Lily Tomlin WALKS OUT After Chad Everett's Sexist Remark! | The Dick Cavett Show
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- Опубліковано 3 тра 2020
- In a shocking moment, actress Lily Tomlin storms off the set after Chad Everett's sexist remark, referring to his wife as his 'property'.
Do you agree with Lily Tomlin or Chad Everett?
Date aired - March 31st 1972 - Lily Tomlin, Chad Everett
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Do you agree with Lily Tomlin or Chad Everett?
Tomlin was very dramatic, Chad said nothing wrong. He stated they both owned each other, It worked for them, end of story.
Lily all the way!
I don't agree with either of them.
Lily was attention seeking and Chad made an easily misconstrued comment.
There's no way anyone would seriously think that Chad Everett felt that he owned his wife.
Lily is a legend yet I do not respect her choice in this clip.
For reference, I am a progressive, liberal woman and still do not think she exhibited strength by walking out.
If she were truly strong in that moment she would have stayed to inject her own perspective about whether or not men own women.
It was a joke. ...guess we just witnessed the prehistoric forerunner of WOKE lol.
Chad
She did not, "Storm" off the set. She walked casually, and said, quietly, "I have to go."
Absolutely ! Like the strong and far more intelligent Woman she is/was. ✊🏽💖💖💃🏽🥰🥰
🙄
Well, the exact words in the title say she "walks out," not storms off. And good on her for doing that- he was being a totally conceited ass.
@@AngelaSledge3678 more like 💩💩💩🌈🦥💩
@@JohnSmith-it6hj Genius pure genius!
It's been said many time, but when someone shows you who they really are, believe them.
Exactly, like Trump.
Indeed. Very well said.
@@eecortese Biden is the most corrupt President in history
Rent free. Two+ years. Lmbo
Yes and Lily showed us who she is
I remember this. It was the first time I saw someone walk off the stage. She was gutsy the way she dismissed him.
She was a sensitive little flower. Not Brave. Idiot.
No,Gutsy is running into a burning building to save someone's life,or jumping from an airplane. Getting up and storming off stage and having a tantrum because someone said something you don't agree with is called childish,not Gutsy.
@@Suddenlyits1960I don't understand how stoopid humans can be and then I saw your comment .
Even his very first “gag” was called out by Cavett.
She didn't really 'storm off' did she? She just calmly said 'I'm leaving' and strolled out, cool as a cucumber.
@Evil Einstein Your wife is a lucky woman.
Not.
@Evil Einstein Maybe you both deserve each other then.
Jealous attitude. Lmfao! Not in this lifetime, buddy.
@Evil Einstein Wrong. But thanks for playing.
No one said she stormed off? Tf are you talking about?
@@egomania3878 The original headline said Lily storms off. After several comments about it, the headline was changed.
He totally tried to out Lily at least twice in this interview. The most obvious time saying that is wife wasn’t Lily’s type of woman.
So what?
Ben Goodhart You have to remember that this was in 1971, when lesbianism and homosexuality wasn’t as widely accepted as it is now. Maybe in show business circles, but not in more staid and conservative parts of society.
Linda Shelley, At that time you could lose your entire career overnight by being outed. Indeed, in 1971 homosexuality was still listed as a mental illness, and even after the APA removed the diagnosis from the DSM it took another 15-20 years before research really began to convince most of the profession that sexuality was congenital and a permanent, unalterable part of a person, not something that should be or could be altered by therapy.
Ben Goodhart so what?! You clearly have no idea what is and is not appropriate. I hope you don’t have kids.
@David Mc It's 2020. Take off your Bison skin & put down your club.
Like the great Maya Angelou said-“When someone shows who they are, believe them!”😡
Yup. Check out Maya showing people who she is. I believe she's a self-righteous, nasty old broad.
You left out a very important part of that quote, which is the ending.
Believe them "the first time".
That part is important so we don't let people continuously do the same thing to us over and over thinking they may change.
Maya was a bigger fraud than Chad.
I love how he said "that was a disturbing thing for her to do". Really he is the one who said that ridiculous remark and then doubled down on it. I wish more women would have been as strong as Lily to not stay in the room where women are disrespected.
Nah she's the nasty liberal sex freak!
"Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women." ~Maya Angelou
@@cshell9137 who cares what that race baiting super chub had to say. Left foot right foot.
U go Lily !!!
NO ONE should be disrespected. I was greatly disturbed by him... Lily did good.
The remark in question that had #LilyTomlin walking off stage is at 6:33 (click here). You're welcome 😊
Thanks!
Thanks for the timestamp! 👍🏻
I like you
You're the real mvp
Ty very much
she didn't storm off, that's a cool stroll with a a clear boundary - and then he gets a dig in at Lily's sexuality.
His ego is quite large. A bit of a jerk.
Just jealous because he's not pretty enough for her. Egos bruise badly.
The lame applause after his dumb poem.
Was Lily out then?
@@kh4901 I don't think so, but that doesn't mean individuals didn't know/meet personally. She was in a long term committed relationship so I'm sure it wasn't a state secret. But either way SHE wasn't "out".
I grew up in this era & realize how deeply ingrained the disrespect was. As a girl I never questioned it & spent a lifetime battling for my dignity, always feeling on some level that such dignity was a joke. Bless Lily.
Well said.
Are you serious? Just because you were too weak willed to stand up for yourself don't blame all men. I was raised in an Italian American household and was the only daughter. I was treated differently because that's what the majority of the civilized world does with females and males. But I was never disrespected or had to battle for dignity. Even out in the world where I did run into chauvinist I always held my own. I never would have gotten upset by his statements are felt intimidated by them.
"Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women." ~Maya Angelou
@@Dekyiful Not really... If she stands up for herlself she stands up only for herself mainly. That sounds like cheap feminist poetry.
