Being a bedside nurse is only getting harder.

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  • @sweetolives2467
    @sweetolives2467 Рік тому +785

    You are so correct. The greed, the greed, the greed. I know one thing, they all are going to burn in hell with there money. Thanks for posting.

    • @WoundedThrivers
      @WoundedThrivers Рік тому +33

      Even a pot of gold won't help. The bottom line is important, but should NEVER be more important than treating patients. Greed is a horrible thing.

    • @Foxyexrn
      @Foxyexrn 11 місяців тому +2

      Agreed. From a U.K. RN

    • @andoriannationalist3738
      @andoriannationalist3738 9 місяців тому

      They don’t own the concept of “hospital”. If the community truly got organized and fed up (there’s a lot more that needs to be addressed than low staff pay-the public would be shocked), they could walk in and take the building from the corporation. “Nationalize” it. Of course, that will never happen because our gov and elites, those who own the corporations put up patsies and fake opposition, fake populists, and the ever intrusion of Dems and Repubs ruin everything.

    • @nerlyb7032
      @nerlyb7032 7 місяців тому +1

      I approve this message 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @jinsu0504
      @jinsu0504 Місяць тому

      their*

  • @reginamcclung4671
    @reginamcclung4671 Рік тому +656

    I have been asking nurses to unionize since I started in 1991. We should be like firefighters and police officers, we do a physical, mental job like they do!! We should be able to retire after 25 years on the floor no matter our age!!! Like firefighters and police officers!!

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +88

      The west and tear on my body. I don’t know how much longer I can go on.

    • @buckeye-pe6df
      @buckeye-pe6df Рік тому +36

      Nurses have other routes they can take in their career. If you don't like bedside, go find a clinic, private office, school, health center, coaching, teaching, etc..

    • @tl9585
      @tl9585 Рік тому

      @@buckeye-pe6dfthis route is only available for nurses with experiences. New grads are majority pushed to work bedsides

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri Рік тому +61

      @@buckeye-pe6dfAnd that solves the problem, how?

    • @buckeye-pe6df
      @buckeye-pe6df Рік тому +10

      Your cognitive skills seem to be lacking. You complained of the job being too physical. I offered options within your field that are less physical. Your question was, " And that solves my problem how?" LOL @@missnurseeri

  • @His_ChristieRose
    @His_ChristieRose Рік тому +1081

    “The nurse can do everybody’s job.”
    No truer statement.

    • @bmerizier
      @bmerizier Рік тому +32

      Thank you. We have to catch everybody else's mistake and get blame if we don't. Smh

    • @SharonA_14
      @SharonA_14 Рік тому +7

      Exactly!!!!!! Sighhhhh**

    • @sariah2425
      @sariah2425 Рік тому +17

      Not everyone’s, they seem unfamiliar with respiratory.

    • @aprilsilvers2666
      @aprilsilvers2666 Рік тому +13

      It isn't true.

    • @aprilsilvers2666
      @aprilsilvers2666 Рік тому

      ​@@sariah2425radiology and many more

  • @paulsdrc
    @paulsdrc Рік тому +174

    Nurses are without a doubt the most critical people in healthcare.

  • @user-mm6wc1vf9m
    @user-mm6wc1vf9m Рік тому +215

    I’m a new Rn and worked as a medsurg nurse for one year after I graduated college. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I felt overwhelmed, exhausted and overloaded with work. It seemed we were always short staffed and had to compensate even when it felt unsafe. I lived daily in fear of messing up. I quit after one year to have my baby and have been off work 1.5 years since. I honestly have no desire to go back because of the lack of support from upper management. I though it was just bc I was new to the field that I felt this way so it’s refreshing to hear veteran nurses feel the same.

    • @nana121fly
      @nana121fly Рік тому +21

      There are many other opportunities you can choose from besides bedside. Home health, clinic, ASC, school nurse etc. I wish you the best.

    • @doremifasolatido-ro7zs
      @doremifasolatido-ro7zs Рік тому +1

      Which one is a harder place to work as a brand new nurse? LTC or med surg?

    • @bhnurse16
      @bhnurse16 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@doremifasolatido-ro7zs When I graduated in 2016, it felt like no one was hiring new grads (unless you were accepted in the hospitals' residency programs) so I took a position in LTC. My unit felt like a chaotic hospital but with more patients..I gained a lot of skills, but it was incredibly stressful and I burned out. I lasted 2 years at that facility but I'm grateful for what I learned.

    • @godivagirl227
      @godivagirl227 10 місяців тому +5

      ​@@nana121flyAlso Dialysis

    • @enumajek1764
      @enumajek1764 10 місяців тому +3

      Insurance companies and law firms also use nurses knowledge. Look into those too...

  • @alicewistrand210
    @alicewistrand210 Рік тому +242

    I’ve been a nurse for 52 yrs. It used to be patient focused and now only money focused. Administration used to back us, now it’s a struggle to get them to listen. Huge change in healthcare.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +31

      They’ve taken nurses away from the bedside but increasing the amount of documentation and increasing ratios. The changes are so overwhelming and it’s causing good nurses to leave the bedside.

    • @alicewistrand210
      @alicewistrand210 Рік тому +10

      @@KendraRN I loved bedside nursing and I seen an increase in what you’re saying over the years. It’s so sad.

    • @missdiagnosis2530
      @missdiagnosis2530 9 місяців тому +8

      Imagine how patient care is affected. Nurses shouldn’t have to go through this

    • @reneec4711
      @reneec4711 9 місяців тому +7

      Yes, a change for the worse!

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 9 місяців тому +5

      Alice and Kendra, YES. The change really seemed to happen around 2006-07, and has only gotten worse.

