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  • @TheBlackExJp
    @TheBlackExJp  4 роки тому +13

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    • @phillydreadboi
      @phillydreadboi 4 роки тому +2

      Enjoy these conversations very authentic. Living here in Korea is a journey within itself but we must continue the work

    • @patricesankara3081
      @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому

      What’s the theme song?

  • @mimimer88soul53
    @mimimer88soul53 4 роки тому +129

    I feel she wanted to open up more. At the end when she said she thought she'd find love in Korea, I think she wanted to vomit out more. Many young women think Korean men are these k drama actors. It's so far from the truth, these girls need to be realistic and careful. But I guess it also shows that media even influences us in diverse countries.

    • @sunnygirly2k4
      @sunnygirly2k4 4 роки тому +15

      Agreed! Beyond a certain age, falling for the K-drama fantasy is naive.

    • @mimimer88soul53
      @mimimer88soul53 4 роки тому +8

      True true. Human nature to think the grass is always greener on the other side.

    • @цветок-ш7п
      @цветок-ш7п 4 роки тому +11

      @Ariko Tendai Hell yeah! :) I moved to Lagos (Nigeria) a few years ago. I'm never leaving. The place gets more and more developed. Like every city in the world, you have your low income areas and richer areas. Still can't get over white folks' surprise when they come visit me here living in a damn penthouse and they see skyscrapers and paved roads. The currency exchange turns you from lower middle class in America to upper middle class here. No way I'm leaving, and if I ever do, it's to another African country. Rwanda, Ghana, Zambia, Tanzania hell worst case scenario I'll even take Namibia or Botswana (both deserts). But never a country where I'm in the minority.

    • @mikmoss88
      @mikmoss88 4 роки тому +10

      Its amazing when blacks have no love for their own then get their nigga wake up call

    • @Mimi24177
      @Mimi24177 4 роки тому +3

      @@TheFirephoenix76 I know you men are not talking about what race to date rather than seeking the Lord Jesus Christ first to obey him only, for everything to be provided unto thee. That's why divorce rate is so high people are lusting or choosing by race or skin tone, when we supposed to be seeking the Lord Jesus Christ. Now when you go out of the way of the Lord Jesus Christ and if he doesn't comes first you know it won't work out with any woman no matter who you be with. That's why seeking the Lord Jesus Christ and then everything shall be added unto thee. But long as you men keep putting one woman is better than the other, then God will show you that people are people no matter where you go. You say you have dated other women, but yet you are not with these women. That should tell you something right there. If you date Ethiopian and don't seek the Lord Jesus Christ first, then things will happen the same exact way cannot keep a woman. You men are not preaching that and that's why y'all having such a hard time. Stop casting stones only on Western women when people are people and you must look at yourself as well.

  • @williethomas2628
    @williethomas2628 4 роки тому +48

    My DAD SAID GOD DID NOT MAKE ALL THE TREES IN THE FOREST THE SAME. BE U. GOD BLESS.

  • @mikmoss88
    @mikmoss88 4 роки тому +78

    Its ignorant to me when my ppl say "they just need to get to know us personally and hear our story...." ppl believe wat they want, so would it b wrong if i walked up to every Asian and told them "show me ur best Karate kick" we r tha only ones tryna compensate for these dumb ass stereotypes

    • @LeeHanHart
      @LeeHanHart 4 роки тому +6

      Peace BeStill We all fight stereotypes. Hispanic/Latin people deal with being categorized as Mexicans, Asians deal with eating dog and cat nonsense and white people deal with non seasoned food. Everything is learned by spreading nonsense about each other. Period.

    • @mikmoss88
      @mikmoss88 4 роки тому +12

      @@LeeHanHart bein called Mexican isn't a stereotype, thats misculturation lol (i made that up) but Asian quite openly eat cat, dog, eat and everything else and white ppl certainly prefer their foods less flavored wat r u talkin about

    • @16Meily
      @16Meily 4 роки тому +1

      Agree. sorry for her but she's honestly pathetic and needs to work on her self esteem

    • @pkmelody3
      @pkmelody3 4 роки тому +1

      Big factzzzz

    • @bigvalley4987
      @bigvalley4987 4 роки тому +4

      16Meily
      She is not pathetic, she is a young woman abroad. Most 26 years old born in the states, do not travel overseas.

