WHAT is Anxiety and HOW to Deal with it

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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • Shwetabh Gangwar explains what is Anxiety. He also talks about parenting, the role of parenting, and genetics.
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  • @ShwetabhGangwar1
    @ShwetabhGangwar1  Рік тому +20

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    • @aditya06321
      @aditya06321 Рік тому

      Thank you bhaiya

    • @DevDass-wv7tr
      @DevDass-wv7tr Рік тому

      If one live outside India how can he buy it? @swetabh

    • @mayanknamdev6328
      @mayanknamdev6328 Рік тому

      stag potrait behind you is awesome......

    • @beastmotoz
      @beastmotoz 9 місяців тому

      Thanks Swetab bro I don't know how to deal with anxiety and depression 😢

  • @sodiumchloride5202
    @sodiumchloride5202 7 місяців тому +18

    I rarely raised my hand in class even though I knew the correct answer because of anxiety. I thought my answer would be wrong and others will laugh. My hands and body start to shake in fear. It's a fear of losing control.

  • @Harsh255555
    @Harsh255555 Рік тому +69

    The point Bhai explained in last 2 minutes is very relatable. Anxiety ke time Banda bahot jyada negative consequences ke baare mein sochne lagta hai jabki reality mein jyada kuch hota nahi hai.

  • @santhetic4039
    @santhetic4039 Рік тому +149

    Words can't describe.. Like how much you helped me through my depression and anxiety attacks.. I have been watching your videos for 20-25 days..literally My whole perspective is changed about everything in this world ...my life has been so much better after watching your videos.. And this video helped me alot like alot!! I understood more about anxiety and i can relate everything you said in this video.. And apart from this..back days..i was consistent with my studies and all important things in my life..but I have been procrastinating alot from 4 -5 days idk why.. I feel so empty..don't feel like doing anything.. I really don't know what to do and also my exams are approaching .. And Apart from all of these thank u so much Shwetabh bhaiya you've helped me alot.. God bless you✨

  • @warlord5488
    @warlord5488 Рік тому +48

    There are traumas I have faced due to bad parenting and decisions my parents took on behalf of me that forbid me from sleeping directly after I lay on the bed, I find myself thinking about them each night for sometimes more than an hour, therapy is expensive and doesn't have high chances of success. I have had panic attacks which were cured by a psychiatrist but I continue to deal with high anxiety and can't connect with people

    • @THECHASMEESHSTUDIO
      @THECHASMEESHSTUDIO Рік тому +4

      Keep it going brother. Trust me it will get better.

    • @Trueneutron
      @Trueneutron Рік тому +8

      Gale lagja bhai. #VirtualHug, Don't Loose

    • @krox477
      @krox477 11 місяців тому +1

      You cannot change the past but have ability to change the future

    • @krox477
      @krox477 11 місяців тому +2

      Panic attacks are worst

  • @danishsiddiq941
    @danishsiddiq941 5 місяців тому +9

    Shwetabh achhe se cover nahi kar paaya...
    Mai bhi apne experience se share krna chahta hu shayad help kare logo ko..
    Mujhe shuru hui relationship se..itna suffocation tha ke ek din mujhe aisa lagne laga ke mujhe maut aari ho...
    Wahan se shuru hua mera anxiety ka khel.. warna mai bht careless admi tha..
    Iska ilaaj dawaai nahi h, bs tb lo meds jab out of control hora ho..
    Warna best answer jo maine seekha about death anxiety..baaki different forms of anxiety ko bhi relate kr paoge bht hadd tk..
    Basically, anxiety is presumption based, not reality based..iska existential reality se koi relation nahi hai..
    Dusra aata hai precautionary response... Jise survival instinct bolte hain...ya darr bollo..
    Darr do tarah se reaction karta hai... Ek resistance and rush..
    Ham resist krrte hain and rush krte h jisse heart beat tezz hojati hai..
    Slow kardo khudko, aur resist mt kro.. accept krlo worst case scenario ko..vo free kardega resistance se.
    Teesra hai ego... Yahan spirituality ko leaao zindagi mein..
    Sb kuch ego se connected hai..yeh sbse bada point hai..
    'Mai' hi bimari hai..mai mar rha hu, mai kuch kho rha hun, mai akela padjaunga wagera wagera..
    Sense of dying, loosing the world, people, materialism... loneliness connected with dying...aur leaving the world...
    Yeh sb tbtk valid h jabtk tmhri 'mai' exist krti h ya ego..
    Khudko khudse free krdo aur yaad rkho ke god ya energy exist krta h isliye tm exist krte ho..
    Ya kehlo you are the wave in the ocean or drop in the ocean..but you are not different from ocean.. ego dissolve hojaega and stability ajaegi..
    Maut ek physical cheez h, body ka us hadd tk damage hona zaroori h jahan se wapas na aaya ja sake..ab chahe age se ya illness se ya accident se ho...
    Natural life energy is always supporting body to live, and its made to live around 90 in good conditions..
    Then you have will power to fight any damage in the body caused by age illness or accident.. so life energy is always healing to make it live..also you have will power to actually reverse damages and treatments which are external help in the reversal process..
    Yeh niyati ya khuda ya niyam h zindagi ka...
    Kaash death anxiety waalo ko help mile..mai kabhi dawai pr depend nhi hua..talk therapy is always best..bhaago mt saamna karo..be ready to see the worst and inshaAllah aap sb theek rhenge.
    So to summarise:
    Imagination, survival instinct and ego hata do..
    Uske baad body ka nature samjho..maut to aani h ek din..accept kro taaki freedom mile darr se..we will lose this battle any ways so live and milk it to its best potential..
    Baaki body kaise khatam hoti h vo smjha diya..lekin good care and will power can make you live around 90 aur itna kaafi h..mujhe to 65 se zyada mein koi interest nahi.

