You are in morning of a marriage that was so pose to be a lifetime partner ♥ Having your beautiful babies your unexpectedly of the corse to change in a different way ❣ weighing heavy in your ♥ change is hard and self discovery is a lifetime JOURNEY ❣ Your faith is strong you have your lord and savior I will pray for strength and guidance I too went through a divorce keep doing YOU ❣Everything else will fall into place 🫶🤩 journal 📝 it’s helps do your walks it helps make your favorite meals it helps decorating your home it helps cause your beautiful children too will enjoy all of it and remember HOW you showed your strength while your heart ♥ is broken 🫶♥ you got this time will heal ❣🤩
Hi whatcha up to hope all is well sending up prayers 4 healing and unspoken and 4 everyone and bless great healthy peaceful safe journeys travels recovery and happy day everyday in name of the Creator God/ Yahweh and Yeshua/ Jesus and the Holy Ghost/ Spirit Amen much honor and respect keep praying keep watching the sky and keep walking tall always hugs also wow u r talented wow u did great awesome job on ur rudy reindeer wow it's great job u should make them amd sale them also u can make few bald eagles too hugs keep on keeping on pushing forward one step at a time and sending u love and smile 🕊🦅✝️💪🙂👍👍 🚌🌅🌌⛺🌄🏞🏖
Maybe you are not grieving a death, but you are grieving the life you thought you were going to have with who you thought was your forever person. That is definitely something to grieve and shouldn’t be minimized. Thank you for sharing. Thinking of you and wishing the best ❤
My ex and I divorced 11 years ago. Last month we lost our 19 year old (middle) son. I can tell you the feelings are almost identical. Grief is grief. The loss of my son hit me in ways I never knew was possible and I don’t know how to continue breathing in this pain. I may have to try camping in my SUV just to get out and away from time to time because of your videos. You make it look fun.
Omg!! Im so sorry for your loss!!! I can only imagine the pain that you are dealing with right now! Please try it and see if it helps, it makes a difference to get out even for a day or a weekend! Please come back and let me know how things are going for you! I thank you so much for sharing this with me❤️ God bless you!
I think grief is like waves. Sometimes you stand and think you are fine, and then along comes a wave that knocks you down again. It is totally understandable.
Rochelle, it's been a yr. and u have come a long way. Ur a better Mom, homemaker, crafter, a vanlifer with it as your happy place to refesh & renew your spirit. Use it as needed. You are not alone. ❤🙏 & we, your youtube family. So straighten your crown & know you are a daughter of the King. U CAN DO all things through Christ 🙏that strengthens you. Amen
When you mentioned opening an etsy shop: I was like YES! You are so gifted and Rudy turned out so adorable. I would buy him. And the idea to make Christmas presents for the kids is great, something they can hold on to for a very long time, that their mom made. Not to mention how therapeutic it is to make something yourself and be in that head space. Thank You for Sharing your vulnerability....because its so relatable. I am also dealing with the end of a relationship that has defined me for over 15 years but more so, the struggle to move on in the most self-sustaining and reassuring way. What I feel sometimes is depression, then I scold myself that I can't call it that because there are others who are truly suffering from an illness. I think you are going through the natural process and all the stages of grief and you have to accept it all to be able to get out on the other side stronger and better than you ever were before. You are Not Alone!
Omg I say this same thing to myself all the time, "look at me over her sad, and others are dealing with "real" problems. But i have to tell myself that i am allowed to be sad and grieve over this. It's so hard and loneliness is suffocating at times. Thank you so much for sharing that with me!!! Thank you so much for your support ☺️ ❤️
Hi R.!!! I was married for 43 years. My dear husband ♡ passed away almost 10 years ago at 61 years old. I am still grieving.Its so.. hard to do things by myself...They say ...Time heals all wounds...but...I find that isn't true.Just missing my LOVE... Anyways Rudy is so...cute. I crochet but only basic. I can't follow a pattern. I'm sure crocheting is good for you to do. It relaxes me. Things will get better for you dear. Hey Rudy!!!... Take care and GOD Bless...Great Video!!!....🦋
May God continue to heal your loss. He always knows exactly what we need and when we need it. Stay strong sister and you are in my prayers as well as Rochelle.
Hi Diane! I'm so sorry for your loss!! Omg that's so sad! And i agree, it doesn't go away. You just learn how to deal and move on. But it's so hard! My heart goes out to you! ❤️🙏
Hi Rochelle! God’s got you! I pray for your strength. Don’t beat yourself up! You’ve got this! “This shall pass” ! I’ve learned that I cannot worry about things I can’t change. Stay in prayer! It will work. Keep your faith. Sometimes it’s not us! And what’s for you…..is for you! And I so love your new van buddy, Rudie! Your crocheting skills are #1! 🫶🏾🙏🏽🫶🏾🙏🏽🫶🏾🙏🏽🫶🏾🙏🏽
Remember self care is extremely important. No guilty complex. You cannot take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself. Do exactly what you’re doing. Get away. Nature is healing. Even if you cannot go far just go to a park. Thank you for sharing. I am divorced and remarried and it does feel like a huge loss. Keep praying and keep your faith. No time line for healing. Take your time and self care. Rudy is extremely adorable. Be blessed and take care.
I truly love your transparency. I'm 3 years divorced and I unfortunately still feel the way you feel. When I'm crafting, trauma of the divorce is not playing in my head. Divorce is s death of something you didn't think would end. I encourage you and myself to keep the things in your life that brings you peace. Don't do too much at one time. It may overwhelm you. OH!! I LOVE Rudy!! You did an amazing job.
I've been separated for 7 years and I'm just beginning to feel comfortable with the thought of ending my marriage. My crafting hobby is such a stress reliever and I'm so grateful to have that one thing that helps me so much. I wish you the very best Rochelle and Violet. Time really does heal all wounds. You will never forget but the pain will lessen. Sending you both lots of love from North Carolina ❤️ Sheri ❤️
This video reminds me of losing my first love, with billions of people on this planet, I thought that person was the only one that could make me happy...I was so wrong 😆
Thank you!!! Yes, when I'm crocheting, I'm thinking of nothing else, my mind literally gets to take a break! I'm so sorry to hear about your divorce!! We got this!! ❤️❤️
A Beautiful talented lady with Beautiful children … it’s always ok to take a break and time for healing never forget that . Wow if you did re open your Etsy shop your crochet blankets and animals etc would fly especially as we can see how special you are in your talents and care of how you craft such beautiful items ❤
Hey Rochelle I am sending you a sisterly hug and lots of love ❤ I was with my ex for 26 years married for 24. It took me a very long time (9 yrs) to be totally ok. There was a lot of bad things that I had to heal from and that took time and prayers. I had to learn to love me again it didn't happen overnight. Just take it minute by minute and step by step and you will begin to breathe again 🙏🏾
Thank you! I know that must've been so hard! And as I listen to all of these beautiful comments, im being reminded of the real true healing at the end! Thank you so much for sharing this with me☺️❤️
Hey Rudy. Rudy is spoiled... he has lights! Gr8 job on your buddy. Thanks for opening up about where you are emotionally. Healing comes in stages and it's okay to call a divorce a death; it's a death of a marriage. Grieving is real and I hope God wraps you in His Arms letting you know He is with you every step of the way. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You are very creative and talented. You definitely could do well selling knitted animals, that reindeer is precious. From one divorced woman to another, it does get better. We are strong because we have to be but we have to remember to show ourselves a little grace as well. ❤️
For what its worth, Married people have those same feelings. Just because someone is there doesn't mean they are there. Divorce can be like losing someone close and no married person have a plan B, however, you will eventually get over it, it just takes time. I found being more attentive to my faith and drawing or embracing the good in me through prayer, reading and crafts. Yes, some times you do have to escape the crowds and get into nature. I love to go fishing, sometimes in a canoe. Take your time, enjoy your children and continue to take time for yourself. it takes time to heal...
