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КОМЕНТАРІ • 260

  •  Рік тому +67

    What do you think of my new short form content? Do you want more short form storytimes? 💗

    • @JIMBEAMM
      @JIMBEAMM Рік тому +2

      The shorts are really great Mathilda. Short,sweet and funny!

    • @frankmendieta3857
      @frankmendieta3857 Рік тому +1

      That fool is crazy.... real talk, I'd marry you
      Obviously lol

    • @kaitlynlasota5496
      @kaitlynlasota5496 Рік тому +2

      Yes more pleaae love your stories❤❤

    • @peachbooks3199
      @peachbooks3199 Рік тому

      im loving it!! my short attention span loves it 😂

    • @jj-one2048
      @jj-one2048 9 місяців тому

      you are a boy you had to tell since the hello whatever you meet a man and likes you

  • @rebm7505
    @rebm7505 Рік тому +11

    I'm now looking forward to the day I'm gonna say "the call is coming from inside the house" in the middle of a conversation lmao that was so iconic

  • @BenDoggo-xm8cv
    @BenDoggo-xm8cv 11 місяців тому +16

    One year I went on a school camp and there was a boys and girls cabins. But the awkward thing was the teachers put a trans-girl in one of the boys cabins. The f**k.
    I was chilling on the couch chugging sugar that we stole from the cafeteria as you do on school camp and the trans-girl walked right in front of my door and knocked, then just walked into my room and i was confused asf why a girl was in the boys area, when at the beginning of the camp we were told to stay in the gender designated area so i went and sat on the toilet pretending to take a sh*t out of pure discomfort. My friends p1ss-polted out of the room. I still felt uncomfortable the entire camp after she barged into my room.
    still should've put her in a room in the girls cabins but ok...
    anyways, there is the story of my first encounter with a trans person. No hate to trans people btw, BUT DONT BARGE INTO MY F**KING ROOM ON A SCHOOL CAMP WHILE IM CHUGGING SUGAR! LET ME GET DIABETES IN PEACE

    • @craeshamos9644
      @craeshamos9644 11 місяців тому +1

      rippp. that mustve sucked

    • @BenDoggo-xm8cv
      @BenDoggo-xm8cv 11 місяців тому

      ​@@craeshamos9644i almost had a f**king panic attack worrying it would happen again.

  • @Alucia0
    @Alucia0 11 місяців тому +24

    I've just come out as trans so literally right at the start of my transition. I'm super duper lucky that my partner of 10 years has been nothing short of the most amazing and supportive partner I could have EVER hoped for. He loves me regardless of if I'm a guy or a girl and we even had a laugh together about me making him bisexual by proxy lol I honestly feel like the most lucky girl on the planet to have someone like him with me.

    • @izzyhope58
      @izzyhope58 11 місяців тому

      that is so sweet. and I LOVE the term "Bisexual by proxy" genius.

    • @spylock8816
      @spylock8816 10 місяців тому +3

      She callously toyed with the emotions of a heterosexual man, deceitfully concealing the fact that she was a biological male transitioning to a woman. And now, unbelievably, she has the audacity to label him as transphobic for not accepting her truth and publicly addressing her thoughtless actions? It seems that she and her community demand unwavering acceptance of their own version of reality, yet they lack the basic decency to consider how others perceive the situation. Is it so wrong for someone to prefer heterosexual relationships or to hold their own beliefs regarding the LGBTQ+ community? Apparently, expressing a subjective opinion or maintaining personal ideologies is only acceptable when it aligns with their own narrow-minded viewpoints. The sheer hypocrisy is absolutely appalling!

    • @nestora.4359
      @nestora.4359 10 місяців тому +4

      ​@@spylock8816 She's saying on the video that on the first date the guy was already talking shit about trans people. The dude was the one clingy about seeing her again and probably invited her the second time. Trans people don't go outing themselves to people that seem to be hateful, for the obvious reason that it's dangerous. It was a bad decision to accept the second date, sure... but " callously toyed with the emotions of a heterosexual man" is bs. He played himself for being a simp.
      She also didn't call him a transphobic for the reaction? It's just basic social etiquette not to shout private business in a public place 😭like do you think it's a reasonable thing to do in public?? And... what's the point of making the "heterosexual" distinction? lmao

    • @quinnmallory9025
      @quinnmallory9025 10 місяців тому

      @@spylock8816she had no intention of being with him from the start, it’s not her fault he was attracted to her? there was no deceit, just a man who wanted a women and realized she doesn’t have all the parts he may have wanted (may want kids idk). no one did anything wrong, other than the guy saying slightly weird things but whatever he was trying to flirt, maybe isn’t the best at it, nbd. to have such strong emotion on this i’m going to assume you are trans attracted but are absolutely terrified of it due to the influx of people claiming you would be “gay” in that case (if you’re trans attracted you literal aren’t gay to make it clear)

    • @Alucia0
      @Alucia0 9 місяців тому

      @@spylock8816 This has literally nothing to do with my comment. Go away. Let me have just one moment of actually not hating myself.
      You fail to realize that we are people. I couldn't give a flying fuck about this stupid situation. I just want to be happy FOR ONCE IN MY FUCKING LIFE LEAVEUS THE FUCK ALONE.

