"Women are the most selfish creatures on the planet." - My father who was married for 18+ years no divorce. That statement alone really made no sense to me when he said it. I was about 20 years old when he said that. Later on in life.. I TRULY realized what he was saying.
Yep! I’ve gotten into it just from dropping their children off without the mother present. Al the random text wars and I’d be like, “I know y’all have children together but WHY YOU TEXTING THIS MF on yo day off from kids!?!?!?!???” There’s an upwards battle that isn’t worth having. I’d rather not HAVE to know a woman’s exes. I don’t care if he’s a good father. Keep that bs away from me!
Wow... God forbid you lose your wife one day and you're left with your 2 or 3 kids... after a few years... you want to move on right? And the woman says what!!!!?????? YOU GOT KIDS DUSTY??? I AIN'T DOWN FOR THAT!! YOU JUST LOOKIN FOR HELP!! I AIN'T THE HELP!! 🤪 Foolish men. Either chasing skin tone and hair or perpetuating bs about women.
As a childless man, I’ve dated 3 single mothers and hated it. It feels like settling and being someone’s last option when they have made bad choices that came with life changing consequences. Never again
Like being sold that week old roast beef sammich after it has been chewed up and spat on and stuck back on the shelf with the same price as a freshly made sammich. After they get fibroids & swole feet, stomach poking out more than the booty, 5-oclock shadow, now they want to grant you the honor of wifing her up and adopting her 3 kids by 4 different men
It's never men should date women who can cook, who are cooperative, or just make their life better. It's always men should date (insert thing men don't like) type of women because feelings.
@@stopthecancelculture why would I want a 40 year old women? That’s a serious question. Marriage no but if she in great shape corporation on 100 yea she would get some meat🤷🏾
What!? WTF!? 🤯😵👎🏿 I was raised in a single mother household and I would never wish my worst enemy that horrible experience. What they fail to realize is there's an army of men just like me. And it's only growing. They done f'ed up! 🤷🏿♂️
Same! My uncle used to tell my mom stop buying me tight underwear. She asked me if I disliked them and I said yes. To this day she never heard either of us. The entirety of my life guidance was put off onto school and church, which turned me into a monster. Both places are full of the worst types of judgment for STRAIGHT black males. Even if I had role models it would have never mattered because we only had one parent in the home. A female authority figure is no authority at all. I don’t blame my mom for anything, but I often wonder how much life would have differed if she valued my dad more………..
FACTS! Ishmael does not want anything to do with his bad experiment with women who were like hs one night stand mothers named Hagar, who DELIBERATELY had us out of Wedlock; by which we where raised as Hyenas (peseants) vs Lions who were raised and sheparded by a father to be a King as because they drunck the ANTICHRIST KOOLAID of Feminism that they dont need no man. With that being said, it took all of God's Grace and Mercy for me to forgive her for making me a bastard via having relations with a man that she KNEW was married! As a result, I did not find out who my father was until I was 12 after asking her EVERYDAY, even in public settings to make her to stop the BS. Sometimes "I'm sorry" just makes it hurt even worst when I knew that was your END GAME from the very beginning when all you wanted was a "baby doll" to whorship you vs desiring to give that child the desires of his heart via having a Father. P.S. Come to find out she was getting the "bag" to keep quiet. And to this day money causes me so much pain to know what she did to live the good life; by which she was given enough many to pay for my college education three times over. Nevertheless, living her good life, she has nothing to show for it with all the money that she received. F@#K EM.
@@3amMONDAY YOU NEED TO BLAME HER AS SHE OPEN HER WOMB TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER. We need to hold even "momma" accountible. That is why these 304s, by which was some of our mothers, to FEEL that bastardhood is okay.
@@1230mkelly they were married, she just didn’t value it. She wasn’t a 304, he turned to drugs and she gave him no chance for recovery. Very sad story.
I did it and it worked out but I would not advise it to anyone especially my son. When he started to talk to one I talked to him and told him hell nawl. His mom who was a single mother when we met was even more vocal than me about steering clear of single mothers..
FACTS. Sometimes we take God's Grace and Mercy, "first time offender program," as if and though it is now the norm, standard/new normal. Glad you both could accept the fact that it worked for you. Nevertheless, that you did not feel as if and though you were hypocrites to also say that because you'll were an anomoly that you should desire to go outside in a thunderstorm, flying a kite, and expect not to be struck by lightning too. It reminds me of when people started to give tips out of the kindness of someones heart. And SELFISH employers EXPLOITED IT via reducing working wages to make their consumers the bad guy the velon to be on the hook to cover their employee overhead expenses. With that being said, I am old enough, still young, to know when a tip was on par with God's tithe of 10%. And now they want more than what Uncle Sam charges for the highest tax bracket! With that being said, they don't see or wonder why more and more people refuse to eat out but take their food to go via pick up or Grubhub. That's becausepeople are selfish and only want to sell you what they want without EVER taking into consideration what the other person desires as well.