@@leatherandtactel What do you think Maya was trying to say?
Lily Tomlin is still a star in 2023, but few remember Chad Everett.
Everett died years ago. Makes sense that few people mention his name. Tomlin is still alive and I have no idea what she’s doing, if anything. A star? Not any more.
Who in the heck is lily Tomlin? I'm 68 and I've never heard of her. Was she a character actress? She's a bit homely so not a lead. I'm remember Chad from medical center.
touche'
I didn't know who he was at all. Still don't lol
never heard of her, heard f him.
Her leaving was the most interesting portion of this video.
fwdthinker she was always ahead of her time 🤷🏼♀️
The facts of how fires react was the most interesting segment.
That’s hair from the elephants cojones ! It’s for good luck .. they sell them in Israel.. he’s so full of it 🙄
So staged
Agreed. Very interesting that she would make such a fool of herself.
This was Brad Pitt's strangest role
I thought the same thing!
@@LinYouToo Me too!
You win the internet
Me too! Lol
LOL
Loved this. Can't blame her for it. We do not own anyone. Spouses do not own each other.
It was a joke a stupid one but it was a joke
He said it in the context of she owning him as well. And really, I'd be very happy if a lady I like very much would go on TV and tell the world "she owns me.".
John dove Cochran, take a chill pill
@@bigradwolf5001 Really? For everyone to pity you and laugh at you having to bow and cringe when she tells you to?
@@bwojak3226 lol no sheet
He tried to ‘OUT’ her twice when it would have Destroyed Her Career - what a cruel man
"Andy Ross" Was it before or after this incident?
@@obscurelyvague 7:08 He says how his wife has no aspirations of being taken care of by a woman; and something else, maybe a couple of things; like what was going on with the underwear in the beginning, I didn't understand that.
Yes, yes he did. In 1972. Wrong and wrong.
@@cockeyedoptimista I was in shock that he did that. Cruel jerk.
These people who get offended so easily. How do they survive in the real world?
Everybody looked like Fred from Scooby Doo back in the day.
Lol.. hilarious
Aetherius Prime 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
LOL!
😮🤷♀️😮
Now that you mention it 🤔
The look on Cavett's face said that even HE knew back then what Everett said was not cool. And if he was referring to Lily's orientation, that was even more wrong in that time frame. Everyone KNEW that Liberace was gay. Nobody talked about it publicly. People just did not discuss their orientation or other people's orientation openly. It was considered impolite at best and extremely rude at worst. She did well to walk out instead of becoming confrontational.
Exactly. He was totally disgusting.
Huge douchebag! Disgraceful!
You caught that too? I thought that was Tack-o-Rama tacky!
“I learned long ago, to never wrestle with a pig. You get dirty, and besides, the pig likes it. - G.B. Shaw...Lily walked off absolutely spotless.
Bridget Sclama I’m so disappointed in Cavett . Scumbag Everett tried to out her with that bag , cavett should have thought of something to say.
I finally learned when someone drops an insult like that, and then says or acts like it was just a joke, that is the tip of the iceberg of their emotional abuse. I'm glad she walked off.
Jane Doe your so right..he was plain nasty
@@ms.5779 🤣🤣
Exactly, he called out to her then he said the joke is over, smh, proves he meant what he said.
Thankfully, he had her spayed and she's got all her shots before her appearance on TV lol🤣
Watch the whole thing. It was a joke. He read a beautiful poem he wrote for his wife. Said they own each other. Those days like he said his wife was a kept woman and was happy with that. The way that God intended. Feminism gone too far.
Damn, he outed Lily on national TV. I don't think anyone even noticed.
Why would they ? Everyone was still in a state of disbelief, including Cavett, at what a creep this guy is.
I did
07:10
If you're paying attention you can pick it up. Yikes this guy is cringe worthy and an absolute creep!!
Nah. He outed his self, for the Pig that he is, as in Ignorant!!
I fucking LOVE this; Everett got visibly rattled by her walking out on him and even Cavett calls him out, or gives him chances to clarify himself when he steps in it further down the road. This is a perfect working example of how you handle people who think like this. I guarantee Chad Everett had a bad rest of his day that day.
😴
Way ahead of his time first neck tattoo
@@bessk8847 Look again that is a scarf
Mother of Christ…..It was a joke. He even said that she owns him too. He was trying to say that he loved his wife. What flavor IS the feminist kool-aid btw?
@@MrBastilleDay Everett was being a dick. She knew it and so did Cavett. He looked like a clown too cuz he kept doubling down.
Chad Everett really loves Chad Everett
He's a legend in his own mind...
Lily also loves Lily.... It's unnatural
@@11304800
You are correct 😆👌🏼lol
Yeah. Love at first sight.
@@20alphabet You comment on Rick's channel!
Wow what a jerk. He also tried to out her. 0 respect for this poor excuse for a man
So why should he respect her? Seriously. I don't see any respect being shown to him.
All these years later, which one is remembered? Which one still has a career? Go Lily!
Chad came out like he'd been doing lines backstage. I can see a little of the Leo DiCaprio character from "Once Upon a Time in Hollywood" here.
Tom Dulle I thought the same!
Good call!
You're right!
I 100% thought Leo DiCaprio, too!
Yess
In perspective, isn’t it interesting how the sensations of our time, much like these old videos, are so insignificant to the significant events in history? Even the most famous of all actors are forgotten by the next generations.
Yeah, I was wondering who he was.
That Chad Everett guy was on TV all the time in the early ‘70s....yes, he just disappeared. I haven’t seen “Medical Center” in decades.
Maybe we forgot him cuz he got cancelled
I mean your right but it depends some famous actors are able to stand the test of the time and are still talked about to this day
It also shows how the more things change... the more things stay the same.
