I was slightly shocked when I heard that people are confused between what it means to be lesbian and what it means to be transgender. You can be a transgender man and be attracted to men which means you are a gay man. Or you can be a transgender woman and be attracted to women, then you're a lesbian. I thought it was obvious that not everyone is straight despite what gender you are.
Baako Jernigan Yeah! When they agreed with him saying that transgender men were attracted to women, I was surprised. Of course, there a lot of straight trans men, but definitely not all of us are!
They don't represent everyone in the LGBT community after all. I felt they were to critical towards people who ask their audience to be understanding. Because I think you need both types of content. Both the ones talking about the difficulties and the ones just being.
i'm glad someone has said that, it seems that a lot of people think that transgender people go through transition because they like the opposite sex. It's important to remember that you gender identity and sexuality are two separate things
It is confusing. I had a cis male friend who is gay and he married a transgender man. We were all very confused because his partner was still transitioning and we were all like, we thought he was gay? You just gotta love people as humans, doesn't mean I'm a bad person, it's just hard to understand what is what, it doesn't come naturally to everyone, someone had to explain it to me.
marvioxious1989 No, it doesn't, since sexual orientation and gender identity are two separate things. Trans people can be either gay or straight, no matter the gender they identify with. Hope I'm making my point clear!
I don’t have statistics on hand, but trans sexuality percentages seem to mostly be a three-way split between bisexuality, homosexuality, and heterosexuality, with asexuality being the smallest percentage like it is in the general population.
Thats why the guy said that the way he like women was like a man liking a woman, and not like a woman liking a woman. So if you are a homosexual transgender, I feel like it will be the same
Just a quick correction: for women we can and do get a female voice, but it's not through hormones. Surgery can work, but it's often... not great. Instead it just comes from voice training and practice. It took me about 6-8 months to train my voice to be female, and now it's difficult to be read as male even if I tried haha
Much respect forthat dedication. I think trans women have it much harder than trans men since the male bone structurr and ofter the voice giveit away. Much love from a german trans man :)
for ref im transfem non binary (for the uninitiated that means i was born male but i dont see myself as a man, but i do see myself in androgyny and womanhood) its funny in my case id just been actively pitching down my voice as a kid bc i took for granted that im a guy and thats what a guys voice sounds like but when i realized i wasnt a guy i started speaking more naturally and tho the actual tone didnt change much the hatmonics did since i speak less diaphramically and now im always id'ed as a woman over the phone and irl its mostly an eye of the beholder thing but im seen as a girl like 80-95% of the time
melissini 77 i think he is already happy. He got to tell his parents and he was able to transition to what he really wanted so i think he is full of happiness.
@@jestercalixto4821 Actually, and thats NOT just semantics, its trans woman/trans man. It is not well known outside the "trans scene" but putting the 2 words together is somewhat seen as disrepectful, because it turns the woman/man into something specific, transman/transwoman. With the 2-parted writing style, it is just a addendum, but makes clear it is woman/man.
I was actually wondering if in Japan they use different terminology, but it is pretty degrading to any trans woman I have known. I'm glad someone pointed that out.
He said shemale in Japanese. “Nyuuhafu” (new half) doesnt have an exact translation and it’s not a flAttering word. But it was appropriate to use because that’s what the television entertainers are called
My aunt is transgender. (From malw to female) Im so proud of her and our family for being openminded, because I cant imagine not meeting up with her every so often, she is my support system. I have only know her as a woman, that is who she is. So please (for those who have never met and will possibly meet a transgender one day), take them for who they are. and dont say "its weird" (i had a few friends who said that about my aunt and I couldnt understand what they are saying), cuz believe me, they rock! Thanks to my teenage like auntie (we joke that she is more of a youngster than I am), aka bestfriend auntie for being such an inspiration!
Eito's family history was heartbreaking. :( He was so calm telling it and it just kept getting worse and worse. Hope his sister is doing well too. All the best to these dudes!
Vietnam just had a first international transgender beauty queen and people of all ages are really opening up and accepting transgender. Am very glad my country is more open now, we should understand they are just normal people who also wish happiness like any of us, they just have some conflict wth who they are and wht society requires of them, pls let them be. Thks Asian Boss for also covering social matters
Yes. Japanese are not threatened by what others do, like in the West. Abrahamic religions are a big part of that in the West. They were corrupted long ago, made into a "fearful god" type thing, with shame, etc.. that just aren't a part of Eastern religions. I have been to Japan many times and I absolutely love the chill vibe compared to the West. They do have their hangups, but agressive negativity isn't one of them. That's what i love about Japan ❤
I'll be frank, it's really great for me -- as a transgender man -- to see fellow transgender men. In the world today -- at least with celebrities -- there really aren't many transgender men who are "mainstream" compared to transgender women (This isn't to say that trans women are bad, but I feel that transgender men are often underrepresented, especially in Western media.). Whether it's due to me living under a rock or not, the only transgender celebrities I have seen have been women, and as much as having transgender representation is beautiful, I personally feel more represented when I see a transgender man, if that makes sense. So, seeing this interview of Eito and Kanata really lifted my spirits.
Homebirth Homeschool Homestead Then why do you like making yourself mad by watching videos on this topic? I've already seen several comments by you here. Just stick to your homeschool echo chamber if it upsets you so much. No big deal, right? How much you wanna bet you wouldn't say something like this to a trans person in real life? You're just hiding behind your keyboard, it's sad really.
Homebirth Homeschool Homestead hurting themselves is sticking in a body they do not feel comfortable with. if you have kids i hope that you will follow whatever they feel makes themhappy and whatever means that they dont feel depressed or even suicidal :) being transgender is hurting no one
Jen Namo okay. So if a 22 y/o man wants to have an intimate relationship with a 10 year old and she agrees to it, is that okay to you since it does not affect your life? We create the world we live in by what we choose to accept as normal. So it does matter what people do even if it doesn’t directly affect you at the moment. Why not care about others and their well being for the sake of caring and just for a decent world?
