Nice to have a place for a frank discussion of this experience. Today is my second day after surgery. I'm home and I'll have the catheter in for another week. The pain has been minimal so far. I'm more afraid of when I have to take out the catheter. There have been some clots, but not a lot. So, I'm glad for that. However, the issue right now is bowel movement. It is a bit scary at this time. I've been taking Miralax to get it going and not so much as of yet. I'm afraid to bear down at all. Anyone else have to deal with this?
@@californiahikebike Having had a painful UROLIFT recovery 5 years ago, I was very hesitant to get the TURP. However, Yes, it was so much less problematic and less painful. I can't understand why the UROLIFT is considered less invasive as a procedure than the TURP.
Thanks for info. Late to the thread but I had good success with Colace as a softener. Don’t want to get dependent on anything but food. Have had success adding canned pumpkin to oatmeal and smoothies.
Thanks for the frank discussions on your TURP experience. I watched your 9 day post op post a few months ago and it was pretty much the catalyst that got me to schedule the TURP that I had been putting off for a couple years. I had the procedure on Friday 12/8/23. I turned 61 on 12/14. So far this is the best birthday/Christmas gift I could have given myself. I was in the hospital for one night. I went back the following Monday to get the catheter removed. My prostate was very large and quite a lot of tissue was removed. Dr said my procedure took longer than most because of the size. So far my recovery has been way better than I expected. I'm in excellent shape and health for 61.I've had the expected bleeding and bloody urine, especially for almost 2 weeks from day 9 when I began passing scabs. Some were so large that I wondered how they got out. I've been shocked at how little pain that I've had. I never once took any pain meds. I went back to work on 1/2/24. I haven't been back to gym nor had sex since the procedure. I'm getting a little anxious for both but I'm trying to be good and follow Dr orders. My wife has been strict on me as well. I see the surgeon again on 1/10. I hope he turns me loose with no restrictions. I haven't worn the depends for 3 days now (this is 1/6). I am so glad I had those to put on after the catheter was removed. I would have never thought of those on my own. Thanks. I know my experience so far has been better than typical but if anyone out there is fed up with not being able to pee, then by all means don't put it off like I did. I don't think I realized how negatively the BPH was affecting my life. I do also ride a motorcycle but it is winter time here in West Va so that will have to wait till spring. I did go on a organized group first hike on New Years day at a local state park that was 2.5 miles. It was an easier hike than I'm used to so I didn't have any issues afterwards. Sorry for the rambling, I just wanted to say thank you for the info and to let folks know that the TURP is not as barbarian as some have said. Ride safe!
That's good news my friend! Be careful even on the easy hikes. I did the same and it made me start bleeding again. When you are in good shape it's easy to start feeling better and over do it. As far as the sex take it slow....literally. The "warm up" , otherwise called foreplay will help the retrograde. Most of the time it is normal and feels normal for me. Feels like it's gotten better over the 2nd half of the year post op so don't get discouraged. I'll do the 1 year update soon....
@californiahikebike Great I'll be looking forward to that one. Thanks for responding and the advice. I also meant to ask how long after the procedure did you wait before intimacy? My Dr was a little vague on some things. Ken
Thank you for your information, I have watched both of your videos about the surgery and the 6 months recovery, I will be having my TURP surgery in next few weeks and you have really put me at ease. Thank you very very much.
Thanks to all men for sharing! I know how difficult this for men to talk about. We need to have more discussions about this topic and not have to worry about being ashamed and embarrassed. I'm very proud of everybody who has shared. I am now considering TURP and Optilume. I have been getting prostatitis about every 4 to 6 months. I wanted to hold out as long as I could before surgery but the prostatitis is getting to be too much. I'm sending good vibes to whoever needs it today.
Again, thanks for your open, informative videos - really helpful in the honest detail. Wishing you all the best from the UK, and my regards to sunny California
I’m glad your TURP has been a success. And yeah, it’s hard restricting your activity when you’re used to being busy. Your surgically modified prostate also lets you know if you apply too much pressure on it while sitting early in your recovery process. I’m six weeks out from my surgery and I have to say I’m satisfied. Its great to be able to pee freely again. I had forgotten what it was actually like.
2 weeks post surgery today. The first week fell across Labor Day weekend and my cath stayed in for a week. That was the worst part, just a huge annoyance along with some minor discomfort. Getting rid of that thing was pure Heaven. Very little post op pain but for some irritation and burning at the end of the pee. The blood level goes right along with the level of activity. I began passing some small clots over the past few days. Today, the doctor says I'm doing well - pathology was clear and symptoms are normal. Oh by the way... I'm peeing like I can't remember how good. Don't put this off, guys... it's not a big deal.
Sounds a lot like my experience. I think the one thing I would do differently is talk to the doc about the removal of the cath and make sure it's not extended due to holiday or doctor's day off etc. Thanks for posting.
@@californiahikebike Absolutely! Hard to believe the surgical center doesn't provide a pair of Depends to wear home. Thanks again for taking the time to provide this very candid and much needed information. When asked if I felt I understood the risks and healing process, I could confidently answer "Yes" because I had watched both of your videos. You provided a much more thorough and reasonably paced overview of what to expect. Home now and feeling "tender" so I'll be resting up for a few days. Thanks again.
Thanks for the information, it was delivered in a frank and honest manner. I'm pretty sure I'll have to get done sometime over the next several years so now I'm a little better prepared.
I had green light TURP surgery and recovered quite fast. It was my second in eleven years after my first one. I was peeing OK but the problem was bleeding that was caused by a capillary that broke. Seems that the prostate continues to grow and the capillaries within stretch and sometimes can break. I had so many blood clots that backed up into the bladder that they blocked the flow of urine. They flushed the bladder and the surgeon sealed off the broken capillary cut out excess regrowth and now all is fine. What surprised me was the total lack of bleeding and scabs during recovery unlike my previous TURP. Flow now is excellent. I had a great Doctor.
Thank you for these videos. They were a great help and encouragement. My own surgery was uneventful, had the foley cath for 24 hours. Bloody urine for the first few weeks as expected, lessening bit by bit until around the 6th week and that was that. There was a scare on the 10th week where the stream diminished until one evening it stopped and had horrific bladder spasms. Went to the E.R. where they put in a foley catheter, instant relief. Wore that for 10 days (lots of clots and tissue came out). Went to the urologist where they removed it. Urinated just fine. They taught me how to self cath which was truly easy and no big deal (on paper it looks like he-l I know). For the past month I pee like I did 30 years ago. I might get up 2x a night. During the day maybe every 2.5 to 3 hours. No more slowing stream near the end with lots of dripping out. It's a fine youthful stream now. Providing you trust your surgeon I would highly recommend this procedure. On another note: Before I settled on the TURP I told a dear friend who's a kidney transplant surgeon (and general surgeon) about it. It so happened that his surgical partner's spouse was a urologist and offered to get his take on it. He called back and told me his contact still feels the TURP is the best way to go over some of the newer and progressive methods. I hope this helps some of you with your decision.
Hello, and thank you for sharing so fully on a topic that is very personal. I’m just three weeks out from my surgery in Manhattan. Since I live four hours travel time from NYC the surgeon gave me one night in New York Presbyterian Hospital. His other patients who are local he sends home with a catheter in place which they are to remove themselves. In the hospital the doctor’s resident removed the catheter in the morning and I voided rather quickly with no problem. The hospital released me at 1:30 that afternoon. About 5 pm I developed urinary retention because of swelling and went immediately to the ER just nearby and got another catheter, was sent back to the hospital guest house and wore that for a week after which I removed it myself with no problem though I was creeped out at the thought, before hand. It was no problem and not painful at all. Since then, now three weeks post-op, I’m doing well, still a little tinge of blood at initiation and then none. My stream isn’t a great waterfall, but I don’t need to worry continually where the next pit stop is. I’ve gone as long as four hours without voiding. I never saw any examples of scabs voided, although I’m aware that it is a possibility. Thanks for mentioning time frame for lifting things. What I want to know is when I can have wine or a cocktail. I was thinking about a month out. I realize that it is the bladder that is relearning its role with the new conformation of things down below. Many thanks for your personal story so artfully told. It would have helped me had I seen it before TURP, but it is still full of good information. My doctor used the acronym TUVP as in transurethral electrovaporasation of the prostate.
Hi and thanks for the videos. I'm a UK Patient, just 7 days post op as of today. It was amazing, I didn't need any painkillers in hospital. No nausea or dizziness, even straight after my surgery. In fact the only evidence that I had even had the surgery was the catheter. I was sent home on Sunday, without any follow-up meds. Since getting home though i have felt nauseous in that I fancy something. I cook it and can't face it. I'm getting over that now though. Passing urine has been my biggest problem. I was given a 3000 mls jug by the ward for getting caught short and have found it a godsend. It's far easier, quicker and tidier to grab that, than to rush to the bathroom. My urine is only just beginning to run clearer, but still burns like heck. And there are plenty of clots so that's a relief. I've found your videos a great help when it comes understanding better the side effects of my surgery. I've been told to stop with the TAMSULOSIN but wouldn't let them prescribe FINASTERIDE as I really didn't like the sound of the side effects. I'm very happy with my overall progress and I'm looking forward to not cursing whenever I go to the loo lol. Take care.
Good to hear...depending on how large your prostate was and how much they had to remove you will most likely still have some blood and the clots will still come out albeit smaller and smaller as time goes on. Take the recovery instructions seriously in terms of the lifting of weight and other active movements. or you will bleed some more. Good luck!
@@californiahikebike Thank you so much for replying. Yes the blood is just beginning to run much clearer. The burning/ irritation and clots aren't as bad either. Took myself for a walk for the first time yesterday. It was just to my local shop (store) and probably a quarter mile round trip. I only just made it back to my bathroom, which was a little worrying. My only worry now is that when I do eventually return to work, I have 1/2 mile walk just to my local train station. Ive been told that since my job can be quite heavy going, that I will be off for atleast 6 weeks. Usually there's a short wait for my train. Then it's a 10 minute journey and a 1 Mile walk at the other end. I spend my 10 hour day mainly my feet. Would you believe I'm a Hospital Theatre Porter (not the same Hospital I had my operation though). Then there's the return journey with a 30 minute wait for the train. I'm very worried about incontinence as you can probably understand. I wonder, did you have any such problems and have they passed. Thanks once again and good luck with your continuing recovery. Very sorry to have waffled on for so long. Take care. Ken.
