For those that are wondering what happened between them here you go. 😊 So basically, fans started shipping them which made their relationship awkward. Luckily they still remain friends but have just decided to keep their friendship off screen. Then people started hating on Madison’s girlfriend Mariah claiming that she didn’t like Rudy and was “jealous” because Madison and Rudy’s relationship was so strong, none of which was true at all Mariah is a very nice person according to Madison. Madison went live on instagram confronting fans about hating on her girlfriend. If you want to see it you can find it on UA-cam or Madison’s instagram page. Edit: Hi everyone I’m back editing this because I’m seeing a lot of people asking who JD is. JD stands for Jonathan Daviss one of Madison co stars in the show Outer Banks when he played pope. Hope this helps :)
I agree with this . I say that a lot too. Back then everyone can be friends with the opposite gender and it wasn’t a big deal but now everyone makes a big deal about it
@@innileliluvsanYeah That Shit Sounds Dumb As Hell Lmao.. They Couldn’t Have Have Been That Good Of Friends If Random People Where And Issue.. Just Ignore It.. Stay Off Social Media.. This Is Ridiculous People Saying Toxic Fans Broke Up Their Friendship what.? How.?
If there friendships can be ruined by strangers, they were never real friends to begin with. They were 100% friends with benefits, glad that the fans exposed there bs 💯💯
Oh no! Two people that I don't know at all really but I think I do don't hang out anymore.... If you really think that way you need might need to get help or find something better to do
@@Its_Evie201 after season 3, fans started shipping them in real life and it made it awkward for them to appear friendly together in public. I also heard Rudy’a gf got involved as she was uncomfortable/jealous with their Madison and Rudy’s friendship
Stop you guys are actually killing me with some of these comments so let me break down MY VIDEO FOR YOU. ⚠️ I DO NOT ship ANY REAL PEOPLE in ANY WAY POSSIBLE.⚠️ this edit is simply to point out that it’s sad that people do ship real people. And yes, I’m VERY aware about what JD stands for and that clip is there to point out that she lied because if she didn’t people would comment stupid things. So PLEASE stop accusing me of dumb things. If you have a question I would gladly answer it but PEASE stop coming after me. Edit: OMG YALL ARE ACTUALLY DRIVING ME CRAZY. READ THE DAMN COMMENT I MADE IT EXPLAINS IT ALL!!! Edit 2: looking at this later this came out really aggressive… sry abt that y’all 😅
I believe you Madison but Rudy is not the cause. It's over posted fans you both stay on your course of destiny. You and Rudy are not one. The fans caused this crap you both need to unnaminous have you and your partner and Rudy and his. All four say online together we are happy and you and them hug it out. Tell the fucked fans to stop.
she really loved him as a friend and valued him, and hearing the way she talks abt him is so sad bc they had something I don’t think anyone else had, and they were so close and happy now look at them. That upsets me.
everything started because of fans hating on Madison’s girlfriend for not liking Rudy. Since that, Rudy keep his distance and is so obvious that everything has changed and that they are making a real hard effort to keep it calm.
I swear fans can be the best people or the worst people and nowadays they are the worst people. I swear they ruin the best friendships and it makes me sick
Back in the day we ignored trolls I just think this generation is just too damn emotional and very sensitive. If something were not true it bothers me none. Famous or not this generation is so weak the world is over
People need to accept the fact that Madison and Rudy are JUST FRIENDS. They shouldnt have to hide it on camera bc people wont stop shipping them. JJ AND KIE ARE A SHIP NOT MADISON AND RUDY. They deserve to be able to show their friendship not have to hide it. I feel so bad for her and rudy. Watching this just made me cry.
i don’t even watch outer banks but i feel horrible for them, it’s like the larry stylinson situation. some “fans” just take things way too far even when celebrities have partners or have told them to stop, and it’s disgusting!
