How America (USA) Messed Me Up PART 1|
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- Опубліковано 22 лип 2024
- January 20, 2021 is a new day for the United States of America. In this video, we, US Americans acknowledge that our country is in fact flawed. Our experiences abroad have clearly shown us how the other half lives - free of fear with gun control, unafraid to call an ambulance or seek medical attention, able to maintain work/life balance. I am grateful for the life I had in the U.S. but I do not plan to return until things seriously change for the better. These TikTok videos show the importance of traveling abroad to see first hand how other people live with a month of vacation days per year, universal health care, safe schools and global awareness.
My intention was not to 'bash' the U.S. but to merely point out the issues I previously wasn't aware of. My hope is that our elected officials will listen to citizens as well as world leaders and create policies that will make the U.S. safer and better for everyone. But we need to start by taking a good hard look in the mirror and realizing that there's a whole lot of work to be done before we get there.
I want to start by opening up a discussion and reaching out to people from all over the world to hear about their experiences. I've already learned so much. Thank you to everyone who stitched my TikTok and I hope to see many more. This compilation was created based on users' privacy preferences and subject matter to avoid repetition. You can watch all of the videos by going to the TikTok app and searching @monica_zielinski stitch.
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I love how people are comparing a place like america that gets 1 to 2 million immigrants a year to places that have super strict immigration laws and homogeneous populations. Of course everything works better in a place that doesnt need to subsidize half their citizens. Also, the liberals are the ones who let the medical industry stomp on us. Trump went after them. Biden is letting Merck charge 40 times cost for a drug that was paid for by taxpayer dollars. Yall complaining not realizing the left is the reason the US sucks.
Even better. That new Merck drug. Is essentially the exact same thing as hydroxychloroquine
Yeah, it sounds like what Venezuela does to your mind.
@@michaelnizza414 Europe is homogeneous... another racist view on Caucasian - and not so Caucasian - nationalities.
I actually did!
"I was struggling and slaving for a dream that never existed and I thought that was normal." That cut deep.
yea me too. as an american that also moved to Ireland and is now pursuing a postgrad degree back in the US, unfortunately, im back to struggling and slaving away
@@pjrodriguez386 are you planning on ever moving away again?
@@nadiaishimwe3663 I'm in law school in FL but I'm planning on taking the NY bar exam that way I could practice law outside the US. idk why but other countries let americans practice law if they passed the NY or Cali bar exam. so although I'm not planning on it per se, it's definitely a thought lol.
@@pjrodriguez386 Ohhh, nice...Wish you luck!
Yep
It’s shocking that Americans think they live in the best country in the world when most other countries feel bad for Americans. When I think of America I think of low quality food, poor education system, bad healthcare system, gun violence, high crime rates because of wealth inequality...
USA has more gold and silver medals in sports also a lot of americans don't like studying
Other countries have more crime
@@estelaangeles2346 Hahahahahahaahhahaha!!! Really?? THATS your argument?
@Robb Grey She does seem offended so..
@Robb Grey Ow but I know that half of you are well aware of what’s happening, I truly dont say such thing to put anyone down, I might lack a better word than “brainwashed” in my vocabulary since English isn’t perfect. But I guess you know what I mean. I have empathy for people whose lives are made difficult by these factors without realizing that a country can do so much more for them, no laughing matter nor should it be ridiculed
Americans. Just FYI:
- Average cost of an ambulance(10ft or 10miles…doesn’t matter) is approx. $1,211
- Avg cost of covid treatment: $34k - $45,600 (no insurance/out of network = $70,000+).
- Note: If you’re put on a ventilator, the avg = $1,500+ PER DAY
Just keep that in mind when the phony patriot in your life tries to brag about our healthcare system being the best in the world, or not to worry about covid or wealth inequality.
@Xantair yep, debt til your dead tends to be how it goes in the good ol land of the free! MURICA! Someday I wanna move out of this country. I'm lucky to have been born into the middle class and not to have struggled with money too much yet, but as I prepare for college, I know I can't go to most colleges even if I get accepted because they're hundreds of thousands of dollars that I simply don't have. In my life so far, I have not had any severe health issues which is also extremely lucky. I'm not on debt yet, but it's very likely I will be soon
That's just insane to think that would be the cost whereas in the UK you could need all of that and not pay anything at all
@Xantair Actually hospitals do forgive a lot of debt because they know there is no chance of recovering the money.
I did see a story of a woman who was mauled in a dog attack and was looking at $100 K+ medical bills.
Also get 2x the take home salary of Europeans after taking into account taxes, wages, and purchasing power.
Bonkers! Anywhere else in the world an ambulance is an emergency service alongside the police or the fire brigade, and they turn out for free when needed. To think here in the UK we're currently fretting because our ambulances sometimes miss their 6 minute target to reach a casualty.
I had a severe asthma attack while doing yard work. I was on the ground and my neighbors called an ambulance. I was uninsured so when they showed up and tried to treat me I denied them because I couldn’t afford the ambulance ride or treatment. The EMTs looked mortified because I was dying on the ground. I was trying my damndest to stay conscious because I knew they’d treat me if I passed out. They told me that they could give oxygen for free so I took that instead. Healthcare is so expensive that I’d live in debt for awhile for any urgent treatment. In that moment I chose potentially dying than paying for healthcare. Yeah living here has fucked me up.
Good lord, you people deserve a little better.😬
OMFG!!!! I'm asthmatic! I know what an asthma crisis means! But this is insane!
I'm jobless for more than a year but my health insurance/care doesn't expire and never will. In my country, a little island in Mediterranean sea, you will have healthcare for close to nothing even if you are unemployed. My inhaler cost me around 8 euros per month and my GP's visits are free up to 12 visits per year and after that threshold a visit to GP or specialist cost 6 (six) euros.
Just save up. For Europeans the cost of ambulances and medical services is paid many times over through taxes. If you aren't an idiot and know some basic home ec, you should have no problem setting up a rainy day fund. Also stop whining.
@@marilenaganea6578 That's awesome, I wish I could afford to see doctor whenever I get sick. I didn't even see a doctor when I had Covid.
@@Panda-24 you people?
This healthcare thing has really messed Americans up, it’s actually quite painful
Very sad.
Yeah when they are in other countries with affordable healthcare they won't go the doctors str8 away thinking they have to spend a large amount of money out of habit
I’m actually concerned about getting sick there if I visit.
@@AnakinandPadme1231 Sadly, Unless you're Rich/Wealth.... in "American" English...Str8 away.....Is 10 heartbeats away from Certain Death!
But at least WE have Freedom!
The freedom to Live with Crushing Medical Debt......Or Dying NOT knowing what preventable illness (we couldn't afford to get treated)....Killed Us!
It's legitimately easier to stay broke and stay on benefits in America than it is to try and achieve anything, because they kick you off all assistance and slap a full price tag on services the second you make a survivable wage. I have seen people give up amazing opportunities for jobs, travel, moving just because they had to sacrifice their dreams in order to keep their medical funding. FUCK CORPORATE AMERICA we need healthcare badly!
The first time I heard that in America people have a limited number of sick days I was really confused.
It’s so weird, like getting sick is just something that happens and you can’t control it. What are you supposed to do if you run out of sick days?
@@nightsgrow6575 I did a little research and on average they have 10 paid vacation days but they can take 12 weeks unpaid vacation days.
I read about school teachers donating their holidays to other teachers dealing with cancer as they run out of sick days...
Same! Couldn’t understand the difference between that and a vacation day. Why would you count the number of times you can get sick in a year??
@@nesk2011 12 weeks unpaid sounds like a lot tbh
Being sued for trying to save a life? That's messed up.
The whole of America is messed up bruh😂
I live in New Zealand which is the second place where it is the safest country in the world and seeing this breaks my heart because I did not know this is what it was like in the states, seeing these people‘s experiences is just mind blowing.
It gets worse than you realize. America is an abusive country and me and my family want to leave so bad
I work in an office building in America. Within the first week of working there I started memorizing where all the exits are. I also started looking for good places to hide and figuring out where the nearest exit was to each hiding place so that if I had the opportunity I could get out the building. I really don't give it much thought, that's just normal here.
I genuinely feel sorry for the middle and lower class Americans. I don’t feel sorry for the rich ones. No sarcasm. Imagine, as a parent, having to consider how to dress your child to help him blend easily in case of a school shooting...what!?
Right that’s so terrifying. I feel so bad for the little boy not allowed to get the cool light up shoes, he probably doesn’t even understand why he can’t wear them:( I’m so glad I don’t live in the States.
We moved to America in 2018 and my son started kindergarten and the first time he came home to tell me they had a drill in school. A school shooting drill. I was shocked, not because I wasn't aware America has a mass shooting epidemic but that they are so unwilling to take any firm action to curb it they'd rather subject 5 yr Olds to what to do in case of a school shooting. That's not normal. America has normalized mass shootings like rain. It's madness and it's not normal. Ppl should go to school worrying if there's going to be a pop quiz they didn't study for not if they will be body bagged by midday.
(I'm from Europe) I clearly remember arguing with my mom about which backpack I'd get for school, I wanted the one with more pictures, she wanted the one with more reflective patches, so I'm visible in the dark and don't get ran over...
It's wild to me how different these worries are
yeah! when i was in elementary school, we had sh00ting drills so much that i would only wear dark colored versions of my uniform!
