I absolutely HATE when people say so and so doesn't look the same without makeup. Who really looks the same without makeup?? If we all looked the same with makeup then it would be pointless... lol
I couldn't agree more. Self esteem and confidence is an inside job. However, if you need a boost pampering yourself is very effective... Eat better, pray/meditate, get proper rest, journal, Working out, at home facials, makeup, upgrading your wardrobe, finding a new fragrance. Find what makes you feel better NOW and work on your spirit everyday. It's all relevant!
I believe that it's the other way around: being beautiful and realizing how beautiful you are on the inside will cause you to feel and look beautiful on the outside. That's what happened to me. "As a he thinketh in his heart, so is he..." - Proverbs 23:7
God is what gives the ultimate confidence! Knowing that, your soul is saved will give you that extra boost. Always believe that YOU are enough because no one is better. We all are human stay encouraged and blessings will follow xox!
It may not have been intentional, but I laughed when Kendra was talking about not caring about what people think of you and Kelsey straightened out her "I do no care at all" shirt. Great video ladies!! 💕
Yall are beautiful with or without make up, but just be careful not to say someone who doesn't wear makeup is lazy or are putting forth no effort in their appearance. No one should knock anyone for wearing makeup or not wearing makeup. You can look nice without it and with it.
Im 23 and I been insecure until I was about 21. So I will say something like "I look nice today" "I feel pretty" and my peers will say "Get off yourself" "You're not all that" like they dont know how long it took me to get to where I am today. I use to cry myself to sleep because I didn't have any friends (i was shy), I was called ugly middle-high school and verbally bullied because I was so shy. Now I glowed up not just physically but mentally too and dammit Im feeling myself like Beyonce. The girls that bullied me wants to be my friend and the guys that bullied me are in my inbox.
could you talk about how to deal with peer pressure in highschool (drugs,drama, alcohol trynna stay godly while surrounded by all the craziness that IS HIGHSCHOOL..??
Kendra this lower arch in your eyebrows is literally what I've been secretly hopin you'd do for years and it looks absolutely STUNNING on you. even prettier than before if it was ever possible for you to be prettier. I honestly couldn't tell u guys apart until you said your names. And I have NEVER mixed yall up probably since your first video. yall are so beautiful inside and out!
I feel like confidence can't be taught but self taught . You have to want it and do things to build it like the twins said . You can take a horse to the water but you can't make them drink . So love yourself ladies ❤️
Agree, said that perfectly. You can teach people why they should want it or what it is about them that should make them confident but you gotta do it yourself
Being on UA-cam definitely helps you grow tough skin. I've witnessed so much personal growth. Can ya'll talk about choosing (entrepreneurship) passion over going the (9-5) traditional route? #TwinTalk
I do not believe that they intended the no make up wearer to equal lazy. I think may have been misconstrued. I don't wear make up, yet I exude confidence. But I also had a family growing up that feed me with kind, loving and uplifting affirmations! I knew very young to take pride in my appearance but more than being pretty I was intelligent. I received more praise for doing well in school than how I looked. I just want to mention something. My friend is an HR manager and had a woman come in for an interview. Her hair was in a sad ponytail, her clothes were wrinkled, she had a run in her stockings and one shoe. She apologized for her appearance because she needed the job. She had to borrow an outfit from someone and snagged her stockings, Then on the way to the interview the heal broke on her shoe, but she needed the job! She came in and did her best. She got the job. She may not have looked her best but she did what she needed to get that opportunity. :)
I agree with a lot of this, however, I seldom wear makeup or spend a lot of time on my hair and I don't think that makes me lazy nor do I have low self-esteem as a result of "not putting effort into how I look." As a matter of fact, I put a lot of effort into how I look by going to gym, drinking a lot of water and make healthier food choices. I have never and can't see myself putting down another woman for wearing makeup, however, I personally prefer to use my time in the mornings differently (yoga, affirmations, sleeping later etc.). To say someone is lazy for not seeing the need to do their makeup frequently is as unfair and narrow minded as trying to make another woman feel bad about beating her face as often as she sees fit. I very much like the way I look with or without makeup. I would and have gone to interviews without makeup. True self confidence is loving yourself without conditions or limitation.
I'm glad you ladies mentioned careers. Most of the time ppl have low self esteem is because of they employment status. The difference between no job, a job you hate and a career that you're great at can change a person.
Kelsey's shirt pretty much sums up all how they feel about the haters lol. I love y'all's advice! Great video once again. I think my confidence comes from God too. I've had a professor try to break my confidence and question my competence. I had to pray off that negativity. It was a hard semester, but I got through it.
Since you guys talked about finding your passion I think it would be cool if you did a video on finding your passion/what you want to do in life. It would be really cool to hear more about your journey to having the career you have now.
Kendra honey you are coming out of your comfort zone & taking a few pointers from Kelsey and I'm loving it! I love the half up, half down look on you! And the makeup is everything ❤️
Some people at my school and at Walmart of course wear pajamas in public like they aren't motivated and are too lazy to look good. I don't understand how people don't want to look good because I always want to look descent even if I don't feel motivated. Dressing up just for school does make me in a happier mood!
