Crystal Smith & Tameka Raymond Talk Bold and Bougie, Usher, Ne-Yo, Parenting + More

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  • @Cinabean
    @Cinabean 5 місяців тому +258

    Tameka seems like a go-getter. I love her tenacity ❤, through all her adversity.

    • @twellmaker75
      @twellmaker75 5 місяців тому +6

      Yea this interview made me like her

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby 5 місяців тому +2

      Yes she is . I enjoyed her interview with willie d on geto boys podcast

  • @latricegant4440
    @latricegant4440 5 місяців тому +518

    Tameka looks amazing for people saying she look beat. We are not immortal. She is 53.

    • @SeekingGreetings
      @SeekingGreetings 5 місяців тому +19

      ...and she looks 53.

    • @sherwood9917
      @sherwood9917 5 місяців тому +69

      @@SeekingGreetings Is it a crime to look your age? She is 53, looks 53 and still looks great.

    • @SeekingGreetings
      @SeekingGreetings 5 місяців тому +1

      @@sherwood9917 That's not the crime. 😆

    • @sherwood9917
      @sherwood9917 5 місяців тому +6

      @@SeekingGreetings What is the crime?

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 місяців тому +2

      I say she looks 56 lol. But looks way better now. Idk why

  • @Kaye.Nicole
    @Kaye.Nicole 5 місяців тому +147

    "Have you every hid neyo's hats" 😂😂😂😂 Charlamagne play too much

  • @Happy-mp7vm
    @Happy-mp7vm 5 місяців тому +160

    You can definitely hear the age difference between Crystal and Tameka, being where she is in life knows when to stand down, especially when she senses the conversation may go left.

    • @zahraawolowo6506
      @zahraawolowo6506 5 місяців тому +27

      Nothing to do with age it’s more about social intelligence mixed with common sense and awareness

    • @drecool85
      @drecool85 5 місяців тому

      @@zahraawolowo6506probable correlation with age not causation

    • @ursulanicholson5166
      @ursulanicholson5166 5 місяців тому

      👍🏾

  • @jcanthony16
    @jcanthony16 5 місяців тому +158

    Tameka has no filter and that's what I love about her.

  • @tropicallymixed.
    @tropicallymixed. 5 місяців тому +189

    Tameka has a cool personality. She gives a good interview.

  • @tab0108
    @tab0108 5 місяців тому +264

    My mom left my serial cheating dad at 59 years old and 35 years of marriage. I've never seen her this happy and fulfilled.

    • @simonkalibwani5832
      @simonkalibwani5832 5 місяців тому +5

      Cap!

    • @auntmay20
      @auntmay20 5 місяців тому +16

      Divorce is horrible to go through, but I am so glad your mom found the peace and joy she deserved!

    • @Wonderfulme1989
      @Wonderfulme1989 5 місяців тому +26

      ​@simonkalibwani5832 Some women would rather be single then have to worry about the threats to her life that cheating brings (diseases, jealously...etc). Piece of mind has more weight than being married to a cheater.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 місяців тому +1

      And she will die alone!

    • @Wonderfulme1989
      @Wonderfulme1989 5 місяців тому +22

      @theresonlyonejd Yall kill me with that. Being married is not the end all be all (yes I'm married). I'd rather my daughter have peace & die alone than put up with bulls%&_ in order to say she died a married woman. That bullsh$@$ will probably send her to an early grave anyway.

  • @lynchisolm4254
    @lynchisolm4254 5 місяців тому +167

    Good for you Crystal... Know your WORTH.... Stand on your morals... You deserve RESPECT 🌹🌹

    • @c-memusic6951
      @c-memusic6951 5 місяців тому +4

      Her worth is 0 considering she’s single and she judges based off mistakes but as a gf nobody is perfect which allows you to become the wife so accept your flaws but not his not worth a cent and was nvr worth it it’s clear she got what she wanted out the deal

    • @c-memusic6951
      @c-memusic6951 5 місяців тому +1

      I guarantee she’s going to date a old man or be single for ever she not realistic with mistakes and cheaters 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @blakex2699
      @blakex2699 5 місяців тому +7

      ​@@c-memusic6951she forgave neyo alot until he started having babies outside the marriage.

