Well.. how does that saying go? "One man's trash, is another man's treasure" ..? Or something like that.. 🤷🏽♂️ But the gold debloom was a painted nickel in this case 🤭
“took her from a guy” was his first red 🚩. The fact that she could be taken indicates that she was cheating on her ex with Roberts & she probably cheated on Robert,too. Stay on over there,Robert,because we don’t want you.
@@ckantrel1977 😂Sis, he “done run out”(my late dad’s words) over there and wanna come back over here. Nope. He doesn’t even have sense enough not to say that out loud.
I mean it doesn't look like the grass is greener as long as it's a woman in your country because my white male friend got with a black woman and she broke his arm he called the police and he got arrested
*He lost me at "I took her from another guy." Yep, you decided to wife up a cheater... No one feels bad for you one iota.* The other guy lucked out by having you take her off his hands.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized
is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Letting go of someone you love is always challenging, but in my situation, I had the guidance of a spiritual counselor who prevented my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..
Keisha is a bigger supporter of wyt supremacy than any karen though, so it's damned if you do damned if you don't. at least with karen it hurts less cause you expect it from them.
"I took her from another man" is code for "I was her affair partner." Dude couldn't see the red flags with those rose-tinted glasses. That's what happens when you think with your smaller head, men.
@@b9479 I'm not here to split hairs. Her kind of behavior is prevalent in men and women in equal amounts. Meaning, it's not a gender thing; it's a human flaw that needs to be weeded out of the behavioral gene pool. And, yes, you SHOULD NEVER take a partner who is willing to cheat on their spouse with or leave their spouse for you. To cheaters and monkey branchers, you're just a placeholder until the next new shiny object of their desire comes trotting unwittingly along. (Also, you SHOULD NEVER date anyone like him either because he is a mate poacher, and mate poachers have no honor or integrity. I even daresay, mate poachers are equally as deviant as cheaters.)
@@CryptoPump610 This is my point exactly. People like to think they're special when a cheater leaves a partner for them. They like to think, "Oh, I'm different" when in reality, they're not. Then they're surprised when their cheating SO cheats on them too. *Face palm* Like, what else were you expecting? A happy ever after with a hobo for the streets??? Vain mate poachers get what they gamble for.
Very glad that you discuss this topic today. Black men and women that date outside the race need to shut their damn mouths about what goes on within their race. Those other groups are not going to bad mouth their own to Outsiders.
FACTS Brother Oshay, no lies detected here! As Black People around the world we teach people how to treat us. I see it all the time here in South Africa, white people will walk all over you if you're a docile type.
That black dude does not really want a black woman. It's not in his heart, and black women will sense it. Why even bother? He should just enjoy his three kids as a single man.
Exactly. Because when yt females get with 🖤 guys their people never accept them back. Especially if they had kids. I believe 🖤 women should have that same rule when it comes to 🖤 guys like this. This guy doesn’t have anything to offer a 🖤 woman at all. He just need to go back where he was at and make himself comfortable.
They’re not! It’s a word of endearment. The word came from ngr…. Which means ruler, Pharoah, god. Nothing nasty o derogatory about that at all. The word came from Egypt when it was black and those folks been jealous of us!
The more simple the mind, the less difference it can find. There’s power in words. It’s one of the reasons the kids of single mothers perform so poorly, women are worse at choosing their words carefully, opting for expressing emotions.
I dated a Korean girl here in Korea. I thought we could have a long future together, but her sister kept referring to me as 'the Negro'. I was like nope. Called it off immediately.
@evonnereed9268 Whats that supposed to mean? I live in Korea...there aren't many Black women here. The Black woman I was interested in, and most of the Black women here who are not in the military, are all Korea boos...
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized."
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Letting go of someone you love is always challenging, but in my situation, I had the guidance of a spiritual counselor who prevented my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Why would you ever think that a group of people that can take you into servitude and bondage that any of them would never be the same these people do not change. The only thing that has changed is their forefathers were a little bit more ruthless. 🤷🏼♀️🤬👎🏼 It wouldn't matter if it was the na ending let's be clear 🤯😳👎🏼🤬😕
I just moved to Texas last August, it’s definitely different down here, I’ll say this. These SO CALLED BROTHERS don’t know they’re free down here, they love Becky 👎🏿 I’m cool, after I retire in 11 months, I’m out of Texas.
To each his own, and do whatever makes you happy 😊. I love black women too much, to settle for the other side. Even though they get on my last nerve, and extremely difficult to get along with. My own mother was toxic as hell. But I digress. This dude walked right into it, and I will never believe that he didn't know beforehand. To many black men, it's a come up, to White up. This brother got baptized by fire 🔥, which in my opinion he rightly deserved. I'm going to continue to stay on the black side of the.
I don’t care if it’s the “A” or the hard R; its all the same to me. And this is nothing new for BM to allow non-black women to throw the N word around. Epecially in California.
As long as men think they can call women misogynistic slurs and be in relationships with them, then I’m all for non-black women using racist slurs with black men. Hypocritical otherwise. Don’t call your partner the B word if you don’t want to be called the N word.
