What To Do When a Girl Can’t Meet Right Away (My Strategy For Keeping Leads Warm)

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  • @ZacharyBrand
    @ZacharyBrand 4 роки тому +87

    Bro, I showed most of dudes what I learnt from u nd they dug it so much so I told them to subscribe to ur channel

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +11

      Thanks man, I appreciate that

    • @TERRELL_GASKINS
      @TERRELL_GASKINS 4 роки тому

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel wassup bro question I wanna get wit this girl that I have on fb/ig I want to know how to start texting her and where could I meet her at if I do link her

  • @karlaxel7358
    @karlaxel7358 3 роки тому +91

    This man plays the LONG GAME. That’s the secret boys!

    • @stevenrosscarpenter
      @stevenrosscarpenter 2 роки тому +13

      Play short game when possible, long when needed. Keep moving forward, non emotionally.

  • @kaderkader4573
    @kaderkader4573 4 роки тому +96

    moral of the story is : Be patient

  • @playaashell
    @playaashell 3 роки тому +24

    Have so much respect for u Alex- one my biggest flaws in my game as a zoomer is being patient - appreciate the value u give

  • @devildog3799
    @devildog3799 3 роки тому +20

    Holy moly, that’s fucking maaaad patience. Respect, I couldn’t do it.

    • @TheOfficiaITristam
      @TheOfficiaITristam Рік тому +3

      I think it's easy when you are talking to 20 different chicks like he is doing cus your mind isn't constantly on 1 person

  • @hectorperez7991
    @hectorperez7991 3 роки тому +25

    Key is to have an abundance of women that is how not to be needy I know because of experience this guy has an abundance of women that is why he was able to remain chill and not be needy.

    • @Alex-dy2eb
      @Alex-dy2eb Рік тому

      Or to be focusing on your purpose

  • @justinmiller9169
    @justinmiller9169 6 місяців тому

    Great video! So much good information. You have a lot of patience and persistence.

  • @clauds4120
    @clauds4120 3 роки тому +3

    Why did I just discover your channel only 2 weeks ago. Love your content! I’m practicing!!!

  • @definitelynottigerwhitten5865
    @definitelynottigerwhitten5865 Рік тому +4

    It's weird sometimes I can't think of what to say to a girl but then just by seeing your text vibe makes me come up with a response more quickly. Thanks dude

  • @coachrusso2546
    @coachrusso2546 4 роки тому +8

    Yo love you channel. Caught word of you from Jon Anthony. Question. What’s your strategy to keep the lead warm when you set the date like a 5 days to a week in advance?

  • @Erowens98
    @Erowens98 2 роки тому +3

    I wish i had a tenth of your intuitive game man.

  • @tomeriny0
    @tomeriny0 4 роки тому +5

    That example is nice, but the example is of a girl who is really down to meet from the first place. I'll be happy to an example for "keeping warm" not-solid leads. that would be interesting. Do you have one like that to show?

  • @samexelby8715
    @samexelby8715 2 роки тому +2

    wow. this guy waited three weeks . that takes some patience

  • @datsmydab-minecraft-and-mo5666
    @datsmydab-minecraft-and-mo5666 7 місяців тому

    Quick question I have around this. If you want to have a hookup, but the girl is busy during the nighttime, should you just wait for her to have more free time or go on a date during the day and try to pull?

  • @TheRozair
    @TheRozair 4 роки тому +6

    Yo man, I have a question. A girl I've met on a dating app and have great chemistry with is on holiday for a month. We wanted to meet up but she had already planned this. She keeps messaging me and gets insecure and annoying when I don't respond. I wanna keep the tension for when we meet and not have an endless texting adventure. Got advice on how to keep her warm and keep the tension? Thanks!

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +16

      Just check in from time to time. You don't need to do anything crazy. A few texts here and there should be enough.

  • @cv3787
    @cv3787 4 роки тому +1

    What kind of wine are you using to treat girls?

  • @YourStandardTV
    @YourStandardTV Рік тому

    Can you elaborate on the psychology behind your response at 3:58? I feel like 99% of dudes including me may jump at the opportunity to have her come over, but you basically said no let’s just wait. What was the thought process there? It obviously worked

  • @s-gaming8003
    @s-gaming8003 2 роки тому +2

    BRO i love u
    your text meak my game so good :D
    שלום 🤝

  • @josiaspartamian137
    @josiaspartamian137 4 роки тому +3

    Dude, I was texting this girl from tinder, got her number, we texted for a few days and agreed to meet up when she got back to the city. It was going really well. I waited a week, then casually opened her to see if she was back already and she didn’t reply. Waited another week and sent her this meme of a skeleton saying “me waiting for you to text back” and again she didn’t reply. What should I do? She’s still active on tinder and social media. Maybe reply to one of her stories and try to re-engage her?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +22

      She’s likely no longer interested, but you can say “I genuinely didn’t take you for the flakey type”

    • @josiaspartamian137
      @josiaspartamian137 4 роки тому +1

      PlayingWithFire good, thanks

  • @mav6232
    @mav6232 4 роки тому

    These videos are amazing!
    I'm yet to have a look at the free short course
    But do u have a paid one that talks about mindsets, principles, techniques etc.
    I hear U mention things like "take away" "qualify" etc. I do have a general Understanding of what it means, but these nuggets are spread out throughout diff videos l, it'd be nice to have everything in one place in a organised manner. Wouldn't mind paying for a great course

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +1

      I go into a lot of depth when it comes to this in the product. But also, all this info is easily available everywhere :).

