This Is Why You Have LOW SELF ESTEEM... (Don't Ignore This)

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  • Most people ignore this, but they really shouldn't... This video reveals the #1 cause of low self esteem!
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    Julien Blanc (AKA JulienHimself) is a Swiss-born, U.S.-based self-help speaker, entrepreneur and transformational coach.
    Since 2010, he has been traveling around the world and has personally coached tens of thousands of clients face to face... Empowering them to create massive success in their lives!
    His record-breaking programs Transformation Mastery, Transformation Mastery Live, Transformation Mastery Live Advanced, Transformation Mastery Academy & Transformation Mastery Mentoring help people around the world achieve the HEALTH, WEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS & HAPPINESS they deserve!
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    This Is Why You Have LOW SELF ESTEEM... (Don't Ignore This)
    How to raise your self esteem and build self confidence! In this video, Julien Blanc (AKA Julien Himself) reveals the root cause of low self-esteem and how you can improve your self-esteem today!
    This video will teach you how to be confident and how to be more confident in yourself by increasing your self esteem and your self worth.
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  • @JulienHimself
    @JulienHimself  9 днів тому +8

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    • @sahilchandekar1693
      @sahilchandekar1693 8 днів тому

      Hey Julien,
      I love your content and your videos have been a huge help 🙌

Have you ever considered a paid community?

    • @nietzopaniquen
      @nietzopaniquen 3 дні тому

      Hi Julien! Could you please add the option to pay with Klarna or PayPal for the tickets?

  • @kuroxell
    @kuroxell 9 днів тому +72

    Julien I feel like I'd love talking to you but I'd be terrified of you exposing me 😂

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  9 днів тому +91

      The fact that you believe that there’s something to “expose” is what’s destroying your self esteem… Time to LET GO of that fear and put everything that is you out there!

    • @howardsheppard8347
      @howardsheppard8347 9 днів тому +7

      Same dude same 😂

    • @cararussell2547
      @cararussell2547 6 днів тому +3

      Just love how you just talk how it is. So refreshing ​@@JulienHimself

  • @Aleks_Mechanics
    @Aleks_Mechanics 9 днів тому +38

    Love witnessing these people loosen up and JUST BE!👌

  • @magueysunset
    @magueysunset 9 днів тому +15

    Letting go is essential. Letting go of thoughts, letting emotions pass, letting things simply go. I remember a mindfulness book called 30 Days to Overcome Loneliness by Harper Daniels.

  • @chrisk1118
    @chrisk1118 7 днів тому +11

    Pretty courageous to be that open and vulnerable in front of a crowd and camera while getting challenged by julien, probs.

  • @NrGeS-ww4hd
    @NrGeS-ww4hd 6 днів тому +3

    I feel like living like this is just a dream for me
    Success in college controls me.
    Letting go is really scary and I don't know how to do it.
    It's a painful admission though
    I am a puppet.

  • @charlestheking0955
    @charlestheking0955 9 днів тому +7

    Saw inside out 2 the other day and the way they illustrated core beliefs and identities really ties into these teachings, I was honestly impressed definitely would recommend the movie especially if you’re familiar with the fallacies of mind

  • @user-rl8gs3nl8g
    @user-rl8gs3nl8g 9 днів тому +16

    Male Flight Attendant here. Being suffering from social anxiety,low self esteem since forever. My colleagues are telling me that I'm a closed book in a critical way. It isnt that I dont want to communicate but they are criticizing a lot. I didnt choose my looks. I prefer to stay in my hotel room endorsing myself even if I know that nobody gives a crap about me.

    • @drgato5231
      @drgato5231 9 днів тому +2

      Make it a " fun challenge " to talk people. Emphasize the fun part. Force yourself to find reasons why it's fun when you do it.

    • @drgato5231
      @drgato5231 9 днів тому +4

      Be in a humorous/pleasant mood/ vibe when you're around people. Make it the priority.