  • @CM-zh2hr
    @CM-zh2hr Рік тому +207

    Been a bedside nurse for 18 years and it's definitely getting harder and harder to be a compassionate nurse........ I am not sure what is going to take but whatever it is it needs to happen asap before majority of the nurses leave bedside. I am holding on hoping 2023 is going to be better..... it's sad when your job causes you anxiety & insomnia all at the same time

    • @WoundedThrivers
      @WoundedThrivers Рік тому +8

      Curious, does your hospital, if you or others are in the hospital setting) grade your supervisors? That was required when I was able to work. I was graded and thankfully, I always made a 5, (1-5). All it takes is a manager or director to care about you, so you can care for others. I didn't do anything outstanding but only watched. I could tell when someone was struggling. Beating them to buy their Diet Coke before 3pm, changed their spirits - a simple deed, but we all won. I have an issue with how yearly evals are done. If you are not asked what you need, what will help you do your job better, etc... then someone needs training. Yearly evals are pushed off as if they hate to deal with it. But so much can be productive if used in a good way. Evaluations aren't a bad thing, it's an excellent way to know your staff and to have an idea of personal problems they are facing. We are then aware this nurse/employee might need some time off and we are prepared. We check on them, we treat them as humans just like we want them to treat the patients. I believe every manager up to the CEO should be evaluated by their staff every year! It helps us be better - and we don't have to take it personally, but as a way of growth. I have always said, The staff is a reflection on the management. I wonder how right that is with nurses these days?

    • @WoundedThrivers
      @WoundedThrivers Рік тому +1

      Kendra… I’ve been asked to write something and I think you and your colleagues can help me be more realistic. “Why causes Doc/Nurse” burnout? Don’t laugh… some aren’t aware. Doctors want to know. From both sides…. I say #1 is Staff. Staff helps or hurts be efficient and causes less mistakes. Any others have input? If you want to ask this yourself.. great. If I take the answers, how do I give you credit and keep confidentiality?
      I’m serious… the question is WHY ARE DOCS/PROFESSIONALS leaving?
      This would be interesting to start a subject as patients who understand can ease the stress. Working together is healthy! For any who don’t believe Kendra, others on here or the importance of patient edu…. The 3rd leading cause of death is medical errors. Patients can not leave it to the staff. I educate patients… intimidation should never be a factor.
      I will be glad to give info on myself. In a safe place.
      Hang on!!💕

    • @jimb3093
      @jimb3093 6 місяців тому +1

      Here we are one year later.

  • @alaskayoung3413
    @alaskayoung3413 Рік тому +71

    I just made the decision to leave. Er icu is all I’ve ever done my whole adult life. But it has got soooo bad I can’t take it one more day. It’s like being hand cuffed to a bowling ball and thrown in the ocean… and then written up for drowning 😂

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +2

      Good decision. When you’ve reached that point, it’s time to separate. What are you doing in the meantime?

    • @alaskayoung3413
      @alaskayoung3413 Рік тому +25

      @@KendraRN finishing out my notice right now. Not sure what I’m going to do. Might take a break from healthcare for awhile or might just take a easier gig like doctors office nurse or something.
      18 years paramedic, flight medic, er nurse, and now icu rn…. So not sure what to do. No family or huge bills so not in any big bind. Just my health is biggest priority. Bc I’m young. Started on ambulance at 18 years old.

    • @squidleyskidley
      @squidleyskidley 11 місяців тому

      @@alaskayoung3413I’m a nurse at a FQHC primary care/urgent care office and it is amazing!! Way less stressful and more time with patients

    • @MishaIsha1
      @MishaIsha1 23 дні тому

      You said this so perfectly well. You're describing the gaslighting to a tee.

  • @j3marti515
    @j3marti515 Рік тому +42

    I don’t recommend anyone getting into nursing this day and age. It’s a toxic culture with more and more stress put on nurses.
    We know how to do everyone else’s job, no one knows how to do ours.
    We supposedly have one voice: the ANA, yet there has been no supportive push back or stances from them to stop the corporate greed.
    Very disappointed with the career choice I made years ago.

    • @esthersbucketlist
      @esthersbucketlist Рік тому +7

      I won’t even advise my worst enemy to go into nursing, it’s toxic

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 9 місяців тому

      ​@@esthersbucketlistAbsolutely. I couldn't agree more!

    • @aubreywhite8008
      @aubreywhite8008 7 місяців тому +1

      Yikes I just paid for CNA classes and I start in October 👁️👄👁️

    • @royaljester9918
      @royaljester9918 7 місяців тому

      ​@@aubreywhite8008 I just registered for CNA and I start in the summer! Idk, I may cancel my course.

  • @jaysteven8135
    @jaysteven8135 Рік тому +71

    This is true , I think many many nurses are going to quit more now because the job now isn’t worth it anymore it’s too stressful

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 7 місяців тому +2

      The system has to break before it can be rebuilt

  • @ruthannemackinnon588
    @ruthannemackinnon588 Рік тому +95

    Ive been an RN 30 yrs, bedside nurse for 15 then became an NP. They are both hell & I regret ever becoming a nurse. Left 3 yrs ago, have let both licences lapse. No. More.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +33

      I’ve heard that from other RNs who became NPs. I don’t intend to practice medicine. I want to go to wellness/beauty industry.

    • @pee5946
      @pee5946 10 місяців тому +5

      @@Foxyexrn can you please share with us where you find your self in now?

    • @Foxyexrn
      @Foxyexrn 10 місяців тому +1

      @@pee5946 why?