A true male chauvinist! That's what they were called in the 70s.
I would never think that of him. He played such a proper role on TV. I think many men thought this way back then...and unfortunately some still do today by reading some of the comments on here.
"Each time a woman stands up for herself, without knowing it possibly, without claiming it, she stands up for all women." ~Maya Angelou
Maybe so, but that's not always a good thing.
@@bsquare6809 I Agree.
@@bsquare6809 standing up for yourself isn't always a good thing? How so?
@@uptownsunni3560 well, do you agree with me or not?
@@bsquare6809 I will only answer if you answer my question first. How is it not "always a good thing" to stand up for yourself?
Lily leaving was the best part of the interview
Ok but you're all for freedom of expression, right? She voted with her feet. What's wrong with that?
You're not one of those touchy people that says you want freedom of this and that but gets offended when someone makes a statement you don't like? You're not like that are you?
One of those sensitive conservative types that seem so common these days?
@@jamesrawlings5781 what does this comment even mean in context to the original comment? I don't get what you're trying to say in relation to what she said...
@@bradenharris8718I'm reading an awful lot into the comment and imagining a certain type of person having typed it. That's all.
@@jamesrawlings5781 122 people Liked New Earth Collective's comment , perhaps the liberal slime monsters are fewer in number than they profess to be?
He was a pervert
He started out being an idiot to her. Good for Lily for not putting up with his stupidity.
Please ….he was joking ….
Good lord, lighten up, Francis.
Ok Karen
No she prefers her own kind of stupidity
The conversation started before the show, so technically she was being an idiot to him and did not put up with her stupidity when she started it. The more you know...
It's unfortunate that Mr. Everett in real life wasn't anything like his role on Medical Center.
YEah, he was a real bastard on that show.
For sure! What is the scarf around is neck for?
Most actors are not the shadow of the roles they play. You can spot that during interviews, when they are what they are.
Lily was smart enough not to stay in the presence of some people.
It was a joke, this is the time the feminists start knocking down men, look where we are today, men in dresses.
It was a stupid joke come on now you hear what he said later on she owns him to
She is a wonderful role model. Well done, Ms. Tomlin.
There are some people who you don't need to argue with at all... The more you let them talk, the worse they make themselves look.
He actually comes across as an intelligent guy. I think he just made a mistake and regrets it, but he did clear up the fact he n his wife own each other which makes it ok I guess Idk
This guy believes and literally STATES the same thing as andrew tate believes. that the basis of a relationship is a man owns a woman. and andrew tate is spreading this nonsense philosophy to lots of young men who are lonely and having women troubles...
Joe Biden and Lily Tomlin
Gotcha
@@justaguyinasuitxx lmao settle down
You're being extra neurotic again
Time to up your Prozac and Xans
yeah him explaining later made him look horrible, making it clear that it wasnt him owning someone, but that she owns him too, and that they are too people sharing one soul was just disgusting, cant believe he kept up that evil sexism.... never try to understand others, always assume the worst, and just label them and leave
man, the 70s were such a weird transitional period
Between what and what?
@@FiveLiver damn good question hahah
Between the decent men and women who got us all the way to the moon and back, and the later generations of freaks and weirdos, starting with Lily on down.
Jesus, Antikythera got votes for this? Is it literally just grumpy boomers who hang out in the YT comments?
@@josephmarlin9827 no it's also us the Generation X... the last normal generation that can remember values and manners
Reminds me of the time a good female friend introduced me to her then much older husband over dinner/drinks at a nightclub. When he said he "acquired her", my reaction was Uh-Oh. She told me once the only way she could probably ever get him interested enough in sex is if she dressed in a golf bag. Yeah, that marriage didn't last long. Probably long enough for her to get half.
She was a lying gold digger then.
Gold digger marries for money, that's an aquisition albeit temporary
I love transwomen cause they are submissive unlike these so called "real" women who complain about everything and never act feminine.
She earned it if his desire for a golf bag was greater than his attraction to her. Maybe a young male lover was better suited? 😏
Another type of woman that is ongoing, sadly. Predators.
Lily Tomlin is still running strong after more than 50 years in show business. She’s a comedic genius. Chad Everett is merely a trivia question.
Chad Everett never did anything more notable than playing that drippy character on a pel mel medical drama. I think his career took him all the way to _The Love Boat_ where Hollywood has-beens went to die.
Never heard of him lol
@@rr1621 Lily co-starred with Jane Fonda for seven seasons on Netflix’s longest running series, Grace and Frankie. She is hilarious in the role of aging hippie Frankie. Also, I saw her live performance about four years ago when she did 90 minutes of nonstop jokes and physical comedy. She’s as sharp as ever and (amazingly) moves around like a healthy 40 year old.
That was a stupid thing for Everett to say. However, he was popular back then. My teenage sister liked him because he was handsome. I’m sure my sister didn’t watch him on Dick Cavett. Anyway, Everett died in 2012.
Perfect synopsis of this video! 👍
Irony: Chad Everett's interview would never be considered interesting enough for UA-cam if not for Lily Tomlin.
truth!
Good point!
@Southern Fun Uh... ok.
@Southern Fun Well, that's ridiculous.
Not really... people watch it because of the "walks out" in the title.
He's history and Lily is still acting...
And? She’ll be history soon too. Majority of ppl under 35 never heard of this broad
@@Scrimparmy Wrong.
@@kathykb8123 she’s irrelevant outside of leftie circlejerks
@@Scrimparmy Whatever. You're delusional.
@@kathykb8123 Lol.
She was serious! Chad was definitely a jerk.
WOW, that was over the top even for those days. Can't imagine my mom letting my dad get away with telling everyone he owned her.
