LIFE ADVICE FOR BLACK MEN 18-35 YEARS OLD in UK: -Stop acting Bourgie -Invest in your education -Build self-sufficiency e.g learn DIY. Cook fresh meals. -Stop trying to keep up with the joneses... -in the chess game of life... dont keep making the same or detremental mistakes -No kids until the nest is set-up... Do birds breed before building a nest??? -Delay your gratification -Be respectful to EVERYONE. If you dont agree with something... keep it steppin -Minimise expenses... build substantial cash reserves. The end
"Every other weekend" that's a madness! Why not every weekend plus a surprise visit during the week. How about calls during the week? How about being consistent with maintenance plus pocket money? How about just spending money on your children just because? How about just being consistent full stop. How about doing more than just what the system expects from you. How about respecting how much time and effort it takes to be a mum 24-7 even when the child is not with her, she is still doing mum stuff?? You think one day off we should be grateful for? Your having a laugh! Sorry, don't mind me, I'm just venting...
🤦🏾♂️ Tricks, raising a kid unfortunately isn’t about getting them on the weekend and buying them an ice cream, we talking about school uniform every term, trainers, kicks dinner lunch breakfast, toiletries, medicine, football boots, broadband, phones, video games… money haffi run regardless, go and work a cleaning job and pay for your kids, nuff man want to hide behind they’re broke and a mother cannot say that… it goes hand in hand… separate the arguments because you coming around hugging your kids ain’t gonna feed them don’t make excuses for wastemen we need to separate them!
Unfortunately, cee tee if you are f**king a wasteman( is that not someone that collect rubbish )any way those that decide to have a baby for a man that's not financially secure and not ready for a child must think they can financially afford to have a baby with or with out the partner right!...you are responsible for your decision.. better pum pum management Is what needed not bitter pum pum management...
If next man is brok but still in his kids life that is far more beneficial than the broke ones who don't come around. I'm not saying an doesn't need to get up and work but being an active father will always be far better than an inactive father broke or not. That shit hold more power to influence a future in the type of dynamic you have created in your example.
@@Jurnalist_ you’re missing my point, these type of dudes need to be separated and not put in the same bracket, it’s a blanket statement being made, if you’re broke and seeing your kids then kl but make damn sure you’re providing in some sort of way financially aswell, it goes hand in hand, I don’t like the excuses, I been broke, but I make damn sure my kids are looked after, you should be in your kids lives for sure but also make sacrifices that Good Baby Mothers make also, they too haffi struggle and juggle we can’t be here as men and say it’s ok for me to look after kids with just love, I’m tired of it let’s put some real perspective inna dis, let’s leave the topic about women not letting mandem see there kids it’s another topic, make sure you bring something to the table because the whole scenario of growing up and influencing your kids future is that you provide by any means aswell as show love and be there physically We are giving man too many get out clause’s it’s a joint responsibility from when you laid down with woman to also provide for that child the same way the mother does no excuses
Rate tricky but this episode he was too emotional and took it personal. He's talking about taking his kid out on a weekend and doing fun activities but I don't hear him mention being there every evening helping with homework or taking and picking up from school, cooking dinner every evening. Too many man running round thinking there dad of the year cause they take there kid every weekend for 6 hours to go out
facts. Man are doing daddy here and there and thinking it makes them a good dad. Man need to DOTE on their kid. Pree that word. If you ain't DOTING on your child, you're failing as a father. Do better
School run light he probably does that aswell certain days if not everyday like me ,dinners might send a takeaway in his absence women don’t cook everyday pls and lastly homework ok yep homework how much really do these kids get these days .. u can’t cancel us fathers respect and understanding works both ways .. respectful ..
@@datguyagain649 ok tricky never spoke about that all he mentioned was I take my kid park dunno why my baby mum took me to court, she obviously ain't take him if she never had sufficient evidence he's not paying his way
Respect to woman that do it but most men unless the woman is unfit mother don’t get the right to do what you said more time it’s weekend rights visitation not to mention if the woman don’t add you to the BC then runs off an marrys a next man the next man got more rights.