    • @c-memusic6951
      @c-memusic6951 5 місяців тому +2

      @@blakex2699not at all she said she left when she first “heard “ things before and came back cause it wasn’t true the baby was a reason to leave she nvr wanted to be there

    • @lca9486
      @lca9486 5 місяців тому

      Um no she need to shut up. She realized her worth after the 3rdchild Neyo had on her. She left cause he started to publicly embarrass her. She trying to come off all like she don’t play. When he played with her for years. Abd she took it. She’s Trash

  • @DAD2286
    @DAD2286 5 місяців тому +182

    Cheating isn’t a mistake… it’s a choice. That’s the issue.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 місяців тому

      It’s called exercising your options not cheating!

    • @gogobarbie09
      @gogobarbie09 5 місяців тому +3

      Exactly I’ve cheated and it was definitely a choice

    • @youngboy2140
      @youngboy2140 5 місяців тому +3

      Two things can be truth. You can make the choice to cheat, and regret that choice, and acknowledge it was a mistake. Just like it’s a choice for that partner can choose to forgive and walk away, or work it out. Either of those choices can always end of as regretful. Then realize it was a mistake to do so.

    • @DAD2286
      @DAD2286 5 місяців тому +1

      @@youngboy2140 I agree with you.
      For clarity, this is how I personally view cheating. I don’t view it as a mistake, as there’s too many opportunities between the thought and the action to thing about what you’re doing and change your mind.

    • @santelaneal5374
      @santelaneal5374 5 місяців тому

      @@theresonlyonejduntil someone cheats on you, then you crying wolf.

  • @tanmc6710
    @tanmc6710 5 місяців тому +37

    Tameka really won me over with this interview…. I am with her in remaining in a peaceful place🥰🥰

  • @noname-in6vo
    @noname-in6vo 5 місяців тому +22

    Nobody wanted USHER to get married back then he was everybody's man lol

  • @drewstar8611
    @drewstar8611 5 місяців тому +276

    The problem with Usher’s ‘Here I Stand’ album is simple….. it followed Confessions… there’s nowhere to go but down. Confessions was essentially Ushers ‘thriller’

    • @cheatcodecharlie
      @cheatcodecharlie 5 місяців тому +9

      It was no way to do better then Confessions...and not only that "Moving Moutains" was one of the worst songs on there and he shot a video for it!! Just horrible song

    • @Forsaken860
      @Forsaken860 5 місяців тому +12

      FActs and that Album was genuinely beautiful. Top to bottom. I had that sucker on repeat. 8701 Usher Raymond Here I Stand Usher v Usher Confessions❤️❤️

    • @letlovereign
      @letlovereign 5 місяців тому +10

      It was also 2008.....different climate for album sales

    • @Forsaken860
      @Forsaken860 5 місяців тому +4

      Terrible roll out for that album🤣🤣🤣🤣but beautiful album. This one song is...Long time...sso beautiful​@@cheatcodecharlie

    • @sinder-mariepascalpatterso1663
      @sinder-mariepascalpatterso1663 5 місяців тому +4

      ​@@cheatcodecharlieI wouldn't say it was a horrible song, but its one of those album songs that should have been track eleven that you listen to sometimes. Play in the background type. It absolutely did not need a video. He should have released before I met you. That was required.

  • @tamikasmith4329
    @tamikasmith4329 5 місяців тому +123

    Tamika showing us why Usher liked her.....❤

    • @MrsMoore1
      @MrsMoore1 5 місяців тому +15

      *Loved her and married her…

    • @tiffannibooze9400
      @tiffannibooze9400 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@MrsMoore1 💯

    • @martina9151
      @martina9151 5 місяців тому +5

      I was thinking the same thing. She seems dope.

    • @martina9151
      @martina9151 5 місяців тому +3

      I really like Tamika.

    • @bettiejohnson2605
      @bettiejohnson2605 5 місяців тому +3

      At least Tameka is being truthful and not ashamed of her past relationship. If Chrystal didn't want to be honest, why go on the breakfast club.

  • @bluestblack
    @bluestblack 5 місяців тому +21

    Tameka is BEAUTIFUL! Calling her a man is crazy colorism and racism because how can you look at her face and say she’s ugly or manly.

  • @MsReady4change
    @MsReady4change 5 місяців тому +73

    Tameka needs her own show! I love her!❤

    • @jesuisleconqueror
      @jesuisleconqueror 5 місяців тому

      I do kinda wish she would do housewives cause she’s so unapologetically herself and comes off funny sometimes

  • @felishasweet7579
    @felishasweet7579 5 місяців тому +240

    I absolutely adore Tamika Raymond. She's always had an old soul and a voice of reason.