Thank you Oshay you hit the nail in the head. As an African I remember telling a coworker of mine who kept saying he tells his white girlfriend how he hates American black women. As an African I was offended I remember telling home keep doing that and watch how disrespectful she will be with you. I was on a date once with a guy that kept saying I want to marry you because you are different from American black women and he would say all this things and it made me so uncomfortable and I broke up with him. No matter how challenging your race is don't bash it against other races makes you look bad anyways.
I’ve seen a few Officer Tatum’s videos, not a fan, but watched a few videos. But once I saw who he was married to, I can only imagine their pillow talk. I can’t take him seriously.
That's a little harsh, isn't it? Where's the forgiveness? Where's the black love? More importantly, why is it ok for black people to openly shun other black people for dating outside their race, but if the races were reversed, there would be an issue?
@@Mike-ss6ui No it's not harsh cause I guarantee you he was just like these other brothers (and sistas) who thought the grass was greener. And they always get their warning before they dip their toes in the milky lake. Now they wanna come home? ....nah. Go find you Ms Lopez or Ms. Sue Yen or something.
@@blackolantern5666 All I'm saying is that it isn't good to judge and shame black people for dating outside their race. There's nothing inherently wrong with loving someone who does not share your same skin tone and culture. Also, it isn't good to assume this gentleman's intentions. All we really know is that he married a white woman and got divorced because she was racist. You shouldn't automatically assume that he believed that white women were superior to black women simply because you may not agree with interracial dating.
Them wake up calls be happening right in the middle of a good dream😂 my white sister in law cant stand me because i have a strong relationship with my brother..she doesnt like black women and is always looking for a way to talk down to me.. i hate that my niece and nephew have to hear her.. shes pretty evil
Of course. It takes two...but it doesn't matter. To diminish her husband with the N word is a hard stop and it has to be over at that point. No understanding
@@caprice28I agree. There's more to it. They were martied. Three kids. You don't wake one day and out of nowhere use the n-word with the parent of your three kids. Does not happen. Bro id leaving out sonething. Just like Oshay suggested.
Why not? His white ex was supposed to be different from other white folks. She chose him & birth 3 of his children. There is no way in his mind that she considered him to be a NINJA… unlike THOSE other Black guys.
Seeing that he "stole" from another guy, this was inevitable. He married a janky wht wmn. So, I will tell him just I like tell the ladies.... PICK BETTER.
I am curious- how do individuals feel about dating a person who have been with the lesser being? I do not want to be with half black people who sleeps white. This for me would be dumpster diving. Their spirit would not sit well with my ancestors. Sleeping with the oppressors - wow.
Bruh Growing Up In South I Was Called The "N" Word In First Grade. Went Home And Once It Was Explained To Me By My Parents. I Always Knew When Some Of Those People Get Upset With You That's There Go-To Word To Try Hurt And Disrespect You. My Ex Fiancée Who Was Latina Was Told Day One You Won't Use That Word Around Me. I Personally Don't Use It At All. His Story Is A Cautionary Tale That This Occurs Quite Often. Just Ask Halle Berry And Many Others.
Yep. Why work hard all my life for a white woman? Never for me. Plenty of beautiful well behaved black women from all over the world. No need for me to swirl.
I've dated etc.. Many white women, and you can tell which ones are with you for fetish vs you just happen to be black. I know he had to see those signs too
Nah bro stay over there with them *Karens* 👱🏼♀️ that you oh so preferred. There’s nothing better than a *Beautiful* *Black* *Queen* 👸🏾 and I stand on that statement *Ten* *Toes* 🦶🏾 *Down.* 🤷🏾♂️ *#YeahISaidIt* *#IMeantItTooBTW*
I had to check a Latino on that one time, he said I’m not like the other ones and I said yeah and you ain’t hanging ppl from bridges like the cartels or kidnapping and selling dope, that’s when he realized that I was actually better than him because all he had was the stereotype black stuff but once I flipped it on him and I’m speaking more intelligently than him what you got to compete with?
Why is he crying bc he knew going in, THATS WHAT THEY DO! Ijust guess he thought he was so much mire than he actually was. F around and found out, didnt he? LOVE THAT FOR HIM 😂😂😂
Tatum dating white women due to culture? Tatum can say what he wants but white men in particular are more against interracial dating. Black people didn't create the climate and laws of hate for interracial dating or marriage.
He said she introduced him to organic food healthy food and exercise a different life 😂 I knew about these thing as a kid it took him getting a WW in college gtfoh 😂 he bs then said blk women weren’t on that type of stuff that’s lie as well you got some who are and those who aren’t
So white ppl make the rules and we follow? Tatum is biracial what exactly is his culture? And how do we as “blacks” have a culture when we been around white ppl since we been here.
He’s off the market. According to scriptures he is still married to his first wife until she passes away. The amount of adultery that’s going on these days is mind blowing.