(we had a uniform, it was just a plain polo tee-shirt, any color, and black or khaki pants)
and my thoughts were always, “if someone dangerous enters the room, go under the teachers desk(or just anywhere that was a good hiding spot)”. it’s honestly so sad that a 7 year old had to think like this, everyday.
@@kaiaswrld as someone who has lived in America my whole life, I've never thought of buying my kid light up shoes as a problem for school shootings. It's never crossed my mind. Personally I think its really weird that the people here say they dress their kid accordingly to avoid a school shooter.
I finally found a Tiktok compilation that doesn't repeat the question every time before someone else speaks.
The 👏 editing 👏 commitment 👏 shit makes me so happy to see 😩
🙌🏾 I said that same thing
A compilation done properly.
That is so annoying! I have to scroll on by those.
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As a russian german, I never understood why americans love their country sooo much. There are so many messed up things that other countries are handling in a much better way.. but still everyone‘s like „mUrRiCa!!1!“ 🤦🏽♀️
They are the world superpower and most influential do you notice almost all scandal and trends are almost from America from Movies Music Memes Lifestyle etc
The United States is a freer, wealthier, and a more technologically advanced North Korea.
@@bluestorm9977 your commiting the apples and oranges fallacy. Try comparing developed countries instead you might be surprised.
They are brainwashed USA has excellent propaganda and is the world leader in brainwashing
@@Fafnd then the US would look much worse
I’m in tears. I’ve lived outside of America twice and am desperate to get back abroad cause of how traumatized I feel by this country. I could do a freaking series of these comparisons as well and that’s too sad.
well do us a favor and this time don't come back. ok?
@@nahAlban Oh man, don’t threaten me with a good time friend 🤗
Maybe the world should start promoting the American nightmare
We already know its a nightmare... its Americans that need to know, its like they are in a cult
🤣🤣that should b a thing
@@thehoneyeffect some of us know and want desperately to get out of here
@@EveryDayALittleDeath just shut up and go study hard because my american friends studied hard and they are not worried about money also a north korean and two cubans on youtube said USA is great but the young Americans need to work hard so thats why china and india will start the apocalypse
@@thehoneyeffect you should study hard in usa because one mexican doctor killed 10 people in mexico also USA needs more people to fix USA
Sounds like just being alive is expensive in America.
Yes and being sick is a death guarantee unless you're rich. And is a threat to one's continued employment. Etc.
It is
@Dank Poster, they literally forced everyone to get heath insurance that covered nothing (obamacare). If you didn't get insurance, they would charge you for not getting insurance - and the people who they are charging are the ones that literally couldn't afford it to begin with, but had to buy it because otherwise it would have cost more money if you didn't.
Yup America sucks. I live in California and it sucks! Because everything is super expensive and national parks aren’t even free! You’ll have to pay to go these Parks.
Yes
Imagine not being stressed about medical bills. That's my largest bill after rent and it's not much less.
Rent in many states around going up by $300 recently due to inflation and all the mess going on
I'm pissed off with my medical costs in Germany, but never worried.
Man that last one shook me to my core. Why is it the American way to hold everything inside ? Personally I feel a lot of shootings might not happen if we had the ability to open up and not get shamed for it. I’m a massage therapist and I once had a client tell me that I ruined his massage because when he asked me how I was doing I told him I was having car trouble. It made me feel like I was supposed to be subhuman or something. From that day forward when asked how I am I say I’m good even if I not. Why is it the American way to hold it all inside then when we see people from other countries expressing emotions it makes us uncomfortable?
Every time I see videos like this it makes me feel sad for Americans. They're stuck in an abusive relationship with their government and get brainwashed into believing that it's healthy.
And no one can leave unless you're already benefitting from the system
their holding everyone hostage and profiting off of our lives or sickness. everyday almost it depresses me. some of us don't believe it's healthy but pretty much everyone has not enough power to do anything about it.
@@theoraclehostvessel Stockholm syndrome should be renamed Florida syndrome.
As an American it sucks getting others who want change but have more groups make sure you there isn’t change. If it doesn’t directly affect them or benefits everyone from people will go out their way to sabotage everyone else. They are so brainwashed it’s sad.
Ex: During COVID the government gave out stimulus checks. There were people who qualified but refused it because that’s “welfare” and they aren’t “welfare kings/queens” or “illegal” immigrants. All that’s nonsense but we had people protest at our state capital in my city because they didn’t want any “illegal” immigrants and lazy people to get their stimulus.
You may wonder why I keep using “illegal” immigrants not immigrants it’s because their are people here who associate any person not like themselves or bilingual are immigrants and if they look Hispanic/Latino they must be here illegally. Not everyone thinks that way but it’s a huge country and those people seem to be able come together quick for a vote/protest/parade/demonstrations…. etc. Hence why last vote we had so many campaigns for people to come vote.
Yup, that’s the American dream
“The reason they call it the American dream is because you have to be asleep to believe it.” -George Carlin
I just commented the same thing.
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Nah you just have to work hard for it.
@@bearwhiteraven4820 Living the dream right now and I am no one's slave. Wish you the best in your endeavors.
@@mics1694 for the most people it is. Not an American but it’s far harder to succeed and live the so called “American dream”. Just because you’re apparently in that stage doesn’t take away that fact that there are people suffering and are not as privileged. Instead of denying the facts how about doing something to create change. Don’t be so ignorant.
@@aishulko6169Sorry but that is a poor argument. It's like saying I am fat and it is impossible for me to lose weight. Just because you lost weight doesn't mean everyone can.
With that logic you set yourself up to fail before you even attempt to succeed.
I remember as a child/young teen everyone being so in love with the idea of living in the US and when we grow old and our main source of information is not movies, disney channel tv shows and youtubers the idea of wanting to leave in the US goes from aspirational to utterly embarrasing to have ever wanted that, not to me but to mostly everyone I know - it must be said that 99.9% of the people I know are from somewhere in the EU, probably we would not feel the same way in a less provileged part of the words if that makes any sense
People don’t talk enough about how weird the pledge of allegiance is
Cult mentality
I remember my senior year 2017-2018 a lot of other kids and myself decided to protest the injustice against black people yada yada so we decided not to stand or recite the pledge. The teacher we had for that period tried to tell us it was illegal
@@MajinxDrolta "hey siri, how long would I be in jail for if I refuse to be forced to swear my loyalty to country with one of highest numbers of anti black and racist attacks?" (I'm European but this srsly screams cult mentality to me, or noble and slaves situation where politicians are nobles and slaves are being gro0med into thinking they are free.)
@@MajinxDrolta If that’s the case then every kid in my religion would be in jail. In my religion we don’t do flag worship/ pledge allegiance to the flag .
Yeah that cultish you'd expect that from a COMMUNIST COUNTRY like RUSSIA and CHINA or 1940's GERMANY not AMERICA
Does Americans even realise that they have the same PTSD related reactions that people in war zones and places with violent border conflicts have?
So many Americans served in the military, went to the war and came back with ptsd that it’s been a part of American life for a long time... it just spreads to more and more people now.
So many of us have mental disorders due to the stress of life here and this country doesn't do much regarding treating or caring for the mentally disabled.
@@snickerdoodle212 This.. Like almost everyone I know has some form of anxiety or depression and I'm not even kidding when I say that. In my elementary school I lived in a not so nice area and my mom literally had to go to court and fight with the school board just to get me the help I needed to learn properly which they didn't even follow which is illegal.. If a student has an IEP you're meant to follow it but they still would say "Just guess." When I couldn't read the questions on the test, it's not that I didn't comprehend the material I just couldn't read it, and they would yell at me when I didn't know how to spell words and they would say "sound it out" when nothing is spelled how it sounds. I eventually taught myself no thanks to rude and impatient teachers, now I'm in highschool in a much better area and it shocked me how different it was. Teachers are actually nice and accomadating, but they weren't when I needed it the most which gave me really terrible self esteem as I thought it was my fault. It's insane to me how in some areas the schooling absolutely terrible, and in others it is decent. One is unionized and one is not... It boggles my mind how a geographical area and the amount of income an area makes effects so much of your life. When I was younger fights were common at my school- fist fights, and I moved here and my friend who is very passionate about LGBTQ+ rights got mad at a kid for being homophobic, I was expecting them to start fist fighting to and was midly suprised when they didn't. I was shocked when I didn't have to hide my stuff in my car because it wasn't a bad area and I didn't have to worry about someone stealing it if they saw it through the car window...
It's so shocking to me how different places can be here just on one small difference and it's honestly so sad, I hope to move away when I get older.
I just told my daughter that! As I was watching the video I paused it and said to her omg it's PTSD. It's almost as if the government is conditioning and preparing All Americans for war or take over. As a Native American I can definitely say if they killed 22 million of my people they will definitely try and do it again but with Americans. Also, the government still has Native Americans imprisoned. They did it once! You think they won't do it again? What do think lock downs are? Just wait for the real thing, this is just the test run! Take it from a Native American.
I Am Peace Lee And now that the US is pulling out of West Asia they are refocusing their terrorism onto the Caribbean and the rest of the mainland Americas. They've been focusing especially on Colombia and Venezuela.
