When do you leave your partner? | Tim Ross on dating, abuse, & relationships | The Basement Podcast

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  • @knxje
    @knxje Рік тому +30

    I’m 21, OD’d 7 times at 18 and recently been baptized and found this show. I love you so much, more than you know.

    • @thejazzylife1180
      @thejazzylife1180 Рік тому +2

      The fact that you’re only 21 and deciding to make a change is crucial. It never to late to change unless God decides your time is up. Some people don’t come to your realization until they are much older and the damage is done. Please don’t ruin your life Jesus has so much more for you! I’m 22 and I don’t want that story when I have the chance to change now before my poor decisions affect my future marriage and future children.

    • @hollywood3353
      @hollywood3353 8 місяців тому

      Goodluck man..I've been in recovery for going on 10yrs..its a battle but God had to sit me down in prison and lose everything to find him. Good for you! Follow him with faith and he WILL show you a new way of life. Stay strong and make sure you do the steps, but also 1 on 1 therapy to get the necessary things out you need to! God bless.

    • @hollywood3353
      @hollywood3353 8 місяців тому

      I'm 37 and just found him again almost 8 years ago. Doing it at your age is amazing..I've seen death personally and lost many friends an school mates to addiction. Proud of you brother! He's been with you the whole time waiting on you to find him, or wouldn't of saved you from the 7 overdoses!

    • @hollywood3353
      @hollywood3353 8 місяців тому

      He's on Micheal Todd's church also..called Transformation Church..check it out on here. It's helped me solve so many issues through God's word..❤🎉

  • @Hectoralejandroguerrero
    @Hectoralejandroguerrero Рік тому +108

    I got really sick y'all- hence why you see me slowly deteriorate through out the pod. Thank you for your prayers!!!

  • @thandekav3
    @thandekav3 Рік тому +41

    Being in South Africa we always watch the podcast alot later but it still hits the same. Siyabonga Pastor Tim.

  • @alaineglover4284
    @alaineglover4284 Рік тому +35

    A good book I have read that has helped to recognize narcissistic leadership is When Narcissism Comes to Church

    • @leethehumble9871
      @leethehumble9871 Рік тому +2

      My book just came in a few days ago. I can't wait to read it. Is it good?

    • @dianaflower940
      @dianaflower940 Рік тому +1

      This book helped me too!!! It’s really a good book 😊

    • @alaineglover4284
      @alaineglover4284 Рік тому

      @@leethehumble9871 yes it is a really good read.

    • @amandaecheona1457
      @amandaecheona1457 Рік тому +2

      His guest Jenna mountain spoke of this

  • @ashleyoliver6989
    @ashleyoliver6989 Рік тому +9

    I want to agree with Tim on the way God does bless us with the gift of speaking in tongues. I remember being baptized (born again) and everyone receiving their gift (of speaking in tongues) BUT me! I remember being sad and when I got home while praying at around 4am, JUST like Tim described, I began to speak in a language I could not understand! I knew it was not me and I knew I could not understand it, but it just flowed out of my mouth. It was with such ease and there was a certainty within me that God had just blessed me with such a beautiful gift. I was so happy that morning! My God just drew in a little closer that morning. I was so thankful! I cried and cried tears of JOY! That happened at 17 years old for me and I am 35 years old now and I just love to trust God and flow in the Spirit. I'd say to anyone wanting to receive the gift; it won't make sense... trust God and let it flow! It may never sound like anything you have ever heard or will hear. Never stop being hungry to receive all of God's gifts! God can do it!

  • @tealiciaharbin7515
    @tealiciaharbin7515 Рік тому +11

    Just curious Tim...
    1st. Thank all of you for your obedience, time and energy that yall put into this podcast. It gives me a healthy perspective on living life the correct way.
    Tim, what causes your abandonment issues being that you had a great healthy upbringing. Thank you in advance and God continue to bless yal life!