Ahhh I feel so bad for them. They shouldn’t have to go through that. And it’s sad that there supposably “fans” would do that. There is many things wrong with these fans. 1. Madison having a girlfriend and her fans not respecting there relationship . 2. They told the public that they were just rlly good friends and the fans Fr making this something it’s not 3. These fans need to accept the fact they are just friends. At the end of the day Rudy and Madison shouldn’t have to make there relationship private. Ofc they can if they want too. But they weren’t until people were trying to make this something it wasn’t. ❤️ my love and support goes out to Rudy and Madison for having to deal with this.
this makes me so so so sad, you can ship their characters, but you don’t need to ship Rudy and Madison when they are in happy relationships with other people
That is absolutely not fair. Shipping CHARACTERS? No harm done. But when they begin to ship the actual people it becomes relentless and can really ruin someone’s friendship and their relationship. I feel so bad for them
What I meant by that is that people need to quit digging into their personal business and just let them live life without having to know every single detail
I'm so sad that everything got awkward and that fans did this they were like the friendship goals and now it's gone...I feel so bad that they had to lose their friendship due to this
I’m really sorry Madison! i did nothing i legit found this out rn! you and mariah make such a cute couple i am supportive of y’all and u and rudy r the cutest duo ever!!! ❤❤
why do fans always have to attack? like celebs are humans too you can’t just expect them to do whatever u want. and this video explains the pain it caused very well. I hope everything gets better for them 😭
People need to know celebs will have girlfriends or boyfriends even if their not the people from OBX they love people In real life and you can't ruin friendships like this it's cruel does it not make u sad seeing Madison like this???Madison loves Rudy as a best friend just as Madelyn and chase they both may not be together but their friends try not ruining their lives like this Thx to the people who aren't doing this to them💗✌️
Its so sad that fan do this like we can ship them in the show but not in real life girrls can be friends with guys but not have anything going on between them❤
They are such good friends, it’s sad they were getting shipped and that ruined their friendship and made it awkward. I ship them in the show bc i think they would be cute IN OBX, i love that they are bestfriends and that they both have people they love so much!! 🙂
Fr so annoying people think it’s harmless cuz they’re famous or whatever but they’re people like us they have problems too and that probably messed up the whole vibe on set😢
Yeah, it’s so sad that ppl always ship ppl w someone boy/girl. It’s so crazy how it can affect people. Like millie and Noah. Noah was tryna help calm down millie and he couldn’t even do that bc ppl will ship them. It’s honestly so sad that ppl have made it become like that.
It’s so annoying how some people can’t just accept the fact that people CAN just be friends cause they were literally the beets friendship duo and I miss their vids
my heart just breaks. i love both of them and the fact fans do this breaks me. i can understand why they ship them but honestly yall that just makes their like more awkward for each other. hope they don’t get as much hate
I’m literally crying rn y’all who shipped them ruined their freaking friendship I’m not say everyone did ship them but if you did why just why would you do people are stupid but people who do this are idiots
I don’t understand why “fans” do this to people like it sorta happened with kit Connor too like people just always speculating and trying to invade peoples privacy like why can’t we just be happy with friendships and real bonds like friendships are also so amazing and beautiful it’s so sad that this keeps happening ❤
PEOPLE RUINED THEIR FRIENDSHIP and their friendship was my favorite out of all of them they got along so well and hung out almost all the time I miss their friendship and it’s sad the people just ruined that for them they was so close and then it’s like they don’t hardly talk anymore😢😢
I love you both so much❤ just wanted to thank you for such a fantastic show that I truly enjoy. I love your friendship and fuck everyone else who has anything bad to say ❤❤❤❤❤❤
im literally obsessed with this show and i love how the whole cast is such good friends but i mean this has happened to me before and its so fricken annoying espessially if rudy literally knew and talked to her about it
Ok I’m actually crying I miss there friendship also it wasn’t just the fans apparently Rudy’s girlfriend didn’t like it and made him choose her or his girlfriend
Literally is all because people can’t leave and on screen relationship on screen, like there’s certain actors that make it very obvious that there is something going on and I feel like that’s fine but you can’t take it far, there real people with real relationships.
I ship JJ and Kiara but not Madison and Rudy, they are better as friends and have their own relationships that should be supported and shipped instead 🥰🤗 If you agree 👇🏼
i don’t blame the fans honestly. they were just asking questions. she said jd and not rudy, she knew that he was obviously going to see the live and get upset.
That's not why their friendship broke. It was long before that and had nothing to do with jd. She is now closer to jd because her friendship with rudy became distant. Fans obsessively shipped rudy and maddie in real life. To the point that fans would spread rumours and send hate to their significant others. This put a strain on their friendship and their private relationships. So they chose to stop showing their friendship in hope that people would stop. It was to protect their private and personal lives. And some people still send tons of hate to rudys girlfriend to this day. They also blew a comment mofiyah made out of the water. She'd never met him before and people were asking her if she liked him. She was honest and basically said she didn't know. Because she'd never met or talked to him. And people took that as her being rude and hateful when she wasn't.
