Ntxov Tso Ntxov Zoo. 5/22/23
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Omg!!! I can’t believe that this actually happened . Parents offered to give birth for a child to their own child. That’s such a wonderful idea
Your husband doesn’t love you. If he did, no matter what he’d stay with you.
My husband and I were married for 10 years before we had our first child. Everyone told me if I didn’t find ways to “fix” me that one day my husband would marry a second wife.
But nope! My husband would get angry whenever this was mentioned. He would always protect me and said it just wasn’t time yet.
His love for me never changed throughout the years.
A lot of couple have kids and they still divorce. So it is the person.
@@lovetoplaywithyou3530 yes! I truly agree with this. It’s the person and their love for each other.
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Pab hlub koj thiab nrog koj tusiab ntau uas tau tus txiv tsis muaj siab hlub tseeb.
Cas kuv mloog tej neej neeg no ua rau kuv ntshav siab heev rau cov neeg tsis tseem txiv neej yawg no laiv, vim nws twb mus yuav lwm tus lawm es tseem Pheej mob siab rau tus qub tau li cas no tsum thiab lau kwv tij Hmoob aws.
I give you props for moving on and not staying in the polygamy society like some Hmong women.
Koj lawm os
Sister, Nrog koj mob siab thiab tu siab. Zoo rau qhov koj nrauj koj tus txiv ntawd lawm. If your ex-husband truly loved you, he would not have married another woman to have children. Your parents went as far as having a baby for you but he was still not satisfy so even if you adopt, he would still not be happy. I’m glad you left the relationship and not allow yourself to be hurt anymore then you’ve endured. Love yourself and follow your happiness. God bless you.
Peb hmoob mas txawm yus tus txiv ...yuav hlub yus npaum lis cas lo.... yog yus tsis muaj mis nyuam... cev tej..niam tej txiv tej kwv tej tij ib leeg hais ib los ..kom yus tus txiv mus yuav niam yau ..es tej teb meem no thiaj li muaj ..tas lis los txog hnub no o hmoob
I’m so sorry sister. Love and respect a lot. I’m go glad you are strong and love yourself enough to leave someone who don’t love you. Thank you for being smart and goals for all.
Pab hlub koj kuv ib tug me vivncaus. Thov hlub2 koj tus kheej mog. Ua li koj ua yog lawm.
Love yourself. I’m glad you’re strong enough to leave him & move on with your life.
Es tu2 siab os tu niam laus kuv yg ib tug niam tsev g mj me nyuam li kj thiab cas hnov cov neej neeg niam tsev g mj me nyuam es zaj neej neeg twg lo cas tu2 siab heev li os
Pab hlub koj thiab os! Nco ntsoov tias peb nyob teb chaw mekas lawm txawm tsis muaj los txhob tu siab mog yus ua zoo lawm txawm mus yuav dua ib tug txiv tshiab los yog koj siab zoo hlub lawv cov menyuam ces lawv yeej hlub koj rov qab thiab os
Very few hmong women can do like you. You are a strong woman👍❤🎉
Yup love your self!! Don’t expect some one else to love you.. besides your mom n dad.
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Sister I'm glad you don't stay with him. This is the 21 century no need to stay in this kind of relationship. Kudos to you
Yog lawm ov txoj sai yog lub ntuj muaj xwb yog tsi muaj ces ua ib siab yog luag yuav dluas lwm tus lawm ces nyais mus nyais es thiaj lis tsi ua neej nrog txoj kev mob os mog txawm koj nyob los yuav nyob mob xwb ces zoo duas koj mus ov yeej mob kawg nkaus los mas tab sim zoo duas lis niaj nub mob ov
ntuj aw...cas kuv yuav pab koj tu siab ua luaj li na los peb hlub koj nawb txhob tu tu siab o peb yeej xaiv tsis tau los yug o mog
Hmong people need to learn about surrogates and IVF.
You can still have your own biological kids but have another woman carry the baby to term.
there are MANY options Hmong people fail to explore before resorting to an affair just to have kids.
And don't even say "it's too expensive." You can't put a price Tag on a life. So it's NEVER too expensive.