    • @mav6232
      @mav6232 4 роки тому

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel that's great! The only product I see in the bio is pwf membership?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +1

      @@mav6232 playingfire.com/buy-product yes

    • @mav6232
      @mav6232 4 роки тому

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel thank u

  • @christianvaldez755
    @christianvaldez755 4 роки тому +4

    Hey Alex, looking forward for that video cold messaging girls on instagram🔥

  • @GaryFabian
    @GaryFabian 4 роки тому +11

    what would you do in a case where a girl can't see you for a while but keeps messaging you & complains when you take too long to reply to her. what frequency would you use to message her until your date which is long time away

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +26

      Just say “Relax, I’m a busy man and we haven’t even met yet”

    • @alfredhitchcock7386
      @alfredhitchcock7386 4 роки тому

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel she's needy and you'll probably lose her if you say this though, just sayin

    • @badgasaurus4211
      @badgasaurus4211 3 роки тому +4

      @@alfredhitchcock7386 Her loss

    • @oliviergrenier3574
      @oliviergrenier3574 3 роки тому +5

      @@alfredhitchcock7386 if she’s that needy, why would you care if you lose her?

    • @alfredhitchcock7386
      @alfredhitchcock7386 3 роки тому

      @@oliviergrenier3574 I don't. But the guy I was replying to obviously does.

  • @BeastMode-oz8qc
    @BeastMode-oz8qc Рік тому

    What if im the one that cant see her for 2 weeks? I dont want to text her everyday but i also dont want her thinking i lost interest by not continuing our daily messaging streak?

  • @mobiusrazgrim
    @mobiusrazgrim 3 роки тому +6

    Why does every girl get a cold the day of the date?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  3 роки тому +1

      That means you're not running effective textgame and/or building enough investment

  • @profleodiniz3672
    @profleodiniz3672 4 роки тому

    man, I must tell you that. there are lots of guys that make these kinds of videos in UA-cam, all of them with that shit soft talk, long texts, simpathetic behvaiour, which work only if you already convinced the girl with your photos... however your hints, they're gamechanger. I showed some of them working with some girls to friends of mine and they just couldn't believe lol. I see in their eyes they literally willing to break their relationships and use these hints lmao

  • @jakemorj5498
    @jakemorj5498 Рік тому

    Why do they always leave your place at 1 something am bro? Are you specifically kicking them out at this time to do something else

  • @tekiero
    @tekiero 4 роки тому +7

    Guys, is this even real? Girl I get got offended, when I invited her to my place after our 3rd date. She just blocked me. lmao. In irl she was all cute and nice to me. wtf?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +19

      She’s either very prude or you just positioned yourself as a nice guy provider

    • @tekiero
      @tekiero 4 роки тому +2

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel idk. She is only 18. Probably prude 😂 But she doesn't look like a virgin girl

    • @colinogorman8279
      @colinogorman8279 3 роки тому

      😂

  • @RagingBullKm
    @RagingBullKm 4 роки тому

    Great stuff as always. Do you schedule more then one chick a day on weekends? Btw what is your go-to answer when girl ask about your current relationship status

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +6

      Maybe 2 just in case of flaking, but I don’t like to rush through dates like I used to when I was in my mid 20s
      I say I’m single. Which I am

    • @RagingBullKm
      @RagingBullKm 4 роки тому +1

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Thx for answer, pure gold 👌
      What's you approach to scheduling dates if your week is fully booked with dates in Tuesday already, do you plan for next week already or plan for this anyway and then cancel for medical reasons?

  • @AK-hi4hm
    @AK-hi4hm 4 роки тому

    hey alex do you think it's a bad idea to be smiling in all of your dating pics? i feel like i can pull it off...girls seem to rate them higher than when i'm serious or "off guard"

  • @tonnyncellist5910
    @tonnyncellist5910 Рік тому

    How do you send pictures on tinder? Is it even possible?

  • @elmerwowop7983
    @elmerwowop7983 4 роки тому

    ur the best Alex

  • @tnt_adventures_
    @tnt_adventures_ 3 роки тому +5

    8:25 that transition between banter and sexual was smooth as fuck bro.

    • @JohnnyBg2905
      @JohnnyBg2905 3 роки тому +4

      Smooth from her side lol, she introduced it, he just picked the flow

  • @tanjimmahmud8188
    @tanjimmahmud8188 4 роки тому +1

    What to do during Quarantine period?You can't set a date .I don't prefer vedio call date personally .Would you just keep in touch with the chick or just drop it like that and don't burst her phone with texts?