I’m in my 30s my ex girlfriend is May be a year older than we broke up because I wanted to partially share some of the bills(I paid all the rent)and I didn’t have a good job at the time. Ever since then she’s been dealing with Pookies who don’t even have jobs or they’re fake drug dealers who beat her and mistreat her and her children. And now she has three kids by three different guys and wants me to get back with her and take on that responsibility of those three children absolutely fkn not
@@v.s.o.poodah Honestly, many of them are. It doesn't matter the race, background or profession. I've dated a surgeon, lawyer, chartered accountant and they behaved like children. It's their programming. If you're with a woman and she's into "celebrity gossip" or watches shows like "Temptation Island", "Love & Hip-Hop" or "The Bachelor", run for the hills. The damage is irreparable. Lol
Single moms always want credit for shit they are suppose to do 😂 YOU HAD KIDS SO TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS!! We aren’t impressed by or jealous of their struggle 😂
They suck & slurp a lot of men and got the audacity to kiss they children on the lips smh it's really disgusting. They think mouth wash nd brushing is gon get rid of all that skeet residue not to mention showering 🚿. They ain't shit.
Only single Moms say this. Most dudes will never do this. A man with kids may but I don’t think a man with no kids should. That’s taking in a lot and it’s not fair.
its funny she basically said "if i was a guy i'd be a HOBOSEXUAL who dates single moms because.. they have they shyt together.. akak aplace for me to stay and a car to drive". // more proof pookie is the preferred option. PS.. buy a Passport
@@garcel1251 SHE WAS STRAIGHT DEMONIC WITH SELFISH MANIPULATION. My question to her would be WHY God did not choose a "single mother" to have His only begotten Son?
If you date a single mom she's just looking for help and not really love and you also gotta deal with baby daddy drama it not really worth wasting you're energy on that.
A lot of wmn can't even pair bond,too many bodies on them,around my way ,they be racking up bodies ,ain't no pair bonding after 3 bodies, they be having bout 35 bodies or more
Date single mothers at your own discretion, fellas. Just know that, if it comes down to it (and it will), it'll always be you vs. her AND her kids. Whatever happens, you asked for it.
I thank my mom so much for my upbringing because her and my father were married.. when he passed she didn’t even bring another man around us until we were almost grown. It took my mom 10 years to even date. She finally remarried she stands by my step dad and we stand by him. My mom is even respectful to my dad asking if his tombstone should be replaced because she’s almost 80 now. I honestly empathize for both sexes now dating.. Men are used to women not caring but if you ask some of the men in your family like I have they will open up.
Which is how it should be I feel or at least till your child is old enough to articulate how they feel about the said person. But I know there are wonderful men/ women who get with folks with really young children and outstanding…. But lately it’s questionable
Yeah single motherhood changed her so much. Now she’s grown and ready to settle. Now she’s ready for you to come and take care of her and little Tyrone.
Reminds me of the time I went to a car lot to look for a car. It was a huge lot with tons of cars, but I guess the salespeople had zones on the lot that they were responsible for selling. The guy I spoke to listened to everything I was looking for, then proceeded to show me everything I didn't want because that's all he had to offer that would benefit him. It was actually so bad that he tried to convince me that I was looking at the newest body style when I had to point to my rental, which was actually the latest body style. They know what we want but they know they don't have it so they push their cup holders and power windows on us, and because they think our credit is crap and don't respect us as customers, we should be grateful to accept it. They don't want us to know that the lot down the street has better cars and a smoother customer experience.
I would simply ask this question to those women. "Okay, so you had a stepdad. That's you, and that's prior times. Let's say men want single moms. Why aren't more single moms taken?" Nobody wants to inherit more responsibility and more baggage just to lay with a woman. I refuse to take on liabilities for anybody. I don't have kids, so I don't have to take care of yours, ladies.
@BlissUg42💖 😆 🤣 😂, that sentence was trash. WTF did you even say? Probably, I'm gay or some other attack. I'm not gay, I'm just not dumb. I don't have to let you ladies drain my bank accounts to prove I'm not gay. I have a GF now, but I don't trust any woman not to put me on child support or ruin my life. Leave the attacks for the kids. You sound stupid.
My soon to be ex wife will be a single mother in a few months. I pity the poor guy who falls victim. But hey, maybe he will have a higher BS tolerance level.
@@LITTLEROCK2517 My mom had the deposit shot she ended up with colon cancer, got parts of her colony removed. She ended up with breast cancer had het breast removed. Cancer also went on her lung part of that was removed. Y’all keep going taking them birth control. Y’all might not live long enough to give a man kids or even see them grow to be adults.
One thing I will say about single moms. Most are serious and realistic about life. I’ve dated a few when I was younger. At this age… I wouldn’t want to be responsible raising someone else’s child when I’m close to retiring in another decade or so. Plus it’s plenty of women that don’t have kids
I beg to differ, I believe women know exactly what men want they just don't care to give it to them on most occasions which is why they refer to men's particular wants as misogynistic because that's an easy way for women to avoid giving men what they desire from women. The typical game for many women that men at times are unaware of is get everything you can from a man without giving anything in return.
Good to have fun with but never take serious...from personal experience just don't waste your time/energy. IT'S ONLY ABOUT HER AND "HER CHILDREN"...majority of them still smashing baby daddy cause mine was still smashing me and was in a "relationship".
Facts. Had one in my college yours claiming her ex was a stoker. Fast forward, she ended up having his child. Moreover, my past flings, who got married, would introduce me to their husband as a "friend." And as SOON as Capt. Save-A-Ho Private Forest Simp Gumps went over seas........................BOOTY CLAPPING SOUNDS.