  • @16Meily
    @16Meily 4 роки тому +88

    So she basically travelled to Korea to get a korean boyfriend [based on her statement saying she went there because a black girl and a korean dude got married] lol what? really? I want to go Korea because of the food! xDDDDDDD I like korea but we, as black people, must accept that racism is prevalent everywhere, especially in Asia, and getting accepted is NOT an easy job. That married girl was lucky but that doesn't mean you'll have the same luck as her.

    • @ms.bubs4fun506
      @ms.bubs4fun506 4 роки тому +29

      Black women are not accepted in the black community too. lol Many of our men are colorists and do not love us. She has a right to her preference.

    • @jokbok995
      @jokbok995 4 роки тому +7

      @@ms.bubs4fun506 thats not true
      Most black people still marry black women
      Secondly racism is in every country even in our place Africa
      Sad enough
      But that doesn't mean you can't educate people in other countries
      Lastly she can marry who she wants

    • @16Meily
      @16Meily 4 роки тому +11

      @@ms.bubs4fun506 True but take it to the extent of travelling to Korea just for the sole fact of getting a boyfriend? lool she needed to get off that cloud. Koreans like Koreans, very few like others and it's usually Europeans. I'm not going to waste money just to get a Korean boyfriend, that's ridiculous. If she would have visited with other intentions and in the process met a Korean, that's different. She probably looked desperate and that's why nobody wanted anything with her.

    • @ms.bubs4fun506
      @ms.bubs4fun506 4 роки тому +1

      @@jokbok995 I agree. My comment doesn't disagree with what you said. But it still remains that colorisn is a big problem amongst black people.

    • @ms.bubs4fun506
      @ms.bubs4fun506 4 роки тому +1

      @@16Meily Of course but she's still living there so I doubt it's just to find love. Lol She enjoys the culture and she'll get a Korean bf eventually. Not every Korean man is racist. And I agree, that desperation turns off men of any race.

  • @patricesankara3081
    @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому +84

    We are always trying to fit in.

    • @patricesankara3081
      @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому +14

      @@tom11zz884 I agree. If we made Africa a First world, there will be no Black people in America.

    • @patricesankara3081
      @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому +2

      @@Alpha8497 more power to you girl!

    • @pkmelody3
      @pkmelody3 4 роки тому +1

      When were meant to stand out

    • @jokbok995
      @jokbok995 4 роки тому +3

      @@tom11zz884 true
      But we need to deal with a lof of ws and also sell outs in our own group
      I live in Belgium and we had some African guy open up a bussiness
      And he made some good money first
      But people of our own community were jealous and envy
      So they didn't come anymore but did go to the Asian guy who sold the same stuff just so he would lose his bussiness
      Eventually he filed for bankruptcy and moved to france
      That Asian guy has now 5 stores and Dont respect black people
      That's our reality and that's why nobody as majority of groups respect us
      Sad but true
      So black

    • @Ethiopianexposer
      @Ethiopianexposer 4 роки тому

      Patrice Sankara you mean if we made africa first priority

  • @tonigrant3895
    @tonigrant3895 4 роки тому +20

    MIYA, thank you so much for being so candid!😎 Your ability to be so real shows WISDOM. What a Joy to hear your story. My fellow Garyite🤗 I was born and raised in "THE G.I."😃 Thanks for representing. I wish you much success, beautiful, young, sista!👊

  • @ondreatorrence4322
    @ondreatorrence4322 4 роки тому +23

    Great interview ! No ome talks about that inner desire that black people have to feel accepted or to embrace culture . We get lost alot in the a culture and we don't embrace our blackness . But it's so good to see people cime out of that . I myself use to be the biggest weeb hah . But now i can love Japanese culture , food and language without losing myself or what makes me me .
    Cheers! Beautiful interview

    • @greenaesthetic6387
      @greenaesthetic6387 4 роки тому

      Ondrea Torrence Good job😆

    • @deanalainv
      @deanalainv 4 роки тому

      @Freudian Trialogue There are plenty of documentaries but feel freer to make one more.