They’re just being mean
I'm happy u left very very early when he just married a niam yau. So many other women stayed and suffered for yrs b4 leaving. U made the right decision for yourself. Best wishes to u. 💕
Never settled for what you know you're worth. I would've left when he started cheating. No need to wait another second to bear the heartaches. He's planning for his future, you should be doing the same for yourself....especially if you live in America. Time to turn the tides and stop practicing the old tradition of being first, second, or third wife...etc.
Agreed! If he really wanted the baby to be his blood, they could have looked into getting a surrogate. All that money wasted on trips to Thailand and China could have gone towards that.
@sonihawj that's right. Cheating is is always an excuse not to truly fix the issue.
Tsis txhob tu siab os sister yus tsis muaj los txhob tu tu siab cov muaj muaj muaj me nyuam los me nyuam twb tsis hlub yus thiab os Yog yus tug txiv tsis hlub yus xwb. Yog nws hlub yus ces tsis muaj los nws yeej hlub yus os cov nyiag txiv es twb muaj muaj me nyuam los twb tseem mus ua hlua kawg thiab os.
Yus tsis muaj lawm ces ua siab tso lawv mus yuav dua los yug me nyuam rau lawv os koj niam nkawv yuav yug 10 leej rau neb los tsis yog koj tus txiv roj ntsha naj poj hmoob aw koj puas paub tias roj ntsha yog roj ntsha na ha koj siab me me ces koj tawm xwb vim lawv xav Tau me nyuam koj twb muab tsis tau me nyuam rau lawv ne
A lot of couple who have children they still divorce or they killed each other and leave their children to suffer. Or some Hmong men would leave their spouse and kids for younger grass in Laos
Koj ua yog lawm yog hlub koj ces yeej tsis yuav tus tshiab lo lus tias tseem hlub koj no ces lam dag xwb
Sister I can feel you so much. It feels very alone. I wish you the best. Everyone deserve to be love.
Love, money, children etc will not stopped nor saved a marriage. Time changes everything and anything in two directions; positive or negative. Well at least it’s what I’ve learned. Be at peace with life
What you did is RIGHT for leaving your ex husband. What you did is RIGHT and dont regret the path you take! Dont ever look back!!! Dont ever ever look back at your ex! I applaud you for being strong to move on! I applaud you for having the courage to LOVE yourself. Pro to you. Wish you the best!
Npawj maj npawj nplij, npawj nplhoj nplhuj oh yeah...oh yeah!!!
Sister don’t feel sad bec men always want to cheat they always go the same way no matter what you have kids or no kids they still cheat os sister. Just move on and love yourself and you will be very happy without him. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hlub2 kj os tus me niam tsev txoj kev no ces tu2 siab li vim yu tsi muaj me nyuam ces yu yog tus swb 😭😭
U could of got a surrogate mother too… it was just an excuse for him…
Breaks my heart
These life stories pisses me off! Let us women start marrying another man if the guy can't have babies see how they feel! Arghhh
Txiv neej CES dag li dag Xwb os, thaum NWS tsis Tau yuav ib tug los khoo NWS CES hais tias NWS yuav Tau ib tug los yug Tau CES yuav muab cev kiag rau koj no os, tab sis tug yug ntawv luag nim tsis muaj Siab ntsws los cas na, NWS yuav kiag Tau hnub twg es luag ham tsis yuav khoo kiag Niag txiv thiab NWS yeej yuav xav txawv li thaum tsis Tau muaj ib Tug aw, luag nim yog Ruam piav tes xwb mas thiaj li hais li ko mas Niag txiv Dev npwb aw
Having your parents give up one of your siblings to be raised as your own child is disturbing!! That kid is going to be messed up for life.
Nyob zoo os niam ntsuab teev mloog koj cov dab neeg log ntev lawm tsis tau qho meb hnub no qho meb rau koj thov teb kuv ib log nyob zoo puag kam os❤❤❤❤
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Tus siab tiag2 li os kuv yog 1tus poj niam uas tsis mj me yv li kuv twb yuv txiv tau 5 xyoo lm os
I’m glad you left him. You deserve so much better. A kid does not keep a couple together. Glad you learn to love yourself and not let him torture you. I’m proud of you sister ❤ wishing you all the best!
If you’re able to have kids or not, a guy that loves you won’t do what he did. It’s just an excused to cheat.
Its an unfortunate situation actually. I understand his feelings and I understand yours too. I am glad you have the courage to leave him. I find it disturbing that your parents gave you your sister to raise as your daughter. She’s probably better off with your parents honestly. Its okay to be childless people.
