watch this if ur scared of growing up

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  • Опубліковано 31 січ 2025

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  • @ramztuff
    @ramztuff 9 місяців тому +36

    im 14 and im crying of growing up too fast, im scared;(

    • @sneakysnake9908
      @sneakysnake9908 9 місяців тому +3

      I feel you

    • @Poizin77
      @Poizin77 6 місяців тому +3

      Same

    • @enderplayz4040
      @enderplayz4040 5 місяців тому +6

      Yea tbh scared of growing up and losing my parents

    • @The_the_Levi
      @The_the_Levi 5 місяців тому +2

      yea same here

    • @Hampter_lover
      @Hampter_lover 4 місяці тому +2

      same idk how i will act on my own in collage

  • @factoryflisk421
    @factoryflisk421 2 місяці тому +5

    I hit 18 this year and the realization that one day I won’t be the same person or surrounded by the same people terrifies me endlessly

  • @Nightmaremarshmellow5614
    @Nightmaremarshmellow5614 Рік тому +15

    Ok I’m literally only 21 seconds in but how does this guy not have more views??

  • @nicojira2004
    @nicojira2004 Рік тому +9

    That's exactly what I needed to hear.

  • @nicolassanchez6278
    @nicolassanchez6278 7 місяців тому +7

    i cried watching your video, im extremely scared of growing up. thanks for making me feel like its not only my mind affecting over stupid things. i hope you have an amazing life

  • @Hikkirima
    @Hikkirima 4 місяці тому +13

    Iam 17 and this is my last year as a highschooler. Soon i will graduate. I dont know what to do, either go to college or get a job. Planning where to move. So many thing happen at once. Now iam just sitting here scared of everything that will happen

    • @deetdoe
      @deetdoe  4 місяці тому +4

      Hey, this is a super relatable feeling. I felt this way when I was 17 too. While it is uncertain, the years ahead of you will likely be some of the best times of your life. Keep your head up! You have a lot to look forward to.

    • @lalaw2
      @lalaw2 2 місяці тому

      in your country you can get a job without college 😮?? how?? Please share because i don't want to go to college

  • @Noocheese1605YAY
    @Noocheese1605YAY 5 місяців тому +21

    It's 2024 I'm 13 and I'm terrified of becoming an adult cause i am scared of leaving my friends family and even my happiness.....i know that one day I'll just die but I'm bot scared of that.... I'm scared if losing everyone else...

    • @deetdoe
      @deetdoe  4 місяці тому +3

      Hey Hunter, you may not realize it now, but 13 is still super young! There are so many amazing things you have to look forward to, things you can’t even begin to imagine right now.
      Change is an inevitable fact of life, and while it can be scary, it’s also so beautiful. The fact that things end is the reason to cherish the moment you’re in right now.
      Surround yourself with the people who make you most happy, and enjoy them while we’re all still here :,)

    • @k4mochoso
      @k4mochoso 4 місяці тому +2

      this is literally me.. i was listening to ribs by lorde and started balling

    • @coryvincun5424
      @coryvincun5424 3 місяці тому +2

      Growing up gives you the power to keep the things you love in life. If you want friggin go get it.

    • @lalaw2
      @lalaw2 2 місяці тому +3

      i miss being a kid like you. you should be happy now

    • @ARTIST_DUD3
      @ARTIST_DUD3 9 днів тому

      Same I'm 13

  • @constantiawong
    @constantiawong 4 місяці тому +5

    I’m 14 and I’m turning 15 in a few months. All my friends are going out, having parties and preparing for exams. For me, I just wanted to have a cozy dinner with my family and tell them about my day. I want someone to hug and a shoulder to cry on. But as an Asian, we don’t do these things. My parents are used to beating and abuse that they rarely show affection. During my time as a teen, I constantly felt like I’m not ready growing up. I’m scared….about everything. I’m scared that I’m going to be a burden. I’m scared I won’t be able to accomplish anything. I’m scared that if i love others, I wouldn’t be able to take it if they leave me. I know we all are born and will die alone, but I’m just really scared about growing up. I don’t know what to do and I’m tired of crying alone every night and not having the energy to wake up the next day. I don’t know what kind of person I’m going to become and it scares me. What if I end up hurting someone? What if my existence is not enough to help others? What if my parents don’t want me anymore? What if no one loves me? I..I just don’t know what to do… I’m really scared but there’s no one and no where I could go to.