The person who said there are homes in America that have seen more guns than fresh vegetables just blew my mind
It normal why are you shocked 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 people own guns Jesus the rest of the world need to learn about america I stead of judging first lol
@@millieyinaski8495 babe ur so naive 😂😂
@@millieyinaski8495
Bruh stfu😂😂😂
Guns are simply a tool. Its harmless. Just like a car. A gun cannot go off by itself. I live in Washington state. We have strict laws for owning guns. We are legal gun owners. I have them secured & not accessible to children, strangers. They are simply a tool to protect myself as a woman who lives in a rural area.
There are guns in just about every house within 10 miles radius of me...and not one instance of Gun Violence. The issue with America is that guns are political. Period.
More people in the US die from alcohol-related illnesses and accidents than guns, but no one bats an eye at tequila commercials on TV.
More people in the US die from obesity than guns, but if you call someone fat you’re “body shaming”.
More people in the US die in car accidents while driving a Prius than guns, but… you get the point.
Hopefully.
America has never been great it just had great marketing.
They don't even have to try hard anymore...
That must be why so many people are flooding the border... because of the marketing 🤡
@@johnwhit74 must be
Well no it is pretty great in lots of things, that's why only the same three things were mentioned repeatedly: guns, healthcare and education.
@@danidejaneiro8378 wow! You set the bar real high huh?
I remember meeting someone from France and they told me how they get an entire year off of work automatically for maternal and paternal leave.. the mother and father of the baby get the choice on how to share that time.. they could divide it up 6 months each or if Mom wants 9 months and Dad wants 3 months, it doesn't matter.. they both get a total of one year.
This is why Americans are so stressed and one of the many reasons why we die younger
Imagine someone unconscious needing CPR and you go “Sir, I need you consent to save your life”
That's exactly what I thought when I watched that part
I'm first aid and CPR certified for context and when someone is unconscious or unable to speak is the only time you can make the decision for them. You basically assume that they would want help if they were conscious. Its honestly crazy
It's actually the same in Canada too. We are technically supposed to ask for consent as well here. So dumb.
@@midnightmadness7156 oh wow I didn't know that, and it really is stupid I'm trained to help people not worry about being sued.
@@juliamillis3078 yeaaaahhh... unfortunately people seem to think Canada is sooo different and superior to the US, and it's extremely, extremely similar in many ways. Including our legal systems and political agendas. We are drowning just as much as the US is, but Canadians like to try to perpetuate the "nice guy, utopia" persona it's got going for it. Unfortunately our PM Trudeau is very very good at fooling the rest of the world and presenting himself as a progressive, altruistic leader when that couldn't be farther from the truth. And I'm not even Conservative. Im liberal!
Lol anyways... rant over 😅
All these stories make me think back to when I was pregnant with my first baby and I told myself “I’m glad I live a couple of blocks away from the hospital I can walk if I go into labor” WALK 😭
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W-what
Im sorry, you were planing to WALK to the hospital while in LABOR?!?!?
You had no neighbors? No cabs, Uber or otherwise? No access to 911? (I'm a retired Paramedic/FF - It was rare, but we'd transport for exactly this.) And when we were having our first child, progress at the onset was so slow and mild, (similar to Braxton Hicks contractions), we were sent for a walk.
Also, the girl talking about needing a patient's permission in the context of CPR training... Hilarious! 😆 They weren't laughing at America's civil liability laws, they were laughing at her and her notion that an unconscious person would be able to give or deny consent in the first place. How in the world is she entirely ignorant about America's 'Good Samaritan Laws' and 'Implied Consent' that protects us from liability?
@@jimmyyounger618 dude the very fact that you have to be protected by some special law in case you get close to another human being or try to do CPR is hilarious in itself
Been living in Eastern Europe some time now. I remember when I went to the ER back in the US for when I split my finger. They charged me 400 dollars just to wait, and 700 more for putting fucking iodine on my open wound..
Where I am now in Eastern Europe, I had something similar happen again. 12 euros to be seen (immediately), and then 7 euros for antibiotics..
The story with the woman living in Portugal and the light up shoes broke my heart
"It's called the American dream, but you have to be asleep to believe it." - Carlin
Daaaaaaanngg
Deep.
Amen sister!💖
Facts
Wow, so true
I'm from the UK but have lived/worked in many countries growing up and as an adult. Recently, I spent 2 weeks in the US to co-ordinate staff training for a new office in Ohio. After the first training session a guy came up to me and said, "So, how does it feel to finally be in a free country?"
Ha ha ha that made me laugh
😂🤣
@Rita Roork 😂🤣
@Rita Roork you couldn't pay me to live there. Did a road trip there and part of it looked like a third world country with a whole town of meth heads🤪(Kentucky etc
Also we ran into a homeless veteran, who had cancer and no coverage🤪.
NO THANKS. They brainwash you into thinking that the USA is the greatest country, but it's really one of the worst most corrupt countries 🤪
Hahaha what?! Wait that's not a joke? He actually believed that?! 😶
Wow wasn’t expecting all that. Kinda made me emotional. I’m Canadian and it’s not perfect but still grateful for the health care and maternity leave.
Here's how gun culture screwed me up. This happened this week. I saw a guy walking down the road with a HUGE hand gun on his hip. I live in Idaho now, open carry is legal and common. The guy made me feel dread, his expression really crreeped me out. I was with a friend who is pro gun, she consealed carries herself. I had an internal argument, chastised myself, deciding my bad feelings were my gun prejudice. I didn't call the police. I filmed him for 2 seconds. My friend and I debating racism and gun ownership as we carried on down the road. 30 mins later the same man went into Boise Towne Square Mall and opened fire. What if I had called the police based on my intuitive, gut feelings instead of dismissing it? 3 people might be alive today.
That is insane.🤯
You can't blame yourself. You don't know that the police would have taken you seriously for one thing.
I call, even if it turns out to be nothing, you never know. It is sad using this second ammendment that goes back to ancient times! Even Constitutions may be revised!
Don't blame yourself, even if you called the cops they might have not done anything
Please no that’s really bad survivors guilt is not a good thing
I remember seeing a video on UA-cam where a dunkin donuts employee was fired for giving leftovers to homeless ppl. I was startled at first cuz the dude was being kind and generous to offer the leftovers to the homeless which would otherwise be dumped in the trash.
However, someone commented that the homeless ppl might sue the company by falsely claiming to be sick due to the leftovers given to em.
You can't even be kind in America smh
Well God damn
I don't think Dunkin Donuts was at fault here, it's really just the country. Working here in McDonalds I can get leftover fries/burgers and give them to anyone I want.
I worked at a sandwich shop and had so much bread leftover that I was forced to toss into the garbage. I asked if we could donate to homeless shelters and my manager told me they could get sued and from then on, they made me throw it away first and then pour soup over them to destroy the loaves.
At one point I spent my own money to buy half the loaves at the end of the night just so that they wouldn't get tossed in the garbage.
It's really sad that being nice can lead to more problems.
@@giovannagreeff2153 oh my that's messed up. Sadly we prioritize money before humanity
Wouldn't happen, homeless can't afford an attorney.
I am a Nurse in Australia, I CANNOT BELIEVE IN AMERICA YOU CAN BE SUED FOR SAVING A LIFE!!! WOW!!!
America became a country of under educated, over entitled.
Crazy !
That really shocked me, too.
Yeah, it's sad. I just took a CPR/BSL course and during the videos we were watching I remembered hearing about possibly being sued by someone that I was actively trying to save. I then also questioned why I was even taking this course to begin with if me being a good person by saving someone's life meant I was going to go into debt being sued. I hate it here.
@@helgaioannidis9365 you should tell Americans that Americans should fix USA because china and india will destroy other countries
@@ikeu6433 other Americans dont know this
“They have more guns in their house than fresh vegetables ” 😂
lol sis was confused why he was asking about sick leave 🤣🤣🤣🤣 like dude when you’re sick just stay yo @$$ home 😩😩😩😩
So nice to see there are actually Americans out there that don't think their country's the greatest country in the world! You couldn't pay me to live there!
I really believe that if Americans just travel outside America, they will have a change of heart about thinking they're the greatest country.
@@jonalynbaldoza5508 I agree. But they need to do it properly. When I traveled the world a bunch of Americans in a tour would swoop in and out together. Wish they had taken the time at places and got to know the culture instead of ticking a place of their list. Although in saying that a lot of other people do it that way as well.
@@libertylovingbeckles6797 darling you really have swallowed the 'american cool aid haven't you!' Bless your heart.
@@libertylovingbeckles6797 you pay taxes right? Why can't some of that money go to hospitals and schools. Just as some of your tax money goes to roads and water etc. Spend less on your military and more on your children's education? You aren't relying on the government by getting 'free' Healthcare your taxes are paying for it.
@@libertylovingbeckles6797 That's just being prideful and stubornly stupid. Countrymen should be able to depend on another and be depended on for help. You guys use the word "dependent" as if it's a crime... the only reason dependency becomes a burden to America is because it's citizens doesn't know how to do anything in moderation.
Culturally engrained PTSD on a societal level.
shit dude…you ain’t wrong but, you didn’t have to say it lol
@@m1ssk1k0 I kinda did though.