  • @yashkhanna2932
    @yashkhanna2932 Рік тому +14

    PLEASE BE KIND TO EACH OTHER IN 2023, YOU HAVE ZERO IDEA WHAT ANYONE IS GOING THROUGH!!!!!
    I have been dealing with OCD and health anxiety as diagnosed by psychologist, the constant reassurance, battling catastrophic thoughts, the trauma, the inferiority, etc drains me. GOD BLESS ALL ANXIETY WARRIORS.

  • @aditibanerjee2034
    @aditibanerjee2034 Рік тому +22

    as somebody in therapy, i can confirm his information is pretty thorough

    • @aditibanerjee2034
      @aditibanerjee2034 Рік тому

      yeah im older than you fam but i havent figured it out either@HadroN.

  • @nishthapandey9798
    @nishthapandey9798 Рік тому +13

    I have faced the exact same things in my life.. My parents , especially my mother used to abuse me for not scoring the highest in the class and it kept going on till I finished my post graduation .. The constant comparisons shattered my self esteem and confidence due to which I am facing a lot of challenges till date..yes, it is difficult to handle this kind of anxiety and fear but if we try to understand our self worth , the situation can surely get better

  • @prashantbhati7120
    @prashantbhati7120 Рік тому +14

    Chandrayan mission ki successful ki sbi ko congratulations.. Kam krte raho

    • @vedzwrl9054
      @vedzwrl9054 Рік тому +1

      Kaam to karna chahta hun pr samajh nhi aa rha kis chez pe kaam karu bht confused hun 😢

  • @rohitbhosale8302
    @rohitbhosale8302 Рік тому +9

    UA-camrs making positive videos that make people confertable and forget that world is fill with negative peoples

  • @parod8498
    @parod8498 Рік тому +33

    Finally a video I needed, really appreciate your efforts shwetabh bhaiyya. The timing is spot on!

  • @icyhot9718
    @icyhot9718 Рік тому +18

    I recently got into college, doing Computer science engineering, our Communication Skills professor gave topic "Merits and Demerits of AI" to make PPT on even though I made the best ppt In the whole class but I didn't presented it due to social anxiety ☠️

  • @pritikwrites
    @pritikwrites Рік тому +10

    Thank you so much for this video! Please please please create more videos on dealing with anxiety!

  • @gayatrepatil3689
    @gayatrepatil3689 Рік тому +22

    My parents are 99.99 %reason why I have anxiety 🙃

    • @Dhruv0700
      @Dhruv0700 2 місяці тому +1

      💔😭

    • @Dhruv0700
      @Dhruv0700 2 місяці тому +1

      Teachers ne bhi dhoya h hume to
      Parents ne bhi dhoya h

    • @prathambhardwaj7038
      @prathambhardwaj7038 2 місяці тому

      And your parents are the reason that you're alive

    • @gayatrepatil3689
      @gayatrepatil3689 2 місяці тому +1

      @@prathambhardwaj7038 alive at what cost 😔👍🏻

    • @animaxxindia14
      @animaxxindia14 Місяць тому

      Like what ?