    • @pee5946
      @pee5946 10 місяців тому +3

      @@Foxyexrn I also want to transition from nursing. That’s why I asked. But don’t bother if you feel like sharing. 👍🏻

    • @chrysoberieo7018
      @chrysoberieo7018 9 місяців тому +1

      Naaa!… you are probably retired. No one is going to take what you said literally. A little deceiving, but good luck on your retirement. You don’t need your come back.
      The new nurses will do what we gotta do till then✌️

  • @esthersbucketlist
    @esthersbucketlist Рік тому +120

    I force myself everyday to go to work, I’m drained, nothings left inside of me, even when I take leave I don’t want to back😢

    • @enumajek1764
      @enumajek1764 9 місяців тому +6

      Your nursing knowledge is very valid. Just don't do direct bedside care. There are different opportunities you can still pursue in different industries with your knowledge...

    • @devilmaycry9969
      @devilmaycry9969 9 місяців тому +7

      As someone who has experienced nurse suicide go through the roof the past few years I urge you to quite. You come first.

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 7 місяців тому +1

      I feel you.❤😢

    • @faithivyne2268
      @faithivyne2268 7 місяців тому +5

      No nurse on earth should ever feel like this... It's unfortunate but I'm sending love your way. You have given so much of it to your patients, may it come back to you in many ways even to your family. GOD bless you ❤❤

    • @Jingleball7734
      @Jingleball7734 6 місяців тому +1

      I feel like this at a warehouse. Just accept it & Get over it . That's what I'm told

  • @TheMaleNurse777
    @TheMaleNurse777 Рік тому +25

    Most of my colleagues have left bedside care for management, NP, mobile clinics, specialty clinics. Less work , same or more pay. Gotta work less and make more. Work smarter not harder to earn your cash

  • @lisagardner903
    @lisagardner903 Рік тому +62

    I retired a few years ago but when I was an ICU nurse I had to take out my trash, be the monitor tech, and they got rid of the CNA's. It was almost impossible to do your job while having compassion and time to spend with the patient. I had PTSD for a few months after retiring from nursing. I pray for all my fellow nurses and the hardships you are going through.

  • @BlatantDisregardForYourFeels
    @BlatantDisregardForYourFeels Рік тому +75

    I'm going into education with my degree and not in America. The healthcare system here is ridiculous and I feel like absolute shit when I can't advocate for my patients like I AM CALLED TO DO! There is no longer a chain of command that gives a damn about resolving issues. There is no accountability

    • @sweett8725
      @sweett8725 11 місяців тому +6

      It’s all about gettin butts in beds and getting paid.

    • @Ggsodapop
      @Ggsodapop 5 місяців тому

      Education in another country? Where?? 😮

    • @Roquea.207
      @Roquea.207 4 місяці тому

      This is wasteland yes

  • @malcolmjelani3588
    @malcolmjelani3588 Рік тому +18

    I do not recommend anyone go into nursing. Let the shortage get worse so ppl suffer and realize the importance of unions and legislation that will protect them and their families when they are at the mercy of the healthcare system.

  • @tiffany1268
    @tiffany1268 11 місяців тому +45

    I walked away from the bedside after 16.5 years 3 weeks ago. No notice. I’m done. Its a terrifying feeling to be facing a career change at 41 but I can’t do it anymore.

    • @RuinVystopia
      @RuinVystopia 8 місяців тому +1

      You got this. Keep up the great fight. Rough seas make a tough sailor. Land is on the horizon

    • @tiffany1268
      @tiffany1268 8 місяців тому +6

      @@RuinVystopia just started a job in Case Management and it’s already so much better than bedside! Definitely a different world and a huge learning curve but so worth it to not be at the bedside anymore.

    • @RuinVystopia
      @RuinVystopia 8 місяців тому +1

      @tiffany1268 That's awesome! Glad to hear that progress is being made. I'm figuring out if nursing would be a good career field for me or if I should go back to truck driving. I have a passion for both fields but I just need to figure out if it'll do me well to expand myself in the medical field.

    • @tiffany1268
      @tiffany1268 8 місяців тому +3

      @@RuinVystopia the only advice I can offer if you choose nursing is to make sure you 100% have the heart for it and it is truly a calling bc bedside is HARD!! There’s a lot of others areas of nursing to explore though so you would have a lot of doors open for you! Good luck with whatever you decide to do…I’m sure you’ll do great!

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 7 місяців тому +1

      You've got this I believe in you 💯❤

  • @Nicole-ck9ss
    @Nicole-ck9ss Рік тому +38

    I wholeheartedly agree. I reported a leader for bullying then my direct manager bullied me then my director and CNO defended her. Now I am being told they want me to resign my leadership role, move to a different department, or take a severance package. The upper administration needs to change or this will get worse. My issue right now is I am burned out and don’t even want to be a nurse anymore. My family doesn’t understand because to them I make good money.

    • @Foxyexrn
      @Foxyexrn 11 місяців тому +10

      I got out of nursing. I can’t stand the culture anymore. It’s not a role that’s respected anymore. We’re used and abused.

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@FoxyexrnAmen!!!!

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 7 місяців тому +1

      They're stressed too. Today walking into my job at an assisted living, I see a woman walking out who I recognize and vice versa. We talk, she was my former boss at another facility . She fired me during covid for non compliance. Valid. I hated her for years. But we talked. And hugged. I forgave her today. Now I'm crying. Thank you UA-cam.