  • @loriturnbull3356
    @loriturnbull3356 Рік тому +7

    I liked where you talked about the egg. And vulnerability being your superpower. Recently after watching an online sermon the Holy Spirit revealed something that blew me away. He showed me a family pattern that has affected my current behavior. As I processed it with Him, He continued to show me more about something I've been working on. And how they are related.🤯
    This experience came to mind as you talked about doing your own work. As I do my own work, I'm changing. I can't do other people's work. Thanks for that reminder!
    I also enjoy the YT live-s.❤

    • @catrinaa4315
      @catrinaa4315 Рік тому +1

      Funny u mentioned this. As the Lord has been also highlighting the details of family cycles as well for me. Encouraging. I'm right where I'm supposed to be. Thanks for sharing. He's Worthy!!

  • @j98253
    @j98253 Рік тому +2

    Tim I love how real you are in your walk with life and helping so many people. Real deal I was nervous to watch this time but God would not let me stop listening to the very end. When, you shared about your first 24 months and helping that married couple it just resinated with me and helped me in my healing process of the last 5 years. My name is Johanna and if you see this please pray for me and my husband in our restoration of our marriage I would appreciate it so much.

  • @CAVILA19
    @CAVILA19 Рік тому +5

    I can’t wait to see you guys in MIAMI!!
    VousCon is my birthday trip🎉. To be able to attend to a live recording is just 🤯.

  • @desireejohnson-flemister9947
    @desireejohnson-flemister9947 Рік тому +8

    Can you guys do this every Monday? I love that you guys want to reach people live and I would love to ask questions too , appreciate all the advice and faithfully wait for the premieres of your pod lol signed a faithful basementer

  • @racheld4766
    @racheld4766 Рік тому +5

    I have watched pretty much all of your podcasts but this one 😢. I feel like God spoke to you because he knew what I was gonna pray and cry to Him about tonight before watching this podcast. Thank you for listening to Him 🙏🏾

  • @yolandahart552
    @yolandahart552 Рік тому +8

    I’m watching the replay and loving it!!

  • @AmarisLW
    @AmarisLW Рік тому +10

    HECTOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Missed your laugh my friend. 🥺. Hope you feel better!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏 Loved the live!!! I got a few questions answered thru other people. Blessings!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @kangruckus5939
    @kangruckus5939 Рік тому +4

    “The sensitivity of vulnerability in fragility”
    -Tim Ross
    Bars

  • @quintonque1040
    @quintonque1040 Рік тому +3

    This is the "Discussion" I needed to stay in tune for, because what was mentioned in 45-50min is how and what i needed to hear based on a past experience. As adults we supposed to speak through things not hide and run.

  • @kimfatica2228
    @kimfatica2228 Рік тому +3

    I just stumbled on to this after spending several hours watching UA-cam videos of Tim and Preston. I didn't realize my notifications were off.😢 I won't miss another live chat if I can help it! ❤

  • @quintonque1040
    @quintonque1040 Рік тому +4

    @TheBasement Put out as many Podcast's ill speak for myself and can say I can listen to what you saying 24/7 because its eye opening, in ways one needs to be self aware of who i am and who is around me.

  • @ambe_ezy
    @ambe_ezy Рік тому +5

    I missed the live because I was watching old episodes 😒 lol but definitely a good surprise for this gloomy Monday in Cali

  • @emanipettiford868
    @emanipettiford868 Рік тому +1

    I love how God allows you communicate in the spirit because you spoke in tongues was natural and I could tell it was genuine

  • @Yaya_P
    @Yaya_P Рік тому +1

    “Oh.. go straight to the justice of peace, what the problem is”
    iiiiiii hooolllllaaaawwddddd 😂🤣😂🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Favorite thing to listen to while I telework

  • @Dems967
    @Dems967 Рік тому +3

    It’s the Pod on Monday for me!Come through Unc Tim!

  • @mwoods22
    @mwoods22 Рік тому +2

    My friend told me her church "taught' her to speak in tongues...like they had a class on it...and that all the churches she grew up in were like that. My brain thought...*I didn't know that was TAUGHT, I thought that was something that just happened and God dropped it on you*...Make it make sense Tim....