I think men create angry women and 75% of the time it’s the man’s fault relationships breakdown, treat your women like queen and she will treat you like a king and then inevitably you will raise princesss and princes. Treat your women like she’s your mum not helping round the house spending your weekends out and about then inevitably relationship will breakdown and the womens anger will be justified. I’ve never met a woman who’s taken a hardworking family loving man to court, there is always a reason. I’ve seen many of my old friends go through these situations and hands down I can tell you it’s their own faults and when they decide they want to change all of a sudden the mums the bad person for holding back when in reality she is practicing a very old saying “learn from your mistakes” can’t blame a woman for protecting her children. I live with the mother of my children and I do the most to make sure it stays that way and if ever I was to something that split us up I would expect her to protect my children from my bullshit
Sorry why shouldn’t play a role and pay a role? Some mums should struggle and pay for food, bills, uniforms etc whilst you come take them football and park every other weekend? You have to pay! It’s your kid!
Your videos help me feel normal man , it’s a relief to know I’m not the only one who goes through these things. It allows me to help my People , and it allows me to understand when to walk away from toxic situations , rather then feeling stuck and overwhelmed.
Society has conditioned us to believe (especially amongst BAME groups) that a great father is a man that “sees” his children on a regular basis or spends time with their children even if it’s just for a few hours on a weekend BUT that doesn’t make a great father! Just because a man isn’t with the Mother of his children doesn’t mean he isn’t equally responsible for the day to day financial and physical care of a child. Homework, school run, food, uniform, contribution towards household bills, caring for the child when their sick, children’s bedroom furniture, I could go on… The law will support a Mother to gain financial support for their children and rightfully so because it’s not the governments or Mothers sole responsibility to provide for a child BUT the government will also support a man to “see” his children and have overnight care if they don’t have the access they want but MOST men don’t want to take on equal physical care and that is the conversation that isn’t being had…
The more overnight care a man has with his children the less he has to pay the Mother financially because he is providing financially when they are with him! That’s the law, so if you don’t want to give the Mother of your children the financial support they are seeking (hopefully for a justifiable reason) then seek overnight access through the courts or offer it to them simple! A man should want at least two nights with their children a week anyway (in my opinion) unless he can’t for factors outside of his control…
Not gonna lie you kinda had me until you said household bills! Having a child is defo 50/50 I pay for my kids every week but I ain’t paying for nobody’s household bills I have my own bills to pay. And before you try and attack me I have 5 children and altogether I pay £115 a week towards their maintenance personally not through csa
@@lloydsmith3907 If you don’t feel the Mother of your children should be supported financially towards household bills such as gas and electric when your 5 children reside there and use both on a daily basis that’s up to you… If you feel £23 per week for each child is enough to cover all the household bills, food, clothes, activities, other things your children need each to their own…
The PTSD episode was brilliant and raising such an important topic I’m sure helped so many. The coparenting topic is also needed but this didn’t seem as thought through as previous episodes and therefore in my opinion, didn’t do it justice. It sounded like “mothers of children” are preferred because they appease fathers and allow the bare minimum whereas “baby mothers” will hold fathers accountable. Considering there have been previous discussions in which you state that boys on the roads do certain things due to poverty it’s confusing as to why fathers fail to see the direct correlation between not financially providing for their child and child poverty leading young boys to do illegal activities. Children need financial support just like they need emotional support. If the mother doesn’t get financial support who do you think this effects? When the mother is heightened and operating in survival mode It will effect the child. A lot of fathers complain about their child’s mother whilst living a bachelor lifestyle and picking up their child every other weekend but if you were to ask them to have their child one week on and one week off, ensure they have a room and provide clothes and toys etc that will be kept at the fathers home and literally split the parenting 50/50 they won’t. Blue Peter badges aren’t given for doing the bare minimum it’s what parents are supposed to do! Let’s do better for our children! Please! CSA and the courts aren’t linked as far as I know, and I don’t think men in the UK are sent to prison as a direct result of not paying child support. I’m glad so many can relate but I think extra consideration and more research needs to be given to this topic so that misinformation isn’t spread. Maybe having a family lawyer come on to discuss this might be a good idea? That way the men can get advice on how to go about gaining regular access to their children. Sending love. Keep talking 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you for writing this, word for word i totally agree, Tricky tried to use his platform to tackle this subject but sadly failed as there are soooooo many levels to this subject. i totally respect his attempt but next time please get a woman on the show.