Hey, beautiful soul. I have been watching and loving your content for a while. I'm here with the intention of offering some encouraging words. A break up/divorce can be difficult, and taking time alone to reset, think, and go through all the emotions will definitely allow you to heal. Give yourself time to be angry, cry, but use positive words like I am healing, and this too shall pass. Also, know that people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When the negative thoughts start to creep in, take deep breaths, relax your mind, and meditate if you can, but please stop telling yourself you're not getting better because you are, actually. Talking about it to others or to yourself is healing. Take a weekend or week for yourself. You got this! And may the most high bless you with the strength and positivity you need to continue to heal. Love and Light ✨️🙏🏻🩷
Hey ! Had a great idea , maybe you and Mateo can do a van camping adventure together!! Cooking and exploring, it would be so awesome!!😊prayers for healing ❤🙏
It has been a year of griefing and time and going to a support group that understands help❤❤Give yourself a pat on the back, you are doing wonderful ❤❤
What's amazing is the fact that you recognize the feelings that are creeping up. Lean into each feeling and feel them deeply. In addition, ask God to give you a peace that surpasses ALL understanding, and He will. Divorce is like a death, but you will definitely come away from this healed and set free. ❤ It takes time, so don't be so hard on yourself. You can do ALL things...❤
Thank you so much Karen! I know if i don't lean into, it will remain festering. I know God is in control! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement ☺️❤️
When you feel overwhelmed, write down all the things you need to do and say a prayer and ask got to help you and he will. It happens to me and God helped me. Just one day at a time it won't be perfect but better hang in there.
I understand this feeling. I'm on a journey of healing from the absence of my father. He re-established a relationship with us before he passed, and it's been over 15 years since he passed. But I'm still feeling sooo much more emotion than I ever thought I had. It's ups and downs, and I'm documenting it on my channel. I'm so glad you have a place of peace and refuge in your van. I love seeing the way others process and heal in their own ways. All of our stories are so unique and beautiful.
I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad that you got to rekindle your relationship with your dad before he passed. I don't think that type of pain ever goes away fully, it seems as though we just have to learn how to live with it. And that's where I am on my journey! God bless you and I hope that you continue to stay strong❤️
I crochet with my left hand. I always have and I have taught a lot of people how to crochet. I set them in front of me and they see a right hand method. That’s as good as I can teach them quickly. I have taught people who never thought they could do this form of art. ❤❤❤
I, a righty, wz taught by a lefty how 2 crochet & in the 1st yr. I made 4 'Granny sq. size 7 inch blocks', baby blankets. I loved it & made many over 30yrs. My thx 2U and all teachers. U bring joy to many. RiParadise my Mrs. Shirley Hinkle
I had therapy and learned that I was in mourning. A death is so final and that’s how I felt after the loss of my 14 year marriage. We all grieve differently but it took me about 2 years to release my pain. It took my kids longer even though they hid it. Talk with your babies because they see mama’s pain. They will need to know you see theirs. No guilt, just live one day at a time.
Aww God bless you! Im so sorry you had to go through this as well. You're so right! I'm currently working through it all now, It's so crazy how these emotions hit you like this! Thank you so much for sharing this with me!
Thank you for your encouragement while going through a rough time. I am also in recovery mode from a break up. I good days and some difficult days but I trust the LORD will stay with me and continue to get me through the process of healing and moving forward. Enjoy your serenity and peace so that your children will benefit the awesomeness that you put forth on a daily basis 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
You be encouraged, you are not a failure, you have more going for yourself than you realize, do not blame yourself for any failure, don’t know your story, but if you think on those things, it should get better, your children will be up and moving to a different experience before you know it.
Hey Rochelle and Rudy. He's a cutie 💓 Grief in any shape can be and is tough. I lost my mom last Tuesday, so I can relate to losing someone, dear. I've also been down the divorce road as well, which does feel like a "death" sort of speak because you have to now live without someone. I'm now 54 years young as of Saturday and realized even more that life can be tough, but I'm also reminded that God gives his toughest battles to his toughest soldiers. That said, Rochelle, you are a smart, beautiful, and articulate young lady. Take all the time you need to grieve. Let no one tell you how to feel and give yourself more credit, sis! YOU GOT THIS SO KEEP GOING! 🙏🏾💪🏾🫶🏾 #keepyourheadup #HUGS
Aw Rena! I'm so sorry for your loss!! I will keep you in my prayers!! Thank you so much for sharing this with me! It's so encouraging! Happy belated birthday!!!! God bless you!! ❤️
OMG, Rudy is sooooo adorable!!!❤ You did an amazing job for a newbie to stuffed crocheted animals. Girl, Im sitting here crying right along with you because my depression for many reasons, has definitely kicked in today. Im sending you hugs because going thru a divorce is definitely the experience of a death. It's the death of your union with a person you once shared love and happiness with. Take your time healing and allow those tears to flow. It took me five years to not remember my divorce date. So please don't feel bad about getting emotional on the anniversary of your divorce. Also, thank you for sharing your emotion because it can definitely help someone else going thru the same thing. ❤ Yep, the book so far is good and relatable. 😊
Hey Marlee!! Thank you! Oh I hate that you're depressed!! You're so sweet and do soooo much! I pray that you would also receive peace and healing! I just want to make it to the end and be healed already, but I know that there's much that God wants to show me through this pain. So I will be patient and face it one day at a time! Thank you so much for always caring!! God bless you❤️
Rochelle, always remember that the difficult times we go through in life are simply put in our path to strengthen us and to teach us valuable lessons. You are beautiful inside and out. Keep your faith in our Lord and Savior. My brother went through a divorce a few years ago, and he told me that the only way to get over something is to go through it. You will go through many emotions and sometimes even struggle, but know that God is working all things for good. When you fall, He will carry you. You are never alone. I will include you in my prayers tonight. 🙏❤️
Thank you so much Sandy!! And this is so true! I'm struggling, BUT, I know that God has a plan for me! I know that he's with me and will get me through this!! Thank you so much for encouraging me❤️
Been there doing that….but less and less. The main thing that lingers for me is the uncertainty of the future(after divorce) and what that looks like financially and etc. but then I think of our awesome God who has never failed me. He’s always provided and still is taking care of me. It just looks different. Standing on our faith and trusting God is an adventure and that means we always have something to look forward too. Not always easy but he loves you and he’s got you!!! He’s in total control. Love you 😍 stay safe🙏🏽❤️☮️
I know he is, and I know he loves me! When i feel this deep sadness, I have to lean on his word! Sometimes, I feel like I can't make it if I don't! The uncertainty is so real! But I know that God has a plan to give me a hope and a future! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
@@SheCanDoAllThings you’re so welcome. Looking at this world can give us such a negative influence. So stay in his word to be influenced and reminded of what HE tells us.😊
I feel you completely. I’m two years (11/2/22) into the end of a toxic relationship and have used my van since it was completed to heal from that ex. I’m grieving the life I was working towards, not the person I left. I’m living it on my terms now and have to go out in nature or I feel it emotionally. Walking has helped too. I’m walking 10k steps a day and it helps with those strenuous hikes. Big hugs Rochelle. 🤗
Hey Annette!!! Im so glad you're finding peace!! That's so beautiful and inspirational!!! 10k steps a day!! Yes i love it!!! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
@ I really do love how mindful you are. That’s a step in the process of healing. Finding your peace and really allowing yourself the time to do what gives you joy. You’re doing it. 😊
First of all, a divorce has the same effect as a death. You are grieving a death of the relationship and what could have been. How I dealt with it was lots of prayer, being in the word, taking time to recharge myself by being alone( I am also an extreme introvert). You can’t run from the feelings and emotions, you have to deal with them, process them, and then let them go when healing starts. I’m praying for you!! Remember that after the rain comes the rainbow, your rainbow is coming. ❤❤🙏
That reindeer is adorable! ❤❤❤ Sending you hugs and it will get better, it just takes time. I am proud of you for speaking up about your grief and sharing your experience with others who are struggling right now. I have been through this very life change. Keep your focus on yourself and your beautiful children. Journaling helped me. I actually had two, one with details of what happened, my thoughts and emotions surrounding it. I burned each entry afterwards and to release it. The other was just to document the changes each day brought so I could reflect back later to see how far I came. Like worrying about how I would be able to make ends meet, buy all the essentials a household needs, etc. It was a scary time but I grew so much from it. I am thankful that you have crocheting as that has helped me with my anxiety. I started my UA-cam channel and put out my first short. I’m trying to gain confidence to sit post a video or go live and see what happens. Sending you lots of love and positivity, sis. You got this! And if you ever feel like all hope is lost, reach out for help. We truly care about you. Remember to listen to the kind, encouraging words that you say to us. Give yourself grace, grief comes and goes suddenly and unexpectedly.
