Hi! I wanted to say you should add Bible verses to the start or end I got this from a youtuber called coryxkenshin it would be awesome and the Bible verse could be related to the video
I met my wife overseas. Many things in my job lined up perfectly for me to be with her. We prayed together many times and left everything up to him to decide if we were right for each other. I can say the hardest thing is that she is catholic and I'm protestant and sometimes I feel like I'm more in tune with my spiritual self than she is. We disagree on a few things, but we put God first in everything we do. My Goal in my life now is to surround myself with more Godly people. Being in the military defiantly makes this difficult.
Recently discovered your channel and my story is similar. I met my girlfriend at the time two years ago while we were in school. We were working on an inquiry project and then progressed into doing a Bible study together. As we continued getting to know each other, we then started dating. The relationship lasted about 5 months until it was over. At the time, I was complacent spiritually. I was struggling with the circumstances around me. Then, I felt God speak to me through Revelation 3:8 and that’s where he first started speaking it me. He then revealed to me that she would come back and I’d take her into marriage. I’ve prayed and even fasted over this and God told me the same thing. I’ve used this time of singleness to continue growing spiritually, and had doubts that this will even happen. That’s why I’ve been praying over this cause I ultimately want to be married and have a family. But, I also want God to be glorified at the same time. So, that’s kind of where I’m at currently
I have autism. There is no one for me because you Christian women seem to hate autistic men. I've longed for a woman for my entire life and God screwed me over. Why the fuck should I follow a God who did this to me? Why should I not question why God did this to me? Listen to the song Judith by a perfect circle, Maynard wasn't wrong for questioning these things.
This is not true, I think God has someone for you but if you don't make the move she will get married and you'll be left alone, so make your move guys don't wait on God
Chatted with an atheist liberal woman I met on a dating app. She gave me her number and after 8 hrs of texting, she decided I wasn't right for her. That was God telling me not only that I shouldn't settle bc I live in one of the most sinful and non religious cities in America but I should never again try to date an atheist. Lesson learnt the hard way, thanks God 🙏
I love this! Thank you for your wisdom:) I’m 36 and single, I’ve been walking faithfully with God for over 10 ish years and I’m still waiting and trusting 🙏🏼 I’ve tried so many times to force myself to like certain guys, I over analyze and guilt myself and even get pressure from other ppl to settle but it’s just not in me. Waiting for a true Godly man, Lord willing 🙌🏼
Newly single and I know God is making my foundation FIRM in him and showing me he is everything I could ever need! I love this video because I know I shouldn’t settle for just any man! Thank you !
I am still single have been for a very long time but by God's grace and help and goodness l am still praying and believing and trusting the Lord for a very nice Christian girlfriend and a very nice Christian wife holding onto the wonderful truths and promises of God's word Amen. I believe it will all happen in the right way place and time Amen God bless you and thank-you for your video very inspirational and helpful and encouraging in the Lord Amen.
Me too, brother, but continue to seek the kingdom of God first and always put him first in your heart above everything else. A godly spouse will eventually come along the way.
Your points are really good. The difficult part is that you can follow all those guidelines and still barely meet suitable christian people to date. I know so many great christians (both men and women) who really struggle with it.
I love your videos they are always based on scripture, which I don't see as much anymore, so it's always refreshing to hear from someone who is gleaning Truth from the Word itself. It just makes me fall in love with God and His word so much more, so thank you! As someone who is single (21+ years strong! Yay😄) the first one was most encouraging because I am very private but it I do believe going to someone older, wise, and trusted is wise and would be good for me, especially since in my environment, I have never seen someone do that before! ☺
I’m 26 but with or without a husband, I am putting it in God’s hands and praising him no matter the outcome. I love this video because kind of like the two farmers who desperately needed rain and only one prepared his field to receive it. I’m preparing for if God does send me a godly man.
I agree with you, Kaci, especially with principle 3. Think of what the person spends their time doing and where they spend most of their time. A guy was interested in me, but he's not a Christian and spends most time playing video games when not working, so I knew that wasn't what I wanted.
Currently single 🤭🙈... Out of the five principles the one that encouraged me the most was steep your search in prayer!! So important and a good reminder! Thanks for sharing Kaci 🤗
This is an excellent video and clearly God- inspired. Speaking as one who did not follow these principles- even though I knew in my heart I should- I really urge everyone watching this to take heed. In a nutshell I chose earthly love- and lust- over waiting for God’s best and my spouse is still a non-believer 30 years on. Trust me, it opens you up to a world of pain and missed opportunities to do the Lords will and whilst I know I am forgiven for that wrong choice, I will always wonder how much more blessed my life would have been if I had been stronger at the time.
I found all of those 5 principles encouraging, Kaci! Thank you so much! I just wanted to say, you're not the only one I follow for christian dating advice. I follow this other woman who is also a married woman, like you. She also wrote a devotional like you did. Her name is Erin Elise Kiu. And she has a son on the way, too! Her videos are very motivational like yours are and I would love it if you two could do a collaboration video together one day. God bless!
I'm 57 year old disabled veteran single for 10 years now if not more, I lost count, I have pretty much GIVIN up hope on finding a lady in my life, I don't even know how to go about it these days with all the craziness in this world not to mention I live way out in the country where there's not many people or places to meet people. I'm trying to keep the FAITH but it is a hard thing to do.
Extremely deplorable, God has a plan,and that spouse for you; if that's God's will for you. I'm 62 never been married, yet I pray for that blessed wife. God has that perfect plan for our lives. God bless you
This was amazing thank you! I just got back from church where I had been talking with an older christian about relationships. This was really helpful and everything you said applied to my life almost perfectly so thank 😊
I’m still praying on this, but we met while serving at church. Ironically, it was a ministry the guy’s dad was the leader of!! I am still single, but I’m trusting God’s timing!! Wow! I did need this ❤. I will say this I was in the same YA group as the guy for a bit, but this season I began getting more involved with the woman’s group. As much as I want a relationship, God pulled me towards another ministry- if this relationship is meant to be- He would it happen. Prayers for you, Tyler and lil Judah baby!
Amazing how wonderful your way of exlaplaination truly i appreciate you this shows that you have understood god's ways very clearly this is very rare because very few people really understand god's ways you are blessed may God bless you in everything you do all of your principles are very good thank you so much
May 5th 2023. I am a Malaysian Chinese Christian, single, waiting for the Lord Jesus Christ to come into my life again. The last time was in 2018. I am looking for a godly friend. When will "they" make the change back to my other 'team' top Guardians. The holy spirits are outside of you when something unclean dwell in you. Nice listening to your sermons, Kaci Nicole. Hallelujah. May God bless you always. Amen. Wcy.
