Our Pregnancy Journey...
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- Опубліковано 25 сер 2024
- So not sure how to even describe this episode, but one thing is for sure, getting pregnant isn't easy, and nor is having a miscarriage.
Hoping this video helps others realize that you're not alone on your journey. We struggled with the idea of putting this video out, and we're not putting it up out of grief, but think it's super important that others know they're not alone and this is more common than not.
Brendan & Hannah
It will happen - at the age of 25 my doctors told me I wasn't going to be able to have children due to a surgery (tumor removed). I wasn't dating, wasn't thinking of marriage. I married my husband at the age of 30 (I told him that I couldn't have children when we started dating and he wasn't worried about it.) . I didn't think about having kids until all my friends started having babies (I was the last to get married). I decided that we could adopt, my husband said no and not to worry about it. I stopped thinking about it and poured'm myself into my work and travel. I'm happy to say that at the age of 38, I gave birth to our son (I was never sick, didn't know I was pregnant for 4 months). I'm 55 now with a 16 year old genius son who is beyond my world. He is a gift from God - he's traveled the world for dance, will spend this summer in New York with a dance company and he knows his purpose. When I say that it will happen when you don't expect it TRUST ME it will. I will keep you both and your future children lifted in my prayers. Excited already for the blessed journey you guys will be on - Peace & Love
Wow!! that is so good to hear! I cant wait until this happens for me. I feel the is exact same way you felt. But I'm going to remain positive and leave it in God's hand. Thank you for sharing
@@shan_7714 Actually that should be OUR ANSWER to all situations both good or bad. Because at end we are all in the providential care of GOD." THATS AN IMPORTANT LESSON I HAVE LEARNED IN MY LIFE SO FAR BEING A 30yr WOMAN.
Even if i don't find a husband, I will always be okay with that destiny because I know such life gifts only come from GOD.
DONT WORRY YOU WILL ALWAYS BE FINE NO MATTER WHAT YOU ARE DESTINED WITH.
Beautiful
Cat Richardson your experience is heartfelt. Thank you so much for sharing. You have encourage me to let go and trust God for my prayers to be answered! Your comment evokes optimism, and faith.
I started my pregnancy journey at the late age of 36 - I had health issues before that so could not think of even trying. Then I got the green light and was so excited and every month I would get my period and was devastated. I finally had a positive test, and just like Hannah, at my nine week exam - no heart beat and had to do a D & C. I could not stop crying. We decided to adopt a dog and take our minds off of things. At the age of 38 I had a strange feeling in my stomach and went to buy a pregnancy test. I could not wait till I got home and did the test in a bathroom in the shopping center! It was positive! Today I have a 17 year old genius boy that just got accepted to an Honors College!!! Cat!! I wish I could meet you!! My son is a math and physics genius (literally ) but his passion is film making and he is sooooo good at it!!! He is my gift from God - I can honestly say that I have enjoyed every single day of him - he is perfect!!! I just discovered Hanna and Brendan and Im addicted already! I love you guys!!!!
My husband and I have been on this fertility journey for over 8 years. I wish you strength and positivity 🙏🏻
Sara Rule Sluyter
Sara, my miracle took 10 years. She’s now 19 and finishing her first year of college. Wishing you and your husband strength, courage and much love.
Wishing you and your husband strength! My sister has been on this journey for 7yrs, keep your faith. It will happen for you God willing!
Sara Rule Sluyter i wish you so much love. you will get there. i send you light and blessings
My partner and I have been on the baby journey for 6 and a half years. It's nice to know we're not alone.
Simone .T i wish you light and love for you and your partner. blessings to you.
I had a miscarriage in 1994 that required a DNC procedure as well. My son Ryan was conceived three yrs later and is now an honors student at the University of Houston. It will happen and all of this will eventually be distant memories.
After my D & C, I finally got pregnant and my son is now 17 and was just accepted to the Barretts Honors College at the Arizona State University!!!
His love for her so deep
I've had 7 miscarriages. I think of it very scientifically now, learned a lot about the biology of it, that's what helped me cope and get through it. Glad more people are talking about it! Miscarriages are healthy and normal and nothing to be ashamed of.
What a wonderful, positive way to think and comment. Thank you.
Canadian prayers for you!
Brendan is going to be a great Dad! Already a fantastic husband!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👌🏼❤️
Sharyn Greene of course he is, he’s Canadian
Thanks so much for sharing your story. It's hard to find the words to explain how your video has touched me, but I'll try.