A must watch. I needed this 7 years, 6 days and counting. Thats 2,563 days. No legal aid. The distinction between the two just gave me clarity! ❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
This was so, so relatable. It’s even harder when your dealing with multiple baby mums who are all going on mad at the same time. It’s tough. Thanks for speaking up for us bro, respect for that 👊🏾
Well maybe some of you men should learn how to strap it up than & stop having sex with multiple women i hate it when men try to play the victims in situations that they put them selves in please man you aint babys what a pathetic self pitty comment smh!
I agree to some extent, but why are you spending £600 on your kids not knowing how you will pay rent when the best thing you can do for your kids is have a place they can come stay with you they don’t need gifts or fancy things this is where mothers get annoyed because we think of the practical things because otherwise where would our kids be we can’t take them for days out like the part time dads do because we have to provide for them 365days a year but we don’t do it for the clout we do it so our kids don’t have to grow up and recover from their childhoods. Prioritise emotional support and becoming a full time parent even if that means just seeing them everyday that’s what memories your kid wants not going to the park for ice cream every other week
As a parent seeing others pay but not spend any time with their kids due to parental feuds and other factors, is so sad and heart breaking for so many children. Kids should not be involved in big people argument. Facts. No parent is perfect and yes people disagree with one another at times, but children are the future and should be raised in a confidence boosting way of positive examples. Why should kids now of or be affected by parental disagreements or be affected by them? As a working mother of children, I if feel the fathers should also contribute. So I guess thats why some turn to courts. But you are right, money should not be the main factor, time love and attention should for these children out here! Loved the cast, please continue to cover such great topics and promote positively as you do!
Big up Tricky touchy subject touched my heart so empowering for the good dads out there as we are dismissed time after time perfect time & platform to discuss the topic - self validation 17 years still going strong #ForTheCulture
As the aunty to both of your kids (your “babymums” sister) I find this podcast very interesting. I think there is another particular topic you are very familiar with and should discuss on your platform if were really being real.
I'm an emotional nigga aswell can't lie bro and I'm a product of a baby mother not a mother of a child it's fucking shit I'm 28 ain't seen Dad since in 20 years o dont know what happened and my mum wont give me info about him I don't speak to my mum anymore for various reasons some of these women out here are cold, nasty and spiteful real talk. You're right though Tricky there is a difference. Love👊🏾
Been thru the court system for my child but I'm abit confused about the "if you don't pay its prison". I don't belive this is completely accurate. They can create orders to take it from your wage before you get it like tax if there is no agreement between the two parties or if no payments are made.
Maybe of recent that this was applied , but hes right in the aspect that some can go to prison because there are some out there without a job or who refuse to pay or even provide info on those parts
Fire Topic Tricky, I feel you need to get the two types of mothers on to talk or even Someone from the system/ courts to explain the fundamentals around theses issues. Keep pushing King! Many Blessings much love & appreciation. 🙏🏿💪🏿👊🏿
Mad respec for this topic Tricky👏🏿 Powerful!!!🔥 Im in the 1st stages bigman. Mediation, no concent or contact for birth certificate All typa F3 rn Feels like ive committed a crime for having a baby 🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ Inspirational After this video im fealing the fight 🙏🏿🙌🏿👊🏿
Men are afraid to breach this topic or really speak on anything about women because we are taught to not do so. Plus you have man that say "What do I look like arguing with Gyal?" To me, that's a dumb response because if you are not gonna defend your self or speak up when needed just because it's a women is foolish. You don't have to be disrespectful but continuing to remain silent or not speak up is why some of the issues we have persist.