I'm kind of scared of relationships, I don't know if I feel that I'm ready or not. after my first 'relationship' in late middle school/early high school I wanted to make sure I healed myself enough from my childhood so as to not bring in unaddressed baggage and to feel more secure in myself. I'm in my second year of college, and am taking a theology course cause my school requires it (I was also really looking forward to learning more about catholicism from a theologian whose focus is on Latinx studies). There's this one guy in the class who never fails to catch my attention. I do find him visually attractive and he's super engaging in class, always raising his hand and sharing how what we're learning (still general overall information rather than specific passages yet) to a specific story and is able to say it as if he's reading from an invisible Bible. There's a voice in the back of my head that says I should wait but I don't know if that's just the mantra I've had on in my head for years when it comes to relationships. Another part of me wants to try to talk to him after class...I feel so conflicted 😖 Pray for me please, I would take any I could get 🙏😭 Edit: HES SO NICE 😭🤧
My advice is that you should let the Holy Spirit take the lead. by this I mean, Let God confirm to you if the guy is the right guy for you 'relationship wise'
@Jerika4659 I love Traditional Catholicism: the original foundation of #Christianity ! I hope you let yourself make a new friend & see if your discernment through the Holy Ghost helps you find a mate soon 💙🙏💙
FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE JOHN 3:16
I’m 39 and single…I fell into promiscuity in my late 20s/30s when I was a substance abuser and deeply regret the amount of men I’ve slept w trying to find love. Alcohol and drugs are powerful and clouded my judgement…I got nothing but hurt, rejection, pain from those men not to mention 2 STDs. I deeply repent my worldly ways. 😢
Before I was reborn in Christ, there was somebody in my life who God would not let our relationship be compromised bc He knew I was not where I needed to be & I would always push that person away and now that I’ve found God, I ended up actually gaining feelings for that person and now I’m just trying to have faith that is the person God set out for me bc he’s one of the best servants God could ask for and I a know everything is in God’s timing and His Will but I will admit that I’m completely nervous over this situation and he’s been guided against me from the people in his life bc of how my past was
It’s ironic you posted this, because I didn’t find myself a godly spouse, but rather a godly girlfriend. Thank you God!! Edit: I just got let go from my job…
Principal number two reminds me of the importance of being equally yoked in relationship so that the race towards Christ may be ran well. 2 Corinthians 6:14 :)
I've been single for a long time also I'm a baby Christian there's a small Baptist church down the road from me so perhaps it would be a good idea to go and make some friends as I don't have any I haven't had any friends since high school but you know how it is once graduation comes everyone seems to part sure I've had friends online I have one I met online 9 or 10 years ago? she lives in Europe and we keep in touch with whatsapp so surely to go to church to make friends and if it is in God's will for me to meet a man then so be it and if not that's fine too :) I know I need Godly people in my life and fore sure need some Godly friends
Greetings, I found your video very encouraging. Please pray strongly the Lord enables me to put these five principles into action, and to shortly find the right one God has for me. I deeply, deeply appreciate and need your prayers. Jack
I'm currently in a relationship where my girlfriend is still married (we started dating before we started going back to church) and throughout the relationship, a lot of issues arrised. There was RARELY any peace or trust. She came from a marriage that nearly destroyed her but God took her out of that place. She's currently separated and we're still dating and official. As I'm getting closer to, I feel less of an attraction to her. To sum it up, her trauma and its effects have heavily affected our relationship and my mental and emotional wellbeing. Not to blame her or anything of course. But while I approached the relationship with love and hope, she approached it with fear and anxiety. It's much better now but it still pops up here and there. But my love for her has changed and I'm unsure of what to do. My dad says to wait, I feel God telling me to wait even though I feel like I can't do this anymore because it feels like I'm living a lie. She prays for the relationship to get better while I pray for God's will to be done despite what we may want. Bottom line is, I'm still a bit lost on what to do. I know God's telling me to wait but I just feel this sort of dryness when it comes to the relationship. I know God Himself wouldn't bless me with a married woman, especially back when she and I were in fornication and lust. So the whole thing confuses me when He hasn't told me to let go and leave but to wait. He hasn't answered our question on whether she and I are who He wants for one another, but says to wait. To the both of us. I ask you all to pray for me. For clarity, inspiration to obey His will and trust in Him. Because I've grown mighty tired of being in this relationship.. so please pray for me if you are willing. God bless and thank you for the video by the way. It's definitely really helpful!
I doubt God is telling you to wait because this isn’t biblical. You’re not supposed to pursue a married woman. She has all kinds of challenges with her marriage (also sounds like she’s emotionally unavailable by the way you describe her) and you’re just putting yourself all in that mess. The best thing to do is stay away. She has to properly divorce and work through getting over her last relationship. You will always set yourself up for stress or heartbreak if you go for people who are not fully broken up/divorced and completely healed from their last relationship.
My brother went through pretty much the exact same thing. He was with a married woman and he believed God was telling him that was the right thing. I believe this is completely wrong for him to assume he knew what God’s will was. And it was wrong of him to go against his own conscience and morals because of a “feeling” that he had. I don’t mean to be harsh but you need to trust the conscience God gave you. It isn’t God’s will for you to suffer from relationships. God gives them to us to honor Him and bring us joy. If those aren’t happening, that’s a sign to leave.
As someone who was left by her spouse for another person, I sure hope you dumped her. My ex wound up marrying the person he left me for, who he met while I was pregnant. I wish she had dumped him after he went through everything he did to ruin my life and abandon his baby for her. But nope, she’s here every other weekend to focus her efforts on stealing my child from me too. My ex lied to me about being a Christian, lied to me about her, and thinks he’s done nothing wrong. And I hope you’ve repented for your part in the ending of that marriage. Why would you even continue to pull a married woman from her spouse if there were issues in your relationship? Of course there were issues…it was incredibly sinful and shameful.