Thank you so much for sharing this with me!!! God bless you for this comment!! Thank you for reaching out with love and support, and understanding! This truly encourages me! I love your Journaling idea, and burning it afterwards to release it❤️
The biggest part of healing for me at least was letting go. Letting go what happened and how and why. Once I stopped trying to rationalize all the hows and whys of the past I was able to move on with my future. You cant go foward holding on to the past. Be blessed
What an incredible talent! Rudy is so cute, and no one would guess you are a beginner (I think he's perfect!). And the pumpkins are adorable, plus, I'm sure they smell good. I have a friend here in QZ who makes these kinds of items and sells them at our local craft fairs; they're very popular. My heart goes out to you. I'm so glad that you've found the van to get away and get time to breathe and rest. Divorce is hard...any major life change is hard. Hell, some days life is just h-a-r-d! And you know, down the road, when you look back from a happy place and you've healed, the feelings you feel now may still be there. People think you "get over it", but love (or any major life change) isn't like that. You heal from the loss, you find happiness in your new circumstances, but it's not like the feelings just disappear. They evolve with us. I experienced feelings of loss and grief when my husband became disabled...as did he. Our life changed in ways neither of us wanted. We found ways to be happy in our new circumstances, but that doesn't mean we don't still grieve the loss of the life we were living and the future we planned. But we evolved with what we were given. There is something to be said for acceptance when that is your only option. Accept, evolve, grow, and keep moving forward. On a closing note...about van life. You know, a lot of the times when I watch van lifer vlogs, they're just going about their day to day life. Not so much traveling to new places and camping. This video could not have been more perfect if you'd driven hundreds of miles and parked in a forest. So, you van life at home in your cute little happy place and I'm there for it. :)
Oh how i love you Leanna!! You always have such wisdom and love in your comments! Thank you so much!!! That's exactly what I'm needing to, accept and grow! I'm glad that you have encouraged me as it relates to your own situation with your husband. I can easily see how much of a life change that has been for the both of you! Thank you so much for your strength! Yes! I don't always get to go far, But for me, it's just being outdoors in the van in the peace and quiet! I want other van lifers to know that you don't have to always go to the next big destination, especially if you just can't, but you can still find joy in it☺️❤️ Thank you Leanna!!
Hey Rochelle, take one day at a time. Enjoy life , take time for you . I use to feel so bad when I could not complete my tasks, but, now I get it done when I get to it. Take how much time its needed to get back to you. You did an excellent job on the Reindeer. Gurl live your life with this wonderful. Children.😊❤❤❤❤.
Good stuff! It’s ok not to be ok. There’s no time limit on recovery from divorce. You have to make yourself and your mental well-being a priority! And 2 ideas for you: Project Linus handmade blankets for children in need and Project Snuggles : blankets, and pillows for shelter animals. I find the best way to take your mind off your worries is to do something for someone else! Keep praying, we are blessed to be a blessing! ❤
I love to crotchet and knit, like all the time😊!. You did an amazing job with the reindeer. I've been crotcheting for about six years, but I've never made any stuffed animals. He's so cute! Great job!
Rudy has the sweetest face, you did a wonderful job with him! I love all the beautiful colors that you have surrounded yourself with in your van. What a wonderful haven you have created for yourself, a real healing place. May the Lord continue to heal you as you continue on with Him on your journey! Look forward to hearing from you again!
Rochelle, one last thing….we were just a package delivered to the wrong address! At least you have your beautiful children to hold on to! “One man’s trash……..is another man’s treasure! Please don’t close the door for someone else to love you! When it’s your time, it will be your time! You’re truly a beautiful soul! I hate to see you go through this difficult time right now. Everything happens for a reason. If it wasn’t a blessing, it damn sure was a lesson! Please pardon my French. 😘😘😘😘
Omg I love this!!! Yes you're so right!! It was definitely a lesson learned! Thank you! I'm trying my best not to close my heart off. Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
Thanks for being open about your feelings to the world. Sometimes when we talk about stuff going on in our lives, it’s better than keeping it all tucked away inside not knowing that it is not healthy. Whatever makes you happy, that is what you should do for you. Take care of yourself first, then everyone else comes after. I always use this scenario as an example, when you are on a flight, they tell you if there is an emergency, you put your oxygen mask on first , then your child or whom ever, because if you are not good, then they won’t be either 😊.
There are some good videos on how to do amigurami. Don’t worry about the frogging, everyone who crochets or even knits has had to frog more than one project. Just remember, stitch markers are your friend when making amigurami. Juan the yarn addict does left handed tutorials.
Hey Mildred!! Yes it really does, and I want to open and honest about it's affecting me! Hopefully it will help someone else out there as well! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
You’re not only dealing with a divorce but the trials and tribulations of motherhood, combining those things while still trying to maintain autonomy is very overwhelming… it was for me anyway 😅 there is a fine line between taking time out and escapism tho, so we must stay in balance… and we can even slip into escapism by trying to control things, wear too many hats and take on too many tasks, just so as to not actually feel or deal with our feelings… so taking breaks for yourself is good, being aware of your grief is good… getting out in nature is also grounding and it brings you back into balance… the depression never really goes away but it does get easier with time. You’re doing great and you’re a great mom 👍🏼 💕 ☯️
This is sooo true!!! Needing that time alone is great, but it can play as an escape as well and I've got to find a healthy balance, or I'll never find healing by dealing with it. Thank you so much for this beautiful input❤️❤️❤️❤️
Praying for you daily.. You are never alone God is leading you to a path of peace. My son is going through the same thing his wife walked out in August and filed two days later and moved in with her boyfriend. Selfcare is so very important. Hugggzzzzz
I understand what you mean about grief and depression. I personally don’t think we ever get over some things in life, but we evolve. The pain will eventually become more tolerable and less frequent. I am glad you found a place to help you rejuvenate and recover. I really admire your thoughtfulness, honesty, and creativity! Rudy is so adorable! That doesn’t look like beginner work to me!
You did a great job on your deer 🦌. I have a client who pays big money for Animal Xing crochets ordered from overseas. Thank you for your encouragement. I needed that.
Being ok is something we always want. Unfortunately sometimes we not. No explanation needed. Life just isn't easy. However we here to listen. 😊and support.
Hey there momma I know where you are coming from. Divorced after being married 22 years. Just remember when you get down or sad...it will get better. One step at a time, and you will eventually get to where you want to be. That's all you can do. That's all anyone can do. And lexapro helps me alot with the worry. It's exactly what I needed. As mothers we are worriers and thinkers...for me it took all that away. Keep your head up one step at a time.
Hey Rochelle, I love Rudy that is going to be a great for your van life for the upcoming fall and winter season. When me and my ex broke up in February this year. I know that feeling and I have my ups and downs, and it was toughness journey I took. One thing I learn is to read great books that's going up lift you and keep you going to keep your spirit balance. You got a great community with a love and support here trust and believe you going see a bigger and better light. God don't make no mistake there is a reason he is showing you the path for that reason remember that. Stay blessed let's all be strong and pray for one and other who might go through this as well. Peace from the Doctor.
Hey!! Thank you so much!! Im so sorry that you have gone through this, I pray that you are healing well! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement 🙏 ❤️
It sounds like the van life camping is a found treasure for you. I am so glad for you. You are in my prayers. I have been through divorce and it is very hard to get past and it takes time to heal. Be patient with yourself. Thank you for sharing with us. It means a lot to me personally to have you as a friend 🙏😇🩷🧡
Hey girl I hope you have a great time on your weekend with Rudy , I must confess I am so envious I would so love to be able to get away to a quiet place for a bit !! I live in an apartment alone but what you got going on is fabulous !!! Divorce is not ever easy we just have to take it as it comes and know that God is there to help us when we need him !!!🙏🙏🤟🙏🙏
Hello, Rochelle! I always enjoy your videos and they are very inspiring for me. Please be patient with yourself! You are a wonderful person and a super wonderful Mom! I look forward to your content....and Rudy is such a cutie!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Holy wow, you made that??! It's adorable!! I don't have the attention span to crochet, I've tried before. That lil deer is so cuteeee. Even the pumpkins are hecka cute! As for the divorce. I agree. My divorce was my choice, but I still find myself waiting, wanting him to call so we can chat or work something out but I also know I don't really want that. I want to move on with my life and be free. I wasn't happy. I know the feeling will eventually ease and time will help things get easier. For me it's only been 3 months. The divorce was in the works since early in the year. I knew my ex for almost 10 years so just not having him as part of my life is very weird. I've also had to remind myself, the guy's not dead, we just went separate ways, but it does honestly feel like mourning. I'm hoping once our house sells that our final connection will be broken and I can work on me, myself, and I.. and my dog of course. heh Keep taking care of you and finding your time. Eventually, time will catch up and things will be a lot easier, you will find a new you that is just for you and be happy.