I'm that guy I pay the money haven't seen my daughter for 3 years I went court represented myself at that Got access but my daughters been poisoned that much I've not seen her We talk just about but that's it
Personally the only thing I would advise for tricky is to bring someone on the pod from time to time, to bring balance to the show. It's gaining great momentum however nobody likes to listen to one opinion forever. Believer me, some of the people singing praises from ep 1, will end up condemning him come episode 10.
Im just hearing bare gaslighting and lack of accountability. Its ALWAYS the same excuse that all mothers want is money, money, money as if the school uniform buy themselves, as if the after school activities like karate, ballet etc are free, as if weekend football is free, as if weekly bus pass to school is free and all the rest. And then men think an hour or 2 at the weekend to the park should be enough "because its not about the money" meanwhile the mums out here getting up EVERY single morning to do the school run, shes taking the child to doctors appointments, she have to find babysitters so she can do a weekend shift because work is understaffed, she has to find entertainment and funds to keep the children occupied during the 6 week holiday, shes cooking dinner for the children EVERY night and it goes on. Im not trying to down play the role the good fathers play but this idiotic narrative that all baby mums want is money, needs to stop and you need to stop perpetuating that myth. It aint like back in the days on benefits no more, we out here with full time jobs and not entitled any financial help because we work full-time and still have to be full-time mums whilst single handedly funding everything for our children by ourselves. But the dad want come and play weekend dad and do all the fun stuff then talk bout hes done enough so he shouldn't have to contribute financially towards his child because "he dont have it" 😒
I can see Trickys ego growing every single episode. Repeating himself, telling us to catch what he’s saying like it’s biblical. I prefer humble Tricky.
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LIFE ADVICE FOR BLACK MEN 18-35 YEARS OLD in UK:
-Stop acting Bourgie
-Invest in your education
-Build self-sufficiency e.g learn DIY. Cook fresh meals.
-Stop trying to keep up with the joneses...
-in the chess game of life... dont keep making the same or detremental mistakes
-No kids until the nest is set-up... Do birds breed before building a nest???
-Delay your gratification
-Be respectful to EVERYONE. If you dont agree with something... keep it steppin
-Minimise expenses... build substantial cash reserves. The end
❤❤❤❤
@Yony Yayo YEP..."exhibiting qualities attributed to the middle class, especially pretentiousness or conventionality". happy?
"Every other weekend" that's a madness! Why not every weekend plus a surprise visit during the week. How about calls during the week? How about being consistent with maintenance plus pocket money? How about just spending money on your children just because? How about just being consistent full stop. How about doing more than just what the system expects from you. How about respecting how much time and effort it takes to be a mum 24-7 even when the child is not with her, she is still doing mum stuff?? You think one day off we should be grateful for? Your having a laugh! Sorry, don't mind me, I'm just venting...
🤦🏾♂️ Tricks, raising a kid unfortunately isn’t about getting them on the weekend and buying them an ice cream, we talking about school uniform every term, trainers, kicks dinner lunch breakfast, toiletries, medicine, football boots, broadband, phones, video games… money haffi run regardless, go and work a cleaning job and pay for your kids, nuff man want to hide behind they’re broke and a mother cannot say that… it goes hand in hand… separate the arguments because you coming around hugging your kids ain’t gonna feed them don’t make excuses for wastemen we need to separate them!
Responsibility should be the topic!
Unfortunately, cee tee if you are f**king a wasteman( is that not someone that collect rubbish )any way those that decide to have a baby for a man that's not financially secure and not ready for a child must think they can financially afford to have a baby with or with out the partner right!...you are responsible for your decision.. better pum pum management Is what needed not bitter pum pum management...
