Kj hai yog tshaj li os tu viv nrau awcov neeg ua phem rau yu thaum kawg rov ua zoo e yu lub siab twb txia tag twb paub lawv lub siab tag lawm yeej g muaj hnub yu lub siab yuav zoo li qub
luag tej laus hais tias nyob g qhia neej tuag tsis qhia dab twg tsis tau tuag pheej muab cooj los phiav qhia neej tej niag neej liam li no piav liam li no cas tseem muaj sij hawm mloog thiab cas peb hmoob g muaj yam zoo hais zoo kawm lawm cas yim piav neeg yim kawm ua kawg liam zuj zus mus xwb nej cov piav neej neeg nas cas tej lawm kom mus kawm kev paub kev cai g muaj neeg kawm tab ho los xiav sij hawm mloog neej neeg quav dev ces ho los ,loog coob2 tos hmoob poob qab
Tu Siab dhau lawm o hmoob e.rov Los thawj yus Los ntshe nplooj me Siab txias tag lawm .txoj Kev hlub tuag tag lawm o.lam nyob lub cev xwb lub Siab lwj tag lawm o hmoob e
Thaum yus twb ho cia nws rov los lawm thiab lawv twb pom lawv lub txim es twb los ua zoo lawm yuav tau zam txim es ua qhov zoo yus thiaj yog tus zoo mog. Ua tsis ua los yus twb yeej ua zoo los txog tav no lawm twb nrauj tsis taus ces cia kav tsij ua zoo yus twb yog tus yeej lawm mog mi niam hluas. Qhov mob22 twb dhau lawm ne.
Yog kawg kuv los dhuav cov niag neeg pheej lom txwm ua phem rau u mam thov txim tom qab xwb mas xyov ntshe hom neeg no yeej tsis paub txaj muag li los ua cas dhuav tshaj plaws li os
Sim neej no cas txiv neeg yua g hlb lawv poj niam li o tsuas xav hlb tus sab nrab xwb tau poj niam zoo lo g hlb g xav yua poj niam thb li muaj nrauj tag lm ma nco khuv xim ces lig dhau lm o.... heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim ces zoo li no lo mas
These people who stay in toxic relationships, the truth that they will never tell you is that they love getting hurt and suffering. Logic if your getting hurt why stay, unless you like getting hurt.
I'm so tired of peoples telling their stories about how bad their inlaw and husband or wife is but yet they still there so yea sounds to me like you're just as bad as they are too or else you would cut them off at your first guts instinct already. Not feeling it. Thaum twg Los rau lawv tsim tabsi ho tseem nyiaj hnub nyob dai luag thiab dag xwb. Lol
He and his family doesn't love you and your children. His parents dispies you from the very beginning. Don't stay....if you stay the pain is going to kill or disable you. Just leave and don't look back. Once a cheater will always cheat one time or another.
Txiv xuab nrauj, poj niam xuab nrauj. Twb tsis zoo lawm mam lis thov koj es kuv tus no ces twb muab nrauj kom raug them child support los lawm ntev, koj tseem slow heev this is America Amen.
Tus me viv ncaus aws tub vim yog koj tsi xav ua poj nrauj Los yog nrauj koj tus txiv nyob tsam koj cov me nyuam nyob tsi muaj xeem koj thiaj li nyob uv tos tsi nrauj koj tus txiv Los txog nub no. Yog vim li cas nub no koj tus txiv tig tsov Los ua zoo koj ho hais tias koj tsi xav yuav xav hlub lawm thiab koj tseem nkim koj lub sij hawm ua zoo tos nws Los ntev npaum li no maj. Yog koj tseem tsi yuav nws thiab cas koj tsuas yog tiam ntawv Los rau nws tsim xwb tsi yog koj yuav uv Los tos nws txoj kev hlub kev ua zoo.