    • @injailrngettingoutsoonenou1258
      @injailrngettingoutsoonenou1258 Місяць тому

      I'm also 14 and I'll turn 15 soon, you matter more than you think, both you and I have so much time left and the older you get the more people you will meet the more happy you will become but you can't just wait for it to happen you have to make an effort to wake up everyday it will be hard and sometimes you won't want to and you won't be able to, but along as you keep going and trying you will be able to get further and further each time. You are loved, by many people. I don't know ur story but its nearly impossible not to be loved. Everyone hurts someone atleast once in their life but we have to learn to forgive ourselves and apologize but also forgive the people that hurt us because in the end we all make mistakes we are human and will keep messing up but that's okay

  • @skyevandusky1676
    @skyevandusky1676 4 місяці тому +2

    sometimes i forget im an actually adult that i can do adult things and sometimes when i do realize i am an adult it scares me because that means im getting older and i dont wanna be older i wish i could stay young for ever i wish i could go back to 2020 when dsmp was still alive where minecraft was popular just back to the good times growing up scares me because i may act like i know what im doing in reality i dont i just wanna curl up and cry

  • @Galaad-hp2ws
    @Galaad-hp2ws 2 місяці тому +2

    I'm scared of growing up and my life change before I did smth really cool in my life I just want to be a 5 years old kid again my age are 13 I'm scared of growing up

  • @divinealex2
    @divinealex2 4 місяці тому +5

    I'm 21 and it's still hard

  • @rickrivere839
    @rickrivere839 Рік тому +5

    There's always a way out

  • @stealedfear
    @stealedfear 3 місяці тому +2

    i miss my perfect childhood.

  • @injailrngettingoutsoonenou1258
    @injailrngettingoutsoonenou1258 Місяць тому

    I'm 14, tomorrow will be 2025 and I'll turn 15. I realized I don't like who I'm becoming, I want to be kinder not just nice I want to stop judging people for how they act or how they talk I want to stop being rude at times to stop laughing at people like how they used to laugh at me too, I want to stop caring about what boys think of me or other people I want to learn to stand up for myself instead of just keeping quiet and letting people hurt me I want to help others too. I want to stand up for others and help people if they feel sad. I don't want to be the reason they feel sad. I want to work harder on my dreams and what I want to achieve instead of being in my phone so much. But I don't know how to start, all I know is that I will start. I'm scared of not being successful in life because I know that if I do want to be then I have to start now and not wait and stop wasting so much time in the phone or talking bad about myself or others I will change and I'll start now

  • @Galaad-hp2ws
    @Galaad-hp2ws 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm 13 years old and I'm really scared of growing up to not be the kid my parents see and become an adults I'm just scared growing up too fast and not do what I wanted to do

  • @vaaniee111
    @vaaniee111 2 місяці тому +1

    I am 13 and scared of growing up :(

  • @merkury.gunnss
    @merkury.gunnss 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m just scared of taxes and like court appearances and stuff

    • @lalaw2
      @lalaw2 2 місяці тому

      same. I don't know how to pay taxes, do laundry, use atm and everything like that. I'm scared i won't be able to accomplish adult things

  • @AmbreKiwi
    @AmbreKiwi 5 місяців тому +2

    hi it's 2024 and i'm sixteen. tomorrow is the first day of school. everyone is asking me what am i gonna do later like studies and all this. in the meantime, i'm learning how to drive. the fact is i don't want all that, i don't even want to have my driver license or to have an adult job. you know i want to be forever young and i don't want to talk to the one i'll be in 2028. i'm so scared of growing up, i just want to be forever 16. it hurts.

    • @deetdoe
      @deetdoe  4 місяці тому

      Hi! I hope your first day of school went well. 16 is a great age, but to be completely honest, it feels like my life hadnt truly began until I started to accept the responsibilities of being an adult. It’s scary, yes, and it isn’t always fun. But when you’re doing it right, it nurtures the soul and teaches us who we really are. Enjoy being 16, but don’t dread the rest of the journey too much!

  • @Galaad-hp2ws
    @Galaad-hp2ws 2 місяці тому

    I'm scared of growing up too

  • @1000-c3n
    @1000-c3n 4 місяці тому

    im so scared im having panic attacks, i remember when i was about to turn 17 i was scared too because i realized im almost adult but then it was fine because i realized was still kid and then i turned 18 and i was still fine but now im about to turn 19 and im so scared, i dont want to be adult, i dont even feel like that, but im scared people will see me as an adult, and im scared i will change i just want to be young forever, and idk what to do

  • @TeenMomVibes
    @TeenMomVibes 24 дні тому

    Im 17 and i cant become an adult, im not ready

  • @calebsanders6408
    @calebsanders6408 7 місяців тому +7

    Im 16 and i do nothing but sit and play video games but in so scared what do to and i dont know how to do anything im a fucking disappointment.
    Im a dude but i dont do anything a guy does or knows.
    I don't have a dad and i am confused wirh everything i look at bro i dont know.
    Im scared qnd thiw video doesn't help me because im not moving or doing anything like him im just stuck.. scared
    Idk