    • @younjaessunshine301
      @younjaessunshine301 3 роки тому

      @@adia1693 .. génital mutilation is cultural not réglious but pop off ig

  • @CulturalGirl
    @CulturalGirl 4 роки тому +26

    I praise Miyaa for her honesty and coming to the realization that she needed to be herself. There was a UA-camr who said a few years ago about being a foreigner in South Korea, particularly Seoul, is that you have to have very thick skin and really love yourself to survive there. Korea's beauty culture/standards are very influential. I visited Seoul for a month this past summer. I knew about the mirrors on the subways before I arrived. I thought it was absurd at how many mirrors are in that city. It was particularly bothersome, to me, seeing quite a few people staring at themselves in the mirrors for several minutes before snapping back into reality. Before you know it, towards the end of the month I was checking myself in those mirrors and I said to myself, "What the heck is going on with me?".

    • @napturaladvice7646
      @napturaladvice7646 4 роки тому +1

      There is a big plastic surgery industry. Botched surgeries are pretty normal. As is falling into deep debt to look perfect or look like a Korean celebrity.

  • @CCCC-fp5gw
    @CCCC-fp5gw 4 роки тому +7

    I read your blog post about singing in the choir and your 'cooking evolution' :-) I like your writing style.. it flows nicely. It's simple and honest. It made me smile to read that you have found your spiritual tribe/church fam. Keep up the good work

  • @_FabulousNat
    @_FabulousNat 4 роки тому +10

    Great video! I am ready for my interview! :)

  • @TheKamakuraGardener
    @TheKamakuraGardener 4 роки тому +30

    Yes, we are a beautiful people! 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😇😇😇

  • @tanyawashington5472
    @tanyawashington5472 4 роки тому +23

    Great insight! Wonderful video! Miya is a wonderful young lady. Great personality!

  • @LIL-MAN-THE-OG
    @LIL-MAN-THE-OG 4 роки тому +34

    In a way, she is so immersed in the culture that she sounds like she was speaking her English with a slight accent.. But as the interview went along, she code switched and went into speaking like we do more fully. It's an interesting to see how that happens when you're of one culture set within another culture

    • @zarajay7396
      @zarajay7396 4 роки тому +2

      She doesn't sound American to me at all, I was so confused.

    • @mintcat5709
      @mintcat5709 4 роки тому

      doesn't she sound like rhianna

  • @Mugen_Gem
    @Mugen_Gem 4 роки тому +20

    Keep up the good work Ranzo 💪🏾. Interview was interesting.

  • @123woa
    @123woa 4 роки тому +18

    Such a beauty, happy to call you my friend!!

    • @miyamarie1229
      @miyamarie1229 4 роки тому +3

      Love you!

    • @fromjahwluv
      @fromjahwluv 4 роки тому +1

      Miya Marie you are gorgeous! Hope your journey in SK continues going well and you envelop your being to its fullest capacity

  • @jamasianqueen1801
    @jamasianqueen1801 4 роки тому +16

    Why try to FIT in ?? Girl, just be yourself!! I Love 💕 being different in China. I’m a Proud Black Jamaican..🇯🇲

  • @admasnd
    @admasnd 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you Miya for sharing your experience! It is wonderful to see another person from Gary out in Asia pursuing her dreams!

  • @marcosjoel374
    @marcosjoel374 4 роки тому +3

    As someone who’s visited Korea, I can say that you shouldn’t get swept up in illusions. It is a country like no other, with people who will like you and people who won’t. I love how honest she is about her experience. I would definitely go back because I enjoyed my experience there, but I know who I am as a person. I got denied from entering a club for being a foreigner (which was the first time I’ve ever been denied from entering an establishment), and although my korean friend tried to argue with them, I simply didn’t care to. 🤷🏾‍♂️ We shouldn’t bash her for moving to find love.

  • @perinice3479
    @perinice3479 4 роки тому +46

    Imagine feeling like an outsider where you're supposed to feel at home. I can be among black people and still feel completely alone, as if I'm living abroad.
    Awesome content, per usual.

  • @MajecLogistics
    @MajecLogistics 4 роки тому +15

    “ If I can Change my mind , I can change my life”

  • @JazminAgeeb
    @JazminAgeeb 4 роки тому +6

    Go Miya!!!!!!!! Whoop whoop 🥳 what a wonderful interview

  • @adjanic4643
    @adjanic4643 4 роки тому +3

    Miyaa's response to "When you ask what can we do...?" made me go EXACTLY! Our traveling and engaging helps people to see us in the flesh vs just on TV. And channels like TBEJ document melanted folks from across the planet and their personalities and that will help as well. Thanks again for this channel. And go Miyaa! This fellow American may look you up if you're still in Seoul when I get there. Peace.