  • @dIvYaa487
    @dIvYaa487 Рік тому +6

    Omg he is so consistent
    I just watched one of his videos he uploaded today then he uploaded another :")

  • @X1991A
    @X1991A Рік тому +2

    I am currently suffering from Anxiety bcoz of my depression coz of my work for last 3 years & I left my job in June 2022 coz of this. I am jobless more than a year now. Between the month was very very difficult. Lost my father in sept 2022. Not ready to work as some companies given me less pay & low designation. What ever you said it's absolutely true.

  • @exodusraj7670
    @exodusraj7670 Рік тому +2

    I have anxiety disorder so I can relate with this video and yes you are right anxiety makes you always think about the worst case scenario

  • @someone1734
    @someone1734 Рік тому +15

    Shwetabh ji i m facing very horrible level of anxiety and stress right now. I m totally broken & depressed. Actually i failed my jee exam and got below 75% score in 12th. Mostly because i had food poisoning and i was sick from 18 Jan to 24 Feb. Now i have to give my boards and jee again in order to get a decent college. I m currently taken admission in a terrible college but i want to give jee back so badly! But its hectic process. I have lost 2 months in trying to search a better college for me as well as i had to give my papers for rechecking which took 2 weeks additional and i was horribly stressed out! Plz save me!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @eddr6124
      @eddr6124 Рік тому +7

      If you can afford go to private colleges whose placement record is good, otherwise first ask yourself what u actually want to do in life.
      Dont waste another year on jee if you are not confirmed about ur goals.
      Why u want IIT / NIIT? ask urself..
      If answer is good placement then good placement can be taken from a private college( fees will be high)...
      But u can afford then its no use to go for iit just to please ur parents or relatives

    • @someone1734
      @someone1734 Рік тому +1

      @@eddr6124 No. I gave a dream. I love Astro Physics from my heart💖 I also want to explore quantum physics. They r my life 💖
      I want to go to RnD in astrophysics or Robotics since it was interest from childhood. I used to score easily in my school days without much effort and spend most of my free time investing in astrophysics research, rnd, sci fi novels and documentaries. IITs r never someone's dreams. They r just a way to achive them. And i want to get through that way cuz it is the best way! Also i forgot to mention that i have a only my mom who works from morning 6 am to evening 7 pm only to then cook meal for me. I have no dad (died in accident). My mom works way too hard but earns like 20k/month. We are lower middle class family. And i feel like whatever i have done is nothing compensation for her. I wanna get atleast a better college than regular one to keep her healthy and safe. She has some minor health also. I m scared. It feel like i have a lot of burden but forget about the dreams, i can't even take care of her properly.

    • @Gagan_17611
      @Gagan_17611 Рік тому +1

      Ummm, Let's build an another self buddy,, it's gonna teach you something. I'm in same situation but I'm smashing that.

    • @Gagan_17611
      @Gagan_17611 Рік тому

      By the way I'm from West Bengal ❤️❤️ love you.

    • @truePac47
      @truePac47 Рік тому +1

      I'm no psychiatrist but bro I've seen one thing and overcomed it, it's health. Health plays very big role in being confident and anxious, I'm not talking about physical aesthetics, but about overall health, at least sahi kha na khana chahiye, and sahi lifestyle follow karni chaiye, phir anxiety sirf hamare intellectual level pe hoti hai not at physically or survival mode.
      If u keep ur health good, like eating wholesome food, exercising , being in Sunlight and night light too, spending time doing nothing is also main thing.

  • @NimeshSingh97
    @NimeshSingh97 Рік тому +11

    Congratulations🎉🥳👏 For Chandrayaan 3 Mission 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳💚💚💚🇮🇳🇮🇳

  • @curiosity9347
    @curiosity9347 7 місяців тому +2

    Very well explained the difference between a psychiatrist and a psychologist...👍

  • @gaminguceyt
    @gaminguceyt Рік тому +2

    Everybody Just Want The Result And Also They Never Motivate Anyone To Do More😢❤ This Results In Anxiety

  • @freewill4912
    @freewill4912 9 місяців тому +1

    I just you bhai....you have been with me though years (since 2018 or 19)
    Cant thank you enough❤❤❤