Holy lord, yeah, dehumanizing nonsense.
lol it was a f'ing joke
@@alexraymond5572 No Chad was the joke. I mean literally nobody knows his name anymore. But we all know Lilly’s
@@antmagor yeah as the high strung virtue signaling lib idjeet who got yelled at for being annoying AF on set (just like in this video) by her director. and nobody will remember any of us in 200 years
He did follow up by saying she owns him too. It's not unusual for couples to say to each other "you are mine and I am yours" or "you belong to me and I belong to you ". The more offensive part was that he referred to his wife as an animal- twice. He was joking but its an offensive joke
WHOA! He just openly dragged her out of the closet on TV. Why is it only now in 2020 I learned of this incident?!
Yea!
I’m not sure the audience picked up on it
Like, there was no reaction
I thought he was so handsome on the show ER. The reality was that he was a jerk in real life.
Sherman Tank ER?
@@slc2466 Also , after she left he got in another dig at her regarding her sexually " owned by another woman" From beginning to end he made a complete asshole of himself
@@shermantank6564 He was on "Medical Center" ... "ER" hadn't even been thought of when this was done.
Clears his throat every time all his jokes don’t land.
He rubs the junk out of his eyes and then looks at it ...
all women do now is complain about men & seek to control everything they say. transwomen are much more beautiful, submissive & ideal today ❤
Constantly saying um and ah. Not an intelligent man. He thinks highly of himself. He is the only one that thinks that..
“I’m sorry she did that” wow…don’t want to think of what this guy did/said behind closed doors
Oh, Lily simply saying, "I have to leave" and walking out, the perfect response. Many of us have been in situations when talk grows vile and sometimes, instead of engaging, just following one's instincts and departing works the best. Way to go, Lily.
There is courage in walking away but only after you've made your points. However, if you can't have a conversation about your believes and morality with someone that opposes your views than your point of view is weak before the opposition. There was no malice in what Everett was saying, he made his points as much as he could but when it came for Tomlin to express her points in a reasonable and collected manner, she choice to walk away - this is not strength. Rather you believe that Tomlin was right here or that Everett was right it, that's not my point. Tomlin didn't respect Everett enough to have a reasonable conversation with him but on the other hand Everett did respect Tomlin enough to speak his views to her. He wasn't mad or afraid, he said what he wanted to say - he got his points across. Agree or disagree with them. Tomlin didn't give Everett the chance to change his mind. Conversations like this are not about changing a persons mind at the time of the conversation, these conversations allow for reflection and if the other sees value in the opposing points, a time for personal correction. This reflection is on both sides.
@@bloodtopaz8816 I disagree. Its not her job to convince him of anything. Everyone has the right to leave situations they don't like. They aren't politicians and this isn't a debate. Good gaslighting on your part though. What is weak is when a man feels the need to denigrate women in order to make himself feel powerful.
@@ngpainter No, it's not her job - she's not getting paid to convince anyone but running away from standing up for yourself in a conversation is cowardly.
She has nothing to lose except what, the conversation? Why get yourself into a conversation that has meaning when all you have to do is run away to your echo chamber and feel superior there?
You should never put anyone down for the sake of it but I don't think he thought what he was doing was wrong - it was just his way of looking at things. There is a difference, one is out to hurt someone because you can and one is just how you see the world and live within it. Right or wrong. The man is dead, can't ask him now but if you could, I wonder what he would say?
Walk tall or walk small. Tomlin had the opportunity to talk about how she really felt and instead turned tale and ran away. This could be a conversation where she had equal ground with Everett. Woman want to feel powerful, they want the respect of men? Than the first thing they need to do is have a conversation with them about their differences and their common ground. Men and woman are different but intellectually is where they can meet and can be equals. That's where we can find common ground and progress together.
@@ngpainter Your ideas gave birth to Woke, and now there is no debate, just revenge.
@@bloodtopaz8816 Awesome logic
He actually dissed her further by saying his wife liked being taken care of by a man..not a woman. Also that drivel he wrote sounded like pure bs-
@Sara Mill I think Toni Benedict was an angry woman and feminism had nothing to do with it. No man should say he OWN another human being. That is so disrespectful and that poem he wrote did nothing to explain why he said own.
He just happened to have it handy and you can tell he really thought it was good. He was the only person in the studio who did!
WHEN MEN WERE MEN! I can't respect guys today... they want women to work while they stay home and wear a dress.
@@seavamp ur grasp on reality is pathetic
@@seavamp Actually, in those cases it is the woman preferring the man that way and the man is happy with it.
You know a joke is bad when even a 1972 studio audience doesn't think it's funny.
GustafGouda The audience audibly cringed. I think the biggest joke is that he can’t believe she’s serious. As if to say: how could anyone walk out on me, the great sexy moderately talented Chad Everett?
Wasn't a bad joke.
Lily Tomlin is now an old feminist STILL never got herself a REAL MAN.
@@RiaKnight Trainwreck of a female.
@@comanche66100 How exactly is she a trainwreck?
Chad died in 2012 at age 75. Lily still making movies in 2021-22.
He was acting until the year he died. He was active for 50 years. What does his longevity compared to Lily have to do with anything?
just a factoid you dipsx&%@@jimlovesgina
OMG, how times have changed. Bravo, Lily!
Bet Chad didn't know she was a snowflake or he wouldn't have said it. I've never heard of this woman.
What a jerk. Gave her underwear for her friend with big heavy straps. Asked her if she'd ever signed a thing. Spent a whole segment talking about his stage name. Called his wife an animal he owns. Then he make the remark about her certainly not being interested in another woman.
was he make a dig at her being LGBT?
@@manp1039 yep
He's a total narcissist. So full of himself. He literally meant everything he said.
That man is so stupid.