  • @4mydearlady
    @4mydearlady 4 роки тому +22

    Off topic - her hair is beautiful!

  • @dhaton2314
    @dhaton2314 4 роки тому +5

    I live in South Korea. I have not tried to fit in nor want to be Korean. I am African and will always be.....needless to say my experience is completely different to this young lady's and others, I imagine am not unique in that also. I am a foreigner here and it does not bother me to be referred to as such. If @The black experience Japan comes to town next time perhaps contact me. I will show you something different :) extremely different from what I keep seeing/hearing about here.
    I can only blame her mishaps to lack of experience and knowledge and am glad she owned it. I wish people would research and know where they are going rather than base on experience of something they saw on telly. I have seen people come here trying to be Korean which is absurd.
    In Africa, there is a saying, it might be universal, fingers are unequal. We as black people also need to stop this gross generalisation. That someone did something successfully does not mean you would. Koreans are ok and warm to you if you are yourself. I have not had a minute of trouble although I realise there are pockets of ignorance here.

  • @StCloud-ns7vt
    @StCloud-ns7vt 4 роки тому +28

    She's so lovely! im jealous of her hair.

    • @wtfsamusidk7574
      @wtfsamusidk7574 4 роки тому

      I bet she got Indian in her family

    • @hellobudss
      @hellobudss 4 роки тому +7

      She probably takes care of her hair and deep condition.Also mositure in her is important.

    • @emmaheart371
      @emmaheart371 4 роки тому +3

      @@wtfsamusidk7574 Why?

    • @Kelaine72
      @Kelaine72 4 роки тому +2

      @@wtfsamusidk7574 I bet she don't.

  • @tspcocktail
    @tspcocktail 4 роки тому +14

    Girl whyyyyyy? Korea...... just watch your back and learn to exude confidence.

  • @lethabo713
    @lethabo713 4 роки тому +9

    0:25 The Korean intro gets me every time 🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @indriadrayton1132
      @indriadrayton1132 4 роки тому +1

      I want to run through that old fashioned village!

  • @niiry
    @niiry 4 роки тому +5

    Amazing video👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @kamir9837
    @kamir9837 4 роки тому +5

    So good! I'm inspired.

  • @ceegabe1555
    @ceegabe1555 4 роки тому +6

    She is so intelligent, articulate and beautiful. Love her smooth, creamy complexion.

  • @rain1676
    @rain1676 4 роки тому +8

    Happy holidays Ranzo

  • @Bodybuildermom
    @Bodybuildermom 4 роки тому +18

    You know the more and more I hear about Korea ....the more and more I don't want to visit. As a black person, I feel I would not be welcomed. I'm more welcomed in Japan and I visit Japan allot and I never get issues like what I hear in Korea. Damn!

    • @JaejoongPrincess
      @JaejoongPrincess 4 роки тому +2

      Then just stay where you at and don't travel. Problem solved!

    • @chexmix0101
      @chexmix0101 4 роки тому +6

      @@JaejoongPrincess too bad Asians cant do that same now infecting the world

    • @JaejoongPrincess
      @JaejoongPrincess 3 роки тому +1

      @Coman Rabiot Girl, shut up! I'm Black and live in America.

  • @cellylozwe4853
    @cellylozwe4853 4 роки тому +4

    God Loves You
    Yes You Reading This
    💖

  • @piscesillustrations
    @piscesillustrations 4 роки тому +16

    I see so much of myself in her. We have similar personalities.

  • @brendagordon4571
    @brendagordon4571 4 роки тому +1

    I am now learning to speak Korean and Mandarin here in the U.S., very challenging and inspiring. Many of the good jobs in Connecticut required that college grades to speak more then two languages when competing for top jobs

  • @tay_la_artist
    @tay_la_artist 4 роки тому +12

    Yes!! 👏🏽❤️✨

  • @grecoangelo4
    @grecoangelo4 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks again for this video

  • @charlene6306
    @charlene6306 2 роки тому +1

    Her response about us controlling the narrative of Black people was spot on.
    At every opportunity we must tell, show our authentic stories; in film, books, music.

  • @jamaicangirlpj906
    @jamaicangirlpj906 4 роки тому +3

    Shouting out from Japan.