  • @GoluKumar-zt2zu
    @GoluKumar-zt2zu 6 місяців тому +4

    if you all want practical answer of anything, just come here

  • @thingintresting5495
    @thingintresting5495 Рік тому +2

    1. Anxiety sbko hoti h , Observe kro apne aap ko , tumhe kis magnitude ki Anxiety hai .
    2. Anxiety is Survival response of body where it shutdowns some functions to preserve energy.
    3. Agr daily functioning ki waat lgi hui hai then take a therapy
    4. Its one of the major reasons are bad parenting , strict teachers , childhood abuse .
    5. Create evidences like in morning you were fearing about lion then in evening tell that evidence that sher nhi aaya
    6. Tu kr skta h bhai , prosperity ko develop very soon , worry not . (Jb self doubt ho tb tell yourself you can )

  • @pareshanpadhai
    @pareshanpadhai Рік тому +3

    love you bro , i like when you spread awareness toward therapy or psychology by means of your video... appericiate ..

  • @diwashshrestha5518
    @diwashshrestha5518 Рік тому +1

    I respect how u r concerned about others problems

  • @Mukeshkumar-ok3pi
    @Mukeshkumar-ok3pi Рік тому +8

    Wanted video brother love you ❤

  • @writewithTejaEeducation
    @writewithTejaEeducation Рік тому +4

    Dammmmmm❤

  • @Komal-ky2jm
    @Komal-ky2jm Рік тому +18

    Thank you so much Shwetabh for making this video yar 🥺🥺 thanks a ton!!
    It started with stress and now I am suffering from Chronic Anxiety.

    • @beastmotoz
      @beastmotoz 9 місяців тому

      Do you take any medicine for depression and anxiety

  • @anandkumar-nk4pr
    @anandkumar-nk4pr Рік тому +5

    Bohat achha kam kr rhe bhai. God bless u👍👍👍

  • @ShreyaGoel977
    @ShreyaGoel977 Рік тому +5

    Very helpful video!!
    Need the same type of video on stress

  • @mrcharm767
    @mrcharm767 Рік тому +4

    In my case my school teachers created anxiety and seriousness in me as I was the most overconfident student and did everything without fear , their insults made me from avergae student to temporarily topper (I am sure they dint want that) and i cracked competative exams but my anxiety stayed with me now im still nervous and anxious more than before i m only normal when im with my close friend . Even at home im bit anxious

    • @krox477
      @krox477 11 місяців тому +1

      These teachers don't deserve to become teachers

  • @graphicbotstudio8923
    @graphicbotstudio8923 11 місяців тому +2

    Thank you SHWETABH BHAIYA it really helped me ❤ .... just a minor suggestion ... can you make a family friendly version so that i can show it to my teachers and father 🙏

  • @Manandhar09
    @Manandhar09 Рік тому +3

    Love from Nepal❤

  • @ritikgarg7425
    @ritikgarg7425 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you so much brother
    As this video at least changed my mind
    And yes
    Mujhe extreme to nhi h anxiety but
    Hn mujhe samjh me aaya
    Thank you ❤

  • @komalkakkar8736
    @komalkakkar8736 11 місяців тому +2

    We all needed you to be here. Thank you for the kind of content you make ❤

    • @R_raj10
      @R_raj10 10 місяців тому

      Exactly

  • @ItsRk17
    @ItsRk17 Рік тому +1

    Escape the Matrix , This Line Might lower Your Self Esteem , But handle it like A Good Parent With patience, Motivation < Discipline. BUILD IT WITH PATIENCE.

  • @zaynbutt
    @zaynbutt 10 місяців тому +2

    Amazing work you doing brother!

  • @amarsharma8053
    @amarsharma8053 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sir, now I know myself better.

  • @mrentertainment4923
    @mrentertainment4923 Рік тому +1

    5:20 that "bhosdike" is dedicated to all neglectful/ narcissist parents .❤😁

  • @dev.6229
    @dev.6229 10 місяців тому

    Jis guidance aur solutions ki jaroorat thi mujhe wo sirf aapse mili..maine social Anxiety ke bahot video dekhe lekin meri anxiety aapke video par implementation karne ke baad Kam ho rahi hai...kaise thanks bolu..God Bless you Sir

  • @Omigopancake
    @Omigopancake Рік тому +4

    My anxiety is very weird I have anxity from my sound system my when I am going to check my sound my heart beat goes to 180 for 1-2 minute after that is comes to 120 BPM 😢😢 I am so scared now

    • @Omigopancake
      @Omigopancake Рік тому +2

      Ab to souch Raha hu sound system bhech du 😢 kayki itni hevay anxiety kabhi nhi hoti muze

    • @lolyourdumb
      @lolyourdumb 4 місяці тому

      What happened to you? Are you alive​@@Omigopancake

  • @miky7595
    @miky7595 Рік тому +3

    I am having health anxiety from last 9 months..therapy is going on but life becomes extremely difficult like I can’t enjoy the life and good money that I am having

    • @MrNOBODY-bz3qr
      @MrNOBODY-bz3qr Рік тому

      Buddy i m also having this, i get relief after matching my symptoms with someone who has anxiety and at the same time fear of something big( hypochondrias) and sometimes feel grateful to have just anxiety not having big deal like als. Do u feel like this?