@@thesilent_gamer5137 It was only at the beginning when I was drinking a great deal of water to flush the system after surgery. That feeling of having to go passed with a week or two. Hopefully will be the case with you as well. Good luck and take it easy.
Having a TURP next Monday (29 July) and have watched the "watch this first video" 4 times and the 6 month update 3 times. Got all my supplies lined up and ready to go. I was a bit concerned about bowel movements so, after reading the comments below, I've added Colace to my supply list. Thanks for posting these 2 videos. I consider them "Must Watch" prior to and after the procedure.
There are a number of procedures out there now and it is big business. The TURP is still the gold standard and for a reason. It works. The suffering that many men put themselves through because they are embarrassed to have their private parts under scrutiny is unfortunate. Imagine having those days of rushing to the bathroom only to dribble or sit on the toilet for half an hour trying to vacate your bladder. Up 4-6 times a night and feeling exhausted the next day. The TURP should eliminate all of those issues. You will regain a normal lifestyle. I can only encourage all men to deal with their prostate issues quickly and maturely.
Thanks for the update! I'm about 6 weeks post TURP. My bleeding stopped at 3 weeks, I was beginning to think I had a problem but it did finally stop. I have no problem urinating at all, but my problem is I have to go quite often and when I do there is only about 1/4 of a cup that comes out. Then I will have to go again throughout the day. I get up at least twice per night to urinate. The nurse (haven't been able to see my doctor since the first meeting) told me this should subside and it takes time for the bladder to get back in shape and communicate with your urge to go. Thanks again for the update.
Terry...honestly I'm not a doctor but that answer doesn't sound right. Most of the guys responding on this and the first post that didn't have any problems reported peeing like a 16 year old and emptying the bladder from day one when the catheter comes out. I would ramp up the request to see the doctor. You should have almost instant relief after the surgery but I found this article that you should read. www.newyorkurologyspecialists.com/bph/retention/after-turp/ It's also possible you have a UTI. Whatever is going on, I wouldn't accept the "wait a few weeks" response.
@@californiahikebike I forgot to mention they did do a sonogram and comfirm my bladder is emptying fine, and lab work and no UTI's. The nurse works exclusive for my Doctor and sees all his cases post opp, I guess this is quite common. So my issue I feel the urge to go before the bladder is full. I'll let you know as time goes on how I do...Thanks for the reply and doing your videos!
Terry, i'm 10 weeks out and experiencing the exact same thing as you describe. Same answer from the doc. Hoping the need to pee so frequently will subside. I also had a stricture form near the end of the urethra that made for a messy stream at times. The doc stretched it out a bit (not fun but effective) and saw immediate improvement. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@@californiahikebike Actually my experience was the same as TerrydeAlaska. It's getting better now but that was my experience too. The amount of urine died off towards the end of the day, and I got up twice a night, and only a little came out. But now that's getting better. In the morning after my first glass of water, it empties like a firehose, and did this right from the start. That's happening more in the latter part of the day (evening), so that's how my recovery went too.
Im also having surgery comming right up and found your video most helpfull . The pads and gauze info will be a lifesaver, Thank you for making these videos and happy biking my friends.
Thank you for all the great info. I have not had the surgery as of yet but if/when I do, I will follow your great recommendations. Again, thanks for taking the time to make you very informative videos about TURP !!
You're welcome Mike. Good luck with your upcoming procedure! See this one also since you haven't had the surgery yet: ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.htmlsi=LiX2eyz0mDAcksSj And don't forget the list of supplies to get before surgery - links listed in the description of video in this comment.
I am now 6 weeks post TURP and life is so much better. The first couple of days after the procedure were a little uncomfortable but I smile every day now. I saw my urologist yesterday as part of the surgery follow up and he did a flow test to insure things are where they should be. They are. The first thing he said was I had no cancer. During the TURP they send a sample of the prostate to the lab to check on that possibility. So it is always in the back of your mind. For the last three years my PSA levels were high 8's and going into the 9's. My urologist felt the readings were in the high range due to the increased size of the prostate. The numbers seemed to be pretty steady so he didn't think it was a cancer concern.
Thanks for the info about what to expect after TURP procedure. Your info was greatly appreciated. Being concise, frank and given in a measured and calm manner was reassuring. I had a golf ball sized bladder stone removed 7 years ago and now currently have smaller stones and not sure what the doctors want to do. Unfortunately i live in a community with less than 200 residents so my medical resources are limited and will involve scheduling to a larger city for help. Not even sure what procedure will be involved to alleviate my current condition but if TURP is advised i thank you for heads up post surgery info. Continued success for you and yours and for your helpful information. Thanks again
Thanks for this video. I'm 53 and have been monitoring my PSA for about 15 years. A couple of years ago, it doubled, so I had an MRI and fusion biopsy done, finding 2 PI-RAD lesions on the transitional zone, diagnosed with BPH. I have been on Flomax and Rapaflo (larger dose later). The Rapaflo gives me retrograde ejaculation. At first it freaked me out, but now I don't mind it so much. Two years later, a recent MRI (yesterday) showed I have a new PI-RAD4 lesion in the peripheral zone, which isn't great news (90% of prostate cancers happen there, I hear). I still have to talk to my doc about it, but I imagine we're going back in for a fusion MRI to get a targeted biopsy done. While it isn't 100% that it is malignant, my prostate is growing, so I'm preparing myself by finding out about all the procedures. Thanks for your frank video. I really appreciate it. Helps to listen to other guys who have been through it.
Great video and thanks for the info. I had the procedure 1 week ago. Had the catheter removed 2 days later. I voided fine at the doctor appointment. So far, so good. I am experiencing the post surgery things that you mentioned, like the reddish/cherry urine and scab tissue here and there. Had a lot of stinging pain at first, but that has subsided a lot. Definitely need to drink plenty of plain water. My doctor went over everything and he explained it all very well. Everything has pretty much went as he said it would up to this point. Watching videos on the procedure will definitely help give some insight on it also. I see my doctor next week for follow-up. Again, great video, very informative!
I'm right at my 6 months now Aug 2024 from TURP surgery and I can say its great! Just like I was in my 30's and I'm mid 60's now, Everything Rob says in this video is pretty much the same as I had experienced! I waited to long to have this done because I was scared but now I wish I had done it at least 5 years sooner
Thanks for the in-depth experience review. I am currently mulling HolEP (basically a laser TURP) and PAE (Prostatic Artery Embolism, where they essentially cut the blood flow to the prostate, causing it to shrink). I think with the HoLEP I will be looking at similar recovery to your TURP procedure. The PAE is a little less invasive and I think a little longer period of time before you start seeing positive results from the procedure. The one thing I like about the PAE idea is you preserve your options down the road and your urethra remains intact after the procedure.
Procedures are advancing all the time. It's important to do your research and decide what's best for you and your circumstances. Good luck whichever way you go!
Thanks for the 6 month review. I gave up riding motorcycles when I turned 74. I still own a small Honda Shadow Aero. It is the 750 version. I’ve ridden bikes all my life and it was not an easy choice to make. Every year I would leave my home in Massachusetts and ride out to the west coast. It was usually a 10,000 mile round trip. My last ride was in a BMW R1200GSA. Great motorcycle with a very poorly designed seat. My prostate paid dearly….. I used a medical donut for most of the 11,000 mile trek. I even sold my Ebike, it was impossible to ride. Anyway, thanks again for the follow up. Sounds like you are happy with your decision…..
Yeah BMW seats suck but love the bikes! One of my first videos was this answer to the seat issue. ua-cam.com/video/wKmpwV0PIEE/v-deo.htmlsi=uu5GcM4FD42kNW8a As far as the TURP, wouldn't change a thing!
Thanks. Found this second video just as helpful. Wife watch them as well. Ready to take the next step to have surgery. Loved the big smile when you described how you have your youthful flow back . Hehe.
Thank you for posting these and thank you to your wife for her support. Your hiking comments are very important for me. And most important the sex encouragement. My wife is very concerned. Intimacy is important on many levels for both of us. Keep it up! Thanks
@Thecakecrusader15 I only recall it for first few days. Watch the other video. You can see what my demeanor was because I shot that video while recovering. ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.htmlsi=PVp5b7SCl3K0Y3Jq
Getting ready for a TURP in August. Thanks for the great info. I watched your first video and will be doing some shopping beforehand. Happy riding!! (I can't wait to pee like a race horse again 😀)
Thanks for your insightful peak into your journey. I will be having the surgery in the next couple of months and you've answered many of my questions and eased my fears. How long had you had symptoms before you decided to take the plunge? I am 58 and first had issues 4 or 5 years ago. I am very ready to be able to pee a good stream again. After 6 months do you have any residual effects, or do you feel perfect? Thanks for your time. Alden Seib
I actually feel pretty good. The only residual effect has been the retrograde discussed in this video. Be sure to watch the first one I did. Even more important since you haven't had yours yet. ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.html
Thanks for information. Had mine 2 months ago. Just a tiny amount of leakage at the moment, but still improving. Sex life back to normal. 1st orgasm 9 days later by partners hand. Full penetrative sex 3 weeks later. Age 73. Very satisfied with urine flow. Tamsulosin medication not required now. Retrograde ejaculation not an issue because had vasectomy many years ago. Wore adult pull up nappies for about 3 weeks, now just wear small absorbent pads, (Tena) in normal underwear. From UK. Tena pads £4.50 for ten from Tesco supermarket. Get well soon to all patients.
Great fantastic very encouraging. I’m the same age. And will have to have same procedure. First orgasm 9 days later that’s great!! Especially when your partner is involved. Did you have to use ED meds? It’s always helpful to have a loving supportive partner. It’s not only the head below, but the mind (big head). Many years of health and joy
Good advice. Very active senior prior to my own TURP surgery but being extra cautious before I try more strenuous exercise, like the hike you mention. Just enjoying my daily walks, trip to the basketball court to shoot some hoops or like today tossing a football around. Things seem to have settled down, no blood visible when I pee (almost 4 weeks post surgery now); and certainly glad to be off the combo of Flomax and Avodart.
Ok this is the dangerous time for you when I overdid it and bled a bit as a result. Even though feeling great and no blood a few more cautionary weeks and you'll be good to yourself!