I remember when you two got married because it was shortly after I got married.
After we got married, my husband and I were starting to try for a baby and got a surprise. I was diagnosed with a rare borderline cancerous tumour on my pancreas and nearly died. I need a major operation to remove multiple organs to stay alive. We obviously had to delay trying until I healed from surgery. I was devastated for so many reasons.
I know what you're going through is different.
But I guess what I'm trying to say is... 11 months after the diagnosis and surgery, we got pregnant.
We were so happy to have gone through everything and conceived.
But at 18 weeks in the pregnancy, as a consequence of my surgery, I got a complete bowel obstruction nearly died. I couldn't eat for 7 days and was rushed to theatre for another major operation. I remember crying, thinking we'd lose the baby, after everything.
Fortunately, a miracle happened. The surgeon saved me and the baby and we made it until full term.
I thought the worst was over... until the birth happened. I ended up having an emergency c-section and when my baby was born, she wasn't breathing, she was limp, blue and completely non-responsive. They had to resuscitate her for almost 6 minutes. When she took her first breath, they rushed her to NICU.
I'm not saying this to share a "horror" story.
I'm saying this to say... I know what you mean when you say "trying for a baby isn't easy."
AND ... as someone that's had a difficult time, in time, I've come to learn that this phase passes. And one day, you'll be holding on to your baby, reminiscing on how much you wanted them and how lucky you are to have them.
My baby was born on December 18th 2018. Fast forward to today, she's now having bathtime with her dad. Despite her complex pregnancy and birth, she's healthy, happy and when you see photos of her or my husband and I, you'd have no idea what we've been through.
I've learned miracles happen. Hang in there. Know that this period will be in the past, and one day you'll hold your precious boy or girl.
Many miracles are coming your way.
Joy Randolph ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾
Wow, what a touching, real life story. Thank you so much for sharing your testimony!
Wow, this is powerful. You are blessed! 🙏
Joy Randolph 💛💛💛💛
Joy Randolph Thank God you found out. I’m so happy you’re ok.
Hannah and Brendan, we all appreciate you sharing this with us. We know it’s not easy to put your private life out there, and especially situations like this but, it makes us closer to you both and eager to support you even more. Lots of love 💖
Kami Mashego well said!
i won't use the word "brave" to describe this, because it's gotten a little obnoxious as a term in pop culture. i think the word "generous" is more fitting, because you're not just sharing your story; you are also putting forth honest and painful truths about fertility challenges, which will help to de-stigmatize them, and to give comfort to women and couples going through simililar situations in silence and doubt. thank you.
Brendan and Hannah, you guys are real troopers. Your transparency makes you two very special. You're in my prayers (and in many others), you're not alone now. The universe has your back. Rely on it. Let yourself go and the love flow. Trust. A huge hug to you both in spirit!
'Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations'. Blessings to you both as you move onwards on your journey to become parents. You'll get there and you will be amazing. x
The moment you stop worrying about it, the miracle will happen. Just let go...go to the beach, be in more contact with nature, look at the moon every night and you will see! It has being my experience, believe it with so much strong, that your body would not accept anything else than to be pregnant and keep it to term! ❤️🙏🏻
Hoping you all have your baby!! My husband and I have been trying for almost three years. Finally got pregnant and had a silent miscarriage. Praying for all women who are in this struggle. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
The whole internet is rooting for you two ❤️ lean into each other for strength and keep moving forward!
Sending my prayers and best wishes to you guys from London. All the men in my family’s wives have unfortunately gone through what you guys have gone through. Stay positive. Stay hopeful.
Asking GOD'S blessings and guidance for you both.....after 12 years of marriage my wife got pregnant....miss carried at 3 months.....my wife delivered our beautiful daughter two days before her 41st birthday ( our daughter will be 40 her next birthday and now had a 9 year old and a 11 month old! The more pressure you put on yourselves the harder it will be! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
This video has made me so emotional. As hard as it sounds this is life and it happens, we get no joy out of this. My heart goes out to you guys. Keep doing what it takes and it IS GOING TO HAPPEN. Take care an GOD bless.
