RANT: I Am LEAVING The Star Stable Community (Dark Knights, Bullying, Fights, Drama, Etc)

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  • Опубліковано 20 січ 2025

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  • @MiaTheGamer
    @MiaTheGamer  Рік тому +47

    A big reason why I can't deal with the Star Stable Community is the toxic negativity. Yes, toxic positivity sucks. But toxic negativity is a huge issue nobody ever talks about in SSO. When you constantly focus on the bad, no wonder why you are always upset at the game. There is no room to be happy, and Dark Knights are constantly telling everyone they are so good for "saving the game" while they try to justify sending hateful messages or bullying to players. It is a competition for who can be the best player in SSO and I'm really sick of it. It's so serious and I wish we could all just have fun instead of fight. It's like nobody knows how to get along. It doesn't matter if you are a white knight or dark knight, there is just no place to speak kindly to each other and it's really sad. People want you to hate the game like it is evil meanwhile others want you to love the game like it is an actual religion. It's so political. People are breaking friendships up over this game. Nobody like loves each other, they are just fighting and it's so exhausting. People don't love you, it's just all hate. It's so depressing and I'm shocked that a game about HORSES has a community like that. Please stop being dumb and sending hate to players or even UA-camrs. It doesn't accomplish anything but show that you are miserable. You can critique a game and want the best for it, you can love the game and want the best for it, but it is not an excuse to send hate or even bully people or stop being friends with those who love you. ✌

    • @em..lovescats123
      @em..lovescats123 Рік тому +1

      agree with this. there were so many times i wanted to quit the game bc of the global chat. someone was spamming and another person said 'ew ur so autistic' and i am autistic so i said they were ableist bc thats how i saw it. they said that i didn't even know what ableist meant and it was probably true but i just saw it that way. then they said how im not autistic and like how would you know?? i was so mad so i exited the game and was planning to move to another server but i knew that all servers are like this and i just wish there were servers with nice people :(

    • @ryefieldshiningsun
      @ryefieldshiningsun Рік тому +1

      it would be great to go back to the times when the internet was just a simpler place where people only had fun and didnt overreact to everything.

    • @corinneeaglebridge
      @corinneeaglebridge Рік тому +1

      Yeah, I get this so much. I had to completely stop watching sso UA-cam a few years back because I noticed it was just poisoning my enjoyment of the game, it was like everything SSE did was wrong, no matter what. Not allowed to be happy about any update or new feature. I’ve since found a way more positive community on ssoblr (tumblr) and discord, though I’ll admit to still heavily blocking people on there and just curating a space where we can be happy about new things, and where the criticism is more constructive than just plain negativity.
      All that to say, I super understand why you would leave the community, and I wish you all the best!

  • @kallyywallyy
    @kallyywallyy Рік тому +20

    Don't even have to watch the video! One of my main reasons why I left is that the SSO community is one of the most pathetic, hateful and immature communities I've ever been in. It's a kids game and it really shows. 💀

  • @insertaname2485
    @insertaname2485 Рік тому +10

    I hope you are able to get into more friendlier communities relating to things you enjoy, it just seems like nowadays it's hard to find a big community of something popular that is at least mostly chill and mostly drama free, though there are big communities that are mostly chill, but they are very rare to the point when it's like trying to search for wild owl flying in the sky in the middle of the day, they are that difficult to find.

  • @_Chessa_
    @_Chessa_ Рік тому +4

    Its okay Siren. You have made many amazing videos I’ve watched about star stable and it’s becoming very two sided at the moment. I can understand why you feel this way.
    I thank you for letting us know what is happening.
    Maybe I’m wrong but I feel it’s like this kind of argumentative stuff is happening in most fan circles on just about anything.
    It’s an interesting thing to witness since we are now more than ever connected to each other thanks to online and at the same time so distant and won’t take any different world view unless it’s the same as our own about topics, not always the case. It’s not a bad thing in of itself it’s just very interesting for me to see happening across discord and reddit and UA-cam.
    And that is fine it’s not good or bad in my opinion.
    I used to have a friend that disagreed with me on heavy topics.
    But we could still respect each others views without negative or toxic comments towards each others views on it and still be friends.
    Now it feels like I’m walking on egg shells at times on new topics.
    I feel at a loss but I don’t feel it’s their fault it’s just a time we humans are experiencing right now perhaps.
    I have come to accept that part of humanity and myself wether for good or for worse they can have their views and I can be respectful of it and I can have my views and more times than not, I will get hurtful comments. So I can understand how you are feeling right now.
    Learning how to stop an argument or squabble is what I hope to achieve in the future. Or just for me learn to block out the worse offenders that wish I were gone.
    You are mature and very brave for sharing this with us. And wanted to let you know that.
    Apologies for my giant paragraph. If you read the entire thing thank you and sorry again.
    I’m a bit immature minded here myself. I’m working on this part of me.