💀💀💀💀 wow fam was really out here using single moms as target practice, and stepping stones to build confidence. That’s foul. Why not just avoid them if you weren’t going to take them seriously?
I take every woman seriously, and not as a stepping stone. At the end of the day I still have standards and through experience makes me understand what I want and what I don't want.
She said as a single mom, "I value my time and energy" By default, you have to because you have a child to look after. How that will be beneficial to a man? All your time and energy would be towards your child. All good mothers would make their children the number 1 priority, but the man who is not the father is going to be last on the priority list. So how does it benefit a man dating a single mom?
I always say this, but I’d add that women ALSO act this way towards God. Men refuse to submit to God, and women refuse to submit to God, so nothing will ever work properly.
True. I have a cousin whose boyfriend said that he liked baby-mamas because they cook dinner every night for the kids. She and that guy were together for over 5 years. He was there for the hot meals.
@@keptbygrace6221 " cook dinner " is way to a man's heart ,but too bad modern bw don't cook " most " anyway..I asked this one girl what can she cook,she gave me all kinds of excuses why she couldn't cook for me," I don't cook" but you expecting me to spend my money on you,my time,and ya can't do something basic for me ,she really had the game messed up,this other girl I asked her what she cook for Thanksgiving ,she gave me a crazy look" scary look" like don't ever ask me nothing like that ever again " I'll kill you" look on her face, but she calmed down slightly and said she gonna eat what her mama or somebody cooked, instinctively I knew never to ask her something like that again because she seemed offended 35yrs old 4kids you should be used to cooking " heavy self" looking at me crazy
I call 🧢 0:40 I feel sorry for the brother that married her, dude probably works his ass off to provide and she had the nerve to say she "feels" like a single mother... What!?
I remember in the 60s women would say if a man can't accept me and my 10 kids then he doesn't deserve me as if having all those kids was a plus for a man. women are confused and delusional.CONFUSIONAL
Women see themselves as superior to men. The have been told all their life they are smarter, more talented and more valuable than men. They are told men are lucky to have them. They are told men have to prove themselves to women but women are perfect as is. How much respect does the drug dealer have for drug addicts? They don't because the dealer knows the addict will come back no matter how bad the product or the service is. This is how women look at men. Disposable, replaceable, interchangeable. They literally don't care what you want.
Cannot ever complete a sentence uninterrupted talking to a woman and somehow it is men who cut women off and get a term for it. Make this make sense...😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
A fit humble single mother would be better than a wild 304. But I'm not sensing humbleness from alot of these single mothers nowadays. They think they are on the same playing field as the regular women.
" humble " I haven't met too many of them,the single mothers I know and knew,they was wild out here and not giving a foock ,humble- no sir ,the opposite of humble
I just stopped debating with women, it just doesn't make sense, it's like speaking to a stone or something...Men should understand women can NEVER change their mind if they don't want to... period.
She said she’s married but she appeared to slip up and say us single mothers. Maybe she was a baby mama who got married. I personally see no benefit to having another man’s child(ren) as well as his potential impact upon your household dynamic.
The question is why is she a single mother? See she didn't want to explain that part and I'm not against single mom's but as a woman you have to be worthy and your child has to vibe with me as much or more
The same could be easily said for women that don’t have children. What’s your rebuttal then? No matter what dealing with single moms will almost never benefit the man because he will always come last In the equation. The children first, then god, then the children’s father, their family and friends, then you. In that order.
Another perspective. We did ask men what they wanted when we were pure and young and it WASNT purity! They wanted sex and they didn’t want to commit. I believe this is why some women are confused today because the same men that had the opportunity to commit to women with no / low body counts didn’t want them. It’s a contradiction and you can’t see we didn’t ask if men have changed their minds after having their fun. How many girls have been pressured into having sex before they were ready in order to keep their man happy? …but we didn’t ask them what we want. How about YOU don’t know what you want! There’s no such thing as a virgin porn star and most you won’t marry a woman without testing her out first. If men like purity, why are they making Only Fans girls and IG models millionaires. You are sending the message to women that this is what you like! MAKE SENSE!
I wonder how many men who don’t want single mothers, are single fathers themselves. Nothing is wrong with having a preference, as long as you yourself don’t fit into the category in which your denying.
The problem with the modern single mother is they want credit for what they are suppose to be doing as a mother. Modern women will not understand what men want because they look at everything from their perspective. However, a 30, 40, 50 year old man saying he values youth. As men as challenge women as to what they bring to the table as he should. I am trying to figure out what a 18 to 21 year brings to the table to and add value to a man. Besides her body, I have watched and listened to these younger women and a lot of them are far from submissive, cooperative, and agreeable. Older men want younger women for sexual pleasure period.
Idk. I come from a blended family. My Mom had 3 kids, my father had 2 kids. Household was almost like the Brady Bunch. 😊. Still no kids together. My father wanted a child together, my mother didn’t , they politely argued about that for yrs😅. Their still happily married, they’ve been together since I was yrs old and his daughter(My Sister) was 6yrs old. Point is maybe a person who doesn’t already have kids, doesn’t want kids, has kids already, but are part time parents, is young, feels like they have to compete with kids, or for whatever other reason doesn’t want to be with a single Mom or Dad(I say Dad due to my best friend being raised by a single Dad, 4 girls) Then a single parent wouldn’t be for them. I don’t think there’s a blanket default for all ppl. I should also mention that my parents are not only happily married their successful. Idk. What folks be talking about sometimes is confusing & at times superficial. Especially since the ppl in this video looks over 30 at least. I would imagine after reaching well into ones adulthood, there would be a larger number of men & woman who already have kids, so I don’t get it. Maybe someone could explain.