Oh how i know how you're feeling right now!! Those are my exact thoughts!! We will get through this!! I've known my ex since I was 14yrs old. It's definitely feeling like a death! Thank you so much for sharing this with me!! It makes me feel less alone!! ❤️❤️
Sis we love you right back, thank you for being vulnerable, it makes us that are going through things feel better about the struggles of life. Also the meal looked great and your new van life Bud is so stinking cute!! I can't wait for your etsy, I'll get one for each of my babies!!
Grieving is hard and around the date of the grief is even worse November and December is my hardest time of the year for my grief I understand your feelings sending lots of hugs and love in this season ❤❤❤❤
Hi Rochelle. You are so inspiring! I appreciate you sharing your emotions. I really enjoy your crochet projects. I've also been making things I've never crocheted before. I too haven't gotten too far into the book, but you sharing how it relates to you makes me want to set aside some time to go further than the few pages that I've read.
Aww thank you!! Yes the book so far is exciting, because I hardly ever see myself in a character like this!! Thank you for being a part of the book club!! ☺️❤️
I’m left handed and learning to crochet too, I’d love to see how to’s from you if you post them!! I’m excited to see what else you create though too. And Rudy is so cute!!! 🙏🏻💖
Cool 🦌 Absolutely Cool‼️.. Never would have guessed you were a beginner making animals👏🏾.. Camping 🦌.. Perfect ‼️You are never alone.. Just reach out.. We've gotcha 🙂.. Take Care Mrs. Conqueror 🙏🏾🤎🙂
Rudy is so cute. I am happy for you. I used to do a lot of that when I was younger, but I have carpal tunnel and arthritis. It just doesn't feel good after I do it but it's so relaxing to do something like that and very fulfilling. From Becky and Cali
@ how are you this morning? Are you working on your crafts? It's 1 o'clock in the afternoon and I got up realized I was still tired and went back to sleep. My sleep schedule's been off since February. Well, I'm praying for you that God will reveal himself to you every day at a much deeper level. He wants all of our pain and suffering he just says get handed over to him and I think good thing to do is have a true trust in friends and family to guide you through. Everyone goes through sad times hard times and God says this will pass. I'm praying for both of us that our pain will pass and we will have complete total healing and restoration people need to hear your story whether it's a buy a book a speech your channel God will help it to perfection just lead into him and look every day at what should be grateful for I can only speak for myself. I have a grateful journal, but sometimes I forget to be grateful. That kind of puts your life into perspective. I pray that God brings many intercessors. They don't even know you that will pray for you on a daily basis indulging yourself every day with whatever makes you happy a walk, exercise your crafts just playing with your kids. You can start with simple things and then go for bigger things. I plan on taking my grandkids sometime soon to Knotts Berry Farm, and amusement park in California when I was a child we would go there a lot. It's cheaper than Disneyland for sure. I pray God gives me the stamina to do so that my kids have been in the house for five years, taking care of my husband sheltering in place during Covid it's time to get out and enjoy life. We only have one so I'm 70 so I better get busy. I can't wait to see your next video. I'm sure you'll be feeling a lot better. God bless you and keep you let his face shine upon you and give you his peace. His shalom. You can text me anytime you need to talk.
I have grieved the list of my foster sons after 2 years, my life after getting stabbed. I totally get it and I will be praying for you. I just got a van so you inspire me❤
Congratulations on the Van!! That's awesome!!! Grief is one of the hardest emotions to deal with, it's one that you can hide and burry! It will always find it's way back to the surface, so I'm trying my best to just go through it, so that my healing can begin! Thank you so much for sharing this with me☺️❤️☺️❤️
Rochelle if that van helps you to cope, by all means use it!! Just please be very careful and watch your surroundings with everything going on with this election! I love your buddy Rudy, you did a great job and you’re not a failure at all! You are strong, beautiful, smart, talented, and a wonderful mother!! You named your channel “she can do all things”for a reason! Because, you can! Love you and I’m praying for you!❤️❤️❤️
Hey Guys!!! Thank you all for joining me for another one!!! Please comment below and give this a huge thumbs up!! I appreciate all of your support ❤
You are in morning of a marriage that was so pose to be a lifetime partner ♥ Having your beautiful babies your unexpectedly of the corse to change in a different way ❣ weighing heavy in your ♥ change is hard and self discovery is a lifetime JOURNEY ❣ Your faith is strong you have your lord and savior I will pray for strength and guidance I too went through a divorce keep doing YOU ❣Everything else will fall into place 🫶🤩 journal 📝 it’s helps do your walks it helps make your favorite meals it helps decorating your home it helps cause your beautiful children too will enjoy all of it and remember HOW you showed your strength while your heart ♥ is broken 🫶♥ you got this time will heal ❣🤩
Thank you so much Gracie!!!! I needed to hear this❤️❤️❤️❤️
Hi whatcha up to hope all is well sending up prayers 4 healing and unspoken and 4 everyone and bless great healthy peaceful safe journeys travels recovery and happy day everyday in name of the Creator God/ Yahweh and Yeshua/ Jesus and the Holy Ghost/ Spirit Amen much honor and respect keep praying keep watching the sky and keep walking tall always hugs also wow u r talented wow u did great awesome job on ur rudy reindeer wow it's great job u should make them amd sale them also u can make few bald eagles too hugs keep on keeping on pushing forward one step at a time and sending u love and smile
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Very talented ❤.
@cat58732 thank you 😊
Maybe you are not grieving a death, but you are grieving the life you thought you were going to have with who you thought was your forever person. That is definitely something to grieve and shouldn’t be minimized. Thank you for sharing. Thinking of you and wishing the best ❤
I can so understand 😢hugs!
This is soooo true! That's honestly probably the hardest part!
Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
My ex and I divorced 11 years ago. Last month we lost our 19 year old (middle) son. I can tell you the feelings are almost identical. Grief is grief. The loss of my son hit me in ways I never knew was possible and I don’t know how to continue breathing in this pain. I may have to try camping in my SUV just to get out and away from time to time because of your videos. You make it look fun.
Omg!! Im so sorry for your loss!!! I can only imagine the pain that you are dealing with right now! Please try it and see if it helps, it makes a difference to get out even for a day or a weekend! Please come back and let me know how things are going for you! I thank you so much for sharing this with me❤️ God bless you!
I’m very sorry for your loss!
@@darfar4046 thank you. It’s been a very hard month.
I am so sorry for your loss
@@FlightLifeBudgets I’m so sorry for your loss.
P.S. Next time you and Mateo are together, we're gonna need a cooking video of the two of you.
Awwwwww.... I missed it!!
Rudy is so adorable! You are NOT a beginner crochet Ma’am 😂
😆 I try!! I did learn a lot by making him though!❤️
I think grief is like waves. Sometimes you stand and think you are fine, and then along comes a wave that knocks you down again. It is totally understandable.
Yes! This is so true Wendy! It can be very deceiving as well! Thank you so much for your support ☺️❤️
Rochelle, it's been a yr. and u have come a long way. Ur a better Mom, homemaker, crafter, a vanlifer with it as your happy place to refesh & renew your spirit. Use it as needed. You are not alone. ❤🙏 & we, your youtube family. So straighten your crown & know you are a daughter of the King. U CAN DO all things through Christ 🙏that strengthens you. Amen
I love this!!!! Thank you so much for this encouragement ❤️🙏☺️👏👏👏
When you mentioned opening an etsy shop: I was like YES! You are so gifted and Rudy turned out so adorable. I would buy him. And the idea to make Christmas presents for the kids is great, something they can hold on to for a very long time, that their mom made. Not to mention how therapeutic it is to make something yourself and be in that head space.
Thank You for Sharing your vulnerability....because its so relatable. I am also dealing with the end of a relationship that has defined me for over 15 years but more so, the struggle to move on in the most self-sustaining and reassuring way. What I feel sometimes is depression, then I scold myself that I can't call it that because there are others who are truly suffering from an illness. I think you are going through the natural process and all the stages of grief and you have to accept it all to be able to get out on the other side stronger and better than you ever were before. You are Not Alone!
Omg I say this same thing to myself all the time, "look at me over her sad, and others are dealing with "real" problems. But i have to tell myself that i am allowed to be sad and grieve over this. It's so hard and loneliness is suffocating at times.