I'm a ftm too. When I told my mom that im a trans, she wasnt accept me, even until now. I thought she's open minded since she knew that I dated a girl back in middle school and never said anything. But when i come out as a trans, she said "i can accept the fact that my daughter is a lesbian, love is love after all. But i cant accept the fact that I have two sons now, its too hard for me"
There are good books on the subject for parents! Also, she may like to meet other parents and Transgender children! She will need to grieve and adjust! It's a process! It is not easy on either parents nor children! Also, there are some good movies, documentary and fiction on how parents dealt with this issue! Ask her what are her concerns and questions.. Good luck! ❤️
I think it's hard for parents to adjust to your identity change in their mind. Even though it's not the case, they feel like they're losing you. I wasn't so sympathetic when I was younger, but now that I'm older I can understand how parents may need time to adjust and process their emotions. That being said, you will always be you, and I hope your mother can see that who you are is only getting stronger and more vibrant. She should be happy that you are clear about your path in life, and that you are fulfilled. You were called to be who you are, and you should go full force towards that calling☺
My dad said a similar thing when i came out, it felt very disrespectful like, it's not his choice if I'm a lesbian (and I'm not). Thankfully my mom supports me
At the school I work at in Japan, every year the kids have an assembly about fair treatment and not bullying LGBT people. I don't really know what the kids think about it because they don't usually share their opinions with the teachers openly, but one of my older co-workers was annoyed and told me speaking of fairness, shouldn't both sides get an equal chance to argue their part? I know he's my elder, but I gaijin-smashed and told him no, not when one side's position is don't bully these people and the other side is yes, do bully them. It's not a debate, there is not equal validity to these sides and they should not be given equal attention. This guy is pretty racist, sexist, homophobic, everything-ist you can imagine, so he's kind of a lost cause. I just hope as he is a teacher, the kids know better than to take what he says to heart.
Years ago back in the mid 70s our school district brought in an older male speaker to give a sex talk for the whole 9th grade class. He was pretty detailed in his information. At one point one of the guys decided he'd try to rattle the speaker by asking how do gay people do it. The man who was probably in his 60s didn't miss a beat and explained in detail how gay men and women had sex. It was more than I could wrap my head around at the time but I didn't even date until I was out of high school. Looking back there must have been someone in that crowd that needed that information.
I really like how they brought up the point of changing the education system to be more open, rather than simply educating people on the LGBT+ community. Because this way not only does this ideally eradicate the misunderstanding of LGBT+, but also targets the underlying issue
I love your channel and your videos but boooiii when he asked them "whats a difference betwee transgenders and lesbians”...aaand when they said "SHEMALES" I cringed HARD,not gonna lie
jujia7 Well, consider it this way, some people are aware of the two different terms but still haven't learned the difference. Whatever the reason may be, say fear or just having no reason to do so, some don't look for this information themselves. So, although it is obvisious to us, it is not obvisious to others resulting in the question needing to be asked. Just as well, keep in mind we are reading subtitles that someone else wrote. They may not have used that word specifically while speaking. It could be a mistake on the translator's part, but let's not get too salty just yet. It is also possible they don't know the implications or negative attachments to the word.
No, they didn't say shemales. It's the guy who did the sub used the word shemales. New-half in Japan means transwomen, without any hostility. The word has been around for a long time now but it's by no means degrading to transwomen.
The question about lesbians and transgenders actually was great because a lot of people have those misconceptions. I'm a lesbian and my mom is always confused thinking I want to be a boy, or saying that I still being a girl, so clarifying the difference is a really good thing to do.
try emailing or fb messaging them! i actually asked for this video a few months back (although im not sure if anyone else requested it as well) because i was more curious about ftm. I felt that male to female transgenders are very well reviewed but overseas ftm are not!
People should be free to choose how they live their lives and the decisions they make; especially involving their physical and mental being. There shouldn’t be any socially derived negativity since it really doesn’t concern others except for the person. If you think you’re homosexual, heterosexual, transgenders, lesbian, pansexual, bisexual, etc. ... It doesn’t matter. It’s each individual’s choice and people need to learn to accept it and not judge. The issue comes from closed minded, judgmental, and or ignorant people that can’t accept these things about society today as they view it as being abnormal and therefore assume that it’s wrong. It’s not wrong. It’s personal choices. People need to accept that as time changes, things change like what’s acceptable. In this day and age, the sense of “traditional” or “normal” is not really a thing. They’re ultimately antiquated ways of thinking, and in a sense ignorant and very closed minded.
So, essentially you are saying plastic surgery, or hormone enhancements are wrong. I don't know, but to me, the fact that science enables someone to be comfortable or better themselves is one of the beauties of science.
Alex G You just made their point. If someone is, by your personal definition, "not normal," why should that involve you? It doesn't. Their choices and their feelings are their own, wether or not others understand them. Have you never done something or felt some way that others didn't understand? To them, you were not normal for feeling that way, or doing that thing.
i'm not agree if you said people need to learn to accept it , it because not all country in over the planet have to accept this, i mean in my country in Indonesia where this country strickly forbidden to do LGBT, Indonesia is a religious country and there're no doctrine which justified that, but i thought if developed country like Japan, Kanada, USA, etc can accept it because i thought the citizens of that country more open minded. I not suppose to deny that but in this country LGBT are absolutly taboo and if you live here you will be understand
Lol every human who has testosterone looks like a man, they have the same level of testosterone as the average male and got a second puberty it would be weird if they seemed to be women, they dose would be wrong then
its offensive to say that imagine going up to a cis girl and say theyre good as passing as a girl passing as _what_ that just implies theyre fake boy or girl even tho u have good intentions
Time and time again, I've always loved your content. Now this one is one that I will hold closely to my heart, as a member of the LGBT in Asia. Thank you Asian Boss.
I’m so sad that most people don’t know the difference between gender identity(if you identify as a man or woman) and sexual orientation (if you like people of the same or opposite sex). Who you are and who you like are two different things, thanks for making videos like these, people need to know more
I think that when I lived in Japan, I saw "New Half" (their term for male-to-female transgenders) in pop culture sometimes, but I never saw female-to-male transgender people being talked about. So it's very eye opening to hear about their experience through this interview.
Just a heads up, "transgenders" is a little offensive. Transgender is an adjective. The correct term would be "transgender people" or "trans people" ^^
I’m a transgender man. My mum accepted me before I came out at 19 as gay and trans. My “father” didn’t, so he’s not my father anymore. It’s a dream of mine to eventually live in Japan at an older age.