  • @sarabobarafeefifoe
    @sarabobarafeefifoe Рік тому +2

    I agree and have been thinking about making the same decision. I played almost 5 years ago and I genuinely can’t remember how the community was back then, but now it is incredibly toxic. I had a former friend on Night Star be openly homophobic and shove her religion onto me while I am bisexual, and clubs have reported her for going after children as she’s an adult.
    I just can’t remember major things like this happening back then occurring so often. It’s exhausting. Especially with this new chat filter system, people can override it or go around it so easily.

    • @sarabobarafeefifoe
      @sarabobarafeefifoe Рік тому

      I just miss being an innocent little kid on Star and not realizing the toxicity right in front of me 💔 people are just really bold with no regrets lately

  • @natiart
    @natiart Рік тому +8

    Even though i just found you on youtube and you have opened many people's eyes to SSO problems, thank you for your videos because they are well made and sometimes funny, thank you for your dedication to the community and I wish you happiness

  • @thatoneperson1208
    @thatoneperson1208 Рік тому +9

    Personally, I don't think it's that deep. All communities have haters and white knights sso is probably one of the few that I would say are way less toxic than others. Have you seen Valorant and Apex Legends? It's a ces pool of hate. The sexism, racism, and homophobia, the Sso community doesn't compare. Plus, I can't even take a majority of them seriously as they are usually kids or just immature high schoolers. Likeeee Idk why so many people take it seriously LMAO.

    • @AmeliaDreambell
      @AmeliaDreambell Рік тому

      some of us take it seriously because we don’t do anything wrong and get doxxed, get sent paragraphs of racial slurs, have their boyfriends get s**ually harassed just for being a dude on this game & a lot of other garbage. ive been in plenty of communities including the ones you’ve mentioned and ive never been harassed as much as i have being in the sso community/ being an sso content creator. just because you don’t think it’s that deep, doesn’t mean it isn’t for other people.

    • @thatoneperson1208
      @thatoneperson1208 Рік тому

      ​ @Amelia Dreambell Your probably not experiencing harassment in the other communities because there is actually mature people over there. Again, sso's community is filled with little children and teenagers being nonsensical. When you become a content creator haters come with the territory. Again, if all these bad things are happening it's really not that hard to leave. You could always try exposing these people and getting them off your ass, no one wants to talk to racists or fuckin creeps. There's no really reformation for this shit hole of a community, so just do what you want and ignore it. Letting hate get to you is letting them win

  • @user-aesthetichere
    @user-aesthetichere Рік тому +7

    You're good, Siren - you're better than good! You are absolutely human for leaving this community and supporting it from afar and you're allowed to focus on what you want, instead 💖 I continue to wish you the absolute best with what you do from here on!

  • @aranara_song
    @aranara_song Рік тому +6

    To be honest, most communities are this way. I don't get involved with online communities, I'm better off just enjoying the thing and leave social interactions for real life, and I do this with everything.

  • @elizzabeth255
    @elizzabeth255 Рік тому +2

    Fully support your decision 🥰 my SSO server is thankfully drama free and I stay away from the toxic community. You should always make the right choices for your mental health and I'm proud of you for realizing when something is taking a toll on you 💗 thank you for all the videos and I will always continue to support you!

  • @_.SakuraaX_
    @_.SakuraaX_ Рік тому +7

    Goodbye Mia I’m gonna stay in the community forever tho 😭

  • @annabanana4978
    @annabanana4978 Рік тому +1

    I relate a lot, I don't think I have talked on global for ages, I pretty much just talk on my club and do the racing grind. That is all sso is now for me.

  • @anestrawberrychild
    @anestrawberrychild Рік тому +2

    Bye😰... I hope you have a good/great life after leaving. I wanted to leave it as well but i got back when i joined a club on random day when i looked at update.