Txiv neej cag yuav siab phem ua luaj twb tiag hlub yug tab sis ho hlub tau lwm tug cag yug poj niam es ho hlub tsis tau lwm tug tshiab es yog vim li cag tiag os txiv neej 😢
Omg...my concern is actually for that kid sister that her parents had for her to raise. Omg, do not have children just to solve a problem. That kid is damaged forever. She's the one wronged by everyone. We will hear her damaged life here soon. Kids are not for solving your marital issues, Hmong peeps. Kids are human beings with rights. If you can not provide them care and love, do not have them only to abandon them like this girl. She has no one. Her own biological parents left her to a sister/mother abd her adopted dad left her. Where does she belong? You all are evil!
Your husbsnd did not truly love you. My husband and I suffer from infertility too. We were able to adopt. Our baby is now 11, we’ve had him since he was 2 years old. To bad your husband is not open to adoption, you will be surprise how much you love them. I wish you the best in your future. Having a child does not define you.
You are so correct! I’m so happy your husband is willing to adopt. ❤
Not having to go through 9 months of suffering, through labor, but have a child should be an awesome thing.
Many people out there use surrogating or adopting even if they can have their own.
There are so many options out there for you. Invetro, adoption, surrogacy. If he truly love you he'll love you no matter what. Even if you weren't able to have children or not. Some folks are just not meant or able to have children.
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Nws hais yog lawm os es ua tsaug nawb mog 👍👍👍💔❤️
ua li cas hos tsis kam ua niam loj es ho mus ua niam yau no los 😅
Pab hlub koj tiag2 le os me vev ncaug aws 😢 tiam si ua ib siab os mog txiv neej cais yeej phem2 le ntawm os mog tsi muaj me nyuam lo tiam tsi muaj ho peb cov uas muaj me nyuam lo lawv tias yug 2 me nyuam phem tag lawv yeej tsi hlub le thiab os mog . Es txhob tu siab os mog mam mus yuav tej yawg nrauj yawg ntsuag xwb yuav zoo dua os mog
Txiv neej yeej said phem cov muaj me nyuam los hai tiaas muaj ms nyuam cool dhau lawm dhuav tsis xav yuav thiab nej leej twg yuav taus txiv yau ces av tsij yuav xwb mas
Lub neej 2 tug hlub 2 lub siab ces tshav ntuj nram khuab ha phem tshaj niam txais tog txiv txais nta os.
Sad thing about this story is… if the roles were reversed, the wife would have made the best out of their life. She wouldn’t have asked what this husband is asking for. She would still give it her all 😢
Yup
Tu siab kawg tab si ntawm kuv ces muaj me nyuam los sab sab nkees heev li os kuv tus txiv twb tsis hlub kuv li wb twb sib nrauj lawm os kuv nyob nrog kuv ob tug ntxhais
Txivneej ces niam yuav hlub yus os. Lawv tsuas yuav los ua qhev thiab yug menyuam xwb os.
Beginning of the story I did feel sorry for both but at the end I didn’t like the games they both played anymore. She is playing and testing him and he couldn’t accept the fact that he chose a different paths now. I don’t care how this end.
Txiv neej siab phem ces thaum tsis hlub yus lawm ces nws yeej yuav muan ub muab no Los hais xwb. Zoo qhov koj move on. Nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm nws thiaj yuav tus tshiab lawm ma. Txaus tu siab ua luaj txiv neej siab phem xwb.
txhob tu siab os mog koj es xam tias Tsis muaj tub ki
kuv es tub ntxhais muaj tag kuv tus twb khiav mus caum hmoob tus poj niam lawm kuv lam nyob nrog kuv cov me nyuam xwb os viv ncaus
I’m sorry this happened to you. He’s very selfish and you deserve better. Glad you left him to find your own happiness. All that money that you spent on going to China and Thailand, you could have used it toward a surrogate.
Such a selfish man… putting her thru so much pain and forcing her to be there… her parents even gave them a child and he didn’t value the sacrifice they made for them…
I would adopt all race into the family...especially if i have the funds to do so
I'm sorry sister for what you have gone through. This ex husband was very selfish and genuinely did not love you. You are so strong to move on with your life no matter the obstacles. Your life is what you make of it, what you can control, how you choose to respond to situations outside of your control. Sending you hugs and love.