    • @emm8348
      @emm8348 5 місяців тому +7

      I like her too

    • @maturewoman81
      @maturewoman81 5 місяців тому +10

      I like Tameka too! Straight no chaser.

    • @skyndgo.
      @skyndgo. 5 місяців тому

      Nigga she is old but she cool

    • @titohelper3569
      @titohelper3569 5 місяців тому +6

      CAUSE SHE IS OLD

    • @taylenzz
      @taylenzz 5 місяців тому +2

      @@titohelper3569OKKKK!!!!! She’s 53, and looks 53…….why wouldn’t she?!?!?

  • @valenkennedy3879
    @valenkennedy3879 5 місяців тому +32

    I don’t believe all men cheat. I have a wonderful husband. Of course I can’t 100% say that he hasn’t stepped out, but women have amazing intuition. I can never say all men, all women, all black people etc. do anything because we are all individuals.

    • @iamjro
      @iamjro 5 місяців тому +1

      I totally agree

  • @rotcl
    @rotcl 5 місяців тому +83

    One thing Charla is gonna do is act blonde about his shady past involvements 😂

    • @Kaye.Nicole
      @Kaye.Nicole 5 місяців тому +9

      😂😂😂 every damn time

    • @ukan.536
      @ukan.536 5 місяців тому

      Why are you even using that terminology? Aren't you Black?

    • @deelee1623
      @deelee1623 5 місяців тому +1

      😂

  • @kiki3961
    @kiki3961 5 місяців тому +67

    If every woman left like Crystal left, the world if relationships would be much better than they are today. Some men would think twice if they knew their wives would not give them a second chance.

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 5 місяців тому +13

      Lol I don't think that was the first time he cheated on her

    • @Kaye.Nicole
      @Kaye.Nicole 5 місяців тому +9

      So true....women have more power than they realize

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ 5 місяців тому +4

      My ex husband didn’t think I’d leave and we had been married 26 years and together since teen years. He started having affairs midlife and I left. He is remarried and still bitter.

    • @bettiejohnson2605
      @bettiejohnson2605 5 місяців тому +2

      Most people know the entire history of Neyo and Chrystal. The relationship started with cheating except she was the one he cheated with. Its hard to say cheating because they both was doing it but she got tired. Monyetta in a recent interview admitted he didn't cheat on her, they did it together. Chrystal has been through a lot, first foster care issues, stripping as she said to pay the bills and she was in same sex relationships but wanted more out of life. Monyetta said Neyo was her best friend and that's obviously his personality. The video did come out with him and Chrystal "money can't buy" a great video and that's when Monyetta found out. He always say his music is his personal diary so to speak, hes very honest. I believe she's feels her character looks bad but its not true, she's awesome in her survival. Therefore there's no need to sell a fake story. Thanks to him she has a story line to build on, and make those bags.

    • @estherdaniel3783
      @estherdaniel3783 Місяць тому

      She was the one helping him vheat from the previous relationship. She knew who his is. She taught she would be treated differently since she shared some of his fetishist.

  • @thatgirlshaz
    @thatgirlshaz 5 місяців тому +49

    Tameka is hilarious 😂😂😂. I didn’t know much about her before this interview but I love how raw and authentic she is. ❤

    • @jayvzrd3349
      @jayvzrd3349 5 місяців тому

      if you watch her r&b money interview with tank and j.valentine youll see just how much of a superstar stylus she is - without her the cover of ushers confessions album wouldve looked different

  • @TashaaG
    @TashaaG 5 місяців тому +76

    Not “Do you hide his hatsssss!”😂😂😂😂 no, I am on the FLOOOR!!!!😭

    • @twarner816
      @twarner816 5 місяців тому +2

      I laughed so damn hard😂😂😂

    • @clarissar1528
      @clarissar1528 5 місяців тому +1

      I read this as soon as he said it!!! 😂😂😂

    • @shirleneflack8896
      @shirleneflack8896 5 місяців тому +1

      Hilarious 😂

  • @twn5163
    @twn5163 5 місяців тому +51

    Tameka has a hell of a personality lol

  • @MLOWG1
    @MLOWG1 5 місяців тому +11

    Usher’s album Here I Stand was definitely ahead of its time. And it was probably too mature for his fan base at the time. But I feel that those same fans are now probably listening to it now because they are more mature now. Because the song Here I Stand had such a neo soul feel. It just showed his maturity at such an early age, hence the attraction for his ex wife. He just matured quicker than his fans. Definitely not a flop though.💯

  • @thedon8939
    @thedon8939 5 місяців тому +6

    These women are capitalizing off of their ex husbands plain and simple.