  • @orchid_child
    @orchid_child 11 місяців тому +33

    The fact he fell so hard for you only to collapse emotionally upon your revalation speaks volumes of the negative influences dominating his life, and ultimately, how shallow his overt feelings actually were. He did it to himself. I get the distinct feeling his reaction was based on his living environment of social stigma. Not how he felt but what others felt and thought influenced his response. Sad...

    • @Luluthebluemoon
      @Luluthebluemoon 10 місяців тому +8

      He didnt do anything to himself... thats just how most guys are and act mentally.
      Mathilda withheld information about her life and wasnt open. He was convinced she was 100% female and didnt understand. Then she instantly labeled him transphobic and was rather rude to him.... tho maybe he was transphobic?
      Like at the very start Mathilda decided she didnt like him and rather than tell him off, played hard to get. Then even admitted she liked that. That's predatory behavior
      Either way
      Normally dating someone is to start a relationship with that person. Then as time goes on create a family and bare children. Mathilda lacks the ability to bare children with a male. That would be a deal breaker as well, regardless if she was 100% a women.
      I dont understand why the guy is in the wrong tho if he was just wanting to hook up with a 100% woman... you cant force someone to change their sexual preference or gender identity. Dude wanted a relationship with a female. Mathilda is trans... end of story the relationship was never going to work.

    • @bella11110
      @bella11110 9 місяців тому

      ​@@LuluthebluemoonYour "having children" argument is just not it lol, not all cisgender girls want to have children, actually, most girls in recent generations don't, and most couples don't even talk about that matter on the second date, that would be really weird, you wouldn't even know if the other person wants to get married like ever lol; If someone really wants to have children and their parter doesn't, then it's valid for it to be a deal breaker but I find that reason very unlikely to be applicable to this case lol (not to mention not all cisgender women can have children)

    • @davidc9441
      @davidc9441 9 місяців тому +4

      Or hes just a normal guy that wants a real woman - people are so absorbed in their own ideology they lose all tolerance for those with different beliefs and wants. Classic clash of worlds but its arrogant and judgemental to judge him. His sexual preference is biological female and he felt duped.

    • @orchid_child
      @orchid_child 9 місяців тому +3

      @@davidc9441 No, he tells himself he was duped because of a lifetime of fundamentalist social pressure, leading to him being unable to reconcile the fact that he's attracted to a trans woman.

    • @davidc9441
      @davidc9441 9 місяців тому

      @@orchid_child not a ‘lifetime’, actually 5000 years of human history- up until 5 minutes ago when someone decided to tell u all weve had it wrong all this time and your a bigot if you don’t embrace someones gender disphoria to the point of sleeping with them. Theres definitely a group of people who have been indoctrinated but pretty sure its not the ones you think.

  • @daveanderson8776
    @daveanderson8776 10 місяців тому +13

    That is so sad , you are beautiful and seem so lovely he definitely has an issue , people should love others for who they are not for what they want them to be . 😊

    • @spylock8816
      @spylock8816 10 місяців тому +10

      She callously toyed with the emotions of a heterosexual man, deceitfully concealing the fact that she was a biological male transitioning to a woman. And now, unbelievably, she has the audacity to label him as transphobic for not accepting her truth and publicly addressing her thoughtless actions? It seems that she and her community demand unwavering acceptance of their own version of reality, yet they lack the basic decency to consider how others perceive the situation. Is it so wrong for someone to prefer heterosexual relationships or to hold their own beliefs regarding the LGBTQ+ community? Apparently, expressing a subjective opinion or maintaining personal ideologies is only acceptable when it aligns with their own narrow-minded viewpoints. The sheer hypocrisy is absolutely appalling!

  • @craeshamos9644
    @craeshamos9644 11 місяців тому +3

    F in the chat for Mathilda in that coffee shop

  • @TheJungle21
    @TheJungle21 11 місяців тому +5

    That's sad for him, he didn't take his chance. The only thing he held is ' Transgender" . If you didn't say you transitioned i would never knew you were boy before. For me you are a woman and a pretty one for sure, i would really liked to date you but unfortunately i live in France so....Hello from France Mathilda 👋. You are doing great work, stay strong Lady of the North 😅

  • @WillWilsonII
    @WillWilsonII 6 місяців тому

    You're actually one of the reasons I have recently realized it's not a deal breaker after all. A guy could only be so lucky.

  • @josephrapp
    @josephrapp 11 місяців тому +3

    hi.i am mad you had that experience. you deserve so much better.

  • @ibakan
    @ibakan 9 місяців тому

    ugh. sorry you saw him again😢

  • @SlumberBear2k
    @SlumberBear2k 9 місяців тому

    look at those knockers.

  • @MorbidMorticia
    @MorbidMorticia Рік тому +2

    So can we get a video on how smoking 🚬 affects trans people

    • @danielcarlsen9228
      @danielcarlsen9228 Рік тому

      Same as anyone else really.