I would say it's both. We pray for our future spouse and let it be known to God our desires but we should also make an effort to go out out and meet people. Be it a young adults group, a ministry or somewhere you know you'll find people of similar values. God is with you friend😊🙏🏼
@@Kat-zh9zu the REAL church is HIS people/the sheep of CHRIST😇 Where 2 or more are gathered in HIS Name - JESUS, HE is there Mathew 18😌 So no, you don't need a building, but if you find building where in it is following the Sound doctrine, it will be easy to you for sure. The today "Christianity" have more problems and looks very worldly, but the LORD always have HIS 7000, who will not live worldly, Amen HOLY SPIRIT.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 In this world you will hear "Everything is in your hands and head", but according to the Bible God decides whether we will get married or Not - 1 Cor. 7 I hope i was helpful.😊 ✝ CHRIST is Risen ✝
Excuse me UA-cam lady, so i had a dream and i saw myself holding hands with a women ive known since i was 12. I jumped off a ledge and our hands were inseparable and she jumped with me. And i felt that verse "what God has Joined together let not man separate" And ive had other dreams where because of us, her family came to church and her divorced parents were back together because of us. Also a wedding day, and she was so happy and i was so nervous. And i felt my dad who has passed, watching me in that moment and reminding me of the serious commitment i was making. It was so clear lol i didnt have to be so clear. I know exactly who she is. The funny thing is i dont even think we ever liked eachother when we were younger. Ah so confusing! I bet her mother is going to be like naomi and ill be boaz LOL her mother could totally be like naomi 😂😂
Did you pray a lot for a godly relationship and a husband? What did you pray? I know there is no magical prayer - just wondering. I've been single for many years too and get discouraged because I desire and pray to be in a godly relationship with a woman and get married to a woman who is growing her own walk with the Lord and who I am equally yoked with. I know God has a plan, but it's just hard because nearly everyone I know is in a long-term dating relationship or married and I strongly desire to be with someone and I at times feel like a loser who no one wants to be with.
Peace be unto you brother. Have you tried asking older brothers in your church/congregation for help regarding marriage? Proverbs 19:20-21 King James Version 20 Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end. 21 There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the Lord, that shall stand. 1 Corinthians 12:12-20 King James Version 12 For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ. 13 For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit. 14 For the body is not one member, but many. 15 If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? 16 And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? 17 If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? 18 But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him. 19 And if they were all one member, where were the body? 20 But now are they many members, yet but one body.
Welcome to the club. Better get used to feeling like that because that's just the way it is. Nothing will change and I've long given up. I'm never asking god for a wife again. I'm done wasting my time.
Kaci what is some biblical principles when your getting your divorce but God has given you a dream of your husband the Lord also gave him a dream we do go to the same church but that is the only time I see him he does know my situation when I met him He told me God removed the woman he was with. How should a situation like this be approached we both were not expecting none of this because they both had similar situations Of break ups but we were both very open with each other when we had the dreams he was asking God the same questions I asked why is this person in my life .
I had my correct one. I dint know how i ruined it. Things went wrong, so wrong.. we couldnt find jobs to get married... he struggled with depression and i ve lost my heart. I felt i died 4 a long time.. its been more than 3 years and i still love him.. dont know how to think..
You have to move on. Live your life. If it's meant to be it'll be... In the meantime build relationships, find a career, work out and/or stay active... Just live your life.
@@whatdidujustsay2094 i had a car accident recently... i understood what u are saying. God says the same. Its time to licencia my licencia. We never know when it will end.
What if the people around you seem to have an interest in keeping you single because it works to their advantage. How do get leaders in the church to actually realise that being single is not ideal and that living alone often causes stagnation and may even be bad for your wellbeing. There seems to be a lot of people who think that they 'know best', when they in fact know very very little about the people they walk beside. There are also those who simply want to 'keep you under their thumb' and have absolutely no respect for who you are. You need to carefully choose your 'friends'. Many 'Christian' friends simply only want to 'dominate' single Christians and some can even see themselves as being 'superior' to Christians who are single. Many even 'patronise' single Christians. Many even 'laugh' at single Christians also. Some only want to prey into others 'personal lives' and are only your 'friend' because they are gossips and cannot mind their own business. Others seem to think that they have a 'right' to 'stick their nose' into your personal life. Christians need to respect each other and not think that 'they' know what is best for another person. There is often a stigma attached to being 'single' and many apparently love to 'patronise' single people, as though they were incapable of doing anything for themselves. Be very very careful who you 'choose' to be your Christian 'friends' as many are simply 'looking after' their 'own' interests and have no regard whatsoever for 'your' interests. Those who 'love' to 'give advice' are often simply only 'talking' in order to make themselves 'feel important'. Their advice in reality may be the 'wrong' advice that you need to hear. Be very very careful who you listen to and take advice from multiple sources and analyse advice given very very carefully. Thank you for this video.
Single here. I disagree with you kaci, the events up until the present are due to our choices in our life. Now if we are walking with God and abiding in Him, then yes, the past events led us to where we are due to God guiding us. Maybe that’s what you meant. My ex left me not because God was teaching me a lesson or God caused her to leave, it was because of my selfish acts and I wasn’t living for Christ.
Stay strong! God sees you loves you and wants to give you the desires of your heart. Stay faithful to Him and enjoy the blessings He provides you. I pray God blesses you with a godly spouse and beautiful marriage! God bless
My son - he's running with the wrong crowd- he got arrested and he has a lawyer. He was bonded out. He has become a drug addict. Addicted to crack cocaine. It's hard not to worry when your a mother. I need to surrender my son to God. I pray he goes to drug rehab . Pray he doesn't end up dead. Anyway I need to work at not worrying.
Have you explained to your son WHO is JESUS/YHWHYESHUA, the Great I AM?✝😏✝ The Son of God answers prayers - John 14 The WORD/the Son is there where 2 or more are gathered in His Name - Mathew 18 In the BEGINNING was >>>the Word
I Hate to say it, but those kinds of ppl need more jail time. It helps them stay away from the drugs and get the help they need. Prison also formally educates inmates and they come out with new skills. It sounds like your son needs distraction and quality time on his hands instead of waste in quality time. This drug addicts Are only healed when the sense gets knocked back into them And they find purpose. I pray for you and him To have a long healthy happy life full of blessings.
I hate when u say that attractiveness should not be the most important thing. I get why I say it, but I need the woman to be attractive and to catch my attention in order for me to step to her. I cannot be like most people who grow to like someone over time . I must find her attractive first, and then hopefully she has the godly qualities I’m looking for.