Everything is good and bad. One of the bad aspects of interracial dating is when you get mad at each other, you're more likely to call each other racial names to hurt each other. (Ask Halle Berry)
I think you're reading too deep into what happened in their relationship. He simply picked a low tier woman, and his own actions proved that he is a low tier man himself. Let's not pretend that he was practically bragging about "stealing her" from another man. What type of man doesn't respect another man or another person's relationship? Why would anyone assume he is respectful of his own relationships when he isn't of others? Don't even get me started on her because she clearly acted on some 304 shit. Then she got paranoid, thinking everyone, including her new man, is capable of her behavior and actions. If his actions remained the same, and he got with a black woman, I promise you the results would be the same. The only difference would be it would hurt his soul less, being called the n word.
Once you said dallas i said nuff said. I moved down here and aint nothing but bm with ww and bw with goofy looking wm. Its different like they just dont want to deal with each other . It be the locals mainly
I love women period. I love my black women. I love my mom, sister, etc. I am a fitness junkie and a gym rat. I live in Mississippi. I can't speak for any place else but the fit white girls outnumber the black girls at least 20 to 1 in the gym. Not talking bad against anyone but that's the reality and honestly I hate it but it's the truth. So I date the body type I'm attracted to and can relate to. I wish my sisters in the south would step their game up. When it comes to fitness
You’re looking in the wrong places. Your not suppose to settle and your people should always be your only choice. You love what you are attracted too. So you don’t love your own because you would search until you find a good women from your kindred
My ex no ring and i was too Black for him. He had kids ring and all that and Ms.WW she dun with him. Now he wants me but as Convenience. Not Happening 😂
I could never be a racist person. But Am real struggles to understand some of my blake comunity brodas. when they start to make money and got rich.they don't give back to their community. And they turned their back on the black girls.how can we rise as a community. Smh.
It’s not their responsibility to “give back to the community”;this narrative is long since played out. You’ll be saying that same thing if things haven’t changed in 2050
@thechosenone93 What also blows my mind is that they also want to dictate the terms of how you give back, how you earn it, and with whom you earn it. "You're an entrepreneur with an Asian wife? Well, we'll take your money but we won't respect you for it. You want to build a financial literacy center? Nah, I need food and diapers!" It's wild double speak.
@@thechosenone93 Oh, not me, hell nah. I'm remembering the comments when Robert Smith paid off the student loans for the graduating of Morehouse in 2019. Instead of applauding the man, they just focused on his wife not being black. To a lot of them, "paying back" doesn't mean paving a road for them with less difficulty than the successful black person had to endure to accomplish it. It just means, "give us money or give us a job, even if we aren't qualified." They wouldn't see me teaching my nieces, nephews and their friends about Tech and great starter positions as "giving back," even though I started by learning these things by myself. They don't have a vision for what giving back is, where it's meant to lead and how much preparation they need to be ready for such an opportunity. You're supposed to just give it to them because they look like you.
Isaiah 13:14 [14]And it shall be as the chased roe, and as a sheep that no man taketh up: they shall every man turn to his own people, and flee every one into his own land.
Man some of these comments, would y’all be ok if white dudes made these comments? I’m betting probably not you would say that they were racist. People should date who they want no matter what, without the judgement of the race of who they choose.
Black people are the most to make videos talking about interracial relationships 24/7. Most of these pro blacks on here continues to stay highlighting it especially when it's among bm
Ppl will often time reveal how they see you when they get angry. Opportunistic women be marrying a mans pockets if he is stable. Know who you getting with.
Just because a Caucasian marries a Black person it doesn't mean that the caucasian isn't raycist.
Facts
Exactly; how do YOU think Foundational American Blacks got their last names!?!?
??? ... if you are a racist, why you should even think to marry somebody from another race ?
Just because a blk marries a caucasian doesn't mean he isn't raycist....facts. goes both ways
This could go for any race even our own.
The craziest thing i ever hear dudes say is they love white women because white women understand black men lol. My jaw drops every time.
It shouldn’t. We’ve been bending them over for hundreds of years. The light skinned folks didn’t solely come from WM/BW.
How can the most privileged being understand the struggle of the most looked down upon man in America?
Exactly. That's the 3rd group that caused issues for black men@@Lordamraphel
🦝 disgust me, shit is so pathetic, can’t believe i share a race with these ppl
@@Lordamraphelmost privileged? 😂😂😂.ahh the mindset of the American black person.
Don’t feel bad for him…their actions are displayed in history and he still chose to be with them
He took another guy's trash while he thought she was gold.
White gold
Well.. how does that saying go? "One man's trash, is another man's treasure" ..? Or something like that.. 🤷🏽♂️ But the gold debloom was a painted nickel in this case 🤭
She was nothing but roadkill
Black men need to stop tossing trash around in circles.
“There’s a whole history behind it.” The understatement of the century.
Facts. I started making up fights he probably had in my head. lol
He only left because she did it in front the kids. She probably been doing that behind closed doors.
Them kids are screwed. Mom showing how she really feels about them
Right I was looking for this comment. She got so bold to say it around the kids because she says it to him often
It’s more common than you think. I’ve met bm who date them who have said that they don’t care if they call them it.
His story isn’t even adding up though. It’s sounds like he needed some excuse that he though black people would accept.