He certainly covered all the bases when it came to being offensive. I wish more people would do this today so we'd know where they really stand but most are too scared of being cancelled by PC culture.
Tomlin didn't "storm out." She politely said "I have to leave." Which is kinder & definitely more polite than I would have been. And who's still working? Chad who?
Well, he's dead now. But I agree with you.
NAILED IT 👍🏾❗ I clicked on because of the thumbnail title. 🤷🏾♀️
@@denadear IDKT 😮😔☹️
She is a
Chad Everett had a long fruitful career and died in 2012 his wife of 45 years died in 2011. Quite a feat for the debauchery that goes on in hellywood these days. He was not a sexist miss me with that crap.
I don't know why Tomlin did not walk out as soon as Everett kissed her hand and gave her the brown paper bag. That is when it all started.
What does the brown paper bag signify?
It was his description of what was (supposedly) inside the bag.
I have never heard this man's name. Lilly Tomlin I grew up with and her name that of a legend. God bless you 🙏♥.
Most older Xers remember Medical Center, a drama like ER, etc in 1960s-1970s... people born after 1975 would not know Chad Everett.
That underscores the attitude of Lilly Tomlin who is in a film that is the currently second in the box office and the misogyny of Chad is a trivia question these days.
I think she was already sitting there stewing over the stupid gift he gave her. Then he gave her an, um, easy out to exit when he said the "own" thing.
I think your read on this is a good one. I agree.
Right!
Exactly. He was gross and cocky from the second he came out. That comment as just the straw for the camel's back.
It started...the fuming...when he kissed her hand. That is over-the-top for me, too. It is too forceful. Had I OFFERED him my hand to kiss, rather than shake, now that is another thing. I used to love him on Medical Center, and now I see who he really is... and I am a bit sick.
He was brillant. Got her off the stage and out of his spotlight. Pure genius.
What a jerk. Notice he's not wearing a wedding band either? Guess he's making sure he isn't "owned"....
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Obviously you didn’t watch past your red meat.
@@BlackPillBuffet No, you might eant to look up the details of Chad's marriage. That sophomoric poem doesnt do much excusing.
His wife was a successful actress with her own money, raised their three kids, stayed with him even through affairs, a very public and humiliating paternity trial which he settled out of court after a paternity test...
And he was a horrible alcoholic.
By the time she stages an intervention (likely adding many years to his life) he was drinking a quart of vodka a day.
If one of the two of them was taking care of an animal at this time,
it was not Chad.
Chad was married.
melissa saint .
Chad is full of himself. True, we don’t own anyone or anything. “She’s very happy to be taken care of by a man…” That was the next disturbing comment. 😮
@bunny_YT Of course, many women are very happy at home raising their children. Many women also balance children and their career. However, I don't think Lily Tomlin liked Chad Everett's comments. His comments sounded sexist.
He actually said, "Gee, that was a disturbing thing to do," referring to LILY! This is the kind of person you wish were still alive so you could knock their teeth out. I can't believe he wasn't booed off the stage.
I didn't interpret it that way. Maybe you're just a violent person and you're looking for excuses to punch dead people. Maybe you're the problem and by maybe I mean definitely
That WAS a disturbing thing to do, though! 🤷♂
@@puppylove3781 Why? If walking out is "disturbing" then you haven't seen a lot of the world.
Reminds me of when a horrible boss I had at a previous job called me unprofessional for trying to leave a meeting where he and a staff member were yelling at each other.
I was in the audience that night. After this interview W. H. Auden came on. Be nice to see that. I remember that whenever the house lights dimmed for a commercial break, Auden got up because he thought it was time to leave.
How wild it must be to find this video on UA-cam decades later!
@@eemoogee160 Realizing who Auden was, Chad Everett announced that he would read one of his own poems, dedicated to his wife ("the most beautiful animal I have ever owned"-the remark Tomlin found understandably, even in 1972, offensive). The nïaveté of Everett's notion is pretty breath-taking-"Say hey, Herr Mozart, let me hum a little tune I've come up with." It does show the self-centeredness and stupidity of much of show business, even on the Cavett program.
Wow, that's so cool!
He made a remark how his wife likes being taken care of by a man not a woman....he was trying to 'out' Lily Tomlin because she didn't make it known she had a partner. What a jerk thing he was trying to do...no wonder she walked off!
right and Lily’s career is still going what’s Chad up to
He's dead🤣🤣
oops! 😬
Yup
Thought that was strange.
Nobody owns another person. There were quite a few people that were owned at one time and we had a war to stop ownership of people.
Dick Cavett is one of the most underrated talk show hosts. He's intelligent, funny, and well-rounded. I watch all of his reruns on the Decades Channel. A true class act. 💌🦋
"She's very happy being taken care of by a man, she has no aspirations to be taken care of by a woman." What an insensitive low blow. I'd hate to be in set working with someone like him.
From what I got from the interview he was talking about his own wife when he said that sentence. Not Lily. Not sure why he said the last part about being taken care of by a woman except he might have been trying to make a joke that turned out to be a clunker. From what I saw from the rest of the interview he doesn’t seem like a bad guy.
@@crazypiratesquirrel3038 Thanks I appreciate your perspective and agree.
That moment when someone is conversing normally and then suddenly they show you who they truly are.
yep real men that are becoming rare....today they wear dresses and carry handbags and woem remain ever depressed on the shelf...yep real men..remember them? thank you feminism
@@danfloros4267 okay boomer.
@@aeronovus LOL your comment says it all,... about you. LOL
@@4greendeep6
He referred to was wife as equal to his horses and dogs. This was a different time when women were really fighting to be taken seriously. It was no big deal for her to walk off I do t think.
Are you talking about Chad or Lily? Her reaction to his joke is ridiculous.