  • @butterflyangel75
    @butterflyangel75 4 роки тому +1

    She's so Beautiful inside and out. Very honest young lady here❤️🤗

  • @brendagordon4571
    @brendagordon4571 4 роки тому +2

    Good 4u, lady! You do us all proud!!!

  • @musicsoul2595
    @musicsoul2595 4 роки тому

    I loved the video, and her face. Thanks Miya and bro!

  • @user-94avsf-smdk26
    @user-94avsf-smdk26 4 роки тому +4

    Wow. Maya is really cute! I hope she enjoys living here. Koreans call black ladies black pearls. I've heard that TV and magazines a lot. We already know black people are beautiful. Stay beautiful and enjoy yourself. :)

  • @NubianNarrator
    @NubianNarrator 4 роки тому

    Hi Ranzo, I sent you an email about my writing and brought two BEJ shirts, great quality, thank you Boss!

  • @charlesnspirit
    @charlesnspirit 4 роки тому +6

    This young woman said that she wanted go to Korea and fall in love. She has a fantasy of falling in love with a Korean man. Its sad to see African Americans choosing to be with other cultures and races rather than their own. She said that she was trying to be Korean and had to give up. What if she had been successful passing as Korean? A lot of African Americans don't feel good about being African American. In the the DOLL TEST most African American children wanted white skin and straight hair. And they preferred to be friends with other children that had white skin and straight hair. Our people have been brainwashed to hate themselves by television and movies. We have to reprogram our people to embrace our melanated skin and coarse curly hair. We are becoming a race of self hating people.

  • @mapuche888
    @mapuche888 4 роки тому

    I am so sorry. You are a lovely person and deserve better. There are good people in South Korea. I hope you find them.

  • @mikmoss88
    @mikmoss88 4 роки тому +9

    She said after she seen a black woman marry a Korean dude she knew she wanted to go lmao

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 4 роки тому +10

      im not the only one who caught that too huh. where's the love for the brothas? any sistas learning African languages in order to move home & marry? hmm...

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 4 роки тому +1

      @djevangelene and plenty more of us show repatriation works too. so thats no excuse. people make choices based on who and what they value most. Blackness is being undervalued by some of our technically bright youths.

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 4 роки тому +1

      @Emmia B you hit the nail on the head. I'm glad sis woke up and is getting more comfortable in her own skin. Asia's growth has already peaked. The Aftikan panther will give the Asian tiger a run for her money in the years to come.

    • @silentnight9630
      @silentnight9630 4 роки тому +1

      @Kreative Force. Really good comments.

    • @kreativeforce532
      @kreativeforce532 4 роки тому +1

      @@silentnight9630 thanks

  • @Brenda90210
    @Brenda90210 4 роки тому +3

    My heart is in Africa. Been long in Japan 🇯🇵.

  • @getsixk619
    @getsixk619 3 роки тому

    She seems so sweet, I love this channel

  • @ivanavery3257
    @ivanavery3257 3 роки тому

    Dear sista, always be you no matter where you are. You're to beautiful to fit in. Enjoy yourself. I loved Korea when I was there. Always enjoy the culture.

  • @ms.bubs4fun506
    @ms.bubs4fun506 4 роки тому +6

    We have to stop putting all the blame on the media for our images. We play an active role is reinforcing stereotypes.

  • @williamshirley3121
    @williamshirley3121 4 роки тому +7

    Nice love this video

  • @HoodsGlobal
    @HoodsGlobal 4 роки тому +13

    Ranzo, tell African Nations to lunch their own rocket to the moon. That will change how the world treats us. We take the respect by force. Explaining to be understood and respected is not the way.

  • @wheeltolive1117
    @wheeltolive1117 4 роки тому +6

    G.I. stand up!

  • @patricesankara3081
    @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому +13

    We need to build Africa. Our people need to come back home man. Our ancestors will sleep easy when the exodus happens.

    • @thesoulbrother8636
      @thesoulbrother8636 4 роки тому +1

      @Patrice Sankara: 💯 percent facts!!! My brother. ✌Peace

    • @larrynoh8343
      @larrynoh8343 4 роки тому +7

      I think black people should look at Korea and use that as an example. South Korea was the world's failure in 1960, and annoying backwards country til the 1990s, and only recently has South Korea reached a high enough status so that we now have people who want to learn Korean, interested in Korean culture and even having Korean physical features idealized (all because of kdramas and kpop, which are nothing more than by products of economic sophistication). 20 years ago there were 0 koreaboos, now millions.
      If all black people focused on making making one African country, say Nigeria, an economic powerhouse, black people would be admired, black beauty would be idealized, and everyone would want to travel to Africa to see true African culture. Instead of overseas Africans going to Europe or Asia, they would be spending their energy, money and vacationing on Africa.
      Remember, only 20 years ago, all other asians thought koreans were ugly hillbillies /w no manners. Some hotels in Asia even excluded Koreans from admittance. The moral is, don't beg for acceptance, kick butt and make people respect you.