I’m so sorry. I basically started crying immediately...and then kept crying. Fertility issues are common but not necessarily commonly shared. Social media has helped with that a lot, I think. We knew we’d need help from before we even got married because of my health issues growing up. We went through a round of fertility treatment - an IUI - and it didn’t take. It was such a sad moment when the test came back negative. To this day I think about what if it had worked, how old our baby would be - 7 years old. Then we found out that we’d ultimately need an egg donor and IVF...and the pressure. My god, the pressure... Anyway, it’s hard, especially when you see people poppin’ out babies left and right. Get to a doctor and get both of yourselves checked out. If for no other reason than to cover your bases. Positive thoughts and vibes sent to y’all
Can’t thank you both enough for sharing this with us all. As someone who is 3 yrs in of trying for a baby. I keep coming back to your videos in the hope that just the way you both got your little angel Preston. We will soon have our rainbow baby
WOW, AS I LISTENED I THOUGH OF HANNAH IN THE BIBLE. WOW. BE ENCOURAGED HANNAH & BRENDAN. WE OUT HERE ROUTING FOR YOU. THANKS FOR SHARING.
Rosemarie Stewart perfect way to discribe it. Thank you. 🙏🏾
I thank god for allowing me to see this video tonight. I have been struggling with infertility for 4 years. I pray for you and your husband. Thank you for sharing.
So I cried watching this video and when I read Hannah’s IG post. I just want the both of you to know that I am praying for you in this journey and that God continues to bring you from strength to strength. You’re going to make amazing parents B + H. Sending you lots of love from South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤️
My dears, I’m so sorry for your loss. My first pregnancy ended at 10 weeks, my second is now 14. We had male factor infertility. And I did go on to have my two healthy sons, 3 miscarriages for a total of 2 years trying to conceive, 5 years of being pregnant. You will grow your family, of that I’m certain. And yes, when you are trying to have a child it does feel like the whole world is fricking pregnant. 💗
Miscarriages are so much more common than most think - like you said - very few talk about it. You’ve proven you CAN get pregnant, so you can rest assured everything is working (many couples don’t get to that stage for years) which is an extremely positive sign! I believe your dream will come true - just remind yourselves - anything worth fighting for, never comes easy. Bless you both, Clair
The best and most important documentary I seen on UA-cam this year! Very deep and tender real story that's goes straight to your heart. Hugs and love. Thank you! 💚
Thank you for sharing this. I am crying with and for you. My husband and I were trying for a year; stopped trying for a year because I was sad all the time. Now, we are planning to go to a fertility doctor to help us navigate it. It is so secretive and no one really tells you about how sad you will be to not be pregnant. I don’t have any advice, but I want you to know you are definitely not alone.
your honesty brings others comfort -- it's scary and brave to do what you're doing, and I commend it ❤️ love you guys
I am crying my eyes out😭 my family is wondering what I’m watching. Praying for God’s perfect timing and to heal your hearts❤️❤️❤️ 🙏
Your journey sounds a lot like how kine started. Just because it's starting out rough doesn't mean it will stay that way.I now have 3 beautiful baby girls. Just be patient and try not to try to hard if that makes sense! Thanks for sharing! You guys are beautiful people❤️
This is so brave and admirable - I really appreciate you sharing your journey from both of your perspectives and I wish you the best of luck in your pregnancy journey going forward
You are not alone. I had experienced this myself. My first pregnancy, I miscarried at 3 months. Just continue praying, have hope, and don't give up. You both are amazing people.
I am so so so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Sending you huge hugs. Honestly, sending you both so much love. I went through a miscarriage (I didn't know I was pregnant and wasn't trying) with my long term partner a number of years ago and the isolation and loneliness during the miscarriage was almost crippling at times. So I know it must have been extremely hard to post this and talk about it publicly, but it really is so helpful to me, and for others to hear you speak about it openly and so beautifully. Just hearing about the whole process you have so far been through including the heartbreak, but also the excitement you hold for the future is so empowering and encouraging to me and everyone watching. You are both very brave for speaking so openly and so warmly. Thank you for sharing. I am sending you so much love for the future on your pregnancy journey and for your future family. And in the meantime, know that you are both helping so many people with your voices. We appreciate you. And we are behind you on this journey. Big love.
thanks for your strength and grace. our stories are written to impact and encourage others whose trials we can relate to. this season will be fruitful for you guys in breaking down the walls around the challenges of building a family. my brother and sister-in-law delivered their first child stillborn at 35 weeks, and i've had several friends who have journeyed through miscarriage. i'm praying for patience, peace, strength, hope, and blessings for you two.