It Don't get no realer 💯 bout do cleaning job but yet your calling him a wasteman... u do cleaning job and make him sit at home with the benefit 🤣😂🤣
If next man is brok but still in his kids life that is far more beneficial than the broke ones who don't come around.
I'm not saying an doesn't need to get up and work but being an active father will always be far better than an inactive father broke or not. That shit hold more power to influence a future in the type of dynamic you have created in your example.
@@Jurnalist_ you’re missing my point, these type of dudes need to be separated and not put in the same bracket, it’s a blanket statement being made, if you’re broke and seeing your kids then kl but make damn sure you’re providing in some sort of way financially aswell, it goes hand in hand, I don’t like the excuses, I been broke, but I make damn sure my kids are looked after, you should be in your kids lives for sure but also make sacrifices that Good Baby Mothers make also, they too haffi struggle and juggle we can’t be here as men and say it’s ok for me to look after kids with just love, I’m tired of it let’s put some real perspective inna dis, let’s leave the topic about women not letting mandem see there kids it’s another topic, make sure you bring something to the table because the whole scenario of growing up and influencing your kids future is that you provide by any means aswell as show love and be there physically
We are giving man too many get out clause’s it’s a joint responsibility from when you laid down with woman to also provide for that child the same way the mother does no excuses
Rate tricky but this episode he was too emotional and took it personal. He's talking about taking his kid out on a weekend and doing fun activities but I don't hear him mention being there every evening helping with homework or taking and picking up from school, cooking dinner every evening. Too many man running round thinking there dad of the year cause they take there kid every weekend for 6 hours to go out
facts. Man are doing daddy here and there and thinking it makes them a good dad. Man need to DOTE on their kid. Pree that word. If you ain't DOTING on your child, you're failing as a father. Do better
Big facts
School run light he probably does that aswell certain days if not everyday like me ,dinners might send a takeaway in his absence women don’t cook everyday pls and lastly homework ok yep homework how much really do these kids get these days .. u can’t cancel us fathers respect and understanding works both ways .. respectful ..
@@datguyagain649 ok tricky never spoke about that all he mentioned was I take my kid park dunno why my baby mum took me to court, she obviously ain't take him if she never had sufficient evidence he's not paying his way
Respect to woman that do it but most men unless the woman is unfit mother don’t get the right to do what you said more time it’s weekend rights visitation not to mention if the woman don’t add you to the BC then runs off an marrys a next man the next man got more rights.
No one gets taken to court over losing your job and not paying maintenance for a month or 2. It’s when you don’t pay for 9/10/11 months!
I think men create angry women and 75% of the time it’s the man’s fault relationships breakdown, treat your women like queen and she will treat you like a king and then inevitably you will raise princesss and princes. Treat your women like she’s your mum not helping round the house spending your weekends out and about then inevitably relationship will breakdown and the womens anger will be justified. I’ve never met a woman who’s taken a hardworking family loving man to court, there is always a reason. I’ve seen many of my old friends go through these situations and hands down I can tell you it’s their own faults and when they decide they want to change all of a sudden the mums the bad person for holding back when in reality she is practicing a very old saying “learn from your mistakes” can’t blame a woman for protecting her children. I live with the mother of my children and I do the most to make sure it stays that way and if ever I was to something that split us up I would expect her to protect my children from my bullshit
Sorry why shouldn’t play a role and pay a role? Some mums should struggle and pay for food, bills, uniforms etc whilst you come take them football and park every other weekend? You have to pay! It’s your kid!
Your videos help me feel normal man , it’s a relief to know I’m not the only one who goes through these things. It allows me to help my People , and it allows me to understand when to walk away from toxic situations , rather then feeling stuck and overwhelmed.