  • @truepyt
    @truepyt 5 місяців тому +72

    Not Neyo telling on himself 🤣😭

    • @vexotimmer2675
      @vexotimmer2675 5 місяців тому +5

      Word. Neyo was trying to be slick lol He know damn well he was talking about himself in that clip.

    • @candice7148
      @candice7148 5 місяців тому +3

      He sure did!! I’m glad she was smart enough to pick up on it though.

    • @dimepiecetia
      @dimepiecetia 5 місяців тому +3

      When you look back and really listen he really did tell on himself. 😂😂😂 I didn’t think about that at the time of the interview but wow .

  • @zelinalittle1451
    @zelinalittle1451 5 місяців тому +30

    I love Crystal!!!!! 😊Stay focused on yourself and stop judging her because she choose to give herself time to be happy. She is at peace!

  • @rosetopaz
    @rosetopaz 5 місяців тому +32

    I liked Here I Stand; Love in this club, this ain’t sex, trading places, moving mountains… pretty much the whole darn thing. ❤

    • @deelee1623
      @deelee1623 5 місяців тому +2

      Exactly!

    • @ModelKayNate
      @ModelKayNate 5 місяців тому +1

      Me too!

    • @awuahcurtis
      @awuahcurtis 2 місяці тому

      Trading places is not on Here I stand

    • @rosetopaz
      @rosetopaz 2 місяці тому

      @@awuahcurtis it definitely is, might want to recheck the album track listing 🥴

    • @awuahcurtis
      @awuahcurtis 2 місяці тому

      @rosetopaz my bad,you are right,the album wasn't a flop at all because it is one my favourite Usher songs

  • @Forsaken860
    @Forsaken860 5 місяців тому +112

    Crystal cold AF my God. Ten years three kids and dipped in one day. Neyo must had some SH*T on that phone😭😭😭

    • @esw122
      @esw122 5 місяців тому +37

      He had a baby on her

    • @amylove5500
      @amylove5500 5 місяців тому +42

      @@esw122lol if I’m not mistaken when she found out the other girl had his baby and was pregnant with the second one… Crystal kept it cute in the interview lol

    • @Dymsx86
      @Dymsx86 5 місяців тому +30

      He had children with other women while they were married. It would be absolutely done then.

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 5 місяців тому +33

      Ten years, three kids and it wasn't enough for him to stay faithful.

    • @idontdomoviereviews5253
      @idontdomoviereviews5253 5 місяців тому +2

      Ikr shit

  • @4everOcean
    @4everOcean 5 місяців тому +18

    Tameka is so down to earth end real

  • @heatherro9989
    @heatherro9989 5 місяців тому +135

    I truly love Tameka. She’s such a beautiful soul.

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 місяців тому

      Not next to Crystal

  • @shantaewingbooker2876
    @shantaewingbooker2876 5 місяців тому +55

    Tameka is a vibe💜🥳 the media didn’t due her justice

  • @notagamingchannelyt1802
    @notagamingchannelyt1802 5 місяців тому +21

    I love Tameka. She’s authentic and the kind of person you have to get to know ❤

  • @BROOKLYNSHOWTIME
    @BROOKLYNSHOWTIME 5 місяців тому +26

    Ms. Tameka lives in reality. I love it

  • @conversationswithrena3066
    @conversationswithrena3066 5 місяців тому +52

    Ain’t no “slipping up” cheating is a CHOICE!!!!!

  • @QueXopa79
    @QueXopa79 5 місяців тому +51

    Crystal vocabulary is one of a 16 year old… “period, got to get to the bag, we lit, etc… you’re 37. wtf.

  • @keishabe3045
    @keishabe3045 5 місяців тому +119

    Everytime the girl crystal speaks im like you are the epitome of "how you get him is how you loose him" 😩😂

    • @tammymorgan5348
      @tammymorgan5348 5 місяців тому +33

      Y'all gon keep following that false narrative huh...

    • @lisaellis7137
      @lisaellis7137 5 місяців тому +15

      Loud and wrong.

    • @keishabe3045
      @keishabe3045 5 місяців тому

      ​@@lisaellis7137WELL TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED MAMAS!

    • @JFWick-yc3si
      @JFWick-yc3si 5 місяців тому +6

      That "I'm getting to my bag period" comment just proved this broad big 🚩

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee 5 місяців тому +9

      She already addressed this on the show. Him and Monyetta were already divorced when she got with him. So, it isn't how she got him. Y'all want a gotcha moment so bad when he as the man is the one who betrayed both of the families he helped create.