I’m 46. I’ve waited for 25 years. If nothing happens this year I’m sending myself to heaven. Waiting was never biblical. I could go on about it but I’m just wasting more time talking about it since it’ll fall on deaf ears. Good luck everyone. I hope you don’t end up like me. God bless ❤
I hope you don't mean suicide. I am 35 and waiting as well. It is very hard but it is doable. Do some hobbies to get your mind off of it. I'm not gonna promise he is going to send you someone but he can give you strength to go through it. Be encouraged! You're not alone ❤
@@ebonysmith1493 I’ve waited too long. Done too many hobbies. Doesn’t matter. Waiting is a farce. Do NOT wait. No more “strength to get me thru”. I’ve heard it all, seen it all. It’s a lie. I waited 25 years. No more. I could go on with the hypocrisy but it’ll take too long to type. Either this year or it’s over.
I'm at the point where I'm considering the same thing. I'm just done. Im realizing that God just won't allow this in my life no matter what. So I'm finished.
Stay strong! God sees you loves you and wants to give you the desires of your heart. Stay faithful to Him and enjoy the blessings He provides you. I pray God blesses you with a godly spouse and beautiful marriage! God bless
Out of that story i got you need to be equally yoked look for a woman of modesty i need money to support my family and i need to be a 1 timothy 3 man looking for a proverbs 31 woman . We need morals and standards in relationships and focus on christ conduct our self with aelf control i am single focusing on god and looking for my proverbs 31 woman witnessing to people about the love of god building the kingdom of god . Yes i have many faults . Grace grace of God.
In each generation there are those who are called to serve as God's remnant upon the earth and they are generally few in number. For such disciples, dating is not only unnecessary, but counter productive for God Himself will bring your future spouse to you.
Yep until the other person goes to glory. You can't get married because if you marry while your ex husband/ wife is still alive then you will be committing adultry.
I feel like this only works, especially the optimism,if you're young, cute, and pretty. If your fat, ugly, and over 40, even a lot of Godly men, don't want you.
I understand your point, but...There is a lot of relativity in beauty. Also, if you do not like your body type, you have the ability to change that. Finally, you will probably having to find a man who is also over 40, and they exist. So, best of luck and God bless!
I actually find this Bible story pretty unencouraging as a single woman. The two people who ended up marrying, Isaac and Rebekah, did virtually nothing to find each other or bring the match to fruition. So in modern day where my future husband doesn't have a father who sends his servant to look for me, how does this apply? Because as the woman, all Rebekah did was be kind to a servant she stumbled upon while completing her daily chores and she somehow wound up with a husband...so while I think all of the points that were raised in this video are valid, the Bible story itself is not terribly encouraging to me on my journey to try to find a husband
Hey kaci, im a 31 year old man..can you pls comment on my situation? God told me through a dream that i am not to have a gf until he gives me that one specific job that he has in store for me. At the same time ive been praying for a godly spouse and ive always prayed for a list of qualities i desire in a person. The problem is that now in my current situation ..god has brought the right person into the picture..which seem to be so odd bec its not the right time. I did not plan this. But it just happened bec of circumstances beyond my control. How should i respond to this? we often text..should i stop talking to her for now? We arent dating or anything like that.
God loves you. Cling onto hope, God, stay in prayer. Keep living life and don’t force yourself to do things, but from time to time keep going to social things and take care if your body as you should do anyways. If you desire marriage, God knows and wants to give you the desires of your heart. Contentment and patience is important. God bless ya and enjoy your life!!
Tyler and I met serving alongside each other in church 😊 would love to hear your stories below!
Hi! I wanted to say you should add Bible verses to the start or end I got this from a youtuber called coryxkenshin it would be awesome and the Bible verse could be related to the video
I met my wife overseas. Many things in my job lined up perfectly for me to be with her. We prayed together many times and left everything up to him to decide if we were right for each other. I can say the hardest thing is that she is catholic and I'm protestant and sometimes I feel like I'm more in tune with my spiritual self than she is. We disagree on a few things, but we put God first in everything we do. My Goal in my life now is to surround myself with more Godly people. Being in the military defiantly makes this difficult.
Recently discovered your channel and my story is similar. I met my girlfriend at the time two years ago while we were in school. We were working on an inquiry project and then progressed into doing a Bible study together. As we continued getting to know each other, we then started dating. The relationship lasted about 5 months until it was over. At the time, I was complacent spiritually. I was struggling with the circumstances around me. Then, I felt God speak to me through Revelation 3:8 and that’s where he first started speaking it me. He then revealed to me that she would come back and I’d take her into marriage. I’ve prayed and even fasted over this and God told me the same thing. I’ve used this time of singleness to continue growing spiritually, and had doubts that this will even happen. That’s why I’ve been praying over this cause I ultimately want to be married and have a family. But, I also want God to be glorified at the same time. So, that’s kind of where I’m at currently
I have autism. There is no one for me because you Christian women seem to hate autistic men. I've longed for a woman for my entire life and God screwed me over. Why the fuck should I follow a God who did this to me? Why should I not question why God did this to me? Listen to the song Judith by a perfect circle, Maynard wasn't wrong for questioning these things.
I'm Tanzanian a wanna date with someone who believe in God
“If something is not from God, you can’t force it and if something is from God, nothing can stop it” amen amen ❤️🙏🏽
This is not true, I think God has someone for you but if you don't make the move she will get married and you'll be left alone, so make your move guys don't wait on God
AMEN ❤
Chatted with an atheist liberal woman I met on a dating app. She gave me her number and after 8 hrs of texting, she decided I wasn't right for her. That was God telling me not only that I shouldn't settle bc I live in one of the most sinful and non religious cities in America but I should never again try to date an atheist. Lesson learnt the hard way, thanks God 🙏
Yes, that's right. Your future spouse should be evenly yoked. Similar beliefs, etc.
Yeah, we're not even allowed to date anyone who's not a Christian already.
I love this! Thank you for your wisdom:) I’m 36 and single, I’ve been walking faithfully with God for over 10 ish years and I’m still waiting and trusting 🙏🏼 I’ve tried so many times to force myself to like certain guys, I over analyze and guilt myself and even get pressure from other ppl to settle but it’s just not in me. Waiting for a true Godly man, Lord willing 🙌🏼
I'm 35 old male single, I approve this message... LOL ;)
I am 29 while waiting for God's giving me my partner i am enjoying building my conviction in God.
Heyy, I'm a single 29 year old man. I earn a good salary and love Jesus, let me know if you're interested 🤣😆
Do you not have to put in the work yourself to find a partner instead of waiting for God to give you a partner?
Amen I pray Jesus send me a woman of God Amen
Did you find him yet?