@@californiahikebike just had a consult with my urologist who performed the surgery 6 weeks post-op. Now have the all clear to resume my normal activities in full which includes any lifting. Tissue that was removed is benign, roughly 25 gms. which is also good news.
I stayed off the bike AND motorcycle for a full 8 weeks. Quite certain earlier than that would have been a not so pleasant experience with any "jarring" that could occur.
Really like your video on the Turps procedure, did post a comment on your first one which you replied to thanks. I did have Holep but there was a tech issue with the laser so op was stopped 2/3rds through - i was called back in after a few days and had a partial turps to finish operation off which was successful this time. I had a 22ch catheter in for about 2 weeks, a week of was just waiting for appointment to remove catheter. So a week or so in, i can wee again and not doing too bad so far, wearing the pants and pads and not pushing it too much. Will try some light exercise in a couple of weeks. I used to cycle a lot years ago but stopped a few years ago when had prostate problem but will start cycling again in 2024 now i have had the surgery, thanks again for the sharing the videos and reading the comments, always great to hear real life experiences. James - UK
So a few weeks now since op, don't need to wear the pants at night now, just wear the pads. Wee function pretty good but do need to drink lots of water which really helps. Still a bit sore in uretha but improving every day. My Dr. did prescribe some antibiotics in case there was an infection as did have a bit of mild fever, much better now. Probably start light exercise in a couple of weeks, walking at the moment seems fine.
Great question! I rode at about 6-7 weeks and it was too early. The jarring was pretty uncomfortable and off the bike, I was feeling great. Actually bled just a little. So when you feel like you could do it, I suggest waiting another couple weeks.
@@californiahikebike Not yet, I had a procedure called PAE. Unfortunately it did not work. So my next step will be the TURP, really great information you gave on it, and your pace of delivery is very good.
@@californiahikebike I don’t know 🤷🏼♂️ why I am having problems finding that 1st 10 days vlog. Could you pls paste the link to a response for that 1. Thanks 🙏
Hi Rob, thank you for sharing your journey, both your videos have been extremely helpful. I was diagnosed last week with BPH. I had been having trouble urinating, and then the flow suddenly stopped. The doctor has me on a catheter and I have been medicated with Tamsulosin and Finasteride. He was pushing TURP for the surgery in my last meeting with him yesterday and that's how I found you. My question is, what was your diet like, pre and post-surgery, also do you think changing your diet, if you did, has any real effect on your condition? Thank you for your time and I'm very happy to know you were able to have the surgery and make a full recovery.
During the 6-7 years I took Alfusosin and finisteride, I tried many different diets, even no meat for a few months. It didn't have any direct affect. However, I was never more than about 10 lbs above my ideal weight. I'm 5'11" and hover around 190-195 with athletic build. I bring that up because my experience has been quicker, more effective recovery from the surgeries I've had.
@@californiahikebike Hi Rob, Thank you for your reply, Your answer has helped me understand what to expect and how the surgery may impact my recovery based on my overall fitness and health. I'm an active individual, just turned 50, but I am a little overweight from my ideal weight, which I'm correcting now through diet. Thanks again, Rob!
Glad to hear things with you have gotten back "normal" after the surgery. Hope to see more bike videos from you soon. BTW, I still cannot get the GA up on the center stand! LOL!
@@californiahikebike I will soon. Have watched your series on it several times but just not able to get the hang of it. I do use the board method when I want to get it on the stand, but that’s not convenient when traveling.
@@thehexter1 I really believe if you can do it with the board you can do it without. Are you setting it on 2 up with luggage to raise up as high as possible?
@@thehexter1 I mentioned 2 up in at least one of them but the higher you life the bike via the suspension, the easier to center stand. Same principal as using the board.
Had no residual negative effects after the TURP as I did with the PVP. Never needed a catheter afterward, nor had an averse issue with BMs. Burn 'pits' from the PVP done in '91 were still visible during the TURP done in 2022. The TURP also took care of a bleeding vericose vein in the prostate.
I had the operation yesterday. They sent me home the same day. They'll take out the catheter six days afterward. Pain is not bad. Very little blood in the urine. Haven't seen any clots. They gave me three days of oxycodone and as of today I don't even need it. It's uncomfortable to sit, so I found that getting one of those horse-collar in-flight headrests helps a lot. It takes the pressure off the middle and distributes it to my butt cheeks where there's no pain. As for bowel movements, there are some good tips below.
Nice to have this thread to be honest on and ask other guys about their experiences. I have my TURP tomorrow and am scared to be honest with you. I do have a couple questions for the veterans around the retrograde ejaculation topic, 1) what have been your experiences with pre-ejaculatory fluid, aka pre-cum, do you still have it, …? and 2) during an erection / excitement for sex, do you have any problems with urination leakage or do you need to ensure your bladder is empty, …? Thank you guys for sharing your experiences, it helps a lot and I realize no two guys are alike but at least helps manage expectations and to know what type of questions to ask the docs.
Blood clots yes, but they get smaller and smaller. Pain, I don't think so. I felt pretty good at about 3 weeks to the point I had to make myself stay inactive and not overdo it. Not sure what kind of pain you are having but may be worth a call to your surgeon. How's the flow?
thanks for these videos, very helpful. I had TURP 25 days ago, my bleeding stopped right at 3 weeks so I figured I could increase my activity like you did. Mistake. Started bleeding again, pissed at myself for not being more patient. My question is how long did it take for the bleeding to stop again? Just for people reading along (like I did before surgery and it was very helpful to hear others experiences), my experience was the surgery went well and got sent home with a catheter, but that night I freaked at all the blood and went to the emergency room. They flushed me out and gradually over the next three days the bleeding went down and I got the cath pulled Day 3. I had a lot of blood that day then it really dropped off and I didn't have a whole lot and on day 21 it stopped, and well see above. If your urine is dark yellow, heavy, that is blood, I didn't realize that at first. Just not much blood. I could immediately pee right away, much better. Frequency is getting better, am doing Kegel exercises which help. I really didn't have any pain to speak of, really didn't even take one pain killer. So if anyone is interested in hearing more from me I will check back in a couple weeks to let you know how it is going. So far I would really recommend this if you are getting tired of the BPH.
@@californiahikebike thanks, yes, did you see my other question, when you started to bleed again do you remember how long it was before it stopped again?
Did mine on 6/19/2024 and I own a Victory Vegas Jackpot. When should I go ridding? The only thing that I hated is the catheter...I had it for about a day.
I waited 5 weeks I think and was too early....If I did it over again, I would probably wait 6-8 weeks. Pretty uncomfortable when I went over a bump in the road etc....and I have a big dog BMW.
I've been suffering for several years now, ever since experiencing acute retention on a motorcycle trip. I know what you mean about the catheter discomfort - try riding your motorcycle with a 35" seat height 150 miles to get home with a folly installed after an emergency hospital visit! I tried the Rezum procedure last April, but unfortunately it was not successful. My urologist is now recommending a TUIP. I'm not sure if I should just make the leap to a TURP, or try the TUIP. It sounds like TURP may be more durable, but the TUIP less invasive.
I honestly don't remember all the ins and outs of my research and discussion with my doctor. I do remember just wanting a final resolution and all roads pointed to TURP for me.
Well, I was to quick to comment. After about 3 months I have regressed almost to the state before the TURP. I'm waiting for an appointment to get scoped, but I fear bladder neck contracture.
I had the surgery done a couple months ago. Was sent home with a catheter which was removed the next day. The doctor said no heavy lifting for 2 weeks. I still have some urgency but getting better. I think about the 3rd week I was seeing scab tissue then it was all clear. What I read was it should all be pretty good after 3 months. Have to say, the doctor really didn’t provide any info on how the recovery would be, which brought me to your video.
From what I understand, there are different levels of the procedure, some more invasive than others. Mine was more than my doc anticipated, which called for the 6 weeks of no lifting. All things being equal except your possible lesser surgery, you may have a quicker recovery than me.
@@californiahikebike I had tumors, so was given a choice of just removing the tumors or doing the TURP; so I went for the TURP and no longer have to take Medication. Next I have to do a Prostate Biopsy.
I had my surgery and they took the catheter out the day after , I passed water without the catheter so was allowed home without it . The bleeding actually stopped after a couple of weeks but only had pain when urinating. Seven weeks down the line and sometimes still get pain when finishing urinating, hope this stops soon. Glad I had the operation as I’d had water retention due to enlarged prostate, I had the operation in Wigan in the UK .
@californiahikebike I didn't think there was either. However I saw a live UA-cam video from a urologist located in Arizona who does the procedure. I dug a little deeper and found a National Institute of Health article on ejaculation preservation TURP, which is supported with medical trial data. The results were pretty good. Look up John c lin sunrise urology on you tube. It was a live stream.
Had my TURP on 6/24/23 Dr. did tell me before the surgery it will take a total of 6 to 12 mouths for a total 100% recovery it’s only 2 days after the surgery no real pain no pain meds, just some burning when I urinate but nothing too bad.
Interesting. I wonder why that long? 6 months seems reasonable, but a year is out there unless you have complications, I suppose. I feel like 3-4 months I was pretty good.
@@californiahikebike Not sure I know I was not his first patient by any means, and I am fairly young only 54, decent shape so I should recover pretty quickly I would think, but I would also rather have the doctor be a little conservative then to tell me I’m going to be 100% in three months and not get there for six or eight, I do know from all my research it is a fairly long recovery to get back to somewhat normal, and, like you being a very active person, probably does not help the recovery process.
My urologist said to wait as long as I could. He told me expect 7-10 years before it may be necessary to do another. If I get that long I'll be happy camper.
@@californiahikebikeactually my father had turp a week ago, had his catheter removed a day before yesterday. But he still feels that he is not able to urinate completely and wakes up a couple of times at night. We went to the doctor today and he checked through ultrasound that his bladder was empty, but he still has the urge to urinate. The doctor gave some drips and injections. Is this case normal ? If it is how much time will it takes to get better ?
@bid19 I remember and I think I talked about it....having some sort of spasms that made me feel like it was an urge to urinate. Maybe what's going on with your Dad. I 5hink some is mental (with me) as I had grown accustomed and was conditioned for years that I would have to get up at night and otherwise have "urgency" during the day. Maybe a little of what's going on with your Dad?