And those people r still shipping them, sending horrible messages to their girlfriends, and they get mad that they don't look at eachother or talk in interviews or post pictures of the other
I feel like a lot of the times people will ship 2 celebs together just because they are in love on screen or they have a good friendship or both and it’s really annoying 🙄
The thing is, all relationships in the outer banks cast, friend and dating, always get ruined. Rudy Pankow and Kies actor, and the actors of John B and Sarah
And they’re both in their own relationships so fans were just blatantly disrespecting their partners feelings. If hundreds (or more) of people were constantly saying my partner should break up with me to be with their best friend I’d be AT LEAST a little insecure. I’d be constantly watching their videos together, studying their body language trying to figure out if they’re just friends or if there’s something there. It’s just not fair to them
For those that are wondering what happened between them here you go. 😊
So basically, fans started shipping them which made their relationship awkward. Luckily they still remain friends but have just decided to keep their friendship off screen. Then people started hating on Madison’s girlfriend Mariah claiming that she didn’t like Rudy and was “jealous” because Madison and Rudy’s relationship was so strong, none of which was true at all Mariah is a very nice person according to Madison. Madison went live on instagram confronting fans about hating on her girlfriend. If you want to see it you can find it on UA-cam or Madison’s instagram page.
Edit: Hi everyone I’m back editing this because I’m seeing a lot of people asking who JD is. JD stands for Jonathan Daviss one of Madison co stars in the show Outer Banks when he played pope. Hope this helps :)
I hate these people
Madison loves her girlfriend and only sees Rudy as her best friend.
Ya then they went to Rudy’s girlfriend those fans just need to stop
Thanks smmm😊
Didn’t people sent threats to Rudy and Madison’s family’s ?
@@Halia313 they did now I think fans should just stop rn
This is so sad, I hate fans so much for doing this 😭😭😭
Same 😭😭
Il 😢
😢😢😢😢
Fr
What happened?
It’s crazy how girls and boys can’t be JUST friends without getting shipped😭😭
I agree with this . I say that a lot too. Back then everyone can be friends with the opposite gender and it wasn’t a big deal but now everyone makes a big deal about it
OMFG!!!! FRRRRRRR I HAVE A GUY BFF AND MY FUCKKING FRIWNDS R LIKE U FUCKING LIKE HIM IM LIKE STFU
exactly; it’s happening a lot; taylor swift for example. we all remember that. it’s terrible
I swear I have a guy friend named Julio and my friends always ship me with him
Facts
why people like to ruin beautiful friendships!?!?
If their friendship ends I cry and I won't stop😭😭
Then do it, nobody knows
@@Mrs.Tea363Wtf atleast keep ur opnion to urself
they were literaly ONLY best friends as she stated multiple times, and then the toxic fans ruined their friendship, i feel so bad for them
Exactly
are they no longer friends?
she shouldn’t let random strangers ppl ruin their relationship lol like js ignore it frr💀😭🌚.!.
@@innileliluvsanYeah That Shit Sounds Dumb As Hell Lmao.. They Couldn’t Have Have Been That Good Of Friends If Random People Where And Issue.. Just Ignore It.. Stay Off Social Media.. This Is Ridiculous People Saying Toxic Fans Broke Up Their Friendship what.? How.?
If there friendships can be ruined by strangers, they were never real friends to begin with.
They were 100% friends with benefits, glad that the fans exposed there bs 💯💯
This actually makes me so upset. I feel so bad for them and I really miss them hanging out.
There's no big deal really, Settle tf down
@@Onepieceistheworstfuckinganimelmao Thank You What Is Going On In The World.?