I 2nd that
@Backup John who are u
Tricky sounds like he has a eco in the microphone when hes talking
Society has conditioned us to believe (especially amongst BAME groups) that a great father is a man that “sees” his children on a regular basis or spends time with their children even if it’s just for a few hours on a weekend BUT that doesn’t make a great father! Just because a man isn’t with the Mother of his children doesn’t mean he isn’t equally responsible for the day to day financial and physical care of a child. Homework, school run, food, uniform, contribution towards household bills, caring for the child when their sick, children’s bedroom furniture, I could go on… The law will support a Mother to gain financial support for their children and rightfully so because it’s not the governments or Mothers sole responsibility to provide for a child BUT the government will also support a man to “see” his children and have overnight care if they don’t have the access they want but MOST men don’t want to take on equal physical care and that is the conversation that isn’t being had…
The more overnight care a man has with his children the less he has to pay the Mother financially because he is providing financially when they are with him! That’s the law, so if you don’t want to give the Mother of your children the financial support they are seeking (hopefully for a justifiable reason) then seek overnight access through the courts or offer it to them simple! A man should want at least two nights with their children a week anyway (in my opinion) unless he can’t for factors outside of his control…
Not gonna lie you kinda had me until you said household bills! Having a child is defo 50/50 I pay for my kids every week but I ain’t paying for nobody’s household bills I have my own bills to pay. And before you try and attack me I have 5 children and altogether I pay £115 a week towards their maintenance personally not through csa
@@lloydsmith3907 If you don’t feel the Mother of your children should be supported financially towards household bills such as gas and electric when your 5 children reside there and use both on a daily basis that’s up to you… If you feel £23 per week for each child is enough to cover all the household bills, food, clothes, activities, other things your children need each to their own…
@@lloydsmith3907 if having a child is 50/50 do you think it costs £230 a week to look after 5 children?
@@lloydsmith3907 £115 per week for 5 children???? Are you serious!
This episode needs wisdom.
The PTSD episode was brilliant and raising such an important topic I’m sure helped so many. The coparenting topic is also needed but this didn’t seem as thought through as previous episodes and therefore in my opinion, didn’t do it justice. It sounded like “mothers of children” are preferred because they appease fathers and allow the bare minimum whereas “baby mothers” will hold fathers accountable.
Considering there have been previous discussions in which you state that boys on the roads do certain things due to poverty it’s confusing as to why fathers fail to see the direct correlation between not financially providing for their child and child poverty leading young boys to do illegal activities. Children need financial support just like they need emotional support. If the mother doesn’t get financial support who do you think this effects? When the mother is heightened and operating in survival mode It will effect the child.
A lot of fathers complain about their child’s mother whilst living a bachelor lifestyle and picking up their child every other weekend but if you were to ask them to have their child one week on and one week off, ensure they have a room and provide clothes and toys etc that will be kept at the fathers home and literally split the parenting 50/50 they won’t. Blue Peter badges aren’t given for doing the bare minimum it’s what parents are supposed to do! Let’s do better for our children! Please!
CSA and the courts aren’t linked as far as I know, and I don’t think men in the UK are sent to prison as a direct result of not paying child support.
I’m glad so many can relate but I think extra consideration and more research needs to be given to this topic so that misinformation isn’t spread. Maybe having a family lawyer come on to discuss this might be a good idea? That way the men can get advice on how to go about gaining regular access to their children. Sending love. Keep talking 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you for writing this, word for word i totally agree, Tricky tried to use his platform to tackle this subject but sadly failed as there are soooooo many levels to this subject. i totally respect his attempt but next time please get a woman on the show.