Your parents are built for that. I’m surprised they survived because it still breaking for a lot of relationships but it’s good. They made it through not everyone is made to handle other peoples children. I’m personally would never date anyone with children would never want to become a blended family unless I had a child of my own. I’m not doing it my husband on the other hand, before we dated, he dated a couple of single mothers. He adores children and he quickly became like a little stepfather to them. He’s open like that I am not everyone’s different and like you said not everybody is made to handle other peoples children and children should come first, regardless whether is a single mother or single father, the children come first imo
I don't care what she says I'M NOT DATING NO SINGLE MOTHERS EVER!
Lol 😆 🤣
If you ever wanted to be last in someone's life, there is a single mom out there waiting for you.
Yep….I’m ready for the crumbs in the bottom of the chicken bowl
I'll be honest, it's the same with single fathers. Ijs. Going through it now.
@@Deltahairlines82 💀🤣🤣🤣
Truer words have never been spoken.
That’s a weird thing too, when I see father’s competing with their own children.
43 yr old man that’s been dating single mothers since I’ve been in my 20s
Don’t do it
High risks with low rewards
"Women are the most selfish creatures on the planet." - My father who was married for 18+ years no divorce.
That statement alone really made no sense to me when he said it. I was about 20 years old when he said that. Later on in life.. I TRULY realized what he was saying.
Why did he say that.
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Purple Rain. The artist, formely know as Prince, said it best: Maybe you are just like my Mother, "SHE IS NEVER SATISFIED."
date a single mom and be ready for baby daddy drama😄😄
Facts!!!
Yep! I’ve gotten into it just from dropping their children off without the mother present. Al the random text wars and I’d be like, “I know y’all have children together but WHY YOU TEXTING THIS MF on yo day off from kids!?!?!?!???”
There’s an upwards battle that isn’t worth having. I’d rather not HAVE to know a woman’s exes. I don’t care if he’s a good father. Keep that bs away from me!
There was a movie with Mark Wahlberg like that lol
Most dads not around
“Single Mothers are a Liability Not an Asset”
Facts...she didn't say nothing benefiting us men...So naw we good
😂😂
“Mess up you credit score today!”
Gets worse if obese.
Exactly. The kid/kids are not yours, so its not your responsibility, its best to start your own family with a woman who doesn't have kids
"A real man raises another man's kids instead of his own." -modern American woman
Single moms are not looking for love..single moms are looking for HELP!!!
Survival mode
Facts
Well it's their own faults anyways 🤷🏽♀️
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Wow... God forbid you lose your wife one day and you're left with your 2 or 3 kids... after a few years... you want to move on right? And the woman says what!!!!?????? YOU GOT KIDS DUSTY??? I AIN'T DOWN FOR THAT!! YOU JUST LOOKIN FOR HELP!! I AIN'T THE HELP!! 🤪 Foolish men. Either chasing skin tone and hair or perpetuating bs about women.
As a childless man, I’ve dated 3 single mothers and hated it. It feels like settling and being someone’s last option when they have made bad choices that came with life changing consequences. Never again
Because most single mothers only want a clean up man after running around with bums
3 times tho?? Smh, blessings to you but You really tried it fam. Thank God you came out clean💯
@@seanwilson8168 hey sometimes bro we need bad things to happen in order for us to change
@@bradleycampbell245 I know man. That fact is that you're a better man from it and it seems like it.💯🙏🏿
Like being sold that week old roast beef sammich after it has been chewed up and spat on and stuck back on the shelf with the same price as a freshly made sammich.
After they get fibroids & swole feet, stomach poking out more than the booty, 5-oclock shadow, now they want to grant you the honor of wifing her up and adopting her 3 kids by 4 different men
It's never men should date women who can cook, who are cooperative, or just make their life better. It's always men should date (insert thing men don't like) type of women because feelings.
Excellent point. This should be pinned. Women can list every other reason we should choose them except for the basics
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There is nothing she said that benefits a man.
Exactly 😢y’all can never have anything nice smh.
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Even after having kids ; women still overestimate themselves.
They don't see it they think they're still valuable
I don’t care how you become a single mother I don’t want no part of it!
When I was single I did the same. I never dated single Moms. I didn’t want to be instant Daddy
@@jg1238 I still smash em tho
Not my kid not my problem
What if your in your 40s and still single and her kid is over 18 and out of the house?
@@stopthecancelculture why would I want a 40 year old women? That’s a serious question. Marriage no but if she in great shape corporation on 100 yea she would get some meat🤷🏾
What!? WTF!? 🤯😵👎🏿
I was raised in a single mother household and I would never wish my worst enemy that horrible experience. What they fail to realize is there's an army of men just like me. And it's only growing.
They done f'ed up! 🤷🏿♂️
Same
Same! My uncle used to tell my mom stop buying me tight underwear. She asked me if I disliked them and I said yes. To this day she never heard either of us.
The entirety of my life guidance was put off onto school and church, which turned me into a monster. Both places are full of the worst types of judgment for STRAIGHT black males.