I genuinely feel sorry for people who live in America, you don’t have to put up with that
Am so glad I live in a country where I've never once had to worry about my children dying from gunshot wounds at school.
it can happen at any moment in any country btw
and if it happens once it could happen again
america just have it (much) worse
I was confused about college debt stuff cuz in our country college is free for a 4 year course xD
@Rita Roork well that's the point of taxes. It's still for the benefit of the people of the country. Compared to the US where the taxes are very high they don't even have health or education benefits. I think the 'high' ( its not the high, our taxes, it's reasonable in my opinion)taxes served it's purpose. 😂
@@zamiraarts5435 they spend most of their taxes on military and sending more to fund Israel instead of actually helping their own people. Like Yeah Education and Health.
@@misscurious9289 well figures. Since they seemed to be the type of country that would want to be top of the military power.
@Rita Roork right. It might be because of the overwhelming amount of people who complains about it that I thought it's like that but I wouldn't know. I'm not from there (thankfully) Also I might be wrong, Guns and Firearms are definitely much more important than Education and Health care 😂😂. Also the tax in a country is not unreasonable if the people actually benefit from it and knows where their money went. Can your tax pay for your child's college? Oh wait. No, they need to loan for it. 😂
@Rita Roork also the best education system goes to the Nordic countries specifically Finland lol. They have free education there and I'm pretty sure Their teachers aren't starving. The best health care system is Sweden. 😂
As a European it's always fascinating hearing these stories.
I feel like they're important too because you know what they say 'the first step to solving a problem is admitting you have a problem'.
And I feel like so many Americans don't realize how DEEPLY and THOROUGHLY they are being CONNED and better things are possible.
These Americans are just leftist. I've talked to Europeans that are centrist or right winged and prefer the American system better. "Free education" A Swedish guy told me it's a scam because it gives incentive for a student to pursue a "Liberal Arts degree" aka useless degrees for 5-8 years while getting paid for being a student and becomes a burden to society and not a contributor. Sweden is running out of money to fund education, retirements, and healthcare because of this and also other factors.
Free healthcare doesn't function in a open border society because the healthcare sector becomes flooded with patients for a simple paper cut. Healthcare services becomes subpar because of this- Frenchman
Safety has more to do with homogenous vs heterogeneous societies. I can compare Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan to any European countries and East Asian countries are far more safe.
EVERY TIME I say something about US healthcare somebody like you comes out of the woodwork to make zero sense, it's amazing! :D Okay here we go:
*"These Americans are just leftist."*
No, wanting affordable healthcare doesn't make you a leftist, don't be silly. There are videos of American conservatives living in Europe talking about how they prefer healthcare over here. Even our right-wing politicians usually prefer our system.
*"I've talked to Europeans that are centrist or right winged and prefer the American system better."*
But have they actually lived in America and experienced both systems like these people have? I too have right wing friends that have some pretty shit socio-economic takes and think the American system is good, but they've never lived there, or even been there.
*"A Swedish guy told me it's a scam because it gives incentive for a student to pursue a "Liberal Arts degree" aka useless degrees for 5-8 years while getting paid for being a student and becomes a burden to society and not a contributor."*
See, this is what I'm talking about. Your Swedish friend thinks millions of people should switch to a demonstrably worse healthcare system because.... there are some potentially crap liberal arts degrees? And you thought this was a good argument?! :D
*"Free healthcare doesn't function in a open border society because the healthcare sector becomes flooded with patients for a simple paper cut."*
America isn't an open border society. Wait, are you talking about people from different US states? Okay if you're a resident of New York and break your leg in Jersey I'm pretty sure the economy of NJ won't tank because they need to treat a few people out of state, the same way European countries can take care of tourists and foreigners when they get injured.
*"Safety has more to do with homogenous vs heterogeneous societies. I can compare Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan to any European countries and East Asian countries are far more safe."*
Do races mixing causes diabetes and cancer to go up, what the fuck are you talking about? :D
But okay, let's say 'homogeneity' actually effects safety and healthcare... Canada, for example, is even more heterogeneous than the US and their health is way better. There is no notable statistical differences in safety and healthcare from homogeneous first world countries like Slovenia or Norway and heterogeneous ones like New Zealand or Canada, you're just wrong, where do you get this stuff? :D
@@MarkArandjus You must come from an insignificant european country that doesn't know or understand how complex the situation is. Universal Healthcare will never work in a very decentralized country such as the US. California is a perfect example of trying universal healthcare while also harboring 2.2 million illegal immigrants within their borders. The plan fell flat on its face while bankrupting 100's of hospitals all over the state. France, Sweden, Germany, UK, even Canada are in the same trajectory as California just 12-15 years behind. California is the only US state that tried to emulate European countries at every policy and failed miserably. Diversity has turned in tribalism and liberalism has turned into degeneracy.
@@oliveraparicio8464 *"You must come from an insignificant european country"*
I do! Slovenia - strategically unimportant and barely 2 million people, but we have astronomically low rates of violent crime and incarceration, free healthcare and college, maternity leave, paid vacation, pretty good infant mortality rates, low income inequality, and a strong welfare system. Most green European country after Norway BTW, also #5 in the global peace index, it's wonderful! If you're ever in the area check out lake Bled or Triglav national park 👍 it's so lovely they filmed those Narnia movies over here.
*"doesn't know or understand how complex the situation is"*
Uhuh, right. After reading your demographic heterogeneity argument, I don't think you get to judge other people for not understanding how shit works😄
*"California is a perfect example of trying universal "*
Forgive my small insignificant European country brain, but I'm pretty sure California is pretty fucking far from 'perfect example of universal healthcare' and more like a perfect example of 'they did a half-ass job of implementing it'. California is your perfect example of a European-style universal healthcare system, are you SERIOUS?! :D
You should've pointed out Hawaii, which is the only US state that has something resembling universal healthcare. I'm sure it's just a coincidence that it by far has the best life expectancy out of all the states.🤙
There is no reason why US states couldn't be run healthcare-wise like European countries. You pay a tax, get affordable insurance, and the government negotiates reasonable drug prices across the board, and viola. Both the government and people save money, the only ones that get screwed is big pharma heads and insurance companies who would become rich instead of insanely giga wealthy. Poor wealthy people :(
And yeah, France, Sweden, Germany, UK, even Canada's systems aren't perfect, but nobody is going bankrupt, almost nobody is dying from preventable disease, traveling to neighboring countries to buy insulin, driving themselves to the hospital after getting stabbed because ambulances are expensive, or depend on pop up clinics in tents like some third world country. And perhaps most importantly the life expectancy of these countries hasn't been stagnating or even declining, which isn't something the US can say.
Oh and if immigrants are such a problem, since you can't get rid of them because a) it's logistically impossible and b) parts of the US economy depend on them, why not, I dunno, give them work permits and tax them which would solve the healthcare aspect and they could pay into the system and fund the government. I mean they're already there and always will be. Make everybody's lives easier by giving immigrants a legit route to participate in the economy. But what do I know I'm just from a small country that used to be part of Yugoslavia, a federative network of countries where people would cross borders and work abroad all the time.
@@MarkArandjus get it!! I'm tired of ppl blaming shit on illegal immigrants. They don't sit around and do nothing! They work and pay taxes!! These ppl who don't even have citizenship pay taxes just like any other American in this country. These ppl help the economy just like any other average person. If ppl really want to complain about them being illegal then they need to wake up and realize becoming legal is hella long and hard and needs to change.
Wow! 😥 This is incredible. I'm sending this to everyone I know!
Wow! They were good but I really liked the last one because if we all took the time to talk about our problems and listened to other people's problems and actually took the time to care about one another and encourage d eachother it would be one step to getting better!!!
US healthcare worries -"Will this cost me $5000 or $50,000"
UK healthcare worries "Damn I hope the hospital has wifi"
Germany aswell.. :'D
Me: broken foot for six years: “i cant drop forty thousand on an “elective” surgery so i can actually walk and be out of work for several months”
My boss: WHy dOnt yOu GEt It FiXed
British healthcare is DOG SHIT. I don’t know 🤷♀️ ANYONE who has been healed of anything more than a broken bone or a flu. I WATCHED midwives spend the night sat on their fat arses stuffing their faces with tea and cake while THEY LEFT A NEW BORN BABY TO DIE ALONE IN A COLD DARK ROOM! I know women who were DEAD at 22! Because the nhs fncked up their CAESAREAN! We don’t have healthcare. We have HIGH TAXES. But I’m soo glad so many Americans get to enjoy a few nice freebies from a system they haven’t paid a penny to and enjoy exploiting a system that can’t even afford the people who HAVE PAID IN FOR >GENERATIONS!< I would rather PAY for my healthcare than BEG FOR IT! Do you know you have to APPLY for the FUNDING for any treatment above a flu/broken bones...? A 20 year old mother has to BEG for M.S treatment then gets denied 🙅♀️ because every fncker who visits jumps the damn queue. Women flying in IN LABOUR. Yea I CAN’T WAIT TILL THE NHS COLLAPSES! The ONLY people getting ANY advantages are FOREIGNERS who NEVER EVEN PAY IN! Why the fnck does EVERYONE TRAVEL TO AMERICA FOR ANY SPECIALIST CARE...? YOU IDIOTS CAN’T EVEN SEE WHAT YOU’VE GOT!