    • @paristath6773
      @paristath6773 7 місяців тому

      Girl you don’t get a limited edition “smoking consequence” for being trans

  • @TheKally
    @TheKally 8 місяців тому

    Absolutely repulsive behavior of most cis people. I think its much safer to just tell the person beforehand. Or only date friends who know youre trans beforehand. Not because its "to not trick the poor fragile cis person", its their problem, your medical info is not theirs to know. But its just to be safe. Like, what if that guys reaction was anger instead of that? Some people are insane. Its better to be safe than sorry.

  • @21stcenturypeasant5
    @21stcenturypeasant5 6 місяців тому

    I find it really funy how many people in the comment section seem to think that everyone should tell others their gender assigned at birth right after meeting them.
    Why do these mf's belive that it's so important to tell them every single bit about yourself when starting a relationship? Why does one's gender at birth mean so much to them? Are these people afraid of getting into a healthy relationship with someone who passes?
    So many questions, and perhaps thankfully, not much answers...

  • @no.name81
    @no.name81 10 місяців тому

    hon, he was toxic af. ur better w/o him 😭 😭

  • @hellasgirl123
    @hellasgirl123 Рік тому +25

    Why you dont date with transpeople?

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому +5

      Because he's a gay man who wants healthy men, not mutilated men like himself. But of course, when men want healthy women or just actual women, that's a problem for him.

    • @stuff1784
      @stuff1784 Рік тому +7

      I think Mathilda considers herself to be a normal straight woman, but that’s not true.

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому +14

      @@stuff1784 I think he wadles in and out of delusion

    • @miketaylor1349
      @miketaylor1349 Рік тому +14

      @@radubradu He wants healthy men who are straight-identified. He would not date another gay man, I'm sure. That's why the medical transition, the medical transition is an attempt to pass as a straight woman (which has failed, he's pretty much male-looking, still)

    • @MustyUnderboob
      @MustyUnderboob 11 місяців тому +10

      Because he's a homosexual in denial.

  • @ASFHSN.
    @ASFHSN. Рік тому

    You played well

  • @shabang008
    @shabang008 6 місяців тому

    But why would your friends refer to u by your deadname, even if they are talking about u pretransition?? If anyone referred to any of my friends by their deadname on purpouse, I'd be very annoyed/mad

  • @MikoWhackingEi
    @MikoWhackingEi Рік тому +9

    You know how lying would just bring out a miserable outcome, right? You asked it yourself and applied it in action.
    Of course, the guy does deserve several blames, but so do you.

    • @Berndr
      @Berndr 11 місяців тому +5

      That's not lying, why should anyone advertise their sexual status or identity, this type of information is very personal and usually shared at the right moment, I don't see why should she tell her personal secrets to any pervs stalking her, particularly if she never asked for their attention!

    • @MikoWhackingEi
      @MikoWhackingEi 11 місяців тому +2

      @@Berndr It's not about that. It's the fact that she blatantly lied to him for many weeks/months thinking she is a real female.
      You have to keep in mind that not every hetero man would be flaunted by a trans women. Some might be, sure. But many just want honest a honest relationship where they know necessary details of his love interests.

    • @Berndr
      @Berndr 11 місяців тому +4

      @@MikoWhackingEi Were you not listening to what she was saying? She had no intention of dating him, as I am concerned you don't need to open your heart to someone who is stoking you and tell him your secret if you are not interested in him, she clearly stated he was following her and she was not paying him any attention nor leading him on ... what do you mean she was laying for months, she said they only met twice, therefore there was no lying involved just not telling ...

    • @samanthawhang7498
      @samanthawhang7498 11 місяців тому +2

      ⁠@@BerndrMathilda said they were on a date when he said some things that made it seem like he didn’t like trans people. That’s when it went downhill. But instead of being honest, Mathilda just dragged this out. Being trans is not a “wait until the right time” issue. You know damn well it’s a very big deal to most people, which is why so many trans people keep it hidden as long as they feel that they can.
      What if your long lost half sibling went on a date with you and kept it hidden “until the right time”? They could also use the excuse that it’s not your business, or you were attracted to them before, so why should it matter now? And then what if that person made fun of you for freaking out once they told you? It’s not ok to toy with people over things that you know are a very big deal to them. Especially sexual things, which is such a vulnerable thing for people.

    • @sugiu-zumonfrini
      @sugiu-zumonfrini 6 місяців тому

      ​​@@samanthawhang7498yeah tell the trasphobic dude you're trans the first chance you got, nothing extremely dangerous is possibly going to happen
      🤦‍♀️

  • @stasacab
    @stasacab 11 місяців тому

    Christ, that was awful!

  • @jamesomeara2329
    @jamesomeara2329 10 місяців тому

    Finding a trans woman attractive is kind of a new thing to me. But being a US citizen, I would suggest always being careful if you ever come to the States. For better or worse, a cross section of my fellow citizens could become a threat. Always try to be safe wherever you go..