"Humanity: compassionate, sympathetic, or generous behavior or disposition;the quality or state of being humane" THAT'S WHAT THIS COMMENT SECTION CLEARLY LACKS. Instead of spreading ignorance, hate and disrespect just listen to these two guys and try to learn something,jeez.
Pro tip from a trans person: Transgender is an adjective not a noun. Correct: Being Transgender in Japan OR Being a Transgender Person in Japan Incorrect: Being a Transgender in Japan 👍🏻
+Homebirth Homeschool Homestead Person: Hey just a heads up, but the title isn't proper english grammar, maybe try this wording instead? Thanks! You, offended: StUpId OfFeNdEd LiBtArDs PrO-LiFe AbOrTiOn Is MuRdEr
@@Volleyball_Chess_and_Geoguessr Umm... I don't think anyone is ever offended by wrong grammar? Adjectives can be used with "being" while not so much with "a". You can't use "Being a tall in Japan" or "Being a short in Japan" either.
It is always interesting to see people from different countries and their stories :) Being german ive always wondered how people in other places live their life while being lgbt. It gives me hope that especially the younger Generation is accepting towards trans people. Great to see that these two young man are happy and confident.
Dude on the left is a soldier. Talking sing-songily and casually about his dad beating him senseless and living in an orphanage. Then visiting his dad in the hospital and him dying.
I think Japan makes the changing gender process longer is to avoid mistakes. Sometimes, some people think that changing gender will help them psychologically but it is not. I have often seen people on UA-cam or in interviews say that they regret their sex change or have taken hormones etc. That's why, in my opinion, Japan takes the maximum possible precautions, for the good of people.
The main reason why people regret their sex change is because they didn't suffer through gender dysphoria. This comes from either a misdiagnosis by the therapist, or the patient wasn't completely honest with their psychological professional. Hope this was insightful and helpful @TheGreenDee
It's funny because it's only translated that way, they're mostly saying トランスジェンダーの方 - which is basically "transgendered person/persons" I don't really understand the mix up with the subs.
I'm not sure, but I believe in japanese "transgender" is a noun, and so translated directly from japanese, it turns out that way in english^^ it's mistranslation/shady translation thing i think
Hey, I don't know if this is either a cultural thing or a translation issue, but in western anglophone countries "transgenders" is grammatically incorrect (it's"transgender people/persons") and "shemales" is considered an incredibly harmful term (it has to do with oversexualisation/fetishization and the idea of trans women are"cross dressing men"). As a trans person I just thought I should inform you!
Just so you know, they used the translation shemale because the original Japanese term was an offensive one too (new half - basically half man half woman).
A bit of the terminology and some of the things they said about trans people were a bit off, but I really appreciate this video. It’s makes me feel more confident about going to Japan in the future as a trans woman.
I love that you give everyone a voice. I don't know what your personal views are, but you seem very accepting and willing to let everyone in society say their story :)
I can't believe you interviewed two of my favourite youtubers! Great video and thank you so much for doing this in the first place! A few things I'd like to add: 1. There's not ONE procedure or one surgery. There are several surgeries you can get done, depending on what you personally want for yourself. 2. It is not "the transgenders", but rather "the transgender men/women" 3. "Shemales" is not an appropriate term to use. Transgender woman is better
There are plenty of transwomen with undetectable feminine voices. It just doesn't happen through hormones, but rigorous vocal training. Look up "violet voice feminization" on UA-cam.
I think hormone replacement therapy is best explained with "going through male puberty". The lowering of the voice, hair growth, face getting more masculine, etc. are all changes coming from the testosterone which cis males are getting naturally in puberty. That's why many people call it the second puberty
I'm non-binary in the USA, and right now it is getting really bad in some areas of the country. Being trans is illegal in some states, and one person in government said they want to eradicate transginderism. Trans people are scared, some are fleeing their states for states that are safe. I am researching countries that are trans friendly, for people who want to leave, which is why I am watching our video. Thank you for posting it.
Thank you for this sorts of interviews! It’s really nice to be able to understand transgenders situation across the globe. My brother is trans so every video that can make me understand he’s situation is valuable for me
Just a heads up, "transgenders" is a little offensive. Transgender is an adjective. The correct term would be "transgender people" or "trans people" ^^
Asian Boss should also made a video about how the socially oppressed, bullied, destitute, the so called ugly and the discriminated guys survived everyday mental or even physical aggression/abuse in Japan/Korea.
For those who are curious with what happened to Eito and Kanata’s channel, Eito and a staff member were caught physically and verbally abusing Kanata. They all lived together as far as I know and Kanata decided to move out. I believe Eito was arrested.
This is a very inspiring video. If my future child ever questions his/her sexuality or gender, I'll do my best to be compassionate and let them express their self. At the same time though, I'll encourage them to be patient with themselves and not jump to conclusions about their gender identity.
Their stories were really tough, and im glad they are living their lives now like the way they want it to, and hopefully with few or possible no regrets.
Note: Trans women don’t have to get an operation for their vocal chords to get a feminine-passing voice. It’s possible to change your voice by seeing a speech therapist, though the effects testosterone have had on your chords take time, and are often tricky to undo >
Japanese body types seem look better for transgender surgery. As their men already small and petite looking most cases. However, I am sure social implications are far more complicated. Their truly brave people to come out in Japanese Society.
This is such a great video, thank you so much to everyone involved! I do second the motion to change the title to "Being Transgender in Japan," because that's a more appropriate way to phrase it in English.
The guy with the blue shirt had such a difficult life hope he's happy now they both seem to be such easy going and gentle, really inspiring everyone deserves to live their life the way makes them happy! ♥
I like how chill they are with this topic. I see so many people turn it into a big dramatic thing and these guys though they had their bad struggles they still managed to say it in a light hearted way
This is really awesome to see living in Asia and wanting to live in Japan... But I wish they had mentioned that transgender isn't a sexuality. Trans men range in sexuality from asexual to straight to bi to gay...just like cis men.
I live in Brazil, here we had the most assassination for transphobia in the world, that’s make me cry many times, because I am married with a transgender woman.