  • @nestlee1987
    @nestlee1987 Рік тому +74

    Hello Kendra,
    I am glad I found your channel! I'm a retired RN who feels exactly the way you are feeling. You are speaking my words and the concern I felt.
    I started in 1979, worked full time until I went PRN in 2019. Retired in 2020. It was not easy but I had to perservere with God leading the way!
    With The Good Lord on your side you will endure. I know I absolutely could not have done it without Him!🙏🏽🙌🏾👏🏾👍🏽

    • @LaniWahine4
      @LaniWahine4 11 місяців тому +2

      I needed to hear this. Thank you! Thank you for your service, enjoy retirement 🎊

    • @jesuslove8282
      @jesuslove8282 10 місяців тому +3

      Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽 Jesus is the Only One who can keep us🤍

    • @nestlee1987
      @nestlee1987 10 місяців тому

      @LaniWahine4 Thank you and you're welcome dear 🤗

    • @nestlee1987
      @nestlee1987 10 місяців тому

      @@jesuslove8282 Praise God from Whom all blessings flow. Ask and He will lead and guide you! 🙌🏾🙏🏽👏🏾

  • @user-kp6we9qw7i
    @user-kp6we9qw7i 7 місяців тому +48

    100% true. As an RN in the hospital I have plunged toilets. I’ve cleaned rooms when a new patient is about to show up because housekeeping is unavailable. I’ve sat on hold with dietary for 30 minutes or more trying to order a patient their food because it was never delivered. I’ve walked to the cafeteria to get patients their food when it has not shown up after repeated calls. I’ve grabbed a cart and went to the basement of the hospital until I found the room the linen is stored in and stocked it with all kinds of linen and took it back and delivered it to my unit. I’ve regularly taken out trash, mopped & cleaned floors. I’ve spent my time searching through cabinets to find toilet paper because there’s none in the staff bathroom even though I’ve called repeatedly to request to be delivered. I’ve restocked soap and hand sanitizer dispensers because the ones assigned to do it have not done it. I’ve transported patients to and from everywhere in the hospital because transport is not available. I’ve completed numerous tasks that should only be completed by the respiratory therapist because they are unavailable due to also being short staffed. I’ve climbed on tables and chairs to fix clocks and TVs on the wall. During the time change, I’ve had to climb to the clock on the wall, and manually change the time myself because it’s not “maintenance’s job”. I’ve been talked down to because I’m unrealistically expected to know every aspect of the patient’s history and current condition. I could go on and on…

    • @BellaMushrooms-wy5zr
      @BellaMushrooms-wy5zr 5 місяців тому +1

      Yeah dietary is a mess, the hospital I was at some of them were toking up in the bathroom and eating the patients food

    • @missb1982
      @missb1982 4 місяці тому +3

      Yesssss. All of this and more.

    • @MultiAnne36
      @MultiAnne36 4 місяці тому +2

      We have all been there. I leave my Nursing station clean but
      I have to draw the line somewhere or I just can't do this job anymore. The Nurse on the hall next to me plunged a toilet last night and I won't do it. We are taken advantage of. I work in a 24/7 facility and housekeeping is there for 12 hours a day.

    • @mariemjendoubi7227
      @mariemjendoubi7227 Місяць тому +1

      All this without any recognition or appreciation.

    • @considerthelilies91
      @considerthelilies91 9 годин тому

      Nurses are the glue that holds the facility together

  • @MommaNurse
    @MommaNurse Рік тому +67

    Well said Kendra. I’ve been a nurse for 8 years and things have definitely changed.

  • @Breeology_
    @Breeology_ Рік тому +25

    I really want to become a nurse .. I wrote it down in my journal, thought about it, and was super confident about it .. up until I started doing my research 😩 now idk what I want to do .. I even thought about becoming a cardiovascular technologist ! Maybe it’s my lack of confidence 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ But I’m praying for you 💜.. I’m tired of seeing nurses overworked & physically worn out ! Hopefully things change

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +22

      If you want to be a nurse, go for it. There is so much you can do with a nursing degree. Don’t be discouraged at all.

    • @Breeology_
      @Breeology_ Рік тому +29

      @@KendraRN Update .. I just signed up for nursing school ! I’m not letting fear run my life! I got this .. thanks for the motivation 💜🙏🏾

    • @vsteele1672
      @vsteele1672 Рік тому +5

      ​@@Breeology_ exactly don't let these hardships ruin your dreams, if you really want it go for it, at the end of the day it's all about caring for patients in their worst times.

    • @dangdeionn
      @dangdeionn Рік тому +3

      Same I just got accepted and idk it’s just so toxic

    • @maggien222
      @maggien222 Рік тому +1

      @@dangdeionnAm still scared…

  • @knice2511
    @knice2511 Рік тому +19

    Very true. I'm looking for something else. The stress is too much. Especially the issues with corporate greed.

  • @allhailjesuschrist5753
    @allhailjesuschrist5753 Рік тому +14

    so true. What is the future of nursing ? Maybe robotics/IT will take over? coorprate greed is a shame

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +10

      Maybe! Nurses are not staying at the bedside. It’s too hard.

    • @sabias3932
      @sabias3932 Рік тому +10

      Probably foreign nurses tbh. People from certain countries are simply more acclimated to horrible work conditions and sending the money back home means a huge jump in quality of life for family.

  • @sandrafortune2399
    @sandrafortune2399 Рік тому +10

    So true! You said it CORPORATE GREED!

  • @taygray6424
    @taygray6424 9 місяців тому +9

    I left the hospital because of greed from management. It was no longer about how to take care of the patients, but all about how to save/make more money

  • @MobileHomeGeek
    @MobileHomeGeek Рік тому +14

    Been bedside nurse for about 7 years!! Totally burned out 😪

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +4

      It’s because nursing is getting harder and we barely have help.

  • @marquesn77
    @marquesn77 10 місяців тому +9

    Girl, spot on. I think one day the healthcare system is gonna be in trouble when all of us up and quit

  • @effiab4093
    @effiab4093 11 місяців тому +12

    You are absolutely right. I have been a nurse for 5 and half years and I’m really regretting the decision. Our hospital don’t even have a nurse aid and we have to also do the ADLs of pt. I am 31 and wanting to start a family so bad but the work load in the hospital make me stressed to even start a family. Im doing nights right now and taking toll in my body m.