  • @radovanranisavljev8115
    @radovanranisavljev8115 Рік тому

    I am just send regards.. :)
    How are you Mathilda?
    You ok girl? :)

  • @Fedko3037
    @Fedko3037 11 місяців тому +6

    Just tell a guy before you go out with him. Telling after 1st date isn’t right and it’s not going to change his mind. It’s a hard yes or no.

    • @radiocorrective
      @radiocorrective 8 місяців тому

      She doesn't tell the person that she's trans immediately for her own safety. After a vibe-check, it's either that they'll know or she doesn't go on a date with them ever again like with the guy in the video. At least thats what I've discerned.

  • @julianhermanubis6800
    @julianhermanubis6800 11 місяців тому +3

    I am in a committed relationship, so I am definitely not looking to date anyone else right now. However, I would not have a problem dating someone like yourself. I am attracted to traditionally female characteristics, but you would be indistinguishable to me from a person who was biologically female rather than transitioned female. I am not attracted to traditional male characteristics at all, but you present as female (to me anyway). So, I would not be crying on the date...unless I was very unlucky and broke my ankle or something like that.

  • @wemustbecomemachines2012
    @wemustbecomemachines2012 Рік тому +13

    sorry that had to happen to you in public...next time tell the guy before the 2nd date

  • @radubradu
    @radubradu Рік тому +26

    First of all, you put yourself in a very risky situation by lying to this guy, he could have attacked you. People are still extremely homophobic, like, look at you, you hate gays so much you decided mutilation was better than being one. So you and that guy actually have a lot in common. You also display heterophobia here, as you don't want to allow straight people the right to not be attracted to the same sex. That guy has every right to be attracted to women, and you decided to make him a fool in your validation game. Obviously, you should not be subjected to violence for lying and playing stupid mind games, but you of all men should know how violent men can be. So why not just tell them before going on a date? Is really having your disguise as a woman be validated worrh the risk of assault?

    • @DarkSkyNoir
      @DarkSkyNoir Рік тому +11

      Because he thinks he can get away with it by pretending to be a woman and tricking/fooling men. It’s a bit narcissistic. No sympathies for him.

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому +1

      @@DarkSkyNoir Yep, just like anorexics get a kick from hearing people tell them they are thin, so men like him get a high when people lie to them that they "pass". Which, I guess sure, whatever gets him a hard on (or used to , as he has now amputated his penis), but he should not drag other people into this.

    • @Aurora146
      @Aurora146 Рік тому +8

      Wtf does it have to do with being gay. Some trans women are lesbian others are bi or straight.

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому +2

      @@Aurora146 Most homosexuals "transition" aka mutilate themselves in order to escape the stigma of being gay. "Transwomen" or men with identity issues are men. No such thing as a lesbian man. Trying to force lesbians to have sex with a man is homophobia level 1000.

    • @DarkSkyNoir
      @DarkSkyNoir Рік тому +6

      @@Aurora146 being gay is being attracted to the same sex. So in this case, this male is in a relationship with another male so they are gay. It doesn't matter if a male wears all the stereotypes of a woman, he will always be a male which aligns with gay.

  • @TwilightDawn193
    @TwilightDawn193 11 місяців тому +10

    It's so hilarious how he was so into you and then, after learning that you're trans didn't want to have anything to do with you lmao

    • @spylock8816
      @spylock8816 10 місяців тому +14

      She callously toyed with the emotions of a heterosexual man, deceitfully concealing the fact that she was a biological male transitioning to a woman. And now, unbelievably, she has the audacity to label him as transphobic for not accepting her truth and publicly addressing her thoughtless actions? It seems that she and her community demand unwavering acceptance of their own version of reality, yet they lack the basic decency to consider how others perceive the situation. Is it so wrong for someone to prefer heterosexual relationships or to hold their own beliefs regarding the LGBTQ+ community? Apparently, expressing a subjective opinion or maintaining personal ideologies is only acceptable when it aligns with their own narrow-minded viewpoints. The sheer hypocrisy is absolutely appalling!

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому +7

      ​@spylock8816 100% agreed well said

  • @pharrella_de_Vil
    @pharrella_de_Vil Рік тому +2

    You were digging the stalker vibe? 🚩

  • @sgflicker
    @sgflicker Рік тому +86

    I kind of feel sorry for this guy. If he wasn’t so transphobic then maybe he wouldn’t have embarrassed himself and probably hurt as well. I’m sure he has other issues as well so it’s good he’s gone.

    • @Auggies1956
      @Auggies1956 Рік тому +29

      Scott, maybe just maybe he's is looking for starting a family with a woman who can conceive? Before you lose your mind here I'm a trans ali, OK?

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому +9

      @@Auggies1956 okay so I just got done listening to the whole story, he honestly sounds like a creep? Like yeah she should not have entertained his weird behavior but she was naive and stupid (because ya know trans people are desperate for love and affection and never really get it so we accept anything that comes our way even if it's creepy and possibly toxic) but even if she was cis, she should not have entertained him, everything he was doing to her (trans or not lol) was weird and stalkerish and controlling and creepy. He's a red flag not her just saying.