Sending you both LOVE 💕 and Prayers 🙏🏽 for good health and successes in future pregnancies. Although I am far beyond my fertile years; having survived 3 miscarriages (2 very late term); an Ectopic pregnancy/tubal ligation - I was carrying twins; 5 healthy births; and finally, a hysterectomy in my early fifties - I emphasize 😢 and applaud 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 your courage in the sharing of your joy and pain.
I’d no (lasting) support from those from whom it was expected. Almost as if my “issue” was swept away; and, doomed to secrecy. A hug here, an uplifting comment there and possibly a bouquet 💐 or two. But I never felt at peace with my losses. To my knowledge there hasn’t been a community of emotional and mental health support for survivors of miscarriage(s). Your posting on IG and UA-cam has set a precedent! Again, thank you. 🙏🏽
Please keep in mind that the sun ☀️ always rises; and so shall your joy. Be blessed... and a blessing. 🤗😘
It’s so crazy that the first pregnancy test was taken on November 20 2018 and exactly 2 years later to the day their son was born! Life works in mysterious ways
Wow- this is such an important and nuanced take on what is a hard and painful experience. I'm so sorry 😢 I can't imagine how difficult this was to film, but I also see how powerful and impactful sharing this raw story with people. It will help people who may have gone through this, or on my case, are supporting someone who has had this experience.
It's also very important to show how pregnancies and their complications impact both partners, and you two have done an excellent job here. Hanna, from the physiological experience, Brendan from the support role and both of you from the mental and emotional perspectives, basically how each person brings these things in to this exoerience, and also how you use these things to support and be there for each other. ❤ The fact that you didn't shy away from including footage of how you both felt, is really important because I don't think many people are able to see examples that reinforce to them that their reactions or feelings are valid and normal. Wishing you two the best of luck - Bless.
This video and your joint outlook reminds me of a quote that I have clipped to my fridge... I am continually trying to understand it, and be inspired by it:
'We must accept finite disappointment, but never loose eternal hope' -MLK Jr
An estimated 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage. I too am surrounded by peers entering the baby journey, something so magical, yet complicated and frightening. As a man facing possible Infertility, hearing your story pulls on the heart strings, yet equally nice to hear; the exposure is extremely important.
Thank you for being so brave, I wish you the best! Have fun with it.
Wolfgang where in syria or iraq!? u wanna tell me 1 in 4 unborn baby dies!? that’s crazy
Martin Kulik yea that stat was completely wrong. It’s 1 in 4 women miscarry. Way different from 1 in 4 pregnancies.
@@AngelGrl135www.tommys.org/our-organisation/charity-research/pregnancy-statistics/miscarriage
@@martinkulik9466 Not quite. It is a statistic told to me by a doctor in London. They did not specify its stats pool, I believe its international. You can read more on Tommys: www.tommys.org/our-organisation/charity-research/pregnancy-statistics/miscarriage
I really appreciate that you are sharing your journey and the ups and downs in life.
I truly admire your strength and positivity despite it all. I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage and agree that people do not talk about. I have several friends that have gone through this.
Again, thanks for sharing, and wishing you the best! I am also hopeful that you will get there.
Thank you for sharing your story. It’s been really important for me to share my journey as I so wished more women had shared their’s with me and was so grateful for those who did. Trying to get pregnant and miscarrying can feel so isolating and like such an emotional roller coaster. So many people go through this. My husband and I have gone through it and you are not alone.
I miscarried at 9 weeks. It was devastating to me. I was 31 yo, and it was my first pregnancy. It was nearly a year before I was able to get pregnant again. That year felt agonizing as I learned of so many friends getting pregnant with their second child, and we had yet to have one. I questioned a lot and felt down a lot. A friend who had trouble getting pregnant recommended the book “Making Babies” to me. I didn’t want to read it and was sure it wouldn’t help me. It was actually invaluable and I used it as my guide-what did I have to lose? My approach hadn’t worked and I have always been active and eaten a super healthy diet. I also got a series of Maya Abdominal massages to help heal my uterus post miscarriage and d&c. The biggest thing I learned was to let go and trust my body no matter the outcome. I wish you two the best on your beautiful journey.