I had a TURP five days ago and had the catheter removed on day three. I had to go to an ER because I could not void. It turned out that I was not drinking a lot of water and just started to do that. I find after the water, back to urinate. Not a lot of fun! Also on Pyridium for painful urination. My urine is bright yellow as well as parts of the bowl where I miss!!
My TURP went ok, but 3+ weeks later the stream slowed, which turned out to be a stricture, that then required another operation. Now I have to self-catheterise weekly to keep the passageway open
I am almost three weeks post surgery since my TURP. I have had a slightly difficult time of it but overall I would say I am doing reasonably well. After not urinating except through a Catheter for almost sixteen months, I'm glad to be "peeing on my own" even though the stream right now is tainted with clots and mostly pink (I'm told that's normal) and most of the time not terribly strong. I am hoping that as time goes by my stream will get stronger and more steady, of course I don't know -
Super helpful information. I'm looking into getting this procedure soon. The Flomax I take is annoying and I don't like the side effects (dizziness). I want to do more traveling as I enter my 60s, and I think the TURP procedure should take away the anxiety of "will I be able to urinate" in strange and inconvenient places. Thanks for doing these videos!
Hey Frank, you're welcome! I plan to do a 1 year final update this December as well. It's so nice to be off those meds! If you get it done, make sure to get those supplies I listed in my other vodeo. There are Amazon links to make it easy!
I wondered when you would get to side effects, such as retrograde ejaculation. Apparently, lots of the procedures destroy the internal urethral sphincter (smooth muscle at the bladder neck; it used to be considered a separate muscle; now, it's thought to be part of the muscle that surrounds the bladder, but it operates independently, so it might as well be considered a separate thing). Two urologists I asked denied that it exists. Every single person I talk to who had prostate surgery is pissed because they were misled about such symptoms as retrograde ejaculation. If you don't have bladder cancer, seems like there's no reason to be removing anything but the prostate tissue that's squeezing the urethra. [And, maybe, even with cancer, there's no reason to remove the muscle tissue.] Supposedly SOME urologists have discovered that their patients want to maintain all sexual function and perform surgery that doesn't mess with the muscle tissue formerly known as the internal urethral sphincter. [One study on the NIH web site says that the fairly high (temporary) urinary incontinence level from HOLEP is that the destruction of the internal sphincter puts more load on the external sphincter, and it takes a while for the latter to become strong enough... There are plenty of papers on the NIH site (including some from 2024) that mention the internal urethral sphinter. ] I can accept a doctor saying things about changing views about some details of the smooth muscle that clenches upon ejaculation to make the semen goes out rather than into the bladder, but to deny the existence altogether is a disqualifier for anybody who wants to perform prostate surgery on me. [The HOLEP surgeon I talked to said ~99.99999% chance of retrograde ejaculation, but denied that there's a sphincter. I was so shocked that I didn't ask her to explain how the RE happens.
Great video very informative, one question though how long did you wait before you had sex the first time doctor said 4 to 6 weeks just want to know what you’re experience was.
It's been a while now but I believe he told me 6 weeks or 8 weeks and which ever it was, we went 1 week shorter than that. I felt pressure and maybe a little pain but not much. I think It was more about the apprehension of WHAT I MIGHT feel. After the first time I was fine which leads me to believe it was more mental....just like my golf game. LOL
@@californiahikebike lol, great analogy! I just reached my one-month point since the procedure today. I actually haven’t had any blood or pink urine in about two weeks. I told my doctor on the first follow up visit. I don’t know what she did, but I don’t remember being like this even when I was 15 I could definitely put out a small fire that’s for sure. Lol! i’ve been here in 4 to 6 weeks before any hanky-panky. Initially my doctor told me no sex for a month but thinking about going five weeks just to meet somewhere in the middle then give it a try lol.🤣
@@californiahikebike 1 WEEK SIR. BUT this STARTED A LONG TIME AGO (2 YEARS) AFTER CONSUMMING TAMSUSOLIN and DUSTERIDE. EVERYTHING WAS WORKING OK. JUST 5% EJACULATE. I MISS that SENSATION OF the SPERM TRAVELLING UP THROUGH the URETHRA at ORGAZM. JUST NOT the SAME GOING BACK INTO BLADDER. BLEEDING STOPPED 4 DAYS AFTER SURGERY, SO WAS QUITE THRILLED WITH THAT. LOTS of WATER
i am going to have turp surgery in oct 5 ,2024 ,watched a lot of videos , i m dr too ,got a good knowledge , my age is 64 , however where ever i saw people are worried about sex life , where as my feeling is we have done enough in life , but people only worried about sex life , where as in our part of world pakistan wives are also not interested in sex , any more , may have it or not dont make nay difference to them
I understand I think what you are saying. I think that is a personal decision and still important to some, especially if their wife is younger than the patient. I had a lot of questions about it which is why I addressed it in this video. For those that aren't worried but want more information about recovery, my first video is packed with information: ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.htmlsi=ukOj4PqsAJCIBObb
I had the procedure 18 months ago. My urologist said the little bit that comes out during sex is produced in the penis. The prostatic fluid doesn't come out of the urethra.
well i will just say this Hike!!!!! your a good guy and our hero! cuz lord knows im a chicken shit when it comes down to surgery commin from a guy lol ME!!! who has never had a sick day in his life! and im 56 also a word from us half a century old dudes!! if u have a swollen prostate left untreated it will eventually swell to where u cant pee at all except dribble and u godda strain just to push it out! then comes the blood in urine! oh god NO. then if u let that go on, the urine will back up to your kidneys and try and shut them down then u have hours to get to a hospital !!! if u still think u can do it on your own...U WILL DIE. i should know.. when i finally made it to the hospital my kidney function was at 9% barley made it doctor said wait!!!! before u get him to dialysis let me try somthin ! and it worked. saved my ass man! kidneys now at 100% i had my turp done today feb 28 2024. 2 hr surgery same day at home now watchin the news lol dont wait!!!! this is nothin to play around with.
Nice to have a place for a frank discussion of this experience. Today is my second day after surgery. I'm home and I'll have the catheter in for another week. The pain has been minimal so far. I'm more afraid of when I have to take out the catheter. There have been some clots, but not a lot. So, I'm glad for that. However, the issue right now is bowel movement. It is a bit scary at this time. I've been taking Miralax to get it going and not so much as of yet. I'm afraid to bear down at all. Anyone else have to deal with this?
It's awesome when the catheter comes out. Little pain but wayyyyy worth the little bit of pain!
@@californiahikebike Having had a painful UROLIFT recovery 5 years ago, I was very hesitant to get the TURP. However, Yes, it was so much less problematic and less painful. I can't understand why the UROLIFT is considered less invasive as a procedure than the TURP.
@@hoffy1003 I'm not familiar with the urolift but glad things turned out well for you!
Your video here and the first one has been extremely helpful, and eased a lot of my anxiety. Thanks for that.@@californiahikebike
Thanks for info. Late to the thread but I had good success with Colace as a softener. Don’t want to get dependent on anything but food. Have had success adding canned pumpkin to oatmeal and smoothies.
Thanks for the frank discussions on your TURP experience. I watched your 9 day post op post a few months ago and it was pretty much the catalyst that got me to schedule the TURP that I had been putting off for a couple years. I had the procedure on Friday 12/8/23. I turned 61 on 12/14. So far this is the best birthday/Christmas gift I could have given myself. I was in the hospital for one night. I went back the following Monday to get the catheter removed. My prostate was very large and quite a lot of tissue was removed. Dr said my procedure took longer than most because of the size. So far my recovery has been way better than I expected. I'm in excellent shape and health for 61.I've had the expected bleeding and bloody urine, especially for almost 2 weeks from day 9 when I began passing scabs. Some were so large that I wondered how they got out. I've been shocked at how little pain that I've had. I never once took any pain meds. I went back to work on 1/2/24. I haven't been back to gym nor had sex since the procedure. I'm getting a little anxious for both but I'm trying to be good and follow Dr orders. My wife has been strict on me as well. I see the surgeon again on 1/10. I hope he turns me loose with no restrictions. I haven't worn the depends for 3 days now (this is 1/6). I am so glad I had those to put on after the catheter was removed. I would have never thought of those on my own. Thanks. I know my experience so far has been better than typical but if anyone out there is fed up with not being able to pee, then by all means don't put it off like I did. I don't think I realized how negatively the BPH was affecting my life. I do also ride a motorcycle but it is winter time here in West Va so that will have to wait till spring. I did go on a organized group first hike on New Years day at a local state park that was 2.5 miles. It was an easier hike than I'm used to so I didn't have any issues afterwards. Sorry for the rambling, I just wanted to say thank you for the info and to let folks know that the TURP is not as barbarian as some have said. Ride safe!
That's good news my friend! Be careful even on the easy hikes. I did the same and it made me start bleeding again. When you are in good shape it's easy to start feeling better and over do it. As far as the sex take it slow....literally. The "warm up" , otherwise called foreplay will help the retrograde. Most of the time it is normal and feels normal for me. Feels like it's gotten better over the 2nd half of the year post op so don't get discouraged. I'll do the 1 year update soon....
@californiahikebike Great I'll be looking forward to that one. Thanks for responding and the advice. I also meant to ask how long after the procedure did you wait before intimacy? My Dr was a little vague on some things. Ken
@@MtnMan62 Dr told me 8 weeks. It was 7 for me....couldn't stand it. LOL And btw...had a lot of tissue removed during the procedure as well.
Yeah I been really feeling it the last few days, especially today. I'm not sure I'll make it till I get back to dr on Wednesday. LOL Thanks again.
Thank you for your information, I have watched both of your videos about the surgery and the 6 months recovery, I will be having my TURP surgery in next few weeks and you have really put me at ease. Thank you very very much.
Good luck with your surgery and recovery!
@@californiahikebike Thank you
Thanks to all men for sharing! I know how difficult this for men to talk about.
We need to have more discussions about this topic and not have to worry about being ashamed and embarrassed. I'm very proud of everybody who has shared.
I am now considering TURP and Optilume. I have been getting prostatitis about every 4 to 6 months. I wanted to hold out as long as I could before surgery but the prostatitis is getting to be too much. I'm sending good vibes to whoever needs it today.
Thanks Jack! Good luck with whichever direction you decide to go in.