Ua cag mej muaj txoj hmoob nyob meka es mej nim mos nyob meka es raug laug tsim los nej muaj hauj lwm ua ceg mej tsi txom nyem ho peb ceg ua tsi tau li mej ua o xav kom muaj hmoov es tau nyob meka saib zoo li cag o
Tau tus txiv siab phem phem npaum li koj tus ko ces cum tso mus tsis khes hlub os tus txiv dev ko siab phem ces thiaj tau 1 tug lo ts kom txaus rau koj niag txiv dev ko os ho tau hom niam pog siab phem phem tsis nyiam tus nyab li ko tus niam pog ko ces nyuam qhuav ntxim os vim tus niam pog ko twb tsis hlub koj cov me nyuam es xum mus hlub tus sab nraum cesntab tom txaus txaus xwb mas cov niam pog cob cob tub thiab tsis hlub tus nyab ces cia kom lwm tus lo tsim nws pauj kom txaus vim niam pog siab phem tsis hlub tsis nyiam li ko ces txhob khes hlub txhob khes ntsia hom niam.pog ntxim ntxub li ko os tus niam tsev os
Hun, you are living in bitterness and regret, that's why you're so unhappy with him. You should've left him. Loneliness is hard but being miserable for the rest of your life with a husband like that is not worth it. There are good men out there! I hope you take some time to rediscover yourself and life again!
OMG this is the kind of Hmong women that pissed me off, how did the husband and his girlfriend made it through the front door to sleep in her bed in the first place????
Koj twb txais nws nrov los rau koj lub neej lawm ces txhob hais txog yam tas los lawm zam txim tau lawv es koj thiaj be free from tej kev mob yav tag los
Obviously you must not tu siab enough because you keep staying to endure punishment after punishment. Damn!!! If that was me and my significant other brings home another to sleep in my bed like that, I'll be the door so fast and forever. What is wrong with some of you ladies' head, keep telling us over and over you be letting your partner bring in another to live and sleep in your house and your bed? Your type isn't human enough to truly feel. If you did, your feelings would have hurt enough to run out of that crap of a relationship.
Yog lawv niam phem ua luaj cas tseem rov mus yuav lawv es ho muab yus thiab law lub niag qe los nthuav rau sawv daws hmloog. Tej tug zoo li no mas yog neeg ruam li ruam..
Oh, es twb tos tos tau kiag nws rov los es ho tsis kam ua zoo li cas na? Make no sense. Yog tsis xav ua zoo rau lawm es ho rov cia nws los ua dabtsi na?
ThePrincessWorrior I was thinking the same thing too. Should’ve never let him back into her life if she don’t plan on being nice to him anymore. Just let him go for good and move on with life w/o him.
Vidncaus, koj twb ua zoo, siab ntev ntau xyoo los lawm los koj twb nrauj tsis tau nws ua 1 siab rov zoo xwb. Tsuas yog nws rov qab los ua zoo kom tej menyuam muaj niam/txiv. Zoo dua qhov lawv txiv tuag lawm es lawv tshuav2. Peb pojniam ces yeej swb tas li xwb o..
Do you really think your children would be happier living that lifestyle? They deserve a happy mom. You don’t need a man to live your life... if the right one come along, then there u go
Tug sister, koj qhov teeb meem, koj twb leeg lawm. Koj tsi tau ua txhum leej twg. Tshuav qhov koj tsi tau hlub koj tug kheej txaus xwb. Qhov puab ua phem rua koj, qhov nuav yog puab qha puab tug kheej rua lub nplaj teb paub xwb. Maya Angelou says, ‘Believe someone the first time they show themselves to you.’ Now, I’m sure you saw red flags even before you married your husband, but for whatever reason, you didn’t follow your instincts. No judgement here. We all have done that, and learn our mistakes through hardships and struggles. Your so-called husband and in laws have their own personal dilemmas within themselves. And the way they treated you was not fair and just. Whether you decide to continue to allow your so-called husband to stay or not, just know that you are no longer bounded by any rules or upbringing that your parents taught you. You are your own woman and you have made it this far without a proper husband. I believe you would have been far more successful if you had a proper and supportive husband by your side. But this goes for anyone. One day, you will realize your truth and your worth, and this my dear, will set you free of any obligation, shame, or guilt, you’re holding yourself to. The truth will set you free. In the meantime, love and respect yourself. Because if you don’t, no one else will. Do what is in YOUR BEST INTEREST. People will only love and respect you, if you love and respect yourself FIRST. Wishing you blessings.
Ntiaj teb no txiv neej twg lawm los ua cas yuav cia ib tug txiv neej tsis tsim nyog uv tsim koj ntev ua luaj. This loser does not deserve you. He deserves only the b****** he fooled around with. You do not need a loser like him in your life. I don’t know why you wasted your life being his wife. Should’ve left him and his family a long time ago. Ceev faj tsev neeg siab phem thiab koj tus txiv no tsam zaum ob ces plawv nres mog tus vivncaus. Hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej vim yug los ua ib zaug neeg xwb.