    • @patricesankara3081
      @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому +5

      @@larrynoh8343 I like to hear this. If Blacks made Nigeria, Zimbabwe, Kenya, DRC and South Africa genuine first world countries, the Black diaspora would have a sanctuary. Dubai was also nothing 40 years ago.

    • @larrynoh8343
      @larrynoh8343 4 роки тому +3

      @@patricesankara3081 exactly. My personal view is the countries in Africa that can really shine are Nigeria and strangely enough Rwanda (yes, the country that had a genocide in the 90s). Rwanda has been developing quite well

    • @patricesankara3081
      @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому +1

      @@larrynoh8343 Rwanda and Botswana are making progress!

  • @wtfsamusidk7574
    @wtfsamusidk7574 4 роки тому

    Love it all guys.

  • @sunny5871
    @sunny5871 4 роки тому

    Glad to see a fellow Gary , Indianan😀😀😀😀😀

  • @tirrellsharrock
    @tirrellsharrock 4 роки тому +9

    She will get tired of them spitting in her tea and food

  • @bobbye.wright4424
    @bobbye.wright4424 4 роки тому +8

    We afrikan people meaning black people fit in very well in afrika no problems no racism

    • @thesoulbrother8636
      @thesoulbrother8636 4 роки тому +1

      @Bobby E. Wright: 💯 percent facts!!! My brother. ✌Peace

    • @justmili713
      @justmili713 4 роки тому +6

      😂😂😂 I wish this was true as an African living in Africa, 🤷🏾‍♀️racism is bad colourism even worst

    • @Adam_ATL
      @Adam_ATL 4 роки тому +1

      Seems to be working well for Nigerians in South Africa...oh wait

    • @bigvalley4987
      @bigvalley4987 4 роки тому

      Ariko Tendai
      My sister want to go to Africa in 2020. She would like for me to join her. I would like to save up to ensure that she can travel to the Motherland, that is her true desire.🥰

  • @hunterkiller1440
    @hunterkiller1440 4 роки тому +1

    Turns out they were saying 네가 and/or 니가. Common words used in Korea that sounds like the n word.

  • @boldandcourageous4176
    @boldandcourageous4176 4 роки тому +3

    I love her hair...I wonder how long she has been natural.

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 4 роки тому

    By now, I think we know..

  • @janellegrace5815
    @janellegrace5815 3 роки тому

    Anti blackness is not our problem to fix. We must continue to exist unapologetically.

  • @pat0004
    @pat0004 4 роки тому +1

    As long as black women ditch dreadlocks, cornrows, and our African kinky hair or going completely bald instead of these fake replicas of their master's, nothing will change. This woman embarked on a Korean journey because she saw a black woman married to a Korean man, that's some serious inferiority complex manifesting as curiosity and open-mindedness. I can talk all day about this but I'll just stop here and say, let's embrace our own, our kind. The world will adjust.

    • @chia6998
      @chia6998 3 роки тому

      ???? what does this mean

  • @thesoulbrother8636
    @thesoulbrother8636 4 роки тому +26

    I am sorry but Asia is not the place for black people to "fit in," because by nature those people are antiblack. I would like to see more educated brothers and sisters (doctors, engineers, teachers, etc) take their talent to Africa and help build the continent.
    Cheers🍺

    • @goutfromporkrinds9516
      @goutfromporkrinds9516 4 роки тому +2

      have you been to make such an assessment?

    • @thesoulbrother8636
      @thesoulbrother8636 4 роки тому +1

      @@goutfromporkrinds9516 Yes, I lived there for many years.

    • @goutfromporkrinds9516
      @goutfromporkrinds9516 4 роки тому +2

      @@thesoulbrother8636 And i did too..I had a completely different experience than you.