  • @natashayoung5130
    @natashayoung5130 5 місяців тому +88

    Tameka seems to be very intelligent

    • @ddoubleu170
      @ddoubleu170 5 місяців тому +10

      You can definitely tell why Usher was smitten.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 5 місяців тому

      ​@@ddoubleu170Their marriage lasted less than three years.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 місяців тому

      She’s ghetto AF!

    • @guestguest3756
      @guestguest3756 5 місяців тому

      Obviously, the world's opinion of her being a dark skinned older woman had something to do with that. ​@@teresamarie7460

    • @johnsteen74
      @johnsteen74 5 місяців тому

      With Age comes Mature and Growth from Life's Lesson. Tameka has definitely healed from her Tragedies and turned them into Testimonies❤

  • @kaydies2782
    @kaydies2782 5 місяців тому +8

    Tameka’s perspective on cheating is situational. From what we know of Crystal’s relationship there’s no way Tameka would work through it. That situation was a definite dealbreaker.

  • @julz89rosado78
    @julz89rosado78 5 місяців тому +16

    I didnt know then i was young and loved usher but Tameka is funny, stunning, can dress honestly she the baddest personality alone

  • @sacoope1
    @sacoope1 5 місяців тому +16

    Tameka is so beautiful and graceful. Wishing her all the best. ❤

  • @shhhtellnooneitsasecret
    @shhhtellnooneitsasecret 5 місяців тому +32

    I respected Usher so much more when he was married to Tameka not some "weird faced" whyte woman (in my Kat Williams voice)

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 5 місяців тому +1

      They were married for less than three years. He has been with the WW for several years and they have two children. Life goes on and on...

  • @jerichomerkson7275
    @jerichomerkson7275 5 місяців тому +9

    Sorry to say Jess is not smart enough...Angie Yee was smart and had a wealth of information

  • @tomekadavis6967
    @tomekadavis6967 5 місяців тому +42

    Tameka looks AMAZING! 🫶🏾
    Honey, she ain’t aging. 🤎
    She’s so pretty and articulate. 💯❤️

  • @melmines
    @melmines 5 місяців тому +64

    Tomeka is speaking “Life is long”

  • @workitladypodcast
    @workitladypodcast 5 місяців тому +51

    👏👏💜💜I respect Crystal so much for respecting her body and her mental health by quickly taking her leave from the relationship! Great example of self respect!!!

    • @tee-rock
      @tee-rock 5 місяців тому

      She respects her body? I’m just asking but wasn’t she a stripper? She decided to cut her loses because she knew she already secured “the bag”. Her words not mine.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 місяців тому

      You respect a porn star?!?!? 🤡

  • @trinitystevens4968
    @trinitystevens4968 5 місяців тому +65

    It’s crazy because Here I Stand is my favorite Usher album

    • @Babycakesj
      @Babycakesj 5 місяців тому +9

      Thank you. People sleep on that album but it was/is great!!!

    • @ShotByChuka
      @ShotByChuka 5 місяців тому +4

      It was a good album. Had memorable tracks like ‘Love in this club’, ‘What’s a man to do’ and ‘His mistakes’ on it. But Raymond vs Raymond and 8701 come on top for me.

    • @tasharichmond7488
      @tasharichmond7488 5 місяців тому

      Right.

    • @Ladybugg1118
      @Ladybugg1118 5 місяців тому +2

      I really loved that album as well!!

    • @tiffanynicole3910
      @tiffanynicole3910 5 місяців тому +2

      It was DEFINITELY underrated! Like people really need to listen to that grown @$$ album!

  • @heatherae3164
    @heatherae3164 5 місяців тому +21

    good interview! they both kept it very classy and elevated their energy. love to see that from black women. 💚

  • @msatutude17
    @msatutude17 5 місяців тому +20

    I love a woman that sticks to her her morals. So encouraging

  • @ddoubleu170
    @ddoubleu170 5 місяців тому +30

    Just came here to say, I’m loving the show. Loving Tameka and Crystal’s friendship!
    Tameka is my spirit animal 😂
    Mother does not play, okaaaaay!