  • @umer_69
    @umer_69 Рік тому +2

    Hey I appreciate you're content
    ❤️🇵🇰

  • @toppingsyou9490
    @toppingsyou9490 Рік тому +2

    I am really very disturbed with health anxiety !😵

  • @bobbybhatt6730
    @bobbybhatt6730 Рік тому +2

    Beauifully explained ❤

  • @Prakriti_Senpai
    @Prakriti_Senpai Рік тому +2

    Needed this

  • @dad-ms8mz
    @dad-ms8mz Рік тому +3

    me getting conformation from differnt sources that most of my mental problems r from childhood

  • @saoodahmed5871
    @saoodahmed5871 8 місяців тому

    I'm from Pakistan But honestly speaking this guy Helps me alot to view the world in different perspectives,I am huge fan of this person,Also I love my indian brothers ,In the end,Shwetabh I want a like react from you,Thanks

  • @farheenkhan3406
    @farheenkhan3406 Рік тому +1

    Shwetabh thank you so much. I'm going through this since a long time pls make more videos on this. It really helpful.

  • @GrovesMOfficial
    @GrovesMOfficial Рік тому +1

    this made me cry fr

  • @p.r.s8675
    @p.r.s8675 Рік тому +2

    Some psychiatrists also provide counselling services and are imo much better than psychologists.... psychiatrists are doctors and have a better and holistic understanding of the human mind than most psychologists who are just art grads with no experience in medicine. Btw this is coming from someone who has anxiety and is been taking therapy .....

  • @Agrawalhere
    @Agrawalhere Рік тому +2

    Sach btau to pichli saal tak anxiety se meri sirf heart beats hi bdhti thi pr phir papa ko pta nhi kyu lga ki mai depression mai hu aur unne mjhe 6 months tak anti depressants di jisse kuch shi to hua nhi blki abb meri anxiety itni badh gyi hai ki agar mai so rha hu aur kisi ne tej room ka gate khol diya ya light ka button tej dba diya to meri heart beat bahut fast hojaati hai aur high chances hote hai ki meri nightfall bhi ho jaaye kya kisi ke pass isse nikalne ka koi tarika hai kya 😢

  • @cosmicflash8868
    @cosmicflash8868 Рік тому +5

    Can we use attack mode for personality growth?? I hope you'd reply 😊

  • @akshay2012rdts
    @akshay2012rdts 10 місяців тому

    Thanks bhai, feelings ko words me frame nahi kar pa raha hu. Kuch minute me bohot clarity de di. Thanks Shwetabh bro.

  • @Critical_x_
    @Critical_x_ Рік тому +10

    Shwetabh sir vo peeche hiran ki aankhe hilti h kabi kabi 😢

  • @TON-108
    @TON-108 Рік тому +1

    Thank you shwetabh sir ❤

  • @infinixwarrior
    @infinixwarrior Рік тому +1

    Just needed this video

  • @dev.6229
    @dev.6229 10 місяців тому

    Last 5 minute of this video is masterpiece

  • @b-6870
    @b-6870 Рік тому +7

    If you try to take a fish out of water, the fish will go through anxiety.
    Anxiety is a sign that your body is suffering, and you need to do something about the situation.
    No words of wisdom or motivation will work there. It's a do or die situation.
    Many at times, it's normalised to experience it and not do anything about it, because it's a part of the process to success.
    But the reality is, it is a sign that you're in the wrong place.

    • @ShwetabhGangwar1
      @ShwetabhGangwar1  Рік тому +15

      "Anxiety is a sign that your body is suffering, and you need to do something about the situation."
      No. People with GAD feel anxiety in any and every social environment no matter how safe, calm, and secure. They create scenarios in their minds that people are thinking lowly of them, judging them, or that they don't belong there. A person can experience anxiety from a variety of interpretations coming from c-ptsd, ptsd, anxious attachment, and other disorders or past harsh experiences.
      "But the reality is, it is a sign that you're in the wrong place."
      Also, NO. The place can be completely safe. A person suffering from high social anxiety or c-ptsd or borderline personality or ... will perceive the situation negatively and experience anxiety.