+Jassela347 Maybe they just don't care cuz they are confident and comfortable in their skin and it doesn't matter what ppl say at the end of the day. (the point of this video) At some point in life you learn you can't make everyone happy so you decide to do you, ...whether it's wearing make up, wearing heels to everywhere, going to school/walmart in PJs or whatever. BTW i don't live in a cold country but if I did I would probably do the PJs thing too, comfort over style everyday. lol
Now, I hope they did not mean to say makeup WILL give you self confidence, because for me I don't wear, nor do I want to, or need to wear full makeup, and I have plenty of self confidence. I love watching you-tubers transform with makeup I think the skill and transformation is art. However just because I don't like to wear it, doesn't mean I don't put in effort, I do believe if you look good you feel good, as in combing your hair, grooming, nice clean clothes, and an organized life, can help boost confidence!
THANK YOU. Not wearing makeup doesn't mean you don't put effort into how you look. I don't have to make myself look like a completely different person to feel confident, lol.
No that's not what they were saying. If you listen to the video, they mentioned as becoming older they've become more confident with themselves as a person more so on the inside, which has really made them love themselves outside as well. As an avid makeup wearer, makeup DOES look good on the outside, and from their perspective it's a passion for them. They're not saying that you should or shouldn't wear makeup, their mainly referring to the ladies who wear makeup, and are ridiculed for wearing it at times. In essence, they're just saying that they love to enhance their natural beauty with makeup to make them feel good, and anything that enhances your natural beauty naturally makes you look good, and feel good. They're saying when you look in that mirror, you should say that you're beautiful. At the end of the day, like you mentioned we should all feel comfortable about ourselves.
tracyonetosee Now you are just reaching because that is not what was said. You just made your own little story here. I believe they said for those who knock down women who wear makeup are the lazy ones but I wouldn't call them lazy, I would just say they're judgmental people. I don't wear makeup. However I make sure my eyebrows look good, I take care of my skin and hair, I dress decent (to what I can afford) and I use proper hygiene and perfumes. Those things make me feel good.
I love these twin talks because at 20 years old and a junior in college I sometimes still struggle with my confidence and self esteem... This came at the right time . Thanx ladies ❤
"Knowing who you are" hit the nail on the head, ding ding ding, BULLSEYE. That is the beginning and the end. When you know you - you will shut down a lot of foolishness. As for makeup I think it completely compliments the natural beauty of a person. I danced for a professional b-ball team never wore makeup. It's just something that never held my attention. I've never had a flawless complexion but it is what it is. With that said, I definitely admire those who choose to wear it. I sweat beads when I workout. I will workout on a whelm. I rather sweat hard and I feel completely free and have a fantastic glow afterwards. i do have skin cleansing routine, but make up is not for me. Beauty is subjective and in the eye of the beholder. Now that I think about it, not one person in my department wears makeup. Birds of a feather. I really enjoyed your knowledge and experience you shared. Definitely worth sharing with the young women I know.
You ladies spoke well and as a 48 year old woman who has found herself everything you said is true. I've been insecure when I was younger but as you live and experience life and people you learn what to accept and not accept. I am a makeup addict and my appearance is highly important. I am appearance conscious. It should come when you're older but I know people my age who are very insecure and still seek approval from others. However, I fine if you look inward and do a self evaluation on a regular basis. Ultimately confidence comes with wanting to do better and have better for yourself and when you're in line with that thought there are some things you will not accept. You girls were on point and I agree 100%. I have a 16 year old girl and I will share this video with her so she can see from two young beautiful girls who could be an example to young girls and women all over and just to end when you want to be an example to others then that's a start to self confidence.
I was fortunate to be one of the few teens who didn't have insecurity issues. What helped was that I always stayed grounded. Was never a cocky person & I was loved by my family & my childhood was very active as well. What actually made me start to look at myself & feel like my flaws were 'exposed' so to speak, was my friends who'd sometimes poke fun at how chunky my legs were. & over time, some family members & others from my place of worship made me feel like I was too "fat" for my age. All my friends were very slim & I didn't even realize tbh until ppl started to point out how "huge" my thighs were. I then started to envy how slim they were & not appreciate the nice lil body I had. I felt like ppl would compare my then best friend & I'd always feel uncomfortable standing close to slimmer persons. I say this to say, don't tease people especially youths who are growing into their body & trying to feel comfortable. That also helps with insecurity issues. That's where insecurities can start to form if you never had them before. Now I'm 20 & looking back at old photos, my body was FINE. I was very filled out & a nice butt too which now I'm struggling to get back because I started to go on a diet & now it's almost as if I can't keep weight on.
I disagree with wearing makeup to feel good about yourself but I do understand the point you were making. I barely wear makeup (only on date nights) and my boyfriend and family always tell me I don't need it. I think you have to be confident with YOURSELF with and without makeup. To me if you need makeup to feel good about yourself, you're still lacking some confidence and self-esteem. I found my confidence once I became more girly. I was a tomboy until I was 17 and decided my senior year that I wanted to be more girly. It took some time to get use the girl stuff but eventually like you said you grow into being confident. Now nobody can tell me nothing. Not even when I blend my eye shadows wrong lol
Makeup can SOME TIMES be dangerous if a person doesn't already love themselves. I know girls who HATE themselves without makeup, but are the most confident person with it. . . When they should be confident either way !