    • @Auggies1956
      @Auggies1956 Рік тому +9

      @@liasplace4607 OK Lia's maybe his behavior was brought on by the revelation she wasn't? The point is to tell a guy who you are before you go out with him. I have seen the statistics, and read the stories about the assaults and murders, that occur under these circumstances. Please, ladies, the possible chance of losing your life involving yourself in this is not worth it. You are worth more than that.

    • @JIMBEAMM
      @JIMBEAMM Рік тому +14

      I don’t think he was a creep,I think he liked her. You can’t call everyone a creep just because of their views. A little internalised homophobia mixed with the feelings and attraction for the very thing he claimed to hate and viola! Disaster!

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому +9

      @@Auggies1956 lmao he was acting weird b4 she told him. Did you not listen to the story????

  • @sme5926
    @sme5926 11 місяців тому +1

    🤢

  • @DiscoverWkate
    @DiscoverWkate 10 місяців тому +1

    So ur a girl, but u wanna turn into a boy? Oh!

    • @bottomgayminguwu
      @bottomgayminguwu 10 місяців тому +2

      I think this just proves transphobes have no idea what they are talking about 😂

  • @100WaysTo...
    @100WaysTo... Рік тому +13

    Honestly, you would have to find a bi girl or a gay guy

    • @ChloeASMR91
      @ChloeASMR91 Рік тому +2

      gay men are not interested in trans feminine women because shes not a man

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому

      Gay men are not attracted to Mathilda because he looks like a woman. Straight men are attracted to him until they find out he is a man, which is usually a very short trip. In being captured by gender ideology, Mathilda has not only severely mutilated himself, he has also drasticlly reduced his dating pool. That's why you don't join cults, kids.

  • @mathildehb0076
    @mathildehb0076 Рік тому

    Such men should not even be on the dating market

  • @luxtenebrisregina2927
    @luxtenebrisregina2927 Рік тому +40

    You dodged a bullet Mathilda, however i would advise you to always play it safe and always tell them that you're trans beforehand because you never know what type of guy he's going to be you might end up with a psycho, me being scared of men 😅 in general i always tell them i'm trans at the very beginning of the conversation, it saves me a lot of time and hassle as well .

    • @DjjdjNxnxn-hd5nh
      @DjjdjNxnxn-hd5nh Рік тому

      So are you a biological women telling someone your a man to see if there gay are not that weird

    • @moccalou
      @moccalou 10 місяців тому

      ​@@DjjdjNxnxn-hd5nhI feel like certain trans allies are soooo on board with the "trans men are men and trans women are women" mantra that they expect heterosexual people to be perfectly comfortable dating someone who was biologically born the same gender as them especially if they can't tell the difference before they knew.

  • @aslansgirl9014
    @aslansgirl9014 Рік тому +47

    That’s just wrong to not tell dates you are trans. So wrong and deceptive.

    • @mshoney9301
      @mshoney9301 11 місяців тому +7

      This video is about her telling a date she's trans? lol

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@mshoney9301after many months 💀

    • @mshoney9301
      @mshoney9301 10 місяців тому +7

      @@platonic-zq5ys On the 2nd date ☠

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому +4

      @@mshoney9301 mb it was the second date

    • @Sickgurl7
      @Sickgurl7 9 місяців тому +2

      0:18

  • @saikelly2475
    @saikelly2475 Рік тому +5

    I am suffering from gender dysphoria a lot
    Soo much depressed
    What should I do
    Please tell me
    I can't able to hold this pain
    Please

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому +1

      Seek out a gender specialist who is extremely well qualified in the field planned parenthood will also help you get on hormones, but I highly urge you do everything you can to reach out to someone who is specialized in treating gender dysphoria do research lots of research b4 you do anything hope this helps ❤💕

    • @saikelly2475
      @saikelly2475 Рік тому +1

      @@liasplace4607 but no such person available near me 😢😢😢
      And no money
      If i get some money also
      There's no such person to treat here
      What can I do?
      Please tell me
      Or is there's any way that I can be a real woman
      Please

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому

      try to accept your body and don't mutilate it, it is the only body you will ever get

    • @queenlion7782
      @queenlion7782 10 місяців тому

      Umm i dont know if this will help but its possible the issue isnt all gender if your struggling with depression maybe talk to Jesus thats what i did and he rescued me. I have loved Jesus ever since❤

  • @FreeTaurus1
    @FreeTaurus1 Рік тому +22

    My sexologist when i consulted for my transition actually warned me about how some people will also used you as a kink-toy rather than treating you like an actual HUMAN BEING and omg she was so right. I've met a girl not long after and it was the most ghosting/waste of time i ever experienced with someone. I should have listen to that warning but no , dumb me wanted to date because i feel so lonely lol. Stay safe folks especially with dating. If you have any ''red flags'' feeling about someone , get the f out of here and fast. Listen to your intuitions because it can save you from a bad experience ,trauma and wasting your time with someone that is not good for you.