  • @jesuslove8282
    @jesuslove8282 11 місяців тому +28

    I’ve been a nurse for several years now and I’ve noticed that more unprofessional In attitude and work ethic people are joining the field. They are not joining because of empathy and compassion, but for the money ONLY, and those type of people make a caring nurse’s job HARDER😭😭😭

    • @LaniWahine4
      @LaniWahine4 11 місяців тому +4

      I see it everyday at my job. It’s sad

    • @july3817
      @july3817 11 місяців тому +7

      Where I live there are just not enough people applying so they kinda have to take everyone that they can get including the people with this attitude. It really sucks.

    • @nmc1859
      @nmc1859 10 місяців тому +5

      As a nursing instructor, I notice this

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 9 місяців тому

      ​@@july3817They take anything with a pulse!

  • @MeatloafCreep
    @MeatloafCreep Рік тому +13

    Nurses and EVS need to unionize. EVS worker here. We are suffering too and see the devastation with unsafe nurse to patient ratio. I feel for yall. I finally spoke up about coworkers lack of care when it comes to how the rooms are being cleaned. I was met with excuses. Its disgusting how these managers really dont care. Good luck to us all.

    • @Sammy-lh5wu
      @Sammy-lh5wu 9 місяців тому

      I apologize for my ignorance, but what is EVS?

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 8 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Sammy-lh5wuenvironmental...they care for the rooms..the house...and to the EVS worker thank you! I'm friends with many and we work as a team in the ER..

  • @laylamar1120
    @laylamar1120 Рік тому +8

    Girl I have been a nurse since 2013. It is getting ROUGHHHHH. BURNOUT is real. It's getting hard to imagine myself doing this for much longer. If it is like this now, what will it be a few years from now. It is heartbreaking and sad.

  • @LovelyCeee
    @LovelyCeee Рік тому +8

    I agree. I’m so sick and tired of working bedside. Ugh!!

  • @NPhilome
    @NPhilome 10 місяців тому +5

    Can we start talking about the disrespect and violence from patients ?!?!?!?!

  • @user-mb4ig1bq5p
    @user-mb4ig1bq5p 9 місяців тому +5

    Scary. If me or my loved ones cannot get the care they need because Nurses cannot do their jobs then that is HORRIFYING. This effects EVERYONE. Everyone will be a patient in their lifetime!

  • @langeldvyne1126
    @langeldvyne1126 11 місяців тому +2

    I don't understand how the most risky job has such long working hours. That's insane.
    Im not getting the logic. None of the reasons I have gotten make sense.
    The hours are too much. Infact people in medical field should only work 30 hours a week

  • @stylzebydottie
    @stylzebydottie Рік тому +11

    I totally agree ! With you! As a new nurse it’s scary!

  • @HeatherBDentureDiVa
    @HeatherBDentureDiVa Рік тому +8

    100% agree! The most on point statement I ever heard. In my area my most favorite nurses and my most favorite doctors who are compassionate and you just want to help people and take care of them and they end up leaving my healthcare facility you know what they all said because of the people who run the facility is so greedy and they don't let you help the patient that they're going to a place that actually allows it and does it so they go to the bigger places.

  • @johndoe-wv3nu
    @johndoe-wv3nu 10 місяців тому +5

    I worked in a hospital for 8 months. NEVER again. That was horrible. Won't even consider LTC even though i enjoy working with elderly people. Considering doing something else. Graduated in 2022 and already burned out.

    • @SherCC
      @SherCC 8 місяців тому

      lol, Ltc is nursing homeX100 with nightmare, just need to stay away, consider somewhere like ICU since you already have critical experience

  • @CrayCrayRaeRae
    @CrayCrayRaeRae Рік тому +6

    I agree! Things have changed so much. I am genuinely very unhappy and dread going to work. I will be leaving next year but something needs to happen or there will be a critical shortage soon!

  • @loricagardener4826
    @loricagardener4826 Рік тому +6

    I did 23 years then got my career ended through a patient assault. Nobody works harder than nurses!!

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 8 місяців тому

      And what could YOU have done differently? Hmph...what a farce. I hope you found your happy place.

  • @NurseNessey
    @NurseNessey 4 місяці тому +3

    PLEASE TELL ME YOU WILL SEE THIS! I 👏🏾 AM 👏🏾 TIRED 👏🏾 I’m going into mental health to become a therapist, possibly a psychiatrist because healthcare is too much!!! No human being should be expected to work under the conditions given!!! They should all have psychological resources dedicated to that field because the amount of bullying and narcissistic personalities running rampant in that field is crazy!

    • @NurseNessey
      @NurseNessey 4 місяці тому +1

      Let’s not forget the lawsuits girl that come with the stress on being attacked my family, management, Corperate, and co-workers! There isn’t going to be enough jobs to NOT doing bedside for everyone to graduate and do non bedside nursing. I get so agitated when it comes to going back to further my education in the field, but that only means more stress. However, when i think about therapy, i feel peace, i think i know where I need to go.

  • @RubenNurse
    @RubenNurse Рік тому +22

    I hear you. Been a nurse for 20 plus years at a hospital and things are just getting rougher by the year. I totally agree with you.

    • @LaniWahine4
      @LaniWahine4 11 місяців тому +3

      I’m about to enter the CNA program, I hope things get better. Some of these comments make me worry and second guess my decision

    • @RubenNurse
      @RubenNurse 11 місяців тому +3

      @@LaniWahine4I’m so sorry. As nurses we are just trying to spread awareness and this is just the reality of how things are especially post COVID. Continue your CNA program. Remember every profession will have there ups and downs no matter where you work. What you can do is visit local hospitals or places you would like to work at and get a feel of how the work environment is. Best of luck 🫶🙏🙌

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@@LaniWahine4CNA is deep enough. It's worse than it used to be too. Leave yourself room to change directions and don't get beholden to the idea of staying in healthcare.

