏

  • @ese4741
    @ese4741 7 місяців тому +4

    Never met him but this touched my soul. Lord, you give hope to the hopeless, peace to the weary and you bind up the broken hearted. Lord you do not do wicked things, you do not do wicked things, please show this girl and her siblings that you are now her whole world. I was in 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 watching this... Oh my God comfort Tochi and her siblings. RIP HERBERT, CHIZOBA AND CHIZZY

  • @mimio7614
    @mimio7614 7 місяців тому +3

    She's so brave because I could never. May her parents and brother soul rest in peace. ❤

    • @chieboezeromanus3609
      @chieboezeromanus3609 7 місяців тому +1

      Very brave many can't stand there without collapsing.

    • @lovelynsdiaries8510
      @lovelynsdiaries8510 7 місяців тому +1

      Sometimes you never know how strong you are until you come face to face with a challenge ❤

  • @kelvinogbeide313
    @kelvinogbeide313 7 місяців тому +1

    Oh this breaks my heart seeing her teary eyes....she has lost her pillars but may God console her. My condolences to the entire wigwe family 😢😢😢😢

  • @DorothyDanso-lt2ez
    @DorothyDanso-lt2ez 7 місяців тому +2

    God! How does one survive this? Lots and lots of prayers and calming pills! Lord! Lord! Help these children!!🙏🙏🙏

  • @Riccosfoodandspices
    @Riccosfoodandspices 7 місяців тому

    I couldn't hold my tears.. Tochi you are so courageous.. May God strengthen you and may the Holy Spirit fill the vacuum your Dad, Mum and brother left

  • @kofozy
    @kofozy 7 місяців тому

    I just cannot stop crying throughout her speech 😢😢, so touching, only God can comfort and console you. May their souls rest in perfect peace 🙏

  • @patenieEne
    @patenieEne 7 місяців тому +1

    This lady is supper strong 😢

  • @wystee2895
    @wystee2895 7 місяців тому +2

    Good job. You are a strong lady. May the good Lord grant you the fortitude to bear the loss.

  • @chineduonyekuru2144
    @chineduonyekuru2144 7 місяців тому +8

    May God Almighty comfort you and heal you. May God be for you, the father you loved so much.

  • @isahadam2278
    @isahadam2278 7 місяців тому

    I love her smile

  • @optimalscore
    @optimalscore 7 місяців тому +3

    Every parent should pray & hope that their child speaks of them so beautifully when that time comes. Be strong & brave Tochi, God is with you! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @helenebihor5488
    @helenebihor5488 7 місяців тому +8

    So powerfull

  • @patenieEne
    @patenieEne 7 місяців тому +1

    Only God can hold this family together

  • @akunnaokereke5551
    @akunnaokereke5551 7 місяців тому +2

    God please just shield these children. I see strength but no one should've to be this strong. Losing 3 from your innermost circle in one go....no the enemy did this one.

  • @abiness1
    @abiness1 7 місяців тому +4

    Your father, mother and brother are watching over you . They are now your guarding Angel.🎉

  • @OsaretinOsazuwa-e1j
    @OsaretinOsazuwa-e1j 7 місяців тому

    Her tribute is so sad and torching, I pray God grant them the fortitude to bear their loss. And grace to moved on.

  • @tommyy5041
    @tommyy5041 7 місяців тому +1

    May the good Lord console the rest of the family. Its such a painful exit indeed.

  • @fegoidise7780
    @fegoidise7780 7 місяців тому +1

    This is too much oh God please hold these children in your arms

  • @isabellezionchipochaishe7103
    @isabellezionchipochaishe7103 7 місяців тому +3

    I didn't know this man but I can never begin to fathom ever so GRACE GRACE GRACE GRACE GRACE daughter, all of your siblings, his and his wife's family and the other guy involved's family as well.

  • @gideonighodalo3476
    @gideonighodalo3476 7 місяців тому +1

    Be Strong ❤
    I feel her pain... It's Well

  • @wilfredachom1666
    @wilfredachom1666 7 місяців тому +1

    God bless you, Tochi. You will be greater than your parents.