@@Jwebb-zh9gj that’s dumb. Who cares what other people think. You have to do what’s best for you. Someone will always have an opinion.
"I took her from a guy. Yuck, yuck, yuck." That's all I need to hear.
Kendra should have asked if the guy was black 😅😅😅😅
@@mackenzyphilippe7508 🤣
He loves sloppy seconds🤮
I remember when a white chic years ago said i looked good for a blk guy. But she didnt look good for a white girl. 😂
She probably thought all BLK guys fall for wyt women no matter what they look like
Yup. Her statement was screaming disrespect. As if your ethnicity made you a step lower. Folks got nerve
Bingo you have 4 or 5 White Women acting like 9 or 10's. They always act like they're bigger than what they are.
In school a girl was interested in me but wanted me to act "TV black" like Martin or Friday movies 🤷🏾♂️
@@nalokitten Why do White Women act like whether Black or Minority you have to act like what Hollywood portrays us?
Now he wants to “come home” when it’s bad.
Right
“took her from a guy” was his first red 🚩. The fact that she could be taken indicates that she was cheating on her ex with Roberts & she probably cheated on Robert,too. Stay on over there,Robert,because we don’t want you.
😂😂😂😂
@@ckantrel1977 😂Sis, he “done run out”(my late dad’s words) over there and wanna come back over here. Nope. He doesn’t even have sense enough not to say that out loud.
@@dyoung2739 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣why did he say that out loud 🤦🤦🤦🤦 I guess he can have a a swirler bw,since they have something in common 🤷🤷🤷 I don't know
@@sidneywilder2731 😂🤣
He thought the grass was greener. She got tired of pretending
I mean it doesn't look like the grass is greener as long as it's a woman in your country because my white male friend got with a black woman and she broke his arm he called the police and he got arrested
true she wanted to call him that long time ...she was doing it under her breth long time
@@shanishay9713this happened in all races what’s your point did you really just try to act like Dv and racism 😂
@@shanishay9713also your one story doesn’t speak for all
Exactly
*He lost me at "I took her from another guy." Yep, you decided to wife up a cheater... No one feels bad for you one iota.* The other guy lucked out by having you take her off his hands.
Oh 1000%. Plus something is off about his story.
As soon as he said hard R, I immediately thought of Dr Umar...
Yoooooo sameeeeee lol
Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha 😂 daymn!
Black Queens forever,❄️❄️❄️❄️🐰🐇🐰🐇🚫😁🤷🏾♀️😎
Doctor my azz.....Umar is a thief.....
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized
is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Letting go of someone you love is always challenging, but in my situation, I had the guidance of a spiritual counselor who prevented my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks
You definitely should. You wont regret it
Exactly he got disrespected more than that
In front of the kids too smh
unbeknownst to him she always thought of him that way.
Exactly, now imagine what she was saying behind his back.
Keisha is a bigger supporter of wyt supremacy than any karen though, so it's damned if you do damned if you don't. at least with karen it hurts less cause you expect it from them.
@bm945 both are enemies of black men in America.
This part! Bc if thats not in your heart...its not gonna come out your mouth!!
"I took her from another man" is code for "I was her affair partner." Dude couldn't see the red flags with those rose-tinted glasses. That's what happens when you think with your smaller head, men.
NEVER take a woman seriously, who's willing to leave her husband or boyfriend for you
*milk tinted glasses
If she leaves her man for you she probably will leave you for another man.
@@b9479 I'm not here to split hairs. Her kind of behavior is prevalent in men and women in equal amounts. Meaning, it's not a gender thing; it's a human flaw that needs to be weeded out of the behavioral gene pool. And, yes, you SHOULD NEVER take a partner who is willing to cheat on their spouse with or leave their spouse for you. To cheaters and monkey branchers, you're just a placeholder until the next new shiny object of their desire comes trotting unwittingly along. (Also, you SHOULD NEVER date anyone like him either because he is a mate poacher, and mate poachers have no honor or integrity. I even daresay, mate poachers are equally as deviant as cheaters.)
@@CryptoPump610 This is my point exactly. People like to think they're special when a cheater leaves a partner for them. They like to think, "Oh, I'm different" when in reality, they're not. Then they're surprised when their cheating SO cheats on them too. *Face palm* Like, what else were you expecting? A happy ever after with a hobo for the streets??? Vain mate poachers get what they gamble for.
I actually like how he broke up another relationship and got more than he bargained for 😂 karma’s a b*tch ❤
Very glad that you discuss this topic today. Black men and women that date outside the race need to shut their damn mouths about what goes on within their race. Those other groups are not going to bad mouth their own to Outsiders.
FACTS Brother Oshay, no lies detected here! As Black People around the world we teach people how to treat us. I see it all the time here in South Africa, white people will walk all over you if you're a docile type.
That black dude does not really want a black woman. It's not in his heart, and black women will sense it. Why even bother? He should just enjoy his three kids as a single man.