Again, thanks for your open, informative videos - really helpful in the honest detail. Wishing you all the best from the UK, and my regards to sunny California
@csharpminorseven Certainly! Glad to help.
I’m glad your TURP has been a success. And yeah, it’s hard restricting your activity when you’re used to being busy. Your surgically modified prostate also lets you know if you apply too much pressure on it while sitting early in your recovery process. I’m six weeks out from my surgery and I have to say I’m satisfied. Its great to be able to pee freely again. I had forgotten what it was actually like.
Yes it is satisfying!
2 weeks post surgery today. The first week fell across Labor Day weekend and my cath stayed in for a week. That was the worst part, just a huge annoyance along with some minor discomfort. Getting rid of that thing was pure Heaven. Very little post op pain but for some irritation and burning at the end of the pee. The blood level goes right along with the level of activity. I began passing some small clots over the past few days. Today, the doctor says I'm doing well - pathology was clear and symptoms are normal. Oh by the way... I'm peeing like I can't remember how good. Don't put this off, guys... it's not a big deal.
Sounds a lot like my experience. I think the one thing I would do differently is talk to the doc about the removal of the cath and make sure it's not extended due to holiday or doctor's day off etc. Thanks for posting.
Thanks for the follow-up. I leave in about 15 minutes for my TURP surgery at 5:45 this morning. The perspective you provided is so very useful.
@garyji Awesome! Good luck. Did you get your stuff?
@@californiahikebike Absolutely! Hard to believe the surgical center doesn't provide a pair of Depends to wear home. Thanks again for taking the time to provide this very candid and much needed information. When asked if I felt I understood the risks and healing process, I could confidently answer "Yes" because I had watched both of your videos. You provided a much more thorough and reasonably paced overview of what to expect. Home now and feeling "tender" so I'll be resting up for a few days. Thanks again.
Thanks for the information, it was delivered in a frank and honest manner. I'm pretty sure I'll have to get done sometime over the next several years so now I'm a little better prepared.
@@LMatters1 You're welcome! ☺️
I had green light TURP surgery and recovered quite fast. It was my second in eleven years after my first one. I was peeing OK but the problem was bleeding that was caused by a capillary that broke. Seems that the prostate continues to grow and the capillaries within stretch and sometimes can break. I had so many blood clots that backed up into the bladder that they blocked the flow of urine. They flushed the bladder and the surgeon sealed off the broken capillary cut out excess regrowth and now all is fine. What surprised me was the total lack of bleeding and scabs during recovery unlike my previous TURP. Flow now is excellent. I had a great Doctor.
Thanks for the comment and glad to hear you had a great recovery. I think there are definitely a few that have had issues but you and I are the norm.
Thank you for these videos. They were a great help and encouragement. My own surgery was uneventful, had the foley cath for 24 hours. Bloody urine for the first few weeks as expected, lessening bit by bit until around the 6th week and that was that. There was a scare on the 10th week where the stream diminished until one evening it stopped and had horrific bladder spasms. Went to the E.R. where they put in a foley catheter, instant relief. Wore that for 10 days (lots of clots and tissue came out). Went to the urologist where they removed it. Urinated just fine. They taught me how to self cath which was truly easy and no big deal (on paper it looks like he-l I know). For the past month I pee like I did 30 years ago. I might get up 2x a night. During the day maybe every 2.5 to 3 hours. No more slowing stream near the end with lots of dripping out. It's a fine youthful stream now. Providing you trust your surgeon I would highly recommend this procedure. On another note: Before I settled on the TURP I told a dear friend who's a kidney transplant surgeon (and general surgeon) about it. It so happened that his surgical partner's spouse was a urologist and offered to get his take on it. He called back and told me his contact still feels the TURP is the best way to go over some of the newer and progressive methods. I hope this helps some of you with your decision.
I received the same advice from my surgeon who is pretty progressive and former athlete. Glad it went well for you!
Hello, and thank you for sharing so fully on a topic that is very personal. I’m just three weeks out from my surgery in Manhattan. Since I live four hours travel time from NYC the surgeon gave me one night in New York Presbyterian Hospital. His other patients who are local he sends home with a catheter in place which they are to remove themselves. In the hospital the doctor’s resident removed the catheter in the morning and I voided rather quickly with no problem. The hospital released me at 1:30 that afternoon. About 5 pm I developed urinary retention because of swelling and went immediately to the ER just nearby and got another catheter, was sent back to the hospital guest house and wore that for a week after which I removed it myself with no problem though I was creeped out at the thought, before hand. It was no problem and not painful at all. Since then, now three weeks post-op, I’m doing well, still a little tinge of blood at initiation and then none. My stream isn’t a great waterfall, but I don’t need to worry continually where the next pit stop is. I’ve gone as long as four hours without voiding. I never saw any examples of scabs voided, although I’m aware that it is a possibility. Thanks for mentioning time frame for lifting things. What I want to know is when I can have wine or a cocktail. I was thinking about a month out. I realize that it is the bladder that is relearning its role with the new conformation of things down below. Many thanks for your personal story so artfully told. It would have helped me had I seen it before TURP, but it is still full of good information. My doctor used the acronym TUVP as in transurethral electrovaporasation of the prostate.
Hi and thanks for the videos. I'm a UK Patient, just 7 days post op as of today. It was amazing, I didn't need any painkillers in hospital. No nausea or dizziness, even straight after my surgery. In fact the only evidence that I had even had the surgery was the catheter. I was sent home on Sunday, without any follow-up meds. Since getting home though i have felt nauseous in that I fancy something. I cook it and can't face it. I'm getting over that now though. Passing urine has been my biggest problem. I was given a 3000 mls jug by the ward for getting caught short and have found it a godsend. It's far easier, quicker and tidier to grab that, than to rush to the bathroom. My urine is only just beginning to run clearer, but still burns like heck. And there are plenty of clots so that's a relief.
I've found your videos a great help when it comes understanding better the side effects of my surgery. I've been told to stop with the TAMSULOSIN but wouldn't let them prescribe FINASTERIDE as I really didn't like the sound of the side effects. I'm very happy with my overall progress and I'm looking forward to not cursing whenever I go to the loo lol. Take care.
Good to hear...depending on how large your prostate was and how much they had to remove you will most likely still have some blood and the clots will still come out albeit smaller and smaller as time goes on. Take the recovery instructions seriously in terms of the lifting of weight and other active movements. or you will bleed some more. Good luck!
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Thank you so much for replying. Yes the blood is just beginning to run much clearer. The burning/ irritation and clots aren't as bad either.
Took myself for a walk for the first time yesterday. It was just to my local shop (store) and probably a quarter mile round trip. I only just made it back to my bathroom, which was a little worrying. My only worry now is that when I do eventually return to work, I have 1/2 mile walk just to my local train station. Ive been told that since my job can be quite heavy going, that I will be off for atleast 6 weeks. Usually there's a short wait for my train. Then it's a 10 minute journey and a 1 Mile walk at the other end. I spend my 10 hour day mainly my feet. Would you believe I'm a Hospital Theatre Porter (not the same Hospital I had my operation though). Then there's the return journey with a 30 minute wait for the train. I'm very worried about incontinence as you can probably understand. I wonder, did you have any such problems and have they passed.
Thanks once again and good luck with your continuing recovery.
Very sorry to have waffled on for so long.
Take care.
Ken.
@@thesilent_gamer5137 It was only at the beginning when I was drinking a great deal of water to flush the system after surgery. That feeling of having to go passed with a week or two. Hopefully will be the case with you as well. Good luck and take it easy.
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Thats great, cheers. Hope my recovery is as good.
Having a TURP next Monday (29 July) and have watched the "watch this first video" 4 times and the 6 month update 3 times. Got all my supplies lined up and ready to go. I was a bit concerned about bowel movements so, after reading the comments below, I've added Colace to my supply list. Thanks for posting these 2 videos. I consider them "Must Watch" prior to and after the procedure.
Awesome! Good luck with your procedure and recovery. ....and that first pee like a 16 year old!
There are a number of procedures out there now and it is big business. The TURP is still the gold standard and for a reason. It works. The suffering that many men put themselves through because they are embarrassed to have their private parts under scrutiny is unfortunate. Imagine having those days of rushing to the bathroom only to dribble or sit on the toilet for half an hour trying to vacate your bladder. Up 4-6 times a night and feeling exhausted the next day. The TURP should eliminate all of those issues. You will regain a normal lifestyle. I can only encourage all men to deal with their prostate issues quickly and maturely.
Thanks for the update! I'm about 6 weeks post TURP. My bleeding stopped at 3 weeks, I was beginning to think I had a problem but it did finally stop. I have no problem urinating at all, but my problem is I have to go quite often and when I do there is only about 1/4 of a cup that comes out. Then I will have to go again throughout the day. I get up at least twice per night to urinate. The nurse (haven't been able to see my doctor since the first meeting) told me this should subside and it takes time for the bladder to get back in shape and communicate with your urge to go. Thanks again for the update.
Terry...honestly I'm not a doctor but that answer doesn't sound right. Most of the guys responding on this and the first post that didn't have any problems reported peeing like a 16 year old and emptying the bladder from day one when the catheter comes out. I would ramp up the request to see the doctor. You should have almost instant relief after the surgery but I found this article that you should read. www.newyorkurologyspecialists.com/bph/retention/after-turp/ It's also possible you have a UTI. Whatever is going on, I wouldn't accept the "wait a few weeks" response.
@@californiahikebike I forgot to mention they did do a sonogram and comfirm my bladder is emptying fine, and lab work and no UTI's. The nurse works exclusive for my Doctor and sees all his cases post opp, I guess this is quite common. So my issue I feel the urge to go before the bladder is full. I'll let you know as time goes on how I do...Thanks for the reply and doing your videos!
@@TerrydeAlaska Ok I misunderstood. I felt that for a week or two as well. Had forgotten....
Terry, i'm 10 weeks out and experiencing the exact same thing as you describe. Same answer from the doc. Hoping the need to pee so frequently will subside. I also had a stricture form near the end of the urethra that made for a messy stream at times. The doc stretched it out a bit (not fun but effective) and saw immediate improvement. Thanks for sharing your experience.
@@californiahikebike Actually my experience was the same as TerrydeAlaska. It's getting better now but that was my experience too. The amount of urine died off towards the end of the day, and I got up twice a night, and only a little came out. But now that's getting better. In the morning after my first glass of water, it empties like a firehose, and did this right from the start. That's happening more in the latter part of the day (evening), so that's how my recovery went too.