You guys are right, music is a universal dose of feel good. It's why younger you-tubers inspire older ones. It keep your spirit up and reintroduce your younger self to your older self. Love you girls and we are thankful that you share.
"when your truly confident, you do not care what others think about you." Kelsey that top has this sentence shown right through the video to remind us that. In 2020 I have wanted to build more confidence in myself and this year(happy new year) I hope to continue and eventually 💯 not caring what all of you think. I thrive to be this way for life
Omg, I lovvvvve this. Like when I first started wearing makeup like hard core (I think I was 18), my family hated it. They would say "You don't need that makeup, you're pretty without it." or something of that nature. But honestly, I wasn't where I needed to be confidentially(?) for myself. I was learning to love myself bc I was picked on soooooo much at a young age. First of all, me being fat then my horrible skin complexion and my family talking shit about it. It was so hard for me to believe anything anyone told me. Now I'm 21 and my confidence is like through the roof and like y'all said, I don't need anyone's validation. So anyway, I think these Twin Talk videos are amazing. I just started doing topics videos on my Facebook page and looking at these videos, sort of reminds me of me. It's great to see that there are amazing people in this world that truly wanna uplift people. Anyway, great videos... Great beauty channel as well and I appreciate y'all. Like fr. 💞😚
Wow I really love you guys twin talks this one definitely really helped me I've been trying to boost my confidence ever since my past relationship and I'm getting better at loving myself, I also found things that make me feel better as a woman and love myself again
Right!! this might be random but they should write a book on how to grow hair. The tips they give in their videos help me grow my hair 4 inches so far. Sorry that was random😂😂
Thank you for this video because I'm in high school and I always feel unsure of myself but this uplifted my spirit and made me look at it in a different way. 🙌🏾🙂
I'm so glad you guys actually said you battled with these issues too when you were younger. I have gotten so much more confident since high school. I am 20 now. Glad to know I wasn't by myself in that. Thank you for sharing!
I needed this girl talk because I am struggling to find myself while in my early 20s and its such a struggle in my regular life such as my relationships, school , and even work. Hopefully I will soon learn to love myself in every way ! Thanks girls ! 💕
Topic Ideas?: Becoming independent / Moving out on your own / Finding Jobs / Apartments / Handling Money. Basically becoming an adult!!! You guys give great insight and encouragement
I feel confident without makeup and hair worn natural. I don't like expectation on women's looks. We should be allowed to pick whether or not to wear makeup. You inspire me. Part of my role models list
i must admit i still deal with low self esteem bc i was bullied so bad in elementary and middle school because i was fat/overweight so now i just fake it till i make it. im in highschool and my goal for when i graduate is to have a way higher self-esteem than i do now. im so glad you girls gave us our views on this i needed to hear them! love yall oxoxo!
I loved this twin talk. I do all the above. I'm just starting to get into makeup again. It really makes a difference. Outside affects inside and inside affects outside. I'm pretty confident but I have my moments. Mostly when it comes to job interviews.
I really enjoyed this video. It was very motivational and inspiring. Also it helps me understand that there nothing wrong with getting glam up sometimes, and just feeling good about myself. I truly found this video very needed. I would like to see more videos like this, but also maybe about careers, college, etc.
I'm definitely taking mental notes on what you two said. Even in my late 20s, I'm still working on my confidence and self esteem. Thanks for the video its always nice to hear advise on this.
I love you ladies you tell it like it is and the advice is helpful and you can tell they practice what they preach and that's why I've been watching you ladies since the beginning.....and your makeup looks amazing as always!
This video came right on time. I was just feeling like crap because of my current weight. I live for you girls' channel and the inspiration it gives me. You guys are my favs for sure!! :)
I like these twin talks! You guys have talked about really great subjects so far. I really appreciate the point about being happy with what you're doing in life, career-wise because that's what I'm going thru right now. In the future, as a suggestion, you guys should try relating personal experiences and what helped y'all to overcome those obstacles. It would've been nice to hear y'all talk about at what point y'all started working in becoming confident. ✨ Love you guys!
Great twin talk ladies. I see so many young women who allow their self esteem to be walked on. My dad helped me be confident from the time I was very young. I love him for that.
this was so helpful I am about 15years older than you guys but you guys have helped me with my 13 year old and teaching her about haircare and being reaponsible and this video was so on point for today because this morning the scripture I read was about confidence and that is something that I felt that I lost do to life happening and dealing with things I should not have so thank you for this video very inspiring I felt like I have to start from scratch again but I am going back to my makeup and taking better care of me and not just my children...Glamtwinz rock..