    • @b-6870
      @b-6870 Рік тому +2

      ​@@ShwetabhGangwar1Yes. It may be a false statement for many. It is not a law of life that's always constant in every situation and for every human. But for certain situations, and certain humans, it still stands true. That's why I said 'many times' not all times.

    • @Thischannelsfortimepass
      @Thischannelsfortimepass Рік тому +1

      @@ShwetabhGangwar1 preety much accurate. Once I was in a company where I thought everyone thing I'm crazy because the way I was having anxiety. But in reality they all were planning how to make me more comfortable and make a part of team. Anxiety is interpretation

  • @gurpratap
    @gurpratap Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this

  • @anandkumar-nk4pr
    @anandkumar-nk4pr Рік тому +10

    Mujhe lgta hai ANXIETY ajkal phone se he aa rai. Bs chhodo adhi tension khtm😑

  • @LEOTHEANDRESMESSI
    @LEOTHEANDRESMESSI Рік тому +2

    ok bhai

  • @shekharyadav849
    @shekharyadav849 5 місяців тому

    Thanku for this wonderful, i have a friend who goes through same and i was not able to understand it and how to deal with , now i can help her .

  • @indiawantskejriwal1397
    @indiawantskejriwal1397 Рік тому +4

    bhai me 13 saal se face kr rha tha anxiety depression ocd us se jeetkar ab me cbi me sub inspector hu

    • @vedzwrl9054
      @vedzwrl9054 Рік тому +2

      How did u overcome plz help as i also suffer from anxiety

    • @randomdude8327
      @randomdude8327 Рік тому

      Congratulations bhai, proud of you.
      I know how hard it is to navigate through life.
      I have Adhd.

  • @devanshrastogi6311
    @devanshrastogi6311 Рік тому +1

    Well explained 👏👏

  • @yogesh9433
    @yogesh9433 Рік тому +1

    Your views about parenting is exactly similar to mine thoughts 🙂

  • @xtan4495
    @xtan4495 Рік тому +1

    Shwetabh issa wizaard

  • @ameykulkarni8082
    @ameykulkarni8082 Рік тому +2

    🙌🏻❤️

  • @AvleenKaur-zt2kc
    @AvleenKaur-zt2kc 5 місяців тому

    excellent explanation

  • @Vidu_03
    @Vidu_03 Рік тому +20

    I'm in a long distance relationship with my partner from last 4 years. We're from different cities and different cultures. Our relationship started online 4 years ago. We chatted for months and then finally met in person. Since then, we've met a few times and his whole family knows about me. Now I'm planning to tell my family too but I'm a little nervous about telling them. They'll obviously ask me how I know him and I don't know how I will tell them that I met him online. I keep getting frequent anxiety due to this. Also, I have a younger brother who is a little nosy. Whenever I tell him to focus on his life, my mother takes his side and I feel helpless. So I'm worried from his side too. Please help me out.

    • @anandkumar-nk4pr
      @anandkumar-nk4pr Рік тому +1

      Bhai tu araam se khud se puchh tu shadi k liye achhe se tyar hai ki nai. Kisi ko blame nai krna chahiye. Tu pehle apni lyf dekh. Agr kal ko shadi hui wo teri wife tere ko kuch boli to tu khud apne bhai ko ghr se bahr nikal dega. Baat kdvi hai magar sach hai. Araam se soch

    • @Vidu_03
      @Vidu_03 Рік тому +4

      @@anandkumar-nk4pr I'm a girl. And apka esa kyun laga ki mujhe araam se sochna chahiye? I mean main thodi to nervous hun.

    • @zainazhar3423
      @zainazhar3423 Рік тому

      ​@@Vidu_03ap apny choty bhai k sath relation acha kro usy koi makhan wagera lga k apni side py lagaoo phir ap apny ghr walo ko batana

    • @manhattanx
      @manhattanx Рік тому

      ​@@Vidu_03 hmm, my relationship has been quite opposite yet there were problems.
      I think the first step you should take is get their opinions on online chatting and making friends, if they're okay with friends then you can move to step 2 or I don't think it'll work unless you lie about him being an old colleague or irl person you met.
      Or you'll have to force them into agreeing with you which mostly has problems later in the life, I've seen this in my family twice that when there's a fight, even your own family doesn't support you and says, "it was you who wanted him so bad, now handle it yourself" typa things.
      Ofc it'll be grateful to have a supportive family but it's very rare in India, especially when the marriages were against the will of family.
      If step 1 is clear then you can proceed and get your brother on your side, I'm a single child so idk how it is lol but ig you'll have to compromise for alot and get alot of favours to get him your support if unfortunately anything unwanted happens. It's clear after that and you can manage it yourself