Thank you so much for sharing that with me!!!
Thank you so much for your support ☺️ ❤️
Rudy is perfection, you would never know that it was difficult making him, he came out perfect.
Thank you Cynthia ☺️
Omg!!! You did an excellent job…That looks like a professional crocheted that…Wow!!! Welcome to our world Rudy!!!👠🚌👠
Thank you! 😊
Hi R.!!! I was married for 43 years. My dear husband ♡ passed away almost 10 years ago at 61 years old. I am still grieving.Its so..
hard to do things by myself...They say ...Time heals all wounds...but...I find that isn't true.Just missing my LOVE... Anyways Rudy is so...cute. I crochet but only basic. I can't follow a pattern. I'm sure crocheting is good for you to do. It relaxes me. Things will get better for you dear. Hey Rudy!!!... Take care and GOD Bless...Great Video!!!....🦋
May God continue to heal your loss. He always knows exactly what we need and when we need it. Stay strong sister and you are in my prayers as well as Rochelle.
Hi Diane! I'm so sorry for your loss!! Omg that's so sad! And i agree, it doesn't go away. You just learn how to deal and move on. But it's so hard! My heart goes out to you! ❤️🙏
I’m so sorry for your loss!
Hi Rochelle! God’s got you! I pray for your strength. Don’t beat yourself up! You’ve got this! “This shall pass” ! I’ve learned that I cannot worry about things I can’t change. Stay in prayer! It will work. Keep your faith. Sometimes it’s not us! And what’s for you…..is for you! And I so love your new van buddy, Rudie! Your crocheting skills are #1! 🫶🏾🙏🏽🫶🏾🙏🏽🫶🏾🙏🏽🫶🏾🙏🏽
Amen!
Yes!!! Amen! This is so true!! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement 🙏 ❤️ 😊
Remember self care is extremely important. No guilty complex. You cannot take care of others if you don’t take care of yourself. Do exactly what you’re doing. Get away. Nature is healing. Even if you cannot go far just go to a park. Thank you for sharing. I am divorced and remarried and it does feel like a huge loss. Keep praying and keep your faith. No time line for healing. Take your time and self care. Rudy is extremely adorable. Be blessed and take care.
Yes this is so true!!! Thank you so much for your encouragement ❤️❤️
I truly love your transparency. I'm 3 years divorced and I unfortunately still feel the way you feel. When I'm crafting, trauma of the divorce is not playing in my head. Divorce is s death of something you didn't think would end. I encourage you and myself to keep the things in your life that brings you peace. Don't do too much at one time. It may overwhelm you. OH!! I LOVE Rudy!! You did an amazing job.
I've been separated for 7 years and I'm just beginning to feel comfortable with the thought of ending my marriage. My crafting hobby is such a stress reliever and I'm so grateful to have that one thing that helps me so much. I wish you the very best Rochelle and Violet. Time really does heal all wounds. You will never forget but the pain will lessen. Sending you both lots of love from North Carolina
❤️ Sheri ❤️
This video reminds me of losing my first love, with billions of people on this planet, I thought that person was the only one that could make me happy...I was so wrong 😆
Thank you so much Sherri!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you!!! Yes, when I'm crocheting, I'm thinking of nothing else, my mind literally gets to take a break! I'm so sorry to hear about your divorce!! We got this!! ❤️❤️
A Beautiful talented lady with Beautiful children … it’s always ok to take a break and time for healing never forget that . Wow if you did re open your Etsy shop your crochet blankets and animals etc would fly especially as we can see how special you are in your talents and care of how you craft such beautiful items ❤
Awww thank you!!!! 😊 ❤️ that would be a dream❤️❤️❤️
Hey Rochelle I am sending you a sisterly hug and lots of love ❤ I was with my ex for 26 years married for 24. It took me a very long time (9 yrs) to be totally ok. There was a lot of bad things that I had to heal from and that took time and prayers. I had to learn to love me again it didn't happen overnight. Just take it minute by minute and step by step and you will begin to breathe again 🙏🏾
Thank you! I know that must've been so hard! And as I listen to all of these beautiful comments, im being reminded of the real true healing at the end! Thank you so much for sharing this with me☺️❤️
Hey Rudy. Rudy is spoiled... he has lights! Gr8 job on your buddy.
Thanks for opening up about where you are emotionally. Healing comes in stages and it's okay to call a divorce a death; it's a death of a marriage. Grieving is real and I hope God wraps you in His Arms letting you know He is with you every step of the way.
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Hey! Thank you so much!! Im in need of his love right now! Thank you so much for your encouragement ❤️
Rudy is too cute! I love seeing the way you incorporate your crochet projects into your videos.
Aww thank you!! I love crocheting, it's been so stress relieving for me! ☺️
When you began to worry, go into prayer. Get you a white board so you can write down tasks & handle them one by one.
Yes!!! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Keep crocheting, it is great relief of stress. Rudy is so cute! I’m grieving from death and crocheting is my #1 stress relief.
Aw im so sorry for your loss!! 😟
Yes, crocheting has been a huge help for my stress, im so glad I've picked it up! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
You are very creative and talented. You definitely could do well selling knitted animals, that reindeer is precious. From one divorced woman to another, it does get better. We are strong because we have to be but we have to remember to show ourselves a little grace as well. ❤️
Yes!! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
For what its worth, Married people have those same feelings. Just because someone is there doesn't mean they are there. Divorce can be like losing someone close and no married person have a plan B, however, you will eventually get over it, it just takes time. I found being more attentive to my faith and drawing or embracing the good in me through prayer, reading and crafts. Yes, some times you do have to escape the crowds and get into nature. I love to go fishing, sometimes in a canoe. Take your time, enjoy your children and continue to take time for yourself. it takes time to heal...
💯 agree with everything you said ❤
Thank you so much!! This is so true!!! Im leaning on God and doing my best to move forward! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
Hey, beautiful soul. I have been watching and loving your content for a while. I'm here with the intention of offering some encouraging words. A break up/divorce can be difficult, and taking time alone to reset, think, and go through all the emotions will definitely allow you to heal. Give yourself time to be angry, cry, but use positive words like I am healing, and this too shall pass. Also, know that people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When the negative thoughts start to creep in, take deep breaths, relax your mind, and meditate if you can, but please stop telling yourself you're not getting better because you are, actually. Talking about it to others or to yourself is healing. Take a weekend or week for yourself. You got this! And may the most high bless you with the strength and positivity you need to continue to heal.
Love and Light ✨️🙏🏻🩷
Yes this so true!! Thank you so much for your encouragement!! I truly appreciate this☺️❤️😭
Hey ! Had a great idea , maybe you and Mateo can do a van camping adventure together!! Cooking and exploring, it would be so awesome!!😊prayers for healing ❤🙏
One day for sure☺️❤️☺️❤️
WOW!!!! you should be proud!! I've crocheted for 50 years and I am proud of you!!! You did an amazing job!!
Awww thank you!!! 😊 ❤️
It has been a year of griefing and time and going to a support group that understands help❤❤Give yourself a pat on the back, you are doing wonderful ❤❤
Thank you so much ❤️
Just FYI. I find your videos very uplifting and comforting.
Hey James!!! Aww thank you so much for watching ☺️ ❤️
What's amazing is the fact that you recognize the feelings that are creeping up. Lean into each feeling and feel them deeply. In addition, ask God to give you a peace that surpasses ALL understanding, and He will. Divorce is like a death, but you will definitely come away from this healed and set free. ❤ It takes time, so don't be so hard on yourself. You can do ALL things...❤
Thank you so much Karen! I know if i don't lean into, it will remain festering. I know God is in control! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement ☺️❤️
As a right handed person, I think making left handed crochet videos would be cool for those that are also left handed.
So true!! Thank you!!! 😊
Very talented! Your gifts are unique! 🔥🔥
Thank you so much 😀❤️
When you feel overwhelmed, write down all the things you need to do and say a prayer and ask got to help you and he will. It happens to me and God helped me. Just one day at a time it won't be perfect but better hang in there.
Thank you so much Karen!! I do need to get back into writing like I used to❤️
I understand this feeling. I'm on a journey of healing from the absence of my father. He re-established a relationship with us before he passed, and it's been over 15 years since he passed. But I'm still feeling sooo much more emotion than I ever thought I had. It's ups and downs, and I'm documenting it on my channel. I'm so glad you have a place of peace and refuge in your van. I love seeing the way others process and heal in their own ways. All of our stories are so unique and beautiful.