A must watch. I needed this 7 years, 6 days and counting. Thats 2,563 days. No legal aid. The distinction between the two just gave me clarity! ❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Powerful topic! Well spoken 👊🏽
Thank you for highlighting this topic. Bless up every time
Big we need this triky. Amazing ... all love b,, nuff us dont hear this from freidns o fsmily so thank you uncle
This was so, so relatable. It’s even harder when your dealing with multiple baby mums who are all going on mad at the same time. It’s tough. Thanks for speaking up for us bro, respect for that 👊🏾
Well maybe some of you men should learn how to strap it up than & stop having sex with multiple women i hate it when men try to play the victims in situations that they put them selves in please man you aint babys what a pathetic self pitty comment smh!
This is why it's not wise to have multiple baby mother's as it can be difficult and complicated
But sometimes life happens. These things aren’t planned. But you live and learn
Jamaicans need to stop having so many baby mums 😂😂😂😂👎🏿
Tricky you got in your bag today. Someone needed to hear this.
I agree to some extent, but why are you spending £600 on your kids not knowing how you will pay rent when the best thing you can do for your kids is have a place they can come stay with you they don’t need gifts or fancy things this is where mothers get annoyed because we think of the practical things because otherwise where would our kids be we can’t take them for days out like the part time dads do because we have to provide for them 365days a year but we don’t do it for the clout we do it so our kids don’t have to grow up and recover from their childhoods. Prioritise emotional support and becoming a full time parent even if that means just seeing them everyday that’s what memories your kid wants not going to the park for ice cream every other week
U need to explain this to niggas our they just gonna behave cluelessly
As a parent seeing others pay but not spend any time with their kids due to parental feuds and other factors, is so sad and heart breaking for so many children. Kids should not be involved in big people argument. Facts. No parent is perfect and yes people disagree with one another at times, but children are the future and should be raised in a confidence boosting way of positive examples. Why should kids now of or be affected by parental disagreements or be affected by them? As a working mother of children, I if feel the fathers should also contribute. So I guess thats why some turn to courts. But you are right, money should not be the main factor, time love and attention should for these children out here! Loved the cast, please continue to cover such great topics and promote positively as you do!
Real as it get…big respect for putting this message out OG 👊🏽🖤
29:50 only man who really been in it get this statement. (Especially if your BM was leng AF)
😂😂
It's true.
@@KingJaeTV mandem will happily trade that bird for peace 😂😂🤷🏾♂️
What I’ve learnt here is that BW need to start selective breeding!
facts 💯
agreeeeeed
16:56 ‘some of these women are going to court and getting £25 per week, who do you think I am!? Brad Pitt?!? 🤣🤣
This could have only been delivered by someone who has first hand experience.. this episode was well needed 👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
Big up Tricky touchy subject touched my heart so empowering for the good dads out there as we are dismissed time after time perfect time & platform to discuss the topic - self validation 17 years still going strong #ForTheCulture
As the aunty to both of your kids (your “babymums” sister) I find this podcast very interesting. I think there is another particular topic you are very familiar with and should discuss on your platform if were really being real.
Wooooiiiii
@shadae whats that "other topic"?
Talk up the ting man 👏🏿 I respect it
I'm an emotional nigga aswell can't lie bro and I'm a product of a baby mother not a mother of a child it's fucking shit I'm 28 ain't seen Dad since in 20 years o dont know what happened and my mum wont give me info about him I don't speak to my mum anymore for various reasons some of these women out here are cold, nasty and spiteful real talk. You're right though Tricky there is a difference. Love👊🏾
Been thru the court system for my child but I'm abit confused about the "if you don't pay its prison". I don't belive this is completely accurate. They can create orders to take it from your wage before you get it like tax if there is no agreement between the two parties or if no payments are made.
Maybe of recent that this was applied , but hes right in the aspect that some can go to prison because there are some out there without a job or who refuse to pay or even provide info on those parts
@@techzRR if you ain't working they just grabbing a percentage of the signing on amount, I believe. But fair enough
This country does not have custodial implications for not paying child support so that statement in the video was inaccurate.