  • @aliciax.perkins9967
    @aliciax.perkins9967 5 місяців тому +10

    Tameka is crackin me up 😂 Things change when u turn 50🫶🏽

  • @beatbydamitajomua
    @beatbydamitajomua 5 місяців тому +22

    “Did you hide his hats” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Local-dg6sz
    @Local-dg6sz 5 місяців тому +3

    This interview 👎🏿👎🏿

  • @JakeDeville
    @JakeDeville 5 місяців тому +19

    Damn Crystal should be an example for every young girl out there!!!! Respect yourself MORE than the situation you’re in and don’t take sh!t from anyone !!!!

    • @lca9486
      @lca9486 5 місяців тому +2

      Oh please Neyo was cheating on for years and she stayed. After he got a woman pregnant the 2nd time that’s when she left.

  • @colemanentertainmentllc7224
    @colemanentertainmentllc7224 5 місяців тому +2

    women like this hmmm no comment. nothing wrong with preferences but if im the only who sees something wrong or shallow with picking men based on their income then im the slow one. none of us can take our money with us at dearh. my opinion, date good hardworking men who will love and respect you. just because he has money should be a plus and not the deciding factor. that's why our community in many ways is in decline. #priorities

  • @KiKi-vf3yq
    @KiKi-vf3yq 5 місяців тому +6

    Tamika is beautiful. I’m surprised so many people judged her looks. Had to be jealousy

  • @DaniTheAlchemist33
    @DaniTheAlchemist33 5 місяців тому +49

    9:46 Tamika talks about Usher😊
    28:56 Crystal talks about Neyo😊

    • @hotndangerous
      @hotndangerous 5 місяців тому +3

      Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @UnseenWhispers420
      @UnseenWhispers420 5 місяців тому +1

      Thank you because you know this what some ppl come for lol my self too 😅

    • @IAMWATER7
      @IAMWATER7 5 місяців тому +4

      That’s all anybody wanna hear them for… but they always gonna tell this story of triumph like they self made lol

    • @Cmarie118
      @Cmarie118 5 місяців тому

      This comment needs more likes

    • @jasmic38134
      @jasmic38134 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@IAMWATER7Tamika was Usher's stylist....she was "self-made" neither of these women claimed self-made nor bashed the men...so next

  • @ldsrealestate2
    @ldsrealestate2 5 місяців тому +12

    Glad to see Tameka Raymond, she looks and sounds amazing. But I'm 52 & I ain't sharing a man. Life is too short & I don't want to spend the rest of it watching my back. Especially with a person who claims to love & have my back till death due us part. 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @stampdeapproval
    @stampdeapproval 5 місяців тому +46

    How is Charlamagne still the funniest one on the show with a “comedian” next to him 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 місяців тому +10

      Damn! That’s facts tho. Jess whack

    • @kenyab3526
      @kenyab3526 5 місяців тому +3

      Cap and I supposed o girl was better?? Stop it..

    • @stampdeapproval
      @stampdeapproval 5 місяців тому +7

      @@kenyab3526 Yee had a couple jokes from time to time just like Jess. Only thing is different is Yee can conduct an interview and can read well 🤣

    • @kenyab3526
      @kenyab3526 5 місяців тому +1

      @@stampdeapproval lmao 🤣 ok ok she might not have been a scholar reader in school .. that’s all people can say she did brings jokes and energy.. I do feel the guests like her and no names would allow the men in the room to dominate her voice and option. I just think the older people r having a hard time with change. They needed younger cast so that’s what they got .

    • @stampdeapproval
      @stampdeapproval 5 місяців тому +3

      @@kenyab3526 She brings energy I’ll give you that. But I’m older and felt it’s a couple more people better than her. I think they got her bc she is like a charlamagne 12 years ago but just a female. She doesn’t care what she says.

  • @Happy-mp7vm
    @Happy-mp7vm 5 місяців тому +22

    In my younger days i had the same mindset/mentality as Crystal. Now in my 40's I think the way Tameka does. That doesn't mean you accept disrespect, but as she says, life is VERY long. Nobody's perfect!
    Crystal wanted out before she heard what Neyo said. I don't blame her thou.
    It simply sometimes ain't meant to be and self respect outweighs everything.

    • @abi-ci8lh
      @abi-ci8lh 5 місяців тому +1

      that's what I said. I think she wanted out already.

    • @auntmay20
      @auntmay20 5 місяців тому +10

      I don't think she wanted out. I believe it's the fact that he was not just cheating, but he had and was having children outside of his marriage. It's one thing to move past cheating It's a whole other having kids as a constant reminder. Not to mention it appears he was basically cheating the whole marriage. Plus Neyo is so triflin so many other men and women stop getting married when you know you are not willing to be faithful.