Awwwww don't cry my sweet sweet beautiful Hannah. Sometimes our bodies just don't want work with us. 🥺🥺🥺🥺 I'm so emotional watching you guys 😭
I had my rainbow 🌈 baby after 2 miscarriages
God is going to bless you with a family ♥️♥️♥️
Hannah and Brendan. I'm so, so sorry about this. Unfortunately, it is very common, and like you both said, some people don't talk about it. Thank you so much for being so transparent, and sharing this very difficult time with us. My heart goes out to you, as well as my prayers. I have no doubt that you will have a baby when the time is right. Hannah, I admire you so much for being so incredibly brave. Brandon, I admire you for being so supportive, and loving. 💗
After getting two false negatives in October 2018, I found out I was three months pregnant early December 2018. My husband and I were excited because it was our first pregnancy. I wanted to tell my family on Christmas but I had a miscarriage three days before Christmas. I was so sad. After sharing my experience with 5 close friends, we found that 4 of them had miscarried their first pregnancy. Apparently this is common. The good news for you is that you were able to get pregnant! Many can’t even get pregnant. That alone is a blessing. You will conceive sooner than you think. That’s my case now. I’m pregnant again. Took me two months after the miscarriage to conceive again. I’m sending you both pregnancy vibes this year. Love 💕
Hannah and Brenden , trust and believe it will happen. My God is an awesome God. My heart breaks to hear all women that may struggle with pregnancy. Today is 5/13/19 when I’m writing this.
Your baby is waiting for you...it will happen!!!! I thought I couldn't get pregnant then had a fabulous birthday with my hubby, got rip roaring drunk off vodka martinis and WHAM...baby number one :). You both are sooo courageous to share something so deeply personal. Thank you for sharing your life and bless you.
You guys are definition of true Love. Watching you supporting each other is inspiring. Sending you much Love.
Watching this for the 2nd time since your released it because I know how your story turned out with P & C. After 3 IUI's, 2 IVF cycles all were unsuccessful and we're back at square one. So I am watching this to restore my faith and my hope that even if it takes longer, it will happen.
Stay strong!
Thank you for sharing your journey. It is important for people to see the reality of things. No one’s life is picture perfect. Wishing the best for you two
Oh Hannah and Brendan.
My prayers are with you. I went through. You're not alone. You two will get through this. It will happen for you.
It’ll happen loves. We’ll all be ready to celebrate with you when it does. Love you guys! ❤️
What courage, Hannah and Brendan! My husband and I experienced secondary infertility meaning it took us only 6 months to get pregnant the first time and then we could not get pregnant on our own the second time. We went through 5 years of infertility treatment and as a clinical mental health counselor, professor and researcher, I read as much clinical research as I could about pregnancy and infertility. Eventually we went to Dr. Jeffery Kennan in Knoxville, TN. He gave us insights and knowledge that we had not been told by other REIs. He was amazing! Long story short we worked with Dr. Keenan and NOW have our second baby boy (May 2016). It is certainly a challenging journey to be sure. I even took a infertility counseling training course so I could be informed and counseling couples going through infertility. You are so right, people don’t talk about it. Each couple is unique. I would encourage you to get as much knowledge as possible-I read lots of blogs but tried to stay away from too much of it as there is no one size fits all. The scientific studies and knowledge was helpful as well. Find a reproductive endocrinologist you trust. They can provide valuable insights for next steps. Continue to love each other. Listen to each other’s feelings. Keep the faith! Stay positive! And keep hoping! Wishing you the very best!!!
This happens to so many couples you have no idea.Stay positive and continue to support each other through this journey.You are a Beautiful couple and your Blessing will come.Relax,Meditate and know you are not alone.Blessings!!!!!
It’s soo painful for me to watch you guys in that much pain. It hurts, but we’re not giving up.....I suggest you guys take a moment, relax, breath, and let nature take over. Thanks for sharing. #RESPECT👏🏽
Sending lots of prayers your way 🙏🏼 I went through a tough time 7 years ago I had an ectopic pregnancy and had to get the baby removed but 2 years later I had my rainbow baby and 2 years after that I had my second so just keep your heads up and know everything happens in its right time💕
So impressed with the integrity of this video. Gratitude is a word I often hear in your videos, and again in this one. Thank you for being amazing life teachers.