Thank you so much for this! You have no idea how helpful this is for me, like seriously. I'm a transman myself, hoping to work/live in Japan in the next couple of years and I've been very nervous because there's so little information that I've been able to find about trans people in Japan, let alone trans men and this is just perfect. I've subscribed to these 2 lovely men and I am honestly so happy and relieved right now. Thanks again.
Wish you all the best in the future. Have you started or transitioned yet? I identify as a woman, but sadly my parents aren't very welcome of the idea of me transitioning. They're pretty old so I don't want to stress them out any further and only intend to transition after they pass on. Hopefully I won't be too late by then. At least I have a handful of supportive friends who didn't reject me.
Asian boss, I love how diverse you are with who you interview, the topics you cover, and the respect you have for everyone. I have a request, can you interview various d/Deaf people about their experiences? I am very interested in how d/Deaf culture and acceptance is throughout Asia.
I know, right? I love the guy on the rights hair! Wish I could pull that off. And they pass so wonderfully! Their voices sound so masculine! I'm quite jealous of them.
This was very informative and I think these young men were very brave to create their blog to clarify their sex change to their viewers, and thereby sharing with people all the pain they have gone through.
Wow, they have both been through so much, especially the brown haired guy. To go through all that and be able to tell your story with such strength and confidence is amazing. I wish them both all the best in life. Some of the translations in the subtitles were a bit insensitive though.
I was slightly shocked when I heard that people are confused between what it means to be lesbian and what it means to be transgender. You can be a transgender man and be attracted to men which means you are a gay man. Or you can be a transgender woman and be attracted to women, then you're a lesbian. I thought it was obvious that not everyone is straight despite what gender you are.
Baako Jernigan Yeah! When they agreed with him saying that transgender men were attracted to women, I was surprised. Of course, there a lot of straight trans men, but definitely not all of us are!
I was surprised too! I mean I suppose you won't always get the most open people in an interview.
They don't represent everyone in the LGBT community after all. I felt they were to critical towards people who ask their audience to be understanding. Because I think you need both types of content. Both the ones talking about the difficulties and the ones just being.
i'm glad someone has said that, it seems that a lot of people think that transgender people go through transition because they like the opposite sex. It's important to remember that you gender identity and sexuality are two separate things
It is confusing. I had a cis male friend who is gay and he married a transgender man. We were all very confused because his partner was still transitioning and we were all like, we thought he was gay? You just gotta love people as humans, doesn't mean I'm a bad person, it's just hard to understand what is what, it doesn't come naturally to everyone, someone had to explain it to me.
not all transgender men like women. transgender people can have any sexuality, just like cisgender people can.
marvioxious1989 No, it doesn't, since sexual orientation and gender identity are two separate things. Trans people can be either gay or straight, no matter the gender they identify with. Hope I'm making my point clear!
I don’t have statistics on hand, but trans sexuality percentages seem to mostly be a three-way split between bisexuality, homosexuality, and heterosexuality, with asexuality being the smallest percentage like it is in the general population.
Thats why the guy said that the way he like women was like a man liking a woman, and not like a woman liking a woman. So if you are a homosexual transgender, I feel like it will be the same
司会の方、日本語が上手すぎて驚いた。二人とも堂々とインタビュー受けていて素晴らしい。
Thank you! I'm a transgender man but I'm really only attracted to men (in other words, im a gay guy who just happens to be trans)
Just a quick correction: for women we can and do get a female voice, but it's not through hormones. Surgery can work, but it's often... not great. Instead it just comes from voice training and practice. It took me about 6-8 months to train my voice to be female, and now it's difficult to be read as male even if I tried haha
Much respect forthat dedication. I think trans women have it much harder than trans men since the male bone structurr and ofter the voice giveit away.
Much love from a german trans man :)
@SjcE Just be aware that you *do* have to practice and work at it. I see so many people who don't bother and their voice just sounds terrible.
They literally said they have to get surgery lmao
for ref im transfem non binary (for the uninitiated that means i was born male but i dont see myself as a man, but i do see myself in androgyny and womanhood)
its funny in my case id just been actively pitching down my voice as a kid bc i took for granted that im a guy and thats what a guys voice sounds like
but when i realized i wasnt a guy i started speaking more naturally and tho the actual tone didnt change much the hatmonics did since i speak less diaphramically and now im always id'ed as a woman over the phone and irl its mostly an eye of the beholder thing but im seen as a girl like 80-95% of the time
thats not a correction at all
The guy with brown hair has a really sad backstory. Hope he finds happyness
Alex G feel better now?
Alex G no u
"i" that's all I wanted to add lol
melissini 77 i think he is already happy. He got to tell his parents and he was able to transition to what he really wanted so i think he is full of happiness.
Alex G oooh really? Stop spreading hate. You dont have to agree with their life choices but at least be kind enough to not call them mentally ill.
I am happy you spoke to transgender men, lots of people forget and think only of transgender women...
Exactly THIS!
Preferably use transwoman or transman
@@jestercalixto4821 that’s literally the abbreviation of transgender women/man
@@jestercalixto4821 Actually, and thats NOT just semantics, its trans woman/trans man.
It is not well known outside the "trans scene" but putting the 2 words together is somewhat seen as disrepectful, because it turns the woman/man into something specific, transman/transwoman.
With the 2-parted writing style, it is just a addendum, but makes clear it is woman/man.
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Its so refreshing to see an interview of transmen! It seems like people forget we exist. Thanks for this informative interview!
They also face less discrimination as well.
asuka kazumi That isnt true
@@コノハさん Why is that not true?
Pink Lemonade trans men face just as much discrimination as trans women.. if you’ve lived as a trans man it’s just common sense
@@コノハさん True, are you from Japan? Btw I heard kitchannel and Eito now are super Un popular. Cause Eito abused Kanata.
Being brave is never easy....
Eito and Kanata thank you for being brave.
It was amazing to listen to their experiences.
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I sense projection here.
'Shemale' is not a very flattering word, just a heads up. 'Trans woman' works better.
I was actually wondering if in Japan they use different terminology, but it is pretty degrading to any trans woman I have known. I'm glad someone pointed that out.