I agree. I wouldn't date him knowing his background
You can hear the smugness in his questions still
Exactly. Because when yt females get with 🖤 guys their people never accept them back. Especially if they had kids. I believe 🖤 women should have that same rule when it comes to 🖤 guys like this. This guy doesn’t have anything to offer a 🖤 woman at all. He just need to go back where he was at and make himself comfortable.
He is damaged goods
Yup he should try an Asian woman
Why is there a difference between a hard E R and a medium A?
They are both nasty.
I feel the same way
They’re not! It’s a word of endearment. The word came from ngr…. Which means ruler, Pharoah, god. Nothing nasty o derogatory about that at all. The word came from Egypt when it was black and those folks been jealous of us!
The more simple the mind, the less difference it can find. There’s power in words. It’s one of the reasons the kids of single mothers perform so poorly, women are worse at choosing their words carefully, opting for expressing emotions.
@@knowledgetree7134🤦🏽♂️
@@knowledgetree7134man them white people who made that word wasn’t thinking of no Egypt
I dated a Korean girl here in Korea. I thought we could have a long future together, but her sister kept referring to me as 'the Negro'. I was like nope. Called it off immediately.
😂. She is not her sister.
@tiffnym Mother and father could be the same way...And there's no way I'm gonna marry into a family of even one of them is like that. Why would I?
@@francoismarc3 Soooo...blk men know about marriage ?
Oh,...OK....I get it.... just not to blk women.
@evonnereed9268 Whats that supposed to mean? I live in Korea...there aren't many Black women here. The Black woman I was interested in, and most of the Black women here who are not in the military, are all Korea boos...
@goddessb582 thank you
You should have stayed with your own kind in the first place.
Does not mean a successful marriage...check out the divorce rate with the black community...
The first red flag was that he was able to take her away from her ex which means she not a loyal woman...
Correct he has poor judgement too😊
Correct he has poor judgement too, basically he snatched her from her ex. Is this law of karma biting back hmmmm 🤔🤔
I told you not to call me 🥷🏾 in front of the kids!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😅😂
😂😂😂
Emotional voice. You said you'd Never call me Ni**** in front of the kids!" 😅
LOSER😢
In front of the kids ,got damn,that's terrible
wow... he was living a fantasy believing she would not call him the N word....... this kind of thinking puzzles some psychologists
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized."
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Letting go of someone you love is always challenging, but in my situation, I had the guidance of a spiritual counselor who prevented my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
Brothers haven't learned anything from the o.j Simpson situationship?????
Or Bill Cosby, Herman Cain, Jonathan Majors and Tiger Woods.
@@adilrasheed5295 Well most black men that have their lives ruined have them ruined by their own people.
But we've learned enough from our own community
@@adilrasheed5295 Tiger is like 15 percent black lol its not weird he likes white women
RIP to O.J Simpson.
Why would you ever think that a group of people that can take you into servitude and bondage that any of them would never be the same these people do not change. The only thing that has changed is their forefathers were a little bit more ruthless. 🤷🏼♀️🤬👎🏼 It wouldn't matter if it was the na ending let's be clear 🤯😳👎🏼🤬😕
I just moved to Texas last August, it’s definitely different down here, I’ll say this. These SO CALLED BROTHERS don’t know they’re free down here, they love Becky 👎🏿 I’m cool, after I retire in 11 months, I’m out of Texas.
That’s how it is down there..
Weird because most white women in Texas don't want black men.
Because we are more conservative. I live in Fort Worth and all my black friends at UTA want a WW. I myself will get a petite one.
I HAVE NOT AS A BLACK MAN DATED A YT WOMAN AT ALL & NOT CURIOUS ABOUT THAT AT ALL!!!!!!
I’m glad I can read people it’s a no go for WW for me!
Well if you have not learned from 400 years of history. Nope I’m not surprised. But I’m surprised that you surprised
Just like Bed winches I don’t care about bed bucks they are both the same in my eye sight
I been thinking that since black men love to call bw bed wenches because their men are white. So the term bed buck is for black men white women.
I believe that his wife said the N-word, but there was more to him getting divorced than that.
Oh yeah. There’s definitely more to this story !! He’s not telling the truth.. about something
It is way more to it
It's always way more complex. The problem is, if you go into the details even just a little bit, it has to be a 6-hour conversation.
Facts 😅
It crazy y’all want more to her story but no one else’s 😂 the benefit of the doubt is always given y’all can’t help it
To each his own, and do whatever makes you happy 😊. I love black women too much, to settle for the other side. Even though they get on my last nerve, and extremely difficult to get along with. My own mother was toxic as hell. But I digress. This dude walked right into it, and I will never believe that he didn't know beforehand. To many black men, it's a come up, to White up. This brother got baptized by fire 🔥, which in my opinion he rightly deserved. I'm going to continue to stay on the black side of the.
lol not they get on your last nerve😂 I understand
If you deal with the trauma from your childhood you’ll see that it’s not the black woman that’s getting on your nerves
@@ladybugjones76 This
@@ladybugjones76 It's black women just like you that I don't deal with. And single you shall remain 😌. Baby momma l
@@ladybugjones76 Facts!