Vangourious as always. Very good topic in this climate. Prayers for all those that can relate.
is hard to take these powerful words serious when theres a reverb on trickys mic hahah they need to sort that
I thought it was just me. That hall reverb
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Sounds like hes signing in a concert hall through the whole thing
Fire Topic Tricky, I feel you need to get the two types of mothers on to talk or even Someone from the system/ courts to explain the fundamentals around theses issues. Keep pushing King! Many Blessings much love & appreciation. 🙏🏿💪🏿👊🏿
Powerful episode bro 😎 🙌🏾
Mad respec for this topic Tricky👏🏿
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Im in the 1st stages bigman.
Mediation, no concent or contact for birth certificate
All typa F3 rn
Feels like ive committed a crime for having a baby 🤦🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Inspirational
After this video im fealing the fight 🙏🏿🙌🏿👊🏿
THIS one was needed
Real life with always bring out genuine emotions
Good one thanks you
lovely topic to talk about we can't continue like this some baby mama's need to do better
This is totally random, but there’s too much reverb on his voice which becomes distracting.
Men are afraid to breach this topic or really speak on anything about women because we are taught to not do so.
Plus you have man that say "What do I look like arguing with Gyal?"
To me, that's a dumb response because if you are not gonna defend your self or speak up when needed just because it's a women is foolish.
You don't have to be disrespectful but continuing to remain silent or not speak up is why some of the issues we have persist.
All facts 💯 too many similar stories
Languuuuaggggeeeeee
I'm that guy I pay the money haven't seen my daughter for 3 years
I went court represented myself at that
Got access but my daughters been poisoned that much I've not seen her
We talk just about but that's it
Did the same, stay consistent with your efforts. Hopefully it will change soon👊🏿
@@dominicfm2189 you too these conversations are needed it's so nice to see us big men now opening up and having real conversations honestly
Am going through this now
13:50 FACTSSS
Drop episode
the movement was called Fathers for Justice
Personally the only thing I would advise for tricky is to bring someone on the pod from time to time, to bring balance to the show. It's gaining great momentum however nobody likes to listen to one opinion forever. Believer me, some of the people singing praises from ep 1, will end up condemning him come episode 10.
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Wheres lippy though???
On the HC Pod ting
@@mo.b101 🤷🏾♂️ whats that???
@@Trax777 chuckie online
@@mo.b101 he was just a guest lol he’s not a part of it and that was filmed like a week before
@@msdeangelox that's what I literally meant, because he asked where lippy was
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Im just hearing bare gaslighting and lack of accountability. Its ALWAYS the same excuse that all mothers want is money, money, money as if the school uniform buy themselves, as if the after school activities like karate, ballet etc are free, as if weekend football is free, as if weekly bus pass to school is free and all the rest.
And then men think an hour or 2 at the weekend to the park should be enough "because its not about the money" meanwhile the mums out here getting up EVERY single morning to do the school run, shes taking the child to doctors appointments, she have to find babysitters so she can do a weekend shift because work is understaffed, she has to find entertainment and funds to keep the children occupied during the 6 week holiday, shes cooking dinner for the children EVERY night and it goes on.
Im not trying to down play the role the good fathers play but this idiotic narrative that all baby mums want is money, needs to stop and you need to stop perpetuating that myth. It aint like back in the days on benefits no more, we out here with full time jobs and not entitled any financial help because we work full-time and still have to be full-time mums whilst single handedly funding everything for our children by ourselves. But the dad want come and play weekend dad and do all the fun stuff then talk bout hes done enough so he shouldn't have to contribute financially towards his child because "he dont have it" 😒
Who’s sending this to Cynthia G? 🧐
I can see Trickys ego growing every single episode. Repeating himself, telling us to catch what he’s saying like it’s biblical. I prefer humble Tricky.
If I see that functioning mad man tricky in the streets I'm saying to him have you BEEN PAYING WHERES THE MONEY
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Certain man don’t be speaking up about this stuff coz they know it could fuck up the chances of seeing there yute I’m probably one of the culprits.
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Trigger warning ⚠️
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