He said shemale in Japanese. “Nyuuhafu” (new half) doesnt have an exact translation and it’s not a flAttering word. But it was appropriate to use because that’s what the television entertainers are called
Thanks for the info @MangoTangoFox & @Menion :)
Attack helicopter sounds the best
Laurann I call my transgender friend a shemale, and she likes it LOL
My aunt is transgender. (From malw to female) Im so proud of her and our family for being openminded, because I cant imagine not meeting up with her every so often, she is my support system. I have only know her as a woman, that is who she is. So please (for those who have never met and will possibly meet a transgender one day), take them for who they are. and dont say "its weird" (i had a few friends who said that about my aunt and I couldnt understand what they are saying), cuz believe me, they rock! Thanks to my teenage like auntie (we joke that she is more of a youngster than I am), aka bestfriend auntie for being such an inspiration!
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Eito's family history was heartbreaking. :( He was so calm telling it and it just kept getting worse and worse. Hope his sister is doing well too. All the best to these dudes!
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Vietnam just had a first international transgender beauty queen and people of all ages are really opening up and accepting transgender. Am very glad my country is more open now, we should understand they are just normal people who also wish happiness like any of us, they just have some conflict wth who they are and wht society requires of them, pls let them be. Thks Asian Boss for also covering social matters
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@Peach Peach well some still, but these ppl are always criticized and mocked back
Yeah, men beating women in competitions that were made for them is very progressive
As a transgender boy with plans of moving to japan when I’m older, this was really encouraging!
same here hihi !!
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Yes. Japanese are not threatened by what others do, like in the West. Abrahamic religions are a big part of that in the West. They were corrupted long ago, made into a "fearful god" type thing, with shame, etc.. that just aren't a part of Eastern religions. I have been to Japan many times and I absolutely love the chill vibe compared to the West. They do have their hangups, but agressive negativity isn't one of them. That's what i love about Japan ❤
@@peppersanches412 Do you know if they’ll for the most part respect your pronouns?
omggg same
I'll be frank, it's really great for me -- as a transgender man -- to see fellow transgender men. In the world today -- at least with celebrities -- there really aren't many transgender men who are "mainstream" compared to transgender women (This isn't to say that trans women are bad, but I feel that transgender men are often underrepresented, especially in Western media.). Whether it's due to me living under a rock or not, the only transgender celebrities I have seen have been women, and as much as having transgender representation is beautiful, I personally feel more represented when I see a transgender man, if that makes sense. So, seeing this interview of Eito and Kanata really lifted my spirits.
Honestly, if someone doesn't hurt anyone else or themselves, I don't think there should be any reason to force people to change what they feel.
Homebirth Homeschool Homestead Then why do you like making yourself mad by watching videos on this topic? I've already seen several comments by you here. Just stick to your homeschool echo chamber if it upsets you so much. No big deal, right? How much you wanna bet you wouldn't say something like this to a trans person in real life? You're just hiding behind your keyboard, it's sad really.
Homebirth Homeschool Homestead hurting themselves is sticking in a body they do not feel comfortable with. if you have kids i hope that you will follow whatever they feel makes themhappy and whatever means that they dont feel depressed or even suicidal :) being transgender is hurting no one
why are you mad about people trying to tell other people to be decent human beings?????
Jen Namo okay. So if a 22 y/o man wants to have an intimate relationship with a 10 year old and she agrees to it, is that okay to you since it does not affect your life? We create the world we live in by what we choose to accept as normal. So it does matter what people do even if it doesn’t directly affect you at the moment. Why not care about others and their well being for the sake of caring and just for a decent world?
@@way2girly pedophilia hurts children. Do you really consider someone being transgender and acting on it the same as sexually abusing a child?
I'm a ftm too. When I told my mom that im a trans, she wasnt accept me, even until now. I thought she's open minded since she knew that I dated a girl back in middle school and never said anything. But when i come out as a trans, she said "i can accept the fact that my daughter is a lesbian, love is love after all. But i cant accept the fact that I have two sons now, its too hard for me"
There are good books on the subject for parents! Also, she may like to meet other parents and Transgender children!
She will need to grieve and adjust! It's a process! It is not easy on either parents nor children!
Also, there are some good movies, documentary and fiction on how parents dealt with this issue!
Ask her what are her concerns and questions..
Good luck! ❤️
I think it's hard for parents to adjust to your identity change in their mind. Even though it's not the case, they feel like they're losing you. I wasn't so sympathetic when I was younger, but now that I'm older I can understand how parents may need time to adjust and process their emotions. That being said, you will always be you, and I hope your mother can see that who you are is only getting stronger and more vibrant. She should be happy that you are clear about your path in life, and that you are fulfilled. You were called to be who you are, and you should go full force towards that calling☺
My dad said a similar thing when i came out, it felt very disrespectful like, it's not his choice if I'm a lesbian (and I'm not). Thankfully my mom supports me
Update?
I'm so sorry. I hope that she comes around or that you develop a very supportive found family.
At the school I work at in Japan, every year the kids have an assembly about fair treatment and not bullying LGBT people. I don't really know what the kids think about it because they don't usually share their opinions with the teachers openly, but one of my older co-workers was annoyed and told me speaking of fairness, shouldn't both sides get an equal chance to argue their part?
I know he's my elder, but I gaijin-smashed and told him no, not when one side's position is don't bully these people and the other side is yes, do bully them. It's not a debate, there is not equal validity to these sides and they should not be given equal attention. This guy is pretty racist, sexist, homophobic, everything-ist you can imagine, so he's kind of a lost cause. I just hope as he is a teacher, the kids know better than to take what he says to heart.
Years ago back in the mid 70s our school district brought in an older male speaker to give a sex talk for the whole 9th grade class. He was pretty detailed in his information. At one point one of the guys decided he'd try to rattle the speaker by asking how do gay people do it. The man who was probably in his 60s didn't miss a beat and explained in detail how gay men and women had sex. It was more than I could wrap my head around at the time but I didn't even date until I was out of high school. Looking back there must have been someone in that crowd that needed that information.
@@lifetobelived9102 wow that's awesome. I wish our teachers were more informative.
I love how positive about the evolution of mentalities they are! thanks for this interview it was really interesting
what??
euryale!!
Mickaël Barbosa I would argue that it's actually the beginning of the downfall of our mentality and culture
Daniel Fazlan And you would be wrong.