Even if I had role models it would have never mattered because we only had one parent in the home. A female authority figure is no authority at all.
I don’t blame my mom for anything, but I often wonder how much life would have differed if she valued my dad more………..
FACTS! Ishmael does not want anything to do with his bad experiment with women who were like hs one night stand mothers named Hagar, who DELIBERATELY had us out of Wedlock; by which we where raised as Hyenas (peseants) vs Lions who were raised and sheparded by a father to be a King as because they drunck the ANTICHRIST KOOLAID of Feminism that they dont need no man.
With that being said, it took all of God's Grace and Mercy for me to forgive her for making me a bastard via having relations with a man that she KNEW was married! As a result, I did not find out who my father was until I was 12 after asking her EVERYDAY, even in public settings to make her to stop the BS. Sometimes "I'm sorry" just makes it hurt even worst when I knew that was your END GAME from the very beginning when all you wanted was a "baby doll" to whorship you vs desiring to give that child the desires of his heart via having a Father.
P.S. Come to find out she was getting the "bag" to keep quiet. And to this day money causes me so much pain to know what she did to live the good life; by which she was given enough many to pay for my college education three times over. Nevertheless, living her good life, she has nothing to show for it with all the money that she received. F@#K EM.
@@3amMONDAY YOU NEED TO BLAME HER AS SHE OPEN HER WOMB TO BE A SINGLE MOTHER. We need to hold even "momma" accountible. That is why these 304s, by which was some of our mothers, to FEEL that bastardhood is okay.
@@1230mkelly they were married, she just didn’t value it. She wasn’t a 304, he turned to drugs and she gave him no chance for recovery. Very sad story.
Fresh wombs only. No pregnancies. I need the wombfax.
😂😂😂 Where can we subscribe to WombFax?
Will never happen. They’ve been popping plan Bs and having abortions left and right. It’s honestly crazy.
Ha I need the womb fax
😂😂😂
My man say wombfax 💀💀💀
Single mum? Naaaaa..she already has the love of her life and that's her children.
Facts, you come after her kids,it's all about the kids and baby daddy issues
I did it and it worked out but I would not advise it to anyone especially my son. When he started to talk to one I talked to him and told him hell nawl. His mom who was a single mother when we met was even more vocal than me about steering clear of single mothers..
Because women know deep down what comes with dating a single mum
@@kennethemenike1597 yep that's why they CAP so much.💯
FACTS. Sometimes we take God's Grace and Mercy, "first time offender program," as if and though it is now the norm, standard/new normal. Glad you both could accept the fact that it worked for you. Nevertheless, that you did not feel as if and though you were hypocrites to also say that because you'll were an anomoly that you should desire to go outside in a thunderstorm, flying a kite, and expect not to be struck by lightning too. It reminds me of when people started to give tips out of the kindness of someones heart. And SELFISH employers EXPLOITED IT via reducing working wages to make their consumers the bad guy the velon to be on the hook to cover their employee overhead expenses.
With that being said, I am old enough, still young, to know when a tip was on par with God's tithe of 10%. And now they want more than what Uncle Sam charges for the highest tax bracket! With that being said, they don't see or wonder why more and more people refuse to eat out but take their food to go via pick up or Grubhub. That's becausepeople are selfish and only want to sell you what they want without EVER taking into consideration what the other person desires as well.
The thing is it can work but it’s a gamble ! Very risky
I’m in my 30s my ex girlfriend is May be a year older than we broke up because I wanted to partially share some of the bills(I paid all the rent)and I didn’t have a good job at the time. Ever since then she’s been dealing with Pookies who don’t even have jobs or they’re fake drug dealers who beat her and mistreat her and her children. And now she has three kids by three different guys and wants me to get back with her and take on that responsibility of those three children absolutely fkn not
Sheesh bruh😂
@@twistedpictures she’s better off marrying the Pookie or dying alone fk them kids
@@Oir07 💯
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I’m convinced some women just don’t listen to men at all 😅
They're incentivized not to
@@blaqceeza I think their just like children if you ask me
Eve didn't listen to God. Let that sink in. Even God didn't expect that shít 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some? 😂😂😂😂 You're being real nice
@@v.s.o.poodah Honestly, many of them are. It doesn't matter the race, background or profession. I've dated a surgeon, lawyer, chartered accountant and they behaved like children. It's their programming. If you're with a woman and she's into "celebrity gossip" or watches shows like "Temptation Island", "Love & Hip-Hop" or "The Bachelor", run for the hills. The damage is irreparable. Lol
Single moms always want credit for shit they are suppose to do 😂 YOU HAD KIDS SO TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS!! We aren’t impressed by or jealous of their struggle 😂
She just gave the reason why it's not a good idea to date a single woman
I know so many single mothers that don't value their own time at all.
They suck & slurp a lot of men and got the audacity to kiss they children on the lips smh it's really disgusting. They think mouth wash nd brushing is gon get rid of all that skeet residue not to mention showering 🚿. They ain't shit.
THE ANSWER IS: NO
Only single Moms say this. Most dudes will never do this. A man with kids may but I don’t think a man with no kids should. That’s taking in a lot and it’s not fair.
its funny she basically said "if i was a guy i'd be a HOBOSEXUAL who dates single moms because.. they have they shyt together.. akak aplace for me to stay and a car to drive". // more proof pookie is the preferred option. PS.. buy a Passport
You caught that shit too 😂
@@garcel1251 SHE WAS STRAIGHT DEMONIC WITH SELFISH MANIPULATION. My question to her would be WHY God did not choose a "single mother" to have His only begotten Son?