ALSO THANKS TO OUR LAWS PREVENTING US DEFENDING OURSELVES LOOK AT THE RAPE RATES! Almost ALLLLL the women I know have been raped... Even if you have a knife near you during the rape and you USE IT... Well... YOU’RE THE ONE GETTING CHARGED! We CAN’T even defend ourselves if OUR HOMES ARE BROKEN INTO! And our police don’t even prosecute cases on VIDEO because they’re too busy policing TWATTER! 🤦♀️🤯🙅♀️ Yea they DON’T need guns to police speech on the internet! It’s not like they’re policing REAL crime and facing violent criminals. The police told my partner just this Saturday that even though he was on THEIR CCTV cameras being attacked by guy’s with KNIVES they PURPOSELY didn’t turn up till AFTER MY PARTNER DEALT WITH THEM BECAUSE THEY DIDN’T WANT TO RISK THEIR SAFETY! ALLLLL WHILE ADMITTING THAT IF HE HAD HAD TO USE FORCE... THEY WOULD HAVE ARRESTED HIM! AND NOT THE SCUMBAGS WITH THE KNIVES! 🤦♀️🤯🤷♀️ Our leaders are traitors and OUR country’s being DESTROYED.
@@dannytonnessen6896 you know you can go private and... pay for it don't you!
Also no the NHS is just fine.
There is zero reason either that they can't tell you the out of pocket cost than the insurance companies don't want to. If I need dental work done they can tell me right then and there what my insurance will cover. But an EKG to determine that it's not a minor heart attack? Who knows? Might be a hundred bucks or you might lose your house.
As a third world country citizen I genuinely feel sorry for americans for having to think about somebody SHOOTING their kid to buy clothes and for having to think about the ambulance bill before their health
My american friends don't think about school shootings because they didn't get shot
@@estelaangeles2346 its so obvious you are an American, if you're gonna act like you're not an American and your American friends are happy with this US atleast make it sound believable
My brother used to get bullied because he had enough money for nice shoes, he would try not to wear them to school and my mom refused explaining how she worked hard for those shoes for him, and don't let anyone not let you wear them.
I remember one time when I was younger, the school counselor took me for a walk and gave me the optional school uniform and said "I think you should start wearing this because we don't want other kids to feel bad that someone has nicer clothes." Obviously I was younger but I still stood up for myself as that confused me, why would I? I said "But these are my clothes, why would anyone feel bad because I have nice clothes?" The fact that they tried to strip away a child's self worth and individuality still confuses me.. If someone worked hard to get their children what they have, they should never be ashamed to wear it.
I know this is a bit off topic from school shootings and clothes but it's still about school clothes and honestly it was super weird.
lol when I was in hs we had a shooting threat and my mom said she didnt care and was gonna send me to school anyway. a bunch of ppl were planning how to ditch before school started so we wouldn't die. we were told over the intercom that the suspect was arrested but in an alternate universe I'd be dead
Lol those people are just being paranoid about it... rural America doesn't have those problems
Monica, I need more of these MESSED ME UP videos...
Thank you for posting this.
I live in the Caribbean, in a so called 'third world/developing country where health care is basically free. For all ages. Ambulances too. There are paid private hospitals but all public hospitals throughout the island are free. It's sad that such a rich country doesn't offer free healthcare to its citizens.
Your healthcare isnt free you pay for it through taxes, it's way lower quality than US healthcare and your population is very much lower than the US
I live in the UK, so another rich country, and our healthcare is also free. Yes, we pay for it in our taxes, but we have to pay taxes anyway, so it doesn't really make a difference that we played for it in our taxes. Our taxes go to our quality healthcare. American taxes go to your military, which you don't need to be that large.
@@theweatherwitch2492 american taxes don't go to our military it goes to our even BETTER quality healthcare and plus we have social programs for people social programs for people who can't afford it to go to so they can get care it's not like people are dying without care like in canada the US has 300 million people, to give free healthcare to everybody would be INSANELY expensive plus theres health insurance, and the US is the only country that pays its promised amount into NATO and the US provides military security and foreign assistance and economic aid to a fuckload of countries, and yes it's way better quality, in places like Canada or the UK survival rates for diseases like cancer or HIV more than 7 times lower than in the US, wait times for MRI machines are high as fuck over 7 months on average in canada, in fact canada was sued for human rights violations because they only had socialized healthcare and people were dying because they had to wait so long for treatment
Health care is free in india too.. but the quality of healthcare matters
The Caribbean isn't considered 3rd world. More like 2nd world
Fun fact: the us healthcare system actually saved my life from suicide. Not because they treated me or brought me back, because I was too scared that if I attempted and failed that my family couldn’t afford the hospital bill. I hate this
I hope you are able to receive help ♥️
If this comment doesn’t tell you how fucked up this country is nothing will.
I felt this.
Yeah, I’m still suicidal but a little better, I’ll probably wind up thankful that I didn’t succeed, but I’m not quite there yet
The thumbs up is moral support to keep going. The song 'mika-relax' helped me when i was at a suicidal point
From Chile here: I do see how we have certain disadvantages compared to the states as an underdeveloped country (even if it's not that much) but I really appreciate as a college student, Uber delivery that if I crash on my motorcycle, working or not, I'm not gonna have to pay more than my tuition to get transported to a medical facility and, you know, not die.
regarding 1st one- that's so typical :D if you see someone in public transport in PL sneaking sth in jacket, they either have can of beer or small bottle.
sometimes drunks get annoying or aggressive but nowhere near the danger of a shooter.
Durr did you actually listen to what she actually said??? She didn't know the guy was hiding alcohol in his coat she thought it was a gun..SMH 🙄
almost all of these are about europe so id just like to add we have free universal healthcare in Brazil and free universities as well. both are being threatened by our trump supporting president
Quando são as eleicoes no brasil?
@@kuroshiro6188 para presidente só em 2022, mas o presidente atual ainda pode ter um segundo mandato, infelizmente
Don't fold. Feal sorry for you guys cos that Bolsonaro guy is crazy, like litteraly mad, he has to go. Turning your beautiful country to a savanna, pissing on regular people.
Get that bird out of office!
I am begging you, please get rid of this psychocriminal Bolsanaro.
This is why starting to live in the US as a European can be mentally exhausting because you know how good it could be but everyone around you think you're just sensitive because they think this crap is normal!!!
So, stay in Europe then.
I understand what you're trying to say. it's difficult to put into words.
@@artsilk2944 i see americans who struggle so much and they think they should because they don't know anything else. They deal with not being able to go to the doctor, having managers who take advantage of them and gets away with it, being homeless, poverty, being in a lot of debt, having to be scared of their child getting shot or kidnapped etc.
Yeah, then head on back to your welfare states, with oppressive tax levels that discourage business growth.
We are fine with you being here, but we don't care about the opinions of someone who left their supposedly better country to come here.
My country is so good that I moved out of it and won’t go back, bruh
Taking out all of the intros so we don’t have to listen to the same question 50 times? A hero.
THIS IS SO IMPORTANT. IT’S SO RARE TO HEAR GENUINE PUBLIC RESPONSE TO THIS.
In America, we have 3 rules:
Don’t get sick. (too expensive)
Don’t let your guard down. (stay alert)
Work your ass off. (40-60 hours per week)
Edit: Obviously 40-60 hours per week isn’t literally working your ass off for SOME people (especially if you are sitting most of the time and not having to use your brain as much). I mean you had better be working somewhere with enough hours and pay that will help you afford a shelter, food, utilities, etc. 🙄🙄
😭😭😭😭😤 RIP.. from New Zealand
@@CT-uf4fb Thank you
Also try to die before you get to retirement age because they treat the elderly like shit.
There are so many ways to make medical cheap or free in the US. If you can't figure it out you're an idiot.
Correct
It's crazy as Americans how much of our behavoir is survival mode. Can't go to the doctor or else I wont make rent, can't go to the mall or buy my kid fun shoes incase theres a shooter.
FRFR!!!
That women who mentioned the not buying her kid light up sneakers because of school shootings broken my heart. I don’t know how my friends are ok in the states.
The people believe the news channels far too much..
most shooters are either fake or hired actors (fake) lol
OMG. Shut the fuck up. Stay where you are at. Less of you little whimps the better.
Go study to be a doctor and then give away your services for free or STFU and quit your bitching.
The story of the shoes with lights was probably the saddest and most horrible story I heard in a very long time
I live with PTSD and a physical disability. My doctor made a huge error and changed my medications (extremely powerful medications). It threw me into a terrible mental where I was having panic attacks every day and horrible nightmares every night, for an entire month. I was calling a local suicide hotline who asked me if I had any family and to please call them as well. I started calling my uncle and younger sister whom I was closest to. Although I have always tried to keep my medical business mostly to myself, this time I followed the hotline’s advice and put myself out there. For a while my uncle and sister seemed to try to be there to listen but eventually they started to become impatient. They started telling to call the hotline instead of them and that they only wanted to hear positive things from me. The hotline service then questioned me about why I wasn’t calling my family more often and I told them that they clearly told me not to and to call them instead. The person on the phone paused for a moment and then said “okay…fine”. I felt stupid and cast aside with nowhere to turn to. One day I woke up from another nightmare especially panicked and horrified, I felt it was an emergency so I called my sister. I tried to stay calm but I began to sob again. She exploded into a screaming rage, calling me a Narcissist that was bothering her just to get attention. The next I called my uncle about something unrelated to my health situation. He brought that my sister called him the day before and immediately said “What did you expect?”. Even after I tried to explain that I was dealing with a dire situation that involved the influence of powerful drugs coupled with a mental and physical disability, he still held onto the notion that I got what I deserved. I couldn’t talk to them after that.