Much love to you both!! Alot of young couples go through this and it’s really incredible that you are sharing your journey. May God bless you both! Hannah, stay strong sweetheart, it will happen for you guys and we will be here to cheer you both on and support you ❤️❤️
I just watched my first Hannah video when she was interviewing Gabby Bernstein, fell in love with her, then I came across these. You make such a cute couple and I hope this pregnancy happens for you guys. Hannah should reach out to Gabby Bernstein because she struggled to get pregnant as well. I think she would tell you to let go of grip you have on it, try not to worry about it so much and it will happen. I can't wait for the video when you say you're pregnant! Much love ❤️
Thank you so much for opening up and sharing. Much love ❤️
Thank you for sharing. My condolences on your loss. Sending you both positive energy. All the best ❤️🤗🙏
You guys have no idea how important what you’re sharing with us is. I have a 31 year old and a 28 year old and have an amazing grandson. It took me five years and one miscarriage before I had my first child. No one talked about this. I thought I was completely alone ! I became horribly depressed when everyone around me was having babies. I even thought about divorce because I blamed myself. If there was even one person like the two of you that shared their story with me it would have made a world of difference to me. God bless you both for sharing your stories.
I'm so proud of you for doing this. It takes a lot of courage to share your journey with us. I see four noise, cut, and adorable kids in near future.
Oh my goodness! Watching Hannah’s energy on the couch instantly made me emotional! It’s going to happen for you guys! Just stay positive and keep living your best lives!
Sending you both so much love and good vibes!!! Thank you for sharing and I pray that your rainbow baby comes after the rain💕🌈
Thank you for sharing. I wish you peace and many blessings in your journey! My husband and I have been trying for what seems like years too. It has really helped me hearing others stories. I had no idea how hard it would be, and most surprised with how common of a story it is, but no one WAS talking about it. Thank you again for sharing and staying positive.
Nothing can prepare you for this, it is a real shock! I’ve been there and completely understand what you’re going through. So many people go through this and taking about it is really brave of you. Stay positive, it will happen, sending love and good vibes ❤️
Thank you for your transparency. I can only imagine what you’re going through. Praying for peace for you both on this journey.
Must be so hard. It'll happen in divine timing. It'll be perfection when it does. ❤️
Divine Time...yess!
This deserves way more views. Thank you for your honesty Hannah and Brendan. I have been following you guys for a looong while and it's the raw "keeping it real" stuff that made me respect you guys more each time. Stay stronger, happiness will come your way.
This was so powerful. To your point, there is so much shame around infertility but it's more common than people think or admit. Thank you for putting yourself out there and sharing. It goes a long way to change the narrative around the topic. And we are all rooting for you both!
Brendan’s enthusiasm is so beautiful and I love the energy shared between you both. With love and with luck you will receive that blessing and we are very excited for you both!💓
I can not wait the day when we see a video on your chanel titeled "we're having a baby!"
Sometimes it's hard to stay positive, but in the end you have to be, for your health sake. Hannah, Brandon is the best companion and I believe you will get to where you want to be. I just hope people won't bombard you with nonstop questions about the situatio after this video. Try not to think to much about this tragedy. Your followers are with you 💪♥️
Thanks for sharing your story. It's not easy to talk about it but it is so needed to learn, understand and heal. Also a lot of times , we focus so much on having a baby , I say focus on having a great life partner. Babies may or may not happen but having someone to comfort and pick you up afterward is so much more enriching and rewarding.
I just met you two and I swear I feel like a first cousin. I am so glad I was lead to your page.
I too have been pregnant and have lost-4 times. It is devastating. It never happened for me and at 48 I suspect I am done. I have learned for me, everything isn’t for everyone.
But that’s MY journey.
For you two though, I see it and whew is that baby gonna be loved and blessed to have the best damn parents in the whole wide...y’alls house ☺️. Keep positive. Keep hoping. Keep loving. Your story isn’t over. ❤️
Thank you for sharing this. Sorry that you had to go through this.
I haven't been through something like this. BUT my daughter Has. She had 3 miscarriages in 2 years. NOW she is 13 weeks. Her journey took a seriously toll on her mental state of mind.. She got through this with lots of love and support....... We pray that all goes well for her and my grandchild.
I PRAY THAT YOU AND BRANDEN WILL GET TO ENJOY A NEW ADDITION TO THE FAMILY SOON. LOVE YOU BOTH.
I wanted to come through the screen and just give you a hug.....
💙💛💙💛
Thank you so much for sharing! I know it must not have been easy.
My partner and I have unexplained infertility. We have tried to conceive for the last 3 years but unfortunately have not fallen pregnant.
We have been lucky that in the part of the UK where we live we are eligible for one round of IVF treatment covered by the National Health Service (NHS). So we are on a waiting list due to start our IVF journey in November.