I don’t care if it’s the “A” or the hard R; its all the same to me.
And this is nothing new for BM to allow non-black women to throw the N word around. Epecially in California.
As long as men think they can call women misogynistic slurs and be in relationships with them, then I’m all for non-black women using racist slurs with black men. Hypocritical otherwise. Don’t call your partner the B word if you don’t want to be called the N word.
Thank you Oshay you hit the nail in the head. As an African I remember telling a coworker of mine who kept saying he tells his white girlfriend how he hates American black women. As an African I was offended I remember telling home keep doing that and watch how disrespectful she will be with you. I was on a date once with a guy that kept saying I want to marry you because you are different from American black women and he would say all this things and it made me so uncomfortable and I broke up with him. No matter how challenging your race is don't bash it against other races makes you look bad anyways.
Just bc she hasn't said it to you..doesn't mean she doesn't say it with her FRIENDS! It's only a matter of time before it slips out smh.
He left due to the name slur, unclean house, bad habits, food, cultural differences
This is the truth smh
IR dating is just unstoppable, when 1 person is quitting, 20 are getting involved.
True
True...
I’ve seen a few Officer Tatum’s videos, not a fan, but watched a few videos. But once I saw who he was married to, I can only imagine their pillow talk. I can’t take him seriously.
That dude is a bootlick.
Sistas…don’t take him back.
Sisters don't need Karen's scraps. Why do black men want to date black women when they're at their worst? It's disgusting.
That's a little harsh, isn't it? Where's the forgiveness? Where's the black love? More importantly, why is it ok for black people to openly shun other black people for dating outside their race, but if the races were reversed, there would be an issue?
@@Mike-ss6ui No it's not harsh cause I guarantee you he was just like these other brothers (and sistas) who thought the grass was greener. And they always get their warning before they dip their toes in the milky lake. Now they wanna come home? ....nah. Go find you Ms Lopez or Ms. Sue Yen or something.
@@blackolantern5666 All I'm saying is that it isn't good to judge and shame black people for dating outside their race. There's nothing inherently wrong with loving someone who does not share your same skin tone and culture. Also, it isn't good to assume this gentleman's intentions. All we really know is that he married a white woman and got divorced because she was racist. You shouldn't automatically assume that he believed that white women were superior to black women simply because you may not agree with interracial dating.
@Mike-ss6ui. You messin with a Becky aren’t you or you’ve had at one time right?
We are our only hope. We should date only within our own community
Them wake up calls be happening right in the middle of a good dream😂 my white sister in law cant stand me because i have a strong relationship with my brother..she doesnt like black women and is always looking for a way to talk down to me.. i hate that my niece and nephew have to hear her.. shes pretty evil
...and your wonderful brother hasn't shut her down because? He feels the same way about black women.
It was more to the divorce than just his ex-wife calling him the n-word with an “er” at the end.
Why do you say that? Wasn't that reason enough?
Of course. It takes two...but it doesn't matter. To diminish her husband with the N word is a hard stop and it has to be over at that point. No understanding
A he!! Of a lot more… I would love to hear from her…lol
@@shawn_and_onefunny most you never ask to hear from the woman when she is the same race but now you want to hear from her 😂
@@caprice28I agree. There's more to it. They were martied. Three kids. You don't wake one day and out of nowhere use the n-word with the parent of your three kids. Does not happen. Bro id leaving out sonething. Just like Oshay suggested.
Dude shouldn't been surprised that his ex wife called him a NINJA.
Why not? His white ex was supposed to be different from other white folks. She chose him & birth 3 of his children. There is no way in his mind that she considered him to be a NINJA… unlike THOSE other Black guys.
To me, the fact that he got her from cheating should have been the red flag right there. He was wrong from the get go.
They think mixing their Race will give them some kind of acceptance.
Most BP that marry out have a SLAVE mentality, still wanting MASSA'S acceptance.
Seeing that he "stole" from another guy, this was inevitable. He married a janky wht wmn. So, I will tell him just I like tell the ladies.... PICK BETTER.
@cmonson1354 I CAUGHT THAT RED FLAG TOO BRUH!!!
She probably look like Rosie O'Donnell
I am curious- how do individuals feel about dating a person who have been with the lesser being? I do not want to be with half black people who sleeps white. This for me would be dumpster diving. Their spirit would not sit well with my ancestors. Sleeping with the oppressors - wow.
Thank you for keeping the same standards. The hypocrites in the comments have me rolling my eyes.
Right
He's open minded after saying he don't want to have other children. Yeah, ok.
Its always the go to when some wp get mad 😂 like literally
Dont let Dr Umar see this. 😂😂 lmao
He'll fold
oshay, thank you for your work.
Bruh Growing Up In South I Was Called The "N" Word In First Grade. Went Home And Once It Was Explained To Me By My Parents. I Always Knew When Some Of Those People Get Upset With You That's There Go-To Word To Try Hurt And Disrespect You. My Ex Fiancée Who Was Latina Was Told Day One You Won't Use That Word Around Me. I Personally Don't Use It At All. His Story Is A Cautionary Tale That This Occurs Quite Often. Just Ask Halle Berry And Many Others.