Tim nplog me nyuam ntsuag coob coob os. Mus yuav Tim nplog los tu os.
Yeap, your ex does not love you! You both could have take your eggs & his sperms and make a couple of babies since you have people who is willing to carry for you. I am not sure why your Dr. didn’t advise you with other alternatives. And you are hearing from a woman who suffered infertility issue here but never give up and have two daughter years later with my high school sweet heart!
Tejzaum koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj xwb kuv tus niam dablaug twb tsis muaj menyuam los kuv dablaug twb tsis yuav ib tug nkawv mus yuav ob tug me nyuam los tu xwb as.
I’m so sorry sister, you and your husband should do surrogate mother. My friend and her husband go through the same like you but they done surrogate mother and they have two kids their own now
He is not sad, he does not love you, move on and find your happiness.
Sister txhob tu tu siab os 😢
Hlub koj tsis muaj hmoo os tus MI niam tais aw
Glad you let your first husband go.
good morning ☀️
Cas yuav mus hais nyuaj ua luaj ? yog tus txiv taij yuav niam yau ces koj taij nws yuav txiv yau yog nws kam ces koj kam xwb ? yog nws tsis kam ces txhob nkim qaub ncaug nug pab tsis tau, leej twg tso cai rau nej cov txiv neej hmoob ruam muaj niam hlob niam yau rau lub tebchaws mékas no ? vwm222
koj tus pojniam hmoob ko los ruam tshaj qhov ruam lawm, nws tham ces koj tham thiab yog nws txhom tsis tau ces yus rau2 siab ua si yog hnub twg nws txhom tau ces hais rau nws tias kuv ua si kom txhob laj2 nyob xwb, yog koj tsis kam los kuv mam li tsis tham lawm, hnub twg nws rov pib ces koj rov pib thiab xwb, ua kom sib phim seb leej twg yuav xub mob strowk.
You’re 100% right, move on, it’s the best decision.
Your ex does not love you. If he loves you, and cherished all the memories like he claimed he would've stayed with you regardless. Those people will always find reasons just to have another one. It's okay, love yourself and move on like you did. People like your ex, even if you were able to give him kids, he will have another reason just to cheat and leave you. May God bless your soul, and and give you the courage to be stronger.
Gosh do these people not know of surrogacy? Smh
I just see it as, you two were not meant to be. He got what he wanted. You can marry someone who already have children and you too will be a mother.
Sister, you should be glad left and have a decent life. I couldn't have kids, but he said he loved me more than anything and stayed. He finally left me after 30 years of marriage. Too young to stay alone and too old to start a new life. Yes, this is a hard road for us, but we can only make the best of it.
Im so sorry you went thru this pain. Your ex husband never truly loved you.
Men and their double standards. So selfish and always wants it their way. Want to double dip and you all to themselves but as soon as you move on, they won’t let you. Glad you finally moved on and thought of your happiness.
The mess up part about this story is your parents having a child for you. Sad for the daughter to find out later in life that her mom is her sister and her grandparents are your real parents. What were these people thinking!
Thinking selfishly
I don’t think that’s messed up at all. I think that’s her parents’ unconditional love for their daughter. It goes to show how much they’re willing to sacrifice for their daughter. What’s messed up is majority of hmong people (particularly in this story, the son-in-law) cannot accept a child who isn’t his own flesh & blood.
@@bgr4669 it might be unconditional love but it does not justify what they did. Just imagine your parents turn out to be your sister and brother in law and your grandparents are your real parents. Your whole world turn upside down. Now all your uncles and aunts are actually your sisters and brothers. Thats mess up!!! They are selfish, only thinking of themselves on how to keep the marriage together. They could have adopted.
It may be messed up to you. But too many just shows how much her parents loved her.
@@houavue7711 You can love your child to the moon and back, but Im sure you will never give up another child of yours to your daughter in hopes her marriage is saved. Im sure you know how mess up it would be. There are so many children out there that needs a loving home. Now this child did not get the chance to decide and is given a fake life! This child could have recieved love from both parents but now is put into this fail marriage only to find out later that their real parents are their grandparents.
It’s hard for both of you. It seems he tried all that he could. He is able to have children, but you limit him. You can’t have children and you limit him. Why can’t you have a surrogate mother?
Why marry another man with children to care for his children, but you won’t stay with your ex-husband to care for his children?