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 9 місяців тому

      ​@@RubenNurseIt's not just post COVID though.

  • @leilaniz5909
    @leilaniz5909 Рік тому +4

    Hospitals are getting more and more administrators (4 year business degree tools) who get paid more than all the doctors combined. Same with education systems getting extra admins who get paid more than all the teachers.

  • @nikkibolden7411
    @nikkibolden7411 4 місяці тому +6

    Facts! I left the bedside and went to home health and never looked back

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  4 місяці тому +2

      Girl, I wish I could, the Oasis was killing me.

  • @fromcnatonp
    @fromcnatonp Рік тому +17

    Girl ain’t this the truth! ❤

  • @linc7864
    @linc7864 9 місяців тому +4

    Yes Kendra. You are so right. It's crazy. Politics play alot and nurses tend to suffer. Just like Board of ed teachers. We are all burned out

  • @Moofydakidd
    @Moofydakidd Рік тому +7

    This is wholesome, I can back this up 100%. Ne? My last few weeks as a nurse, transitioning into computer science

    • @harrypotter7854
      @harrypotter7854 3 місяці тому

      Hi i am also opting for cs n do you think its worth it?

  • @jackiejones5037
    @jackiejones5037 Рік тому +8

    You are speaking my words!!! I say this all the time!!!

  • @obisidianusyuh9721
    @obisidianusyuh9721 4 місяці тому +2

    I really want that one bill where they give nurses a limit of patients to pass in my career lifetime. It’s unsafe to be overwhelmed with patients. (And even worse that its normalized)

  • @whocares_66
    @whocares_66 Рік тому +11

    It’s not going to get better Kendra. Save yourself, they will grind your bones until there’s nothing left.
    YOU KNOW THIS

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +2

      I believe you.

    • @Foxyexrn
      @Foxyexrn 11 місяців тому +2

      Agreed . I’m a long term RN in the uk NHS. I e just left my role to start a new non nursing role. Best decision ever. I hope you find something else and in the meantime look after yourself. X great video Kendra x 🇬🇧 RN

  • @lyrablack8621
    @lyrablack8621 Рік тому +13

    Unions! !!!!

  • @motherhoodsbeauty9279
    @motherhoodsbeauty9279 7 місяців тому +2

    I heard young nurse are bully by older nurse too.

  • @ephemeratea
    @ephemeratea 7 місяців тому +5

    I left bedside a year ago. I feel some guilt, but it was literally physically killing me (I ended up hospitalized barely a month after leaving bedside). I work in case management now, and while I know I’m losing some of my skills - I was never great at IV insertions to begin with, but even the attempt now would be a stupid idea - my blood pressure and heart rate are normal again and I have the downtime I need for self-care. Kudos and much love to those who stay at the bedside. You’re braver and more resilient than me.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  7 місяців тому

      The bedside isn’t easy and is getting worse.

  • @fidelisetverus
    @fidelisetverus Рік тому +4

    As much as I hate the "Unions", I firmly believe that nurses should have Nurses Union because of the simple fact of what you've stated here in your short vid. I've been an ICU RN for 26 yrs, imcu for 6yrs, and now work in an post surgery Observation Unit for 5yrs. To think that I could retire from this unit was great, during first year. Then covid happened and our unit is the only unit that is well staffed so upper management made us a secondary resource pool unit.
    What used to be every 3rd month of getting pulled, it's literally every week 1 - 2 days shift and night shift RNs get floated to the point where we're all stressed out. Getting floated to a unit where you're given the worst group of patients and rarely see an NCP/NA throughout your 12hr shift! One of our older nurse had a melt down when she came in and found out it was her turn to float! That was one very stressful day! And the gull of the Mgr from the receiving unit called and sounded angry because our nurse hadn't shown up to her floor! Had I answered that phone call, as I was night charge nurse, the conversation exchanged would've been very different between her and I. I'm so tired of nurses being used as a pawn and abused! As much as I would like to return to ICU nursing, I'm thinking of doing something else like specialty clinics. Let the board of directors take care of the patients and see how far they can go or what they can do!

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +1

      I’ve recently stepped away from the bedside, I’m trying my hand at mental health, not the really acute level. I needed a break from everything you mentioned above.

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 8 місяців тому

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vantafire
    @vantafire Рік тому +3

    When we all wake up. That will be a great day.. not sleeping ova here. Accept what you deserve!

  • @nikkidamind8899
    @nikkidamind8899 Місяць тому +1

    So tru and I'm seriously contemplating a career change..Will always be a nurse at heart..

  • @mommabear4410
    @mommabear4410 Рік тому +5

    I work in the health care field. I am not a nurse, but after taking care of my mother in home 24/7 with my brother I couldn’t agree more with you. It is the greatest blessing, but taxing on the body. I also could not agree with you more when I hear you say how it has changed over the last few years. Hospital administrators and all the Covid restrictions caused us to lose incredible staff at our hospital. It was due in part to the Booster requirements and it is ridiculous. I have the utmost respect for all nurses and how hard they work. God bless you and God bless all nurses. We need you. Keep speaking out. 🙏

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому

      Caregivers need support. I’m glad your mom can be at home receiving care. Stay well ❤️

  • @catherinemaonyango7806
    @catherinemaonyango7806 Рік тому +6

    I've been a nurse for 19yrs and the joy in it for me is threatened by...you said it, corporate policies that cut such serious corners and I find myself "tasking" which is not what I loved about my choice to be a nurse. Infact I left banking precisely to do something with a sense of purpose and I knew nursing was it.
    Everyone is so stressed at the bedside...going about it with pride is so difficult by precisely what you've said. NURSES CAN DO IT ALL.🙆🏾‍♀️

    • @Foxyexrn
      @Foxyexrn 11 місяців тому +1

      RNs can do it all...but in time the culture will pull you apart. Look after yourself xx

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 9 місяців тому

      ​@@FoxyexrnAll nurses...some of the best nurses I've known are LPNs.