  • @posjaboateng5556
    @posjaboateng5556 7 місяців тому +2

    I don’t know these people.. but I have cried 🥹

  • @judeagbo6154
    @judeagbo6154 7 місяців тому

    Hmm.....
    Speechless!!
    Rest on

  • @adeola7927
    @adeola7927 7 місяців тому +15

    iT IS WELL WITH YOU AND YOUR SIBLINGS

  • @osujionyebuchi3084
    @osujionyebuchi3084 7 місяців тому

    So teary and unbearable.maybGod Almighty console u and Ur other siblings,grant u the fortitude to bear the loss

  • @okororegale7043
    @okororegale7043 7 місяців тому

    May God comfort you and the ones he left behind.
    There's alot to learn from him.
    Keep shining your light.
    God bless you.❤

  • @amantekim6670
    @amantekim6670 7 місяців тому

    Oh no! This got me so teary.😭 May the good Lord comfort this family.

  • @paulineeboma5377
    @paulineeboma5377 7 місяців тому +1

    What a loss no one should go through. May God grant you and others thw fortitude to bear this loss. Losing a father, mother and brother same day is a monumental loss. May their souls rest in peace. Amen

  • @TriniRoyQuiReyes
    @TriniRoyQuiReyes 7 місяців тому +1

    God Father to the fatheress, and mother to the orphans please comfort and guide this your daughter, for her grief is deep and her burden is heavy, I can't help not crying 🙏🙏 May you be consoled by the Almighty JEHOVAH dear. Jesus is merciful , don' t cry your family shall see His Grace and favour .

  • @enthroned_one
    @enthroned_one 7 місяців тому +6

    ITS WELL TOCHI. BE STRONG......REST IN PEACE HERBERT

  • @Blueangel559
    @Blueangel559 7 місяців тому

    God please, i don't know how you will do this but please heal Tochi and her siblings in this hard time. console them Lord and make their lives happy again 😢❤

  • @dinmatracybrendan8739
    @dinmatracybrendan8739 7 місяців тому

    May God console your family at this time,this is such a painful moment and cant be forgotten..But it is well.

  • @dollieb7009
    @dollieb7009 7 місяців тому

    Tochi, you are an amazing young woman and May God grant you strength and His Peace that surpasses human understanding at this time🙏🏾

  • @ochonganokwu
    @ochonganokwu 7 місяців тому +2

    Such a brave Young lady. You will be fine.

  • @meciboqueaanuoluwapo1367
    @meciboqueaanuoluwapo1367 7 місяців тому +1

    So disheartening 😪
    So heavy o God! May their souls rest in peace 🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @productofgodsgrace4667
    @productofgodsgrace4667 7 місяців тому

    😢😢😢😢 May God console the entire family during this difficult period of grief. This kind of pain is so deep. 😢😢😢😢

  • @israelomoade9069
    @israelomoade9069 7 місяців тому

    Take heart my dear. I knew no amount of consolation can bring back beloved family.
    I pray may the good Lord guide and protect you in all your dealings and give you that heart to bear the loss my dear.
    May the souls of your past parents and your siblings continue to rest in peace.

  • @Ima-Ima70
    @Ima-Ima70 7 місяців тому +4

    Heavenly father console this family

  • @karenihenebiri1245
    @karenihenebiri1245 7 місяців тому

    God will be your greatest help right now ,More grace love...
    RIP to your parents and sibling

  • @aosos8801
    @aosos8801 7 місяців тому

    I can't stop my tears, this girls pain is enormous!!!! My heart aches for her and the entire family. Sad!!! Sad!!! Sad!!!

  • @blessingnwatulegwu5545
    @blessingnwatulegwu5545 7 місяців тому +1

    Oh my GOD! I cannot stop crying 😭😭😭😭

  • @nwakaibefavour9644
    @nwakaibefavour9644 7 місяців тому

    Take heart dear, God is your strength

  • @olajikiemi5910
    @olajikiemi5910 7 місяців тому +1

    Nobody will ever understand the brokenness of losing a loved one! God's way to humble us....

  • @jennyodili132
    @jennyodili132 7 місяців тому

    Is well my darling!I cried too, you are not alone baby girl please be strong for your siblings and family ❤️

  • @georgeesther959
    @georgeesther959 7 місяців тому

    Keep resting Boss Wigwe.
    You were indeed a great leader, boss etc.
    Ur legacy shall never fade away

  • @ok_star81
    @ok_star81 7 місяців тому +2

    I pray The Almighty God to console the Nwigwe family most especially the surviving children.