Who loves who more? neither. You both are selfish.
I’m really sorry you had to go through that heartache of having no child and losing your husband. Honestly he doesn’t love you as much as you love him otherwise he’d make every effort to stay and work it out. Instead he was selfish and decided to do what he did. You’re wise to divorce him and move on. He has no right to control you after divorce. He’s selfish!
If your husband truly loves you. Married another wife is not an option for him. You believe or not how much you will love an adopt a child like is your own.
For example of my current husband I was a divorced woman with 4 children . He had no children. But he loves my children more then his own life.
This story is so unfortunate. Her parents even sacrifice n loves you so much to even gave you a child to save your marriage. But he was selfish enough to married another woman. Smart of you to move on. Best let it go so sooner better.
Men make every excuses to cheat and marry another one
Yom,
Infertile- cheat
Too kids rich - cheat
No boy - cheat
No girl - cheat
Born at the wrong minute- cheat
This guy is just making excuses to remarried another wife. His in laws even gave them a child.
Having childrens does not tie down anyone....people who have childrens still cheat n divorced....so don't use the excuse of not " having childrens "....sister in this story don't be so sad....life to short to waste on people who don't love you!!!!
It’s just so sad. If roles were reversed everyone would be telling her to stay and be patient. They’d say at least she’d have a husband there then they don’t need kids. But because she’s a woman, his options are always open for another.
You both have your own purpose when it comes to having kids. It’s okay to let him go. It’s selfish to keep him when you cannot have it. Not all relationships are perfect and have the same purpose. Glad you moved on to find happiness. Respect his needs. Vice versa.
Omg, first comment that makes any sense. Not a comment that’s biased af based on emotions. Thank god there’s people with sense out there. It’s unfortunate that out of hundreds of comments 1, makes sense, which means that majority of humans don’t have common sense.
In this story, this couple need to go their separate ways, it’s neither one’s fault. He wants kids, she can’t. So she should let him go, without blaming him, making him the villain. He needs to also just go and not look back. He was weak and acted on his emotions, which is still jealous of her, making him act a fool.
Not me I can’t have kids to but my husband still love me we been married for 23 years he still with me we don’t adopt any.
Can't finish this story it gives me a headache. I can't listen to people with no common sense.
Stop allowing men to tread women so unfair like this. U r allowing him to hurt ur n do u wrong only.
You can have 100 babies of his, he will never love and respect you. There are those who can’t have one, yet they’re loved deeply. This mentality need to stop!
These two just aren’t meant for each other. Their wants and needs in life don’t line up. He wants kids, she can’t have them. They need to just go their separate ways without trying to make the other one seem like they’re the villain.
I’m tired of man hating just for the sake of it without any real facts. Truth of the matter is if a woman wanted kids and her husband can’t have children, many women often cheat behind his back and then leave him once she’s pregnant. It goes both ways, men and women who have been with a spouse who couldn’t have kids, have done both, left their spouse or stay and live children less or adopt. But let’s not all pretend we know for sure that all women would stay if it’s the man that can’t have kids, which is a bunch of horse crap. There’s many stories on UA-cam told by men who couldn’t have kids, and their wife got pregnant magically, and popped out a black baby at the hospital! So let’s stop the man hating. There’s plenty of good men, and there are plenty of bad women too.
Every shaman womens worse nightmare. Everything that he did is legal under Hmong kev cai and is a common practice in the culture/religion.
I don’t understand. If money is not an issue, why not have someone else carry your baby for you? I would much rather have a surrogate, than to allow my husband to marry another woman. There are ways to save your marriage, if the love is still there. Many things are possible.
this guy is a criminal manipulator... he doesn't love you and just wants to play you... get away asap
I think some men are just selfish in general. Your wife can't have children, they marry niam yau, your wife have children, they're still not satisfied and cheat 🤦♀️
He's using your infertility as an excuse to marry another woman. The family shows little consideration, no respect or love for you when they all rushed over to celebrate the second wife.
You should've left him when he started to cheat.
I wonder if they tried to have someone else carry the child using her eggs & his sperm?
Good riddance to that selfish and shallow ex of yours. Don’t feel bad about not having your own. These days, not all children are guaranteed to love you and not all men want children. Be with someone who shares your outlook on life and enjoy it to the fullest.
Her message is 100% correct! I went through a similar situation!