  • @tabithajohn8254
    @tabithajohn8254 Рік тому +2

    I’m so glad that you even think about us 😫❤️this suprise blessed me a lot 🙏

  • @jordandandy4767
    @jordandandy4767 Рік тому +3

    3 EPISODE IS CRAZYYYY🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @yvngapollo7234
    @yvngapollo7234 Рік тому +3

    She coming in Honda, she coming in a Honda, she coming in a Honda.🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 9 місяців тому

    This is the only podcast that I listen & enjoy to the intro shoutouts🤣. Blessings Basement

  • @Mrhenry_fit
    @Mrhenry_fit Рік тому +6

    We need a financial podcast!!

  • @noahholden1750
    @noahholden1750 Рік тому +1

    “God ain’t petty.” 😮‍💨🔥

  • @Nichole4Hope
    @Nichole4Hope Рік тому +1

    Do this again PLEASSSEEE!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I was working and did not know. If I did, it would’ve been on my calendar FOR SURE. 💯💯💯 Sending ❤from sunny Florida.

  • @aramideabosede4082
    @aramideabosede4082 Рік тому +5

    You guys got me on this one. This came as a huge surprise to me 'cos I receive y'all content in Nigeria on Wednesday and on Friday. So seeing this post was a shock and a beautiful surprise as well. I was like is this a episode I missed or what's going on. Then I saw that this was posted a few hours ago. Thanks for the surprise,Tim. Shout out to Juli, Hector, Sammie, Love you guys💕

  • @alejandralandry1820
    @alejandralandry1820 Рік тому

    I watch the pods in my car, so it takes me till the next Tuesday to be caught up 😂 but it feels great to always have something to watch/listen to. Love y'all!

  • @monicasoyombo3360
    @monicasoyombo3360 Рік тому +2

    I was on for about 20 min then i had to hop off to prep dinner for the kiddos, but the title....yo i was literally about yo ask some questions on this topic like🧐🧐🧐. Im going to make a cup of ☕ and enjoy the pod after my quiet time...
    Should we go live every Monday yaaaaaaas for da Lord!🙌🏿
    From Owings Mills Maryland baby!

  • @1990imthebest
    @1990imthebest Рік тому

    “Delete that Snapchat.” Hector! I screamed! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @ashleyoliver6989
    @ashleyoliver6989 Рік тому +1

    I am so happy! I can listen to your wise words everyday!

  • @Team_Blackledge
    @Team_Blackledge Рік тому +2

    A MONDAY EP LETS GOOOOOOO

  • @jordandandy4767
    @jordandandy4767 Рік тому

    The evolution of Hector fading in this is wild 😂 get better dude!! Props to powering through and still delivering like always .

  • @user-ps1zh9bq1j
    @user-ps1zh9bq1j Рік тому +2

    Thank you for being on air… you have been so helpful to me with my life and marriage.. oh ps.. how can I get sweat shirt in the basement..

  • @reneeorsak1144
    @reneeorsak1144 Рік тому

    Basement live eeeek!!! Can’t wait for all the testimonials! Hallelujah

  • @mexicaflor05
    @mexicaflor05 Рік тому +3

    Praying my future husband loves me like Tim loves Juliet ❤

  • @northlight6759
    @northlight6759 Рік тому

    I really appreciate the open rebuke of purity culture. I'm 37 and still struggling with its brainwashing, feels like I'm alone in it, and I still hear snippets of purity culture in the churches I usually attend. Honestly the whole thing has strained my loyalty to the church. So it's very refreshing to hear Christians not hedge or hmm-haw, but directly repudiate it

  • @reneeorsak1144
    @reneeorsak1144 Рік тому

    Sooo beautiful Tim!!! What a new season indeed!!!