That was not a good thing to say about his wife and his comment about his wife not wanting women was a dig at Lili's sexuality.
Shelby and Chad had a beautiful love story..completely devoted to each other.
You sure about that?
@@kathykb8123married from 1966 till her death in 2011 and they had 3 kids
@@cavinchiamulon4401 The guy was a jerk. Perhaps, she had insecurities and could not bring herself to leave the abuser...
he p;robably used to beat her lol
It was a shot at Tomlins secret back then. Outing her on National television.
Pretty messed up. But she got the last laugh since she is still out there killing it and nobody even remembers this dude. Lol.
“It had to do with marketing” most definitely you are a Chad : )
@@caseyjones1930 What is she still killing … cupcakes?
@@caseyjones1930 On the Contrary, he is very well remembered and respected in the Arts. He had a discussion with Tomlin in the green room prior to the show starting and it spilled onto the set. His comment, it was just a joke"" after Tomlin walked off did not appease her.
@Mastema She still has a highly rated Netflix show, and is considered by many a comedy icon. He is a 60s TV footnote.
Chad was the star of Medical Center which was the ER of its day and was regarded as a male sex symbol. He flops horribly here. The politics between the sexes were very heated at the time and though I think Chad was attempting silliness his follow up of insinuating Lily's lesbianism was utterly awful.
I don’t think she was out of the closet then. And I agree he was just being silly. We need more of a thicker skin ridiculous.
@@ArttiqueStudio silly no. Very next sentence he says he takes care of his wife and she likes to be taken care of by a man. Meaning he equates providing for someone as being their owner.
No, Ted. He wasn't silly, he was being an old school chauvinist.
@@2degucitas There's a certain style of facetiousness that some people have no experience with.
@@tednorton5150 Yes. He couldn't pull off the "humor" without being offensive.
Wow that was one of the worst bombs on a talk show ..dude didn’t get one laugh ..he’s the kind of guy that everyone around him pretends to like him until he is surrounded by a real audience and the true personality is on display
“It is better to remain silent and thought stupid than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.” Mark Twain
Lincoln, actually.
Actually, it’s Proverbs 17:28
It’s Proverbs 17:28
@Laura Wise Proverbs 17:28, NIV: Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues.
Proverbs 17:28, ESV: Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent.
Proverbs 17:28, KJV: Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
Proverbs 17:28, NASB: Even a fool, when he keeps silent, is considered wise; When he closes his lips, he is considered prudent.
Proverbs 17:28, NLT: Even fools are thought wise when they keep silent; with their mouths shut, they seem intelligent.
Proverbs 17:28, CSB: Even a fool is considered wise when he keeps silent;-- discerning, when he seals his lips.
Which one?
Oh! Man! I’ve used that quote many many times. I even taught my children to pay heed to it.
"She's the most beautiful animal I own."
Lily Tomlin: 💨
The only dumb animal seems to be the ones with 2 legs 😥
@@kathleenkatori Hence why chimera needs halted! Although the =O> stone I found in my driveway April 14th, 2021 would indicate feline, canine, and reptilian bipeds exist elsewhere. I made a video showing the micro-photographs on the stones surface. Links to all images in the vids description. Hold onto your hat. paulj0557
@@kathleenkatori the dumb part is we are 2 delusional to even know we ARE animals literally speaking. We Should BE more self aware. Maybe, if we were less insecure we wouldn't be insulted by simple facts. That we are mammals and mammals are animals. It just shows how negative biased we are. He literally called her the most beautiful animal ever. They were married from 1966 until her death in 2011. So maybe,. Just maybe, they had an amazing relationship. How many people that are insulted can say they have has a 45 year relationship. We need to think deeper and wiser. Rather than jumping to negative Biases. This kind of drama is what ends relationships and friendships. We need to take ourselves less serious. And understand true strength is not being so unstable a simple joke/disagreement in wording throws you off. All that does is make the person seem unreasonable. Which isn't strength, that's weakness. And self righteous; closed minded. Obviously his wife was fine with it.
@@Sublimer79 I agree. Actually I believe he was trying to make a joke brought on by Dick Cavett that didn’t land well for some but lots of off color jokes were told in those days and people just laughed them off. I honestly don’t believe he felt that way about his Wife… that he owned her. I’m not saying it’s ok to tell jokes that severely put people down but in today’s society it seems hardly anyone can take a joke without getting highly offended.
@@terri5757 It could have went both ways. Legally, for a certain type of personality Marriage can b seem as a legal binding agreement. Which is similar to ownership. For all we know he may agree his wife owns him also. (Did he say that) I don't remember. Its been a long time. It just seems odd to run away bec you don't like what someone says. Instead of just saying was that a joke? Or how do you mean that? " Does your wife own you?" It just comes off very immature to just assume the worst and run away. Without knowing the type of relationship he and his wife had. Clearly she could leave him if he truly was bad to her. Just seems very dumb. To freak out over something you know so little about. In the case of Lilly. Hopefully, she is more mature now. And less reactive. To things that doesn't even concern her. Like someone else's marriage. Unless, of course if there was clear evidence of abuse.
What was that crappy statement & “gift”he began with? Wasn’t that extremely inappropriate and rude? He came off as a total jerk.
I could imagine Tomlin clapping backstage when Cavett questioned his statement that his partner had "given" him children, rather than "their children". Words matter.
Well, Lily is still alive and still loved
Chad thinks he's way more interesting than he is
@Evil Einstein Uhh... Lily Tomlin's not dead. Pretty sure Chad is the one who died
@Evil Einstein Her career has done pretty well since she's crossed over to Netflix. Grace & Frankie is currently in the middle of making their season finale. She's become pretty notable with younger fans like me. She's extremely funny on that show
He was also a mediocre actor at best. Later in life he became a born again Christian. Boring, cliche and predictable.