    • @thesoulbrother8636
      @thesoulbrother8636 4 роки тому +1

      @@goutfromporkrinds9516 Well this youngladys story along with countless others on this very channel and in the U.S. says alot. I have even work with many of them and witness their behavior and that in itself is another story.
      Cheers🍺

    • @diamonddre4626
      @diamonddre4626 4 роки тому +3

      gout from pork rinds People like you with incredibly low self esteem and extremely low iq will never get it.

  • @shawnrussell3059
    @shawnrussell3059 4 роки тому +3

    How did she do her hair😍

  • @TheTlewis3074
    @TheTlewis3074 4 роки тому

    Yes, if you have to try to fit in, you'll never fit in. Just be yourself.

  • @kennethstill3340
    @kennethstill3340 4 роки тому

    Why do we have to always try to show people that we are good people and ,not what the media portray us as.also remember we don’t Control major media. We have to always remember that it’s not our job to make people see us as we are.

  • @njcking88
    @njcking88 4 роки тому

    I'm pretty sure she is talking about Charlie the woman you taught in South Korea

  • @SunFlower-x3
    @SunFlower-x3 4 роки тому

    It's a lot to unravel. Stereotypical, people, you have to be patient with. I agree, because we are a cultural people. Heritage Choir, is fantastic.

  • @diabeticmonkey
    @diabeticmonkey 3 роки тому

    That awkward moment when you realize they were saying “you” in their language

  • @michaelkim9878
    @michaelkim9878 4 роки тому +1

    Please don't take it as racism. Sometime it might happen unintentionally because of ignorant and curiousity about black people.
    Things have changed in Korea. Serious racists must be rude at any other Korean.

  • @kpoplovve775
    @kpoplovve775 4 роки тому

    Can she share which UA-camr that she followed?

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 4 роки тому

    What's it like to be 💓blk women in Korea?.. PROBABLY lonely..
    COMPLICATED

  • @serenity4ever2010
    @serenity4ever2010 4 роки тому +4

    Girl....why korea? I was thinking of visiting Japan...and it was a turn off.

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 4 роки тому +3

      Same reason people go to Japan (anime) others go to Korea (kpop/kdrama).

    • @serenity4ever2010
      @serenity4ever2010 4 роки тому +3

      @@s.a.8548 not a fan of either one. I am more intrigue of architectures and historian sites.

    • @s.a.8548
      @s.a.8548 4 роки тому

      @@serenity4ever2010 That's what I tell people too ;)

    • @kleptomania2631
      @kleptomania2631 4 роки тому +1

      @@serenity4ever2010 well they have a lot of appeal with food, history and an unique culture.

  • @Magenta3377
    @Magenta3377 4 роки тому +1

    Her: is an African American woman getting called n-word in South Korea
    Me: is a South Korean boi sometimes getting called ching chong and calling me Chinese 🖕😒
    Btw, not all koreans are racist stop grouping all the racist korean and the non-racist korean PLS

    • @chia6998
      @chia6998 3 роки тому +1

      i dont think everyone thinks that all koreans are racist

  • @rattyburvil
    @rattyburvil 4 роки тому

    how common knowledge is the meaning of the english n word in the republic of korea?

    • @무명-n6i
      @무명-n6i 3 роки тому

      Not much.
      But Korean word for you is pronouced [NI-GAH], and yours is pronounced [NI-GUH].
      Even if a random guy were to say something rather racist, n word would certainly not be the one he'd choose.

  • @ericnguyen6953
    @ericnguyen6953 4 роки тому

    I'm from Trinidad and raised in USA ... I can tell you that asians are not always accepted everywhere ... Asian have their own issues of racism ... I remember watching a show called " Soul Train ", they had this one asian lady that was not given any respect at the beginning of her career on the show ...
    I have to say, black people are the most diverse group of people on earth ...

    • @P0k3D0nd3M4cG
      @P0k3D0nd3M4cG 4 роки тому

      Because Asians are given other opportunities with mobility elsewhere in the US.

    • @ericnguyen6953
      @ericnguyen6953 4 роки тому

      @@P0k3D0nd3M4cG
      They come with motivation and determination !! I'm from Trinidad, and nobody work harder than a Trinidadian !! HaHaHaHa !!