Over the next six months without the medication I needed, my body exploded into a state of constant pain so severe I had to eventually take opioids. Before I was given access to a pain specialist I was constantly in the emergency room for level 10 pain so severe it made walking almost impossible. With no one to take me to the ER I had to call an ambulance every time. Eventually they kept asking me every time I called if whether or not I had family to take me instead of them. As a survivor of family domestic violence, I did not. When I would say no they would then begrudgingly oblige to transport me. I’ve also been kicked out of an ER with level 10 pain. After waiting five hours in the waiting room curled up on a metal chair quietly sobbing in agony the doctor told me he wouldn’t treat me. I had a panic attack and started sobbing uncontrollably, they called a security guard to escort me out.
I’m moving to Germany to finish my education, I don’t think I’ll be coming back.
"No one here is going to sue you for trying to save their life." Bruh if a burglar falls through your roof they can sue you for having a faulty roof. I remember the skater dudes at my community college being harassed about skating in the school parking lot. It was a tiny college, the parking lot was mostly empty and they really just wanted to glide around. One of the admins came out and said something like "y'all can't be skating out here. The second you fall and hurt yourself you're going to try to sue the school!" And they were so taken aback. Those dudes wear their injuries with pride. They hadn't even thought of that lol
There's two components going into this that help explain the difference:
1. In the UK, it's the norm that whoever loses a lawsuit has to pay BOTH parties' legal fees. This means that frivolous lawsuits are much harder to pull off there: in the US, you can cheat the system by suing someone in the hopes that they will pay you off rather than face the cost of winning the case.
2. In many places in the US, our healthcare system actually makes this worse. The burglar who falls through your roof now has a 10k medical bill, and is about to go to jail, so he's got no way to pay it. So what does he do? He sues you, in the hopes he can get something. OR even worse, sometimes insurance refuses to cover medical bills without a legal finding/lawsuit. There was a famous case of an aunt who sued her nephew for hugging her too hard: the kid knocked her over, and she broke her wrist, so she sued the nephew...because her sister's home-owner's insurance refused to cover the medical bills without a legal finding of culpability. the COMPANY forced her to sue her nephew if she wanted her medical bills paid.
Since the UK fixed both of these, they don't have the same mania for suing people.
Wait what??? Is this burglar thing really happening or just an example??
@@folkloreevermore2797 I wasn't referencing a specific case, but it's the kind of story you'll eventually hear about happening on the news as an American.
A quick google search showed me it's happened at least once, and been referenced numerous times, though the circumstances are at least somewhat more complicated than the stories present them as (another common American legal discussion trick: reduce any lawsuit you don't like the outcome of to its most ridiculous framing).
See, often times in American courts, you can find where the court essentially uses a lawsuit like this as a way to impose a fine on an entity for violating civil standards. Like, the whole "woman gets millions for suing McDonald's because she burned herself with their coffee" story is actually about how it was discovered McDonald's KNEW their coffee was burning dozens of people a year, and just felt it was cheaper to pay them off than serve slightly cooler coffee, so the court fined them 2 days of coffee sales for refusing to help this woman.
Similarly, the "burglar falls through roof, sues owner" story is based on a teenager back in the 80's who was stealing some lights from a high school gym, and fell through a skylight: it turns out the district had installed the skylights, and then found them to be leaky nuisances, but rather than remove them, they'd just painted over them. This had quickly been shown to be dangerous, as kids sometimes would sneak up onto the roof: Another teen had, just the year before, died by falling through one of the skylights at another school in the district. So the teen fell through, and sustained brain damage severe enough to render him a mute quadriplegic , and his family, desperate to find a way to provide for him, sued the school, noting that, given the accident of the year before, the school should have done something to make the skylights safer. The court agreed, and boom, "Burglar falls through roof, sues owner"
@@AllWIllFall2Me oh i see. This is more complicated 🤔
They're afraid one of then will take off his cap and reveal a Karen haircut or some shit.
All of these are extremely sad, but two really stick out; having an active heart attack and considering riding your bike to the hospital during an ACTIVE HEART ATTACK?!?! Don’t even get me started on waking up from the heart attack and the first concern being that you might loose your job.
Also having to worry that if your kid has light up shoes they’re more likely to be a target of a shooting. Absolutely horrific.
I'm a conservative BUT very strongly disagree with Republicans on 2 things = Healthcare & legalization of marijuana (I don't even smoke weed but would rather someone babysit a kid on marijuana than be drunk ect/ many other scenarios) I'm from Arkansas usa & for the past 10 months I have been in the most excruciating pain of my life bc of a toothache. I'll have about 4-6 days pain free or minimal pain&then it'll come back for 5-10 days. Like talking about feels like a screwdriver shaking in my ear pain. Worse than giving birth pain. I've been having to take fish antibiotics that I've been able to buy for $17-$21. I've taken them 4times& am afraid I've become antibiotic resistant. I went to a dentist about 5 months ago& the appointment was $160, xrays $180& I went there being told they would extract my very back top molar , they didn't & referred me to a orthodontist& I was told it would be $4,600-$5,000 FOR ONE TOOTH! needless to say I'm up at 6am in the morning due to being in severe pain all night. Fml. Have a appt for next tues/4 days from now. They said they would do it for $240 for the extraction & $160 for xrays& only $64 for the appointment. So wish me luck please!
@@WarmongerYT I'm sorry.....did you just compare tooth pain to giving birth? Bruh you're really stupid. Giving birth literally feels like your entire body is turning inside out, your bones breaking. How are you going to compare that to childbirth if you've never given birth to a baby.
@@erihussain8007 well, we don't know if they actually did give birth... but yes, i have to give it to you that it sounds unrealistic and was probably just a metaphor to give us an image on how they pressive their pain.
@@vollzeitfaultier I know I just hate it when people give that specific example. Giving birth is hell tho
@@erihussain8007 personally the worst pain I have ever experience was a tooth ache. I couldn’t even function I was in so much pain. I have given birth twice. My first one I never felt any pain. I had to set and watch for my stomach to tighten up to count how far contractions was apart because I couldn’t feel them. Now the second one I didn’t get so lucky but it was no where near the pain I had with that tooth ache. I can’t imagine anything hurting as bad as my tooth ache was. I don’t think I could survive it honestly.
This is sad, not for pointing the negatives of the US, but being someone from South America that lived in the US, and currently in Europe, this makes no sense. There are pros and cons everywhere.
As a Brit, I'm kind of choking back tears listening to this.
This is genuinely heartbreaking.
Im horrified about the fact that shootings are so common that a mother has to buy clothes based on someone starting to shoot children. And the thought of thinking first about the cost of an ambulance instead of your health...its just sad.
I’m starting my senior year in high school. Over the course of my schooling, I’ve had more lockdowns(soft and hard) than I can count and a few shooting threats. During some of them the teachers would just continue teaching but quietly. We have quarterly drills for various scenarios like fires, shooters, and bomb threats. My school has a locked gate around it. Multiple school shootings have occurred recently in my state. I go to what is considered a good school. This is all considered normal. I didn’t even realize until recently that other countries don’t have this. And people still want their guns. Even people I’m friends with who are aware of it being abnormal just kind of shrug it off because what can we do when half of the population would die to keep a gun on them.
@@allisonroggen7773 honestly tho. I’m so glad my youngest sister just graduated high school since I don’t have to worry about that anymore (but then there’s still college, unfortunately😕). And I can relate to the teachers still teaching - my class was literally watching a movie during lockdown, while one of my sisters had to keep playing her trumpet with everyone else in the band room😑
@@allisonroggen7773 OMG that sounds horrible, my heart goes to you the only thing I experienced was a "bomb thread" in my country kids will pull this prank to get away from school and even then it isn't that traumatic event, even then it's very uncommon that this happens.
@@allisonroggen7773 russia has school shootings
We have 5 year olds do school shooting drills
Never questioned it until I realised......
Our laws actually protect anyone who is trying to do CPR or save someone.
If you break a rib by doing CPR or you accidentally do something wrong while trying to save someone in life's danger you're protected by law of anyone trying to sue you because you were trying to help.
On the other hand, not calling for help and denying help ( unless there's risk to yourself) is a crime.
Edit: I think this law applies to all EU countries.
I’m actually puzzled by that person’s training because it’s not accurate. In the US, we have Good Samaritan Laws that protect people attempting to offer help. There’s no liability to performing CPR.
@@deltaflute03 That's actually partly true. Anyone can sue you for that in the USA. That doesn't mean it will be successful, especially given the Good Samaritan Laws, but I think the point is that the mindset in the USA is generally geared towards suing. And, if someone does decide to sue you, you may end up incurring legal expenses. People have been sued which is where I think the belief that this is required comes from. Also, different states draw the line of emergency care well, differently. Which means there are some caveats. That being said, I've been in a couple of situations where there were emergencies and I can tell you that being sued did not even cross my mind. I think most people either freeze or take action.
@@deltaflute03 if I remember correctly from law school in California if you attempt to save someone but you end up injuring them you can be successfully sued. I remember those classes on Good Samaritan Laws blowing all of our minds! We couldn’t believe it. I want to say the primary issue was whether the Good Samaritan does more than necessary and ends up hurting the person worse than if they didn’t get involved. But I’m not entirely sure. Torts is some messed up stuff in the sue happy state of Cali.