I love this. Y'all always exude confidence! I think it's also important to not that sometimes it takes not wearing makeup to feel confident. I got to a place where I realized I felt hideous any time I wasn't wearing makeup and I had to force myself to go out without it on until I felt good about my bare face. I realize now that it was because I wasn't taking care of myself in other ways: eating right, taking time for myself, etc. Now I feel confident to go out bare-face or with makeup and think I can look fly either way! :)
I must say that you two have definitely gotten me into makeup and to wanting to upgrade and beautify. I'm a girly girl anyway but you guys have inspired me to really get into makeup and hair, and it has increased my confidence. You guys were the first beauty Vloggers I've ever subscribed to! Love you guys 😘❤️💜
Thank y'all so much for this video! At 26 I thought being insecure was weird because of my age but I've been trying to get better with loving myself more... I will be taking heed t p what y'all said and become better... Thank u ladies and love u both
Thank y'all so much for this inspirational video. I have been struggling with low self-esteem for while. After viewing this video, I feel like I know the steps to get over this obstacle. Thanks so much, I really appreciate it. keep up the good work
If that's the case, then what do you feel like when all the glitter, make up and gold comes off and you're looking at the real YOU in the mirror?!🤔 Beauty starts from within not the outer layers! Having the correct "beliefs", and good morals, upright character and personality is what makes you beautiful and that will show on the outside.! Beautification only should add to true beauty! Only then will you truly be confident!
I truly enjoyed watching you ladies. You exude beauty physically and also inner morality and peace. Continue what you are doing and sharing your pearls of wisdom to others.
I never wore makeup until my 20's but I have to admit when I did start wearing it I felt so much better about myself. It did help with my confidence. Nice talk ladies you two are both beautiful. I am going to let my 13 yr old daughter watch this and hope it helps her out.🙏😉 Thanks.
Great Video !!! I just realized all of this recently and ended my toxic relationship some time ago but was still holding on. I've noticed that women have a great glow when they start loving and respecting themselves.
One thing that really stuck out when they said if you don't put effort into how you appear you are lazy. As a Libra I can understand that comment. Libras are stereotyped for being superficial cause we like things that look good and like to stay looking good. If that means exercising or grooming ourselves. But it is nice to see twin Scorpios who feel the same way. The video is good overall.
My pastor always say "know who you are by knowing whose you are".
Gloray!
+queen of Somalia Simple explanation is if you know you belong to God then you will know you are a child of God.
+d'inayvette amen🙌
amen I agree
+d'inayvette Come on!!
I absolutely HATE when people say so and so doesn't look the same without makeup. Who really looks the same without makeup?? If we all looked the same with makeup then it would be pointless... lol
Right??
HELLO 🙌
I couldn't agree more. Self esteem and confidence is an inside job. However, if you need a boost pampering yourself is very effective... Eat better, pray/meditate, get proper rest, journal, Working out, at home facials, makeup, upgrading your wardrobe, finding a new fragrance. Find what makes you feel better NOW and work on your spirit everyday. It's all relevant!
I totally agree! Little things like that make all the difference
This comment is everything!
Yes Kelly I needed that boost!!! That's my plan too!
+Kelly Burge @+Devon Jones comment.. EVERYTHING!!!!
Kelly Burge very good advice!
I believe that it's the other way around: being beautiful and realizing how beautiful you are on the inside will cause you to feel and look beautiful on the outside. That's what happened to me. "As a he thinketh in his heart, so is he..." - Proverbs 23:7
Amen!
yah a a a assess girl preach!!!
I agree completely. Amen!
+Anddy R Yess!! come on scripture!
I agree and amen.
Y'all are too cute like if y'all don't stop being so fine
Ikr!!!!!!!!!
OMG right😂🙌🙌💄💅
Like girl I hear you ,I get tired of commenting how beautiful they are like damnnnnnnn daniellllllllllll
RIGHT like lord have mercy Kendra is so femme and gorg! And Kelz ninja bun + tee shirt, laid back slay on point
Exactly!!!!!
Can your next video be about independence and financial stability for young women? And How to make money outside of having a regular job?
+Non Ya Great Video Ladies
great idea.. a video about being a young adult and independent.
great idea! !
great idea! !
Great idea
God is what gives the ultimate confidence! Knowing that, your soul is saved will give you that extra boost. Always believe that YOU are enough because no one is better. We all are human stay encouraged and blessings will follow xox!
yaass! amen
Love it
Sassy Besos amen
It may not have been intentional, but I laughed when Kendra was talking about not caring about what people think of you and Kelsey straightened out her "I do no care at all" shirt. Great video ladies!! 💕
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I was looking at her shirt and didn't think about that.
Yes!
+Ashley Polk I noticed that too. very fitting!!
I love her shirt too
Yall are beautiful with or without make up, but just be careful not to say someone who doesn't wear makeup is lazy or are putting forth no effort in their appearance. No one should knock anyone for wearing makeup or not wearing makeup. You can look nice without it and with it.
exactly
Somebody said it...
+LadyGNatural right not everybody loves to wear makeup.
Hello. Thankyou. Everyone don't want to wear makeup or can't wear it.😉
Thanks For This Video. I'm 23 And I'm Still Trying To Gain More Confidence In Myself And Stop Being So Insecure.
Same here
+Nataya Ida Girl you are BEAUTIFUL! NO NEED TO BE INSECURE IN THE LEAST!
Im 23 and I been insecure until I was about 21. So I will say something like "I look nice today" "I feel pretty" and my peers will say "Get off yourself" "You're not all that" like they dont know how long it took me to get to where I am today. I use to cry myself to sleep because I didn't have any friends (i was shy), I was called ugly middle-high school and verbally bullied because I was so shy. Now I glowed up not just physically but mentally too and dammit Im feeling myself like Beyonce. The girls that bullied me wants to be my friend and the guys that bullied me are in my inbox.
could you talk about how to deal with peer pressure in highschool (drugs,drama, alcohol trynna stay godly while surrounded by all the craziness that IS HIGHSCHOOL..??