    • @user-rl8gs3nl8g
      @user-rl8gs3nl8g 9 днів тому +1

      @@drgato5231 The last time I made an announcement my colleaue told me that I talk like an idiot. It may not worth the effort

    • @Caseycali
      @Caseycali 9 днів тому +8

      @@user-rl8gs3nl8g why do you care what a toxic asshole thinks then? You seem like a thoughtful, caring person, so just know who you are regardless of what anyone else thinks and have enough respect for yourself to know you have good intentions and seriously… f that guy

    • @Tes73792
      @Tes73792 9 днів тому +2

      Sounds like you are surrounded by idiots colleagues rather than having an issue with you. Wish you all the best.

  • @skjelm6363
    @skjelm6363 9 днів тому +6

    Man, your outfit remembers me when I was a kid and I played with my aunt on stage in a monastery an improvised bit and I played a wizard which spells go wrong but still hat a good effect, at least to laugh and I put on all that weird clothes I found backstage on and made it somehow work. (long story, to much to get into detail here) and somehow it connects to your important message here and that I need to hear at the moment:
    I enslaved myself and my creativity to success and THAT is what keeps blocking me to go forward and be creative. I secretly caged myself over decades. But all I want is just to cast a spell to turn it into something good. And I will.

  • @hypatch8014
    @hypatch8014 5 днів тому +1

    I'm reading Co-dependence and it just hit me, letting go is an experiencing technique, by experiencing your inner life (feelings sensations thoughts wants needs etc) you are connecting with your true self. The reason social anxiety challenges or desensitization attempts don't work is because you're going in with your false self, and it's very difficult to be authentic (or you're trying to get the hit of endorphins released after stressful situations that numb your anxiety for the next couple of minutes to hours). So disregarding that high, in the long run the fear system learns it's safe to be in this situation, but only if your are your false self, and thus you are not cured from social anxiety. And what's more you can get addicted to that lack of anxiety where you finally get closer to your true feelings and make the connection that the only way to be free is to constantly be fake.

  • @JanhaviMane9425
    @JanhaviMane9425 9 днів тому +2

    Well just wanna share
    I've been following your channel since 2023 and i can't describe in words how much of self acceptance I experienced and resistance I've let go by just watching people like me taking actions and working on shalow self

  • @toastroaster3044
    @toastroaster3044 9 днів тому +6

    hey, just wanted to say you helped me so much in the past year because of these video's

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  9 днів тому +5

      Amazing! Congrats on your progress! 🙌

  • @hykeyo
    @hykeyo 5 днів тому

    This hit home. It's like I was up there and talking to Julien. Scary that other people also go through these emotions and thoughts but on the other hand reassuring that I am not alone. I will let go of these shackling beliefs.

  • @gregolejniczak5631
    @gregolejniczak5631 9 днів тому +7

    Felt like she is falling in love with you bro. Btw when I eventually let go, how do I engage in any goal without giving it Power over me…?

  • @Barb444
    @Barb444 5 днів тому

    I needed this. Thank you!❤ and finally someone who admits that the boo affects them. I can relate. It would affect me. So thank you for your honesty. I can also relate with her trying to build her business and feeling its not succesful. So hard to let that idea go.

  • @denischinese
    @denischinese 2 дні тому

    I felt related to her, doing same inner work.

  • @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702
    @rubin-healmysocialanxiety702 3 дні тому

    Great work - courage and willingness to dive deep make us unstoppable ❤

  • @mohamed77tv40
    @mohamed77tv40 7 днів тому

    Last time i saw you was about a year ago and you were about 200-300 k and now u got 541k im happy for you brotha you helped and still learning to let go in my own way and get a life watch is cool

  • @David-ub7vm
    @David-ub7vm 6 днів тому

    This is a good ass video you put things into perspective I have had a issue with self worth and success being intertwined. I have had those thought a lot and really had to prove my self by showing others I work hard or do good job at work and need other people to approve of my ethic for my self esteem. It's crazy cus I never feel whole. I know now that my self worth is not based on WHT other people think of me but how much I love myself in time I'm slowly figuring out how to grow a back bone again. I am 9 moths sober and drugs really was all I chased which stop me from taking care of myself mentally and physically. I am proud to say I love myself and can be happy with out success.

  • @louisrvb2245
    @louisrvb2245 9 днів тому +1

    You don't have it you do it

  • @420Momentum
    @420Momentum 7 днів тому +3

    Love the content Man ur doing a Great Job helping people giving them Tips and Wisdom too help get through Life. Im still learning everyday even at 27 Subbed

  • @connoronit
    @connoronit 8 днів тому +1

    Brilliant!

