It’s also a time and place for everything, as an independent woman, I think it is beyond important to experience independence and sole responsibility to understand what it takes to provide for even my self alone first!
Exactly! I always say I never know how I will deal with something until I embark upon it… but truthfully whilst making that decision I am sound in my position. This will work and I will add value as you add value to me as well.
It’s not a generational thing, it’s more of a cultural thing. Because men from back in the day were more respectful of women then what these so called “men” do today. Men would not have allowed their women to pump their own gas, open their own doors. Today men wait for women to open the doors for them, pay and pump the gas, buy, cook the food, then serve them.
The truth is in relationships you are partners but in marriage, it’s an order. Ultimately, you are not on the same level. There is a divine order in marriage and unity. As a woman you must know your space and place, respectfully.
I just don’t think like that, I’m busy, I have stuff going on so if he don’t answer, I’m going onto the next thing on my agenda. I could never invest my mind into thinking negatively of a person I’m loving and or pursuing or even calling…
I also, say I don’t give too much grace. You’ve already passed certain loyalty tests to get this close to me. Although I may need grace and vice versa. Ain’t too much messing up. You can have grace but you’re not going to gracefully walk all over me. So if I say the buck stops here you know when the buck stops and you get on the horse and ride into the sun and not the dark.
But tbh men who hate women are not even in my zone, I’m not vibrating on that level so those men truly aren’t in my hemisphere. Iron sharpens iron, if you’re giving low, your ripples will flow back low. So, idk about the men who hate women etc because I don’t see them or think of them.
At the end of the day! A woman amplifies and makes fruitful what a man already has and vice versa. People being unequally yolked is there problem and their fault. That’s the life they chose.
Yeah no, do things that make sense as a man, holding the door for everyone while I need to pull out my chair is OD. At a certain point I don’t need you to continuously show me you’re chivalrous. I already know this…
It’s also a time and place for everything, as an independent woman, I think it is beyond important to experience independence and sole responsibility to understand what it takes to provide for even my self alone first!
Yes, I echo. Your relationship should allow you to be You! And the true you comes out in adversity.
Having less or no morals is a concern as well. The issues of life flow from the heart.
Great topic 👏🏿 Some Things we have to unlearn to learn again
It’s truly taught not to make decisions off of feelings because feelings are ever changing.
And we need to control our emotions.
Exactly! I always say I never know how I will deal with something until I embark upon it… but truthfully whilst making that decision I am sound in my position. This will work and I will add value as you add value to me as well.
😂😂🤦🏽♀️ not tired of seeing you!!
It’s not a generational thing, it’s more of a cultural thing. Because men from back in the day were more respectful of women then what these so called “men” do today. Men would not have allowed their women to pump their own gas, open their own doors. Today men wait for women to open the doors for them, pay and pump the gas, buy, cook the food, then serve them.
It’s not hate, they don’t know how to handle women, because they don’t know what they want for themselves 🤷🏽♀️
that is true and some things like that can go for women as well…
Agree!
What about being divinely connected to someone esp after a loss or going through tough times?
what about that?
Do you believe in it?
Do you believe in being divinely connected to someone?
yes of course
The truth is in relationships you are partners but in marriage, it’s an order. Ultimately, you are not on the same level. There is a divine order in marriage and unity. As a woman you must know your space and place, respectfully.
Yes!
But, I’m cooking at home for the family every day! I need outings and dates too.
I just don’t think like that, I’m busy, I have stuff going on so if he don’t answer, I’m going onto the next thing on my agenda. I could never invest my mind into thinking negatively of a person I’m loving and or pursuing or even calling…
No man sat in the car while his woman went into the gas station to pay and pump!!!😂😅
I also, say I don’t give too much grace. You’ve already passed certain loyalty tests to get this close to me. Although I may need grace and vice versa. Ain’t too much messing up. You can have grace but you’re not going to gracefully walk all over me. So if I say the buck stops here you know when the buck stops and you get on the horse and ride into the sun and not the dark.
True grace is different But don’t just give it and not make folk accountable.
There’s someone for everyone. that’s why I don’t call or judge. Cause some woman may prefer that etc.
Having discernment will never allow for a man to use that in you…
One car is crazy tho. C’mom D!
It’s not my place to feel no way about what works for another person. But, it’s clear it’s not for me…
But tbh men who hate women are not even in my zone, I’m not vibrating on that level so those men truly aren’t in my hemisphere. Iron sharpens iron, if you’re giving low, your ripples will flow back low. So, idk about the men who hate women etc because I don’t see them or think of them.
Sis, tbh they don’t even be having enough money lol. They have to bring the package cause… 🤷🏽♀️ let’s be real.
At the end of the day! A woman amplifies and makes fruitful what a man already has and vice versa. People being unequally yolked is there problem and their fault. That’s the life they chose.
Yeah no, do things that make sense as a man, holding the door for everyone while I need to pull out my chair is OD. At a certain point I don’t need you to continuously show me you’re chivalrous. I already know this…
One car is crazy tho. C’mom D!
lol 😝
gotta do what you gotta do sometimes lol