Im also having surgery comming right up and found your video most helpfull . The pads and gauze info will be a lifesaver, Thank you for making these videos and happy biking my friends.
Good luck with your procedure and recovery! happy peeing! LOL
I'm gonna have that procedure done on 4 November of this year. I enjoy your commentary thank you
@grafenr.3405 You gotta watch this one....more important since you are about to have it! ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.htmlsi=CWJcoTju4X6aIJap
@@californiahikebike yup I watch both videos very informative
Thanks, very helpful. I'm not sure I have a choice, but it's good to see what my future will be.
You're welcome and good luck!
Thank you for all the great info. I have not had the surgery as of yet but if/when I do, I will follow your great recommendations. Again, thanks for taking the time to make you very informative videos about TURP !!
You're welcome Mike. Good luck with your upcoming procedure! See this one also since you haven't had the surgery yet: ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.htmlsi=LiX2eyz0mDAcksSj And don't forget the list of supplies to get before surgery - links listed in the description of video in this comment.
I am now 6 weeks post TURP and life is so much better. The first couple of days after the procedure were a little uncomfortable but I smile every day now. I saw my urologist yesterday as part of the surgery follow up and he did a flow test to insure things are where they should be. They are. The first thing he said was I had no cancer. During the TURP they send a sample of the prostate to the lab to check on that possibility. So it is always in the back of your mind. For the last three years my PSA levels were high 8's and going into the 9's. My urologist felt the readings were in the high range due to the increased size of the prostate. The numbers seemed to be pretty steady so he didn't think it was a cancer concern.
Great news to hear about another successful TURP! Congratulations.
Thank you. Great video by the way. @@californiahikebike
G-D bless
Thanks for the info about what to expect after TURP procedure. Your info was greatly appreciated. Being concise, frank and given in a measured and calm manner was reassuring. I had a golf ball sized bladder stone removed 7 years ago and now currently have smaller stones and not sure what the doctors want to do. Unfortunately i live in a community with less than 200 residents so my medical resources are limited and will involve scheduling to a larger city for help. Not even sure what procedure will be involved to alleviate my current condition but if TURP is advised i thank you for heads up post surgery info. Continued success for you and yours and for your helpful information. Thanks again
Thanks Gary. Good luck with whatever the future holds for you!
Thanks for the very helpful and frank insight.
You're welcome!
Kudos to you for having the courage to inform - _I'm guessing_ - ALL of us here with BPH ar LUT's
@@lemal0432 Thanks!
Thanks for this video. I'm 53 and have been monitoring my PSA for about 15 years. A couple of years ago, it doubled, so I had an MRI and fusion biopsy done, finding 2 PI-RAD lesions on the transitional zone, diagnosed with BPH. I have been on Flomax and Rapaflo (larger dose later). The Rapaflo gives me retrograde ejaculation. At first it freaked me out, but now I don't mind it so much.
Two years later, a recent MRI (yesterday) showed I have a new PI-RAD4 lesion in the peripheral zone, which isn't great news (90% of prostate cancers happen there, I hear). I still have to talk to my doc about it, but I imagine we're going back in for a fusion MRI to get a targeted biopsy done. While it isn't 100% that it is malignant, my prostate is growing, so I'm preparing myself by finding out about all the procedures. Thanks for your frank video. I really appreciate it. Helps to listen to other guys who have been through it.
Dang sounds a bit complicated in your situation. Good luck with whatever direction it takes you!
Great video and thanks for the info. I had the procedure 1 week ago. Had the catheter removed 2 days later. I voided fine at the doctor appointment. So far, so good. I am experiencing the post surgery things that you mentioned, like the reddish/cherry urine and scab tissue here and there. Had a lot of stinging pain at first, but that has subsided a lot. Definitely need to drink plenty of plain water. My doctor went over everything and he explained it all very well. Everything has pretty much went as he said it would up to this point. Watching videos on the procedure will definitely help give some insight on it also. I see my doctor next week for follow-up. Again, great video, very informative!
Thanks for your comment and keep the recovery going well. Don't over do it too early!
I'm right at my 6 months now Aug 2024 from TURP surgery and I can say its great! Just like I was in my 30's and I'm mid 60's now, Everything Rob says in this video
is pretty much the same as I had experienced! I waited to long to have this done because I was scared but now I wish I had done it at least 5 years sooner
Thanks and btw...it's "Rob." 😎
@@californiahikebike thanks I fixed it 👍✌️
@@darrylmusic7839 No worries!
Thanks for that insight. Very encouraging.
Thanks for the in-depth experience review. I am currently mulling HolEP (basically a laser TURP) and PAE (Prostatic Artery Embolism, where they essentially cut the blood flow to the prostate, causing it to shrink). I think with the HoLEP I will be looking at similar recovery to your TURP procedure. The PAE is a little less invasive and I think a little longer period of time before you start seeing positive results from the procedure. The one thing I like about the PAE idea is you preserve your options down the road and your urethra remains intact after the procedure.
Procedures are advancing all the time. It's important to do your research and decide what's best for you and your circumstances. Good luck whichever way you go!
Thanks for the 6 month review. I gave up riding motorcycles when I turned 74. I still own a small Honda Shadow Aero. It is the 750 version. I’ve ridden bikes all my life and it was not an easy choice to make. Every year I would leave my home in Massachusetts and ride out to the west coast. It was usually a 10,000 mile round trip. My last ride was in a BMW R1200GSA. Great motorcycle with a very poorly designed seat. My prostate paid dearly….. I used a medical donut for most of the 11,000 mile trek. I even sold my Ebike, it was impossible to ride. Anyway, thanks again for the follow up. Sounds like you are happy with your decision…..
Yeah BMW seats suck but love the bikes! One of my first videos was this answer to the seat issue. ua-cam.com/video/wKmpwV0PIEE/v-deo.htmlsi=uu5GcM4FD42kNW8a As far as the TURP, wouldn't change a thing!
@@californiahikebike before I link to your video. My cure was a Russell Day Long seat…
@@retiredbutnotdead9929 Yep! Same here!
Thanks. Found this second video just as helpful. Wife watch them as well. Ready to take the next step to have surgery. Loved the big smile when you described how you have your youthful flow back . Hehe.
LOL....feels like a miracle! Seriously...
Thank you for posting these and thank you to your wife for her support.
Your hiking comments are very important for me. And most important the sex encouragement. My wife is very concerned. Intimacy is important on many levels for both of us.
Keep it up!
Thanks
The lead up to the arrival seems to make a big difference if you know what I mean!
Like your first video on #TURP, this is very helpful and practical. Thanks much😊
Thank YOU and you're welcome!
Thank you so much for this informative video!
@Thecakecrusader15 I only recall it for first few days. Watch the other video. You can see what my demeanor was because I shot that video while recovering. ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.htmlsi=PVp5b7SCl3K0Y3Jq
Getting ready for a TURP in August. Thanks for the great info. I watched your first video and will be doing some shopping beforehand. Happy riding!! (I can't wait to pee like a race horse again 😀)
Kinda feels like a miracle when it happens!
Thanks for your insightful peak into your journey. I will be having the surgery in the next couple of months and you've answered many of my questions and eased my fears. How long had you had symptoms before you decided to take the plunge? I am 58 and first had issues 4 or 5 years ago. I am very ready to be able to pee a good stream again. After 6 months do you have any residual effects, or do you feel perfect? Thanks for your time. Alden Seib
I actually feel pretty good. The only residual effect has been the retrograde discussed in this video. Be sure to watch the first one I did. Even more important since you haven't had yours yet.
ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.html
Thanks for information. Had mine 2 months ago. Just a tiny amount of leakage at the moment, but still improving. Sex life back to normal. 1st orgasm 9 days later by partners hand. Full penetrative sex 3 weeks later. Age 73. Very satisfied with urine flow. Tamsulosin medication not required now. Retrograde ejaculation not an issue because had vasectomy many years ago.
Wore adult pull up nappies for about 3 weeks, now just wear small absorbent pads, (Tena) in normal underwear.
From UK. Tena pads £4.50 for ten from Tesco supermarket.
Get well soon to all patients.
I’m on week 5 and have to wear adult diapers or else drip with every step how long before this stops ??
Great fantastic very encouraging. I’m the same age. And will have to have same procedure. First orgasm 9 days later that’s great!! Especially when your partner is involved. Did you have to use ED meds? It’s always helpful to have a loving supportive partner. It’s not only the head below, but the mind (big head). Many years of health and joy
Very good information, I would suggest any wives whose husbands may go through this to watch the two videos.
Thanks Pam! 1 year update coming as soon as I have some extra time to film it!
Thank you again, great information.
You're welcome!
Why did you go with TURP instead of one of the less invasive procedures? Did your uro offer any other procedures?
Yes but I don't recall what options. After my research I felt my best option. That decision was over a year ago. I don't remember last week! 😎
I'm just 7 days, recuperating well, no blood in urine. Thanks for experiencing.
Good advice. Very active senior prior to my own TURP surgery but being extra cautious before I try more strenuous exercise, like the hike you mention. Just enjoying my daily walks, trip to the basketball court to shoot some hoops or like today tossing a football around. Things seem to have settled down, no blood visible when I pee (almost 4 weeks post surgery now); and certainly glad to be off the combo of Flomax and Avodart.
Ok this is the dangerous time for you when I overdid it and bled a bit as a result. Even though feeling great and no blood a few more cautionary weeks and you'll be good to yourself!
@@californiahikebike just had a consult with my urologist who performed the surgery 6 weeks post-op. Now have the all clear to resume my normal activities in full which includes any lifting. Tissue that was removed is benign, roughly 25 gms. which is also good news.
@@nvan78 Great news on both counts. Congrats!
Are you a cyclist? How long did you stay off the bike? Good videos. Bob
I stayed off the bike AND motorcycle for a full 8 weeks. Quite certain earlier than that would have been a not so pleasant experience with any "jarring" that could occur.
@@californiahikebike I ended up staying off bike for 4 weeks; had a bit of light bleeding and stayed off 5 weeks total then back to riding no problem!
I had a TURP a week ago and failed my voiding trial the next day. Is this common? I go back next week for an outpatient voiding trial.