Pookie is undefeated
Single mothers are hard work with alot of baggage if you can deal with the issues maybe but 95% of the time it don't work.
If you date a single mom she's just looking for help and not really love and you also gotta deal with baby daddy drama it not really worth wasting you're energy on that.
A lot of wmn can't even pair bond,too many bodies on them,around my way ,they be racking up bodies ,ain't no pair bonding after 3 bodies, they be having bout 35 bodies or more
Single moms are looking for someone to keep the lights and heat on....
FACTS; without her having to twerk at a strip club or sale pu$$y on the side and lie that God made away out of no way.
Date single mothers at your own discretion, fellas. Just know that, if it comes down to it (and it will), it'll always be you vs. her AND her kids. Whatever happens, you asked for it.
& youll also be behind: her Mom, granny, siblings, job boss, pastor, friends, etc.. in terms of importance..shall I continue?
I thank my mom so much for my upbringing because her and my father were married.. when he passed she didn’t even bring another man around us until we were almost grown. It took my mom 10 years to even date. She finally remarried she stands by my step dad and we stand by him. My mom is even respectful to my dad asking if his tombstone should be replaced because she’s almost 80 now. I honestly empathize for both sexes now dating.. Men are used to women not caring but if you ask some of the men in your family like I have they will open up.
Which is how it should be I feel or at least till your child is old enough to articulate how they feel about the said person. But I know there are wonderful men/ women who get with folks with really young children and outstanding…. But lately it’s questionable
I love your story You’re moms seams like a respectable mother 💯❤️
Single Mom's Equal Pump&Dumps fellas Protect yourself at all time..!!
Yeah single motherhood changed her so much. Now she’s grown and ready to settle. Now she’s ready for you to come and take care of her and little Tyrone.
Reminds me of the time I went to a car lot to look for a car. It was a huge lot with tons of cars, but I guess the salespeople had zones on the lot that they were responsible for selling. The guy I spoke to listened to everything I was looking for, then proceeded to show me everything I didn't want because that's all he had to offer that would benefit him. It was actually so bad that he tried to convince me that I was looking at the newest body style when I had to point to my rental, which was actually the latest body style.
They know what we want but they know they don't have it so they push their cup holders and power windows on us, and because they think our credit is crap and don't respect us as customers, we should be grateful to accept it. They don't want us to know that the lot down the street has better cars and a smoother customer experience.
Great comparison
AWESOME ANALOGY.
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Damn dude
Lmao! Only a single mother would say some BS like this 😂😂😂😂😩
JEZEBEL
When I saw the title, I thought Derrick Jaxn had hijacked your channel!
You already pushed a baby out of you. I don’t want no woman who got pregnant before she met me. The womb has to be fresh.
“Live in a echo chamber of your girlfriends” 👈🏾 that part
I would simply ask this question to those women. "Okay, so you had a stepdad. That's you, and that's prior times. Let's say men want single moms. Why aren't more single moms taken?" Nobody wants to inherit more responsibility and more baggage just to lay with a woman. I refuse to take on liabilities for anybody. I don't have kids, so I don't have to take care of yours, ladies.
What if it's u having kids?
@@blissug4290 I would never bring kids into this world no matter what.
@@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687 😳unless wen yo a gay
@BlissUg42💖 😆 🤣 😂, that sentence was trash. WTF did you even say? Probably, I'm gay or some other attack. I'm not gay, I'm just not dumb. I don't have to let you ladies drain my bank accounts to prove I'm not gay.
I have a GF now, but I don't trust any woman not to put me on child support or ruin my life. Leave the attacks for the kids. You sound stupid.
@@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687 😂😂😅 LMAO then y r u hurt?
She’s right . A 35 year old single mom is great for an older man like 50 ish with grown ass kids with no other option
Damn Kita was wise to jump off from co-signing that b.s 🤣🤣🤣
Single moms will always place you last . Its not worth it .
😂😂😂... The title of this video MUST be sarcasm.
It is
the way he way he leaned back @ 0:20 …. Like craig and Smokey on Friday 😂 Daaammmnnn
The delusion and entitlement is insane
My soon to be ex wife will be a single mother in a few months. I pity the poor guy who falls victim. But hey, maybe he will have a higher BS tolerance level.
Women with children are DELUSIONAL.
i would never be a baby momma. i would be swallowing bc pills like skittles lol
@@LITTLEROCK2517 My mom had the deposit shot she ended up with colon cancer, got parts of her colony removed. She ended up with breast cancer had het breast removed. Cancer also went on her lung part of that was removed. Y’all keep going taking them birth control. Y’all might not live long enough to give a man kids or even see them grow to be adults.