My kids say I'm full of myself and I told them no I have high self esteem...If I don't think highly myself who is going to do it.
Kendra this lower arch in your eyebrows is literally what I've been secretly hopin you'd do for years and it looks absolutely STUNNING on you. even prettier than before if it was ever possible for you to be prettier. I honestly couldn't tell u guys apart until you said your names. And I have NEVER mixed yall up probably since your first video. yall are so beautiful inside and out!
The eyebrows look great!
I feel like confidence can't be taught but self taught . You have to want it and do things to build it like the twins said . You can take a horse to the water but you can't make them drink . So love yourself ladies ❤️
Agree, said that perfectly. You can teach people why they should want it or what it is about them that should make them confident but you gotta do it yourself
Being on UA-cam definitely helps you grow tough skin. I've witnessed so much personal growth.
Can ya'll talk about choosing (entrepreneurship) passion over going the (9-5) traditional route? #TwinTalk
+Uneak Tershai I second this request. That would be really nice to hear
Yes!! Please talk about this, would be a great topic
I do not believe that they intended the no make up wearer to equal lazy. I think may have been misconstrued. I don't wear make up, yet I exude confidence. But I also had a family growing up that feed me with kind, loving and uplifting affirmations! I knew very young to take pride in my appearance but more than being pretty I was intelligent. I received more praise for doing well in school than how I looked. I just want to mention something. My friend is an HR manager and had a woman come in for an interview. Her hair was in a sad ponytail, her clothes were wrinkled, she had a run in her stockings and one shoe. She apologized for her appearance because she needed the job. She had to borrow an outfit from someone and snagged her stockings, Then on the way to the interview the heal broke on her shoe, but she needed the job! She came in and did her best. She got the job. She may not have looked her best but she did what she needed to get that opportunity. :)
Tifany Mack that’s a testimony amen
I agree with a lot of this, however, I seldom wear makeup or spend a lot of time on my hair and I don't think that makes me lazy nor do I have low self-esteem as a result of "not putting effort into how I look." As a matter of fact, I put a lot of effort into how I look by going to gym, drinking a lot of water and make healthier food choices. I have never and can't see myself putting down another woman for wearing makeup, however, I personally prefer to use my time in the mornings differently (yoga, affirmations, sleeping later etc.). To say someone is lazy for not seeing the need to do their makeup frequently is as unfair and narrow minded as trying to make another woman feel bad about beating her face as often as she sees fit. I very much like the way I look with or without makeup. I would and have gone to interviews without makeup. True self confidence is loving yourself without conditions or limitation.
I LOVEEEEEE your comment Queen and I absolutely agree!
Thank you!
+Christena Whyte Well said, I totally agree!
Kendra was a preacher in her past life 🙌🏾 girl you are spitting fire yessssssssss
I'm sayingggg, they both took us to church!
+Ebony Godfrey somewhat but Kendra always talks more so she was hitting major points
+Lauren McCallahan I agree
I'm glad you ladies mentioned careers. Most of the time ppl have low self esteem is because of they employment status. The difference between no job, a job you hate and a career that you're great at can change a person.
Kelsey's shirt pretty much sums up all how they feel about the haters lol. I love y'all's advice! Great video once again. I think my confidence comes from God too. I've had a professor try to break my confidence and question my competence. I had to pray off that negativity. It was a hard semester, but I got through it.
Since you guys talked about finding your passion I think it would be cool if you did a video on finding your passion/what you want to do in life. It would be really cool to hear more about your journey to having the career you have now.
Someone once told me "do what makes you feel beautiful." I will never forget that.
"You have to accept yourself, for others to accept you." I'll never forget this 💕
Kendra honey you are coming out of your comfort zone & taking a few pointers from Kelsey and I'm loving it! I love the half up, half down look on you! And the makeup is everything ❤️
Some people at my school and at Walmart of course wear pajamas in public like they aren't motivated and are too lazy to look good. I don't understand how people don't want to look good because I always want to look descent even if I don't feel motivated. Dressing up just for school does make me in a happier mood!
+Jassela347 Maybe they just don't care cuz they are confident and comfortable in their skin and it doesn't matter what ppl say at the end of the day. (the point of this video) At some point in life you learn you can't make everyone happy so you decide to do you, ...whether it's wearing make up, wearing heels to everywhere, going to school/walmart in PJs or whatever. BTW i don't live in a cold country but if I did I would probably do the PJs thing too, comfort over style everyday. lol
Loved this ladies
I am 52 and I needed this talk! Thank you both
Now, I hope they did not mean to say makeup WILL give you self confidence, because for me I don't wear, nor do I want to, or need to wear full makeup, and I have plenty of self confidence. I love watching you-tubers transform with makeup I think the skill and transformation is art. However just because I don't like to wear it, doesn't mean I don't put in effort, I do believe if you look good you feel good, as in combing your hair, grooming, nice clean clothes, and an organized life, can help boost confidence!