Also African countries....you can't get sued for that
I dont know what they are talking about. Most states have the same laws. They are called good samaritan laws. Not sure what state they are in but all 50 states have them. No one has ever been sewed successfully for helping. Unless the victim does not consent to help. If unconscious that is implied consent. Also if you do more harm them help you can be held liable.
I found the title of your video on a "react" video (ruining it of course) and it took me quite a while to find the original. It's very interesting.
I love how the answer is to always cry once realizing we’re different lol
Woman: I got into student debts in america and here in Ireland I don't pay even close to that amount.
*Me laughing in swedish cause I get paid to go to school*
Wait what? Why do ya'll get paid and how much? 😅
Stares in $50k student debt 😐
Excuse me,
*…What.*
Well you can take a student loan and you will obviously have to pay it back but the interest rate is like really low so it's not too bad.
But if you for example live at home you can simply get a student allowance from the state and it's around 345-400 us dollars if I'm converted it correctly (it's a bit more than 3000 swedish krona). It's not enough if you need some place to live but as I said, if you live at home and don't need to pay rent and stuff it could be enough, and you don't need to pay it back.
Also we don't have a tuition fee or anything like that either, it's all free, paid by taxes. We do have to pay for books which can be expensive but you can buy used books that are cheaper and many just skip the books completely, often you don't need them. 😅👍🏼
Oh and why we get the allowance I simply think it's cause the government want people to get higher education.
People who have kids get a contribution, sum of money for each kid per month (it's like 1800 sek or something). When the kid get's older and goes to high school it's the same sum but we change the name calling it student allowance and when you're at university you can apply for student allowance which is a bit more than 3000 sek as mentioned before.
Student loans are encouraged in Sweden, if there is one loan you should take it's this one cause the interest rate is so low to avoid students getting into student debt.
Here in Serbia (which most of Americans think as a 3rd world country) college is free if you have mediocre and above grades, which most ppl get anyway. And if your grades are high, you even get a stipend (not high but it will cover monthly food expenses for example). If your grades are bad and you have to pay for it, an average cost will be around 800 euros per year, that you will pay in 3 or 4 parts usually. I've literally never ever heard of college debt before learning about the American system.
I am from India, my dad used to work in America a few years back and he got really sick. We used to talk to him daily and he used to tell us that he couldn't afford to seek help. I remember asking him 'Why don't you go to a government hospital instead?' and he told me that they don't have government hospitals there. We were in such a bad position at that time. Eventually he had to leave his job and return to India.
For those of you who don't know... India has government healthcare infrastructure where anybody can seek medical help for free or very cheap... its mostly for the people who cannot afford to go to a private hospital. And the audacity of America to lecture us on human rights!
There are university hospitals that treat for free. Or you can go to the clinic/ hospital office and say that you can’t pay you bill.
Look. Nobody goes Untreated in the United States of America. All of you people have lost your minds. Let me Repeat anyone and everyone will be treated in the United States Nobody is ever turned away.
Lecture you on human rights? Bruh, most of us don’t even know our human rights.
@@donnycooke56 and when you are,you are either put into debt or slave away with your under minimum paying job to be able to pay for it,shut up
As an American, for me, I am a little surprised at how much of these were about shootings and guns. I never had to deal with that fear much growing up. In Colorado, we had a few lock down drills here and there maybe a couple times a year, but it was never a big deal/ threat in my mind. I guess I grew up in a good community in Denver. But i can see a lot of the points being made about guns. It is an interesting conflict - between not having another unchecked government with absolute power like Britain had over its people before America began. Or like Germany and Hitler had for that matter, who disarmed all of its people. Or if you live out on farmland in the middle of nowhere, there are wild animals like bears that could attack your children. But wouldn't it be nice if not just anyone could have the ability to get guns? Each state is more like its own country. Each state has its own laws, and each of them has different issues because according to the constitution, each state has the authority to override federal laws, as it so chooses. (that can affect the state's funding and protection provided by the government, but it is totally constitutional.) All of the clips that were about not wanting to get fired, the vacation time, sick days, working ourselves "to the bone", debt, and the last one, about talking about not bothering other people with our problems, was very eye opening and good to hear other people talk about those same struggles. In relation to all of this, my sister lives in Haiti as a missionary, and while I was there visiting her, I asked a Haitian staying with her if he would ever consider moving to the United States. He is married to an Asian-American, so he actually has the real potential to get there. The Haitian government often won't hand out passports to their own citizens because they know they probably will not come back. He told me no because all we do in America is pay bills. That is coming from a 3rd world country where school is not free, political corruption runs deep, riots happen somewhat often, thievery is very common, and there is trash everywhere. It is very poor. A lot of them actually would LOVE to come to America. But there are still plenty of them that would rather stay there. Then take a look at all of the illegal border crossings that people from Mexico risk their lives to do so. America isn't all bad. But it definitely has some very deep grooves that have been worn into its people that don't value the people correctly. My brother once said that America is about individual success. It's much less community oriented than other countries. We are very materially blessed in America, but we pay for that in other ways such as our relationships and our health. It was good to hear a discussion about this. Thanks for the video!
Bless the woman talking about buying light up shoes for her son in Portugal ✨☺️
What exactly is the American dream that people in other countries crave for?
Thé movies my dear use to make people dream of having the American dream but with the internet that Lie is being exposed.
@Alien Wanderer not every country outside of America is a 3rd world country. Plenty of mass shootings here to level the playing field.
Jajaja you don’t even know that America is a continent not a country
@@adanjara9582 am pretty sure USA is a country. Go back to school
Jajaja I know USA IS a country. America is a continent.
I started crying watching this, I’m lower class American in a really expensive city, I’m severely ill and the thought that healthcare could be free or I could get an ambulance without worrying about my mom going into debt
Edit: because everyone is saying “move” no I can’t I’m a minor I do not get a say in that
I wish you all the best! Praying for you 🙏🏽
Yep and the crazy part is that we used to have something like that here in the US until Nixon took it away
@@LadyPinkster Nixon gave us a small taste of socialized healthcare. Because of Nixon, anyone who needs dialysis can get it for free. Idk what you are talking about...
@jhon.maycor j huh I’m confused
Well migrate to the United Kingdom
I am studying a medical field in university in Germany and we just talked about international health care systems. It is really astounding how weird the US-system is. I am honestly sorry for u guys
What’s astounding is that I don’t remember EVER learning about healthcare systems in other countries.
You guys learn about other countries?
@@danicleckley5404 Bro America purposely doesn’t teach about other countries to keep the “Greatest country” notion alive. If the American people really knew people all over lived well it would kill The “American Dream”.
@@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman I guess that is the truth
@@monica_zielinski and healthcare systems in ALL other countries are way worse then US healthcare with everything except prices
The CPR story really made me LOL
As an American, I speak for all Americans when I say welcome to the shitshow
wait, Im confused. Im in a developing country and my family status is between poor and middle-class(according to my country's statistics), 4 kids in the house, never had school debt or never worried about heath finances. What's happening to US?
Where you from? Cuz..😯
Maybe America is an undeveloping country lol. Mainly Americans think America is great, a few other people around the world believe that lie
Capitalism in essential things
@@farout4708 undeveloping country is honestly the best term I’ve heard to describe the US
Fascist Corporate Oligarchy
I took a friend to a health clinic in Canada. When she was done I was confused, and asked the nurse where we were supposed to pay. Everyone looked at me like I was crazy. “Why would she pay?” The nurse finally said.
Well that really does a number on your mind.
My grandpa got a pacemaker for his heart and lived and extra 20 or so years, and wasn't in debt for the rest of his life. It was free 🤯
ITS ACTUALLY FREE?!
@@liagamer4265 Yup. I've been to the hospital and emergency room a few times (overnight and multiple day stays) as well as to walk-in clinics numerous times. Zero charges.
You pay to go to a clinic?
“It’s amazing when people don’t politicize a virus.” That one. That one right there.
When your population is compliant to a point of suffocating who needs to? Seriously the fact that she's bragging about people being complaint is embarrassing
@@jesusisdead Name one person who suffocated by wearing a mask bro. Go ahead.
@@Affluent-Ghetto-Blackman my mother and every person who has asthma. Its called reduced oxygen in most cases. After 30 minutes the body becomes depleted to about 89 in my case. You don't just drop dead like you are putting a bag on your head. Bro
8:53 yesss! Finally someone understands!
I've talked about this and usually people don't get it and they get mad at me
Man even as a Canadian, most of these stories are wild to me. Y'all living in hard mode
why I'm moving there at 18
@@the_sky_is_blue_and_so_am_I rent is going crazy though so make sure you have good funds
ok thank you
Programming like our left will bring the struggle to you very soon tbh. Good luck though, hope I'm wrong, but we weren't like this until they forced their policies.
Not really. I started with nothing and am now doing very well. It takes hard work, taking risks, sometimes failing and starting again, telling yourself no when it comes to getting in debt and working hard.
Many of these kids have just stopped nursing off their parents. Many are entitled believing they should have a 500k house, 2 cars, a vacation home and jobs offering 150k a year for a college degree that is overstaurated. Add to that the person holding it has zero experience and now a ton of debt. Because they decided to pull massive amounts of loan to go to their preferred college.
Not saying changes need to be made sure anything can be improved. But asking the government to do it is not the right way. They can't even run the postal service.
