Therapist reacts to Dead Memories by Slipknot
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- Опубліковано 25 гру 2023
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This is the only human in the entire world who can do cardio sitting down
Only human in the world with that little rhythm
@@jessemaher2927 Oh this is the second video I've seen you comment something negative, are you really spending your limited time on earth hate-watching someone? Go do something you enjoy!
@@omegashinra7672she does lack rhythm in a tremendous way though.
Preach brother 🙌
She is moving between the kick and the snare? Not everyone follows the same rythm, alot of music would be shit if the instruments had a dogmatic view of "rhythm"@@ddawg3974
Yes there is so much wisdom in Slipknot! Thank you!
It drives me nuts when ppl, like my husband, ask me "how can you listen to that? It's so dark, angry and depressing"
They just don't get it
Metal can definitely be difficult to approach for untrained listeners. I bet now I'd be upset by my own reactions of the first time I was introduced to bands like Gojira or Spetic Flesh 😆. It's a journey, with hopefully the possibility to create bridges with others through it sometimes!
Love that you DO find music that resonate with your personally! It's pure magic when that kind of connection happens.
@@Micro-Heartsupport 😂💯
Wow! She's like a therapist that you would want to bring to a concert with you.
Holy fuck. Idk how I found this channel but it's crazy how well you break this down instead of just letting it be the head banger that it is 🤣 kudos.
I love this band. Their music has really helped me get through some hard times in my life
I found your channel less than 24hrs ago and I’ve watched more than a dozen videos. I just turned 30 last year and I’ve been listening to Slipknot since 2006. I got to see them live in 2012 and it was magnificent. I’ve dealt with personal depression since high school and slipknot and all metal music has helped me through the darkness. Thank you @heartsupport for being a wonderful group to help us all with the best music that exists!
Literally was searching you as I just stumbled across you yesterday and loved what I heard. Especially for Slipknot. Thank you for this.
was legit waiting on your channel page and refreshing waiting for another slipknot video, great reaction glad you've dived more into slipknot, i suggest the song "Iowa" as a reaction next, keep up the good work!
I love watching people react to songs which i love too, especially when a therapist reacts to it, knowing damn well i need a therapist too lmao
Time for Snuff now. The live acoustic version is awesome. The emotions from Corey are great
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Thank you so much for making these videos it's so validating to see a professional acknowledge the cathartic release I get from Slipknot music and metal in general and how therapeutic that can be instead of being shamed for "listening to sad angry music instead of getting real help"
This👏🤘
You put it right when you said it's about the pain of loss but also the pain of remembering that we've lost so much and changed because of it, I found out about this song 8 years ago when my grandfather had just passed away and nothing has been the same ever since then, I've really become an empty shell of my former self if I even was something to begin with, now days are just pain
From Micro: Thank you so much for sharing about this here, friend. I'm so sorry that life has been so heavy and painful for you, especially since you lost your grandfather. Losing someone we love dearly definitely changes lives. There is a before and an after, and as much as we wish to have the possibility to go back to the way things were, it is the burden of grief but to face that painful reality over and over. You said it's so well: it's not just about the loss itself - it's also about processing the transition it creates in our life, whether it's right after learning about the loss or even years later.
When losing people I love, it has always been personally a storm to walk through. Like a major, brutal storm that would affect me and people in my life in ways that seem impossible to control. You see everything happening, you feel it all very deeply, but you can only try to ride the wave as best as you can. It is hard to face the reality of death, and to be unexpectedly forced to embrace life without the presence of some people. There is both this need to compose with their absence, yet at the same time to do what we can to live a life that we would love. But it often feels like there's just an impossible contradiction between those two realities - in practice, it feels wrong to have the possibility to breathe when others don't anymore.
Then grief hits like unexpected waves that make you feel like the two steps forward you took would be now cancelled by ten steps backwards. It's so hard to deal with the heaviness of silence and emptiness that losses leave us with. It feels as if time has stopped - or at least a part of our life did. It makes it hard to put the pieces of the puzzle together again and to feel like jumping on the train of life.
I feel with you and with all my heart the heartbreak you've been through when you lost your grandfather, and how much pain it has brought into your life. It's just hard to keep up with life when someone you love is not by your side anymore. It feels safer to stay immobile somehow, to allow time to freeze in our life not just temporarily. The pain that you feel is at the measure of the love you have for him, of the beautiful connection that existed between you two. It's a beautiful yet heavy legacy to carry on with you - now mostly on your own shoulders.