Kuv lo ib yam koj thiab os kuv li ce nw kuj lo thov ua zoo rov rau kuv tau 5 lub xyoo lawm es zoo li Niam no tej thaum yu kuj nco qab hu nw noj mov lawm thiab
Me ntxhais aw koj txawm nrauj nws los koj tsis muaj me nyuam ntxiv lawm ces kav Liam es ua ib siab nrog yus cov me nyuam nyob xwb os mog tab sis yog koj ho ua tau siab loj siab ntev txais tau nws los nrog koj nyob dua
It’s sad because this lady have no support system therefore she continued to stay. Her self esteem has been brought down so she continued to stay. I pray for this lady. I hope you don’t continue to stay. Mistakes happen but dont blame yourself. It’s your happiness.
Twb txaus siab rov yuav nws cas tseem muab piav ua dabtsi? Pojniam hmoob mas ruam tiag2. Ruam li no es txiv neej hmoob thiaj li tsi ntshai tham hluas nkauj, tsi ntshai coj kiag hluas nkauj los pw kiag 1 sab rau pog laus ntsia, muab yuav kiag ua niam yau vim txiv neej hmoob paub tias pog laus khiav tsi taus ces mus ua hluas txaus rov los los pog laus tseem nyob ntawm tos qhib vaj tse rau tus txiv rov los nyob.
I wish we would stop bashing our Hmong sisters for staying in a toxic relationship. All these people talking down on a woman, one day it could be ur daughter or ur sister.
Woman, if your mom can find a decent man after leaving your father, there is still hope that you can find a better man too. Why do you have so much hope for those people who treated you like shit? You are just a pushover and a doormat for them. If you don’t love yourself, ain’t nobody going to love you.
Ua cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj os tus me niam tsev aw...yuav nkim koj lub sij hawm thiab koj lub neej rau tus neeg siab phem lim hiam ntawd os. Ua neeg nyob tsua muaj ib tiam xwb os mog...
Tus niam tsev aw, koj tus niam Pog, txiv yawg thiab koj tus txiv lawv sawv daws saib tsis taus koj, lawv tau koom siab ntxub koj, mus yuav kiag ib tug niam yau rau koj niag txiv. Txog thaum kawg nws niag poj niam muab niam Pog ntes kawg kiag! Koj niam txiv ces tam sim no twb tsis muaj chaw cob Cuab es thiaj rov los thawj koj los mas! Nws yeej tsis muaj los yog tshuav qhov zoo rau koj li lawm os! Cas twb yog tiam 21 no lawm los peb cov poj niam Hmoob qee tus tseem tsis tau pauv es tseem ruam li qub xwb es yuav yog hnub twg thiaj li yuav pauv tau! So sad that some women can’t never leave a loser husband like this lady! What a waste of time!
I hope the woman from this story can make peace with her past and find happiness. That was so much BS for any person to endured. It is harder to find love after that type of surgery, but there will always be someone that dont mind. IDK why some inlaws think karma doesn't exist. 4-5 days in jail was not long enough, but seems like she learned her lesson. The husband is homeless now so he tries to stick it out so he can have a home. These type of men and inlaws gets on my nerves so much. They have all these energy to be evil, but cannot even handle a scar. Tsk tsk tsk
Your husband is a loser and those girls that know he’s married and still come. Where is their self respect!?!? Self love girl... you need to come first in your life.
KOJ NQA TAU DAIM NTAWV SAU HAIS TIAS DEV SIAB... pojniam hmoob ruam, koj tus txiv no thiaj muaj qau xwb los cas na?!!! qau tas rau koj niag thaub laus khib nyiab no lawm lov?!!! pojniam hmoob ruam, cas yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj li na?!! ib tug txiv quav dev li koj tus no koj ntshaw ua dabtsi no?!! cov phev dev tsoob muaj zoo li koj tus txiv no ntxov nrauj ntxov tau zoo xwb?!! koj raug tsim vim koj ntshaw nws dhau lawm ne?!! nej cov pojniam hmoob ruam no mas nej yog tsiaj phev xwb los cas na, es nej thiaj tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws?!! koj raug tsim lthiab txom nyem vim koj txoj kev ruam thiab ntshaw qau dhau lawm ne..ib tug txiv khib nyiab li no yus nyob yus koj twb tsis nyob rau teb chaws nplog na, kojnyob rau tej chaws vam meej tabsi koj yog dev xwb thij tsis txawj tu siab li '' DEV ''. tsis muaj txiv es koj yuav tuag lov pojniam siab dev?