I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm glad that you got to rekindle your relationship with your dad before he passed. I don't think that type of pain ever goes away fully, it seems as though we just have to learn how to live with it. And that's where I am on my journey! God bless you and I hope that you continue to stay strong❤️
I crochet with my left hand. I always have and I have taught a lot of people how to crochet. I set them in front of me and they see a right hand method. That’s as good as I can teach them quickly. I have taught people who never thought they could do this form of art. ❤❤❤
I, a righty, wz taught by a lefty how 2 crochet & in the 1st yr. I made 4 'Granny sq. size 7 inch blocks', baby blankets. I loved it & made many over 30yrs. My thx 2U and all teachers. U bring joy to many. RiParadise my Mrs. Shirley Hinkle
Wow!!! This is encouraging!! Thank you ☺️❤️
I had therapy and learned that I was in mourning. A death is so final and that’s how I felt after the loss of my 14 year marriage. We all grieve differently but it took me about 2 years to release my pain. It took my kids longer even though they hid it. Talk with your babies because they see mama’s pain. They will need to know you see theirs. No guilt, just live one day at a time.
Aww God bless you! Im so sorry you had to go through this as well. You're so right! I'm currently working through it all now, It's so crazy how these emotions hit you like this! Thank you so much for sharing this with me!
Awwww I love Rudy❤️
Thank you for your encouragement while going through a rough time. I am also in recovery mode from a break up. I good days and some difficult days but I trust the LORD will stay with me and continue to get me through the process of healing and moving forward. Enjoy your serenity and peace so that your children will benefit the awesomeness that you put forth on a daily basis 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
Yes! God will take care of us!! Im sorry that your going through a hard time right now!! We got this!! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
You be encouraged, you are not a failure, you have more going for yourself than you realize, do not blame yourself for any failure, don’t know your story, but if you think on those things, it should get better, your children will be up and moving to a different experience before you know it.
Awww thank you so much ☺️ ❤️ 😭😭
Rochelle, you are awesome. Definitely not an amateur. Rudy is so cute! 🙂
Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Hey Rochelle and Rudy. He's a cutie 💓
Grief in any shape can be and is tough. I lost my mom last Tuesday, so I can relate to losing someone, dear. I've also been down the divorce road as well, which does feel like a "death" sort of speak because you have to now live without someone.
I'm now 54 years young as of Saturday and realized even more that life can be tough, but I'm also reminded that God gives his toughest battles to his toughest soldiers. That said, Rochelle, you are a smart, beautiful, and articulate young lady. Take all the time you need to grieve. Let no one tell you how to feel and give yourself more credit, sis! YOU GOT THIS SO KEEP GOING! 🙏🏾💪🏾🫶🏾 #keepyourheadup #HUGS
Aw Rena! I'm so sorry for your loss!! I will keep you in my prayers!! Thank you so much for sharing this with me! It's so encouraging!
Happy belated birthday!!!! God bless you!! ❤️
@@SheCanDoAllThings Thank you hun and God bless you too 🙏🏾🫶🏾
You did an amazing job on Rudy!
Hey Dana!! Thank you ☺️ ❤️☺️❤️☺️
OMG, Rudy is sooooo adorable!!!❤ You did an amazing job for a newbie to stuffed crocheted animals.
Girl, Im sitting here crying right along with you because my depression for many reasons, has definitely kicked in today. Im sending you hugs because going thru a divorce is definitely the experience of a death. It's the death of your union with a person you once shared love and happiness with. Take your time healing and allow those tears to flow. It took me five years to not remember my divorce date. So please don't feel bad about getting emotional on the anniversary of your divorce. Also, thank you for sharing your emotion because it can definitely help someone else going thru the same thing. ❤
Yep, the book so far is good and relatable. 😊
Your dinner looked delicious as well. 😋
Hey Marlee!! Thank you!
Oh I hate that you're depressed!! You're so sweet and do soooo much! I pray that you would also receive peace and healing!
I just want to make it to the end and be healed already, but I know that there's much that God wants to show me through this pain. So I will be patient and face it one day at a time! Thank you so much for always caring!! God bless you❤️
Beginner, more like a master 🥰
Aww😭😭 thank you!! 😊
Rudy is so so cute. Wow YOU made him!!! I’ll have to give it a try ❤❤❤
Yes!!! You have to try it!!❤️
Rochelle, always remember that the difficult times we go through in life are simply put in our path to strengthen us and to teach us valuable lessons. You are beautiful inside and out. Keep your faith in our Lord and Savior. My brother went through a divorce a few years ago, and he told me that the only way to get over something is to go through it. You will go through many emotions and sometimes even struggle, but know that God is working all things for good. When you fall, He will carry you. You are never alone. I will include you in my prayers tonight. 🙏❤️
Thank you so much Sandy!! And this is so true! I'm struggling, BUT, I know that God has a plan for me! I know that he's with me and will get me through this!! Thank you so much for encouraging me❤️
Rudy is adorable.
I pray you find healing and peace to move forward in joy.
Thank you so much Kimberly ☺️ ❤️
Been there doing that….but less and less. The main thing that lingers for me is the uncertainty of the future(after divorce) and what that looks like financially and etc. but then I think of our awesome God who has never failed me. He’s always provided and still is taking care of me. It just looks different. Standing on our faith and trusting God is an adventure and that means we always have something to look forward too. Not always easy but he loves you and he’s got you!!! He’s in total control. Love you 😍 stay safe🙏🏽❤️☮️
I know he is, and I know he loves me! When i feel this deep sadness, I have to lean on his word! Sometimes, I feel like I can't make it if I don't! The uncertainty is so real! But I know that God has a plan to give me a hope and a future! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
@@SheCanDoAllThings you’re so welcome. Looking at this world can give us such a negative influence. So stay in his word to be influenced and reminded of what HE tells us.😊
I feel you completely. I’m two years (11/2/22) into the end of a toxic relationship and have used my van since it was completed to heal from that ex. I’m grieving the life I was working towards, not the person I left. I’m living it on my terms now and have to go out in nature or I feel it emotionally. Walking has helped too. I’m walking 10k steps a day and it helps with those strenuous hikes. Big hugs Rochelle. 🤗
Hey Annette!!! Im so glad you're finding peace!! That's so beautiful and inspirational!!!
10k steps a day!! Yes i love it!!!
Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
@ I really do love how mindful you are. That’s a step in the process of healing. Finding your peace and really allowing yourself the time to do what gives you joy. You’re doing it. 😊
First of all, a divorce has the same effect as a death. You are grieving a death of the relationship and what could have been. How I dealt with it was lots of prayer, being in the word, taking time to recharge myself by being alone( I am also an extreme introvert). You can’t run from the feelings and emotions, you have to deal with them, process them, and then let them go when healing starts. I’m praying for you!! Remember that after the rain comes the rainbow, your rainbow is coming. ❤❤🙏
Hey Wanda!! Thank you! Yes im spending time in my word for sure! I need it right now!! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement 🙏 ❤️ 😊
Love how beautifully Rudy came out. I wish I knew how to crochet. The meal looks sooooooooop good.
Thank you ☺️❤️☺️❤️
That reindeer is adorable! ❤❤❤ Sending you hugs and it will get better, it just takes time. I am proud of you for speaking up about your grief and sharing your experience with others who are struggling right now. I have been through this very life change. Keep your focus on yourself and your beautiful children. Journaling helped me. I actually had two, one with details of what happened, my thoughts and emotions surrounding it. I burned each entry afterwards and to release it. The other was just to document the changes each day brought so I could reflect back later to see how far I came. Like worrying about how I would be able to make ends meet, buy all the essentials a household needs, etc. It was a scary time but I grew so much from it. I am thankful that you have crocheting as that has helped me with my anxiety. I started my UA-cam channel and put out my first short. I’m trying to gain confidence to sit post a video or go live and see what happens. Sending you lots of love and positivity, sis. You got this! And if you ever feel like all hope is lost, reach out for help. We truly care about you. Remember to listen to the kind, encouraging words that you say to us. Give yourself grace, grief comes and goes suddenly and unexpectedly.