I really like how they brought up the point of changing the education system to be more open, rather than simply educating people on the LGBT+ community. Because this way not only does this ideally eradicate the misunderstanding of LGBT+, but also targets the underlying issue
Eito is such a likable person....he's got one of the roughest past i've known of yet he's so positive
I love your channel and your videos but boooiii when he asked them "whats a difference betwee transgenders and lesbians”...aaand when they said "SHEMALES" I cringed HARD,not gonna lie
Ikr? AsianBoss needs to do some research
jujia7 Well, consider it this way, some people are aware of the two different terms but still haven't learned the difference. Whatever the reason may be, say fear or just having no reason to do so, some don't look for this information themselves. So, although it is obvisious to us, it is not obvisious to others resulting in the question needing to be asked. Just as well, keep in mind we are reading subtitles that someone else wrote. They may not have used that word specifically while speaking. It could be a mistake on the translator's part, but let's not get too salty just yet. It is also possible they don't know the implications or negative attachments to the word.
Eito used the term "New Half" commonly used in Japan. I've heard the term in japanese tv used in an non aggressive way.
No, they didn't say shemales. It's the guy who did the sub used the word shemales. New-half in Japan means transwomen, without any hostility. The word has been around for a long time now but it's by no means degrading to transwomen.
The question about lesbians and transgenders actually was great because a lot of people have those misconceptions.
I'm a lesbian and my mom is always confused thinking I want to be a boy, or saying that I still being a girl, so clarifying the difference is a really good thing to do.
Best of luck to Eito and Kanata for their successful future!
Interesting! Could you also interview South - Korean transgenders?
If you’re interested, I did watch an interview of trans people in Korea, the person who made the video’s username is Heechulism
Alex G ?
슬기 Asian Boss I feel interviewing Saudi Arabian Male To Female transgender people would be *MORE INTERESTING* . 🇯🇵🔞♑♀️🔜♂️▶️
try emailing or fb messaging them! i actually asked for this video a few months back (although im not sure if anyone else requested it as well) because i was more curious about ftm. I felt that male to female transgenders are very well reviewed but overseas ftm are not!
The channel Heechulism did a good video on them, and also an interview of gay people in south Korea
the word "shemales" is really offensive. pls change the subtitles.
its kinda based
I mean I'm not sure how to explain this but I'll try to?
I read somewhere that a lot of trans slurs we use aren't actually slurs in japan?
@@blueflamingo4526 its something along the lines of mistranslation
@Myrtel My because it's used mostly in porn industry and for fetishisation
@@blueflamingo4526 that’s true but like cultural context is always gonna be important when translating things
People should be free to choose how they live their lives and the decisions they make; especially involving their physical and mental being.
There shouldn’t be any socially derived negativity since it really doesn’t concern others except for the person.
If you think you’re homosexual, heterosexual, transgenders, lesbian, pansexual, bisexual, etc. ... It doesn’t matter. It’s each individual’s choice and people need to learn to accept it and not judge.
The issue comes from closed minded, judgmental, and or ignorant people that can’t accept these things about society today as they view it as being abnormal and therefore assume that it’s wrong.
It’s not wrong. It’s personal choices.
People need to accept that as time changes, things change like what’s acceptable.
In this day and age, the sense of “traditional” or “normal” is not really a thing.
They’re ultimately antiquated ways of thinking, and in a sense ignorant and very closed minded.
This is a mental disease that is not only not bring treated but being embraced by anti-science culture.
So, essentially you are saying plastic surgery, or hormone enhancements are wrong. I don't know, but to me, the fact that science enables someone to be comfortable or better themselves is one of the beauties of science.
Alex G You just made their point. If someone is, by your personal definition, "not normal," why should that involve you? It doesn't. Their choices and their feelings are their own, wether or not others understand them. Have you never done something or felt some way that others didn't understand? To them, you were not normal for feeling that way, or doing that thing.
It involves anyone with children being exposed to this. Not healthy.
i'm not agree if you said people need to learn to accept it , it because not all country in over the planet have to accept this, i mean in my country in Indonesia where this country strickly forbidden to do LGBT,
Indonesia is a religious country and there're no doctrine which justified that, but i thought if developed country like Japan, Kanada, USA, etc can accept it because i thought the citizens of that country more open minded. I not suppose to deny that but in this country LGBT are absolutly taboo and if you live here you will be understand
Also these men are really good at passing.
If they weren't being interviewed about it, I would have never known they were trans
LOL, not a hard thing to do - Japanese men and women look all the same.
I personally think the guy on the right looks much better as a guy. Both of them look good btw.
Alex G They are men. If you watched this video you would be aware of the fact that they do not belong to the being of a "woman" at all.
Lol every human who has testosterone looks like a man, they have the same level of testosterone as the average male and got a second puberty it would be weird if they seemed to be women, they dose would be wrong then
its offensive to say that
imagine going up to a cis girl and say theyre good as passing as a girl
passing as _what_
that just implies theyre fake boy or girl even tho u have good intentions
More power to these two gentlemen for having the courage to tell their story. Thanks Asian Boss!
Time and time again, I've always loved your content. Now this one is one that I will hold closely to my heart, as a member of the LGBT in Asia. Thank you Asian Boss.
victoria rip
I’m so sad that most people don’t know the difference between gender identity(if you identify as a man or woman) and sexual orientation (if you like people of the same or opposite sex). Who you are and who you like are two different things, thanks for making videos like these, people need to know more
I think that when I lived in Japan, I saw "New Half" (their term for male-to-female transgenders) in pop culture sometimes, but I never saw female-to-male transgender people being talked about. So it's very eye opening to hear about their experience through this interview.
Just a heads up, "transgenders" is a little offensive. Transgender is an adjective. The correct term would be "transgender people" or "trans people" ^^
I’m a transgender man. My mum accepted me before I came out at 19 as gay and trans. My “father” didn’t, so he’s not my father anymore.
It’s a dream of mine to eventually live in Japan at an older age.
"Humanity: compassionate, sympathetic, or generous behavior or disposition;the quality or state of being humane"
THAT'S WHAT THIS COMMENT SECTION CLEARLY LACKS. Instead of spreading ignorance, hate and disrespect just listen to these two guys and try to learn something,jeez.
We should respect what people want to be as long as they do not interfere our lives. It is all about "respect".
Just respect who or what you want. Don't tell people who or what they should respect. Respect is earned. No one is entitled to respect.