THANK YOU. Not wearing makeup doesn't mean you don't put effort into how you look. I don't have to make myself look like a completely different person to feel confident, lol.
+Tiffani Young good thing that's not what they meant
No that's not what they were saying. If you listen to the video, they mentioned as becoming older they've become more confident with themselves as a person more so on the inside, which has really made them love themselves outside as well. As an avid makeup wearer, makeup DOES look good on the outside, and from their perspective it's a passion for them. They're not saying that you should or shouldn't wear makeup, their mainly referring to the ladies who wear makeup, and are ridiculed for wearing it at times. In essence, they're just saying that they love to enhance their natural beauty with makeup to make them feel good, and anything that enhances your natural beauty naturally makes you look good, and feel good. They're saying when you look in that mirror, you should say that you're beautiful. At the end of the day, like you mentioned we should all feel comfortable about ourselves.
tracyonetosee Now you are just reaching because that is not what was said. You just made your own little story here. I believe they said for those who knock down women who wear makeup are the lazy ones but I wouldn't call them lazy, I would just say they're judgmental people. I don't wear makeup. However I make sure my eyebrows look good, I take care of my skin and hair, I dress decent (to what I can afford) and I use proper hygiene and perfumes. Those things make me feel good.
Can you guys next twin talk be about being an entrepreneur, managing, and saving money?💵💵💵
I second this!!
I love these twin talks because at 20 years old and a junior in college I sometimes still struggle with my confidence and self esteem... This came at the right time . Thanx ladies ❤
"Knowing who you are" hit the nail on the head, ding ding ding, BULLSEYE. That is the beginning and the end. When you know you - you will shut down a lot of foolishness. As for makeup I think it completely compliments the natural beauty of a person. I danced for a professional b-ball team never wore makeup. It's just something that never held my attention. I've never had a flawless complexion but it is what it is. With that said, I definitely admire those who choose to wear it. I sweat beads when I workout. I will workout on a whelm. I rather sweat hard and I feel completely free and have a fantastic glow afterwards. i do have skin cleansing routine, but make up is not for me. Beauty is subjective and in the eye of the beholder. Now that I think about it, not one person in my department wears makeup. Birds of a feather. I really enjoyed your knowledge and experience you shared. Definitely worth sharing with the young women I know.
+LaT How Thank you...thats all i'm saying is not everyone need a pile a damn makeup.
You ladies spoke well and as a 48 year old woman who has found herself everything you said is true. I've been insecure when I was younger but as you live and experience life and people you learn what to accept and not accept. I am a makeup addict and my appearance is highly important. I am appearance conscious. It should come when you're older but I know people my age who are very insecure and still seek approval from others. However, I fine if you look inward and do a self evaluation on a regular basis. Ultimately confidence comes with wanting to do better and have better for yourself and when you're in line with that thought there are some things you will not accept. You girls were on point and I agree 100%. I have a 16 year old girl and I will share this video with her so she can see from two young beautiful girls who could be an example to young girls and women all over and just to end when you want to be an example to others then that's a start to self confidence.
I was fortunate to be one of the few teens who didn't have insecurity issues. What helped was that I always stayed grounded. Was never a cocky person & I was loved by my family & my childhood was very active as well. What actually made me start to look at myself & feel like my flaws were 'exposed' so to speak, was my friends who'd sometimes poke fun at how chunky my legs were. & over time, some family members & others from my place of worship made me feel like I was too "fat" for my age. All my friends were very slim & I didn't even realize tbh until ppl started to point out how "huge" my thighs were. I then started to envy how slim they were & not appreciate the nice lil body I had. I felt like ppl would compare my then best friend & I'd always feel uncomfortable standing close to slimmer persons. I say this to say, don't tease people especially youths who are growing into their body & trying to feel comfortable. That also helps with insecurity issues. That's where insecurities can start to form if you never had them before. Now I'm 20 & looking back at old photos, my body was FINE. I was very filled out & a nice butt too which now I'm struggling to get back because I started to go on a diet & now it's almost as if I can't keep weight on.
If anyone knows about low self esteem, being insecure, & lacking confidence. It's ME!! Such a great talk!! Love u both!
I disagree with wearing makeup to feel good about yourself but I do understand the point you were making. I barely wear makeup (only on date nights) and my boyfriend and family always tell me I don't need it. I think you have to be confident with YOURSELF with and without makeup. To me if you need makeup to feel good about yourself, you're still lacking some confidence and self-esteem. I found my confidence once I became more girly. I was a tomboy until I was 17 and decided my senior year that I wanted to be more girly. It took some time to get use the girl stuff but eventually like you said you grow into being confident. Now nobody can tell me nothing. Not even when I blend my eye shadows wrong lol
Yes ladies I agree... working on the inside is very important but I am also a firm believer in if you look good you feel good.
I love Twin talks! You guys should do a topic about Narcissists. Love you guys!
topics: handling cat calls. being encouraged to stay absitnant. And staying encouraged while you're striving/saving to move out and be independent.
Let me tell y'all Drake x Fancy gets me hype every time. Hair done nails done everything did 😂😂 oh you fancy huh HELL YEA I AM!
This video came at the right time. Everyone needs to hear this. xo
+Zaakirah K. yes
Makeup can SOME TIMES be dangerous if a person doesn't already love themselves. I know girls who HATE themselves without makeup, but are the most confident person with it. . . When they should be confident either way !