Tus viv ncaus cas koj tsi tso tseg es tseem rov yuav nas? Koj tus txiv siab phem ua luaj li. Koj tus txiv ces twb tw kev lawm thiab rov los chawj koj mas. Kuv yog koj ces kuv tsis yuav lawm os..
Stupid koj yog 2 niag poj Niam Liam tiag tiag koj xoo tus dev uas luag muab ntaud tag Mitanni tawm lawm los tseem rob qab los thisb tej lus koj hais ko vim koj hlob koj tus txiv dhau es koj thiaj ua dev leg nyob lawv yuav muB koj cem li cas los tshuav yog koj tus txiv dev tseem hlub koj xwb ces kav liam koj txoj kev xav uas koj hais ko tos koj paub ces koj twb zaum laub lawm xwn os tus Niam tsev thaub los vim yog los misnaming koj yuav ins es tau nyian siv xwb mog yeej tsis hlub koj lawm
Yog koj txoj kev ua zoo rau lawv tsev neeg tag lawm...koj rov qab mus nrog lawv nyob ua tus dab tsi os? Yog yus tsis ua zoo lawm ces txhob yuav lawv tsev neeg los muab koj txoj kev chim thiab kev tu siab los tsim tsim lawv. Txhob cia neeg phem hloov yus txoj kev ib txwm ua zoo. Yog koj txawj hloov los coj phem ces txhob nyob zoo dua. Tawm hauv lawv lub neej mus. Yog tus neeg phem txawj coj zoo lawm, es koj txoj kev zoo ho los hloov los coj phem lawm ces koj tseem phem tshaj tsev neeg no lawm.
Kj hai yog tshaj li os tu viv nrau awcov neeg ua phem rau yu thaum kawg rov ua zoo e yu lub siab twb txia tag twb paub lawv lub siab tag lawm yeej g muaj hnub yu lub siab yuav zoo li qub
Kuv lub neej zoo li zaj no tutu siab kawg
luag tej laus hais tias nyob g qhia neej tuag tsis qhia dab twg tsis tau tuag pheej muab cooj los phiav qhia neej tej niag neej liam li no piav liam li no cas tseem muaj sij hawm mloog thiab cas peb hmoob g muaj yam zoo hais zoo kawm lawm cas yim piav neeg yim kawm ua kawg liam zuj zus mus xwb nej cov piav neej neeg nas cas tej lawm kom mus kawm kev paub kev cai g muaj neeg kawm tab ho los xiav sij hawm mloog neej neeg quav dev ces ho los ,loog coob2 tos hmoob poob qab
Ha koj yeej yog tus tseg g tau nws thiab es koj thiaj yeem rov los nkag nws lub tawb dua good luck lady
tus niam hluas ua li tam sim no koj ua yog lawm yus yuav tsum muaj siab muaj ntsws thiab nawb
Tu Siab dhau lawm o hmoob e.rov Los thawj yus Los ntshe nplooj me Siab txias tag lawm .txoj Kev hlub tuag tag lawm o.lam nyob lub cev xwb lub Siab lwj tag lawm o hmoob e
Saossosssssssossoooosazo
Hom neeg zoo li ko ces yuav tsum yog av luaj quas thiaj li pauv tau xwb mog. Qub neeg ces yuav coj lub qub siab xwb os.
Pog noj ntsaw nws tug txiv dhau xwb. Txiv neej coob.
Wow,,, I don’t blame you for not forgiving them.. but if me I would not going back to them again..
Thaum yus twb ho cia nws rov los lawm thiab lawv twb pom lawv lub txim es twb los ua zoo lawm yuav tau zam txim es ua qhov zoo yus thiaj yog tus zoo mog. Ua tsis ua los yus twb yeej ua zoo los txog tav no lawm twb nrauj tsis taus ces cia kav tsij ua zoo yus twb yog tus yeej lawm mog mi niam hluas. Qhov mob22 twb dhau lawm ne.
Heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim
Hai tau zoo kiag li kv ntag os niam lau aws
Yog kawg kuv los dhuav cov niag neeg pheej lom txwm ua phem rau u mam thov txim tom qab xwb mas xyov ntshe hom neeg no yeej tsis paub txaj muag li los ua cas dhuav tshaj plaws li os
Tu siab los yeej yog kawg tab sis kam liam os mog
Muaj tsawg tsawg tus txiv neej thiaj li tig tau rov qab los ua zoo xwb os cov viv ncaus tiam sis sij hawm nws rov los ua zoo ntawv twb too late lawm..
Tu niam pog no mas cas yuav ntxim hlub ua luaj
Kuv xav tias tsam no lawv rov los thov koj lawm ces koj yog tus yeej lawm ,meej yeem uas zoo lis zoo tau , tsis txhob cias xav txog lig, es tsam yus khuv xim tom qab.
Your reasons to stay are so unreasonable.
Sim neej no cas txiv neeg yua g hlb lawv poj niam li o tsuas xav hlb tus sab nrab xwb tau poj niam zoo lo g hlb g xav yua poj niam thb li muaj nrauj tag lm ma nco khuv xim ces lig dhau lm o.... heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim ces zoo li no lo mas
You survived without him all that time. You dont need him. Why stay?
Hnub no ntuj tig kos diav rau peb cov poj niam los yog cov ntxais lawn. Tau tus txiv tsis tab cuab thiab nws tsev tib neeg tsis hlub yws muab nws tshem hauv koj lub neej. Nws yog ib tus kab mob tsis muab leej twg khos tau. Cias lwm tus mam li qhias kev cais ma hnub ntawm nws thiaj kawm tiav os. Hlub yus tus kheej 100% nws ces zoo lis daim ntaub sos tes poob hauv av, tsis muaj leej twg xav kawg zoo muab cuam thoob khib nyawb lawm xwb.
Tsev neeg kov ces tsis txog k lawm cas koj tseem rov yuav thiab os
These people who stay in toxic relationships, the truth that they will never tell you is that they love getting hurt and suffering. Logic if your getting hurt why stay, unless you like getting hurt.
I'm so tired of peoples telling their stories about how bad their inlaw and husband or wife is but yet they still there so yea sounds to me like you're just as bad as they are too or else you would cut them off at your first guts instinct already. Not feeling it. Thaum twg Los rau lawv tsim tabsi ho tseem nyiaj hnub nyob dai luag thiab dag xwb. Lol
He and his family doesn't love you and your children. His parents dispies you from the very beginning. Don't stay....if you stay the pain is going to kill or disable you. Just leave and don't look back. Once a cheater will always cheat one time or another.
Txiv xuab nrauj, poj niam xuab nrauj. Twb tsis zoo lawm mam lis thov koj es kuv tus no ces twb muab nrauj kom raug them child support los lawm ntev, koj tseem slow heev this is America Amen.
Cov neeg phem av tsis lim, lub siab phem yeej hloov tsis tau ....
Tus me viv ncaus aws tub vim yog koj tsi xav ua poj nrauj Los yog nrauj koj tus txiv nyob tsam koj cov me nyuam nyob tsi muaj xeem koj thiaj li nyob uv tos tsi nrauj koj tus txiv Los txog nub no. Yog vim li cas nub no koj tus txiv tig tsov Los ua zoo koj ho hais tias koj tsi xav yuav xav hlub lawm thiab koj tseem nkim koj lub sij hawm ua zoo tos nws Los ntev npaum li no maj. Yog koj tseem tsi yuav nws thiab cas koj tsuas yog tiam ntawv Los rau nws tsim xwb tsi yog koj yuav uv Los tos nws txoj kev hlub kev ua zoo.
Ua cag mej muaj txoj hmoob nyob meka es mej nim mos nyob meka es raug laug tsim los nej muaj hauj lwm ua ceg mej tsi txom nyem ho peb ceg ua tsi tau li mej ua o xav kom muaj hmoov es tau nyob meka saib zoo li cag o
I saw you this passed weekend and Oroville Funeral Home it was good to see you... I was so happy to see you I want to get a picture with you.