    • @emmyjewelv8505
      @emmyjewelv8505 10 місяців тому

      I love You You don’t deserve that

  • @ceegee8306
    @ceegee8306 11 місяців тому +3

    You should’ve been more honest from the beginning…well deserved 🙄

  • @alikamaisuradze6029
    @alikamaisuradze6029 Рік тому

    👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘💘👄👄👄👄👄👄👄👄👄👄👄👄😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

  • @charlesomarwood2246
    @charlesomarwood2246 Рік тому +21

    Happy Pride Month, Mathilda!

  • @AliceJoy78
    @AliceJoy78 Рік тому +19

    I truly hate people like that. They think they're "it" and if they see something in you that doesnt fit their "standards" you're the monster. I pity their ignorance and I'm glad you dodged the bullet with this person.

    • @JOKER-ek7og
      @JOKER-ek7og Рік тому +11

      If you meet a person know him/her first before you go on date.

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому +10

      Did you notice the red flags with this guy also!??! Even if she was cis she should have stayed away from him anyway what a creep he was!!!

    • @ericfreshcorn3590
      @ericfreshcorn3590 Рік тому +1

      I Would Love And Respect You No Matter If Your A Trans Gender Woman

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Рік тому +3

      How dare he not gargle on his Shenis immediately. What a phobez 👰🏻‍♂️

    • @antonborgar5368
      @antonborgar5368 Рік тому +4

      @@WakandaleezaRazz transphobes try not to obsess over trans peoples genitals challenge (impossible)(gone wild)

  • @zolite7213
    @zolite7213 Рік тому +6

    she said "shh shut the FUCK up" 😭 i died

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому

      why did he say that, though? I thought he was proud of being a "trans woman"

    • @zolite7213
      @zolite7213 Рік тому +1

      @@radubradu sure but its weird as fuck to go "HEY YOURE A MAN!?" out loud in public for all to hear. its embarrassing.

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@zolite7213the guy was shocked so who can blame him? He was leading him on for months I would probably have the same reaction tbh

  • @Lauren.j.m
    @Lauren.j.m Рік тому +4

    I'm so sorry, and I know it's no laughing matter but I almost choked on my coffee when you said "the call is coming from inside the house".

  • @jackpayne6490
    @jackpayne6490 Рік тому +10

    Your videos are always amazing always do what makes you happy.

  • @laurasnow7822
    @laurasnow7822 Рік тому

    Iconic

  • @ChiaraLouu
    @ChiaraLouu Рік тому +8

    Girl you deserved better! ❤

  • @marti7343
    @marti7343 Рік тому +5

    Great story! Mathilda, you am amazin! I probably do not need to tell you this, be careful. ❤

  • @ke6197
    @ke6197 Рік тому +4

    His loss

    • @ChloeASMR91
      @ChloeASMR91 Рік тому +3

      i agree he missed out on a beautiful woman and i thought that was uncalled for outing her in public like that he had no right to do that without her permission so embarrassing

    • @chefssaltybawlz
      @chefssaltybawlz Рік тому +5

      @@ChloeASMR91Yes he did. He didn’t consent to a date with a dude.

    • @ChloeASMR91
      @ChloeASMR91 Рік тому +1

      @@chefssaltybawlz sh*t up just because you secretly fancy her you dont want to say you do because of society's transphobia

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому

      ​@@ChloeASMR91where did u get the idea that he wanted her 💀 💀 honestly the shit you ppl come with is so fucking funny 😂

  • @lorenakademar5267
    @lorenakademar5267 Рік тому

    Shit happens!

  • @jaroncampbell4ever568
    @jaroncampbell4ever568 Рік тому +9

    He didn't deserve you anyway. You are perfect

    • @canismkit666
      @canismkit666 Рік тому +14

      It's a dude bro.

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому

      Minus functioning genitalia. Othwerwise yeah, he's perfect.

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому +1

      He didn't deserve to be lied to by this lady wannabe ❤

    • @21stcenturypeasant5
      @21stcenturypeasant5 6 місяців тому

      @@platonic-zq5ys Lied to?
      What point was that when she lied to him?
      It's an interesting moral dilemma tho, honesty is the basis for any stable relationships, but for one, she did not even think of starting a relationship with him. Nor did she behave as such...
      Are trans people obliged to tell anyone their biological sex assigned at birth tho? Especially after all the strugles of HRT, surgeries and such. I don't think there is a need for it to be said. It doesn't matter truly.

  • @austere_kore
    @austere_kore Рік тому +6

    You shouldn't have told him that you're trans. You shouldn't have met him as well. He sounded dangerous. I am glad that you didn't get hit.

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому +4

      Omg thank you im screaming this right now trans or not he creepy af she dodged a bullet

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Рік тому +3

      As dangerous as being deceived by a man? He deserved catching all the hands for that grape attempt 👰🏻‍♂️😂

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому

      Ikr so glad the guy dodged this lady ❤

  • @christianciv1998
    @christianciv1998 Рік тому +1

    "Haha 😂 what a story Mathilda"
    -Tommy Wiseau 😊

    •  Рік тому +1

      Thanks mark

    • @lithellylbeleth4426
      @lithellylbeleth4426 Рік тому

      so how's your sex life?