Anyway, I just want to say thank you for being so open and making me feel less alone.
Sending you both lots of love and wishing you all the best in your journey. xx
I'm so sorry for your loss and agree, it is important that we talk about issues getting and staying pregnant. We are also very passionate about providing resources for couples battling infertility and pregnancy loss. We pray you get your rainbow baby soon. Thanks for sharing your journey
Wow! I found your channel from your “we’re pregnant” video and I am so overjoyed for you, especially now seeing this video. Thank you for sharing the reality of this process. I am so excited to follow along on your journey!
God bless you guys,and your future babies that are coming.
so much love to both of you. this was beautiful and really made me cry. thank you for encouraging vulnerabilities to be shared and for being so open about something so special. I love this window into your lives! you are both such powerful role models and your relationship is an inspiring example of true teamwork! thank you for making these videos, showing us all the roses and thorns. PS hannah I LIVE for your book - it has made such a positive impact on my life!
I'm so grateful that people have become so open with their struggles, because it normalizes these 'taboo' subjects & makes you realize that life happens & you don't have to feel alienated, because someone else somewhere is going through these difficult things as well.
Hannah and Brendan,Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability. Your bravery is inspring, your authenticity is refreshing and your sweet and gentle souls in such a difficult matter, is astonishing. I never comment on videos, but as i watched the hurt and dissapointment on your faces, I shed tears. Not only because i was stricken with sadness , but also because i realized that in sharing this part of your story with us, it spoke to the character, nature, and geuineness of you both. We got to experince the treat that those who know you dearly see daily, your hearts. In a time where many would stay silent, or be inwardly focused ( and rightfuly so) you bared all. Not for sympathy or pity, but to encourage others who had, or are currently wrestling through a similar situation and because of that I felt complled to share my heart just as you had. So here it is. Thank you for encouraging us to push past the dissapointing and difficult moments in life. Though they may seem hard, they too have significance just as the joyus moments. Thank you for reminding us that sometimes things dont go as planned, and thats okay. Thank you for inspiring us! Brendan, Your optimisim is contagious! The love you demonstrate to Hannnah is tender, and sweet. Hannah, Thank you for being bold, authentic, and such a sweet gift to women, and creative entrepreneurs across the globe. I look forward to rejoicing with you both ( if even only through a video) when you are met with the sweet delight that your hearts wait in hope for. Thank you for sharing.
You two are awesome! Sending you good vibes! We, now both 35 yrs old, have been trying for around 5 yrs, and have only now found a good doctor who we think can “fix” us and give us a baby :) So, best of luck, it will happen and it will be lovely!
I JUST WANNA HUG HANNAH SO BAD RIGHT NOW! stay strong guys! sending lotsa love all the way from Malaysia! ❤️
I'm struggling to get pregnant for last 2 years with help seeing fertility clinic. Had 2 IUI's with no success. So frustrating. It's constant rollercoaster of emotions and you are so right in saying it isn't easy. No one tells you that. Thanks for sharing
The same exact thing happened to me at 10 weeks. The loss and grief you feel takes time to heal. Unfortunately it was tricky for me for a while after that. When I decided to focus back on my life, got signed on a course, booked a holiday, relaxed and enjoyed making love to my partner t, 'it' happened. I got pregnant, and she is now five years old. Please don't lose faith. Thank you for sharing your story because this is something more women need to be more open about, there is nothing to be ashamed of.
This was such a REAL video. I appreciate both of you for sharing your experience, it was evident that it was not easy. I echo Brendan's words "It will be beautiful when it happens," and it will😊. Stay strong and positive💕.
It hurt me when I saw Hannah cry 😢It’s gonna happen for y’all trust and believe!! Please God 🙏🏾
Hannah I follow you on IG but this is my first time watching either of you on UA-cam. First off it’s so important to have great support and Brendan seems to be an exemplary husband, which is so amazing. I’m sorry that this journey is tougher than expected but trust God. The time will happen, and it will be right. Praying for an upcoming safe and healthy pregnancy the next time that test says pregnant!
“To everything there is a season”-I have no doubt that it will happen for you eventually. Thank you for sharing. Love and positivity from Japan.