Whoa! My doc said to come in immediately if that happened. I don't think it's a frequent occurrence.
Really like your video on the Turps procedure, did post a comment on your first one which you replied to thanks. I did have Holep but there was a tech issue with the laser so op was stopped 2/3rds through - i was called back in after a few days and had a partial turps to finish operation off which was successful this time. I had a 22ch catheter in for about 2 weeks, a week of was just waiting for appointment to remove catheter. So a week or so in, i can wee again and not doing too bad so far, wearing the pants and pads and not pushing it too much. Will try some light exercise in a couple of weeks. I used to cycle a lot years ago but stopped a few years ago when had prostate problem but will start cycling again in 2024 now i have had the surgery, thanks again for the sharing the videos and reading the comments, always great to hear real life experiences. James - UK
So a few weeks now since op, don't need to wear the pants at night now, just wear the pads. Wee function pretty good but do need to drink lots of water which really helps. Still a bit sore in uretha but improving every day. My Dr. did prescribe some antibiotics in case there was an infection as did have a bit of mild fever, much better now. Probably start light exercise in a couple of weeks, walking at the moment seems fine.
Thanks for the video.
How long after surgery were you able to ride your motorcycle. I ride a big heavy Harley Road Glide.
Great question! I rode at about 6-7 weeks and it was too early. The jarring was pretty uncomfortable and off the bike, I was feeling great. Actually bled just a little. So when you feel like you could do it, I suggest waiting another couple weeks.
Just had this surgery this morning, catherater is in place for a bit. Hopefully I'll have a good recovery.
Good luck with the recovery! Please update in a couple weeks.....
Thank you so much for the update.
You're welcome! Already have it done?
@@californiahikebike Not yet, I had a procedure called PAE.
Unfortunately it did not work. So my next step will be the TURP, really great information you gave on it, and your pace of delivery is very good.
@stevetop5970 Thanks! Good luck my friend....
Thanks for the info, just had TURP last week …let’s see how it goes a..
I dealt with retrograde before Surgery, no explanation was given as to why this occurs.
Thanks for sharing, I had TURP last week.
Thanks and good luck. Check out my other video.. .1st 10 days post op.
@@californiahikebike will do. Man how was the removal of the catheter after 3 days?
@@californiahikebike I don’t know 🤷🏼♂️ why I am having problems finding that 1st 10 days vlog. Could you pls paste the link to a response for that 1.
Thanks 🙏
@@patrickjustdo-inthings2936 A little bit of pain and a lot of HEAVEN! 🤣😂
@@patrickjustdo-inthings2936 Sure! Here you go: ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.html
Hi Rob, thank you for sharing your journey, both your videos have been extremely helpful. I was diagnosed last week with BPH. I had been having trouble urinating, and then the flow suddenly stopped. The doctor has me on a catheter and I have been medicated with Tamsulosin and Finasteride. He was pushing TURP for the surgery in my last meeting with him yesterday and that's how I found you. My question is, what was your diet like, pre and post-surgery, also do you think changing your diet, if you did, has any real effect on your condition? Thank you for your time and I'm very happy to know you were able to have the surgery and make a full recovery.
During the 6-7 years I took Alfusosin and finisteride, I tried many different diets, even no meat for a few months. It didn't have any direct affect. However, I was never more than about 10 lbs above my ideal weight. I'm 5'11" and hover around 190-195 with athletic build. I bring that up because my experience has been quicker, more effective recovery from the surgeries I've had.
@@californiahikebike Hi Rob, Thank you for your reply, Your answer has helped me understand what to expect and how the surgery may impact my recovery based on my overall fitness and health. I'm an active individual, just turned 50, but I am a little overweight from my ideal weight, which I'm correcting now through diet. Thanks again, Rob!
@@paulappleby2729 You're welcome! Hope you are blessed with a speedy recovery....
Thank you! 🙏@@californiahikebike
Glad to hear things with you have gotten back "normal" after the surgery. Hope to see more bike videos from you soon. BTW, I still cannot get the GA up on the center stand! LOL!
Oh no...maybe send me a video of attempts and I could help....
@@californiahikebike I will soon. Have watched your series on it several times but just not able to get the hang of it. I do use the board method when I want to get it on the stand, but that’s not convenient when traveling.
@@thehexter1 I really believe if you can do it with the board you can do it without. Are you setting it on 2 up with luggage to raise up as high as possible?
@@californiahikebike No, I haven’t tried that. Must have missed that on your videos. Will give it a try later this morning, thanks!
@@thehexter1 I mentioned 2 up in at least one of them but the higher you life the bike via the suspension, the easier to center stand. Same principal as using the board.
Did you have any problems with incontinence. If there’s so problems when did it stop completely. Tq
I did not have any problems with that post surgery if that is what you mean. Wasn't an issue for me even when the catheter was in I had control.
Another informative video. Thanks
Thank you sir!!!
Had no residual negative effects after the TURP as I did with the PVP. Never needed a catheter afterward, nor had an averse issue with BMs. Burn 'pits' from the PVP done in '91 were still visible during the TURP done in 2022. The TURP also took care of a bleeding vericose vein in the prostate.
@@BeanerECMO Wow...sounds like a success! Congrats.
I had the operation yesterday. They sent me home the same day. They'll take out the catheter six days afterward. Pain is not bad. Very little blood in the urine. Haven't seen any clots. They gave me three days of oxycodone and as of today I don't even need it. It's uncomfortable to sit, so I found that getting one of those horse-collar in-flight headrests helps a lot. It takes the pressure off the middle and distributes it to my butt cheeks where there's no pain. As for bowel movements, there are some good tips below.
Thanks for posting and good luck with the rest of your recovery!
Thanks again 🙏🏿😊
Nice to have this thread to be honest on and ask other guys about their experiences. I have my TURP tomorrow and am scared to be honest with you. I do have a couple questions for the veterans around the retrograde ejaculation topic, 1) what have been your experiences with pre-ejaculatory fluid, aka pre-cum, do you still have it, …? and 2) during an erection / excitement for sex, do you have any problems with urination leakage or do you need to ensure your bladder is empty, …? Thank you guys for sharing your experiences, it helps a lot and I realize no two guys are alike but at least helps manage expectations and to know what type of questions to ask the docs.
I am about 2 1/2 weeks outside of my Terp surgery. I am having blood clots flow out and in a lot of pain. Is this normal for 2 1/2 weeks?
Blood clots yes, but they get smaller and smaller. Pain, I don't think so. I felt pretty good at about 3 weeks to the point I had to make myself stay inactive and not overdo it. Not sure what kind of pain you are having but may be worth a call to your surgeon. How's the flow?
thanks for these videos, very helpful. I had TURP 25 days ago, my bleeding stopped right at 3 weeks so I figured I could increase my activity like you did. Mistake. Started bleeding again, pissed at myself for not being more patient. My question is how long did it take for the bleeding to stop again?
Just for people reading along (like I did before surgery and it was very helpful to hear others experiences), my experience was the surgery went well and got sent home with a catheter, but that night I freaked at all the blood and went to the emergency room. They flushed me out and gradually over the next three days the bleeding went down and I got the cath pulled Day 3.
I had a lot of blood that day then it really dropped off and I didn't have a whole lot and on day 21 it stopped, and well see above.
If your urine is dark yellow, heavy, that is blood, I didn't realize that at first. Just not much blood.
I could immediately pee right away, much better. Frequency is getting better, am doing Kegel exercises which help. I really didn't have any pain to speak of, really didn't even take one pain killer.
So if anyone is interested in hearing more from me I will check back in a couple weeks to let you know how it is going. So far I would really recommend this if you are getting tired of the BPH.
PS Rob, thanks so much for doing these videos, very helpful.
@@freeeagle333 You're welcome. Hard to be patient for sure!
@@californiahikebike thanks, yes, did you see my other question, when you started to bleed again do you remember how long it was before it stopped again?
Did mine on 6/19/2024 and I own a Victory Vegas Jackpot. When should I go ridding? The only thing that I hated is the catheter...I had it for about a day.
I waited 5 weeks I think and was too early....If I did it over again, I would probably wait 6-8 weeks. Pretty uncomfortable when I went over a bump in the road etc....and I have a big dog BMW.
I've been suffering for several years now, ever since experiencing acute retention on a motorcycle trip. I know what you mean about the catheter discomfort - try riding your motorcycle with a 35" seat height 150 miles to get home with a folly installed after an emergency hospital visit! I tried the Rezum procedure last April, but unfortunately it was not successful. My urologist is now recommending a TUIP. I'm not sure if I should just make the leap to a TURP, or try the TUIP. It sounds like TURP may be more durable, but the TUIP less invasive.
I honestly don't remember all the ins and outs of my research and discussion with my doctor. I do remember just wanting a final resolution and all roads pointed to TURP for me.
Yes. Do the TURP. It is the gold standard.
Well, I was to quick to comment. After about 3 months I have regressed almost to the state before the TURP. I'm waiting for an appointment to get scoped, but I fear bladder neck contracture.
I had the surgery done a couple months ago. Was sent home with a catheter which was removed the next day. The doctor said no heavy lifting for 2 weeks. I still have some urgency but getting better. I think about the 3rd week I was seeing scab tissue then it was all clear. What I read was it should all be pretty good after 3 months. Have to say, the doctor really didn’t provide any info on how the recovery would be, which brought me to your video.
From what I understand, there are different levels of the procedure, some more invasive than others. Mine was more than my doc anticipated, which called for the 6 weeks of no lifting. All things being equal except your possible lesser surgery, you may have a quicker recovery than me.
@@californiahikebike I had tumors, so was given a choice of just removing the tumors or doing the TURP; so I went for the TURP and no longer have to take Medication. Next I have to do a Prostate Biopsy.
@@RoysPlayGround Geesh. Good luck with that and full recovery.
Thank you again
Certainly!
I had my surgery and they took the catheter out the day after , I passed water without the catheter so was allowed home without it . The bleeding actually stopped after a couple of weeks but only had pain when urinating. Seven weeks down the line and sometimes still get pain when finishing urinating, hope this stops soon. Glad I had the operation as I’d had water retention due to enlarged prostate, I had the operation in Wigan in the UK .
@melvynbunting8888 Thanks for commenting. Give us an update in a few weeks please....
Did you have a Ejaculation Preservation TURP or a standard TRRP
?
Not sure there is such a thing. Standard for me.