  • @user-jo4fb3oo2u
    @user-jo4fb3oo2u 7 днів тому +1

    Sending love from Egypt 🇪🇬

  • @1smg346
    @1smg346 9 днів тому +11

    Bro I wanna be super confident but that resistance ughhh

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  9 днів тому +9

      The solution is simple... Learn how to LET GO of it! 😉

    • @karmaindustrie
      @karmaindustrie 9 днів тому +1

      ​@@JulienHimself "letting go" sounds so ambigous to me all the time. And I think the right definition goes towards "letting an avalanche go loose" - an avalanche of the unwanted emotion (blocking/outshining the wanted opposite). The misunderstanding I always feel potentially happening goes into "distracting from the unwanted emotion" or "forgetting about it" (maybe after a short period of "being aware" about the peak of the iceberg of 'what to forget about and never consider afterwards'). But the context of your teaching might make that clear into the right direction. I just jumped in here in order to point towards inside out 2.

    • @1smg346
      @1smg346 8 днів тому

      @@karmaindustrietell me more I wanna let go

    • @karmaindustrie
      @karmaindustrie 8 днів тому

      @@1smg346 become aware of sin, grow a believe in the simultaneity of love (not sinning) and health and happiness. Avoid sinning in order to achieve a better soul condition (leading towards more health and happiness) and the emotions will start, ready to go loose. Sinning is a way of avoiding those "dis-ease" emotions (finite processes). Including intellectual sinning. So basically: Not wanting to sin at all (sin from God's perspective as far as you are aware - not Christians definition or parents definition) is the fastest way to grow, I guess/bet. Not making confidence as yor goal but love / not sinning. And a higher form of confidence will grow inside you. Realizing how every sin contributes to suffering in this world. Realizing the connection of sinning and suffering... by realizing the power of love and the responsibility of being a loving, not sinning person in order to make the world a better place...

    • @karmaindustrie
      @karmaindustrie 8 днів тому

      @@1smg346 ...in other words: First seek "the kingdom of god" (inner purity) and the all the things (you then still want) will be 'added to you'. That's what Julien also means, I guess, because he is a messiah too :) (in my opinion).

  • @lifeofjoe4942
    @lifeofjoe4942 9 днів тому +4

    Where do I find hope sometimes I feel like I physically can’t do this

    • @foljs5858
      @foljs5858 9 днів тому +3

      Start by thinking that the outcome doesn't matter. Because in the long run, it does not.

    • @alonaredvanski
      @alonaredvanski 9 днів тому +1

      cause there are better ones to help you .. this video feels just abusive towards this girl.. to dismiss her feelings is not the way.. pain, calls for attention and change will happen naturally

    • @simbathelionkingcat
      @simbathelionkingcat 9 днів тому

      Get humiliated on purpose

  • @wigwamproductions134
    @wigwamproductions134 9 днів тому +1

    He fully understands how life acts words people that evil skit he did that’s life

  • @user-by8yz9on2z
    @user-by8yz9on2z 9 днів тому +6

    Bro love from India

  • @tamilorejoseph4704
    @tamilorejoseph4704 4 дні тому

    This like therapy but better

  • @xenekrren
    @xenekrren 5 днів тому

    This is a therapy session more than anything

  • @karmaindustrie
    @karmaindustrie 9 днів тому

    Have you seen Inside Out 2? You will love it. It's like you are the main creator behind that movie (whilst I was 'like' the main creator/influencer of part 1 - my main message put inside a movie - kind of)

  • @steve00alt70
    @steve00alt70 6 днів тому

    It would be good if you can include people with Rosacea chronic blushing due to people focusing on you aka unwanted attention fear of turning red.
    Rosacea is a common neurological skin complain.

  • @_cr8ive_
    @_cr8ive_ 9 днів тому

    Very good, very good...lol She did well...

  • @dezolatestation
    @dezolatestation 5 днів тому

    idk why but most of like 40% of people who had struggle with self esteem literally good looking one

  • @S_potless
    @S_potless 9 днів тому +4

    First to watch and first to like. This will make a history of me❤😂

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  9 днів тому +1

      Boom! 🔥👊

    • @death2abrahamism
      @death2abrahamism 9 днів тому +1

      First to like your first like.