Grief shapes our lives and changes us, but I can assure you though that something different can come out of it. Not a low version of life where you would be stuck in pain, and not a version where you would simply move on and forget - you can't forget anyway. There is a middle path, in between, where it is possible to keep embracing life *while* honoring the memory of your grandfather and the people you lost at the same time. It takes time to be forged, to be cultivated too, and for some of us it takes reaching out and receiving support - from family/friends or a therapist - to get through it. But as I am personally on that path now after drowning into feelings of guilt and emptiness due to grief, I simply wanted to send some hope your way that it *can* get better, and life can feel worthy again.
The people you lost may not be present physically, but their love keeps shining through you. There is no distance of time and place that will ever take away from you the beauty of their heart, of their love and care for you, nor the love you feel for them. It is an integral part of you and of your story. It is a strength, a power in itself, a beautiful motivator that goes beyond death - as your grandfather and the people who love you would certainly wish for you to live a life that fulfills you.
The version of you that you knew before your grandpa's passing may be gone, but you are not just an empty shell now. You lived, still. You survived, you coped, you tried. You may not be where you want to be now, but you never ceased to live and do what you could to push through. That is also a significant part of your story and not to be overlooked. It feels like being empty, but what it tells you is also that you have a world of possibility ahead to re-create yourself in light of what you've been through, of the pain you've been trying to compose with. You are not broken, you are not defeated. You are a painter trying to find the right colors to add to their own life. It's okay if it takes time, it's okay if it requires help. You are alive, my friend. There is more to see, more to unfold, more to experience in this life. A part of you is gone or changed, but *you* are here, and the very breath in your lungs may be one of your superpowers right now.
I believe in you. :heart:
@@HeartSupport Wow, I'm speechless: thank you so much for taking the time to write this beautiful answer, never in my life have I felt so understood, the amount of empathy it takes for someone to reach the depths of my mind like this must be insane. Seriously, thank you so much for this and I wish only good things for you
From Micro: Thank you for reaching out in the first place and sharing what's on your heart. It means a lot, really! Connection happens as we allow ourselves to share our vulnerability - and I truly admire and respect your strength there by doing so. Wishing you only good things too, and a fulfilling year ahead. You got this.
I really wish this woman was my therapist. Slipknot literally saved my life and she actually gets their music other than people just calling it noise.
Slipknot has helped my family get through so much. We all have been through so much in our short lives. There is a song I would really like you to listen to. Maybe you can explain to me why it is another song that has helped so much. It's called Vermillion part 2. I'm not sure why part 2 is better but it is. We would appreciate it. I'd explain what we have been through but it would take a very long time to explain everything. I am so glad I found this channel. I have only watched a couple videos and I love it.
Slipknot has helped me through with loss of my Mom.
@josephdecarlo1262 sorry for your loss
Thanks for sharing your heart ❤️ 💙 with the world 🌎!Sobekneferu
- Hakodesh Panagia Magdalena
Great song!
Hope that you will react to their earlier albums songs. Corey was so broken back to this time. Better will be songs with lyrics, songs like "metabolic, disasterpiece, everything ends". Its interesting for you like the psychological side of it
Here here
This song has helped many times, and it still helps to listening to it when u feel lost
I love this woman hahaha, she is the best.
Sure get damn pumped up over this shit eh? Actually refreshing to see. I'd have the same reaction too if I was new to the band and it's artistry. But after digesting it all over the last 20 plus years that shock effect of how good it is isn't at your level. But I must admit I'm really enjoying your take on all the possible meanings behind the songs and have sparked some of that enthusiasm for the music again. Would love to see you dissect "Killpop". That track is a fukn monster
Damn, this is probably the 8th song maybe 4th that I've responded to and I can't get enough of your explanations for why I am the way I am
Slipknot is like my free therapy, because I've been through some shit here and there. But I lost my girlfriend a couple years ago, and I still remembered those days that I got to talk to her.
I would be interested in her giving bad omens "like a Villian" or "Just Pretend"
one song you might like that has a strong meaning is cemetery gates by pantera
I love your vids, although I’m relatively new to the channel, but I feel you should pause more often while you’re talking because I love to hear your insight. The music in the background distracts me because I have adhd so I can’t focus too well on two things at once or I’ll get stressed out. But again I applaud and appreciate your videos so much
Disasterpiece London Live 2002 year please))
Great song of my teen ages
Best reaction videos on UA-cam
Good afternoon, I started watching your stuff yesterday actually.