    • @deetdoe
      @deetdoe  4 місяці тому +1

      Hey Caleb, thanks for being open and honest with us. I think the first step is taking a breath and realize that you’re not a disappointment. You’re 16.
      If all of us were judged by our actions at 16, everyone would be a “disappointment” under high enough standards. It’s good to be self critical, and recognize bad habits. But there’s a difference between criticizing an action and criticizing your character. YOU as a person are not a disappointment.
      I can’t imagine being 16 without a father figure. What I can relate to is your struggles with masculinity, however. We as men are taught to be a certain way, but in reality, there is no standard for what a man “should” be.
      Really it just comes down to who you want to be. At the end of the day, that’s your responsibility. You can take pride in that. Every day, you can remind yourself that you’re getting closer to the man you want to be. I can’t think of anything more masculine than that.

    • @calebsanders6408
      @calebsanders6408 4 місяці тому +1

      @@deetdoe thank you dude... Your awesome

  • @LockedInWrestling
    @LockedInWrestling 14 днів тому

    Im 15 turning 16 and I'm growing up so fast and I hate itb

  • @jt6711
    @jt6711 5 місяців тому +2

    Thanks

  • @yeekye
    @yeekye 3 місяці тому

    I will not disclose my age but am scared of growijg up because their is gonna be less arms to help me hold the responsibilities a job taxes so much and if i could contrl time id keep it like this forever

  • @vincenzodimatteo
    @vincenzodimatteo Рік тому +3

    Uh!
    Whaddup America!
    I wrote this song in a day... or at least that's the goal, I'm sorta just starting now and-- ah forget it. The point is, I have no friends and I ran out of things to do in Minecraft. I was wondering what to do today when I remembered I'm the sickest Emcee on the block!
    Whaddup I'm Noah and I'm killing the game, putting all those sucka' Emcee's to shame. When it comes to rhyming you'll remember the name, look at me and Tupac, yeah we're one in the same!
    We got fame. Okay, well, I'm not quite famous, but just you watch; I'm white n' courageous. Well mostly white, I'm not really courageous... but soon my beats'll be heccin contagious.
    I just said heccin cuz it fits the verse, and my mom doesn't like it when I fucking curse, but guess what. Listening to mom is gay, and I'm a ballin' basket baller who is on the way!
    A tall and lanky scholar blew your mind away. Stealing all of your dollars do you hear me say, when I come up to the mic, people run away... it's cuz I'm the best... okaY?
    Chorus:
    Jew boys, it's the rap of the Jew boys. make noise, for the rap of the Jew boys! Turquoise is a word, and it rhymes with Jew boys. Illinois is a joy this time of year!
    Oh hey Noah watcha doin' today? You smell like farts, and you hella gay up top! Oh, I guess you didn't like that joke... hey you're not moving... let me give you a poke. Oh shit. I think he might be choking. Look, I don't know CPR, please tell me you're joking. No? Okay, well isn't that great. I guess I'll have to take these rhymes to make sure I'm not deadweight.
    Whaddup I'm Joey, I'm sicker than your average. Some call me cool, but others call me savage. On st. Paddy's day I eat corned beef n' cabbage, and now that Noah's dead, this is my right of passage.
    the catch is I blast this fantastic beat backwards and forwards. You know me I'm Joey I'm flaccid.
    Chorus:
    Jew boys, it's the rap of the Jew Boys. Make noise for the rap of the Jew boys! I spy with my tiny Jew boy Jew eye a rap... it's the rap of the Jew boys!
    What's up players, yeah it's Jish on the mic. J-I-S-H, yeah you heard me right. Step aside, Joey, I know CPR... wait... mouth to mouth contact is gay... sorry Noah.
    Chorus:
    Jew boys, it's the rap of the Jew boys. Make noise for the rap of the Jew boys! oh joy, and the boys, floy scoy zoy bok choi. We annoy, cuz we are the Jew boys!

    • @deetdoe
      @deetdoe  Рік тому +2

      bars.

    • @DouzzyXD
      @DouzzyXD Рік тому +1

      you got talent

    • @josephlerz6889
      @josephlerz6889 Рік тому +1

      @@deetdoe how old are you, I'm twenty eight with much to learn, The hardest part is figuring out your financial direction and finding special relationships

  • @Galaad-hp2ws
    @Galaad-hp2ws 2 місяці тому

    I'm 13 years old and I'm really scared of growing up to not be the kid my parents see and become an adults I'm just scared growing up too fast and not do what I wanted to do