@@Onepieceistheworstfuckinganime😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oh no! Two people that I don't know at all really but I think I do don't hang out anymore.... If you really think that way you need might need to get help or find something better to do
Ik I feel so bad for them 😢
I’m so sorry for what happened with them, hopefully they can become closer this S4 but idk
Ik that would be awesome
@@OBX_obsession exactly fr
That would be the dream ❤️
what happened
@@Its_Evie201 after season 3, fans started shipping them in real life and it made it awkward for them to appear friendly together in public. I also heard Rudy’a gf got involved as she was uncomfortable/jealous with their Madison and Rudy’s friendship
Stop you guys are actually killing me with some of these comments so let me break down MY VIDEO FOR YOU. ⚠️ I DO NOT ship ANY REAL PEOPLE in ANY WAY POSSIBLE.⚠️ this edit is simply to point out that it’s sad that people do ship real people. And yes, I’m VERY aware about what JD stands for and that clip is there to point out that she lied because if she didn’t people would comment stupid things. So PLEASE stop accusing me of dumb things. If you have a question I would gladly answer it but PEASE stop coming after me.
Edit: OMG YALL ARE ACTUALLY DRIVING ME CRAZY. READ THE DAMN COMMENT I MADE IT EXPLAINS IT ALL!!!
Edit 2: looking at this later this came out really aggressive… sry abt that y’all 😅
what does jd stand for😭💀
@@hehatespressfr what does it stand for lol
jonathan davis another cast member
@@hehatespressanother cast member
I believe you Madison but Rudy is not the cause. It's over posted fans you both stay on your course of destiny. You and Rudy are not one. The fans caused this crap you both need to unnaminous have you and your partner and Rudy and his. All four say online together we are happy and you and them hug it out. Tell the fucked fans to stop.
i’ve literally cried for hours missing the old obx cast,they used to talk but now no one ever talks and i miss rudy and madison’s friendship
she really loved him as a friend and valued him, and hearing the way she talks abt him is so sad bc they had something I don’t think anyone else had, and they were so close and happy now look at them. That upsets me.
So true 😔
You do not know them personally. Stop acting like you know the ins and outs of their relationship.
I feel so bad for them I loved there friendship so much and it’s so sad to see them like this
Ik same 😢
everything started because of fans hating on Madison’s girlfriend for not liking Rudy. Since that, Rudy keep his distance and is so obvious that everything has changed and that they are making a real hard effort to keep it calm.
I swear I hate how fans do that like ruin ppl (friend) relationships with others they’re human to and if they did that to them they would be livid
Exactly
i love their friendship i wish ppl didn't ruin it
😭Nooooo their friendship is literally iconic why did the people have to do that😭😭
Aww the way she sounded sad when she did not say rudy 😢😢
I hate that people did that to them they had such a good friendship
Whyyyyyyyyy I love herrrr and jj like why did they ruin it for them😢😢😢😢
I miss them sm they probably do have an amazing relationship off camera but it’s still not the same like before😭💔💔
I swear fans can be the best people or the worst people and nowadays they are the worst people. I swear they ruin the best friendships and it makes me sick
They remind me of paparazzi’s like I stg! The fans are just disgusting and don’t understand boundaries!
@@theliondraws4634 FR, it drives me insane. It’s like why can’t people mind their own business.
Some people ruin everything and I hate it 😠
There friendship was amazing
Aw Noo they are amazing friends 🫶🏽🫶🏽😭
People really need to leave them alone. It’s sad that their friend ship was ruined because of crazy fans.😢
I really hope somehow they become friends again😢
Back in the day we ignored trolls I just think this generation is just too damn emotional and very sensitive. If something were not true it bothers me none. Famous or not this generation is so weak the world is over
I hate when people interfere with celeb life. Some people just don’t realize they are people.
So true
People need to accept the fact that Madison and Rudy are JUST FRIENDS. They shouldnt have to hide it on camera bc people wont stop shipping them. JJ AND KIE ARE A SHIP NOT MADISON AND RUDY. They deserve to be able to show their friendship not have to hide it. I feel so bad for her and rudy. Watching this just made me cry.
Its sad but being public eyes this is something that they sign up for. But i still hate that certain fans can ruin something good
This is so sad but shes lucky to have Rudy i wish i could just come up and hug him like that ❤😢
Ooh I love your pfp and thanks for the pin
i don’t even watch outer banks but i feel horrible for them, it’s like the larry stylinson situation. some “fans” just take things way too far even when celebrities have partners or have told them to stop, and it’s disgusting!