Tau tus txiv siab phem phem npaum li koj tus ko ces cum tso mus tsis khes hlub os tus txiv dev ko siab phem ces thiaj tau 1 tug lo ts kom txaus rau koj niag txiv dev ko os ho tau hom niam pog siab phem phem tsis nyiam tus nyab li ko tus niam pog ko ces nyuam qhuav ntxim os vim tus niam pog ko twb tsis hlub koj cov me nyuam es xum mus hlub tus sab nraum cesntab tom txaus txaus xwb mas cov niam pog cob cob tub thiab tsis hlub tus nyab ces cia kom lwm tus lo tsim nws pauj kom txaus vim niam pog siab phem tsis hlub tsis nyiam li ko ces txhob khes hlub txhob khes ntsia hom niam.pog ntxim ntxub li ko os tus niam tsev os
Hun, you are living in bitterness and regret, that's why you're so unhappy with him. You should've left him. Loneliness is hard but being miserable for the rest of your life with a husband like that is not worth it. There are good men out there! I hope you take some time to rediscover yourself and life again!
OMG this is the kind of Hmong women that pissed me off, how did the husband and his girlfriend made it through the front door to sleep in her bed in the first place????
Please respect the lady, you not her shose you don't know.
Koj twb txais nws nrov los rau koj lub neej lawm ces txhob hais txog yam tas los lawm zam txim tau lawv es koj thiaj be free from tej kev mob yav tag los
Obviously you must not tu siab enough because you keep staying to endure punishment after punishment. Damn!!! If that was me and my significant other brings home another to sleep in my bed like that, I'll be the door so fast and forever. What is wrong with some of you ladies' head, keep telling us over and over you be letting your partner bring in another to live and sleep in your house and your bed? Your type isn't human enough to truly feel. If you did, your feelings would have hurt enough to run out of that crap of a relationship.
Yog kawg
Sister kuv yog koj ces muab Pov tsev lawm ntxov os, phem li koj niam pog thiab txiv yawg ces kav tsij Mus oS mog yog tias koj tseem hluas nas mog.
Xum nrauj zoo dua tus txiv phem tus niam pog siab phem li no nyuam qhuav ntxim
Wow! Another dumb guy fall and little self love women grew strong full of faithfulness to our dead end blind Hmong families! Such goodness!
They said, “phem swb zoo”.
God has blessed you.
Kuv pab koj lawm ho tuaj pab kuv thiab
Yog lawv niam phem ua luaj cas tseem rov mus yuav lawv es ho muab yus thiab law lub niag qe los nthuav rau sawv daws hmloog. Tej tug zoo li no mas yog neeg ruam li ruam..
Oh, es twb tos tos tau kiag nws rov los es ho tsis kam ua zoo li cas na? Make no sense.
Yog tsis xav ua zoo rau lawm es ho rov cia nws los ua dabtsi na?
ThePrincessWorrior I was thinking the same thing too. Should’ve never let him back into her life if she don’t plan on being nice to him anymore. Just let him go for good and move on with life w/o him.
Lol that’s how people listen to story? I mean the comments below.
Tsis muaj los phi rau
Yog koj accepted nws rov los lawm ces koj yuav tsum hloov na. Txhob cuab muaj plhus ma, poj niam mas zoo li nov tiag thaum luag hlub yus ces yus muaj plhus tuaj.
Vidncaus, koj twb ua zoo, siab ntev ntau xyoo los lawm los koj twb nrauj tsis tau nws ua 1 siab rov zoo xwb. Tsuas yog nws rov qab los ua zoo kom tej menyuam muaj niam/txiv. Zoo dua qhov lawv txiv tuag lawm es lawv tshuav2. Peb pojniam ces yeej swb tas li xwb o..
Damn... he is the only man in her world! Lol. Have some self respect lady, why stay with this evil family and dog
Do you really think your children would be happier living that lifestyle? They deserve a happy mom. You don’t need a man to live your life... if the right one come along, then there u go
Tug sister, koj qhov teeb meem, koj twb leeg lawm. Koj tsi tau ua txhum leej twg. Tshuav qhov koj tsi tau hlub koj tug kheej txaus xwb. Qhov puab ua phem rua koj, qhov nuav yog puab qha puab tug kheej rua lub nplaj teb paub xwb. Maya Angelou says, ‘Believe someone the first time they show themselves to you.’ Now, I’m sure you saw red flags even before you married your husband, but for whatever reason, you didn’t follow your instincts. No judgement here. We all have done that, and learn our mistakes through hardships and struggles. Your so-called husband and in laws have their own personal dilemmas within themselves. And the way they treated you was not fair and just. Whether you decide to continue to allow your so-called husband to stay or not, just know that you are no longer bounded by any rules or upbringing that your parents taught you. You are your own woman and you have made it this far without a proper husband. I believe you would have been far more successful if you had a proper and supportive husband by your side. But this goes for anyone. One day, you will realize your truth and your worth, and this my dear, will set you free of any obligation, shame, or guilt, you’re holding yourself to. The truth will set you free. In the meantime, love and respect yourself. Because if you don’t, no one else will. Do what is in YOUR BEST INTEREST. People will only love and respect you, if you love and respect yourself FIRST. Wishing you blessings.