Stop hoping the government will fix it for you by giving you "free" stuff and go make it happen. That is the American way.
Things are SOOO broken in the U.S., and selfishness and GREED has destroyed all what made America charitable and good.
When was America ever charitable and good?
@@deviantmoore9744 right….. this place is crazy and ass backwards
Baby Boomers made it worse.
Americans are quick to agree that America is terrible but when we actually state what’s horrible about it there’s so many that starts aggressively defending it.
@@Ayurveduh then leave lol
Americans: All these Europeans wanting to come to our country, to start a better life and follow their dreams.
Europeans: Oh, those poor Americans, no health care, little in workers rights, wow they must really struggle.
15:34. "There are homes in America who have seen more guns enter them than a fresh vegetable."
Wow. That comment will never leave me.
Surprising how many non-Americans have been saying this for years, but America never learns
Trust me. Gen Z and millennials know. It’s everyone else that’s been brainwashed by the government.
@@marilynmorgan7704 gen z is the main ones brainwashed by the government
@@marilynmorgan7704 Most people of Gen z actually know that the US isn't that good of a country.
We know don't worry
I know we're idiots haha
We know. But, we didn’t know at first. When you find out you to far in and just have to pretend I fine, when you not really fine.
I’m currently looking for a way out, too.
I’m a blk woman and I am in constant fear in America.
Just feel being blk I don’t have many options aboard.
Many opportunities but, the health care, lack of gun control, flat out no concern for the mistreatment of minorities and the slowly taking of our freedoms like vaccine mandates and abortion laws got me wanting out.
Don’t get me started on the public school system and expensive ass colleges.
As a European hearing these things is horrifying! The American "normal" is as far from normal as I've ever heard 😢
These teenagers are a bit dramatic
@@sherrir2531 So you think they lie...?
@@whyparkjiminnotridejimin as an American woman I’ve been here my whole life yes they are being very very dramatic and attention seeking
@@noortaher5586 Oh okay that might be. It's different in Europe I guess.
@@sherrir2531 I'm an American teen and I've had like 2 school shooting threats (in elementary and high school)
My step dad is the only one in our family that can have a job and his cancer bills take up all the money (not saying it's his fault, it's the government's)
So we can barely afford food, bills, clothes, anything
They are definitely not being dramatic
(All my friends have similar problems)
Well, that was informative. Thanks! :D
I already commented but now I’m curious, what are your guys’, outside of America, taxes like? I know here we get are taxed before we get paid, healthcare, groceries, owning pets, etc. but is that different in other places?
We lived in Germany for four-years and I will never forget when returning to the states in 2003, it was a complete culture shock. It was terrifying. Bright lights, 24-hour television, constantly on the run... In Germany, pretty much everything shut down on the weekends at 1:00 pm in the small town where we lived. Kids would play outside without being yelled at; we would walk or ride our bikes to the grocery store with a basket; and we would interact with friends every single day. Here, everyone is always so busy doing absolutely nothing, we've become disconnected as a society.
“Busy doing absolutely nothing” so true
This is so true and sad
I absolutely agree!
Omg yes, "we've become busy doing absolutely NOTHING!!!" That sums it up perfectly!!!! I'm really happy that more and more people are waking up to this!!! It's awful when I think about how much time I've wasted on trivial bs!!! Now I go outside and just putz in my garden, try to not plan my son's life every second! Just to have to "plan" time to do nothing says it all.
@@Irishjay-gu5pb Absolutely...sometimes we have to just take a moment and...breathe 😌
I fly to Europe for medical stuff. I get the highest quality care and all the trip expenses including living and fun is a fraction of a cost of just the medical bill in US
@@marypalmer00 Yeah well, maybe if the US had a culture of prevention, and did more exercise and stopped eating junk food they would have a higher chance of preventing a stroke.
Most of us wish we could afford the flight...
@@Ryosuke1208 It would be amazing if the working poor could afford healthy food. I’ve had $10 to last the weekend for food since my employer missed pay day. I lived on cereal that weekend. Later, when I could afford to eat healthier, my grocery budget doubled just from replacing junk food with fruits, veggies, and meat.
@@UnicornsPoopRainbows Honestly this is crazy to me. Where I live junk food and ready made meals are really expensive, but raw ingredients are cheaper. There's so much backwards in the US, it's sad
In Ireland, we have medical cards. If you have one, pretty much everything essential is covered. When I broke my arm, everything was free. Doctor visits, completely free, medicine and prescriptions, either free or don't cost more than €4. I'd never move out of Europe
I'm in a facebook group for people with a rare medical condition called calciphlaxis my mom had and recovered from in Canada. It breaks my heart constantly reading posts from Americans that waited MONTHS till they had painful oozing wounds on their body to go to a doctor from not affording co pays. In the end also many being mis-diagnosed or told by their insurance that they are not covered for a specialist that knows how to treat this. This condition worsens fast. The hoops they make people jump through with insurance companies and then in some cases still being denied a treatment that many feel is working for them, cause it is not within their plan cap is devastating. We still have to pay for some things in Canada like dental and prescriptions (and that even has some options through private insurance or work plans or government plan after a deductible). However, with all the medical issues both my parents went through in the last few years of their lives, with both on dialysis and my dad having cancer and my mom with calciphylaxis at one point, I am quite sure in the states they would have ended up dying sooner or ended up much poorer from care not covered.
Such a sad thing in the U.S. that we have a common worry about medical bills. It's incredible how college and medical necessities are so crippling in the states. I'll also state I'm from the U.S. and moving to Hawaii it was prolific that we can get free dental extractions covered by healthcare. That doesn't happen usually. And yes in the U.S. we often think loud bangs are gunshots. I think more need to address that many Americans have PTSD about violence.
That's unfettered CAPATALISM for you..
I'm from Germany and had an American flat mate a few years ago. His family always feared for his safety here, but he actually never felt safer in his life. The American mindset is so fucked up and most of them don't even have a clue about other countries, they think the US is the best, when in fact, it's a 3rd world country.
I can’t shake my scared mentality either. We’ve been conditioned to think America is the safest place to be, so when my family and I even consider traveling abroad, we’re terrified of terrorism and crime in other countries without considering what the US is like. Granted my area is comparably safe compared to the rest of the US so many cities seem more intimidating regardless of country, but I still can’t shake being scared of traveling to other countries even though they’re not even that bad. For example, I’m planning on studying abroad in England and we’re paranoid about the terrorism.
Every country have these people called kidnappers and murders, so his family was right to be worried 🙄😒
@@lilcomment1946 we don't have shooting accident.. because gun or weapon is illegal here..if police knew u own gun.. u got arrested (even u paid for it) yes we can purchase but not easy we must have license.. similar to car license..we have to learn to shot and safety.
When I found out that German cashiers get to sit down at their registers and American cashiers have to stand up for 8+ hours, I cried like a baby
A lot of us still think germans are nazis when there's more of them here then the rest of the world-
Damn...we are all so brainwashed here in America. I believed for longer than I would like to admit, that we were the best country to live in. Now as an adult, I'm definitely rethinking things....
Oh I have said multiple times that I am considering moving to a different country.
Seriously, I wish I could move to Nigeria or something. Because America is proving everyday that it is not worth existing.😑
Yeah, no shit! I live in the UK and yes the NHS can be insane but it's saved my life when I needed a blood transfusion and my son when he had to go the NICU. We walked out the hospital not spending a penny.
@@obsidianbeau4087 - you sound Nigerian
Not to be rude but Why don't u just leave?
As someone born in 1990, active shooter drills and threats made to schools is STILL something that I’m coming to grips with.
The only time we heard about a school shooting on a mass scale was Columbine and that was THE most talked about thing regarding schools for YEARS.
At the time it was just a horrible one-time tragedy we thought we’d never have to encounter again. Little did we know…
How about this one: People from the USA are about the only ones who call their country "America" and "Americans" themselves.
The mum with the light up shoes broke my heart. Not being able to get them so her child isn't more of a target to get shot whilst at school is insane. Jesus, that seriously broke my heart.
That's on her false fear most of these people have no idea what the real problem is, and neither do I.
I think that is how she internalized it. I am about 2 hours from Chicago and I know quite a lot of kids with the light up shoes when i worked in a preschool.
I was checking the comments to see if anyone else heard this one.. I never have and my boys have light up shoes currently
@@thisisaname4409 I never have and was raised in the States.
I don’t even understand her mind to be able to have that in there to turn down a child for a pair of SHOES 😭😭😭🤦🏻♂️🤦🏻♂️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥴🥴🥴🥴
My mom moved to NZ when she was 30 and the first thing she remembered being floored by was her dad having a heart attack and her boss and coworkers being worried for her and asking if she needed the day off
Hello from NZ!! 👋
Is he doing fine now?
is he okay?
...and that's not normal in the USA? Sad :(
My mother's friend from work asks her every now and then about my rabbit's health, and that's normal!
When I was a teenage girl I thought that USA is the best place to live but now...not so much. Poland isn't perfect but is better than that...
@@E.S.K. Poland is indeed miles oh wait I meant kilometers ahead of the US!
Wow… this video has made me realize how on edge I am when I go out anywhere… I am always looking for more than one way out, wherever I go, just in case something goes down… which is the reason why I refuse to live in a court street. Dag, America has made me paranoid, and from the looks of it, I’m not the only one 😵