Alan's Saladbar everyone is entitled to respect, respect is lost but can also be earned again
Logan paul: It's all about the respeeeeeeccccte
Should they tell people what they are before sex?
I agree with you.
Pro tip from a trans person: Transgender is an adjective not a noun.
Correct: Being Transgender in Japan OR Being a Transgender Person in Japan
Incorrect: Being a Transgender in Japan
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Homebirth Homeschool Homestead Not offended sweetheart. Just educating those who might not know.
Alex G You cared enough to comment. 💖
+Homebirth Homeschool Homestead
Person: Hey just a heads up, but the title isn't proper english grammar, maybe try this wording instead? Thanks!
You, offended: StUpId OfFeNdEd LiBtArDs PrO-LiFe AbOrTiOn Is MuRdEr
"Being" can be used with any adjective. Nothing wrong about that.
e.g. "being tall"
@@Volleyball_Chess_and_Geoguessr Umm... I don't think anyone is ever offended by wrong grammar? Adjectives can be used with "being" while not so much with "a". You can't use "Being a tall in Japan" or "Being a short in Japan" either.
Learned so much from these 2 blokes. Good job to Asian boss for this topic
Hee Sing Sia they are females
I love how the Japanese react to meeting a Transgender person ^^
so much nicer than most other cultures :-3
It is always interesting to see people from different countries and their stories :)
Being german ive always wondered how people in other places live their life while being lgbt.
It gives me hope that especially the younger Generation is accepting towards trans people.
Great to see that these two young man are happy and confident.
Love you Kei.
Ralph Boyer next week an african man will appear and say "hi im carl jackson, from asian boss , yes i used to be kei "
“Bro do you even lift?”
Steroid’s perfectly legal in Japan. What’s your excuse?
Dude on the left is a soldier. Talking sing-songily and casually about his dad beating him senseless and living in an orphanage. Then visiting his dad in the hospital and him dying.
Heads up: you don't refer to a trans person as "a transgender".
Because transgender is an adjective, right? Youre supposed to say "transgender wo/man"
Bafflingly the original Japanese got it right. It's the lazy translator who translated transgender no kata to transgender
Transgender success being a man..but how transgenders man faileds?
@@farizshzaharshah3167 faileds
I think Japan makes the changing gender process longer is to avoid mistakes.
Sometimes, some people think that changing gender will help them psychologically but it is not. I have often seen people on UA-cam or in interviews say that they regret their sex change or have taken hormones etc. That's why, in my opinion, Japan takes the maximum possible precautions, for the good of people.
i think you mean changing sexes. my sex is female but my gender is male. gender= identity sex= body. have a good day
The main reason why people regret their sex change is because they didn't suffer through gender dysphoria. This comes from either a misdiagnosis by the therapist, or the patient wasn't completely honest with their psychological professional. Hope this was insightful and helpful @TheGreenDee
heads up for next time: transgender is an adjective :)
It's funny because it's only translated that way, they're mostly saying トランスジェンダーの方 - which is basically "transgendered person/persons" I don't really understand the mix up with the subs.
Yeah it's dumb that the translator got this wrong when it was right in the original
transgendered is also incorrect. its still just transgender. a transgender person.
I'm not sure, but I believe in japanese "transgender" is a noun, and so translated directly from japanese, it turns out that way in english^^ it's mistranslation/shady translation thing i think
In Japanese they are literally saying "transgender persons" and the subtitles are just wrong in English.
Hey, I don't know if this is either a cultural thing or a translation issue, but in western anglophone countries "transgenders" is grammatically incorrect (it's"transgender people/persons") and "shemales" is considered an incredibly harmful term (it has to do with oversexualisation/fetishization and the idea of trans women are"cross dressing men"). As a trans person I just thought I should inform you!
Just so you know, they used the translation shemale because the original Japanese term was an offensive one too (new half - basically half man half woman).
Sorry but a language that niuns verds and verbs niuns have no right to wynny for people noun an adjective
A bit of the terminology and some of the things they said about trans people were a bit off, but I really appreciate this video. It’s makes me feel more confident about going to Japan in the future as a trans woman.
Very open and informative guys. Their calming and honest attitude without making a big fuzz out of their past and selfchosen life now, is wonderful.
They are the most passable trans dudes I've ever seen
Bro google Buck Angel or look at Jammiedodger or youtube pr Chella man
I love that you give everyone a voice. I don't know what your personal views are, but you seem very accepting and willing to let everyone in society say their story :)
I can't believe you interviewed two of my favourite youtubers! Great video and thank you so much for doing this in the first place!
A few things I'd like to add:
1. There's not ONE procedure or one surgery. There are several surgeries you can get done, depending on what you personally want for yourself.
2. It is not "the transgenders", but rather "the transgender men/women"
3. "Shemales" is not an appropriate term to use. Transgender woman is better
There are plenty of transwomen with undetectable feminine voices. It just doesn't happen through hormones, but rigorous vocal training. Look up "violet voice feminization" on UA-cam.
next time pls do „being lgbt in korea“ and what they thing about lgbt rights!
that... sounds hard
A Wa look for Kimusang too, she's a lesbian youtuber from Korea and have done few interviews too.
付きが綺麗みちゃえんぐ oooo...I gotta check her channel out
How impressive, Eito and Kanata are such articulate, courageous gentlemen.
I think hormone replacement therapy is best explained with "going through male puberty".
The lowering of the voice, hair growth, face getting more masculine, etc. are all changes coming from the testosterone which cis males are getting naturally in puberty. That's why many people call it the second puberty
This was a great interview! It was very interesting and I really respect how open and honest they were with you.
I'm non-binary in the USA, and right now it is getting really bad in some areas of the country. Being trans is illegal in some states, and one person in government said they want to eradicate transginderism. Trans people are scared, some are fleeing their states for states that are safe. I am researching countries that are trans friendly, for people who want to leave, which is why I am watching our video. Thank you for posting it.
Thank you for this sorts of interviews! It’s really nice to be able to understand transgenders situation across the globe. My brother is trans so every video that can make me understand he’s situation is valuable for me
Awe you're a really good sister
Just a heads up, "transgenders" is a little offensive. Transgender is an adjective. The correct term would be "transgender people" or "trans people" ^^
@@shiruki8974 great thanks! English not my first language so great that you correcting me!
the guy with the plaid shirt has such a touching and amazing story. its film worthy.