A lot of people do.
I liked him in this interview. All a bit before my time really. Still, he and Shelby were married till death so Lily taking offence is laughable.
This man really was the first ever CHAD
Chad, the creepy Casanova
*Chud
Ha!
Hanging Chad
Lily put him in his homophobic, racist, and misogynistic place.
Lily retained her dignity, showing what a classy woman she is. As mentioned before, she did not "storm" off the set.
He also point that his wife had no aspiration to be taking care by a woman...what a horrible comment, disgusting! I'm 100% with Lily in this.
Mfer really said, "This interview isn't cringey enough. Let me whip out this poem right quick."
Lmao! And what a pathetic poem it was.
😳😅😂😂😂😂😂
@@kathykb8123 No it wasn’t!! Don’t dog somebody else’s love poem. Thats not nice!
@@d.b.4201 Lol! Sensitive much? 🙄
😆😅🤣😜🤪
I could tell she didn't like him from go, she didn't get up to greet him, just sat there, she must have met him backstage, I'm with the other people it would've been over after the brown bag
Women don't stand for men, men stand for women.
@@aliceborealis in the context of that situation I would have stood up just to greet him, but I understand your point, would've been funny if she kicked him in the shin on the way out, Lily did the right thing though
A woman doesn’t typically stand to greet a man.
I agree... Her body language said it all and he was oblivious to that. Clearly he has that mentality but he also lacks the self awareness to realize how bad he came across to others in that interview.
@@brett6905 maybe that's why nobody knows (or cares) who he is now. bye-bye.
I suppose he was a product of his times. Good for her for walking off. Best thing I ever heard about Chad Everett was when Paul Lynde was asked, on the Hollywood squares, who was known as the great profile? Lynde’s response, Chad Everett from the waist down.
Nobody owns another person even if that person is growing inside of you.
It’s amazing to watch this 49 years after it aired and see a woman have the guts to leave in protest at a time when this kind of thing was common, accepted and not even the worst of its kind. And Lily Tomlin, still going strong after all these years. 💪
Thinking of the song 9 to 5. Instead of Dabney Coleman, they should have suspended Chad from the ceiling.
It's amazing that Everett's clarification that his word is a TWO-WAY STREET still sails right over the heads of the self-righteous feminists. After 49 years.
@@kurtoelmann7745 Amen! I caught that, and I'm a woman, but not a stupid feminist.
@@kurtoelmann7745 He said that some minutes later. Before LT left, he only called his wife an animal he owns. And paused, being very proud of that statement.
Respect. She has been the Tip of the Spear for that long. Kindly, Lovingly but always Pointedly. ☝️ Still going Strong. Inspires us All. 💪🏻🤗👍😁👏🏻👌
I love Lilly and am proud of her for not listening to his bs! Total D.
May have been a UTI. I have seen many female types abruptly running to "powder their noses" due to chronic urinary tract infections. Her sudden departure has all the hallmarks. Thank God they have antibiotics now. I believe this footage was taken back in the forties when Lilly was young.
Are you? Proud of another o has no sense of humor. Typical.
@@christopherpiper4792 🤣
@@christopherpiper4792
What a crazy assumption. And diagnosis 😂 plain stupid.
@@marliesyanke4580 Isn't that special!
Well Marlies, even if we pretend that society is.. egalitarian and we earnestly listen to minion banality, in the spirit of entertainment, I would say my diagnosis is spot on! and exceedingly stupendous. As I previously alluded to, I've seen the symptoms countless times in the past. I take no Joy in reporting such dire findings but let us not delude ourselves with false hopes for Lilly in her twilight hours! Amen to those in the sisterhood!
Chad was married {owned} his wife for 45 yrs before she died in 2011 & he died exactly a year later
Haha I love how he felt so worried, and embarrassed about her leaving. Dude looked stressed tf out because he knew what he said was sexist & he knew this would probably be a headline “Lilly Tomlin walks off stage after sexist remarks made by Chad Everett.”
Lol. This was the 70s. Grow up.
That’s your imagination. didn’t seem to care much to me.
Only todays sissified can’t fight their way out of paper bag generation would care…. He might have been trying too hard but at least he knew he wanted to be a man… unlike todays confused generation of pansies
Chad Everett was married to his wife Shelby Grant for 45 years, so obviously they had a strong relationship. She died in 2011 and Chad died 13 months later.
They were on Tattletales together. She was lovely.
Ok...
Yeh how long has Lily been married, secretly she probably wanted him.
C Duby she’s been with her partner since a year before this interview. So like 45 years.
C Duby ummmm no
When your social skills don't match up with your desparate attempt to appear macho.
He does not have the issue, Lily did and looked like an idiot
Lily acted appropriately
Chad Who ? acted like a fool
Chad was an idiot even older very little personal growth. He sounds brain dead and pretentious here
@@MegaHatLady it was a joke & She ran off before he could explain himself. Afterwards He said that they owned each other.
Thats the problem with people, especially these days they just run away or shut people up instead of questioning them to try to understand their thoughts or letting them finish.
@@kristatrenary It was a joke you freaking idiot!!! He and his wife were married for 45 years - until the day she died. Get over it.
He already knew what he was going to do - had that poem at the ready. And ,, judging by her face and demeanor, Lily expected something low ball from him.
We have been married for 30 years and together for a total of 37 years. Neither one of us would be upset if the other said they owned us. Nothing wrong with it. The day we were married we vowed that we belonged to each other. That is like owning.
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Do you put each other in the same category as farm animals?
Nobody cares about your boring marriage. Shut up.
Saying jokingly that I own her, or him as your spouse is kinda awkward for that setting to begin with but then to equate her with the livestock was one of those moments that just kind of hang in the air making everyone feel uncomfortably. He was a good looking man but what a dick.