YUCK just YUCK!!
I'm LIKE 63, I don't date & I WILL NOT MARRY A YT WOMAN, nope I'm good reminds me of CAROLYN BRYANT to much. Good Video Oshay~ Wilmrbadguy
And you a simp for choosing a black woman
Yup brotha they showed me that documentary in elementary school and I never forgot it
Yeah I never date another white woman again
@@khalil_SRT yall simps for choosing black women
Yep. Why work hard all my life for a white woman? Never for me. Plenty of beautiful well behaved black women from all over the world. No need for me to swirl.
I've dated etc.. Many white women, and you can tell which ones are with you for fetish vs you just happen to be black. I know he had to see those signs too
Or they love the BBC
Nah bro stay over there with them *Karens* 👱🏼♀️ that you oh so preferred. There’s nothing better than a *Beautiful* *Black* *Queen* 👸🏾 and I stand on that statement *Ten* *Toes* 🦶🏾 *Down.* 🤷🏾♂️ *#YeahISaidIt* *#IMeantItTooBTW*
They should stay with their Karens in that Community and not talk about Black issues
@@sheila-we7em same with bw that has dated or married white men black men shouldnt take them back.
@@Angel05433yes you're right
I had to check a Latino on that one time, he said I’m not like the other ones and I said yeah and you ain’t hanging ppl from bridges like the cartels or kidnapping and selling dope, that’s when he realized that I was actually better than him because all he had was the stereotype black stuff but once I flipped it on him and I’m speaking more intelligently than him what you got to compete with?
I agree! You’ve been dealing with it longer than you’re leading on.
Excellent analysis.
Same stories, different men/women. When will we learn... Black women have to learn this too
Did you hear about Sade Robinson ?
@@christopherm202dcfinest2 No, what's her story?
@@adirayasharahla984 just happened this month, chopped up into pieces after she was took to this WM seggs dungeon. It’s on YT, just type in her name
@@adirayasharahla984 yt her
@@adirayasharahla984 yt her
She got mad and called him a 🥷 😂
He “took her from another guy.” Hmmm…
Man please....that wasnt the first time she said it 🙄and his laffing is proof of it.
What more will it take? The illusion of inclusion..... Umar Johnson would be laughing his ass off... Marcus Garvey would be shaking his head....
Umar is laughing because he cheated all of these blk people out of their money.
He is laughing all the way to the BANK.
It sound like she left him ……. She got tired of paying half
She was calling him that 💩 well before that time along with doing other things to him.
That part. 😂😂💯
@@Mrs.HR1 This ain’t her first racist rodeo 🙄
Sista's are impossible to get along with!!!😮
Why is he crying bc he knew going in, THATS WHAT THEY DO! Ijust guess he thought he was so much mire than he actually was. F around and found out, didnt he? LOVE THAT FOR HIM 😂😂😂
Blackmen stay away from snowbunnies, we have our own precious and beautiful Black women to love and cherish
Officer Tatum wife is WHITE, I never would've guessed that😂
Right..I was so dissapointed to hear that...I won't listen to.him anymore...
@@dianew7058 Racist>>>>>>>>>
Yeah I didn't know.
@@dianew7058 Racist...
@@marcuschristian763
My comment was sarcasm👌, no one thinks or thought his wife was BLACK 😄
Tatum dating white women due to culture? Tatum can say what he wants but white men in particular are more against interracial dating. Black people didn't create the climate and laws of hate for interracial dating or marriage.
Please define black ppl. You don't speak for black ppl around the world.
Agreed WM are against it when it comes to there women yet they date Asian women at a high rate.
He said she introduced him to organic food healthy food and exercise a different life 😂 I knew about these thing as a kid it took him getting a WW in college gtfoh 😂 he bs then said blk women weren’t on that type of stuff that’s lie as well you got some who are and those who aren’t
So white ppl make the rules and we follow? Tatum is biracial what exactly is his culture? And how do we as “blacks” have a culture when we been around white ppl since we been here.
@@BlackMist123FACTS, I see it everyday
some afrcan women would not perfer a african man who had a white woman...
Nobody cares what they prefer lol
I will stay far away from him.
He must not have liked her very much anyway and that pushed him over the edge…
Bunny hopping gone wrong.
Variety is the Spice of life man. 💪🇯🇲
He’s not telling the whole story
Why cause its a ww
@@IcantwithYoupeople No, because it's sus. There must have been many cracks in that marriage.
@@funmilayoaina2658 its not sus at all you just want to believe it
2 different forms of self hatred/ Mentacide.. and no such thing as a " preference "
Dude a Virgo he was getting ran over and turning a bling eye & deaf ear to all kinda stuff.
He’s off the market. According to scriptures he is still married to his first wife until she passes away. The amount of adultery that’s going on these days is mind blowing.
Everything is good and bad. One of the bad aspects of interracial dating is when you get mad at each other, you're more likely to call each other racial names to hurt each other.
(Ask Halle Berry)
Nah it seems like the people doing it in “heated momemts” just say what they really think.