  • @lachamaisalet7606
    @lachamaisalet7606 10 місяців тому

    Amazing word!!! Fire fire fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @amandahernandez8279
    @amandahernandez8279 Рік тому +1

    Amazing!! I love how much impact you have guys have. Thanks for obeying God’s word. 💕 Listening from Winter Haven, FL. Saludos Tim

  • @user-zp6kq7po1y
    @user-zp6kq7po1y Рік тому

    Amen! He is working all things for good even in times I don’t see it or feel it! Praise Jesus! ❤

  • @saulhernandez5922
    @saulhernandez5922 Рік тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @NoemiFodorenau
    @NoemiFodorenau Рік тому

    Well dang it!!!
    I missed the live but I’m here in boondocks of far south Weatherford, Texas catching the replay!

  • @eliawhitaker2497
    @eliawhitaker2497 Рік тому

    Yasssss for the lord! Im bummed i missed this live!!!

  • @karenalicea-dunn2099
    @karenalicea-dunn2099 11 місяців тому

    Great episode 👏

  • @_javielys
    @_javielys Рік тому

    Thank you for the live!!! 🤩

  • @crucialily
    @crucialily Рік тому +2

    31:15 i cant do dates anymore i get way too attached... i always says we can be friends and if you want to marry me after bwing friends go right ahead

  • @LynaeBarnett
    @LynaeBarnett Рік тому

    I knew I wasn’t trippin’! It was live 😭😭😭 my chest hurts!

  • @papo30013
    @papo30013 Рік тому

    The bit on tongues... 🤣🤣🤣💀💀 AND thank you!! I needed to hear it! Until that time comes, I pray Holy Spirit continues to provide me with prophecy.

  • @cassandrabyrd2788
    @cassandrabyrd2788 Рік тому

    I definitely can relate to using the Bible, podcasts, and books for mentorship when it is not available in person.

  • @CMTuck
    @CMTuck Рік тому +1

    Sam is a FOOL 😂😂😂😂 y’all are such a team hahaha

  • @Kinkaidp
    @Kinkaidp Рік тому +1

    At 29:09 when he’s talking about how God told him that was his wife… how do we know that it’s God telling us that and not us just hoping that that is the truth? I’m struggling with this right now. How do I know the man I’m talking to is who God wants me to be with rather than just who I want God to approve of?

  • @sojo973
    @sojo973 Рік тому

    This is healing me so much ❤

  • @tonyabuford2095
    @tonyabuford2095 Рік тому

    I'm mad Missed the live. I have never missed an episode

  • @TheIronPath
    @TheIronPath Рік тому

    45:55 bookmarking. On Forgiveness and not being bitter.

  • @clarrisanabanoba6202
    @clarrisanabanoba6202 Рік тому

    Yaaaassssss for the live every monday

  • @annolamiju4363
    @annolamiju4363 Рік тому +2

    I am really missing the old theme song! 😢

  • @byrondavis8323
    @byrondavis8323 Рік тому

    The Q&A is dope. The title of the episode throws me off tho. Didn't hear much about what the title specified.

  • @avia-dawnwalcott6006
    @avia-dawnwalcott6006 Рік тому

    Great advice to feel the emotions. Feels great. I relearning how to feel now. I used to bury everything so as not to have a wicked heart l but that wasn’t the way to go

  • @claudiamesa8619
    @claudiamesa8619 7 місяців тому

    Oooooouuuuuffffff!!! To Nike stuff, and just do it really hit home for me❤ and to not be paralyzed by a longing/desire 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽amen.

  • @MachelleNowlin
    @MachelleNowlin Рік тому +1

    I'm sprinkling Jesus glitter ✨️ over you @Hector, praying you are better!! 🙌🏽✨️🙌🏽 Thank you, @Tim, I have added Jesus glitter to my vocabulary 🤣💖🤣‼️‼️

  • @yeviec9263
    @yeviec9263 Рік тому +1

    😂😂she coming in a Honda, Roku tv, E. coli virus!! 🤣🤣

  • @monizalez
    @monizalez Рік тому

    eyyy!!! I'm excited to see you here in Miami :D

  • @aninatyler
    @aninatyler Рік тому

    So when Tim was talking about who he was going after referring to homer and the bushes it made me think about what I believe apostles do - round up the sheep and tend to the flock. I by no mean am concrete in this 😅AND when Tim was talking about that it instantly made me think about how apostles go out to shepherd.