There was a video that mention possible requests of song analysis,
I was wondering if it would be alright with you, if you ever get the time, to check into a group know as Breakdown of Sanity. The song is called traces. It would mean a lot if someone as open minded as you would analyze it.
Was having trouble deciding if was going to ask about Traces or their any song off their Album Perception. Hope to hear back!! Have a Blessed day :)
This song takes me back to my ex cherri
First time I experienced soul crushing heart sickness
I'm wondering if you, as a therapist, will be getting around to reacting to: Given Up by Linkin Park; who's singer (Chester Bennington) died of suicide__Say Hello 2 Heaven by Temple of the Dog; who's singer (Chris Cornell) died of suicide__Fall to Pieces by Velvet Revolver; who's singer died of an OD__Chloe Dancer/Crown of Thorns by Mother Love Bone; who's singer (Andy Wood) died of an OD__Sliver by Nirvana; who's singer (Kurt Cobain) died by suicide__'River of Deceit' by Mad Season or 'Love, Hate, Love' by Alice in Chains; who's singer (Layne Staley) died (supposedly) of an OD.
I would like a break down of wait and bleed. Thats my first song i related to from slipknot.
The part with paul always hits me like it was almost a foreshadowing of what was coming.
He was holding on to the pain. He learned to let the painful past go. He put them to rest. Which allowed him to find peace.
"Killpop" is a good one as well
Slipknot, Soad and Rammstein - ❤️
Please please do Unsainted by Slipknot!
You should listen to disturbed a reason to fight and hold on to memories
Please react to "Nobody" by Avenged Sevenfold
@heartsupport, I am forced to live the memories over and over like flippin groundhog day. This song as I sing along I find it moves me to angry tears. Takes me back to when my now ex walked out on me and our kids shortly after I'd lost my job. But I've still gotta see the witch every other weekend when it's my turn for having the kids. For the most part the feelings stay buried deep..but certain things bring them back.
From ThriceTheThird: @cpic3danes Hi!! Thanks for sharing how you relate and what you are going though. If you ever wanna unbury more of those feelings, feel free to share more with us! Hope you are having an alright day today. <3
From jpaga: @cpic3danes Hey, I’m glad you were able to unbury some of those feelings with us! It’s totally understandable that the situation you’re in elicits anger, but it’s important to find healthy outlets to let that out sometimes - especially considering the ongoing nature of the problem. I’m not sure if there’s anybody in your surroundings that you can turn to or any hobbies that can alleviate that tension, but in any case, don't forget we’re always here if you need to vent!!
From Micro: @cpic3danes It must be so hard to keep seeing your ex-wife, even if it is of course a good thing for the sake of your kids, and even if it may only be through brief moments. Somehow, it's enough to reactivate this deep pain that you've been carrying - and it makes absolutely sense to feel the way you do. Seeing her is like adding salt on an open wound. It makes the pain very raw again and it feels coming back to this sensation over and over slows the healing process as a whole. On the contrary, it feels like it pushes you backwards again and again while you've been deploying all your energy to take steps forwards and heal those wounds. As long as you can have control over it, it remains buried and out of sight. But sometimes there is something in your environment, something out of control, that reminds you of this cursed day and memories of when she left.
I can only imagine how painful this time of your life must have been. On top of losing your job, losing the family you had at the time and just how life was. It's the type of season in life that makes you feel like the universe is making a really bad joke and forces you to rebuild everything all over again. It feels like your roots have been pulled out and you're forced to grow something again from what looks like nothingness, and without any tool handed to you. It's so hard to be in the midst of that type of storm, to cultivate hope when you see what you've built crumbling down around you.
It's good to hear that this music can bring some relief somehow, even if it manifests through angry tears. There are emotions in you that deserve to be expressed and felt entirely, not to be pushed away and not to be endured unexpectedly. Somehow, you are releasing things that have been buried deep and need your attention, and you can be damn proud of yourself for letting it all out. These wounds that you carry take time to be healed, and it's understandable that you would still find yourself mourning over what has been lost. You will get there, friend. You will get to a point when this will be replaced as a part of your story, but not as something that would overwhelm your present anymore. I believe in you. :heart:
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R.I.P Paul Grey
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That was a great homage to Joey Jordison.