  • @NikMarRita
    @NikMarRita Рік тому +4

    I switched over to hospice (non profit company) and I’ve never been happier. I wish I could have made the move a long time ago. They actually have compassion for the pts and the staff. Not to mention working as a TDT is much better than in a hierarchical setting.

  • @theofficialgreenkane9645
    @theofficialgreenkane9645 6 місяців тому +1

    Nursing seems like a hard job. You have to keep a clean/professional image, you have to be intelligent & organized, be good with time management, have a good knowledge of acronyms, log-ins, passwords, medicines, symptoms, illnesses, basic knowledge of procedures, training, have good people skills, wether it’s good bedside manner, or dealing with co-workers, be physically able to stand for long hours, & be compassionate dealing with all sorts of strangers (different ages, ethnicities, races, economic status, & mental states) You basically have to be a well-rounded Jack-of-all-trades. Seems demanding.

  • @SherCC
    @SherCC 8 місяців тому +2

    Why nurse getting harder, because people are now sicker and worse

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  8 місяців тому +1

      They’re so much sicker!

  • @annfears1724
    @annfears1724 Рік тому +6

    I enjoy watching the videos, thanks 😊

  • @all4Dorian
    @all4Dorian 3 місяці тому +1

    Nursing is taxing and toxic. I do not recommend. These corporations are crazy and they don’t care about nurses or the staff it’s a money and greed. Don’t risk it! Be kind to yourself!

  • @mariejackson1988
    @mariejackson1988 Рік тому +6

    ❤ thank you for your message, 100% true.

  • @amberspeacefulplace5803
    @amberspeacefulplace5803 Рік тому +4

    She's speaking truth ❤️🎯💯 to me the nurses are the real superheroes. And this is not right!

  • @ancientaquarius1310
    @ancientaquarius1310 Рік тому +14

    I am tapping out after 20 years at the bedside. One more contract and I am out!

    • @agathahofmann6977
      @agathahofmann6977 Рік тому +1

      me too! 🥳
      ICU nurse, the Netherlands

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому

      20 years!!! That’s a long time, what are you plans after.

    • @ancientaquarius1310
      @ancientaquarius1310 Рік тому +6

      @@KendraRN I am almost done with my MBA . May open a CNA or PCA school after I graduate.

  • @orion7412
    @orion7412 10 місяців тому +2

    Decrease upper management, clinical educators and clinical researchers with A.I increase funding to bedside nurses.

  • @czg2012
    @czg2012 10 місяців тому +1

    "rewarding" career.
    it's bs all around!
    I quit after 3yrs.

  • @kimberlysmith6670
    @kimberlysmith6670 11 місяців тому +4

    32 years at the bedside! You speak my heart! Seen every thing you can imagine! Worked every department! Seen it done it! Never got back up! I’ll pray for you!

  • @adennega556
    @adennega556 6 місяців тому +3

    I left bedside as a new grad recently for a really close knit patient focused clinic and I don’t see myself going back to bedside

  • @youkendehunique6317
    @youkendehunique6317 Рік тому +3

    I’ve been a nurse a little over one year and I can’t handle the bedside at all. I’ve decided it’s just not for me.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +2

      I’ve had nursing students who graduated and never took a hospital job. It is okay, you can do research, mental health outpatient clinics, etc

  • @kellygoodman6167
    @kellygoodman6167 10 місяців тому +2

    I was going to finish nursing school but changed my mind once I saw how crappy nurses were being treated. Makes no sense to spend all that money on all that education when you're being run ragged and some nurses can barely afford to keep themselves a float

  • @ummzahra9196
    @ummzahra9196 Рік тому +5

    Ooh you should write a book about the nursing industry for black women

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +1

      Something to think about

    • @Foxyexrn
      @Foxyexrn 11 місяців тому

      For any women, race has nothing to do with it. As an Arab nurse, my white nurse colleagues get treated badly by overseas RNs...I’m in the uk.

    • @mekichey129
      @mekichey129 4 місяці тому

      ​@Foxy_ladyYTSL
      You are in the UK... How do you tell Black nurses that race has nothing to do with US Nursing... You aren't Black

  • @Partof.Heaven
    @Partof.Heaven 2 місяці тому +1

    Idk why this doesn't have 10M likes and 100M views. But corporate doesn't care anyway...

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  2 місяці тому

      Thank you so much❤️

  • @abutterfly7975
    @abutterfly7975 10 місяців тому +1

    Yeah, the big guys whine about their budgets but they keep hiring all of the management and the manager for the manager for the manager for the manager when one person used to do the job years ago we’re so top-heavy in healthcare.

  • @Friday779
    @Friday779 10 місяців тому +2

    Those administrators may have to put some scrubs on. They will learn one day watch.

  • @MK-tl1ox
    @MK-tl1ox 4 місяці тому +2

    There are soo many avenues for nurses to reinvent themselves nowadays.

  • @user-ui1zv8bd4y
    @user-ui1zv8bd4y Рік тому +2

    Kendra this is actually the case in any aspect of healthcare. But nursing has always had leaders who never stand up for what is correct. THAT is the crux and heart of why 40 years later this nurse only sees nurses treated as a numerical cost!!!!!