@californiahikebike I didn't think there was either. However I saw a live UA-cam video from a urologist located in Arizona who does the procedure. I dug a little deeper and found a National Institute of Health article on ejaculation preservation TURP, which is supported with medical trial data. The results were pretty good. Look up John c lin sunrise urology on you tube. It was a live stream.
@user-eg1sw7kd6g Sounds good. Maybe still trial period? Mine is done and I'm ok with the intermittent results. It's not full on retrograde....
If you are not trying to get pregnant who cares? Really no difference in sensation.
@@camarogs1 Thanks, good to know. The sensation was my main concern.
Had my TURP on 6/24/23 Dr. did tell me before the surgery it will take a total of 6 to 12 mouths for a total 100% recovery it’s only 2 days after the surgery no real pain no pain meds, just some burning when I urinate but nothing too bad.
Interesting. I wonder why that long? 6 months seems reasonable, but a year is out there unless you have complications, I suppose. I feel like 3-4 months I was pretty good.
@@californiahikebike Not sure I know I was not his first patient by any means, and I am fairly young only 54, decent shape so I should recover pretty quickly I would think, but I would also rather have the doctor be a little conservative then to tell me I’m going to be 100% in three months and not get there for six or eight, I do know from all my research it is a fairly long recovery to get back to somewhat normal, and, like you being a very active person, probably does not help the recovery process.
@davidcrabill8042 Good points! Yeah, watch out for when you start feeling good. It's really easy to over do it.
Never told how many months for total recovery. I did not ask!
Many people say that they have to undergo turp a second time or they have UTI or other issues after turp. So what are your thoughts about that ?
My urologist said to wait as long as I could. He told me expect 7-10 years before it may be necessary to do another. If I get that long I'll be happy camper.
@@californiahikebikeactually my father had turp a week ago, had his catheter removed a day before yesterday. But he still feels that he is not able to urinate completely and wakes up a couple of times at night. We went to the doctor today and he checked through ultrasound that his bladder was empty, but he still has the urge to urinate. The doctor gave some drips and injections. Is this case normal ? If it is how much time will it takes to get better ?
@bid19 I remember and I think I talked about it....having some sort of spasms that made me feel like it was an urge to urinate. Maybe what's going on with your Dad. I 5hink some is mental (with me) as I had grown accustomed and was conditioned for years that I would have to get up at night and otherwise have "urgency" during the day. Maybe a little of what's going on with your Dad?
I had a TURP five days ago and had the catheter removed on day three. I had to go to an ER because I could not void. It turned out that I was not drinking a lot of water and just started to do that. I find after the water, back to urinate. Not a lot of fun! Also on Pyridium for painful urination. My urine is bright yellow as well as parts of the bowl where I miss!!
My TURP went ok, but 3+ weeks later the stream slowed, which turned out to be a stricture, that then required another operation. Now I have to self-catheterise weekly to keep the passageway open
@richardgardner1095 That sounds like you are in need of a second opinion Dr. I haven't heard of the ongoing need for catheter.
I am almost three weeks post surgery since my TURP. I have had a slightly difficult time of it but overall I would say I am doing reasonably well. After not urinating except through a Catheter for almost sixteen months, I'm glad to be "peeing on my own" even though the stream right now is tainted with clots and mostly pink (I'm told that's normal) and most of the time not terribly strong. I am hoping that as time goes by my stream will get stronger and more steady, of course I don't know -
@JohnnyGNV Have faith it will get better! The pink and clots are normal but should be starting to clear up....
Super helpful information. I'm looking into getting this procedure soon. The Flomax I take is annoying and I don't like the side effects (dizziness). I want to do more traveling as I enter my 60s, and I think the TURP procedure should take away the anxiety of "will I be able to urinate" in strange and inconvenient places. Thanks for doing these videos!
Hey Frank, you're welcome! I plan to do a 1 year final update this December as well. It's so nice to be off those meds! If you get it done, make sure to get those supplies I listed in my other vodeo. There are Amazon links to make it easy!
I wondered when you would get to side effects, such as retrograde ejaculation. Apparently, lots of the procedures destroy the internal urethral sphincter (smooth muscle at the bladder neck; it used to be considered a separate muscle; now, it's thought to be part of the muscle that surrounds the bladder, but it operates independently, so it might as well be considered a separate thing). Two urologists I asked denied that it exists. Every single person I talk to who had prostate surgery is pissed because they were misled about such symptoms as retrograde ejaculation. If you don't have bladder cancer, seems like there's no reason to be removing anything but the prostate tissue that's squeezing the urethra. [And, maybe, even with cancer, there's no reason to remove the muscle tissue.] Supposedly SOME urologists have discovered that their patients want to maintain all sexual function and perform surgery that doesn't mess with the muscle tissue formerly known as the internal urethral sphincter. [One study on the NIH web site says that the fairly high (temporary) urinary incontinence level from HOLEP is that the destruction of the internal sphincter puts more load on the external sphincter, and it takes a while for the latter to become strong enough... There are plenty of papers on the NIH site (including some from 2024) that mention the internal urethral sphinter. ] I can accept a doctor saying things about changing views about some details of the smooth muscle that clenches upon ejaculation to make the semen goes out rather than into the bladder, but to deny the existence altogether is a disqualifier for anybody who wants to perform prostate surgery on me. [The HOLEP surgeon I talked to said ~99.99999% chance of retrograde ejaculation, but denied that there's a sphincter. I was so shocked that I didn't ask her to explain how the RE happens.
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Good info. It does occur and I think the experience is different for everyone.
Greate video thanks
Great video very informative, one question though how long did you wait before you had sex the first time doctor said 4 to 6 weeks just want to know what you’re experience was.
It's been a while now but I believe he told me 6 weeks or 8 weeks and which ever it was, we went 1 week shorter than that. I felt pressure and maybe a little pain but not much. I think It was more about the apprehension of WHAT I MIGHT feel. After the first time I was fine which leads me to believe it was more mental....just like my golf game. LOL
@@californiahikebike lol, great analogy! I just reached my one-month point since the procedure today. I actually haven’t had any blood or pink urine in about two weeks. I told my doctor on the first follow up visit. I don’t know what she did, but I don’t remember being like this even when I was 15 I could definitely put out a small fire that’s for sure. Lol! i’ve been here in 4 to 6 weeks before any hanky-panky. Initially my doctor told me no sex for a month but thinking about going five weeks just to meet somewhere in the middle then give it a try lol.🤣
Is it Normal to have leakage for the first few months
I don't think for months. For me it was about 2 weeks. Should check with your Doctor....
Thank you
You're welcome!
I under go TURP surgery before 7 weeks but speam dosent come out can any one advice me.
See your doctor asap!
@@californiahikebike Thank you
Had turp surgery 5yrs ago need the surgery again NOT GETTING TURP
Why not? What is your age, overall health, ht and wt. All are pertinent as well as any more info you could provide to folks who want to know.
My father got Frequent UTI infection after TURP surgery.. 4 times in two year.. Now he is no more..
I'm sorry for your loss. I haven't had that issue. May I ask what was your father's age at the time of the TURP and his approximate height and weight?
@@californiahikebike 70 , 5.5ft , 63kg
@@californiahikebike I am from India..
Can't wait to be 16 again. Oh yeah, my knees. Oh well. Thanks.
I FIND THE RETROGRADE EJACULATION VERY FRUSTRATING, the ONLY NEGATIVE
How long ago was your surgery?
@@californiahikebike 1 WEEK SIR. BUT this STARTED A LONG TIME AGO (2 YEARS) AFTER CONSUMMING TAMSUSOLIN and DUSTERIDE. EVERYTHING WAS WORKING OK. JUST 5% EJACULATE. I MISS that SENSATION OF the SPERM TRAVELLING UP THROUGH the URETHRA at ORGAZM. JUST NOT the SAME GOING BACK INTO BLADDER. BLEEDING STOPPED 4 DAYS AFTER SURGERY, SO WAS QUITE THRILLED WITH THAT. LOTS of WATER
i am going to have turp surgery in oct 5 ,2024 ,watched a lot of videos , i m dr too ,got a good knowledge , my age is 64 , however where ever i saw people are worried about sex life , where as my feeling is we have done enough in life , but people only worried about sex life , where as in our part of world pakistan wives are also not interested in sex , any more , may have it or not dont make nay difference to them
I understand I think what you are saying. I think that is a personal decision and still important to some, especially if their wife is younger than the patient. I had a lot of questions about it which is why I addressed it in this video. For those that aren't worried but want more information about recovery, my first video is packed with information: ua-cam.com/video/njreNva-1u0/v-deo.htmlsi=ukOj4PqsAJCIBObb
High neck bladder and turp surgery is same
My turp out 10 after surgery
I had the procedure 18 months ago. My urologist said the little bit that comes out during sex is produced in the penis. The prostatic fluid doesn't come out of the urethra.
Mine really depends on the circumstances leading up to it. Sometimes it's a little but in most cases it's pretty normal. I guess I got lucky!
@@californiahikebike And you had the regular turp? Not the one modified, and designed to preserve ejaculation? I really wish I could get it back.
@@DennisMSulliva Yep, regular TURP.
@@californiahikebike Now I'm confused. I'm going to ask my new urologist.
well i will just say this Hike!!!!!
your a good guy and our hero!
cuz lord knows
im a chicken shit when it comes down to surgery commin from a guy lol ME!!!
who has never had a sick day in his life!
and im 56
also a word from us half a century old dudes!!
if u have a swollen prostate left untreated it will eventually swell to where u cant pee at all except dribble
and u godda strain just to push it out!
then comes the blood in urine! oh god NO.
then if u let that go on, the urine will back up to your kidneys and try and shut them down
then u have hours to get to a hospital !!!
if u still think u can do it on your own...U WILL DIE.
i should know..
when i finally made it to the hospital
my kidney function was at 9%
barley made it
doctor said wait!!!!
before u get him to dialysis let me try somthin !
and it worked. saved my ass man!
kidneys now at 100%
i had my turp done today feb 28 2024.
2 hr surgery
same day
at home now watchin the news lol
dont wait!!!!
this is nothin to play around with.
True statement that left untreated you could be on a bag the rest of your life or worse! Congrats...
Hi thanks for info. How long post op can you try sex?
I waited 6 weeks ish....
Thanks 👍