Vermillion, such a powerful song. Please break it down.
Aaaahhhhhhhghggggggggg!!!!!!!😭😭😭😭❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
I really enjoy your reactions and how you analyze the lyrics. I have so many people ask how I listen to that noise, it's all about the message.
If you never knew the guitarist mick tomphson the guy who corey tired to push past has the Japanese kanji for hate writen on one arm and SEVEN on the other
if you öike coreys lyrics, chevh out Stone Sour, hes other band❤
you should check out through glass by stone sour. same singer, different band, same brooding darkness, different tempo.
I love slipknot! This song represents divorce to me, " traded in my emotions for a contract to commit, and when I got away, I only got so far".
Maby make use of the pause button a bit more or just jot down some notes on a pad during the song.. you seem to mis alot of the messages in songs due to talking over verses. Appreciate you rocking out so hard though forsure! If i had just half of your energy id be a lucky human lol
Yeah she misses so much talking over it.
I usually cant stand listening videos because usually they dont even try to understand the music. This lady does.
Coal is weak. With enough heat, pressure, and patience, a diamond is spawned.
- 491st Nerf Herders Gulingi Olodumare Dami C17 ◇ Archons
If you haven’t you should do citizen soliders song
Kiddo...
My wife passed away 6 months ago!!!
We played the game for a fuckin decade!!
You can discard the memories too
Corey Taylor Snuff live version
Should listen to Fade to Black by Metallica
Would have been nice if she talked a little more about the imagery.
Next react to: slipknot - custer
Down in a hole- alice in chains please the brasil begging you
It's a crying shame what's become of Slipknot because they were once a great band. Sadly, that is no more...
All Hope is Gone is one of their best albums
i didn't really enjoy their latest album, but to say they're not good anymore is just wrong, you simply don't like the newer songs.
@@skrrt6975 You completely missed the point of my comment. It has nothing do with the music, it’s about the energy they give off. Early on it was about the music and being grateful for the fans, now it’s nothing but a corporation. That became painfully obvious when they fired Joey in an email like a bunch of pussies. I don’t care what anyone says, they did him dirty and he never recovered from that and I believe that ended being the reason he lost his life. Without Joey, there never would have been the Slipknot there is today.
@@kwantoon I didn't understand your point at first, my bad and I definitely understand where you're coming from, but I feel like seeing the bigger picture matters more here, the reason why they kicked Joey out, was because they thought he was doing drugs all the time (the entire song AOV is dedicated to this), the actual truth came out later and I respect Joey so much for this, he knew the reason why he was getting kicked out, even if it wasn't true, but he still didn't say anything to anyone for years, however, Joey did kind of act like a dick, while the band was grieving the loss of Paul, Corey in particular had a really bad time with it, he needed a break from recording songs and to come back when HE was ready, Joey was pissed about this and threatened to kick Corey out, they obviously couldn't really get along after that, Slipknot prioritized their iconic vocalist over their drummer, while Joey was absolutely one of the main reasons why we even have Slipknot today and he was one of the most talented drummers to date, he was a lot more replaceable than Corey, this and the fact that they thought he kept abusing drugs, while everyone else was getting sober ultimately played a part in their decision, I love everyone of the original members, but I definitely see why it had to be done, firing him through an email was absolutely a dick move tho, I don't agree with that and I feel like if they just sat down and talked, none of this would've happened.
But I definitely understand why you feel the way you feel, Slipknot absolutely has become more of a corporation now, than a band who loved making music for the sake of it, I feel like the Chris Fehn incident showcased this the best (basically Corey and Shawn own the entire group, everyone else is considered an employee and nothing more)
I still love their music and they shaped my childhood, so I am able to differentiate music from reality, same way I was able to listen to black metal for years, while not agreeing with the church burnings, but everyone is different and I completely understand that.
Dead memory’s are empty and numb
please react to lifelover
any linkin park song next
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I'm not 100% sure but, someone might need to switch to de-cafe. On a positive note I now know what my drummer must feel like when Im off the beat on guitar.🤣
How many calories do y'all think she burns with each reaction
Gotta do people=shit
Great song I'm Irish you look great
@heartsupport i was able to deal with my hardship in a matter of days
Why is the volume so low?