Newly single and I know God is making my foundation FIRM in him and showing me he is everything I could ever need! I love this video because I know I shouldn’t settle for just any man! Thank you !
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I am still single have been for a very long time but by God's grace and help and goodness l am still praying and believing and trusting the Lord for a very nice Christian girlfriend and a very nice Christian wife holding onto the wonderful truths and promises of God's word Amen. I believe it will all happen in the right way place and time Amen God bless you and thank-you for your video very inspirational and helpful and encouraging in the Lord Amen.
Me too, brother, but continue to seek the kingdom of God first and always put him first in your heart above everything else. A godly spouse will eventually come along the way.
Ditto amen
Marry me 😅
@@elezerlaloo5312 Hello l am replying to your text message.What is your phone number?
Amen
Your points are really good. The difficult part is that you can follow all those guidelines and still barely meet suitable christian people to date. I know so many great christians (both men and women) who really struggle with it.
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
I love your videos they are always based on scripture, which I don't see as much anymore, so it's always refreshing to hear from someone who is gleaning Truth from the Word itself. It just makes me fall in love with God and His word so much more, so thank you! As someone who is single (21+ years strong! Yay😄) the first one was most encouraging because I am very private but it I do believe going to someone older, wise, and trusted is wise and would be good for me, especially since in my environment, I have never seen someone do that before! ☺
I’m 26 but with or without a husband, I am putting it in God’s hands and praising him no matter the outcome. I love this video because kind of like the two farmers who desperately needed rain and only one prepared his field to receive it. I’m preparing for if God does send me a godly man.
I agree with you, Kaci, especially with principle 3. Think of what the person spends their time doing and where they spend most of their time. A guy was interested in me, but he's not a Christian and spends most time playing video games when not working, so I knew that wasn't what I wanted.
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Currently single 🤭🙈... Out of the five principles the one that encouraged me the most was steep your search in prayer!! So important and a good reminder! Thanks for sharing Kaci 🤗
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
This is an excellent video and clearly God- inspired. Speaking as one who did not follow these principles- even though I knew in my heart I should- I really urge everyone watching this to take heed. In a nutshell I chose earthly love- and lust- over waiting for God’s best and my spouse is still a non-believer 30 years on. Trust me, it opens you up to a world of pain and missed opportunities to do the Lords will and whilst I know I am forgiven for that wrong choice, I will always wonder how much more blessed my life would have been if I had been stronger at the time.
Daaaang. Well thanks for your testimony. Hope your spouse comes around.
Thank God I found your channel. Am encouraged... I have the grace of God and will wait patiently for my spouse.
I found all of those 5 principles encouraging, Kaci! Thank you so much! I just wanted to say, you're not the only one I follow for christian dating advice. I follow this other woman who is also a married woman, like you. She also wrote a devotional like you did. Her name is Erin Elise Kiu. And she has a son on the way, too! Her videos are very motivational like yours are and I would love it if you two could do a collaboration video together one day. God bless!
Great advise , much appreciated. Seeking God's guidance and seeking among God's people reasonate with me.Very important principles.
Thank you for this! God bless everyone! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I'm 57 year old disabled veteran single for 10 years now if not more, I lost count, I have pretty much GIVIN up hope on finding a lady in my life, I don't even know how to go about it these days with all the craziness in this world not to mention I live way out in the country where there's not many people or places to meet people. I'm trying to keep the FAITH but it is a hard thing to do.
Extremely deplorable, God has a plan,and that spouse for you; if that's God's will for you. I'm 62 never been married, yet I pray for that blessed wife. God has that perfect plan for our lives. God bless you
This was amazing thank you! I just got back from church where I had been talking with an older christian about relationships. This was really helpful and everything you said applied to my life almost perfectly so thank 😊
I would love to find a Godly spouse.
God is Faithful,at the right time you will meet her
God will provide
I'm 32 , Single & dancing with JESUS 🔥
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This was so informative! A blessing, thank you! I like the last point most about having a servant heart,
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
I’m still praying on this, but we met while serving at church. Ironically, it was a ministry the guy’s dad was the leader of!! I am still single, but I’m trusting God’s timing!! Wow! I did need this ❤. I will say this I was in the same YA group as the guy for a bit, but this season I began getting more involved with the woman’s group. As much as I want a relationship, God pulled me towards another ministry- if this relationship is meant to be- He would it happen.
Prayers for you, Tyler and lil Judah baby!
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Ms. Keep doing what Jesus Christ, has placed in your heart!
Thank you for this ! Great video and highly informative , and I was just thinking about this topic yesterday
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
I am searching for a Godly wife. I want someone we can both grow in faith!
Great advice. Great video
18:51, that's the real wisdom there, thank you for your video!
I needed this thank you ❤️ the first video that actually helps us
Aw praise God I'm so glad 💛
Thank you Kacie for your encouragement and thoughtful of God and your family and bless you and I pray 🙏 the Lord Jesus Christ continue to use you
I thoroughly enjoyed all the principles especially the second one
Aw so happy to hear this - praise God! ☺️
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Amazing how wonderful your way of exlaplaination truly i appreciate you this shows that you have understood god's ways very clearly this is very rare because very few people really understand god's ways you are blessed may God bless you in everything you do all of your principles are very good thank you so much
Thank-you for your video on how to find a godly spouse.
May 5th 2023. I am a Malaysian Chinese Christian, single, waiting for the Lord Jesus Christ to come into my life again. The last time was in 2018. I am looking for a godly friend. When will "they" make the change back to my other 'team' top Guardians. The holy spirits are outside of you when something unclean dwell in you. Nice listening to your sermons, Kaci Nicole. Hallelujah. May God bless you always. Amen. Wcy.
I am single and I desire marriage. It was drawing water, because the servant was doing something he naturally had to do.
I'm kind of scared of relationships, I don't know if I feel that I'm ready or not. after my first 'relationship' in late middle school/early high school I wanted to make sure I healed myself enough from my childhood so as to not bring in unaddressed baggage and to feel more secure in myself. I'm in my second year of college, and am taking a theology course cause my school requires it (I was also really looking forward to learning more about catholicism from a theologian whose focus is on Latinx studies). There's this one guy in the class who never fails to catch my attention. I do find him visually attractive and he's super engaging in class, always raising his hand and sharing how what we're learning (still general overall information rather than specific passages yet) to a specific story and is able to say it as if he's reading from an invisible Bible. There's a voice in the back of my head that says I should wait but I don't know if that's just the mantra I've had on in my head for years when it comes to relationships. Another part of me wants to try to talk to him after class...I feel so conflicted 😖 Pray for me please, I would take any I could get 🙏😭
Edit: HES SO NICE 😭🤧
My advice is that you should let the Holy Spirit take the lead. by this I mean, Let God confirm to you if the guy is the right guy for you 'relationship wise'
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Leave catholism and accept Christ as your lord and savior. Leave idolatry, don't worship statues and photos. Become a christian.