You guys are right, music is a universal dose of feel good. It's why younger you-tubers inspire older ones. It keep your spirit up and reintroduce your younger self to your older self. Love you girls and we are thankful that you share.
That shirt is very fitting for this video! LOL. Love iiiiit. :)
👋👋👋 hey girl lol
+Stephanie L. Lol Omggggg Im A Sagittarius Too, And I Have The Hoodie That Says Exactly That. I Got It From Forever 21, If You Want To Find It
Nia Jennings
OMG! Hiiii Nia!! Haha
YESSS for the no winged liner!!
I so agree! I love the natural look too!
Me too!!
"when your truly confident, you do not care what others think about you." Kelsey that top has this sentence shown right through the video to remind us that. In 2020 I have wanted to build more confidence in myself and this year(happy new year) I hope to continue and eventually 💯 not caring what all of you think. I thrive to be this way for life
Yea. Most definitely start with yourself. If you don't like what you see, change it. But change for yourself. I Love you glamtwinz!!
Omg, I lovvvvve this. Like when I first started wearing makeup like hard core (I think I was 18), my family hated it. They would say "You don't need that makeup, you're pretty without it." or something of that nature. But honestly, I wasn't where I needed to be confidentially(?) for myself. I was learning to love myself bc I was picked on soooooo much at a young age. First of all, me being fat then my horrible skin complexion and my family talking shit about it. It was so hard for me to believe anything anyone told me. Now I'm 21 and my confidence is like through the roof and like y'all said, I don't need anyone's validation. So anyway, I think these Twin Talk videos are amazing. I just started doing topics videos on my Facebook page and looking at these videos, sort of reminds me of me. It's great to see that there are amazing people in this world that truly wanna uplift people. Anyway, great videos... Great beauty channel as well and I appreciate y'all. Like fr. 💞😚
Wow I really love you guys twin talks this one definitely really helped me I've been trying to boost my confidence ever since my past relationship and I'm getting better at loving myself, I also found things that make me feel better as a woman and love myself again
Kendra has been coming out of her shell more with the hairstyles .. Gorgeous as ever 😍
Can y'all write a book? Please and thank you! Lol☺️😘 love yall!!!!
Right!! this might be random but they should write a book on how to grow hair. The tips they give in their videos help me grow my hair 4 inches so far. Sorry that was random😂😂
+Downtown on 7th Avenue Handbag Adventures what tips helped you grow your hair?
Can you guys do a Twin Talk: STORYTIME :) ? This was awesome! I love you both, and GORG as always!
The less is more look on you guys in this video is LIFE. You both look amazing.
can yall do one about finding personal style? I'm beyond lost and I need to feel like a female again
Thank you for this video because I'm in high school and I always feel unsure of myself but this uplifted my spirit and made me look at it in a different way. 🙌🏾🙂
yall are spreading such wonderful messages to girls/women!!!again i love yall!!
I'm so glad you guys actually said you battled with these issues too when you were younger. I have gotten so much more confident since high school. I am 20 now. Glad to know I wasn't by myself in that. Thank you for sharing!
Yess prayer is EVERYTHING! I always believe that the best gift you can ever give to someone and to yourself is prayer. Great video!
Man playing music is the truth.....forreal therapy! Love the vid as always!
The entire GODDESS album had me feeling like a brand new person! Definitely recommend the song itself and the album.
I needed this girl talk because I am struggling to find myself while in my early 20s and its such a struggle in my regular life such as my relationships, school , and even work. Hopefully I will soon learn to love myself in every way ! Thanks girls ! 💕
Topic Ideas?: Becoming independent / Moving out on your own / Finding Jobs / Apartments / Handling Money. Basically becoming an adult!!! You guys give great insight and encouragement
I love that Tamar Braxton- Catfish song too. It make me feel all that!!
Right 😂
AMEN! Social media magnifies others insecurities even more. You have to be strong and know your worth.
I feel confident without makeup and hair worn natural. I don't like expectation on women's looks. We should be allowed to pick whether or not to wear makeup. You inspire me. Part of my role models list
Yes love this talk its blessing people all over the world Be Blessed ☺🙏🙌
This really helped me because I just started prepping for a bikini competition in July and I was feeling super stressed and down about it. Thank you!!
i must admit i still deal with low self esteem bc i was bullied so bad in elementary and middle school because i was fat/overweight so now i just fake it till i make it. im in highschool and my goal for when i graduate is to have a way higher self-esteem than i do now. im so glad you girls gave us our views on this i needed to hear them! love yall oxoxo!
I enjoyed your twin talk!! You two have very realistic perceptions of what it means to have high self esteem and self respect.
I loved this twin talk. I do all the above. I'm just starting to get into makeup again. It really makes a difference. Outside affects inside and inside affects outside. I'm pretty confident but I have my moments. Mostly when it comes to job interviews.
You young ladies are just lovely. I appreciate your putting positive energy into the world; I have 3 teenaged daughters and you 2 are inspirational!
I really enjoyed this video. It was very motivational and inspiring. Also it helps me understand that there nothing wrong with getting glam up sometimes, and just feeling good about myself. I truly found this video very needed. I would like to see more videos like this, but also maybe about careers, college, etc.