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Ntiaj teb no txiv neej twg lawm los ua cas yuav cia ib tug txiv neej tsis tsim nyog uv tsim koj ntev ua luaj.
This loser does not deserve you. He deserves only the b****** he fooled around with.
You do not need a loser like him in your life. I don’t know why you wasted your life being his wife. Should’ve left him and his family a long time ago. Ceev faj tsev neeg siab phem thiab koj tus txiv no tsam zaum ob ces plawv nres mog tus vivncaus. Hlub koj tus kheej ua ntej vim yug los ua ib zaug neeg xwb.
Kuv lo ib yam koj thiab os kuv li ce nw kuj lo thov ua zoo rov rau kuv tau 5 lub xyoo lawm es zoo li Niam no tej thaum yu kuj nco qab hu nw noj mov lawm thiab
if I were u sister, I will not go back no more even my parent tell me to go back. Shall make them regret more for losing u.
Cas ruam ua luaj es tsis muab nrauj thaum ntxov es rub child support rau kom nws txomnyem txaus mas.
Tus muam koj tias nws nyiam2 koj but kuv xav tias koj yog tus nyiam nws xwb nws yuam kev yuav koj xwb ib yam li kuv xav kuv tus kheem ntag.
Me ntxhais aw koj txawm nrauj nws los koj tsis muaj me nyuam ntxiv lawm ces kav Liam es ua ib siab nrog yus cov me nyuam nyob xwb os mog tab sis yog koj ho ua tau siab loj siab ntev txais tau nws los nrog koj nyob dua
The only way not to fellow your mom's footstep is not to marry to Hmoob man, lady! Most of them are the same, cheaters and doesn't know to love you.
You wrong all culture are like everyone. No different. Not all hmong men r like that.these r the og vangpao era.
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It’s sad because this lady have no support system therefore she continued to stay. Her self esteem has been brought down so she continued to stay. I pray for this lady. I hope you don’t continue to stay. Mistakes happen but dont blame yourself. It’s your happiness.
Dang you got that Hmong voice bro...lol
Twb txaus siab rov yuav nws cas tseem muab piav ua dabtsi? Pojniam hmoob mas ruam tiag2. Ruam li no es txiv neej hmoob thiaj li tsi ntshai tham hluas nkauj, tsi ntshai coj kiag hluas nkauj los pw kiag 1 sab rau pog laus ntsia, muab yuav kiag ua niam yau vim txiv neej hmoob paub tias pog laus khiav tsi taus ces mus ua hluas txaus rov los los pog laus tseem nyob ntawm tos qhib vaj tse rau tus txiv rov los nyob.
I wish we would stop bashing our Hmong sisters for staying in a toxic relationship. All these people talking down on a woman, one day it could be ur daughter or ur sister.
Txhobdag koj tus kheej ma yog twb mus txog chaw mam nco txog koj yuav ua cas cia nws rov los na
She's just making her the victim and looks sympathetic.
Woman, if your mom can find a decent man after leaving your father, there is still hope that you can find a better man too. Why do you have so much hope for those people who treated you like shit? You are just a pushover and a doormat for them. If you don’t love yourself, ain’t nobody going to love you.
Ua cas koj yuav ruam ua luaj os tus me niam tsev aw...yuav nkim koj lub sij hawm thiab koj lub neej rau tus neeg siab phem lim hiam ntawd os. Ua neeg nyob tsua muaj ib tiam xwb os mog...
