@42:14 The five components for secure attachment style: 1. Felt sense of safety - parent is consistently protective 2. Feel seen & known - parent is attuned and is aware/curious of the child’s internal state 3. Feel comfort - parent offers consistency soothing & reassurance 4. Feels valued as she/he is - parent consistently expresses delight by who the child is (not what they do) 5. Feels supported for exploration & self discovery - parent encourages exploration & expresses interest in the child’s inner world
Good stuff I've listened to 5-or-so of your podcasts. They ARE very important, and were to me...Sadly..as both a therapist (sidelined by the complexity of "this")and patient. the "reality" of healing: of co-parenting, trusting the therapist, grieving the costs of attachment trauma, of creating a "true self" in relation to this committed and com passionate therapist, a person needs much of what was always elusive-support, and, because of the nature of abuse of all forms not sexual, my livelihood is in dire straits, thus making unaffordable, the extensive treatment required. Whew...needed to get some of that off my chest. No harm, and keep up the great work.
@42:14
The five components for secure attachment style:
1. Felt sense of safety - parent is consistently protective
2. Feel seen & known - parent is attuned and is aware/curious of the child’s internal state
3. Feel comfort - parent offers consistency soothing & reassurance
4. Feels valued as she/he is - parent consistently expresses delight by who the child is (not what they do)
5. Feels supported for exploration & self discovery - parent encourages exploration & expresses interest in the child’s inner world
Beautiful, thank you!
great stuff. really like elliots simple way of explaining things. makes it easier for non native speaker s like moi
Good stuff I've listened to 5-or-so of your podcasts. They ARE very important, and were to me...Sadly..as both a therapist (sidelined by the complexity of "this")and patient. the "reality" of healing: of co-parenting, trusting the therapist, grieving the costs of attachment trauma, of creating a "true self" in relation to this committed and com passionate therapist, a person needs much of what was always elusive-support, and, because of the nature of abuse of all forms not sexual, my livelihood is in dire straits, thus making unaffordable, the extensive treatment required. Whew...needed to get some of that off my chest. No harm, and keep up the great work.
Thanks Eric - so glad you did! And we really value this feedback and are happy that it connects and provides actual value. :)
@Braxton Dudley Thanks Braxton, checking it out.
I find it so difficult think about myself and for myself.
Do you use EMDR or EDI for RAD.
David is great, but the interviewer wants to show off too much of her knowledge instead of really listening to his point