I'm definitely taking mental notes on what you two said.
Even in my late 20s, I'm still working on my confidence and self esteem.
Thanks for the video its always nice to hear advise on this.
I love you ladies you tell it like it is and the advice is helpful and you can tell they practice what they preach and that's why I've been watching you ladies since the beginning.....and your makeup looks amazing as always!
This video came right on time. I was just feeling like crap because of my current weight. I live for you girls' channel and the inspiration it gives me. You guys are my favs for sure!! :)
Amen! I so needed to hear this! Thanks beauty twins!
I like these twin talks! You guys have talked about really great subjects so far. I really appreciate the point about being happy with what you're doing in life, career-wise because that's what I'm going thru right now. In the future, as a suggestion, you guys should try relating personal experiences and what helped y'all to overcome those obstacles. It would've been nice to hear y'all talk about at what point y'all started working in becoming confident. ✨ Love you guys!
🙌🏾 amen preach... Thanks for the encouragement
Great twin talk ladies. I see so many young women who allow their self esteem to be walked on.
My dad helped me be confident from the time I was very young. I love him for that.
I am loving the different hair on both of you. And yes you ladies have grown by leaps & bounds. 👑
Music really does help!! When I go to school and have my favorite song on nothing can stop me
Very Good! Proud of you young ladies! I wish I knew this when I first started college... but like you said, with Age comes Confidence! Keep it up!
You're both so beautiful, but Kels, your hair and makeup is bomb!!!! I love you both and this is a great series for older and younger women!!!
Y'all just look so gorgeous I get distracted by your beauty!! Thanks girls love the advice more than u know thank u!!❤️😍😘💁🏽👍🏾🙌🏾 beautiful as always😍😍
this was so helpful I am about 15years older than you guys but you guys have helped me with my 13 year old and teaching her about haircare and being reaponsible and this video was so on point for today because this morning the scripture I read was about confidence and that is something that I felt that I lost do to life happening and dealing with things I should not have so thank you for this video very inspiring I felt like I have to start from scratch again but I am going back to my makeup and taking better care of me and not just my children...Glamtwinz rock..
I love this. Y'all always exude confidence! I think it's also important to not that sometimes it takes not wearing makeup to feel confident. I got to a place where I realized I felt hideous any time I wasn't wearing makeup and I had to force myself to go out without it on until I felt good about my bare face. I realize now that it was because I wasn't taking care of myself in other ways: eating right, taking time for myself, etc. Now I feel confident to go out bare-face or with makeup and think I can look fly either way! :)
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That was awesome! Y'all should consider doing these twice a month!
I must say that you two have definitely gotten me into makeup and to wanting to upgrade and beautify. I'm a girly girl anyway but you guys have inspired me to really get into makeup and hair, and it has increased my confidence. You guys were the first beauty Vloggers I've ever subscribed to! Love you guys 😘❤️💜
Thank y'all so much for this video! At 26 I thought being insecure was weird because of my age but I've been trying to get better with loving myself more... I will be taking heed t p what y'all said and become better... Thank u ladies and love u both
You ladies ROCK! So much respect for pouring out wisdom and knowledge to help other women! I'm all for encouraging and uplifting our ladies!💯💯💯
Thank y'all so much for this inspirational video. I have been struggling with low self-esteem for while. After viewing this video, I feel like I know the steps to get over this obstacle. Thanks so much, I really appreciate it. keep up the good work
Kelsey. Your shirt! I NEED!
IT GOES WITH THE VIDEO!😩😂😍🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Kelsey's top fits the meaning of confidence. "I don't care at all." is true confidence in terms of how you feel about external validation.
If that's the case, then what do you feel like when all the glitter, make up and gold comes off and you're looking at the real YOU in the mirror?!🤔 Beauty starts from within not the outer layers! Having the correct "beliefs", and good morals, upright character and personality is what makes you beautiful and that will show on the outside.! Beautification only should add to true beauty! Only then will you truly be confident!
Love the confidence playlist! Playing music like this while getting ready sets a good tone for my day!
I truly enjoyed watching you ladies. You exude beauty physically and also inner morality and peace. Continue what you are doing and sharing your pearls of wisdom to others.
I never wore makeup until my 20's but I have to admit when I did start wearing it I felt so much better about myself. It did help with my confidence. Nice talk ladies you two are both beautiful. I am going to let my 13 yr old daughter watch this and hope it helps her out.🙏😉 Thanks.
13, a tough age for girls. I hope it does help her and just by you guiding her to this video is helping. Good luck to you both.
First of all, 2 snaps for the shirt! lol And thank you so much for the video! Very inspiring and dope!
Love this series... Can't wait until the next video!
Great Video !!! I just realized all of this recently and ended my toxic relationship some time ago but was still holding on. I've noticed that women have a great glow when they start loving and respecting themselves.
One thing that really stuck out when they said if you don't put effort into how you appear you are lazy. As a Libra I can understand that comment. Libras are stereotyped for being superficial cause we like things that look good and like to stay looking good. If that means exercising or grooming ourselves. But it is nice to see twin Scorpios who feel the same way. The video is good overall.