Koj ruam koh thiaj nyob yog kuv ces nrauj ntev tus txic no nws tsis muaj qhov zoo rau koj
Lady I think u accepted their apology because u went back big mistake so u b nice
Tus niam tsev aw, koj tus niam Pog, txiv yawg thiab koj tus txiv lawv sawv daws saib tsis taus koj, lawv tau koom siab ntxub koj, mus yuav kiag ib tug niam yau rau koj niag txiv. Txog thaum kawg nws niag poj niam muab niam Pog ntes kawg kiag! Koj niam txiv ces tam sim no twb tsis muaj chaw cob Cuab es thiaj rov los thawj koj los mas! Nws yeej tsis muaj los yog tshuav qhov zoo rau koj li lawm os! Cas twb yog tiam 21 no lawm los peb cov poj niam Hmoob qee tus tseem tsis tau pauv es tseem ruam li qub xwb es yuav yog hnub twg thiaj li yuav pauv tau! So sad that some women can’t never leave a loser husband like this lady! What a waste of time!
I hope the woman from this story can make peace with her past and find happiness. That was so much BS for any person to endured. It is harder to find love after that type of surgery, but there will always be someone that dont mind. IDK why some inlaws think karma doesn't exist. 4-5 days in jail was not long enough, but seems like she learned her lesson. The husband is homeless now so he tries to stick it out so he can have a home. These type of men and inlaws gets on my nerves so much. They have all these energy to be evil, but cannot even handle a scar. Tsk tsk tsk
Sister, may you build yourself up and realize you are worthy. May your husband truly truly change and love you and his children.
Big wife small wife
Total dysfunctional
Your husband is a loser and those girls that know he’s married and still come. Where is their self respect!?!? Self love girl... you need to come first in your life.
KOJ NQA TAU DAIM NTAWV SAU HAIS TIAS DEV SIAB...
pojniam hmoob ruam, koj tus txiv no thiaj muaj qau xwb los cas na?!!! qau tas rau koj niag thaub laus khib nyiab no lawm lov?!!! pojniam hmoob ruam, cas yuav ntshaw txiv ua luaj li na?!!
ib tug txiv quav dev li koj tus no koj ntshaw ua dabtsi no?!! cov phev dev tsoob muaj zoo li koj tus txiv no ntxov nrauj ntxov tau zoo xwb?!! koj raug tsim vim koj ntshaw nws dhau lawm ne?!! nej cov pojniam hmoob ruam no mas nej yog tsiaj phev xwb los cas na, es nej thiaj tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws?!! koj raug tsim lthiab txom nyem vim koj txoj kev ruam thiab ntshaw qau dhau lawm ne..ib tug txiv khib nyiab li no yus nyob yus koj twb tsis nyob rau teb chaws nplog na, kojnyob rau tej chaws vam meej tabsi koj yog dev xwb thij tsis txawj tu siab li '' DEV ''. tsis muaj txiv es koj yuav tuag lov pojniam siab dev?
Tus viv ncaus cas koj tsi tso tseg es tseem rov yuav nas?
Koj tus txiv siab phem ua luaj li.
Koj tus txiv ces twb tw kev lawm thiab rov los chawj koj mas.
Kuv yog koj ces kuv tsis yuav lawm os..
Lady! Do your husband have a Diamond D that why you can’t let him go?
Stupid koj yog 2 niag poj Niam Liam tiag tiag koj xoo tus dev uas luag muab ntaud tag Mitanni tawm lawm los tseem rob qab los thisb tej lus koj hais ko vim koj hlob koj tus txiv dhau es koj thiaj ua dev leg nyob lawv yuav muB koj cem li cas los tshuav yog koj tus txiv dev tseem hlub koj xwb ces kav liam koj txoj kev xav uas koj hais ko tos koj paub ces koj twb zaum laub lawm xwn os tus Niam tsev thaub los vim yog los misnaming koj yuav ins es tau nyian siv xwb mog yeej tsis hlub koj lawm
Yog koj txoj kev ua zoo rau lawv tsev neeg tag lawm...koj rov qab mus nrog lawv nyob ua tus dab tsi os? Yog yus tsis ua zoo lawm ces txhob yuav lawv tsev neeg los muab koj txoj kev chim thiab kev tu siab los tsim tsim lawv. Txhob cia neeg phem hloov yus txoj kev ib txwm ua zoo. Yog koj txawj hloov los coj phem ces txhob nyob zoo dua. Tawm hauv lawv lub neej mus. Yog tus neeg phem txawj coj zoo lawm, es koj txoj kev zoo ho los hloov los coj phem lawm ces koj tseem phem tshaj tsev neeg no lawm.
Tu niam pog no mas cas yuav ntxim hlub ua luaj