    • @blackbox1911
      @blackbox1911 5 місяців тому +6

      @@abi-ci8lh Neyo had two kids on this woman,,, u sound crazy

    • @crystalhill-adams4463
      @crystalhill-adams4463 5 місяців тому +1

      @@blackbox1911Yes, ✌️two babies. It’s no secret.

    • @sarahjoe2457
      @sarahjoe2457 4 місяці тому

      Good luck with the side babies and STDs. Desperate women really make it hard out here.

  • @keriberi
    @keriberi 5 місяців тому +8

    I actually really like Tameka now after the show and hearing her side of things. I also appreciate her saying that life is long chile and ppl make mistakes.

  • @DenaSimone
    @DenaSimone 5 місяців тому +15

    Tameka is soooo pretty 🥰🥰🥰

  • @k.simmons862
    @k.simmons862 5 місяців тому +4

    Crystal, you lost him how you got him. He cheated on you with Monyetta and you knew. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @MeS-xn2nf
    @MeS-xn2nf 5 місяців тому +6

    It's quite hilarious how Crystal commented on Tameka's writing style and the length. I'll compose a text, and my family will seriously say, "Nobody's reading all that!" But the truth is, sometimes those messages can be truly life-changing

  • @MrsKelly-ly4et
    @MrsKelly-ly4et 5 місяців тому +16

    Tameka book is really good! ❤

  • @Dondeez
    @Dondeez 5 місяців тому +5

    I have never cheated on my wife...not ever...not once ...ever...never ever.

  • @toccaramabins9509
    @toccaramabins9509 5 місяців тому +10

    I loved this interview. We finally get to see Tameka as a fun, light hearted person.

  • @ifyouweremeforreal
    @ifyouweremeforreal 5 місяців тому +9

    Ushers Here I stand is one of my favourite album

  • @shap9610
    @shap9610 5 місяців тому +22

    No one person can give you 100% of what you need.

  • @MsSHEISHER
    @MsSHEISHER 5 місяців тому +7

    Tameka is my Capricorn sister from Oakland. A REAL ONE!!

  • @dietralee990
    @dietralee990 5 місяців тому +2

    I love Crystal she is real. Tomeka has issues. There is no Season 2, of Bold and Bougie. Show was cancelled.

  • @Nita143
    @Nita143 5 місяців тому +45

    Crystal!!! You know your worth! That’s so important! ♥️🙏🏽

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 місяців тому

      Luckily she’s light skinned, so she wail always attract quality. However, she is a single mom. If she doesn’t want to be cheated, she has no choice but to lower her standards.

    • @Keemccray
      @Keemccray 5 місяців тому +6

      Took me a while to find this comment, but yessss. I respect how she handled herself during that interview and how she knows her worth! Loving yourself is far more important than staying for the kids etc. It speaks volumes. Her children will respect her decision one day.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 місяців тому

      Her worth is the gutter as she’s a former porn star!

  • @RheVued
    @RheVued 5 місяців тому +23

    I’m here for Ms. Raymond.❤Tameka. Crystal is cool. ❤Jess!

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 місяців тому +1

      Is it becuz you and Jess dark skinned?

    • @guestguest3756
      @guestguest3756 5 місяців тому +1

      Why does that have to be reason? What made you ask that question? ​@qikstar

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 місяців тому

      @@guestguest3756 hmmm just stating the obvious

  • @kutfromdifferentkloth
    @kutfromdifferentkloth 5 місяців тому +3

    Neyo ex is really hurt, CTG gotta send her some healing energy. At first she came off as bitter but after a while it's just the pain talking. She probably do need to be single for a good while

  • @tdavis47
    @tdavis47 5 місяців тому +14

    HERE I STAND is one of his best ❤ albums

  • @jasmic38134
    @jasmic38134 5 місяців тому +3

    Tameka is being realistic about relationships and saying what MOST women do/does. Crystal isn't wrong for her decision either but as Tameka stated when she's older she'll see how forgiveness plays a huge role in marriage.