Thank you so much for sharing this with me!!! God bless you for this comment!! Thank you for reaching out with love and support, and understanding! This truly encourages me! I love your Journaling idea, and burning it afterwards to release it❤️
The biggest part of healing for me at least was letting go. Letting go what happened and how and why. Once I stopped trying to rationalize all the hows and whys of the past I was able to move on with my future. You cant go foward holding on to the past. Be blessed
This is soooo true! This is what i really need to be focusing on, letting go! Thank you❤️
Vanlife, solitude, peace love it
Yes❤️
What an incredible talent! Rudy is so cute, and no one would guess you are a beginner (I think he's perfect!). And the pumpkins are adorable, plus, I'm sure they smell good. I have a friend here in QZ who makes these kinds of items and sells them at our local craft fairs; they're very popular.
My heart goes out to you. I'm so glad that you've found the van to get away and get time to breathe and rest. Divorce is hard...any major life change is hard. Hell, some days life is just h-a-r-d! And you know, down the road, when you look back from a happy place and you've healed, the feelings you feel now may still be there. People think you "get over it", but love (or any major life change) isn't like that. You heal from the loss, you find happiness in your new circumstances, but it's not like the feelings just disappear. They evolve with us.
I experienced feelings of loss and grief when my husband became disabled...as did he. Our life changed in ways neither of us wanted. We found ways to be happy in our new circumstances, but that doesn't mean we don't still grieve the loss of the life we were living and the future we planned. But we evolved with what we were given. There is something to be said for acceptance when that is your only option. Accept, evolve, grow, and keep moving forward.
On a closing note...about van life. You know, a lot of the times when I watch van lifer vlogs, they're just going about their day to day life. Not so much traveling to new places and camping. This video could not have been more perfect if you'd driven hundreds of miles and parked in a forest. So, you van life at home in your cute little happy place and I'm there for it. :)
Oh how i love you Leanna!! You always have such wisdom and love in your comments! Thank you so much!!! That's exactly what I'm needing to, accept and grow!
I'm glad that you have encouraged me as it relates to your own situation with your husband. I can easily see how much of a life change that has been for the both of you! Thank you so much for your strength!
Yes! I don't always get to go far, But for me, it's just being outdoors in the van in the peace and quiet! I want other van lifers to know that you don't have to always go to the next big destination, especially if you just can't, but you can still find joy in it☺️❤️ Thank you Leanna!!
He’s so cute. Your so talented. In many ways.
Thank you❤️❤️
Hey Rochelle, take one day at a time. Enjoy life , take time for you . I use to feel so bad when I could not complete my tasks, but, now I get it done when I get to it. Take how much time its needed to get back to you. You did an excellent job on the Reindeer. Gurl live your life with this wonderful. Children.😊❤❤❤❤.
Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
That is a fantastic looking reindeer, great work.
Thank you very much!☺️❤️
Good stuff! It’s ok not to be ok. There’s no time limit on recovery from divorce. You have to make yourself and your mental well-being a priority! And 2 ideas for you: Project Linus handmade blankets for children in need and Project Snuggles : blankets, and pillows for shelter animals. I find the best way to take your mind off your worries is to do something for someone else! Keep praying, we are blessed to be a blessing! ❤
Those are great ideas!!! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
I love to crotchet and knit, like all the time😊!. You did an amazing job with the reindeer. I've been crotcheting for about six years, but I've never made any stuffed animals. He's so cute! Great job!
Thank you so much!!! Omg six years! That's amazing I know you could make him if you wanted to for sure☺️❤️☺️❤️
Change is hard.. pray.. take it slow.. .. try not take on too much at a time.. one day at a time love🙏🙏🙏
Yes! Thank you!!
Rudy has the sweetest face, you did a wonderful job with him! I love all the beautiful colors that you have surrounded yourself with in your van. What a wonderful haven you have created for yourself, a real healing place. May the Lord continue to heal you as you continue on with Him on your journey! Look forward to hearing from you again!
Hey Cindy!!!! Thank you so much!!!☺️❤️☺️❤️
Oh! The pumpkins are wonderful too!!!
Rochelle, one last thing….we were just a package delivered to the wrong address! At least you have your beautiful children to hold on to! “One man’s trash……..is another man’s treasure! Please don’t close the door for someone else to love you! When it’s your time, it will be your time! You’re truly a beautiful soul! I hate to see you go through this difficult time right now. Everything happens for a reason. If it wasn’t a blessing, it damn sure was a lesson! Please pardon my French. 😘😘😘😘
@@cynthiathompson3780 I say the same thing about being a package delivered to the wrong address. 🙃
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Omg I love this!!! Yes you're so right!! It was definitely a lesson learned! Thank you! I'm trying my best not to close my heart off. Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
Rochelle hope you find the peace you need & deserve for your healing journey. I will pray for that for you by the way your Rudolph is adorable
Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Thanks for being open about your feelings to the world. Sometimes when we talk about stuff going on in our lives, it’s better than keeping it all tucked away inside not knowing that it is not healthy. Whatever makes you happy, that is what you should do for you. Take care of yourself first, then everyone else comes after. I always use this scenario as an example, when you are on a flight, they tell you if there is an emergency, you put your oxygen mask on first , then your child or whom ever, because if you are not good, then they won’t be either 😊.
That's a really good analogy!!! I will remember this!! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Praying for your healing and strength during this difficult time. Just remember this to shall pass. Thank you for sharing with us.
Rudy is ADORABLE 😊
Thank you so much Ashley ☺️ ❤️
You can do all things possible. Good job❤❤❤
Thank you ☺️
There are some good videos on how to do amigurami. Don’t worry about the frogging, everyone who crochets or even knits has had to frog more than one project. Just remember, stitch markers are your friend when making amigurami. Juan the yarn addict does left handed tutorials.
Aww thank you!! ☺️❤️
Lady with many talents 😅 impressive ❤
Thank you❤️😊❤️😊
He is so cute you are really good at your craft I can’t believe he is your first yarn animal.Prayers for you 🙏🏽God bless you 💕
Thank you so much!☺️❤️
I know what you are going through. Divorce feel like a death in the family.❤It take time to heal. Going out and doing things help a lot. ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hey Mildred!! Yes it really does, and I want to open and honest about it's affecting me! Hopefully it will help someone else out there as well! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
You’re not only dealing with a divorce but the trials and tribulations of motherhood, combining those things while still trying to maintain autonomy is very overwhelming… it was for me anyway 😅 there is a fine line between taking time out and escapism tho, so we must stay in balance… and we can even slip into escapism by trying to control things, wear too many hats and take on too many tasks, just so as to not actually feel or deal with our feelings… so taking breaks for yourself is good, being aware of your grief is good… getting out in nature is also grounding and it brings you back into balance… the depression never really goes away but it does get easier with time. You’re doing great and you’re a great mom 👍🏼 💕 ☯️
This is sooo true!!! Needing that time alone is great, but it can play as an escape as well and I've got to find a healthy balance, or I'll never find healing by dealing with it. Thank you so much for this beautiful input❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@SheCanDoAllThingsa good cry helps too 😂 ❤ helps release that pent up negative energy lol 😅 I’m sure you know what I mean 😉
@WildMonarchs oh I know exactly what you're mean! ❤️
Oh WOW Rochelle...he is just adorable. Just love him❤ Welcome Rudy 🤎🧡
Thank you Gwen!! ☺️
Wow! That is so cute. Looks like it could have come right off a Target store shelf, very impressive! Good job Rochelle.
Thank you so much Kesha!! ☺️
Praying for you daily.. You are never alone God is leading you to a path of peace. My son is going through the same thing his wife walked out in August and filed two days later and moved in with her boyfriend. Selfcare is so very important. Hugggzzzzz
Aww I'm so sorry he's dealing with that!! It's very hard to go through. Thank you so much for your encouragement ❤️ ☺️
Hi Rochelle, Im definitely prayijg for you. Thank you for showing your vulnerability to us. We are here for you💜💜💜
Thank you so much!☺️
I understand what you mean about grief and depression. I personally don’t think we ever get over some things in life, but we evolve. The pain will eventually become more tolerable and less frequent. I am glad you found a place to help you rejuvenate and recover. I really admire your thoughtfulness, honesty, and creativity! Rudy is so adorable! That doesn’t look like beginner work to me!
Yes, i need to give myself time❤️ thank you so much for your encouragement ❤️❤️
If ur left handed then it works as tv will be a mirror image and so, us right handed peeps can just follow without confusion. I love that reindeer ❤
Yes i thought about this afterwards!! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Precious!!! I like to rescue yarn, hooks, fabric, and quilts to give them new life❤
Omg yes!!! ❤️
You did a great job on your deer 🦌. I have a client who pays big money for Animal Xing crochets ordered from overseas. Thank you for your encouragement. I needed that.