One thing I will say about single moms. Most are serious and realistic about life. I’ve dated a few when I was younger. At this age… I wouldn’t want to be responsible raising someone else’s child when I’m close to retiring in another decade or so. Plus it’s plenty of women that don’t have kids
Errr… Not as many as you think. Must be a regional thing or something
"Most are serious and realistic about life" yea she got no choice she need a beta simp to help raise her bastard kids
@@thadevilzadvocate ALOTTT OF WOMEN HAVE KIDS
I work at a hotel n today a single mom try to shoot her shot at me ,I said yeah ight lol
Rip Sinful The 'P'" may your wisdom and knowledge live forever. 🕊
I beg to differ, I believe women know exactly what men want they just don't care to give it to them on most occasions which is why they refer to men's particular wants as misogynistic because that's an easy way for women to avoid giving men what they desire from women. The typical game for many women that men at times are unaware of is get everything you can from a man without giving anything in return.
LOL the delusion is wild with my gender 🤣🤣
Good to have fun with but never take serious...from personal experience just don't waste your time/energy. IT'S ONLY ABOUT HER AND "HER CHILDREN"...majority of them still smashing baby daddy cause mine was still smashing me and was in a "relationship".
Facts. Had one in my college yours claiming her ex was a stoker. Fast forward, she ended up having his child. Moreover, my past flings, who got married, would introduce me to their husband as a "friend." And as SOON as Capt. Save-A-Ho Private Forest Simp Gumps went over seas........................BOOTY CLAPPING SOUNDS.
Equality is the sin of Envy rebranded.
Single mothers were great for my confidence and experience, however starting a family as that was the last thing on my mind.
Damn. That's kinda messes up.
💀💀💀💀 wow fam was really out here using single moms as target practice, and stepping stones to build confidence. That’s foul. Why not just avoid them if you weren’t going to take them seriously?
I take every woman seriously, and not as a stepping stone. At the end of the day I still have standards and through experience makes me understand what I want and what I don't want.
@@therealchefbos6599 don't explain bro I'm the same way and I get it.
@@JayyJonesTV don’t be a simp . Be honest . Most men see a single mom an think about sex not a relationship
All I heard was I, I, I. And she forgot the I with the little life (lives) attached to her.
She said as a single mom, "I value my time and energy" By default, you have to because you have a child to look after. How that will be beneficial to a man? All your time and energy would be towards your child. All good mothers would make their children the number 1 priority, but the man who is not the father is going to be last on the priority list. So how does it benefit a man dating a single mom?
Friends don't let friends date single moms.
No they don't. They don't want love, they want a step father...
The best thing women can do is find non-sexual relationships with men and LISTEN. Women in echo chambers IS A HUGE PROBLEM.
The same way women act towards us is the same way we act towards God.
I always say this, but I’d add that women ALSO act this way towards God. Men refuse to submit to God, and women refuse to submit to God, so nothing will ever work properly.
They are great for sex and a meal! But that’s a bad deal if you commit long term.
True. I have a cousin whose boyfriend said that he liked baby-mamas because they cook dinner every night for the kids. She and that guy were together for over 5 years. He was there for the hot meals.
If you commit, that's yo azz Mr postman, sir,mister
@@keptbygrace6221 " cook dinner " is way to a man's heart ,but too bad modern bw don't cook " most " anyway..I asked this one girl what can she cook,she gave me all kinds of excuses why she couldn't cook for me," I don't cook" but you expecting me to spend my money on you,my time,and ya can't do something basic for me ,she really had the game messed up,this other girl I asked her what she cook for Thanksgiving ,she gave me a crazy look" scary look" like don't ever ask me nothing like that ever again " I'll kill you" look on her face, but she calmed down slightly and said she gonna eat what her mama or somebody cooked, instinctively I knew never to ask her something like that again because she seemed offended 35yrs old 4kids you should be used to cooking " heavy self" looking at me crazy
@@keptbygrace6221 Only for 1 thang 😂 🍲🍝
A meal? These 304s can't cook the only thing they know Is easy mac and Dino chicken nuggets why you think they're so fat💀
Don’t date them it is really not worth it
Don't ever play another man's saved game.
That broad was capping hella hard.
Who would you want a used car when you afford a new one🏎️🏎️🏎️🏎️
Why would you purchase a used car at the same asking price for the Showroom Levitcus 21:13 model?
Hell naaaaw!
Oshay, u got me at the title of the video. I ain’t gonna lie.😂
I call 🧢
0:40 I feel sorry for the brother that married her, dude probably works his ass off to provide and she had the nerve to say she "feels" like a single mother... What!?
20 seconds into the video, I'm cackling like a lunatic. Dating a single mom is like brushing your teeth with another man's toothbrush.
I am starting to believe they don't want to know or care about what men wants. Life has been too comfortable for women thanks to men.
They are trying so hard to sell us used cars 🤣🤣
AND THEIR MARKETING STRATEGY IS $HIT!
I remember in the 60s women would say if a man can't accept me and my 10 kids then he doesn't deserve me as if having all those kids was a plus for a man. women are confused and delusional.CONFUSIONAL
Women see themselves as superior to men. The have been told all their life they are smarter, more talented and more valuable than men. They are told men are lucky to have them. They are told men have to prove themselves to women but women are perfect as is. How much respect does the drug dealer have for drug addicts? They don't because the dealer knows the addict will come back no matter how bad the product or the service is. This is how women look at men. Disposable, replaceable, interchangeable. They literally don't care what you want.
THEY JUST WON'T LISTEN
Cannot ever complete a sentence uninterrupted talking to a woman and somehow it is men who cut women off and get a term for it. Make this make sense...😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
😂 nooooooooooooooooo trash is not treasure
Single mothers are the best to date.....pure comedy!