    • @christianciv1998
      @christianciv1998 Рік тому +1

      ​@@lithellylbeleth4426 I cannot tell you it's confidential

  • @gambareonichan411
    @gambareonichan411 Рік тому +2

    finally
    new video

  • @D.PielTransparente
    @D.PielTransparente Рік тому +9

    His loss., good thing he’s gone, it wasn’t meant for u. you deserved better and u did find a good man that loves u and accepts u for who u are. Make a video what Christian’s family said or think about you when they found out u are a T-girl.

    • @radubradu
      @radubradu Рік тому

      How is that his loss? He is not attracted to men, why would he date a man that looks like a woman? Straight men deserve a healthy sex life, and Mathilda not only does not have a vagina, he is suffering from complications after his mutilation. Also most men want to be able to start a family and two men cannot procreate. The only thing that guy lost ws his time until he discovered Mathild was lying to him.

  • @ChloeASMR91
    @ChloeASMR91 Рік тому +2

    im trans and wow well his loss because you are a beautiful woman anybody be lucky to be with you

  • @livelaughlove436
    @livelaughlove436 Рік тому +1

    She's pretty

  • @jennifergennifer5348
    @jennifergennifer5348 Рік тому +4

    If somebody that I would be talking to would go ''ARE YOU A GUY'' out loud to the whole coffee shop I would literally throw them through the window.

    • @bobbidavis2607
      @bobbidavis2607 Рік тому +1

      All ways the lady ❤😂

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Рік тому +7

      Of course you would, very masculine 👰🏻‍♂️

    • @jennifergennifer5348
      @jennifergennifer5348 Рік тому +1

      @@WakandaleezaRazz If one joke makes me so masculine than masculine cis woman are actually men. Because I know cis woman who are 5 times more masculine than me. I don't have to be a bloody princess just because I'm a Woman mate.

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Рік тому +1

      @@jennifergennifer5348 Sorry I don’t speak to pita fillers Jonathan

    • @jennifergennifer5348
      @jennifergennifer5348 Рік тому +2

      @@WakandaleezaRazz You realise that you are not making any sense, right ?

  • @sooperdoperwooper976
    @sooperdoperwooper976 Рік тому +2

    Happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🌈⚧️🥳

  • @ericfreshcorn3590
    @ericfreshcorn3590 Рік тому +3

    To Me Ir Dosent Matter If Your Trans I Will Treat a trans woman with the Upmost Love A Respect i,m single and looking

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому

      That's funny I wish it were believable tho lol I've had said to me so many times as a trans woman lol but they always turned out to just be chasers with lots of mental issues lol like, OK ERIC. 🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣

    • @ericfreshcorn3590
      @ericfreshcorn3590 Рік тому

      @@liasplace4607 I Mean Every word i,m not a chaser And I,m Mentally fine Are You Interested

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому

      @@ericfreshcorn3590 interested in what lol

    • @ericfreshcorn3590
      @ericfreshcorn3590 Рік тому

      @@liasplace4607 Dating Me

    • @liasplace4607
      @liasplace4607 Рік тому

      @@ericfreshcorn3590 your just some random profile on UA-cam

  • @ericathompsen8110
    @ericathompsen8110 Рік тому +1

    Epic video ❤️👍

  • @lukusblack6442
    @lukusblack6442 Рік тому +5

    Cringe, but funny. And I get the whole stalker vibe thing. Been there, regretted,... eventually. lol
    I'll never get the post "I'm trans" freakout. You two were getting along fine till now. Your date did not grow a new body part in the last five seconds. Chill.🤣

    •  Рік тому +5

      The funny thing is that I didn’t even like him lol 😭

    • @carlgrove8793
      @carlgrove8793 Рік тому +3

      @ That's just as well! He sounds like a rather disturbed young man regardless of his feelings about trans girls.

    • @WakandaleezaRazz
      @WakandaleezaRazz Рік тому +4

      He isn’t into dudes. How dare he not slurp ya lady meat sheesh

  • @friedmule5403
    @friedmule5403 Рік тому +3

    Please forgive me if this comment crosses some line, but I am a male and 100% straight, I have never felt anything for any guy or even been able to determine if a guy is considered hot or not.
    I think your transition is so amazing that my brain is only seeing a total BABE! There is no "male uncanny valley" vibe at all:-)

  • @lithellylbeleth4426
    @lithellylbeleth4426 Рік тому +3

    I'll tell you one thing
    you definitely don't look like a Marcus

  • @ThatDespairGirl
    @ThatDespairGirl Рік тому +1

    Those kinds of people are so embarrassing

  • @sidneylewis5549
    @sidneylewis5549 Рік тому +3

    The guy was a jerk. Trans or non trans, you deserve respect. He will blame you for his emotional attachment to you. You are hot! Very beautiful. The connection has to elipse the physical attraction. I adore you and everything about you. I love your energy, your class, and your style. You have a perfect personality. I personally would not date a transwoman. That does not mean she couldn't be a major important part of my life. There was so much swelling in his little head that his big head was clueless. So my question: did he like you or what he thought he could get from you?