Yes ofcourse! Thank you so much for watching ☺️ ❤️
Being ok is something we always want. Unfortunately sometimes we not. No explanation needed. Life just isn't easy. However we here to listen. 😊and support.
Yes!! Thank you ❤️
Hey there momma I know where you are coming from. Divorced after being married 22 years. Just remember when you get down or sad...it will get better. One step at a time, and you will eventually get to where you want to be. That's all you can do. That's all anyone can do. And lexapro helps me alot with the worry. It's exactly what I needed. As mothers we are worriers and thinkers...for me it took all that away. Keep your head up one step at a time.
Hey Nancy!! Thank you so much! You're so right! One step at a time!! ☺️❤️
Hey Rochelle, I love Rudy that is going to be a great for your van life for the upcoming fall and winter season. When me and my ex broke up in February this year. I know that feeling and I have my ups and downs, and it was toughness journey I took. One thing I learn is to read great books that's going up lift you and keep you going to keep your spirit balance. You got a great community with a love and support here trust and believe you going see a bigger and better light. God don't make no mistake there is a reason he is showing you the path for that reason remember that. Stay blessed let's all be strong and pray for one and other who might go through this as well. Peace from the Doctor.
Hey!! Thank you so much!! Im so sorry that you have gone through this, I pray that you are healing well! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement 🙏 ❤️
It sounds like the van life camping is a found treasure for you. I am so glad for you. You are in my prayers. I have been through divorce and it is very hard to get past and it takes time to heal. Be patient with yourself. Thank you for sharing with us. It means a lot to me personally to have you as a friend 🙏😇🩷🧡
I Gwen!!! Thank you so much!! Yes this van helps me in so many ways!! Thank you so much for your encouragement ☺️ ❤️
Hey girl I hope you have a great time on your weekend with Rudy , I must confess I am so envious I would so love to be able to get away to a quiet place for a bit !! I live in an apartment alone but what you got going on is fabulous !!! Divorce is not ever easy we just have to take it as it comes and know that God is there to help us when we need him !!!🙏🙏🤟🙏🙏
Yes this is so true!!! I hope you can find your great escape as well❤️ thank you so much for watching ☺️ ❤️
Yes the losses...we need to all give ourselves time❤
Hello, Rochelle! I always enjoy your videos and they are very inspiring for me. Please be patient with yourself! You are a wonderful person and a super wonderful Mom! I look forward to your content....and Rudy is such a cutie!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aww hey!!! Thank you so much for your support and encouragement!☺️❤️☺️❤️
@SheCanDoAllThings my pleasure! I wish I could say or do more to help! All we can do is take life one step at a time, one day at a time.
Holy wow, you made that??! It's adorable!! I don't have the attention span to crochet, I've tried before. That lil deer is so cuteeee. Even the pumpkins are hecka cute!
As for the divorce. I agree. My divorce was my choice, but I still find myself waiting, wanting him to call so we can chat or work something out but I also know I don't really want that. I want to move on with my life and be free. I wasn't happy. I know the feeling will eventually ease and time will help things get easier. For me it's only been 3 months. The divorce was in the works since early in the year. I knew my ex for almost 10 years so just not having him as part of my life is very weird. I've also had to remind myself, the guy's not dead, we just went separate ways, but it does honestly feel like mourning. I'm hoping once our house sells that our final connection will be broken and I can work on me, myself, and I.. and my dog of course. heh
Keep taking care of you and finding your time. Eventually, time will catch up and things will be a lot easier, you will find a new you that is just for you and be happy.
Oh how i know how you're feeling right now!! Those are my exact thoughts!!
We will get through this!! I've known my ex since I was 14yrs old. It's definitely feeling like a death!
Thank you so much for sharing this with me!! It makes me feel less alone!! ❤️❤️
Sis we love you right back, thank you for being vulnerable, it makes us that are going through things feel better about the struggles of life. Also the meal looked great and your new van life Bud is so stinking cute!! I can't wait for your etsy, I'll get one for each of my babies!!
Hey Nicole!! Aww thank you so much for watching!! And thank you so much for your support ☺️ ❤️
Grieving is hard and around the date of the grief is even worse November and December is my hardest time of the year for my grief I understand your feelings sending lots of hugs and love in this season ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much Pamela!! ❤️❤️❤️
That was so relaxing watching you crochet
Thank you! 😊 thank you so much for watching ☺️ ❤️
Hi Rochelle. You are so inspiring! I appreciate you sharing your emotions. I really enjoy your crochet projects. I've also been making things I've never crocheted before.
I too haven't gotten too far into the book, but you sharing how it relates to you makes me want to set aside some time to go further than the few pages that I've read.
Aww thank you!!
Yes the book so far is exciting, because I hardly ever see myself in a character like this!! Thank you for being a part of the book club!! ☺️❤️
I’m left handed and learning to crochet too, I’d love to see how to’s from you if you post them!! I’m excited to see what else you create though too. And Rudy is so cute!!! 🙏🏻💖
Aww that's awesome!! Yes i will!! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Cool 🦌 Absolutely Cool‼️.. Never would have guessed you were a beginner making animals👏🏾.. Camping 🦌.. Perfect ‼️You are never alone.. Just reach out.. We've gotcha 🙂.. Take Care Mrs. Conqueror 🙏🏾🤎🙂
Awww thank you 😊 😭☺️❤️
Super cute new van buddy
Shrimp looks delicious
Prayers up blessings down
Thank you so much!! ❤️
Rudy is so cute. I am happy for you. I used to do a lot of that when I was younger, but I have carpal tunnel and arthritis. It just doesn't feel good after I do it but it's so relaxing to do something like that and very fulfilling. From Becky and Cali
Hey Becky!!! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
@ how are you this morning? Are you working on your crafts? It's 1 o'clock in the afternoon and I got up realized I was still tired and went back to sleep. My sleep schedule's been off since February. Well, I'm praying for you that God will reveal himself to you every day at a much deeper level. He wants all of our pain and suffering he just says get handed over to him and I think good thing to do is have a true trust in friends and family to guide you through. Everyone goes through sad times hard times and God says this will pass. I'm praying for both of us that our pain will pass and we will have complete total healing and restoration people need to hear your story whether it's a buy a book a speech your channel God will help it to perfection just lead into him and look every day at what should be grateful for I can only speak for myself. I have a grateful journal, but sometimes I forget to be grateful. That kind of puts your life into perspective. I pray that God brings many intercessors. They don't even know you that will pray for you on a daily basis indulging yourself every day with whatever makes you happy a walk, exercise your crafts just playing with your kids. You can start with simple things and then go for bigger things. I plan on taking my grandkids sometime soon to Knotts Berry Farm, and amusement park in California when I was a child we would go there a lot. It's cheaper than Disneyland for sure. I pray God gives me the stamina to do so that my kids have been in the house for five years, taking care of my husband sheltering in place during Covid it's time to get out and enjoy life. We only have one so I'm 70 so I better get busy. I can't wait to see your next video. I'm sure you'll be feeling a lot better. God bless you and keep you let his face shine upon you and give you his peace. His shalom. You can text me anytime you need to talk.
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I have grieved the list of my foster sons after 2 years, my life after getting stabbed. I totally get it and I will be praying for you. I just got a van so you inspire me❤
Congratulations on the Van!! That's awesome!!!
Grief is one of the hardest emotions to deal with, it's one that you can hide and burry! It will always find it's way back to the surface, so I'm trying my best to just go through it, so that my healing can begin! Thank you so much for sharing this with me☺️❤️☺️❤️
I feel you Rochelle❤sending you love and light✨❤️just know that this too shall pass. Take it one day at the time step by step🕊️I’m rooting for you 🐞
Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Rochelle if that van helps you to cope, by all means use it!! Just please be very careful and watch your surroundings with everything going on with this election! I love your buddy Rudy, you did a great job and you’re not a failure at all! You are strong, beautiful, smart, talented, and a wonderful mother!! You named your channel “she can do all things”for a reason! Because, you can! Love you and I’m praying for you!❤️❤️❤️
Hey Barbara!! Aww thank you so much! I will be careful❤️😊❤️😊🙏
You really can do all things! Rudy is adorable. I hope the weekend was helpful to you!
Hey Jody!!! Thank you so much ☺️ ❤️
Thanks for the inspiration and motivation
You're so welcome! Thank you so much for watching ☺️ ❤️