I’ve dated IR and never encountered that
@@thechosenone93 there's exceptions to every rule and experiences will vary. Thank you for your comment.
@@therightlife9434 no problem
@@therightlife9434no one gives a fk of its a deal breaker your As better keep it together
@@IcantwithYoupeople I'm not sure completely what you said, but I'm sure it was something powerful and very important. Thank you for your comment.
What did Mohamed Ali say about the different bird races? That a dove will stick to a dove and an eagle will sticks to an eagle? Something like that?
Look at Johnathan Majors... lol
I think you're reading too deep into what happened in their relationship. He simply picked a low tier woman, and his own actions proved that he is a low tier man himself. Let's not pretend that he was practically bragging about "stealing her" from another man. What type of man doesn't respect another man or another person's relationship? Why would anyone assume he is respectful of his own relationships when he isn't of others? Don't even get me started on her because she clearly acted on some 304 shit. Then she got paranoid, thinking everyone, including her new man, is capable of her behavior and actions.
If his actions remained the same, and he got with a black woman, I promise you the results would be the same. The only difference would be it would hurt his soul less, being called the n word.
That was not her first time calling his goofy ssa a 🥷. These Bm are exhausting 🙄
Once you said dallas i said nuff said. I moved down here and aint nothing but bm with ww and bw with goofy looking wm. Its different like they just dont want to deal with each other . It be the locals mainly
Lmao, that bad huh?
Yeah I lived in Arlington TX....near Dallas.
What? Im from Dallas and most black men are with black women. You are talking about the transplanted black folks from other states.
@@tiffnym Facts! Black love is the norm here!
@@tiffnym notice how u didnt say bw with black men lol
I love women period. I love my black women. I love my mom, sister, etc. I am a fitness junkie and a gym rat. I live in Mississippi. I can't speak for any place else but the fit white girls outnumber the black girls at least 20 to 1 in the gym. Not talking bad against anyone but that's the reality and honestly I hate it but it's the truth. So I date the body type I'm attracted to and can relate to. I wish my sisters in the south would step their game up. When it comes to fitness
😂😂 most of us workout at home
You’re looking in the wrong places. Your not suppose to settle and your people should always be your only choice. You love what you are attracted too. So you don’t love your own because you would search until you find a good women from your kindred
@@Mena-sw4sp cap bw dont workout stop lying
My ex no ring and i was too Black for him. He had kids ring and all that and Ms.WW she dun with him. Now he wants me but as Convenience. Not Happening 😂
I could never be a racist person. But Am real struggles to understand some of my blake comunity brodas. when they start to make money and got rich.they don't give back to their community. And they turned their back on the black girls.how can we rise as a community. Smh.
It’s not their responsibility to “give back to the community”;this narrative is long since played out. You’ll be saying that same thing if things haven’t changed in 2050
@@thechosenone93I agree
@thechosenone93 What also blows my mind is that they also want to dictate the terms of how you give back, how you earn it, and with whom you earn it.
"You're an entrepreneur with an Asian wife? Well, we'll take your money but we won't respect you for it. You want to build a financial literacy center? Nah, I need food and diapers!"
It's wild double speak.
@@Arc-Tempo21 Nah they’re literally trying to make you the clean up man if that’s really happened to you. That’s crazy.
@@thechosenone93 Oh, not me, hell nah.
I'm remembering the comments when Robert Smith paid off the student loans for the graduating of Morehouse in 2019. Instead of applauding the man, they just focused on his wife not being black.
To a lot of them, "paying back" doesn't mean paving a road for them with less difficulty than the successful black person had to endure to accomplish it. It just means, "give us money or give us a job, even if we aren't qualified." They wouldn't see me teaching my nieces, nephews and their friends about Tech and great starter positions as "giving back," even though I started by learning these things by myself.
They don't have a vision for what giving back is, where it's meant to lead and how much preparation they need to be ready for such an opportunity. You're supposed to just give it to them because they look like you.
She said "🥷🏽er please". And he got in his feelings. He couldn't wait to tell his truth on Kendra G. Emotional ass 🥷🏽.
Isaiah 13:14
[14]And it shall be as the chased roe, and as a sheep that no man taketh up: they shall every man turn to his own people, and flee every one into his own land.
all I'm thinking is what did he do to make her that mad"
👀 As black people we really don't have to provoke them folks to make them angry... Just by us existing alone angers them....
Man some of these comments, would y’all be ok if white dudes made these comments? I’m betting probably not you would say that they were racist. People should date who they want no matter what, without the judgement of the race of who they choose.
Black people are the most to make videos talking about interracial relationships 24/7. Most of these pro blacks on here continues to stay highlighting it especially when it's among bm
These mtfs would probably be ok with it as long as the white man isnt saying it to a blk men thats the crazy
Where them videos at tho? Crickets
Ppl will often time reveal how they see you when they get angry. Opportunistic women be marrying a mans pockets if he is stable. Know who you getting with.
Wow thats it! She called you a ninja! 😂 you've been called worse by your own and stayed! 🤦🏾♂️
Smh get help