I always used to watch Medical Center. I sort of had a crush on him. But he is definitely equating his wife with his livestock here. He thinks it's cute but it's not.
Putting his wife at the bottom of the list speaks volumes, I believe.
It was a joke. My wife refers to me quite often as one of her children. A husband and wife should be able to do this. We don't know their love.
@@suicidesquid3581 there's a big difference between jokingly referring to your partner as one of your kids, and listing them as one of your livestock.
@@strawberryseason That's the thing though, why do you get to be the one who says it's different? Is it different just because you say it is? Well I say it's not. Let them do them.
Dick Cavett show always had moments of uncomfortable silence.
Cavett always made me uncomfortable. Self-conscious, always trying to think of the clever phrase, trying to be like the Algonquin Round Table instead of just relaxing and having a good time.
Yes! I remember watching him when I was younger and even then picking up on odd social pauses. My dad couldn't stand him, thought he was smarmy.
Cavett's show was the best of the late night ones on air at that time. Carson was strictly about humor and laughs and he would've never had the type of guests that Cavett had on and enjoyed. Griffin was a less successful Carson clone and played it safe as well. Those unexpected moments, both good and bad, were what made the show so watchable.
Because this was back in the day when talk shows weren't vertically integrated promotion vehicles for Hollywood. I mean, they were, but they also sometimes asked real questions and had unplanned moments. This kind of TV doesn't exist anymore. People like Fallon are highly controlled and they see their jobs as to sell whatever their guests are coming to promote, that includes making the guest look as good as possible. This is also partly why Jimmy fake laughs at everything all the time.
@@bluecollarguy67 What about Mike Douglas?
OMG he was being such a jerk. Good for Lily.
The problem is that Chad failed to immediately make it clear that the "owning" was "a 2-way street." He just said he owned his wife. Lily was offended so she left.
That’s why you don’t assume things
He didn't just say that he owned her, he said that she was one of the animals he owned. Simply disgusting.
He tried to back track because he was emberrased
@@starlakennard6715 Perhaps that was it. He should have known that referring to his wife an "animal" that he "owned" could be offensive to some people.
@denisenoe3702
You must be joking because you can't possibly be that obtuse.
There was nothing bi-lateral about what he said. He referred to his wife as an animal.
You could feel the air leave the room right after he made that remark
@Teddy300 If it wasn't about owning, he shouldn't have used that word. I've been married 34 years. Never once did hubs or I ever say we owned each other. 🙄
@Teddy300 it is YOU and men, especially like you who don't get it. You're old farts who miss ruling the world and hate that women have gained some level of empowerment. (no thanks to the likes of you)... Hide behind poetry all you want but you all are hateful cowards.
@@katbowl9971 you "GET" IT KAT. I have that kind of mutually empowering relationship for 40+ years as well...nobody needs to OWN or CONTROL anybody. We are each other's best friends. Love isn't about property rights.
@@patriciax3677 his poetry sucked !!
@Teddy300 I guarantee you feminist women and men KNOW love lots and lots better than old fart macho men and their weak defenders (male or female)
Hence, the origin of the term "chad".
You beat me to it lol
Damn you moved first
I may have a traditional relationship but I would never think that own my wife. She is my partner for life and we both care about what is best for our relationship.
So if you Google Chad and Shelby Everett after watching this video ~ you will discover a four part interview of their beautiful, loving marriage and relationship. The impression is in stark contrast to this video. Chad and Shelby Everett had an amazing love and deep respect for one another.
I hope she enjoyed being owned by him like one of his animals.
Too bad he couldn’t show a little respect for Tomlin.
I’m not surprised that this idiot was able to find another idiot willing to put up with his boring, offensive personality. So what? That proves nothing. Lots of morons in the world.
He was obviously trying to out her .
He totally succeeded too.
@@kirnpu No he didn't succeed to out her. He completely failed because he made not one, but TWO remarks that never made a splash or a headline. Her sexuality wasn't confirmed until decades later.
@@janetclaireSays Hi.He wasn't on Marcus Welby. That was James Brolin. Chad was on "Medical Center".
Yep and it worked. And she thinks he is the idiot. Feminists! Lol!
Chad acted like a jerk and succeeded. His poetry ... was marginal and this interview was hard to watch. And please, I remember him and while he was well known he was soon forgotten.
Chad Everett: "I own my wife"
Lily Tomlin: Aight. I'm bouta head out.
He and his wife have that kind of arrangement. Just because she doesn’t agree to it, he was speaking, and where’s her “tolerance” for letting accepting something she doesn’t approve of? In her socialist mindset, everyone mush think like she does
@strontiumXnitrate Not what "Karen" means.
@@hhaden8961 well
"“Moments come to me usually when I’m in my most joyful frame of mind,” she said happily. “When I walked off Cavett, I wasn’t angry, I wasn’t in a huff. I was in a completely relaxed, balanced kind of state, ’cause I’d had a lot of fun on the streets before I’d come to the show and I was totally playful.” Lily Tomlin
how fucking like a liberal walking out like that, and the hate that they spread around what dirty filthy hypocrits they are
@@hhaden8961 Socialist? What does socialism have to do with anything here? You are an idiot.
I'd probably walk out on the underwear rather than an obvious joke. But good for her for standing up for her principles
My thoughts exactly
Knowing what kind of a d-bag he was, he wasn't joking. He also had affairs and made kids and and the HLA test showed a 94.67 percent chance he was the father, he got the judge to state legally he was not and Ms Scott was not allowed to publicly state Everett was the father ever again. Then he reached a "financial settlement" with her, lol. Obviously, he was a dead beat father to his only son that we know of. He was also an alcoholic and he sounded pretty buzzed on that show.