    • @anandkumar-nk4pr
      @anandkumar-nk4pr Рік тому +3

      @@Vidu_03 sry mujhe lga male ho . Ap apni baat confidence se rakho. Agr ldka sahi ho to manao. Roka kro gap dalo aana jana dono parivar milo ek dusre se. Fir shadi krna. Aap ladki ho puri lyf ka swaal hai. May be wo wine vgerh na pita ho. Achha insan ho. Best of luck for ur future. God bless u

  • @bepositive6811
    @bepositive6811 Рік тому +1

    Shwetabh is back 💪🗿

  • @debolinaroy3123
    @debolinaroy3123 Рік тому +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @zuverse
    @zuverse Рік тому +2

    ye to attack mode me bhi h😍😍

  • @cypherorpheous8680
    @cypherorpheous8680 Рік тому

    Yes bro! It helped ❤

  • @ABDULQADIRKHANGLB
    @ABDULQADIRKHANGLB Рік тому +2

    Shwetabh Sir ek request hai kuch videos bina 1 bhi gaali ke bhi bna diya kro Kuch logon ko send nhi kr pata hu jinhe shayad need bhi ho.
    It's a Humble Request.

  • @berojgaryuva3736
    @berojgaryuva3736 Рік тому

    Thanks sir 👍
    I'm also suffering from panik attacks

  • @mouliksharma4678
    @mouliksharma4678 Рік тому +12

    This video hits way too close to home, the points about teachers at school fit right into the puzzle that were my schooling years. I wasn't an outstanding student, i was right in the middle, the average mediocre kid who wasn't appreciated for trying but always berated and demoralized for not being good enough, schooling years were a nightmare. It was in college years that I realised the blatant joke schooling is, being wise is never taught, knowledge is never awarded, only having a good memory is appreciated, teachers who don't have the slightest control over their own lives will try to control your lives, the only incentive that is there to work towards is that you won't be humiliated if you score good grades. And if you somehow are intelligent enough to question the "truths" they tell you, the only answer you get is detention and expulsion.

  • @advaitmanjeet-qm7oj
    @advaitmanjeet-qm7oj Рік тому +1

    Big fan 😊❤️

  • @monikasrivastava4901
    @monikasrivastava4901 Рік тому

    Awesome ...just superb..☺

  • @VinodKumar-nu1sf
    @VinodKumar-nu1sf Рік тому +2

    shwetabh u r nice

  • @pavannagpurkar1233
    @pavannagpurkar1233 Рік тому

    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @SUKHVINDERSINGH-jd3hf
    @SUKHVINDERSINGH-jd3hf Місяць тому

    From childhood mere bht. Negative things Rahi isliye wo sochkr hamesha anxiety hoti rehti hai

  • @siddharthmarko2654
    @siddharthmarko2654 Рік тому

    a big thanks to you
    mai ye try krunga

  • @Rahulkumar-dg5pu
    @Rahulkumar-dg5pu Рік тому

    Lovely bhai ❤

  • @MichealScott24
    @MichealScott24 Рік тому +2

    ❤🥺

  • @avinashjha4148
    @avinashjha4148 Рік тому

    Love you shwetabh bhai...boht bada bojh halka ho gaya

  • @anamsingh-nx5vu
    @anamsingh-nx5vu Рік тому +5

    How to get rid of day dream.....
    I am not able to focus either i am in past or in future....please
    Guide 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @RYFMuzic
      @RYFMuzic Рік тому

      simple..jitna hoske physical me dhyan do internet ka time fix krdo 30 minute to 1 hour per day

    • @AbhishekPandey-df6wo
      @AbhishekPandey-df6wo Рік тому

      same prblm

    • @Thischannelsfortimepass
      @Thischannelsfortimepass Рік тому +1

      You think about things which interests you the most. Whenever you start doing day-dreaming, stop and compare the thing you were doing and the thing you were day-dreaming about.
      Now start writing why you care about what you are doing, the more time you spend on thinking this more you will realise where your priorities are.
      And a pro tip- Don't say I have to do this, say I get to do this. The more you love what you love the more care you will give and higher it will be in your list of priorities.