Ahhh I feel so bad for them. They shouldn’t have to go through that. And it’s sad that there supposably “fans” would do that. There is many things wrong with these fans. 1. Madison having a girlfriend and her fans not respecting there relationship . 2. They told the public that they were just rlly good friends and the fans Fr making this something it’s not 3. These fans need to accept the fact they are just friends. At the end of the day Rudy and Madison shouldn’t have to make there relationship private. Ofc they can if they want too. But they weren’t until people were trying to make this something it wasn’t. ❤️ my love and support goes out to Rudy and Madison for having to deal with this.
I hate that this happened they are the bestest best friends on earth and people ruined it shame on them
SHE DESERVES SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT😭😭😭😭😭
I literally just started watching obx and this is so sad. I feel so bad for them it’s just not okay for people to be doing this
I don’t like the people who did this. They’re amazing friends and I need a friendship like that!
this makes me so so so sad, you can ship their characters, but you don’t need to ship Rudy and Madison when they are in happy relationships with other people
It’s so sad what happened to their friendship 😭
They didn't deserve that. They where best friend's bro like it was a brother sister relationship I hate how people ruined that
That is absolutely not fair. Shipping CHARACTERS? No harm done. But when they begin to ship the actual people it becomes relentless and can really ruin someone’s friendship and their relationship. I feel so bad for them
People need to stay out of celebs personal lives
The Thing Is.. They Can’t Be In Their Personal Lives.. Are Y’all Crazy.?
What I meant by that is that people need to quit digging into their personal business and just let them live life without having to know every single detail
I'm so sad that everything got awkward and that fans did this they were like the friendship goals and now it's gone...I feel so bad that they had to lose their friendship due to this
I’m really sorry Madison! i did nothing i legit found this out rn! you and mariah make such a cute couple i am supportive of y’all and u and rudy r the cutest duo ever!!! ❤❤
That's messed up. Like frr watch who u ship bc it ruins peoples relationship or friendship and I'm glad everything is ok now ❤
why do fans always have to attack? like celebs are humans too you can’t just expect them to do whatever u want. and this video explains the pain it caused very well.
I hope everything gets better for them 😭
This had me f**cking crying y’all ruined their friendship bond!😭😭
(I’m sry to the ppl that didn’t say things bout them!🙂)
Y'all need to let them be we don't deserve these amazing people
People need to know celebs will have girlfriends or boyfriends even if their not the people from OBX they love people In real life and you can't ruin friendships like this it's cruel does it not make u sad seeing Madison like this???Madison loves Rudy as a best friend just as Madelyn and chase they both may not be together but their friends try not ruining their lives like this
Thx to the people who aren't doing this to them💗✌️
I remember fans did the same with stranger things cast and Wednesday cast, people really like ruining life's of unknown people!
Yes!!
Its so sad that fan do this like we can ship them in the show but not in real life girrls can be friends with guys but not have anything going on between them❤
They are such good friends, it’s sad they were getting shipped and that ruined their friendship and made it awkward. I ship them in the show bc i think they would be cute IN OBX, i love that they are bestfriends and that they both have people they love so much!! 🙂
Girl me too there are great friends I just want them to be friends again 💔😭
Why do they need to ruin their reletionship leave them alone omg ❤😢❤
Some people grew apart. Not always meant to be in your live forever , just be thankful for the time u had
Fr so annoying people think it’s harmless cuz they’re famous or whatever but they’re people like us they have problems too and that probably messed up the whole vibe on set😢
Yeah, it’s so sad that ppl always ship ppl w someone boy/girl. It’s so crazy how it can affect people. Like millie and Noah. Noah was tryna help calm down millie and he couldn’t even do that bc ppl will ship them. It’s honestly so sad that ppl have made it become like that.
I’m so sorry you two are great friends 🤍 I’ll love y’all
It’s so annoying how some people can’t just accept the fact that people CAN just be friends cause they were literally the beets friendship duo and I miss their vids
Omg it’s so stupid what ppl have to do and say 😢
my heart just breaks. i love both of them and the fact fans do this breaks me. i can understand why they ship them but honestly yall that just makes their like more awkward for each other. hope they don’t get as much hate
bruh, it’s honestly just sad how fans do this. they shouldn’t even be considered fans at this point..