Where's the 🍿
A fit humble single mother would be better than a wild 304. But I'm not sensing humbleness from alot of these single mothers nowadays. They think they are on the same playing field as the regular women.
Correct. Today's single moms, on average, just don't want to be humble and understanding of their situation to another man
" humble " I haven't met too many of them,the single mothers I know and knew,they was wild out here and not giving a foock ,humble- no sir ,the opposite of humble
@@sidneywilder2731 Yup. They all think there "10s, never settle gurl". Trying to help these women lol.
Single mother's bait & switch. It's all a facade with them.
I won't date a single mother
I just stopped debating with women, it just doesn't make sense, it's like speaking to a stone or something...Men should understand women can NEVER change their mind if they don't want to... period.
She said she’s married but she appeared to slip up and say us single mothers. Maybe she was a baby mama who got married. I personally see no benefit to having another man’s child(ren) as well as his potential impact upon your household dynamic.
I'll follow him... they dont know... we know what they want because they all want the same thing
This be the dumbest logic acting as if there isnt additional responsibility isn't there
The question is why is she a single mother? See she didn't want to explain that part and I'm not against single mom's but as a woman you have to be worthy and your child has to vibe with me as much or more
"Why is she a single mother" come on bro you know why because she loves pookie and ray ray
Who that is? That’s just my baby daddy.
Who that is? That’s just my baby daddy.
Shot out to B-Rock and the Bizz (My Baby Daddy) 1999.
This is something Derrick Jaxn said... thats where she's getting this mess from
She showl sound like Derrick Jackson " single mothers are the cream of the crop"
I say this all the time. Women know.. they ACT like they don’t know…
The same could be easily said for women that don’t have children. What’s your rebuttal then? No matter what dealing with single moms will almost never benefit the man because he will always come last In the equation. The children first, then god, then the children’s father, their family and friends, then you. In that order.
She start not believing her own lie about a single mothers.
Another perspective.
We did ask men what they wanted when we were pure and young and it WASNT purity! They wanted sex and they didn’t want to commit.
I believe this is why some women are confused today because the same men that had the opportunity to commit to women with no / low body counts didn’t want them. It’s a contradiction and you can’t see we didn’t ask if men have changed their minds after having their fun.
How many girls have been pressured into having sex before they were ready in order to keep their man happy? …but we didn’t ask them what we want.
How about YOU don’t know what you want! There’s no such thing as a virgin porn star and most you won’t marry a woman without testing her out first.
If men like purity, why are they making Only Fans girls and IG models millionaires. You are sending the message to women that this is what you like!
MAKE SENSE!
Ladies… Would you want your son who isn’t a father yet to date a woman with children?
Women know what men want they don't want to have to have to give it especially to the guys they don't like
If you had "your stuff together" you would've married the man you had a child with
we all see the problem. they don't want to listen to us.
Egocentrism, Solipsism and Narcissism at it Finest. Women brains are designed to think about themselves.
Those Two Females Epitomizes INSUFFERABLE and Unreasonably Combative!!!
The patience to sit and talk with women at length is a patience that I will never have. The ability to deal with their delusion is remarkable.
I wonder how many men who don’t want single mothers, are single fathers themselves. Nothing is wrong with having a preference, as long as you yourself don’t fit into the category in which your denying.
A single mother is like a car that's been in a wreck , no matter what it will never be the same 🤷🏿♂️🧢🧢
The problem with the modern single mother is they want credit for what they are suppose to be doing as a mother. Modern women will not understand what men want because they look at everything from their perspective. However, a 30, 40, 50 year old man saying he values youth. As men as challenge women as to what they bring to the table as he should. I am trying to figure out what a 18 to 21 year brings to the table to and add value to a man. Besides her body, I have watched and listened to these younger women and a lot of them are far from submissive, cooperative, and agreeable. Older men want younger women for sexual pleasure period.
Idk. I come from a blended family. My Mom had 3 kids, my father had 2 kids. Household was almost like the Brady Bunch. 😊. Still no kids together. My father wanted a child together, my mother didn’t , they politely argued about that for yrs😅. Their still happily married, they’ve been together since I was yrs old and his daughter(My Sister) was 6yrs old. Point is maybe a person who doesn’t already have kids, doesn’t want kids, has kids already, but are part time parents, is young, feels like they have to compete with kids, or for whatever other reason doesn’t want to be with a single Mom or Dad(I say Dad due to my best friend being raised by a single Dad, 4 girls) Then a single parent wouldn’t be for them. I don’t think there’s a blanket default for all ppl. I should also mention that my parents are not only happily married their successful. Idk. What folks be talking about sometimes is confusing & at times superficial. Especially since the ppl in this video looks over 30 at least. I would imagine after reaching well into ones adulthood, there would be a larger number of men & woman who already have kids, so I don’t get it. Maybe someone could explain.
Your parents are built for that. I’m surprised they survived because it still breaking for a lot of relationships but it’s good. They made it through not everyone is made to handle other peoples children. I’m personally would never date anyone with children would never want to become a blended family unless I had a child of my own. I’m not doing it my husband on the other hand, before we dated, he dated a couple of single mothers. He adores children and he quickly became like a little stepfather to them. He’s open like that I am not everyone’s different and like you said not everybody is made to handle other peoples children and children should come first, regardless whether is a single mother or single father, the children come first imo