    • @ArjunVerma-wx7tf
      @ArjunVerma-wx7tf Рік тому

      Past is gone and will never come back. So you have to accept whatever happened in the past is gone and never gonna be changed. Past will be the same for you whenever you think about it. Don't judge past events don't negate it rather be very neutral about your past.

    • @ArjunVerma-wx7tf
      @ArjunVerma-wx7tf Рік тому

      Future is not in your hands and future hasn't arrived yet. So whatever overthinking you do is pointless. Whatever will happen will happen. Focus on present and our thoughts ain't no real about our future.

  • @anhonestperson
    @anhonestperson Рік тому

    i agree to last points u made

  • @epic269
    @epic269 Рік тому

    Thanks 🙏

  • @PankajYadav-bs1ro
    @PankajYadav-bs1ro Рік тому +2

    Bhai mai bhut jyda anxiety ho rahi h
    Ak sath me 7 year ka break-up hone vala h
    Parents study ke liye paisa dene se mana kar diye h
    Hai bhut hopeless feel kar raha hu

  • @ghadisingh7082
    @ghadisingh7082 Рік тому +2

    Bhai ye video dobara aaya h kya.. Maine ye dekh rkha h

  • @user-it7kk4xm5n
    @user-it7kk4xm5n Рік тому

    Yes bro it helped

  • @herringbone2246
    @herringbone2246 Рік тому +3

    Feel pain , accept pain and know pain . :)

    • @ShwetabhGangwar1
      @ShwetabhGangwar1  Рік тому +9

      I highly endorse a healthy relationship with pain.
      Has very little to do with anxiety, my brother.

  • @muditbhardwaj007
    @muditbhardwaj007 Рік тому +6

    I was only the patient who suffered from it in 2019 with panic attack and serious issue ... Now I am completely come out from this ..

    • @03gursimransingh16
      @03gursimransingh16 Рік тому

      How plz help

    • @rj4545
      @rj4545 Рік тому +1

      I have chronic anxiety and recently diagnosed with panic disorder, after seeking help from Dr I'm at much better place

    • @shahzaibali475
      @shahzaibali475 Рік тому

      How bro can you share Plz

    • @rj4545
      @rj4545 Рік тому

      ​@@03gursimransingh16I suggest seek help from psychiatrist,
      I can give you many tips but 1-2 session with psychiatrist will be of immense help

    • @03gursimransingh16
      @03gursimransingh16 Рік тому

      @@rj4545 how plz help

  • @nirajkadam6175
    @nirajkadam6175 Рік тому +2

    Bhaiya, Attack mode me error rate ko niche lana aur success rate ko upar le Jana does it only mean that I have to tick all the boxes everyday or hafte dar hafte data ke hisab se to-do list update karna, jo skill me Sikh Raha hu usko aur acche se Sikh Pau us tarike se learning ka tarika optimise/update Karu ye he?

  • @Vikram-lj5ff
    @Vikram-lj5ff Рік тому

    Bhai to bhai hai ❤

  • @boogieman8827
    @boogieman8827 Рік тому

    Sir please make a video on parasocial relationships and limerence

  • @jeetsuthar07
    @jeetsuthar07 Рік тому +4

    Bhaiya me bahut jyada sad ho gya hu cuase mene apni family walo se bahot jyada hi expectations rakh rakhi he and jab wo puri ni hoti to mughe accha feel ni hota he, lagta he sab log mean hi hote he, please help me getting out of expecting from others. Bhaiya 3 baar comment kardiya h iss baar video daal dena please 🙏❤❤❤

    • @Thischannelsfortimepass
      @Thischannelsfortimepass Рік тому +1

      Bro if you are a reader then read "influence". It will tell reason's behind people's behaviours. You are expecting something without proper reasoning. People don't do things because of logic. They do it because of emotions, shortcuts and a lot of other things.

    • @jeetsuthar07
      @jeetsuthar07 Рік тому

      @@Thischannelsfortimepass okay bro I am gonna read this one and will thank you if it works ❤

    • @Thischannelsfortimepass
      @Thischannelsfortimepass Рік тому

      @@jeetsuthar07 you're most welcome Bhai ❤️

    • @jeetsuthar07
      @jeetsuthar07 Рік тому

      @@Thischannelsfortimepass bro can I ask you for a favour?

    • @Thischannelsfortimepass
      @Thischannelsfortimepass Рік тому

      @@jeetsuthar07 what's that?