  • @Doulos-o1c
    @Doulos-o1c 6 місяців тому +3

    As a nurse for over 25 years, I agree with this message!”

  • @Asia-rs6wc
    @Asia-rs6wc 9 місяців тому +1

    I hate being an RN at the bedside! I left the hospital full time for outpatient/family practice and in school for FNP but I am contemplating going for CRNA. RN pay is crap and the patients are getting worse and disrespectful.
    Edit - 6 months later I decided I am going for informatics and IT. I’m done with people

  • @pecopicante4167
    @pecopicante4167 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm in the ER all the time (two rare autoimmunes and no way to stabilize it as of yet) I never give my nurses a hard time unless I'm physically having a siezure or POTS is freaking out. There's not enough staffing and there us not enough emotional and mental support for what they can/have go or gone through. They need more help.

  • @user-zx1ii7vf2z
    @user-zx1ii7vf2z Рік тому +2

    It's going to get to the point Where if all the nurses leave, people will have to care for their relatives themselves while the doctors and pharmacists continue in their roles.

  • @diavolorosa
    @diavolorosa 6 місяців тому +1

    There's no end to the greed and corner-cutting. It's infuriating.

  • @karlag5188
    @karlag5188 Рік тому +4

    Kendra...have you thought about being a representative nurse advocate to bring this to the attention in congress to help change the nurse culture to be positive? What ever happened to Art of nursing...old school.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому

      I’ve never considered it. I’m not as knowledgeable in that area 😬😬😬

    • @karlag5188
      @karlag5188 Рік тому +2

      @@KendraRN Your knowledge comes from God. You are speaking the knowledge in your videos. Have you considered starting your own nurse association? This would be a start. Recruit people to be a part of this, who has a passionate voice such as you!

  • @LauraOfTheValley
    @LauraOfTheValley 7 місяців тому +1

    I could NEVER be a bedside nurse. Watching those in charge, whether it be superiors in the medical field or the family of the dying patient, allow the patient to pass or try ushering on the ending of their lives. I got enough as a CNA

  • @hansmueller3029
    @hansmueller3029 Рік тому +2

    It's a vocation. I think you truly have to be called to do this. Most of us will see more nurses from the time we are born until the time we pass away than any other stranger that will do anyrhing for us. Think of that. This young lady will impact thousands of lives in her career.
    I praise God there are young people that will answer the call to care for us, doing everything needed to heal us and make us comfortable. They save our lives.

  • @jakejennings5152
    @jakejennings5152 Місяць тому +1

    Fuck hospital bedside care! Did it for 13 long years, 8 on night shift, and you get damn tired of drunks, druggies, sundowners, and people having withdrawals acting a damn fool. You get damn tired of running your ass off all night and never getting a minute to breathe. You get damn tired of people in general in this line of work.

    • @ooooo000ooooo
      @ooooo000ooooo Місяць тому

      Nursing will make you hate people. Idiots on the internet ask why nurses are so "mean" when the sweetest nicest person gets ground into dust and abused in nursing. These people couldn't handle being a nurse

  • @andreaharrison7935
    @andreaharrison7935 Рік тому +2

    Hence why I’m quit in my nursing job, I have enough 😢

  • @Villagenanny
    @Villagenanny Рік тому +2

    Virtual Care nursing may be the thing for you. It's very different though so will be some adjustments.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Рік тому +1

      I’m interested

    • @Villagenanny
      @Villagenanny Рік тому +1

      @KendraRN There are also nurse triage and 24hr nurse advice hotline jobs through clinics, etc. Public school or college nurses. Community colleges also look for RNs to teach and train CNAs but that would be as a side job. So many options to utilize your knowledge and skills without the physical burnout. Some even contract themselves out and go in business for themselves. Praying for open doors and favor! 🙏

  • @daciasdiy1861
    @daciasdiy1861 8 місяців тому +1

    How come the CNA’s do your job ?

  • @BetterMe981
    @BetterMe981 Рік тому +2

    I wish you could/would go to Congress and blast this whole thing out. It’s absolutely disgusting and ridiculous that you have to go through such hell to care for people.

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 8 місяців тому

      There was PA nursing march a little while back...nothing happened...they even pay off the local.news to not report!

  • @divaprettyakakapequeen9438
    @divaprettyakakapequeen9438 10 місяців тому +2

    Yep, left beside after many years! You’re absolutely correct 👍🏿

  • @maxsmith7257
    @maxsmith7257 Рік тому +4

    Well said my sister

  • @777MAG
    @777MAG 11 місяців тому +4

    Lot of racism in nursing. No more bedside, I refuse. Tired of them manipulating assignments because they want to give “certain” nurses the hardest patients. They play games at work, I’m not for it. I am appalled at how grimy people can be. 🤨

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  11 місяців тому +2

      There is a lot of toxicity!

  • @DrewWalton
    @DrewWalton Рік тому +2

    Having had many serious medical issues over the last few years resulting in an obscene number of hospital stays, I just want to say that despite the grotesque level of corporate greed going on, y'all are so so so so appreciated by patients like myself.
    Hospital stays (especially long ones) are never fun, but y'all make it so much more bearable.

  • @watchesvideosonline
    @watchesvideosonline 7 місяців тому +1

    Technically, because of corporate greed, all workers are forced to do more for less.

  • @bettyred
    @bettyred Рік тому +3

    This is very true. Not only in the hospital but in the ambulatory setting as well.

  • @Nninjarider
    @Nninjarider 11 місяців тому +2

    Why I will never work in a hospital ever

  • @angelofneo6945
    @angelofneo6945 Рік тому +1

    I fucking quit in a few days I quit effective immediately im done with this servant job and going to study pharmacist or something else