  • @loidatshebeha8397
    @loidatshebeha8397 Рік тому

    You got me thinking 🤔 if it was already Tuesday or Thursday …. I loveeee you You all Let’s goooooooo❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @jasmineb0411
    @jasmineb0411 Рік тому

    So mad I missed the live. I was at work 😢.

  • @johnathanrutledge5400
    @johnathanrutledge5400 Рік тому +1

    Please come to Charlotte, NC

  • @alicrater3801
    @alicrater3801 Рік тому

    Charlotte Gambil!!!!!! 😯 I already know! Let's goooooooooooo, Fam!!!!! 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @poppnitwithpre
    @poppnitwithpre Рік тому

    It is obvious I’m not doing something right. I feel I keep being placed in the wilderness.

  • @claricezoggyie
    @claricezoggyie Рік тому +1

    Chicago in the house!

  • @ashleyfranklin4708
    @ashleyfranklin4708 Рік тому +1

    Not sure if this will be seen or if this question will be selected for answering, but I’m going to go for it. Can Tim give me advice on this issue: I am a deep rooted Christian who is divorced with 2 kids. We’ve been apart for 11 years. My ex has become an atheist since we parted. Our daughter who is almost 14 is wrestling with her sexual identity. As a follower of Christ, I tell her I love her and also tell her that that’s not who God created her to be. Her father on the other hand celebrates this & buys her pride paraphernalia. Besides praying for her & speaking truth to her, is there anything else I can do to help steer her through this?

    • @Faithful.creative
      @Faithful.creative 10 місяців тому +1

      God will not be mocked… please remember this. I understand and empathize with you. Please stay strong my sister. Regarding your ex husband and your daughter’s sexual identity, you are battling spirits (spiritual warfare). As a Christian Mother, you have to fight in the spirit, which is with the Word of God. Stand firm on his word. His truth will prevail! You may not see it right now, but you have to have faith to believe. Continue to stand. Pray over your family each and everyday and give it to God. He fights our battles for us. He gives us what we need to fight. I would constantly study spiritual warfare so that you can get strong. The devil will flee. He has no power over you or your family! I hope this helps. With love 💕

  • @brookehampton8628
    @brookehampton8628 Рік тому

    Can’t wait to have you Timmy!! 😊VOUS is SO excited! 🎉
    The Basement Live is sold out… VOUSCon not yet sold out!!
    Come hang with us!🫶🏻

  • @kraer22
    @kraer22 7 місяців тому

    I love the bobble head!!!

  • @Candie4JC
    @Candie4JC Рік тому

    Ok I’m upset that anyone in a church would THREATEN a member from leaving. I’ve seen that happen from my mother church during church planting the church I came from had a be pastor that SPIRITUALLY threatened members who wanted to support the church plant. Sadly, it worked. It’s only more 5 years later that many mother church members have their eyes open to the manipulative spiritual threatening they were under and many have come to the church plant to apologize. We have to ask for spiritual discernment because the spirit of covert narcissism & manipulation in the church is a hot mess. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @faithmassok1983
    @faithmassok1983 Рік тому

    Caitlin's question is so me 😭...I am VERY scared, ALWAYS hiding...(Faith Massok from South Africa, Cape Town, Mitchell's Plain - 13/06/2023 - @ Work 15h49)...

  • @katymaestone
    @katymaestone Рік тому

    @TheBasementPodcast Hi, Tim! I don't know if you have ever read the prodigal God by Timothy Keller. It talks about the feast at the end of the prodigal son in Luke 15 in part of the book. And how we focus on the prodigal son but lack the focus of the elder brother to come into the feast. And how as a church we look up to more elder brothers than the prodigal sons who don't feel welcome in the church. Both are sinners but we make the elder brother look good because of how he has done everything right. (self-righteousness) The feast is meant to bring both together and feast in peace. No wonder we have a lot of prodigal sons that don't wanna come to church. Hopefully this makes sense, I digress because there's so much more context for it. (This is to piggyback on what you are learning now and about the feast you talked about)

  • @Derrick619.
    @Derrick619. Рік тому +1

    I’m hurt… was off work today and coulda caught this 💔🙆🏻‍♂️

    • @Derrick619.
      @Derrick619. Рік тому +1

      But I’m happy that I was able to spend time with my daughter today. Notifications are now on and won’t miss moving forward 🫶🏼
      Gods Kids

    • @jamekathomas5120
      @jamekathomas5120 Рік тому +3

      Me too 619, I missed it.