@@kayaanyadunath9863 Amen to that.🤗
@Jerika4659
I love Traditional Catholicism: the original foundation of #Christianity !
I hope you let yourself make a new friend & see if your discernment through the Holy Ghost helps you find a mate soon 💙🙏💙
FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
JOHN 3:16
That's so nice channel. Thank you.
I’m 39 and single…I fell into promiscuity in my late 20s/30s when I was a substance abuser and deeply regret the amount of men I’ve slept w trying to find love. Alcohol and drugs are powerful and clouded my judgement…I got nothing but hurt, rejection, pain from
those men not to mention
2 STDs. I deeply repent my worldly ways. 😢
God can cleanse us from all sins if we truly repent. Your past will not disqualify you for a blessed Marriage in the Future ❤
God is the restorer but keep looking to the Lord for true love and delight yourself in him and He will bless you with a godly spouse.
God the Holy Spirit/JESUS got you.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
We all make mistakes!
I loved this. Thank you!
So glad! 😊🙌🏼
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Thanks for sharing
Excellent! Thanks.
Before I was reborn in Christ, there was somebody in my life who God would not let our relationship be compromised bc He knew I was not where I needed to be & I would always push that person away and now that I’ve found God, I ended up actually gaining feelings for that person and now I’m just trying to have faith that is the person God set out for me bc he’s one of the best servants God could ask for and I a know everything is in God’s timing and His Will but I will admit that I’m completely nervous over this situation and he’s been guided against me from the people in his life bc of how my past was
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Keep praying like Jesus commanded, if the man is for you he'll be with you eventually no matter what people say. God bless
Fave principle - be steeped in prayer. Going to share this with some friends, thank you!
So happy you found it helpful 🥰
And thank you for sharing! 💛
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
@@jerikao4659 stop promoting practices that Jesus never commanded, do not be deceived, not every dream is from God
@@lovingtherightone Amen Sister. The rosary is like the Blackstone - worships the moon goddess/godhead, ummmm NO THANKS.😌
✝ CHRIST is Risen ✝
Soo needed this today beautiful principles ! Thank u ❤
Aw praise God! I'm so happy it was helpful 🤍
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
It’s ironic you posted this, because I didn’t find myself a godly spouse, but rather a godly girlfriend. Thank you God!! Edit: I just got let go from my job…
That’s the first step - love it!
@@kacinicole thanks Kaci!
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you. ❤❤
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you. ❤❤
@@jerikao4659 hmm
Look at you with the alliterations :)
Finding a good heart ❤️ is hard. Yes, all good points. 😊 I've been good good then.
Please pray for me to find a spouse. I’m asking the Spirit to lead me to her.
Thank You.
Im praying for God to bring my life long partner into my life. 🙏🏼😭 The waiting season is so hard.
Principal number two reminds me of the importance of being equally yoked in relationship so that the race towards Christ may be ran well. 2 Corinthians 6:14 :)
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Thank you Kaci ❤️
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
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What’s the best dating app in your opinion???
We need the return of Godly Ephesians 5 men and Godly Proverbs 31 women!
I love you as a sister not in that way I'm single and plan to stay that way Amen.
what a great submission, just what i wanted to hear
I've been single for a long time also I'm a baby Christian there's a small Baptist church down the road from me so perhaps it would be a good idea to go and make some friends as I don't have any I haven't had any friends since high school but you know how it is once graduation comes everyone seems to part sure I've had friends online I have one I met online 9 or 10 years ago? she lives in Europe and we keep in touch with whatsapp so surely to go to church to make friends and if it is in God's will for me to meet a man then so be it and if not that's fine too :) I know I need Godly people in my life and fore sure need some Godly friends
Greetings, I found your video very encouraging. Please pray strongly the Lord enables me to put these five principles into action, and to shortly find the right one God has for me. I deeply, deeply appreciate and need your prayers. Jack
You can come to russia. If you want, if you are american you can get more beautiful wife then expected.
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I'm currently in a relationship where my girlfriend is still married (we started dating before we started going back to church) and throughout the relationship, a lot of issues arrised. There was RARELY any peace or trust. She came from a marriage that nearly destroyed her but God took her out of that place. She's currently separated and we're still dating and official. As I'm getting closer to, I feel less of an attraction to her. To sum it up, her trauma and its effects have heavily affected our relationship and my mental and emotional wellbeing. Not to blame her or anything of course. But while I approached the relationship with love and hope, she approached it with fear and anxiety. It's much better now but it still pops up here and there. But my love for her has changed and I'm unsure of what to do. My dad says to wait, I feel God telling me to wait even though I feel like I can't do this anymore because it feels like I'm living a lie. She prays for the relationship to get better while I pray for God's will to be done despite what we may want. Bottom line is, I'm still a bit lost on what to do. I know God's telling me to wait but I just feel this sort of dryness when it comes to the relationship. I know God Himself wouldn't bless me with a married woman, especially back when she and I were in fornication and lust. So the whole thing confuses me when He hasn't told me to let go and leave but to wait. He hasn't answered our question on whether she and I are who He wants for one another, but says to wait. To the both of us. I ask you all to pray for me. For clarity, inspiration to obey His will and trust in Him. Because I've grown mighty tired of being in this relationship.. so please pray for me if you are willing. God bless and thank you for the video by the way. It's definitely really helpful!
I doubt God is telling you to wait because this isn’t biblical. You’re not supposed to pursue a married woman. She has all kinds of challenges with her marriage (also sounds like she’s emotionally unavailable by the way you describe her) and you’re just putting yourself all in that mess. The best thing to do is stay away. She has to properly divorce and work through getting over her last relationship. You will always set yourself up for stress or heartbreak if you go for people who are not fully broken up/divorced and completely healed from their last relationship.