I would like to share my story with you guys, which will give you that little bit of hope, hopefully!! Me and husband were TTC for 6 long years, first we were just trying naturally and then last years we decided to get ourselves seen by a professional and all the tests came back normal but still no pregnancy. We were told we should opt for IVF because we had unexplained infertility, so we did then we did two rounds of IVF which both failed and in the end we were told i have poor egg quality and i would probably never conceive with my own eggs and they recommend that we use donor eggs, which in our opinion we did not want so we just opted out. Me and husband went on a few holidays together and just left things as they were and stoped worrying about TTC for some months, then this year towards the end of March i was due for my monthly cycle and but didn’t come on. I had a few tests lying around decided i would take one, thinking they were going to be negative but still wanted to do it to get over with it, so i went ahead and BANG it was positive, me with so many mixed emotions, not believing what i had just seen!! Over the next few days i did a number of tests which were positive, confirmed it with my GP and then like nearly two weeks ago went for my 12 week scan and saw my perfect little baby, all is good so far and praying for this pregnancy to continue and for me to give birth to a healthy baby and to have a safe delivery.
I will keep you guys both in my prayers and know what the heartache of TTC feels like, i would never wish it upon anyone but one thing, never give up your time will come for sure 🙂🙂🙂
I know its hard to keep on the positive side but as Brendan said it is soooo much a mental state and that plays a huge part on your head space. If you can keep trying and don't constantly think about it it will happen. The more you worry the harder it will come to be. A friend of mine went through many and as soon as she just let go and not dwell on it she became pregnant instantly. You have each other and your time will come. Things are meant for a reason and that babe was not meant to go full term. It is not taboo and is a great thing to talk about it, share it and be real. God has a plan and when its time it happen. Thoughts and prayer for you both.
You two are incredibly brave for sharing. When Hannah posted on IG about your experience I DM'd her and shared with her that my husband and I m/c 2years ago right before the Christmas holiday. I was 6 weeks. I remember every detail and like you we tried to remain positive. It happened while I was at work and I had to discreetly exit the building to go the hospital for pre-op. The nurses and doctors were so kind to me and I will always remember how they treated me and made me feel despite what was happening. This shit is tough. I'm the only person in my friend group who has experienced this and so I know that feeling of being alone. Hannah and Hbfit are what pushed me to go to a nutritionist because I have PCOS which is something Hbfit has covered before.Pcos makes getting pregnant a little more challenging. So yea this is tough but you guys are beautiful people with amazing energy and the universe will show up for you because of that. It will be challenging and scary at times but it WILL happen. Blessings to you both.
I just came across a renovation video of yours and enjoyed it, I thought you guys seemed so good together and blessed to have such a beautiful home. To see this made me so sad because we have had 2 miscarriages before my daughter was born. I really wish the best for you two!
Wow she has beautiful skin! Sorry for your loss
Mr & Ms Fallis you are strong thank you for sharing you're in my prayers love you guys !
This is exactly what happened to me at 9 weeks pregnant. We saw a heartbeat at 7 weeks and took a deep sigh of relief, then at 9 weeks I went back without my husband to find out our baby had no heartbeat. I was absolutely devastated. My procedure to remove the baby didn't work so I needed the procedure twice. I had my first baby with IVF after 6 fertility treatments. She was there with me when I found out we lost the second baby, and it did gave me a lot of strength to get through it. We have to celebrate the successes in life and keep moving. It's definitely no ones fault and I always tell myself that was not a healthy baby. Sending you lots of love and hugs and hope and positivity and strength to get back on that baby train. xoxo
From the bottom of my heart, I pray for you!
Thank you for your strength and courage to share your life!
I have faith that everything you wish for, will be Blessed!
Your life is an example for me!
Thank you And Be Strong, happy !
You're loved by everyone!
Ive heard that as soon as you stop stressing out and worrying...than boom...a baby! God can make it happen...just Pray and ask The Lord!!!
GodsGirl253 Glory!!!
Thanks for sharing. I'm sure many people will feel inspire by your positive outlook even through these dark times. But there is always a light at the end, keep going.
I really sympathize. After over a year a trying, we got pregnant. Then 16 weeks later found out our baby had most likely passed away around 13 weeks. I know it has been a couple months since this video was posted but my heart is with you on this journey. Take care🌈🌞💕
I too lost my first but got straight back to it and didn’t even have another period bingo! My son was a whopping 9lb 11oz now 29yrs old , I then lost my third but eventually had a beautiful daughter whom took a year or so of trying. She is 25 now. I have sent lots of loving light to Hannah . I will look forward to future posts of your beautiful family. Keep shining your light.🕊❤️🌻