  • @supremegodmasterofomegacha3019
    @supremegodmasterofomegacha3019 3 роки тому

    Is anyone still seeing those endless options ads?

  • @therealunstoppable6488
    @therealunstoppable6488 4 роки тому

    I am trying to link up with this girl but she says She’s pretty busy and there’s a pandemic going on rn so she is not going to link for a while. She’s a babysitter, and I told her when she can babysit me, to make it a little flirty How should I respond to this?

  • @dannyc.9161
    @dannyc.9161 2 роки тому +1

    What sucks is that when I do this. They drop off and stop responding and when I try to re engage nothing happens.

    • @stonalisa3729
      @stonalisa3729 Рік тому +1

      Fix up your pictures and this isn’t 100% fool proof so it won’t work on everyone

  • @zetheman
    @zetheman 4 роки тому +1

    What do you do when a hot girl on bumble sends a pic of her as her first message? Shes not english, she is russian, so i replyed "i like your type" in russian language. Good move?

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +5

      Kinda giving her a bit too much validation I think. I would prob say “hey what’s up”

    • @zetheman
      @zetheman 4 роки тому +2

      @@PlayingWithFireChannel Thank you for that! If turns out to be a great date I will let you know! Lol

  • @adonis1168
    @adonis1168 3 роки тому +2

    That was Carla? I get why you were persistent dude ;)

  • @russianpegs
    @russianpegs 3 роки тому +4

    What if a girl youve been messaging for a month doesnt feel ready to hangout out because she wants to know you better? She doesnt feel comfortable video chatting, so i tried setting up a calls. She avoided my calls 3 times and said she was "too tired". Everytime i let her reschedule a time that would work for her and she flakes on me. Not sure what to do at this point.

    • @wizardgamer131
      @wizardgamer131 3 роки тому +29

      Just move on

    • @colinogorman8279
      @colinogorman8279 3 роки тому

      Move on definitely. Possible she'll come back but not relationship material anyway

    • @OhQuickly
      @OhQuickly 3 роки тому +7

      I'm afraid there's nothing you can do at that point. If she's already flaking on you just for a videocall, then she would 100% flake on you if you ever would be able to set up a date with her.

    • @Pokerface-jpg
      @Pokerface-jpg 2 роки тому +7

      Shes a time waster, just wants attention

    • @andrewnaranjo6514
      @andrewnaranjo6514 2 роки тому

      Hold up you knew this girl for a month and she still doesnt know you enough to hangout? That doesn’t add up. I feel like after 2-3 days of texting a girl she practically knows my whole life story. Either you’re text messages are you and her talking about the weather or she’s bullshiting you and has no intention of wanting to ever hangout

  • @NiteshKumar-ve8di
    @NiteshKumar-ve8di 4 роки тому +1

    How I can keep conversation going with my crush?

  • @robertromo4041
    @robertromo4041 4 роки тому

    Hey man I would like to know your thoughts on this:
    As a man living in Latin America I can tell sexual topics in bio don't work, but works on you because foreign effect.(If you write it in Spanish sounds needy).
    And fuuuuck, I just can't translate the hey trouble opener hahahaha
    Although the text game has worked so far, I have experienced some improvement 💪🏻💪🏻

    • @PlayingWithFireChannel
      @PlayingWithFireChannel  4 роки тому +1

      Yes, it’s a bit differen over there, my go go opener in latin America is hola linda

  • @binoy7142
    @binoy7142 4 роки тому

    Do same techniques used if a guy is buys and can’t meet up 2/3 weeks

  • @Josh-zg8tx
    @Josh-zg8tx 4 роки тому +5

    This crap drives me nuts ( the waiting game )

  • @MclarenF22
    @MclarenF22 3 роки тому +2

    Do you ever bring your dog on the date lol

  • @greathornedowl1783
    @greathornedowl1783 3 роки тому

    what about 3 months? would a hot girl really wait 3 months for me? I think this one is a time waster.

  • @maccddyasydsydysyds
    @maccddyasydsydysyds 4 роки тому +1

    Make a video of how to deal with virgins please. They are a different animal

  • @therealunstoppable6488
    @therealunstoppable6488 4 роки тому

    Also what something I could do to make a date. I do not have a car, which I’m working on rn, I cannot go to their house and they cannot go to mine ?

  • @ashkon7408
    @ashkon7408 4 роки тому

    Do you have snap or IG?

  • @YadaYadaYadadada
    @YadaYadaYadadada 2 роки тому

    We need similar videos from the Indian. An average looking guy getting results is a lot more impressive than you getting results (no offense - you are clearly very handsome)

  • @ganza999
    @ganza999 4 роки тому +2

    Buenas noches*

  • @brazzo9541
    @brazzo9541 3 роки тому

    tryhard

  • @8ajent
    @8ajent Рік тому

    Man this is a lot of work just go to the club and take the drunk chick