  • @lydiashywild
    @lydiashywild Рік тому

    i'm late but i really agree with you on the dark knights thing, they are always full grown adults. like stop ripping the skin off star stable's bones, they don't care about you lol. it's just funny to me because i know those adults have better things to be doing, but they are sitting there complaining about a children's game like it's life or death. great video!

  • @chloekhamxox
    @chloekhamxox Рік тому

    you're so fucking funny and honestly real, ive been playing w myself for years LMAO, nobody needs negativity, block it out

    • @MiaTheGamer
      @MiaTheGamer  Рік тому

      Thanks! This reply is so late but I really appreciate it

  • @blackcat..
    @blackcat.. Рік тому +1

    Totally agree with you, the community can be so draining x well done for knowing to focus on your other interests and what makes you truly happy x - love ur vids

  • @mxria1447
    @mxria1447 9 місяців тому

    i only became fully aware of sso's toxic team and how bad the game is recently. And let me tell you its changed my whole opinion on the game. I have heard controversies about the game and watched documentaries but what REALLY woke me up was Rattle's videos about sso. I binged watched them today and yesterday and it rlly woke me up.. so dissapointed

  • @987liss
    @987liss Рік тому +2

    random question but I've noticed in your videos that you take like five or six or so pictures at a time, is there a reason for that? 🤔🤔

    • @MiaTheGamer
      @MiaTheGamer  Рік тому +2

      i stim really bad and just keep spamming the butttons i dont mean to but like it is what it is lol but it originally started bc my computer wont save the photos sometimes so i like need to spam it

  • @dazedd2531
    @dazedd2531 Рік тому +1

    Wish you the best and keep your head up!! We don’t deserve you Siren 💕💕💕

  • @peysonhorseyspam
    @peysonhorseyspam Рік тому +1

    Hold up this just popped up on my fyp and it says it’s from 4 months ago.. why didn’t you actually leave?

  • @starstablefanplayer9454
    @starstablefanplayer9454 Рік тому +1

    I like how you take pictures with ur horse in game and instead of one picture you take like three or four lol , i like that its silly. I used to do that.

  • @Moogsymug
    @Moogsymug Рік тому

    i agree lol i never really bine in the SSO community but all games got this problem with white knights and dark knights. they just gotta chill out a little ;w;. like its a game, a game can have flaws and a game can have good things people dont need to fight over it. if someone dislikes something thats ok, if someone really likes something thats ok, they dont need to fight about it ;w; (also sorry if wording was bad ;-;)

  • @xxdivineblossyxx5596
    @xxdivineblossyxx5596 Рік тому

    I understand what your point is as far as how toxic it is but, i really recommend Cookie Canyon it is much more calm, i usually dont see any toxic crap. love your content!

    • @maddy7418
      @maddy7418 Рік тому

      cookie canyon, aka "drama canyon" . that server triggered my PTSD

  • @KorraHDAMV
    @KorraHDAMV Рік тому +1

    ok bye don't look back xx

    • @em..lovescats123
      @em..lovescats123 Рік тому +6

      they're talking about you lol. so glad you took the time to comment tho, you could also just leave

    • @KorraHDAMV
      @KorraHDAMV Рік тому

      @@em..lovescats123 What you need to do is sue your doctor for damaging your skull during birth causing brain corruption- take your psych meds while you're at it.

    • @em..lovescats123
      @em..lovescats123 Рік тому +1

      @@KorraHDAMV will do, thank you

  • @just_floral
    @just_floral Рік тому +1

    Girl you have made like 10 of these and never have left-

  • @ana-cb3qo
    @ana-cb3qo Рік тому

    how ironic. my name is ana, and your name is mia.

  • @Jaydenstarry33
    @Jaydenstarry33 Рік тому

    I'll keep your account safe for you!!:) Don't worry you can give me your account I will treat it good!!

  • @fatcat5817
    @fatcat5817 Рік тому

    It is part of internet culture est through from our alt-right founders! As a internet vet, its continued even by the alt-left. (Ironically enough) 😂 Get off your high horse! *news flash* Even if all the internet gets the CCP treatment, the internet will still thrive through Tor, and P2P internet. (The BIG Bad Dark Web! 🙀*gasp* 8-chan and "That Gosh Darn Kiwi Farms!" - Mentally insane babyfur)

  • @VeinInthings
    @VeinInthings Рік тому

    Both is awful