    • @aslansgirl9014
      @aslansgirl9014 Рік тому +12

      And her date deserved honesty and truth from day one as to who he was dating. This is so messed up.

    • @Breezybeef
      @Breezybeef Рік тому

      @@aslansgirl9014just ignore these trans people. They are ignorant and think they’re always right

  • @ramoszz
    @ramoszz Рік тому +4

    Hi Mathilda, I suggest to delete this video as people will try to bully with your dead name
    Transphobes are just so much hateful stay safe girl

  • @lukemitchell1975
    @lukemitchell1975 Рік тому +3

    Just wait for some one special. Your amazing and beautiful ❤

  • @liasplace4607
    @liasplace4607 Рік тому +4

    Putting this here so everyone stops defending him and attacking her so yall start thinking critically... so I just got done listening to the whole story, he honestly sounds like a creep? Like yeah she should not have entertained his weird behavior but she was naive and stupid (because ya know trans people are desperate for love and affection and never really get it so we accept anything that comes our way even if it's creepy and possibly toxic) but even if she was cis, she should not have entertained him, everything he was doing to her (trans or not lol) was weird and stalkerish and controlling and creepy. He's a red flag not her just saying.

  • @williamhopkins4162
    @williamhopkins4162 Рік тому

    He should reconsider real women act like they are doing you
    A favor but trans. Wear pretty clothes and my heels painted toes!!

  • @ell.100
    @ell.100 Рік тому +3

    Dodged a bullet!

    • @canismkit666
      @canismkit666 Рік тому +3

      You're right, that guy totally dodged a bullet.

    • @PatricenotPatrick
      @PatricenotPatrick Рік тому +3

      He dodged a date with a man he didn’t consent to

    • @platonic-zq5ys
      @platonic-zq5ys 10 місяців тому +2

      Honestly happy for the guy he dodged this lady wannabe

  • @stevemarquette6692
    @stevemarquette6692 Рік тому

    hellow matilda,first off i would like to tell you that i think that you are a wonderfully attractive and charming young lady,i especially love yur accent,i am always a sucker for a accent,,,,my mother is from sweden so i have a certain affinity for all thind=gs swedish,,my grandparents immigrated from malmo ,,,,,,,i am a lifelong cross-dresser,who has never had the guts to completly transition,i guess i would refer to myself as a stealth transgender women,i am from chicago so if you are ever in the states and get through chicago i would love to show you and yur boyfriend around.i love all yur videos you have a charming way about you and you have the ability to infuse humor into yur videos even when it is a serious subject,so keep up the great work,,,,,with love stephanie from chicago!!!!

  • @jasonsween1648
    @jasonsween1648 Рік тому

    Wish I could be in a relationship with her

  • @javir1669
    @javir1669 Рік тому +1

    And your boyfriend? 🤨

    •  Рік тому +8

      I wasn’t born with him by my side. I had a life before ❤️

  • @emmaroyce8558
    @emmaroyce8558 Рік тому

    THANK YOU MY PROUDLY IS ME A TRANS WOMAN WITH LOVE YOU FROM EMMA ROYCE

  • @williamhopkins4162
    @williamhopkins4162 Рік тому

    He thought you were playing HARD TO GET!! I WOULD DATE A TRANS BUT YOU WON'T GET KISSED MIGHT HUG BUT TO ME YOU ARE A IT,
    BUT NOT TO WORRY , I STILL CARE FOR YOU, MAYA HENRY IS THE QUEEN OF TRANS GIRL!! BUT ID DATE HER SISTER WHO CAN MAKE
    A BABY!! BUT I AM NOT GOING TO.TORONTO!! IF LEFT THIS COUNTRY, IT WOULD PROBABLY BE DUBAI WERE EMILY LINGE(A)
    LIVES !! BUT I WILL WAIT TO SEE WHO SEE WHO SHOWS UP IN
    SEPTEMBER FOR MY BIRTHDAY!!

  • @hanzohasashi7261
    @hanzohasashi7261 Рік тому

    Omg, you beautiful, 100% girl voice 😮❤️

  • @trb742
    @trb742 Рік тому +1

    Those are some major red flags. You dodged a bullet there.

  • @liamodonovan6610
    @liamodonovan6610 Рік тому +3

    Matilda you are an amazing woman he was obsessed with you he did not deserve your attention you are beautiful inside and you are a bigger and better than dumbass like him love you so much matilda you didn't need that negativity in life

  • @kittty2005
    @kittty2005 Рік тому

    Well your short form content is better than most, but wanted to say sometimes you have to wack a jackass in the head with a 2x4 to get his attention, you did a good job of it.

  • @deluxe3708
    @deluxe3708 Рік тому +1

    Happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️❤