  • @a1yolageezy576
    @a1yolageezy576 5 місяців тому +2

    Maybe its KARMA for Crystal..........everything that glitters isn't GOLD.... its always another waiting and willing to take your place ❤

  • @trams313
    @trams313 5 місяців тому +44

    Jess you are doing a great job and while pregnant 🤰🏽. Sending positive energy ❤

  • @juzbcuz
    @juzbcuz 5 місяців тому +8

    ugh reality shows are trash

  • @stopit41
    @stopit41 5 місяців тому +3

    I love love Tameka, I have her same attitude

  • @ericajessicafitness
    @ericajessicafitness 5 місяців тому +3

    Just for the album here I stand! It was good! She is right y’all did not like her and this did not give the album a chance but it was good! Also she is funny

  • @Kaye.Nicole
    @Kaye.Nicole 5 місяців тому +29

    "I'm not sharing my husband It's too much nasty ish in the world" message for the people who are okay with sharing and stepping outside their relationship. Is it worth your health.....Move wisely ❤

    • @dnadancetribedancenowafric2986
      @dnadancetribedancenowafric2986 5 місяців тому

      When she said that , the question that came to my mind was so if there weren't any nasty diseases in every single person was clean, would you share like don't make that the main decision unless you would share if everyone was clean?

    • @Wonderfulme1989
      @Wonderfulme1989 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@dnadancetribedancenowafric2986😂 That's a stupid question and statement.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 5 місяців тому +1

      She was unknowingly sharing her husband for many years. I wonder how many diseases she has had...

  • @krysroc
    @krysroc 5 місяців тому +5

    Not to make this about Usher, but judging fron Tameka's and all the interviews from his other mates he seems to choose intelligent women of substance.

  • @julielove8932
    @julielove8932 5 місяців тому +9

    Love Tameka...i enjoyed this innerview

  • @KQueen305
    @KQueen305 5 місяців тому +5

    I never appreciated Angela Yee until Jess got in her seat! She is just the worst and doesn’t add any real value

  • @alysiajamie8661
    @alysiajamie8661 5 місяців тому +6

    Tameka is a beautiful woman!!

  • @lilliebrown8144
    @lilliebrown8144 5 місяців тому +2

    Totally understand what Tameka as you get older you change. Especially in a married. When you’re younger you will say forget it! I understand Crystal totally, she at a different stage in her life.

  • @patrickpowell601
    @patrickpowell601 5 місяців тому +5

    What makes me sad is every time I see an interview with the most beautiful black woman in the world. The story is always the same: Divorced, dealing with multiple BOYS, or trying girl. WHY, why can’t we be happy together

  • @Terra_Darene
    @Terra_Darene 5 місяців тому +2

    I liked and watched this show and I actually like it. I’m glad they did the show, I’m glad that these women are 35 & up!!! So yeah…. I do wish Tameka would stop claiming being so old! Like girl… we get it but you’re not old. So yeah hit was nice

  • @darkcocoakiss
    @darkcocoakiss 5 місяців тому +7

    Salute to both Queens! “Here I Stand” was 🔥🔥🔥🔥! It was a great follow up to “Confessions”, if people actually gave it a listen.

  • @s.w2934
    @s.w2934 5 місяців тому +2

    ALL men don’t cheat. Damn that’s a terrible mindset. I have a brother , uncles , my husband that don’t cheat . Women say that to make themselves feel okay with settling with cheating men

  • @VixR9
    @VixR9 5 місяців тому +24

    Whoever hires for this show really dropped the ball not hiring Claudia

  • @Jay1miami
    @Jay1miami 5 місяців тому +5

    Life is funny cause the black community didn’t care for tameka when her and usher were married but she has a great personality!!!

  • @sparr5132
    @sparr5132 5 місяців тому +9

    I really came to appreciate these women by watching the show Bad and Bougie. I am happy they are able to tell their story.
    Great interview!

  • @mecca6941
    @mecca6941 5 місяців тому +9

    This was actually a good interview

  • @Wearenotfriendsxo
    @Wearenotfriendsxo 5 місяців тому +5

    I really like Crystal 😂😂

  • @remarkablylegendary9952
    @remarkablylegendary9952 5 місяців тому +3

    They are projecting the hurt they experienced, I understand their perspective but you cant cast that broad of a net to all men therapy is needed with them.

  • @dchronicles2516
    @dchronicles2516 5 місяців тому +6

    Great interview and I completely understand what Tameka was stating about cheating and leaving when you’re at certain ages of your life.

  • @amaris8084
    @amaris8084 5 місяців тому +9

    The people who continue to complain and still watch this show is the walking definition of insanity 😳 🙄 😅😅😅

  • @MCSquared7776
    @MCSquared7776 5 місяців тому +8

    Tameka is funny 🤣🤣🤣

  • @awtumwhittaker795
    @awtumwhittaker795 5 місяців тому +2

    I think Tameka is gorgeous honestly and crystal is beautiful as well loved this interview