Asian Boss should also made a video about how the socially oppressed, bullied, destitute, the so called ugly and the discriminated guys survived everyday mental or even physical aggression/abuse in Japan/Korea.
洪JEFFREY ANG and girls.
Yes and girls too.
asking for a friend?
Lol they are not discriminated.
Alex G
"those stupid pesky sjws, wanting peace and equal representation for minorities in the world!!!1!!11!!" - you
What a beautiful and brave people! I truly wish them best things in a world!
For those who are curious with what happened to Eito and Kanata’s channel, Eito and a staff member were caught physically and verbally abusing Kanata. They all lived together as far as I know and Kanata decided to move out. I believe Eito was arrested.
This is a very inspiring video. If my future child ever questions his/her sexuality or gender, I'll do my best to be compassionate and let them express their self. At the same time though, I'll encourage them to be patient with themselves and not jump to conclusions about their gender identity.
Awww yay I thought you guys wouldn’t do a video on trans people . Thanks a lot, loved it!
Their stories were really tough, and im glad they are living their lives now like the way they want it to, and hopefully with few or possible no regrets.
Note: Trans women don’t have to get an operation for their vocal chords to get a feminine-passing voice.
It’s possible to change your voice by seeing a speech therapist, though the effects testosterone have had on your chords take time, and are often tricky to undo >
Japanese body types seem look better for transgender surgery. As their men already small and petite looking most cases. However, I am sure social implications are far more complicated. Their truly brave people to come out in Japanese Society.
Wow incredible interview. So well done. Everyone should be able to choose however they want to live. I support you!
They are both so handsome. It is good that they are happy now.
I love how respectful these people are.
ずっと前にこの2人の動画見たことあったからびっくりしたw
乗り越えてきたことを淡々と話せるのが素晴らしいと思いました。
私も今まで色々あったけど、そのことについて語ろうと思うとエモーショナルになって被害者意識満載でお涙頂戴的になってしまいます。
私の方が年上だと思うけどお二人の方が大人です。
見習います。
This video was truly meaningful, I hope people will be more open-minded and understand that it's okay to be different :')
This is such a great video, thank you so much to everyone involved!
I do second the motion to change the title to "Being Transgender in Japan," because that's a more appropriate way to phrase it in English.
The guy with the blue shirt had such a difficult life hope he's happy now they both seem to be such easy going and gentle, really inspiring everyone deserves to live their life the way makes them happy! ♥
二人ともカッコいいですね！
イケメン！
Thank you both for sharing your transitions. Eito thank you for sharing your childhood, you helped me heal by watching you live your best life.
That person’s story about physical abuse and orphanage was more dramatic than sex change
I like how chill they are with this topic. I see so many people turn it into a big dramatic thing and these guys though they had their bad struggles they still managed to say it in a light hearted way
This is really awesome to see living in Asia and wanting to live in Japan... But I wish they had mentioned that transgender isn't a sexuality. Trans men range in sexuality from asexual to straight to bi to gay...just like cis men.
This was such a great interview! Thank you for this video, they seem like such great people ^^
Damn, Eito could write a novel about his life and it would be super dramatic with really sad plot twists but with a happy ending
I live in Brazil, here we had the most assassination for transphobia in the world, that’s make me cry many times, because I am married with a transgender woman.
Thank you so much for this! You have no idea how helpful this is for me, like seriously. I'm a transman myself, hoping to work/live in Japan in the next couple of years and I've been very nervous because there's so little information that I've been able to find about trans people in Japan, let alone trans men and this is just perfect. I've subscribed to these 2 lovely men and I am honestly so happy and relieved right now. Thanks again.
Wish you all the best in the future. Have you started or transitioned yet? I identify as a woman, but sadly my parents aren't very welcome of the idea of me transitioning. They're pretty old so I don't want to stress them out any further and only intend to transition after they pass on. Hopefully I won't be too late by then. At least I have a handful of supportive friends who didn't reject me.
Really Educating vid
These two r shining a light on being trans really appreciate it
Interviewer did really good job
Asian boss, I love how diverse you are with who you interview, the topics you cover, and the respect you have for everyone.
I have a request, can you interview various d/Deaf people about their experiences? I am very interested in how d/Deaf culture and acceptance is throughout Asia.
Another awesome interview. Thanks for always choosing compelling subjects and asking great questions!
I don't mind what people do with their lives as long as they don't affect mine. Simple as that.
i'm so happy u guys did an interview with these amazing young men really is going to help educate ppl in japan regarding this topic
great video !
I've been on testosterone for almost 3yrs and my voice changed within 6 months. My mom wished she recorded my voice when I was female.
they cute af
You ugly af
Just Passing Through if I'm ugly you must be a monster 😹
Liar
I know, right? I love the guy on the rights hair! Wish I could pull that off. And they pass so wonderfully! Their voices sound so masculine! I'm quite jealous of them.
@@alwayssleepy7461 voice masculine cause of the injection and they are still gay ,they are handsome but gay
Eito and Kana kun on ASIAN BOSS!!!!!! A great interview, thank you for uploading this!
Very inspiring. I am transgender myself.
nice content. It's very impressive to hear from those two in a positive tone with many personal stories.
Bruh, 13:09 caught me off guard! Mickey Mouse voice... bwhahahaha. Good interview.
This was very informative and I think these young men were very brave to create their blog to clarify their sex change to their viewers, and thereby sharing with people all the pain they have gone through.
Okay but since no one said it, they are so handsome like….😭
This interview was very interesting! Asian Boss has always made amazing videos discussing interesting topics and this one was not the exception 😊✌
Good video!!👍🏽
Thank you so much for this video! i remember sending you a request about content like this and i'm so glad you did it!
Hecc they’re precious and I love them.
They are very informative. This is a great interview. They explained things in a very simple ways.
This is why representation in media helps. They had both seen a drama that they related to which helped them figure out who they were
Wow, they have both been through so much, especially the brown haired guy. To go through all that and be able to tell your story with such strength and confidence is amazing. I wish them both all the best in life. Some of the translations in the subtitles were a bit insensitive though.