How to BUILD RAPPORT & Get What You Want in a Hostile Environment.

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024

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  • @vikramupadhya1243
    @vikramupadhya1243 3 роки тому +7

    Not everyone is an Enemy, we make enemies by our actions. Intent with a genuine understanding and humility makes more friends. As a salesman once said, being humble and addressing security and janitorial staff of a company gets you closee and makes you more accessible than 'working' the actual contacts.

  • @091_kushagramisra5
    @091_kushagramisra5 3 роки тому +20

    Bottom line up front:
    I have not just watched all of your videos but I have tried hard to make some of your commands as a part of my life...it has changed me so much, I talk better ,I dress up better ,I work better ,I plan better than before . Thank you for your mentorship.

  • @silvadossantos6803
    @silvadossantos6803 3 роки тому +49

    "Making friends is defeating enemies" Lincoln

  • @SocialistDistancing
    @SocialistDistancing 3 роки тому +12

    There was a neighbor that rented a house across from mine. He was an ass. Very entitled. He had two rottweilers. (I've had many dogs). So, one day I just decided to strike up a conversation about his dogs. That conversation went on for an hour and I learned a lot about this guy's life (free Intel). He was very nice after that day. He moved away a year later.
    I've managed to get more accomplished over a breakfast meeting than through any other means. Face to face over a meal can work wonders. It's a meeting of informal protocols. I've actually brokered some pretty amazing things just by having a simple conversation. Knowing what to say, or more importantly, what not to say is key. Sometimes silence is the best strategy. Great video.

  • @shehryarfarrukh1445
    @shehryarfarrukh1445 3 роки тому +28

    man you need to upload more often plus your voice is so explaining

  • @phoenix-king779
    @phoenix-king779 3 роки тому +52

    Me and the boys studying this to take over the school

  • @nicksweden709
    @nicksweden709 3 роки тому +11

    Great advice, this is something that applies to everyone from McDonald's fry cooks to CEOs

  • @rickkephartactual7706
    @rickkephartactual7706 3 роки тому +3

    I just started watching your video's about a month ago. In short, they are short and accurate. I'm retired from the Fire Service, at my retirement I held the rank of Battalion Chief and was the Fire Marshal for our city. While I had a successful career I would have loved to have had access to video's like this when I was getting out of high school. I would love to be able to back and make your video's mandatory viewing for all our officers and those seeking office. All employee's no matter their position would benefit from watching your video's and incorporating them into their lives and careers. I believe you would make a great instructor companies that want to improve their employees.

  • @jawbone83
    @jawbone83 3 роки тому +7

    Your videos are always top-notch. I really appreciate the work you put into them. Please keep them coming.

  • @jjbartlett86
    @jjbartlett86 3 роки тому +5

    I never comment on UA-cam videos, but I have to say I really appreciate the videos you post here, Sir. And without sounding redundant, thank you for your service.

  • @johnlozauskas778
    @johnlozauskas778 2 роки тому

    I admire your ability to distill diverse information into a compact effective package. Thank you.

  • @DixieLiving
    @DixieLiving 3 роки тому +2

    Thank you.
    Every time I watch your videos its like walking along a city street and looking down to find a $50 dollar bill on the curb.
    Keep them coming! 🇺🇸!

  • @zachjones6944
    @zachjones6944 3 роки тому +1

    Rapport is a force-multiplier.

  • @northwoodcompany8775
    @northwoodcompany8775 3 роки тому +1

    Thx , it was very useful , big like , especially the last part

  • @Mk3784
    @Mk3784 3 роки тому +1

    This information is very valuable. thank you for sharing.

  • @moshedayan5890
    @moshedayan5890 3 роки тому +2

    Wow...special operator you are back!!!
    missed you!!
    I reckon you will have to work extra hard cause your subscribers need more videos.
    Liked and subscribed from nairobi kenya.

  • @broly4544
    @broly4544 3 роки тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video. It was very useful.

  • @CA-vx4sn
    @CA-vx4sn 3 роки тому +3

    Commenting for the algorithm

  • @jkzeje
    @jkzeje 3 роки тому +1

    A much needed video

  • @josephlee6103
    @josephlee6103 3 роки тому +1

    So good.

  • @winteriscoming4407
    @winteriscoming4407 3 роки тому +1

    thank you!