Honestly tho
I miss them so much
Men and women can’t be just friends, glad that they finally cut the bs 💯💯
Fr i miss them
The body language, the avoiding the eye of the interviewer when answering questions. Bro, they’re trying so hard not to spoil anything 😂😂😂
I agree it didn’t have to end like this😢🤬🤬
Omggg this is sooo sad i miss their friendship and they are onlyy friends people should stop shipping them because here are the consequences😢
I miss their friendship I hate what people did to them
I love outer Banks and this just makes me sad
This makes me sooooo sad😢
I feel so bad I wish they were still friends
I’m literally crying rn y’all who shipped them ruined their freaking friendship I’m not say everyone did ship them but if you did why just why would you do people are stupid but people who do this are idiots
Some people have it as an obsession to mess things up. Pretty disgusting
I don’t understand why “fans” do this to people like it sorta happened with kit Connor too like people just always speculating and trying to invade peoples privacy like why can’t we just be happy with friendships and real bonds like friendships are also so amazing and beautiful it’s so sad that this keeps happening ❤
PEOPLE RUINED THEIR FRIENDSHIP and their friendship was my favorite out of all of them they got along so well and hung out almost all the time I miss their friendship and it’s sad the people just ruined that for them they was so close and then it’s like they don’t hardly talk anymore😢😢
I know this is so sad 😢😢
STOP IVE ALREADY CRIED AN OCEAN NO MORE😭
Ppl need to stop trying to meddle with peoples relationships
Awww no I love their friendship🫢😭😭😭💔💔💔
I love you both so much❤ just wanted to thank you for such a fantastic show that I truly enjoy. I love your friendship and fuck everyone else who has anything bad to say ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I hate it when fans ruin actors friendships
I'm sad about what happened, but you know, that's life. You deal with it and move on. At least we have Jiara
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Yes ofc ❤️❤️
im literally obsessed with this show and i love how the whole cast is such good friends but i mean this has happened to me before and its so fricken annoying espessially if rudy literally knew and talked to her about it
fans ruined their friendship😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔
Side actors of the show said that Maddison and Rudy are still bsf on set! But they don’t show it in piblic anymore due too the shipping etc.
Right!
I mean being bestie with jd isn’t bad but people doing that is actually messed up there were like best friends
Ok I’m actually crying I miss there friendship also it wasn’t just the fans apparently Rudy’s girlfriend didn’t like it and made him choose her or his girlfriend
BRUH THERE FRIENDSHIP WAS SO IMPORTANT AND THE FANS RUINED IT?!?! so much for frickin fans?!
Frr
Literally is all because people can’t leave and on screen relationship on screen, like there’s certain actors that make it very obvious that there is something going on and I feel like that’s fine but you can’t take it far, there real people with real relationships.
And people say that they like Outer Banks that they like the cast and yet they do this
I ship JJ and Kiara but not Madison and Rudy, they are better as friends and have their own relationships that should be supported and shipped instead 🥰🤗
If you agree
👇🏼
Jealous people do anything to drag people down
Very true.
So sad. They were just friends but fans made it awkward for them so they just decided to stop.
I feel so bad for them
i don’t blame the fans honestly. they were just asking questions. she said jd and not rudy, she knew that he was obviously going to see the live and get upset.
That's not why their friendship broke. It was long before that and had nothing to do with jd. She is now closer to jd because her friendship with rudy became distant.
Fans obsessively shipped rudy and maddie in real life. To the point that fans would spread rumours and send hate to their significant others. This put a strain on their friendship and their private relationships. So they chose to stop showing their friendship in hope that people would stop. It was to protect their private and personal lives.
And some people still send tons of hate to rudys girlfriend to this day.
They also blew a comment mofiyah made out of the water. She'd never met him before and people were asking her if she liked him. She was honest and basically said she didn't know. Because she'd never met or talked to him. And people took that as her being rude and hateful when she wasn't.
And those people r still shipping them, sending horrible messages to their girlfriends, and they get mad that they don't look at eachother or talk in interviews or post pictures of the other
I feel like a lot of the times people will ship 2 celebs together just because they are in love on screen or they have a good friendship or both and it’s really annoying 🙄
The thing is, all relationships in the outer banks cast, friend and dating, always get ruined. Rudy Pankow and Kies actor, and the actors of John B and Sarah
And they’re both in their own relationships so fans were just blatantly disrespecting their partners feelings. If hundreds (or more) of people were constantly saying my partner should break up with me to be with their best friend I’d be AT LEAST a little insecure. I’d be constantly watching their videos together, studying their body language trying to figure out if they’re just friends or if there’s something there. It’s just not fair to them