    • @P0k3D0nd3M4cG
      @P0k3D0nd3M4cG 4 роки тому +2

      @@ericnguyen6953 you don't know history

    • @ericnguyen6953
      @ericnguyen6953 4 роки тому

      @@P0k3D0nd3M4cG
      I'm not a historian, but I know enough

    • @ericnguyen6953
      @ericnguyen6953 4 роки тому

      @@tahliah6691
      Ok, I'm not insinuating that I know Afro people .. I'm not here to say Afro people are any less hard working than anyone one else ... I do know that in August 30th 1962 Trinidad received independence from England

  • @mutonileah3530
    @mutonileah3530 4 роки тому +1

    Lets be us Black these countries have fast internet & they don't use it right

  • @tiptop17
    @tiptop17 4 роки тому

    2020 and still trying to figure out the name of the song in the beginning😣😣

  • @godlyoblivion
    @godlyoblivion 4 роки тому

    Also could have been them just saying a word that sounds like nigga in Korean because there are.

  • @janellegrace5815
    @janellegrace5815 3 роки тому +1

    She had a deep affection of Japanese culture and the people and her heart was slightly broken by their not so warm welcome.

    • @calistafalcontail
      @calistafalcontail 2 роки тому

      Its about Korea, not Japan here, and she went into this with a very naive outlook. She should have looked up how east asias attitude towards foreigners, especially people with dark skin, is like. They even discriminate other east asian based on old conflicts or their looks. The beauty standards of korea are pretty much the opposite of what she looks like so you have to go in there with thick skin if you wanna make it.

  • @kabakamuhammad3167
    @kabakamuhammad3167 4 роки тому +1

    The koreans is the real n no good people and this would is ours so sis we made them don't feel bad

  • @zan752000
    @zan752000 4 роки тому

    Blacks need to get over the name calling, that's going to happen. Asians straight up ignore the name calling and Blacks need to ignore it too.

    • @chia6998
      @chia6998 3 роки тому

      why should we?

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 4 роки тому

    Ancient of days..

  • @rashad-tm4zm
    @rashad-tm4zm 4 роки тому

    Why when everyone in the world wanna be black! Black goes with everything boo boo, check fashion

  • @chrisbullock6477
    @chrisbullock6477 4 роки тому

    Is it me or is there a theme to all the type of African Americans that go to Japan? In more ways than one, whether it be emotionally, mentally, socially or physically? With the exception of maybe two or three I've seen in this series the rest seem to have this underlying theme in common. LOL...just an honest observation.

  • @whatsgood8452
    @whatsgood8452 4 роки тому

    8:30 LMAOOOOOOO

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 4 роки тому

    She Feesl safe..ask some 🇰🇷WOMEN
    I AIN'T HATING
    JUST FOR MY PPL

  • @YungHandz706
    @YungHandz706 4 роки тому +4

    Everybody isn't meant to interact with a culture up close. Alot of people would've been better admiring the "good" parts from a distance about a culture, so they wouldn't also have to deal with negative parts about that culture. Being open minded to accept other people and their culture don't make you entitled to receive the same treatment from others.

  • @patricesankara3081
    @patricesankara3081 4 роки тому

    What’s the theme song?

  • @stupidcharger3078
    @stupidcharger3078 4 роки тому +6

    👀

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 4 роки тому

    How long we gone be on d defensive not b on d offense

  • @wilton3056
    @wilton3056 4 роки тому

    Just because you're a women dnt ignore the fact you're brown and you're female version of a brown men

  • @magavote9330
    @magavote9330 3 роки тому

    She played herself to be honest 😩

  • @piscesillustrations
    @piscesillustrations 4 роки тому +1

    Is she a Pisces by chance? Because it's almost scary how much we are alike.

    • @indriadrayton1132
      @indriadrayton1132 4 роки тому +6

      It's amazing the hate you dudes seem to have with women, cause I am positive you ain't just hating on this interviewee. This is her story, let's just listen. And it seems it isn't just Asians that hate on black folks. We do a good job of that amongst ourselves. Sad.....

  • @kingmaafa120
    @kingmaafa120 4 роки тому

    Another, place..get it
    Like, KEMET..we been there done that, I believe time come home..
    REMEMBER, what d disciples were told..
    By the
    Ancient of OLD..

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 4 роки тому

    I NEED A CHURCH NOW!!!!! 😁😍

  • @tom11zz884
    @tom11zz884 4 роки тому +1

    That weave needs to go though....
    BE YOURSELF BLACK WOMEN
    You are the ORIGINAL woman on EARTH!