    • @TheInnerSession
      @TheInnerSession 9 днів тому +1

      @@death2abrahamism first to like the comment that first liked the first to watch and first like.

    • @yellowishdog5575
      @yellowishdog5575 9 днів тому +1

      Been watching your work for a while now, it was only a matter of time Untill you got the first like to be honest. You're an incredible talent and have a bright future of early likes and comments ahead of you.
      Been here since the beginning ✊

    • @S_potless
      @S_potless 9 днів тому +1

      @@yellowishdog5575 to be honest, Ive read over your comment several times. And although I've learnt to not attach my self worth to others feedback through Julian's videos. But I feel like this was something I've always wanted to hear from someone in my life. So i want to say a big thank you. You wouldn't understand how your comment has increased the perspective i have for myself. Thanks so much🙏🙂

  • @martaaktorkiewicz8927
    @martaaktorkiewicz8927 9 днів тому

    All teraphy work like here done a little to me, why?

  • @sufamidan1006
    @sufamidan1006 3 дні тому

    Shes pretty.

  • @Philllin
    @Philllin 9 днів тому +3

    does julien travel all over the world and give these seminars?

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  9 днів тому +3

      Yes, here’s my tour schedule: www.noanxietytour.com 👌

    • @LiveLaughLoveLightYagami
      @LiveLaughLoveLightYagami 9 днів тому

      Hey if that’s your body in your pfp I gotta say nice work you look epic

    • @Philllin
      @Philllin 8 днів тому +2

      @@LiveLaughLoveLightYagami yes thats me haha but im not like that anymore. Better to have some fat on the body...

    • @LiveLaughLoveLightYagami
      @LiveLaughLoveLightYagami 8 днів тому

      @@Philllin true, true

  • @kikiblume8649
    @kikiblume8649 9 днів тому

    I have a question: Does ,,letting go‘‘ mean the same as ,,caring less‘‘ or ,,not giving a f*ck‘‘? I‘m not sure if I understood it correctly.
    Much love from Germany ❤

    • @JulienHimself
      @JulienHimself  9 днів тому +1

      No, it goes A LOT deeper than that... Here's my full letting go system: www.julienhimself.com/8p 👌

  • @DIY4Profit
    @DIY4Profit 9 днів тому

    Ignored ;)

  • @Salma-qh9ge
    @Salma-qh9ge 9 днів тому

    "You're good enough just cuz " Why does this make me cringe?
    Man, why is it so hard to even convince myself that I deserve to live lol ?

    • @777hendrix
      @777hendrix 9 днів тому +2

      Maybe the dinamic with your parents, u only deserved love when You was acting an specific way they wanted ... For me it islike that

  • @vision_lovesgod
    @vision_lovesgod 9 днів тому

    julien i had 3 daughters in ur Absence

  • @rajdwipdutta4585
    @rajdwipdutta4585 9 днів тому +1

    Joker once said : why so serious, live a life with no rules, I am a chasing dog I don't know what I do after I catch it, I am a man of simple test,-most wise lectures from a fucking freak no he's not the world is

  • @andresrodriguez5245
    @andresrodriguez5245 8 днів тому

    John 3:16- “For God so loved the world that he gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him, should not perish but have eternal life.”
    Philippians 4:13- “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” ❤
    Mark 1:15- “The time is fulfilled. The Kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, believe in the gospel.”
    John 14:6- “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.”

  • @nestechen
    @nestechen 9 днів тому

    Jesus taught us the way to a fulfilling life!
    Love your enemies. Forgive them. Be kind to all creation and to yourself. If someone hates you, love and care for them. When someone slaps you, turn the other cheek.
    When someone steals something from you, don’t demand it back.
    That’s the way and the truth and the life.
    There is no other way to find inner peace, but through practicing his teachings. That’s what I experienced.

  • @moveordievision
    @moveordievision 9 днів тому +1

    +

  • @quantrec5077
    @quantrec5077 3 дні тому

    niceee racck

  • @michelemanzano7715
    @michelemanzano7715 3 дні тому

    I found you thanks to TikTok
    I‘m in therapy and I‘ve recently found a life coach. But your Videos are just next level. ☀️❤️‍🩹