My brother went through pretty much the exact same thing. He was with a married woman and he believed God was telling him that was the right thing. I believe this is completely wrong for him to assume he knew what God’s will was. And it was wrong of him to go against his own conscience and morals because of a “feeling” that he had. I don’t mean to be harsh but you need to trust the conscience God gave you. It isn’t God’s will for you to suffer from relationships. God gives them to us to honor Him and bring us joy. If those aren’t happening, that’s a sign to leave.
As someone who was left by her spouse for another person, I sure hope you dumped her. My ex wound up marrying the person he left me for, who he met while I was pregnant. I wish she had dumped him after he went through everything he did to ruin my life and abandon his baby for her. But nope, she’s here every other weekend to focus her efforts on stealing my child from me too. My ex lied to me about being a Christian, lied to me about her, and thinks he’s done nothing wrong. And I hope you’ve repented for your part in the ending of that marriage. Why would you even continue to pull a married woman from her spouse if there were issues in your relationship? Of course there were issues…it was incredibly sinful and shameful.
Is your kingdom spouse something you pray for and they’ll just appear ? Or is it something one has to look out for ?
I would say it's both. We pray for our future spouse and let it be known to God our desires but we should also make an effort to go out out and meet people. Be it a young adults group, a ministry or somewhere you know you'll find people of similar values.
God is with you friend😊🙏🏼
@@monsev.arellano9125 God bless you 🙏🏻✝️
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
@@monsev.arellano9125 what if you’re not part of a church? Do you believe you can still find a strong Christian relationship? Or is church a must?
@@Kat-zh9zu the REAL church is HIS people/the sheep of CHRIST😇
Where 2 or more are gathered in HIS Name - JESUS, HE is there Mathew 18😌
So no, you don't need a building, but if you find building where in it is following the Sound doctrine, it will be easy to you for sure.
The today "Christianity" have more problems and looks very worldly, but the LORD always have HIS 7000, who will not live worldly, Amen HOLY SPIRIT.🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
In this world you will hear "Everything is in your hands and head", but according to the Bible God decides whether we will get married or Not - 1 Cor. 7
I hope i was helpful.😊
✝ CHRIST is Risen ✝
Another good example is the story of Abigail and king david
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Amen!
Excuse me UA-cam lady,
so i had a dream and i saw myself holding hands with a women ive known since i was 12. I jumped off a ledge and our hands were inseparable and she jumped with me. And i felt that verse "what God has Joined together let not man separate"
And ive had other dreams where because of us, her family came to church and her divorced parents were back together because of us.
Also a wedding day, and she was so happy and i was so nervous. And i felt my dad who has passed, watching me in that moment and reminding me of the serious commitment i was making.
It was so clear lol i didnt have to be so clear. I know exactly who she is. The funny thing is i dont even think we ever liked eachother when we were younger. Ah so confusing!
I bet her mother is going to be like naomi and ill be boaz LOL her mother could totally be like naomi 😂😂
Did you pray a lot for a godly relationship and a husband? What did you pray? I know there is no magical prayer - just wondering. I've been single for many years too and get discouraged because I desire and pray to be in a godly relationship with a woman and get married to a woman who is growing her own walk with the Lord and who I am equally yoked with. I know God has a plan, but it's just hard because nearly everyone I know is in a long-term dating relationship or married and I strongly desire to be with someone and I at times feel like a loser who no one wants to be with.
Peace be unto you brother. Have you tried asking older brothers in your church/congregation for help regarding marriage?
Proverbs 19:20-21
King James Version
20 Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.
21 There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the Lord, that shall stand.
1 Corinthians 12:12-20
King James Version
12 For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ.
13 For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit.
14 For the body is not one member, but many.
15 If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body?
16 And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body?
17 If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling?
18 But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him.
19 And if they were all one member, where were the body?
20 But now are they many members, yet but one body.
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
@Randy ,where are you from. I am from SA,maybe we can get to know each other. I have been single too for quite sometime.
@@Pedro-of4tn Amen Brother.✝
Welcome to the club. Better get used to feeling like that because that's just the way it is. Nothing will change and I've long given up. I'm never asking god for a wife again. I'm done wasting my time.
Thanks for sharing 🙏😊❤. I am praying to marry 💕 an Western or European nation girl who is a ❤born again Christian girl.😊
I got the Gift of Celibacy and lost the exchange receipt!
Meh. I'll find something interesting to do with it.
Kaci what is some biblical principles when your getting your divorce but God has given you a dream of your husband the Lord also gave him a dream we do go to the same church but that is the only time I see him he does know my situation when I met him He told me God removed the woman he was with. How should a situation like this be approached we both were not expecting none of this because they both had similar situations Of break ups but we were both very open with each other when we had the dreams he was asking God the same questions I asked why is this person in my life .
From a guy: stop hiding, start going to Church, look for a good guy
God gave me 3 different women but it didnt work so now looking for definitely one
2 failed marriages later…still wondering if I’ll meet the right one ever.
I had my correct one. I dint know how i ruined it. Things went wrong, so wrong.. we couldnt find jobs to get married... he struggled with depression and i ve lost my heart. I felt i died 4 a long time.. its been more than 3 years and i still love him.. dont know how to think..
You have to move on. Live your life. If it's meant to be it'll be... In the meantime build relationships, find a career, work out and/or stay active... Just live your life.
@@whatdidujustsay2094 i had a car accident recently... i understood what u are saying. God says the same. Its time to licencia my licencia. We never know when it will end.
What if the people around you seem to have an interest in keeping you single because it works to their advantage. How do get leaders in the church to actually realise that being single is not ideal and that living alone often causes stagnation and may even be bad for your wellbeing. There seems to be a lot of people who think that they 'know best', when they in fact know very very little about the people they walk beside. There are also those who simply want to 'keep you under their thumb' and have absolutely no respect for who you are. You need to carefully choose your 'friends'. Many 'Christian' friends simply only want to 'dominate' single Christians and some can even see themselves as being 'superior' to Christians who are single. Many even 'patronise' single Christians. Many even 'laugh' at single Christians also. Some only want to prey into others 'personal lives' and are only your 'friend' because they are gossips and cannot mind their own business. Others seem to think that they have a 'right' to 'stick their nose' into your personal life. Christians need to respect each other and not think that 'they' know what is best for another person. There is often a stigma attached to being 'single' and many apparently love to 'patronise' single people, as though they were incapable of doing anything for themselves. Be very very careful who you 'choose' to be your Christian 'friends' as many are simply 'looking after' their 'own' interests and have no regard whatsoever for 'your' interests. Those who 'love' to 'give advice' are often simply only 'talking' in order to make themselves 'feel important'. Their advice in reality may be the 'wrong' advice that you need to hear. Be very very careful who you listen to and take advice from multiple sources and analyse advice given very very carefully. Thank you for this video.