  • @mac-gyver1152
    @mac-gyver1152 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for another great video

  • @davegalaga1101
    @davegalaga1101 3 роки тому +1

    Good advice, thank you

  • @bardanmalla193
    @bardanmalla193 3 роки тому +1

    Love your content sir

  • @aureliorubalcaba863
    @aureliorubalcaba863 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @loganthrasher4023
    @loganthrasher4023 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the info.

  • @mo26312631
    @mo26312631 3 роки тому +1

    🇺🇸Thank you for adding value to the day🇺🇲

  •  3 роки тому

    when you told "as simple as money"
    I thought that was the hard part, but as the lidt went through, I reversed

  • @StreetRocketJoe
    @StreetRocketJoe 3 роки тому

    Social engineering when done right is a beautiful thing.

  • @pyeitme508
    @pyeitme508 3 роки тому +1

    Wow cool 😎

  • @dialdowninternet8987
    @dialdowninternet8987 3 роки тому +2

    I know it's one of the most secretive units there is, and so information will be hard to find, but could you make a video on the Intelligence Support Activity?

  • @saakerson2
    @saakerson2 3 роки тому +1

    Missed your videos

  • @cadenscarberry8438
    @cadenscarberry8438 3 роки тому +5

    Hi I was wondering if you have any advice for becoming a pj

    • @LifeisaSpecialOperation
      @LifeisaSpecialOperation  3 роки тому +6

      Caden, Find someone from the PJ community and ask them a bunch of questions about the training pipeline and PJ lifestyle. Get into great shape.

    • @cadenscarberry8438
      @cadenscarberry8438 3 роки тому +1

      @@LifeisaSpecialOperation thank you I will do that

  • @RAYDENfilipp
    @RAYDENfilipp Рік тому

    I get it when you have to build a downward rapport in tribing with somebody, i.e. giving up on something to fit in (don't smoke in a non-smoking environment), but what about upward movement, when you have to blend in a smokers' environment when you are a non-smoker or with drinkers when you are a teatotaller, for example?

  • @sprescav
    @sprescav 3 роки тому

    For the dating life is also useful.

  • @neelonghunglow
    @neelonghunglow 3 роки тому +1

    Bait the hook for the fish you wanna catch...

  • @linkchen8245
    @linkchen8245 3 роки тому

    Change grounding foe to smiling friends .

  • @TCMphahlele
    @TCMphahlele 2 роки тому +1

    🎖️

  • @TimKyoutube
    @TimKyoutube 3 роки тому +1

    Never go see the BIRD in boardshorts.... (things i learned in 9 minutes)

  • @ewsdneax61eaxe10
    @ewsdneax61eaxe10 3 роки тому +1

    Sir do a topic on motivation.

  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving 2 роки тому

    What if I don't have anything in common?

  • @wolfman571000
    @wolfman571000 3 роки тому

    Adaptation....

  • @wubba0682
    @wubba0682 3 роки тому

    are you still an active special forces operator?

  • @dantelove4606
    @dantelove4606 3 роки тому

    B A L D G A N G

  • @Yonko_Ty
    @Yonko_Ty 3 роки тому

    Why was the colonel a clown?

  • @Idkgoogleitbro
    @Idkgoogleitbro 3 роки тому +2

    it's funny listening to the lesson,ironic really. this is all common sense and I'm like "I know this!" But I never consciously applied any of this. EGO EGO EGO will fuck up the best guy on the team and the worst guy on the enemy team can come in and eat your lunch.Im 26 and still trying to master the game.Life is fun and humans are real predictable,easy to understand if you have the third eye.

  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving 2 роки тому

    2:40 So be a phony

  • @gizaegypt9481
    @gizaegypt9481 3 роки тому

    Trader Joe's executive sales

  • @Willy_Tepes
    @Willy_Tepes 3 роки тому

    Could you do a episode on how to approach and strike it off with Muslims since you obviously have some experience with it? Their culture is very foreign to me even if I have studied it for some time. How do you win respect when meeting a village elder or a Iman? How do you speak with authority among them while not having official authority? What should I consider about body language, tone and such?

  • @andrewe6839
    @andrewe6839 3 роки тому

    Stop spying on me.

  • @ahsanmohammed1
    @ahsanmohammed1 3 роки тому +1

    rotfl 😂🤣

  • @turtlebeach3116
    @turtlebeach3116 2 роки тому

    Oh come on why you saying Turkmenistan and the turcs are weird ?

  • @CallsignEskimo-l3o
    @CallsignEskimo-l3o 3 роки тому +3

    I've never got poor advice from this channel.