    • @manuelasmith441
      @manuelasmith441 Рік тому

      Me too😢 will watch the replay😅

  • @maynadhunter
    @maynadhunter Рік тому +2

    I’m watching the replay. I would really love to sign up for the Dwellers. Can someone please give me the information to become a member? I already follow on all platforms. I mainly watch on UA-cam.

    • @LilLynda
      @LilLynda Рік тому +2

      Hit the link in the description..hope that helps!! Happy Dwelling..LETTTSSS GOOOOOO!!😊❤

    • @Antixocialbutterfly
      @Antixocialbutterfly Рік тому +2

      What Lynda says, you have to do it on a desktop or laptop though

    • @maynadhunter
      @maynadhunter Рік тому

      @@LilLynda thank you sooooooo much! Done!

  • @antoprophy
    @antoprophy Рік тому

    Here for that dating methodology and that it applies to both genders. Go on and rebuke that purity culture, yes here for my femininity not being smothered and weaponized. Oh yes to the formation. Go on Tim.

  • @WhitfordPR
    @WhitfordPR Рік тому

    Can you do an episode (if you haven’t already) on purity culture? the damage/dysfunctional issues that stem from it, and how might we reset from it

  • @dailyreflectionswithchris4984

    Dripping Springs too❤

  • @jamiehigh924
    @jamiehigh924 Рік тому

    Yes, I remember Romper Room

  • @roseallen5514
    @roseallen5514 6 місяців тому

    Make the bobble head bop to Pres B intro

  • @jamekathomas5120
    @jamekathomas5120 Рік тому +3

    Wait, a Monday pod?

    • @jamekathomas5120
      @jamekathomas5120 Рік тому +1

      I was at work and on a Monday night prayer call.

  • @quintonque1040
    @quintonque1040 Рік тому

    Little Timmy got a mic. Thats dope. I am from South Africa

  • @christulier
    @christulier Рік тому

    I wish I could gooooooooo! To the live pod 😭

  • @michellelewis6914
    @michellelewis6914 Рік тому

    Romper Room Yes!

  • @kikigeeu2be
    @kikigeeu2be 8 місяців тому

    i liked what he had to say

  • @DailyDoseOfRuth
    @DailyDoseOfRuth Рік тому

    i’m soooo maddddddd i missed the live

  • @user-wy4sq3qs3q
    @user-wy4sq3qs3q 6 місяців тому

    St Louis,Mo

  • @PraiseYWHW
    @PraiseYWHW Рік тому

    Come to Alberta Canada! Would love to see you live

  • @jamiehigh924
    @jamiehigh924 Рік тому

    Not McGruff! LOL!!

  • @olivialeah14
    @olivialeah14 Рік тому

    I can’t believe I missed the live 😢

  • @markbentz7585
    @markbentz7585 Рік тому

    1:08:19 were you giving an example? Does there need to be an interpretation every single time you do it? I’m coming from a perspective I want to believe and understand but haven’t been able to get over certain hurdles.

  • @katieanastasia
    @katieanastasia Рік тому

    Basement World Tour?? Australia, Melbourne?? 🤪

  • @kayechapple0802
    @kayechapple0802 9 місяців тому +1

    Cleveland Ohio

  • @pzlzcreation9027
    @pzlzcreation9027 Рік тому

    What’s up Tim and Cruze. I’m From NC.
    Please check your compressor for the future. I know you’re trying to cancel background noise but, with Tim’s personality and different voices you are cutting his high frequencies TOO much. Thanks for all you guys do and keep an ear to what GOD says and DO that work.
    SODOPEFIYA🔥👊🏾🙏🏾