I start to wonder if they still exist
Amen
I've been doing those things for 30 years. Doesn't work.
Single here. I disagree with you kaci, the events up until the present are due to our choices in our life. Now if we are walking with God and abiding in Him, then yes, the past events led us to where we are due to God guiding us. Maybe that’s what you meant. My ex left me not because God was teaching me a lesson or God caused her to leave, it was because of my selfish acts and I wasn’t living for Christ.
I'm single and still waiting
Stay strong! God sees you loves you and wants to give you the desires of your heart. Stay faithful to Him and enjoy the blessings He provides you. I pray God blesses you with a godly spouse and beautiful marriage! God bless
I pray for her and idk her name or what she looks like.
My son - he's running with the wrong crowd- he got arrested and he has a lawyer. He was bonded out. He has become a drug addict. Addicted to crack cocaine. It's hard not to worry when your a mother. I need to surrender my son to God. I pray he goes to drug rehab . Pray he doesn't end up dead.
Anyway I need to work at not worrying.
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Have you explained to your son WHO is JESUS/YHWHYESHUA, the Great I AM?✝😏✝
The Son of God answers prayers - John 14
The WORD/the Son is there where 2 or more are gathered in His Name - Mathew 18
In the BEGINNING was >>>the Word
I Hate to say it, but those kinds of ppl need more jail time. It helps them stay away from the drugs and get the help they need. Prison also formally educates inmates and they come out with new skills. It sounds like your son needs distraction and quality time on his hands instead of waste in quality time. This drug addicts Are only healed when the sense gets knocked back into them And they find purpose. I pray for you and him To have a long healthy happy life full of blessings.
I hate when u say that attractiveness should not be the most important thing. I get why I say it, but I need the woman to be attractive and to catch my attention in order for me to step to her. I cannot be like most people who grow to like someone over time . I must find her attractive first, and then hopefully she has the godly qualities I’m looking for.
I’m 46. I’ve waited for 25 years. If nothing happens this year I’m sending myself to heaven. Waiting was never biblical. I could go on about it but I’m just wasting more time talking about it since it’ll fall on deaf ears. Good luck everyone. I hope you don’t end up like me. God bless ❤
I hope you don't mean suicide. I am 35 and waiting as well. It is very hard but it is doable. Do some hobbies to get your mind off of it. I'm not gonna promise he is going to send you someone but he can give you strength to go through it. Be encouraged! You're not alone ❤
@@ebonysmith1493 I’ve waited too long. Done too many hobbies. Doesn’t matter. Waiting is a farce. Do NOT wait. No more “strength to get me thru”. I’ve heard it all, seen it all. It’s a lie. I waited 25 years. No more. I could go on with the hypocrisy but it’ll take too long to type. Either this year or it’s over.
I'm at the point where I'm considering the same thing. I'm just done. Im realizing that God just won't allow this in my life no matter what. So I'm finished.
I am so lonely…
U should promote different ppl groups, to some extent easy for ppl like u though
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32 I Know Long period 🙌🏻
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Stay strong! God sees you loves you and wants to give you the desires of your heart. Stay faithful to Him and enjoy the blessings He provides you. I pray God blesses you with a godly spouse and beautiful marriage! God bless
If only it was as easy as Isaac had it…. 😭😭😭
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Out of that story i got you need to be equally yoked look for a woman of modesty i need money to support my family and i need to be a 1 timothy 3 man looking for a proverbs 31 woman . We need morals and standards in relationships and focus on christ conduct our self with aelf control i am single focusing on god and looking for my proverbs 31 woman witnessing to people about the love of god building the kingdom of god . Yes i have many faults . Grace grace of God.
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i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
In each generation there are those who are called to serve as God's remnant upon the earth and they are generally few in number. For such disciples, dating is not only unnecessary, but counter productive for God Himself will bring your future spouse to you.
Been married, i must stay alone according to the bible😊
Yep until the other person goes to glory. You can't get married because if you marry while your ex husband/ wife is still alive then you will be committing adultry.
Lady in the video. Do you have a godly spouse? If not why are you teaching that? Just wondering
I feel like this only works, especially the optimism,if you're young, cute, and pretty.
If your fat, ugly, and over 40, even a lot of Godly men, don't want you.
I understand your point, but...There is a lot of relativity in beauty. Also, if you do not like your body type, you have the ability to change that. Finally, you will probably having to find a man who is also over 40, and they exist. So, best of luck and God bless!
I actually find this Bible story pretty unencouraging as a single woman. The two people who ended up marrying, Isaac and Rebekah, did virtually nothing to find each other or bring the match to fruition. So in modern day where my future husband doesn't have a father who sends his servant to look for me, how does this apply? Because as the woman, all Rebekah did was be kind to a servant she stumbled upon while completing her daily chores and she somehow wound up with a husband...so while I think all of the points that were raised in this video are valid, the Bible story itself is not terribly encouraging to me on my journey to try to find a husband
What's disappointing in this?
Can I know, are you american?
you will not were a ring i do were one you want to stay single
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I've been married to a Christian i thought. Nope, as soon as it went bad, like a disposable lighter. I was kicked out
Hey kaci, im a 31 year old man..can you pls comment on my situation?
God told me through a dream that i am not to have a gf until he gives me that one specific job that he has in store for me.
At the same time ive been praying for a godly spouse and ive always prayed for a list of qualities i desire in a person.
The problem is that now in my current situation ..god has brought the right person into the picture..which seem to be so odd bec its not the right time. I did not plan this. But it just happened bec of circumstances beyond my control.
How should i respond to this? we often text..should i stop talking to her for now? We arent dating or anything like that.
Pray about it and ask God for clarity. Also, maybe seek godly counsel too.
Ever hear the expression, “Man plans, God laughs”?
i had a dream from God that if you pray 4 rosaries everyday you’ll find your spouse. Jesus wants to work miracles for you.
Keep in touch with her Bro. God Jesus will take care of the rest....✝✝✝
I'm 35 and still single 🙂😔
God loves you. Cling onto hope, God, stay in prayer. Keep living life and don’t force yourself to do things, but from time to time keep going to social things and take care if your body as you should do anyways. If you desire marriage, God knows and wants to give you the desires of your heart. Contentment and patience is important. God bless ya and enjoy your life!!
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