  • @nazzichess.clotheline
    @nazzichess.clotheline 7 місяців тому

    I don.cry tire. I cant contol myself even. GOD!!!!!!

  • @adamsoluwaseun
    @adamsoluwaseun 7 місяців тому +1

    May all their souls rest on.... what a father!

    • @ifyd.1570
      @ifyd.1570 7 місяців тому

      Yes, what a father!

  • @ChinenyeAnazodo-r6l
    @ChinenyeAnazodo-r6l 7 місяців тому

    Dear God please protect This Lady .

  • @angelaocheme6080
    @angelaocheme6080 7 місяців тому

    Sorry Pretty. May God console you and your siblings. Take heart.

  • @jyruche33
    @jyruche33 7 місяців тому +5

    As i watched this, the only thing I can do was cry, i could only imagine your pain, please be strong, you lost a loving father, may the Holy Spirit comfort you.

  • @adwoaaddai-mensah4816
    @adwoaaddai-mensah4816 7 місяців тому +25

    Be strong Pretty

    • @femmededieusankont6025
      @femmededieusankont6025 7 місяців тому +4

      Awwwwnn.....❤❤ so sweet of you to call her by her late father's pet name, thank you..

    • @DavidErik-km3bo
      @DavidErik-km3bo 7 місяців тому

      And it’s would be nice

  • @obyekenta2317
    @obyekenta2317 7 місяців тому

    I pray for more Grace & strength to bear her loss, & Eternal rest grant unto her departed souls, oh Lord, Amen 🙏

  • @igbokwevictor7675
    @igbokwevictor7675 7 місяців тому +2

    Very touching! My thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire Wigwe.. RIP Dr Wigwe!

  • @ifeomaugwoke-u3s
    @ifeomaugwoke-u3s 7 місяців тому +8

    So sorry.

  • @justinaitam1348
    @justinaitam1348 7 місяців тому

    Tochilov..may God Almighty continue to protect and strengthen you and your family

  • @nengibrown9942
    @nengibrown9942 7 місяців тому

    Look so much like mummy, may God's Spirits comfort you from all side Amen.

  • @nwosueucharia3357
    @nwosueucharia3357 7 місяців тому

    I cried all through while Tochi was reading the tribute,God console you all

  • @ivyoguledo3519
    @ivyoguledo3519 7 місяців тому

    This is so heartbreaking
    May God comfort and be with you and your other siblings 🙏

  • @chieboezeromanus3609
    @chieboezeromanus3609 7 місяців тому

    God is your comforter sis.. loosing 3 people same time is heartbreaking.

  • @AnneObozua365
    @AnneObozua365 7 місяців тому

    This is so overwhelming and I dont even know this family. Now I believe when they say good people dont last. May God bless you all children, the parents of the departed and indeed the entire family. May the Lord give you strength to go through this. May their soul rest in peace. Amen 😭❤💐🙏

  • @sambazzrythm2501
    @sambazzrythm2501 7 місяців тому

    Still crying over my mom since 2021
    May God console this family

    • @anumthelma5357
      @anumthelma5357 7 місяців тому

      Sorry about your loss. She would want you to be happy so please try

  • @jennifernelson3764
    @jennifernelson3764 7 місяців тому +3

    May Honourable H Wigwe his beloved wife and son rest in peace May God’s perpetual light shine on their gentle souls May the Holy Spirit comfort his children enfold them with love and also friends and extended families 🙏🙏🙏💜💚💙❤️🌹💕💕💕💕💕. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy ❤️

  • @angelairabor8903
    @angelairabor8903 7 місяців тому

    😢may the good Lord console you and your siblings

  • @jeremiahgodwinadeniyi1007
    @jeremiahgodwinadeniyi1007 7 місяців тому

    This is sad, may God Almighty console you

  • @estherbriggs8310
    @estherbriggs8310 7 місяців тому

    Take heart Tochi,God got your back.

  • @harveysugarodell2416
    @harveysugarodell2416 7 місяців тому

    This is heartbreaking 💔 😢